Confusing Scorpio Man

Hello guys/gals,

I coupled with a scorpio man for two months. At the beginning of our relationship, he was so passionate and loving. Then we broke up a few days ago as it turned out he just want to have intimacy with me, but not commitment. We can’t have a commitment due to some restrictions. Then he said he just wanted to be friends but he still keeps me around and even asked for a blowjob, it was the first time we did it. We never had anything more intimate than that, no sex yet. During our “friendship” phase, he was cruel to me that I almost cried. It’s impossible to erase my love for him as it was so deep and being treated that way really makes me sad. So, last night I demanded an answer from him. He can keep me as his friend but no intimacy or if he wants me to be his girlfriend. He said I am both, it was so hard for him to answer that question alone but after getting back and forth, he finally said he wanted me as his GF with intimacy. He started to change ever since there is a new girl in our office. I am not sure if he is attracted to her or not and that causing him to leave me. A lot of people said Scorpio doesn’t fall in and out of love easily. So, my questions is:

1. Am I being used just for intimacy(might include sex in the future)?

2. How do I know if he is attracted to the new girl? Give me signs please

3. How do I know if he is really in love with me or just toying me? Because he just “picked me up” after the blowjob. I was thinking that maybe he love me but since I didn’t give him a head and sex, he left me for that. I am so confused.

4. Can a Scorpio man just be intimate with someone but not getting his emotions involved? Like real love.

I really appreciate your guys input. Thanks😊

lmao

Your hope is that things go back to the way they were at the beginning. That was his mask, this is the real him. Accept reality, take it or leave it and stop chasing a fantasy.

You're fighting for crumbs and a spot in his life which no one should have to. Grow a fucking self-esteem and walk away you dumb cunt.

Posted by Dastard2020

lmao

Your hope is that things go back to the way they were at the beginning. That was his mask, this is the real him. Accept reality, take it or leave it and stop chasing a fantasy.

You're fighting for crumbs and a spot in his life which no one should have to. Grow a fucking self-esteem and walk away you dumb cunt.

He is back to his loving personality again ever since the “incident”. I tried not to talk about the “incident” yesterday and just pretended it never happened. I was being a pro at work, trying to make sense of things that I just did. He asked me to share his food with him which I declined, he wanted to lightly cuddle with me just like before but I declined too. I was trying to get some distance. Today we cuddled since we are now forcefully “lover”, I said that because I feel like he is not sincere anymore. I am so blinded by love now. Are you guys sure it wasn’t that Scorpio test or is it because I didn’t have that deep intimacy which he long for? Thanks. Really appreciate your thoughts.

You asked this before

Posted by WarAngel

1. Yes, you are being used and not in a loving way.

2. If his attention changes towards her, he's attracted.

3. He IS toying with you. If he had a solid answer you would know.

4. It is very possible to use a woman like a human condom and NOT have feelings towards her.

Based on what you've written, this man does NOT love you. I'm sorry.

Thank you for your opinion. I am so sad that I am being toy. What is the best subtle revenge I can give him?

Posted by ScorpioDreams

You have to be careful with some men (and women) regardless of sign. There are players of every zodiac sign. I recently went on a first date with a Scorpio man…. The chemistry was insane, the conversation flowed naturally and there were lots of laughs. After the date he walked me to my car and we made out for a good ten minutes in the parking lot. Later that night he texts me trying his hardest to get me to come back to his place for sex. I declined. I look him up later online and find out he’s in a relationship and has been for seven years. I wanted to puke! 🤢

OMG. I feel sorry for you and myself. I am more less fortunate than you though since I have blowjob him. Thinking of that… Annoys me. I want to get a revenge 😔

Posted by Hypnotoad

If you're not full Geminati about your Scorpio then don't even bother.

Full Geminati? What does it means?

Posted by bmoon8Then we broke up a few days ago as it turned out he just want to have intimacy with me, but not commitment. We can’t have a commitment due to some restrictions. Then he said he just wanted to be friends but he still keeps me around and even asked for a blowjob, it was the first time we did it. We never had anything more intimate than that, no sex yet. During our “friendship” phase, he was cruel to me that I almost cried. It’s impossible to erase my love for him as it was so deep and being treated that way really makes me sad.

There’s nothing confusing about him. He has told you where you stand. You are just a pushover/doormat. Do you think he really cares that you “can’t erase your love for him”? He’ll rip your heart out.

He now says that you are a gf to keep you around doing sexual things.

1. Yes. You are just being used for intimacy.

2. He will spend time with her.

3. Yes, he is just toying with you.

4. Yes, a Scorpio can have sex with you with no feelings. Any sign can.

I just want an honest relationship eventhough it may not last until marriage. It is confusing since I told him to choose whether he wants me to be his gf or friend but he answered both. I am so pissed off with him now. Thanks for your answers, that helps.

Posted by peachy06

"A lot of people said Scorpio doesn’t fall in and out of love easily."

It depends. We're good at making you think we're in love even if we are not. You already know the answer or you wouldn't ask yourself if what he wants is intimacy or a genuine relationship.

But that aside, ladies, if a guy treat you like shit LEAVE. Don't let yourself be used like that, that guy scream red flags.

Thanks for telling me that. I just don’t want to make a decision based on what my heart tells me since I might not judge the whole situation the right way.

Posted by WarAngel

Bottom line: get rid of him immediately. He is not doing anything positive for you.

This ^^^

You guys work together? Just put him on ignore. Leave him alone and keep it moving.

If he’s flirting with someone else at the job, she’s probably next in line. Be glad you didn’t involve intercourse and get attached.

As far as revenge, the best revenge on a Scorpio is indifference and acting like you never cared from the beginning. Treat him like the work acquaintance that he is.

Revenge is lost on people who don't care in the first place.

Rewarding cruelty with blow jobs is only going to end in more tears for you.

Posted by LadyNeptune

Rewarding cruelty with blow jobs is only going to end in more tears for you.

Lol it’s supposed to be the other way around.

He’s cruel and you tell him to make it up to you by fixing his head between your legs 🤣🤣

Posted by daydreamerz

Hello guys/gals,

I coupled with a scorpio man for two months. At the beginning of our relationship, he was so passionate and loving. Then we broke up a few days ago as it turned out he just want to have intimacy with me, but not commitment. We can’t have a commitment due to some restrictions. Then he said he just wanted to be friends but he still keeps me around and even asked for a blowjob, it was the first time we did it. We never had anything more intimate than that, no sex yet. During our “friendship” phase, he was cruel to me that I almost cried. It’s impossible to erase my love for him as it was so deep and being treated that way really makes me sad. So, last night I demanded an answer from him. He can keep me as his friend but no intimacy or if he wants me to be his girlfriend. He said I am both, it was so hard for him to answer that question alone but after getting back and forth, he finally said he wanted me as his GF with intimacy. He started to change ever since there is a new girl in our office. I am not sure if he is attracted to her or not and that causing him to leave me. A lot of people said Scorpio doesn’t fall in and out of love easily. So, my questions is:

1. Am I being used just for intimacy(might include sex in the future)?

2. How do I know if he is attracted to the new girl? Give me signs please

3. How do I know if he is really in love with me or just toying me? Because he just “picked me up” after the blowjob. I was thinking that maybe he love me but since I didn’t give him a head and sex, he left me for that. I am so confused.

4. Can a Scorpio man just be intimate with someone but not getting his emotions involved? Like real love.

I really appreciate your guys input. Thanks😊

I like how you're open and vulnerable with him, but he doesnt deserve it. He does not respect you. With men like him you have to be very careful about what you do for them. It's best if you do nothing for them, because they're not showing any love and respect towards you.

It's good to be open and vulnerable only if the other person has the maturity to receive it. This guy is an ass.

I'm not going to answer your questions because it's demeaning yourself to ask. Stop. Look in the mirror and love yourself and forget about him and be happy. You don't want to go down this road with this scorpio it has no chance of success. No chance!

I'm a Scorpio woman

Posted by geminiflyby

Revenge is lost on people who don't care in the first place.

Exactly! 👌🏽

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by LadyNeptune

Rewarding cruelty with blow jobs is only going to end in more tears for you.

Lol it’s supposed to be the other way around.

He’s cruel and you tell him to make it up to you by fixing his head between your legs 🤣🤣

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Lol. I read a great quote today... "Breakups are hard, but luckily so are other men's dicks"

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by LadyNeptune

Rewarding cruelty with blow jobs is only going to end in more tears for you.

Lol it’s supposed to be the other way around.

He’s cruel and you tell him to make it up to you by fixing his head between your legs 🤣🤣

Lol. I read a great quote today... "Breakups are hard, but luckily so are other men's dicks"

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😂🤣

What sign are you?

IDK my father is a Scorpio and was quite the player back in the day. One thing he's always told me is he can't stand weak women who would let him use them for sex (even though he would). He said he likes strong women who don't mind telling him to go to hell and refuse him because that let him know that she wouldn't be the type to fall easily for another guy and he could trust her to be strong. That said it sounds like this guy is using you for an ego boost while scoping out the other girl. He will get to know her. Trust that he will. Stop saying weak shit like "I can't give him up". Impossible.

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by LadyNeptune

Rewarding cruelty with blow jobs is only going to end in more tears for you.

Lol it’s supposed to be the other way around.

He’s cruel and you tell him to make it up to you by fixing his head between your legs 🤣🤣

Lol. I read a great quote today... "Breakups are hard, but luckily so are other men's dicks"

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LMAO! YES! Let me ride that into the sunset! 😆

There are 7 billion people in this world. Too many opportunities to get rid of un-invested guys!!! You can meet someone else more worthwhile.

This is how you treat un-invested guys. Fight fire with fire! 😛

Next time make oral more interesting for the Scorpio 😄

Posted by saggurl88

Next time make oral more interesting for the Scorpio 😄

Lol. This is the funniest comment ever. No more oral for him. I can’t believe he asked for a blowjob for the second time, even said twice to me. I am leaving him. He makes my heart ache everyday. Can’t handle it. I confirmed it is that new woman he wanted now, he is not the type to drink sweets but he suddenly drank two sweets on the ice box today so that he can watch that woman from the view. That woman is kind, I chatted with her today. Too much heartache, let them handle it from here. I just want to leave, one heartache instead of multiple one.

Posted by DonnaLibra

What sign are you?

IDK my father is a Scorpio and was quite the player back in the day. One thing he's always told me is he can't stand weak women who would let him use them for sex (even though he would). He said he likes strong women who don't mind telling him to go to hell and refuse him because that let him know that she wouldn't be the type to fall easily for another guy and he could trust her to be strong. That said it sounds like this guy is using you for an ego boost while scoping out the other girl. He will get to know her. Trust that he will. Stop saying weak shit like "I can't give him up". Impossible.

I trust that he will chase her. He chased me from October 2010 until July 2021, when we officially coupled. I mean he won’t give up until he gets her. Yeah, I was stupid for falling to his arms and his love game. I hope she will break his heart like he did to me. At least he will know he is not that hot and is just an old man. I hate him.

Posted by saggurl88

There are 7 billion people in this world. Too many opportunities to get rid of un-invested guys!!! You can meet someone else more worthwhile.

This is how you treat un-invested guys. Fight fire with fire! 😛

That’s why I love Sag. I am a Sag myself, do you believe I can move on fast through this situation? What tips can you give from one Sag to another Sag? Thanks 🤩

Posted by daydreamerz

Posted by saggurl88

Next time make oral more interesting for the Scorpio 😄

Lol. This is the funniest comment ever. No more oral for him. I can’t believe he asked for a blowjob for the second time, even said twice to me. I am leaving him. He makes my heart ache everyday. Can’t handle it. I confirmed it is that new woman he wanted now, he is not the type to drink sweets but he suddenly drank two sweets on the ice box today so that he can watch that woman from the view. That woman is kind, I chatted with her today. Too much heartache, let them handle it from here. I just want to leave, one heartache instead of multiple one.

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I just like posting funny memes, so hopefully you don't take the vulgarity to heart.

I think its smart to just keep to work as well. And try not to watch or keep track of what the Scorpio is doing, he could be noticing this.

Posted by daydreamerz

Posted by saggurl88

There are 7 billion people in this world. Too many opportunities to get rid of un-invested guys!!! You can meet someone else more worthwhile.

This is how you treat un-invested guys. Fight fire with fire! 😛

That’s why I love Sag. I am a Sag myself, do you believe I can move on fast through this situation? What tips can you give from one Sag to another Sag? Thanks 🤩

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Oh you're a Sag? Hmmmm. I think the curiosity of the unknown is what will keep you tied to him. Moving on quickly will depend on how you usually handle things, so I can't really say.

I think indifference and not paying any attention to him at all, will help you move on- but if he likes you and is just flirting with the other girl to see if you notice, you ignoring him will draw his attention.

So it's really up to you, being detached and not clingy will make him want to chase, if he is still interested.

But it can help with moving on, if he isn't. So either way you will have your answer of what to do.

I read somewhere if a Scorpio man put you in a position of a fwb don't expect it to turn into a committed relationship because they know what they want from the start. I had 2 Scorpio man fwb... I am Pisces. The first one lasted for 5 months and I turned cold when he told me that I should lose at least 5 lbs off my weight. Damn boy! who are you to ask me to lose that weight if you can't even give me a commitment? you have no right! I gone cold on him... and then I asked him if he is seeing someone new cause I want to make sure that I have reason to exit. He honestly told he is talking to some people but not physical. Still I gone cold and I was getting my extra house key to him he did not gave it to me and then he ghosted me and that's it I knew he is mad! I tried to get it in a nice way but he did not budge... and I cut him off. He told me that he is seeing someone new. I said okay..! forget the key. I removed him in my watsapp and Phone book... after one year just last October he messaged me and he said he dreamed about me that's why he messaged me. I said I'm fine and he said the dream was I am walking at the beach happy and he is right! I was happy that time... and he said "we had very good days" I just said "yes I remember"... (very cold answer)

If men think that Pisces women are stupid NO! you are wrong... we can play all the games in the play book...

What sign are you?

IDK my father is a Scorpio and was quite the player back in the day. One thing he's always told me is he can't stand weak women who would let him use them for sex (even though he would). He said he likes strong women who don't mind telling him to go to hell and refuse him because that let him know that she wouldn't be the type to fall easily for another guy and he could trust her to be strong. That said it sounds like this guy is using you for an ego boost while scoping out the other girl. He will get to know her. Trust that he will. Stop saying weak shit like "I can't give him up". Impossible.

👍😁

Very wise, solid, and insightful advice here.



good advice from your father.. I'll keep that in mind... I am still with a stupid Scorpio man.