arose32
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The love of the chase
As a masculine sign i dont mind letting a guy know im interested and approaching him.
But i dont chase. I let my feelings be known and than if they're not reciprocated i move on.
I belive in even amounts of showing interest. Sometimes its hard for me to gauge a man's interest. So i will just throw mine out there.
50 50 shot
But i dont chase. I let my feelings be known and than if they're not reciprocated i move on.
I belive in even amounts of showing interest. Sometimes its hard for me to gauge a man's interest. So i will just throw mine out there.
50 50 shot
Okay then... I'm most definitely trying to see... It's like I always have to "prove" I'm worthy. Idk.. I just want to get to the good parts, the memories, etc...
But that gets old also.. Meet someone who acts interested and when you begin to mirror them, they try to make me chase them.. I refuse to feed egos.
But that gets old also.. Meet someone who acts interested and when you begin to mirror them, they try to make me chase them.. I refuse to feed egos.
Posted by RindarooYep. Like how you chase me and then have second thoughts? For real.
I don't chase. Most of my life guys have chased me, but now that I'm older I find I like it more 50/50. I do get a lot of guys complaining that I don't initiate. Call them enough etc. Usually that means I'm unsure or confused though. If things were all good, I'd initiate. Also, guys fight their attraction to me after chasing me. So annoying!! I give them space, and let them figure out what they want. I seriously don't have time for that type of behavior.
Posted by FiredupGemYes. Imma match his crazy tho. I leave no room.to question where i.stand
They said the archers love to chase but heck no. You guys love to be chased.
It feels good isn't it knowing someone is going batshit crazy over you?
Heh!
Posted by DMVExactly DMV. Let's chase each other. I can't just chase you, I'll leave you alone.. We have to both be interested and stuff.. Keeps the fire burning that's all.Posted by FiredupGemYes. Imma match his crazy tho. I leave no room.to question where i.stand
They said the archers love to chase but heck no. You guys love to be chased.
It feels good isn't it knowing someone is going batshit crazy over you?
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I know a female Sag with venus in Aquarius and she tells me that she wants to chase but it takes every bone in her body to resist and let herself be chased. Like no matter how much she's like burning inside, you'll never know.
Lmao
Which I don't get because then most men think she's not interested but alas...
Lmao
Which I don't get because then most men think she's not interested but alas...
I like getting chased but then once we have a connection, i will be blunt with what I want.
Posted by FiredupGemYeah, I agree. If I go out on a date with a new chick, and she doesn't contact me first after the date, she won't hear from me. I know, some of them are shy, and that is why they would never text first, but I do not like shy girls anyway. From my experience, if girls like the guy, she will contact him first after the date, because she must find out if the feelings are mutual, they cannot wait too much. 😉 And that is when you need to balance, and let her chase you more, even if you're more interested in her, than she is in you.
They said the archers love to chase but heck no. You guys love to be chased.
It feels good isn't it knowing someone is going batshit crazy over you?
Heh!
Plus, I have my theory, when the girl chase men, then she is very interested, and that could be something good, but if not, I move on. I do not want to be in the position to chase...that is weak position. Imagine how many guys are chasing her, they all act the same, needy, etc. And if you do not chase, she will see that you are different, and more attractive. She could also think that you have many choices, and also that maybe you are not so interested. But, the key is to find the right balance, so she will be chasing you more, and if she chase you, she can't get rid of you. It's a nice place to be in. 😉
So, if I don't see any real sign of interest from her, I'm not gonna do all the work for her. Or if she didn't even noticed me. Hell no. It must be mutual effort. If she shows me that she is interested I will show her too.
There is some Sag chick from college, and I dunno why, but I'm not so sure if she's interested more, or she was just polite and gentle towards me. We know each other from college, and when she saw me in the club, she was dancing there, and went over to my table to say hi, and while approaching, she put her hand on my shoulder, and while smiling, we were chatting a little bit. Later on, I started to dance with her, and all that, but went with friends to some other club. At the end of college, at the night of celebration in the hotel, she was watching me many times as she was at the same table, just on the other side. I could catch her watching me many times, and longer...we locked eyes a couple of times, it was cute, she was smiling, and then looked away.
But I saw her dancing with other guys also, and she was also very touchy with them, with some Taurus, and Gemini, so I do not know if she was like that with many guys, or she likes me more. Maybe for some people this signs are so obvious, but dunno. Gem girl friend also said that she thinks that Sag chick is interested, but I heard that Sag girl works like a go go dancer at the clubs, so that could partly explain her behavior.
There is some Sag chick from college, and I dunno why, but I'm not so sure if she's interested more, or she was just polite and gentle towards me. We know each other from college, and when she saw me in the club, she was dancing there, and went over to my table to say hi, and while approaching, she put her hand on my shoulder, and while smiling, we were chatting a little bit. Later on, I started to dance with her, and all that, but went with friends to some other club. At the end of college, at the night of celebration in the hotel, she was watching me many times as she was at the same table, just on the other side. I could catch her watching me many times, and longer...we locked eyes a couple of times, it was cute, she was smiling, and then looked away.
But I saw her dancing with other guys also, and she was also very touchy with them, with some Taurus, and Gemini, so I do not know if she was like that with many guys, or she likes me more. Maybe for some people this signs are so obvious, but dunno. Gem girl friend also said that she thinks that Sag chick is interested, but I heard that Sag girl works like a go go dancer at the clubs, so that could partly explain her behavior.
Posted by ozzzyIs this your leo moon talking?Posted by FiredupGemYeah, I agree. If I go out on a date with a new chick, and she doesn't contact me first after the date, she won't hear from me. I know, some of them are shy, and that is why they would never text first, but I do not like shy girls anyway. From my experience, if girls like the guy, she will contact him first after the date, because she must find out if the feelings are mutual, they cannot wait too much. 😉 And that is when you need to balance, and let her chase you more, even if you're more interested in her, than she is in you.
They said the archers love to chase but heck no. You guys love to be chased.
It feels good isn't it knowing someone is going batshit crazy over you?
Heh!
Plus, I have my theory, when the girl chase men, then she is very interested, and that could be something good, but if not, I move on. I do not want to be in the position to chase...that is weak position. Imagine how many guys are chasing her, they all act the same, needy, etc. And if you do not chase, she will see that you are different, and more attractive. She could also think that you have many choices, and also that maybe you are not so interested. But, the key is to find the right balance, so she will be chasing you more, and if she chase you, she can't get rid of you. It's a nice place to be in. 😉
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So if you had an amazing first date with a girl you like, you would not pick up the phone and call her?
I'm going to parrot DMV and say I prefer 50/50 and meet me halfway. I abhor chasing and if I get the sense that's what a woman is trying to do...I'll keep my distance and move on...quick.
I will initiate or if she does, I'll reciprocate and won't be ambiguous about it so she knows where I stand. As for dates, I always contact her first.
@Ozzy: from one sag sun/leo moo to another...never leave a woman waiting and second guessing. 😉
I will initiate or if she does, I'll reciprocate and won't be ambiguous about it so she knows where I stand. As for dates, I always contact her first.
@Ozzy: from one sag sun/leo moo to another...never leave a woman waiting and second guessing. 😉
Posted by beautifulsoul74I'm a sag sun/Leo moon/Venus Aquarius..
I'm going to parrot DMV and say I prefer 50/50 and meet me halfway. I abhor chasing and if I get the sense that's what a woman is trying to do...I'll keep my distance and move on...quick.
I will initiate or if she does, I'll reciprocate and won't be ambiguous about it so she knows where I stand. As for dates, I always contact her first.
@Ozzy: from one sag sun/leo moo to another...never leave a woman waiting and second guessing. 😉
I try to put my pride to the side... And ppl blatantly make me regret it.. That's why I liked dating my sag. Ppl take themselves way too seriously... For real...
But it's like I don't mind chasing, I truly don't. It's exciting a thrill.. But I'm not into that anymore... And refuse to do it. Especially when I know you like me too.. I just can't take the ego boost stuff anymore.
Posted by DMVAbout Leo moon - maybe, but what is true about it, is that BIG fuckin' ego that sometimes gives me trouble. 😄
So if you had an amazing first date with a girl you like, you would not pick up the phone and call her?
And if the date was really amazing, and I know that she really likes me too, I would probably call, but not immediately...I would wait day or two. But still, I like it when they text me first after the date...I find it nice... 😄
That is for the first time though. After that, ofc I initiate dates, but I still want her to text me more than I will her, but ofc, not excessively.
So, if I sense that there is not much of connection between us, my interest would really drop, even if she was my type physically. Maybe she liked me, but doesn't like to talk too much, or is shy...that bores me quickly, so I would forget about her after the date.
But damn, two Sag chicks that I met were so clingy, that it was too much for me. So many messages, on every 10-30 minutes, what am I doing and so, when will I call, and if they call me, they never shut up, and talk for hours, and then still text me, and tomorrow will call again, and again...so I started to avoid calls and all that. I love my freedom, and If someone gives me the right amount of it. If someone starts to be clingy, I quickly get bored.
@beautifulsoul74 - Hehehe, well, actually, I find it cute when they text me, and really do not know where they stand with me, even though it was obvious. That is when the girl is insecure, but still. 🙂 Ofc, if I know that they really like me, then they would never have to guess after the date, because I make it obvious too. 🙂 But only if we have real connection beside attraction. 🙂 I like/want complete package. 😄
@arose32 - I chased when I was younger and unexperienced, and wanted so many experiences. I would go like crazy on many dates in a short time, or in the same day. Even if connection was not fully there, nor attraction, I would still text them after the date, and, it was mostly bad idea. But know, as I got wiser, read a lot of books on that stuff, and learned from my experiences and mistakes, I act differently, I am more in control, and don't easily get interested, unless she's complete. 🙂 And now, when I look at my friends younger brother Sag, it's like me before...so horny, want to experience so many girls in a short time, to meet many of them...hehe, what a legend. 🙂
But see my girls were like... Daring me to chase them, you know. And yeah.. When I like someone it's awful, lol. I have to stop myself from thinking of them.
Yeah, Sagi can be like that when they are very interested. And yeah, Sagi girls are often very attracted to Sagi men...hehe. 😄
WHO CARES.
Posted by SwagittariusGirl you better get off my post, don't comment...
WHO CARES.
Posted by ozzzyPosted by FiredupGemYeah, I agree. If I go out on a date with a new chick, and she doesn't contact me first after the date, she won't hear from me. I know, some of them are shy, and that is why they would never text first, but I do not like shy girls anyway. From my experience, if girls like the guy, she will contact him first after the date, because she must find out if the feelings are mutual, they cannot wait too much. 😉 And that is when you need to balance, and let her chase you more, even if you're more interested in her, than she is in you.
They said the archers love to chase but heck no. You guys love to be chased.
It feels good isn't it knowing someone is going batshit crazy over you?
Heh!
Plus, I have my theory, when the girl chase men, then she is very interested, and that could be something good, but if not, I move on. I do not want to be in the position to chase...that is weak position. Imagine how many guys are chasing her, they all act the same, needy, etc. And if you do not chase, she will see that you are different, and more attractive. She could also think that you have many choices, and also that maybe you are not so interested. But, the key is to find the right balance, so she will be chasing you more, and if she chase you, she can't get rid of you. It's a nice place to be in. 😉
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Wow .. Totally not expecting this from a sag.
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