Sagittarius and Cancer pairing thoughts..

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No. Hard pass. What's your moons?

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Why regret it when its the best match?

Everything good ends.

Someone posted some kind of research not long ago, where they interviewed married couples and Cancer Sagittarius were the happiest of them all.

I do think Nikki minaj should have stayed with Safari

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Sag women Cancer Man seems to work out better

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Sag women Cancer Man seems to work out better

I was going to say the same thing. Fire and water pairings just seem to have a better chance of working out if the fire is female and the water is male. It's also really important to look at their Moon/Mars/Venus placements. My most successful relationship was with a Sag, and while she was very comforting when I was an emotional wreck, she indeed needed her space and for me to be masculine. I think if she had my placements, and I had hers, it wouldn't have the lasted the four years that it did.

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Sag women Cancer Man seems to work out better

I was going to say the same thing. Fire and water pairings just seem to have a better chance of working out if the fire is female and the water is male. It's also really important to look at their Moon/Mars/Venus placements. My most successful relationship was with a Sag, and while she was very comforting when I was an emotional wreck, she indeed needed her space and for me to be masculine. I think if she had my placements, and I had hers, it wouldn't have the lasted the four years that it did.

This is so sad. Four years and a successful relationship too. Why did it crash? Are you marriage minded?

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Sag women Cancer Man seems to work out better

I was going to say the same thing. Fire and water pairings just seem to have a better chance of working out if the fire is female and the water is male. It's also really important to look at their Moon/Mars/Venus placements. My most successful relationship was with a Sag, and while she was very comforting when I was an emotional wreck, she indeed needed her space and for me to be masculine. I think if she had my placements, and I had hers, it wouldn't have the lasted the four years that it did.

This is so sad. Four years and a successful relationship too. Why did it crash? Are you marriage minded?

We broke up in love, and was one of the hardest things I've ever gone through. I take most of the accountability, since I wasn't able to close the gap (3-hr flight LDR) before she pulled away emotionally and sexually. She clearly had the better living situation, and I should have just relocated. I was more marriage minded back then. Now I'm just damaged goods and don't place a whole of thought on it.

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Sag women Cancer Man seems to work out better

I was going to say the same thing. Fire and water pairings just seem to have a better chance of working out if the fire is female and the water is male. It's also really important to look at their Moon/Mars/Venus placements. My most successful relationship was with a Sag, and while she was very comforting when I was an emotional wreck, she indeed needed her space and for me to be masculine. I think if she had my placements, and I had hers, it wouldn't have the lasted the four years that it did.

This is so sad. Four years and a successful relationship too. Why did it crash? Are you marriage minded?

We broke up in love, and was one of the hardest things I've ever gone through. I take most of the accountability, since I wasn't able to close the gap (3-hr flight LDR) before she pulled away emotionally and sexually. She clearly had the better living situation, and I should have just relocated. I was more marriage minded back then. Now I'm just damaged goods and don't place a whole of thought on it.

Is she still available? Did you try to reconnect? Why do you think you’re damaged goods? I have a Cancer sun and gem moon bestie and he refers to himself as that as well. My former bro in law is cancer with Leo moon and he refers to himself as a battered woman.

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Sag women Cancer Man seems to work out better

I was going to say the same thing. Fire and water pairings just seem to have a better chance of working out if the fire is female and the water is male. It's also really important to look at their Moon/Mars/Venus placements. My most successful relationship was with a Sag, and while she was very comforting when I was an emotional wreck, she indeed needed her space and for me to be masculine. I think if she had my placements, and I had hers, it wouldn't have the lasted the four years that it did.

This is so sad. Four years and a successful relationship too. Why did it crash? Are you marriage minded?

We broke up in love, and was one of the hardest things I've ever gone through. I take most of the accountability, since I wasn't able to close the gap (3-hr flight LDR) before she pulled away emotionally and sexually. She clearly had the better living situation, and I should have just relocated. I was more marriage minded back then. Now I'm just damaged goods and don't place a whole of thought on it.

Is she still available? Did you try to reconnect? Why do you think you’re damaged goods? I have a Cancer sun and gem moon bestie and he refers to himself as that as well. My former bro in law is cancer with Leo moon and he refers to himself as a battered woman.

I wouldn't know if she is still available. We broke contact a long time ago. No attempts at reconnecting, but should mention that I was the one who left, and some of the last words she told me was I abandoned her.

My next relationship was a total failure, and left me shattered. The therapy I received afterwards enlightened me to the problems I was bringing to the successful 4-yr relationship, and likely all relationships. I'm damaged goods because I no longer feel like I am anything special when it comes to relationships. Hope, desire, faith are nearly non-present in me, and I abandoned the only person who truly ever made my investments in love worth it. I know we all make mistakes, but that one was colossal.

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Posted by Cvurkoo
I have some cancer traits (AC) and am with a sag. The only thing that makes me uncomfortable is that im thinking about family and kids, and she is far from planning such things atm. Otherwise the relationship is awesome. Sags do need a lot of freedom, but they also need to be loved. If you arent jealous, can tolerate his independence and give him enough love without suffocating them, they can be super loyal, loving and just awesome.

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TLDR: Sagittarius have strong values and high integrity sense, but sometimes something in their brain triggers and they lose it all.

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TLDR: Sagittarius have strong values and high integrity sense, but sometimes something in their brain triggers and they lose it all.

Based on the stories you’ve shared, it doesn’t seem like Sag have strong values and high integrity. Actually quite the opposite.

That's why I shared those stories. They have a different perception of how other people's feelings are. They could leave us water signs with a life long scar without even knowing it.

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TLDR: Sagittarius have strong values and high integrity sense, but sometimes something in their brain triggers and they lose it all.

Based on the stories you’ve shared, it doesn’t seem like Sag have strong values and high integrity. Actually quite the opposite.

That's why I shared those stories. They have a different perception of how other people's feelings are. They could leave us water signs with a life long scar without even knowing it.

Were you being sarcastic because I was strictly referring to your comment about them having integrity?

For water to like and be scarred by people like that just tells me they’re masochistic and enjoy toxicity. I’m so shocked that water of all elements would like unpredictable signs.

Hmm, maybe I should have written "they believe they have strong values (...)" lol

Although, my friends were loyal and loving to their partner until something triggered in them. Probably the idea of getting old with the same person?

As a water sign I love unpredictability yet I need reassurance. And yes, re-reading this sentence I'm like wut?

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TLDR: Sagittarius have strong values and high integrity sense, but sometimes something in their brain triggers and they lose it all.

Based on the stories you’ve shared, it doesn’t seem like Sag have strong values and high integrity. Actually quite the opposite.

That's why I shared those stories. They have a different perception of how other people's feelings are. They could leave us water signs with a life long scar without even knowing it.

Were you being sarcastic because I was strictly referring to your comment about them having integrity?

For water to like and be scarred by people like that just tells me they’re masochistic and enjoy toxicity. I’m so shocked that water of all elements would like unpredictable signs.

Although, my friends were loyal and loving to their partner until something triggered in them.

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I am Cancer / Cap and am compatible with Sagittarius. It's the best fun, I can't stay without at least one in my circle. However, is the sign that always surprises me.

A few facts in my experience for you to consider.

- I've been having a Sag / Taurus friend for 14 years. She's been in a relationship with an Aqua for over 6 years. She's been cheating on him with a married man (b. 20/3) during the past year.

She had her heart broken from her bf after he answered "not really" to the question "did you miss me?" after two months apart.

- A Sag / Scorpio one broke up an apparently wonderful story with a Capricorn lasted 9 years. He gave her literally everything a woman can ask for. Reason: She needed freedom. He still begs her to come back with texts that leave me speechless when she shows them to me, but there is no way she's going back. I told her, you will get back with him. She said: no way. That man will probably wait for the rest of his life for her. She is having a lot of fun with a Libra, changed two countries and is not remotely depressed about this breakup.

- A Sag / Leo has been trying to sleep with me since July last year (i'm bi). He gets me incredible gifts, stylise himself according to my comments, takes me to dinners to really expensive places, shows me affection like no one before, listens to me. However, he's been with a Taurus for almost 10 years so I haven't done anything with him (nor gave him any hope apart from hanging out with him, but hey - it's a lot of fun and mutual understanding). There have been times where he lied to me in a way that left me shocked, or where he got annoyed for some of my comments / questions. In those episodes I questioned if I could be with a Sag.

If you're interested I have more experiences.

TLDR: Sagittarius have strong values and high integrity sense, but sometimes something in their brain triggers and they lose it all. It's probably due to the fact that they are always and constantly analysing if these values are right or wrong.

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I'm Cancer and Sag pairing in 1person! 😄

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Sag women Cancer Man seems to work out better

I was going to say the same thing. Fire and water pairings just seem to have a better chance of working out if the fire is female and the water is male. It's also really important to look at their Moon/Mars/Venus placements. My most successful relationship was with a Sag, and while she was very comforting when I was an emotional wreck, she indeed needed her space and for me to be masculine. I think if she had my placements, and I had hers, it wouldn't have the lasted the four years that it did.

This is so sad. Four years and a successful relationship too. Why did it crash? Are you marriage minded?

We broke up in love, and was one of the hardest things I've ever gone through. I take most of the accountability, since I wasn't able to close the gap (3-hr flight LDR) before she pulled away emotionally and sexually. She clearly had the better living situation, and I should have just relocated. I was more marriage minded back then. Now I'm just damaged goods and don't place a whole of thought on it.

Is she still available? Did you try to reconnect? Why do you think you’re damaged goods? I have a Cancer sun and gem moon bestie and he refers to himself as that as well. My former bro in law is cancer with Leo moon and he refers to himself as a battered woman.

I wouldn't know if she is still available. We broke contact a long time ago. No attempts at reconnecting, but should mention that I was the one who left, and some of the last words she told me was I abandoned her.

My next relationship was a total failure, and left me shattered. The therapy I received afterwards enlightened me to the problems I was bringing to the successful 4-yr relationship, and likely all relationships. I'm damaged goods because I no longer feel like I am anything special when it comes to relationships. Hope, desire, faith are nearly non-present in me, and I abandoned the only person who truly ever made my investments in love worth it. I know we all make mistakes, but that one was colossal.

Look her up on Facebook or Google her and see what she's up to. She could be feeling the same way.

I'm a Sag and never chase, even if someone is on my mind. I wonder and will look from a distance but I won't let you know that I'm thinking about you, just in case you are happy.

If your happy where you are, then I am happy for you.

You should look her up. She obviously loved you. Even if it's just to say hi.

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Sag women Cancer Man seems to work out better

I was going to say the same thing. Fire and water pairings just seem to have a better chance of working out if the fire is female and the water is male. It's also really important to look at their Moon/Mars/Venus placements. My most successful relationship was with a Sag, and while she was very comforting when I was an emotional wreck, she indeed needed her space and for me to be masculine. I think if she had my placements, and I had hers, it wouldn't have the lasted the four years that it did.

This is so sad. Four years and a successful relationship too. Why did it crash? Are you marriage minded?

We broke up in love, and was one of the hardest things I've ever gone through. I take most of the accountability, since I wasn't able to close the gap (3-hr flight LDR) before she pulled away emotionally and sexually. She clearly had the better living situation, and I should have just relocated. I was more marriage minded back then. Now I'm just damaged goods and don't place a whole of thought on it.

Is she still available? Did you try to reconnect? Why do you think you’re damaged goods? I have a Cancer sun and gem moon bestie and he refers to himself as that as well. My former bro in law is cancer with Leo moon and he refers to himself as a battered woman.

I wouldn't know if she is still available. We broke contact a long time ago. No attempts at reconnecting, but should mention that I was the one who left, and some of the last words she told me was I abandoned her.

My next relationship was a total failure, and left me shattered. The therapy I received afterwards enlightened me to the problems I was bringing to the successful 4-yr relationship, and likely all relationships. I'm damaged goods because I no longer feel like I am anything special when it comes to relationships. Hope, desire, faith are nearly non-present in me, and I abandoned the only person who truly ever made my investments in love worth it. I know we all make mistakes, but that one was colossal.

Look her up on Facebook or Google her and see what she's up to. She could be feeling the same way.

I'm a Sag and never chase, even if someone is on my mind. I wonder and will look from a distance but I won't let you know that I'm thinking about you, just in case you are happy.

If your happy where you are, then I am happy for you.

You should look her up. She obviously loved you. Even if it's just to say hi.

Seems the advice I'm getting is pretty common. Even my mom brought her up the other day without me mentioning her, telling me she remembered how much she liked her and how pretty she is. Yup, she even got a fellow cancer mama approval. 🙂

Considering that things ended almost nine years ago, I suppose the 6 month no contact rule has long expired, eh?

She never had a facebook, and still doesn't. I did decide to at least google her though. So I'm now in mid contemplation.

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Sag women Cancer Man seems to work out better

I was going to say the same thing. Fire and water pairings just seem to have a better chance of working out if the fire is female and the water is male. It's also really important to look at their Moon/Mars/Venus placements. My most successful relationship was with a Sag, and while she was very comforting when I was an emotional wreck, she indeed needed her space and for me to be masculine. I think if she had my placements, and I had hers, it wouldn't have the lasted the four years that it did.

This is so sad. Four years and a successful relationship too. Why did it crash? Are you marriage minded?

We broke up in love, and was one of the hardest things I've ever gone through. I take most of the accountability, since I wasn't able to close the gap (3-hr flight LDR) before she pulled away emotionally and sexually. She clearly had the better living situation, and I should have just relocated. I was more marriage minded back then. Now I'm just damaged goods and don't place a whole of thought on it.

Is she still available? Did you try to reconnect? Why do you think you’re damaged goods? I have a Cancer sun and gem moon bestie and he refers to himself as that as well. My former bro in law is cancer with Leo moon and he refers to himself as a battered woman.

I wouldn't know if she is still available. We broke contact a long time ago. No attempts at reconnecting, but should mention that I was the one who left, and some of the last words she told me was I abandoned her.

My next relationship was a total failure, and left me shattered. The therapy I received afterwards enlightened me to the problems I was bringing to the successful 4-yr relationship, and likely all relationships. I'm damaged goods because I no longer feel like I am anything special when it comes to relationships. Hope, desire, faith are nearly non-present in me, and I abandoned the only person who truly ever made my investments in love worth it. I know we all make mistakes, but that one was colossal.

Look her up on Facebook or Google her and see what she's up to. She could be feeling the same way.

I'm a Sag and never chase, even if someone is on my mind. I wonder and will look from a distance but I won't let you know that I'm thinking about you, just in case you are happy.

If your happy where you are, then I am happy for you.

You should look her up. She obviously loved you. Even if it's just to say hi.

Seems the advice I'm getting is pretty common. Even my mom brought her up the other day without me mentioning her, telling me she remembered how much she liked her and how pretty she is. Yup, she even got a fellow cancer mama approval. 🙂

Considering that things ended almost nine years ago, I suppose the 6 month no contact rule has long expired, eh?

She never had a facebook, and still doesn't. I did decide to at least google her though. So I'm now in mid contemplation.

Awww 😍 you should do it. You guys were younger. You have the advantage because you ended it and she will always want to know why and think fondly of you.

If she ended it, then it would be a different story lol. But you should at least reach out as a friend with no expectations.

I just went and saw a past boyfriend that crushed me. First and only heartbreak ever. It was like I had seen him last week. Everything fell into place all over again. Just like old times. I told him I would always love him and it is still true till this day. I have special compartments for people I love. I hope you reach out! You know the saying! You never know, till you try! 😊❤

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Posted by solidsnake
Not to be negative

But this pair is one of my least favorites in entire zodiac

Total opposites when it comes to everything

Sag I think are too independent for cancer

Fire signs “feel” but totally different than water signs

Cancer is going to most likely get out of comfort zone to avoid being hurt

Sagg maybadapt if u make effort

But of course it depends on placements

Posted by tnmnt

you really don't know what happened behind closed doors.>

Don't know. From what she tells me, nothing major to end a relationship. She cheated on him once but he never knew it. She was bored and wanted to move to another country, experience new people and things.

But with Sag, you have to do what you say and mean it. No excuses or bull shit. We won't wait around. >

Funny you say this because one of the times I was turned down by a Sag was when one was making me promises and then act as if it didn't happen. Complete poker face (and I see him and have lunch with him everyday). I very much detached and started seeing him differently. I understood he had his reasons but rather than communicating, he was just blanking it, making me feel as I didn't deserve an explanation. I wouldn't ask either not to be invasive, the only times I did he would answer "tomorrow". In the end (after 4 months) he kept his promise.



I said with Sag, that's how WE like it, I didn't say we were like this 🙂 He did what he said he would do on his own time. When I say I'm going to do something, the more you question and nag me, the more I put it off. It's annoying and makes me not want to do it. It takes all the fun out of doing it. I do the poker face thing too. I won't give a direct date or time cause if the person is bugging me already about it, it will get even worse as the time comes up. And what do we need to communicate? I'm sure you were communicating enough for the both of you lol

It's up to the other half to leave when they find out. Some stay.>

I hate to say it but I've cheated when trying to end a relationship and they don't want to leave.

This is a bit contradicting. What do you mean "they don't want to leave"? Could you not just end the relationship removing the possibility for them to "stay"?

When I love, I love hard. I do the same when it's over, well for me at least. I'm very black and white. I am pretty heartless when it's done. I don't hold on to much if I've been wronged after giving you lots of chances. I'd just rather leave.

I live with my boyfriends when I am in a relationship. As far as not wanting to leave, after a lot of years of trying and my ex having issues and being selfish, I wanted him to go. I told him we weren't together anymore and that he needed to start dating. He wouldn't leave my house and so I moved to a separate bedroom until he was willing to find a place to stay. Then I started dating and we were in a open relationship for about 3 years, basically cause he didn't want to go and was all up in my business until I stopped "dating" and got back together with him. When I'm done, I just want the person to disappear and go. Pretend like I never existed. lol This happened with a gemini and a scorp. I'm still dealing with my ex scorp and my ex gem is currently still calling and trying to get back together with me. I just want to move on and find someone regular or at least with no issues to be with for the next half of my life.

But as a Cancer I might not get the picture because leaving for me is always the very first option. To the first signal I'm not welcome, I'm gone. I can work out issues, be patient, communicating, make the relationship work through difficulties, as long as the other person doesn't act like they don't want me around.-

I am the same way, must be my Cancer moon, I practically always have one foot out the door just in case.

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TLDR: Sagittarius have strong values and high integrity sense, but sometimes something in their brain triggers and they lose it all.

Based on the stories you’ve shared, it doesn’t seem like Sag have strong values and high integrity. Actually quite the opposite.

That's why I shared those stories. They have a different perception of how other people's feelings are. They could leave us water signs with a life long scar without even knowing it.

Were you being sarcastic because I was strictly referring to your comment about them having integrity?

For water to like and be scarred by people like that just tells me they’re masochistic and enjoy toxicity. I’m so shocked that water of all elements would like unpredictable signs.

Although, my friends were loyal and loving to their partner until something triggered in them.

Until? This thing that people do irks me to no end. If your partner triggers you in a negative way, then you leave the person. You don’t transform into a petty, vindictive jackass and use your partner’s shortcoming as justification to do bad shit. No integrity in that whatsoever.

I knew a Libra chick who was telling me about how she cheated on her bf but it’s only because he wasn’t nice to her for quite some time 😒

I agree 100% . Maybe they really want the other person to be the one leaving as saggurl said before, but how damaging will it be for them to receive such apathy?.

The Sag who wants to sleep with me has always made it very very clear and chats to many other guys on instagram.

His Taurus partner knows and I can see him suffering about it, yet he's doing everything for him and basically is his puppet. Once he saw us together and really came my direction like a bull, being visibly upset at me and talking angrily. I told him "I have nothing to hide and nothing to fear, have you?". I now realised that I was really just making the sag a favor :/

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TLDR: Sagittarius have strong values and high integrity sense, but sometimes something in their brain triggers and they lose it all.

Based on the stories you’ve shared, it doesn’t seem like Sag have strong values and high integrity. Actually quite the opposite.

That's why I shared those stories. They have a different perception of how other people's feelings are. They could leave us water signs with a life long scar without even knowing it.

Were you being sarcastic because I was strictly referring to your comment about them having integrity?

For water to like and be scarred by people like that just tells me they’re masochistic and enjoy toxicity. I’m so shocked that water of all elements would like unpredictable signs.

Although, my friends were loyal and loving to their partner until something triggered in them.

Until? This thing that people do irks me to no end. If your partner triggers you in a negative way, then you leave the person. You don’t transform into a petty, vindictive jackass and use your partner’s shortcoming as justification to do bad shit. No integrity in that whatsoever.

I knew a Libra chick who was telling me about how she cheated on her bf but it’s only because he wasn’t nice to her for quite some time 😒

I agree 100% . Maybe they really want the other person to be the one leaving as saggurl said before, but how damaging will it be for them to receive such apathy?.

The Sag who wants to sleep with me has always made it very very clear and chats to many other guys on instagram.

His Taurus partner knows and I can see him suffering about it, yet he's doing everything for him and basically is his puppet. Once he saw us together and really came my direction like a bull, being visibly upset at me and talking angrily. I told him "I have nothing to hide and nothing to fear, have you?". I now realised that I was really just making the sag a favor :/

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