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Posted by HeartofTopazzPosted by Gemitati
I’ve been drinking Gordon vodka...
If it helps anything...
I can’t breathe...looking at his pics...kissing them dying...
My voice swaying him into making wrong moves? I know we talking shitload of money but...common!
I am not in it for it!
Fuck!
His business > your tootooclick to expand


Posted by Elissar18
Are you crazy?? Don't tell him to take his time! He's been taking his time for 10 years. You're going to be 85 before anything ever happens.


Posted by Black-MambaPosted by GemitatiPosted by Black-Mamba
Leo moons are loyal to their feelings
We are? I am fuuuuucked up! Lol
I don't know if it's the same for you, but for me, it's very rare a person can make me feel intensely for long period of time...click to expand

Posted by Black-MambaPosted by GemitatiPosted by Black-Mamba
Leo moons are loyal to their feelings
We are? I am fuuuuucked up! Lol
I don't know if it's the same for you, but for me, it's very rare a person can make me feel intensely for long period of time...so when you find someone that makes you feel AWAKE...hard to disconnectclick to expand

Posted by Gemitati
I’ve been drinking Gordon vodka...
If it helps anything...
I can’t breathe...looking at his pics...kissing them dying...
My voice swaying him into making wrong moves? I know we talking shitload of money but...common!
I am not in it for it!
Fuck!


Posted by LadyNeptune
It’s not his buisness or you. It’s half of his buisness or you. And his wife deserves every last penny.
So kids, get a prenup.

Posted by CancerAquaSagg
Since 2009? Wow that's messed up.
I've waited my ex to commit for 5 years and wish I didn't waste such long time waiting for him. It felt like centuries lol. I was messed up emotionally. So glad I found my sanity back and I'm more balanced now.
Good luck.
Posted by Gemitati
Ok. Posting it just because I am drunk! Out of my mind!
We were talking mostly discussing his business problems and shit.
I never call. He calls me.
It went to 3-5 times per day!
We were talking business! Not fucking!
Then he calling about meeting.
I am all for it. He said he want to talk. I am sure of course. He is calling 3 times in one day and dissapearing for 6 days!
I am fine. I know his shit after almost decade...
Call out of blue!
Me sarcastically...did you miss me?
Him yes that’s why I am calling..
Me what took you so long?
Him honestly? I didn’t want to talk to you...
Me dying...gasping for the air
Him when I hear your voice you sway me so I can’t think and function. I need to make my desicion without you influencing me. So if I make it - I wouldn’t blame you for anything!
Me I know what you are saying
Him TELL ME
me I won’t because I can’t say it and I don’t have any part of it. You do it on your own
Him can you tell me anything?
Me I know you will make right desicion and will be finally happy...with me...
Him yes! I will let you know by the end of the week
Me no! Take your time. It’ll be longer than that! I’ll wait as long as it’ll take...
Him I love you
Me I love you too...
Whatever. I am waiting and being very calm. Strangely. Just worry that he is suffering. Wish I could help. But I said I’ll give him time.
And I am waiting. The end.

Posted by GemitatiPosted by LadyNeptune
It’s not his buisness or you. It’s half of his buisness or you. And his wife deserves every last penny.
So kids, get a prenup.
I don’t mind! He will always be helping his whole family. He always does! Brothers, sister, their kids...
He said once they watch him like if they afraid to lose their meal ticket!
I don’t care! I can live in a chicken hut with him! He can rebuild everything in no time if he needs it! He will be working until he dies! Man is running 6 miles at 57 easy! So he can do anything he put his mind to!
Why am I dealing with it? Who cursed me? Or blessed me or what ta fuck is it?click to expand

Posted by lisabethur8Posted by GemitatiPosted by LadyNeptune
It’s not his buisness or you. It’s half of his buisness or you. And his wife deserves every last penny.
So kids, get a prenup.
I don’t mind! He will always be helping his whole family. He always does! Brothers, sister, their kids...
He said once they watch him like if they afraid to lose their meal ticket!
I don’t care! I can live in a chicken hut with him! He can rebuild everything in no time if he needs it! He will be working until he dies! Man is running 6 miles at 57 easy! So he can do anything he put his mind to!
Why am I dealing with it? Who cursed me? Or blessed me or what ta fuck is it?
my sister's mother in law's husband always said I love you too to his long term mistress.
just saying....
but he always puts family and wife first.click to expand

Posted by AneemA04
By the way, I don't think scorps need someone to worry about them even if they are suffering.
PLUS
Why do you think he's suffering??
Posted by GemitatiPosted by lisabethur8Posted by GemitatiPosted by LadyNeptune
It’s not his buisness or you. It’s half of his buisness or you. And his wife deserves every last penny.
So kids, get a prenup.
I don’t mind! He will always be helping his whole family. He always does! Brothers, sister, their kids...
He said once they watch him like if they afraid to lose their meal ticket!
I don’t care! I can live in a chicken hut with him! He can rebuild everything in no time if he needs it! He will be working until he dies! Man is running 6 miles at 57 easy! So he can do anything he put his mind to!
Why am I dealing with it? Who cursed me? Or blessed me or what ta fuck is it?
my sister's mother in law's husband always said I love you too to his long term mistress.
just saying....
but he always puts family and wife first.
It’s not the point! He had already talked to lawyer. Wife told kids and he postponed it...but situation at home is unbearable. He has 2 houses and living in the one where she is not at the moment.
Some men have ok life at home and have someone on a side and happy!
Here is different. It can’t continue forever.
Conversations that we have...I am just holding his hand trough the process. And standing by. I don’t need him to marry me. I just need him to be present in my life.click to expand
Posted by GemitatiPosted by AneemA04
By the way, I don't think scorps need someone to worry about them even if they are suffering.
PLUS
Why do you think he's suffering??
I just posted. And it’s not true. He does need me. Otherwise he wouldn’t be reaching out to me for every detail when shit just chocking him.
When he said he is dreaming of being buried alive more often than he wants to admit. Isn’t it sign of internal and mental suffering?
When he said the easiest solution would be to jump of the bridge. How happy does this sound?
And when he said if I could only get rid of one person in my life - everyrhing would be better. I said I hope it’s not me. He said never!
And trust me...for all these years as soon as I pick up the phone I know how he is feeling. And very rarely he sounds normal. It breaks my heart.
Yes...I said THAT to see if I am on a right track of thoughts. If he said I am not sure what you mean...I would know he is talking about something else. But he said what he said and I know I was right. And I also know this desicion won’t be made in a week.
I just promised to wait...click to expand

Posted by MissKrabsPosted by GemitatiPosted by lisabethur8Posted by GemitatiPosted by LadyNeptune
It’s not his buisness or you. It’s half of his buisness or you. And his wife deserves every last penny.
So kids, get a prenup.
I don’t mind! He will always be helping his whole family. He always does! Brothers, sister, their kids...
He said once they watch him like if they afraid to lose their meal ticket!
I don’t care! I can live in a chicken hut with him! He can rebuild everything in no time if he needs it! He will be working until he dies! Man is running 6 miles at 57 easy! So he can do anything he put his mind to!
Why am I dealing with it? Who cursed me? Or blessed me or what ta fuck is it?
my sister's mother in law's husband always said I love you too to his long term mistress.
just saying....
but he always puts family and wife first.
It’s not the point! He had already talked to lawyer. Wife told kids and he postponed it...but situation at home is unbearable. He has 2 houses and living in the one where she is not at the moment.
Some men have ok life at home and have someone on a side and happy!
Here is different. It can’t continue forever.
Conversations that we have...I am just holding his hand trough the process. And standing by. I don’t need him to marry me. I just need him to be present in my life.
whaaat? he told his wife and kids know? whaat?
and you—? man it's like watching a movie.click to expand

Posted by lisabethur8Posted by GemitatiPosted by AneemA04
By the way, I don't think scorps need someone to worry about them even if they are suffering.
PLUS
Why do you think he's suffering??
I just posted. And it’s not true. He does need me. Otherwise he wouldn’t be reaching out to me for every detail when shit just chocking him.
When he said he is dreaming of being buried alive more often than he wants to admit. Isn’t it sign of internal and mental suffering?
When he said the easiest solution would be to jump of the bridge. How happy does this sound?
And when he said if I could only get rid of one person in my life - everyrhing would be better. I said I hope it’s not me. He said never!
And trust me...for all these years as soon as I pick up the phone I know how he is feeling. And very rarely he sounds normal. It breaks my heart.
Yes...I said THAT to see if I am on a right track of thoughts. If he said I am not sure what you mean...I would know he is talking about something else. But he said what he said and I know I was right. And I also know this desicion won’t be made in a week.
I just promised to wait...
he's suffering internally? is his wife a harpy and naggy and mean? 😕click to expand

Posted by MissKrabsPosted by GemitatiPosted by MissKrabsPosted by GemitatiPosted by lisabethur8Posted by GemitatiPosted by LadyNeptune
It’s not his buisness or you. It’s half of his buisness or you. And his wife deserves every last penny.
So kids, get a prenup.
I don’t mind! He will always be helping his whole family. He always does! Brothers, sister, their kids...
He said once they watch him like if they afraid to lose their meal ticket!
I don’t care! I can live in a chicken hut with him! He can rebuild everything in no time if he needs it! He will be working until he dies! Man is running 6 miles at 57 easy! So he can do anything he put his mind to!
Why am I dealing with it? Who cursed me? Or blessed me or what ta fuck is it?
my sister's mother in law's husband always said I love you too to his long term mistress.
just saying....
but he always puts family and wife first.
It’s not the point! He had already talked to lawyer. Wife told kids and he postponed it...but situation at home is unbearable. He has 2 houses and living in the one where she is not at the moment.
Some men have ok life at home and have someone on a side and happy!
Here is different. It can’t continue forever.
Conversations that we have...I am just holding his hand trough the process. And standing by. I don’t need him to marry me. I just need him to be present in my life.
whaaat? he told his wife and kids know? whaat?
and you—? man it's like watching a movie.
Yes. His son and brother were in the business when I was. At some point I was miffed because he is very discreet but all of a sudden he started openly talking to me like...what?
People hear you!
So when wife told kids he is about to leave his son went talking to his brother about it and his daughter gave him a gift...device that installed in a house and whenever he gets calls or texting - it’s known to everybody who wants to know.
He was pissed like I haven’t seen yet...
However it’s just in one house! We can talk for hours when he is in another house or at work or driving or walking a dog...
He says he is suffocated by all this ‘loving attention’.
I did post before about him refusing to take pictures and pretend to be a happy family.
There so much shit and I was just told to wait for a breaking point.
It can’t last forever.
oh wow. sounds like he is fucked. but the scorpio probably hid the money.
ok this is not funny anymore you are both crazy.click to expand

Posted by MissKrabsPosted by GemitatiPosted by MissKrabsPosted by GemitatiPosted by MissKrabsPosted by GemitatiPosted by lisabethur8Posted by GemitatiPosted by LadyNeptune
It’s not his buisness or you. It’s half of his buisness or you. And his wife deserves every last penny.
So kids, get a prenup.
I don’t mind! He will always be helping his whole family. He always does! Brothers, sister, their kids...
He said once they watch him like if they afraid to lose their meal ticket!
I don’t care! I can live in a chicken hut with him! He can rebuild everything in no time if he needs it! He will be working until he dies! Man is running 6 miles at 57 easy! So he can do anything he put his mind to!
Why am I dealing with it? Who cursed me? Or blessed me or what ta fuck is it?
my sister's mother in law's husband always said I love you too to his long term mistress.
just saying....
but he always puts family and wife first.
It’s not the point! He had already talked to lawyer. Wife told kids and he postponed it...but situation at home is unbearable. He has 2 houses and living in the one where she is not at the moment.
Some men have ok life at home and have someone on a side and happy!
Here is different. It can’t continue forever.
Conversations that we have...I am just holding his hand trough the process. And standing by. I don’t need him to marry me. I just need him to be present in my life.
whaaat? he told his wife and kids know? whaat?
and you—? man it's like watching a movie.
Yes. His son and brother were in the business when I was. At some point I was miffed because he is very discreet but all of a sudden he started openly talking to me like...what?
People hear you!
So when wife told kids he is about to leave his son went talking to his brother about it and his daughter gave him a gift...device that installed in a house and whenever he gets calls or texting - it’s known to everybody who wants to know.
He was pissed like I haven’t seen yet...
However it’s just in one house! We can talk for hours when he is in another house or at work or driving or walking a dog...
He says he is suffocated by all this ‘loving attention’.
I did post before about him refusing to take pictures and pretend to be a happy family.
There so much shit and I was just told to wait for a breaking point.
It can’t last forever.
oh wow. sounds like he is fucked. but the scorpio probably hid the money.
ok this is not funny anymore you are both crazy.
No he didn’t hid the money. And why is he fucked? And why are we crazy?
What made you say that?
just read the std part. then he is not fucked.click to expand
Posted by GemitatiPosted by lisabethur8Posted by GemitatiPosted by AneemA04
By the way, I don't think scorps need someone to worry about them even if they are suffering.
PLUS
Why do you think he's suffering??
I just posted. And it’s not true. He does need me. Otherwise he wouldn’t be reaching out to me for every detail when shit just chocking him.
When he said he is dreaming of being buried alive more often than he wants to admit. Isn’t it sign of internal and mental suffering?
When he said the easiest solution would be to jump of the bridge. How happy does this sound?
And when he said if I could only get rid of one person in my life - everyrhing would be better. I said I hope it’s not me. He said never!
And trust me...for all these years as soon as I pick up the phone I know how he is feeling. And very rarely he sounds normal. It breaks my heart.
Yes...I said THAT to see if I am on a right track of thoughts. If he said I am not sure what you mean...I would know he is talking about something else. But he said what he said and I know I was right. And I also know this desicion won’t be made in a week.
I just promised to wait...
he's suffering internally? is his wife a harpy and naggy and mean? 😕
He married her in worse time if his life. He was a badass and for 19 years he was just partying and spending...she came from money though...
I can understand her point. She can’t forgive him for screwing up her yourh.
Then he grew up and matured! And his Uncle basically molded him into what he is now. Person who loved by everybody! And the one who everybody go to for everything.
He can do anything and never refuses helping.
However his wife is still holding grudges from the past and being very hostile. But until he found out she was cheating and it turned ugly by her getting STD and thanks God they weren’t having sex so he was safe...THEN he became really mad and shit broke lose!
THEN when our 5 years of platonic admiration for each other turned into an affair...click to expand

Posted by MissKrabsPosted by lisabethur8Posted by GemitatiPosted by lisabethur8Posted by GemitatiPosted by AneemA04
By the way, I don't think scorps need someone to worry about them even if they are suffering.
PLUS
Why do you think he's suffering??
I just posted. And it’s not true. He does need me. Otherwise he wouldn’t be reaching out to me for every detail when shit just chocking him.
When he said he is dreaming of being buried alive more often than he wants to admit. Isn’t it sign of internal and mental suffering?
When he said the easiest solution would be to jump of the bridge. How happy does this sound?
And when he said if I could only get rid of one person in my life - everyrhing would be better. I said I hope it’s not me. He said never!
And trust me...for all these years as soon as I pick up the phone I know how he is feeling. And very rarely he sounds normal. It breaks my heart.
Yes...I said THAT to see if I am on a right track of thoughts. If he said I am not sure what you mean...I would know he is talking about something else. But he said what he said and I know I was right. And I also know this desicion won’t be made in a week.
I just promised to wait...
he's suffering internally? is his wife a harpy and naggy and mean? 😕
He married her in worse time if his life. He was a badass and for 19 years he was just partying and spending...she came from money though...
I can understand her point. She can’t forgive him for screwing up her yourh.
Then he grew up and matured! And his Uncle basically molded him into what he is now. Person who loved by everybody! And the one who everybody go to for everything.
He can do anything and never refuses helping.
However his wife is still holding grudges from the past and being very hostile. But until he found out she was cheating and it turned ugly by her getting STD and thanks God they weren’t having sex so he was safe...THEN he became really mad and shit broke lose!
THEN when our 5 years of platonic admiration for each other turned into an affair...
you understand HER point? for screwing up her youth? lol She sounds entitled.![]()
and btw, he married her. No one took the shotgun to his face and said, "Marry this woman"..
good or bad, he made his bed.
yeah, those things are irrelevant. their choices.click to expand

Posted by MissKrabsPosted by GemitatiPosted by MissKrabsPosted by GemitatiPosted by MissKrabsPosted by GemitatiPosted by MissKrabsPosted by GemitatiPosted by lisabethur8Posted by GemitatiPosted by LadyNeptune
It’s not his buisness or you. It’s half of his buisness or you. And his wife deserves every last penny.
So kids, get a prenup.
I don’t mind! He will always be helping his whole family. He always does! Brothers, sister, their kids...
He said once they watch him like if they afraid to lose their meal ticket!
I don’t care! I can live in a chicken hut with him! He can rebuild everything in no time if he needs it! He will be working until he dies! Man is running 6 miles at 57 easy! So he can do anything he put his mind to!
Why am I dealing with it? Who cursed me? Or blessed me or what ta fuck is it?
my sister's mother in law's husband always said I love you too to his long term mistress.
just saying....
but he always puts family and wife first.
It’s not the point! He had already talked to lawyer. Wife told kids and he postponed it...but situation at home is unbearable. He has 2 houses and living in the one where she is not at the moment.
Some men have ok life at home and have someone on a side and happy!
Here is different. It can’t continue forever.
Conversations that we have...I am just holding his hand trough the process. And standing by. I don’t need him to marry me. I just need him to be present in my life.
whaaat? he told his wife and kids know? whaat?
and you—? man it's like watching a movie.
Yes. His son and brother were in the business when I was. At some point I was miffed because he is very discreet but all of a sudden he started openly talking to me like...what?
People hear you!
So when wife told kids he is about to leave his son went talking to his brother about it and his daughter gave him a gift...device that installed in a house and whenever he gets calls or texting - it’s known to everybody who wants to know.
He was pissed like I haven’t seen yet...
However it’s just in one house! We can talk for hours when he is in another house or at work or driving or walking a dog...
He says he is suffocated by all this ‘loving attention’.
I did post before about him refusing to take pictures and pretend to be a happy family.
There so much shit and I was just told to wait for a breaking point.
It can’t last forever.
oh wow. sounds like he is fucked. but the scorpio probably hid the money.
ok this is not funny anymore you are both crazy.
No he didn’t hid the money. And why is he fucked? And why are we crazy?
What made you say that?
just read the std part. then he is not fucked.
And THE ducked up part that she doesn’t know that he knows! Doctor told him men to men...so he would be aware because it was some heavy shit...
so if she tries to screw with him she is fucked. nicely done scorpio.
and you are waiting for him before making a move at your home.
click to expand

Posted by SagittariusInLovePosted by Gemitati
Ok. Posting it just because I am drunk! Out of my mind!
We were talking mostly discussing his business problems and shit.
I never call. He calls me.
It went to 3-5 times per day!
We were talking business! Not fucking!
Then he calling about meeting.
I am all for it. He said he want to talk. I am sure of course. He is calling 3 times in one day and dissapearing for 6 days!
I am fine. I know his shit after almost decade...
Call out of blue!
Me sarcastically...did you miss me?
Him yes that’s why I am calling..
Me what took you so long?
Him honestly? I didn’t want to talk to you...
Me dying...gasping for the air
Him when I hear your voice you sway me so I can’t think and function. I need to make my desicion without you influencing me. So if I make it - I wouldn’t blame you for anything!
Me I know what you are saying
Him TELL ME
me I won’t because I can’t say it and I don’t have any part of it. You do it on your own
Him can you tell me anything?
Me I know you will make right desicion and will be finally happy...with me...
Him yes! I will let you know by the end of the week
Me no! Take your time. It’ll be longer than that! I’ll wait as long as it’ll take...
Him I love you
Me I love you too...
Whatever. I am waiting and being very calm. Strangely. Just worry that he is suffering. Wish I could help. But I said I’ll give him time.
And I am waiting. The end.
You trapped him woman !click to expand

Posted by MissKrabs
if she tries to take what she thinks she deserves, to turn kids against him etc. i guess he will use that info. to shut her up. no idea will he go public or not. you know i guess.
if you don't tell your cap after this thing is over, scorpio will!
idk. this all sounds so exhausting.
Posted by GemitatiPosted by MissKrabsPosted by lisabethur8Posted by GemitatiPosted by lisabethur8Posted by GemitatiPosted by AneemA04
By the way, I don't think scorps need someone to worry about them even if they are suffering.
PLUS
Why do you think he's suffering??
I just posted. And it’s not true. He does need me. Otherwise he wouldn’t be reaching out to me for every detail when shit just chocking him.
When he said he is dreaming of being buried alive more often than he wants to admit. Isn’t it sign of internal and mental suffering?
When he said the easiest solution would be to jump of the bridge. How happy does this sound?
And when he said if I could only get rid of one person in my life - everyrhing would be better. I said I hope it’s not me. He said never!
And trust me...for all these years as soon as I pick up the phone I know how he is feeling. And very rarely he sounds normal. It breaks my heart.
Yes...I said THAT to see if I am on a right track of thoughts. If he said I am not sure what you mean...I would know he is talking about something else. But he said what he said and I know I was right. And I also know this desicion won’t be made in a week.
I just promised to wait...
he's suffering internally? is his wife a harpy and naggy and mean? 😕
He married her in worse time if his life. He was a badass and for 19 years he was just partying and spending...she came from money though...
I can understand her point. She can’t forgive him for screwing up her yourh.
Then he grew up and matured! And his Uncle basically molded him into what he is now. Person who loved by everybody! And the one who everybody go to for everything.
He can do anything and never refuses helping.
However his wife is still holding grudges from the past and being very hostile. But until he found out she was cheating and it turned ugly by her getting STD and thanks God they weren’t having sex so he was safe...THEN he became really mad and shit broke lose!
THEN when our 5 years of platonic admiration for each other turned into an affair...
you understand HER point? for screwing up her youth? lol She sounds entitled.![]()
and btw, he married her. No one took the shotgun to his face and said, "Marry this woman"..
good or bad, he made his bed.
yeah, those things are irrelevant. their choices.
I was simply explaining if she is a harpy - this is why! Because she can’t forget...and shit is boiling inside!
She throws shit like ‘your gielfriend’ not knowing that he knows about her affair!click to expand

Posted by lisabethur8Posted by GemitatiPosted by MissKrabsPosted by lisabethur8Posted by GemitatiPosted by lisabethur8Posted by GemitatiPosted by AneemA04
By the way, I don't think scorps need someone to worry about them even if they are suffering.
PLUS
Why do you think he's suffering??
I just posted. And it’s not true. He does need me. Otherwise he wouldn’t be reaching out to me for every detail when shit just chocking him.
When he said he is dreaming of being buried alive more often than he wants to admit. Isn’t it sign of internal and mental suffering?
When he said the easiest solution would be to jump of the bridge. How happy does this sound?
And when he said if I could only get rid of one person in my life - everyrhing would be better. I said I hope it’s not me. He said never!
And trust me...for all these years as soon as I pick up the phone I know how he is feeling. And very rarely he sounds normal. It breaks my heart.
Yes...I said THAT to see if I am on a right track of thoughts. If he said I am not sure what you mean...I would know he is talking about something else. But he said what he said and I know I was right. And I also know this desicion won’t be made in a week.
I just promised to wait...
he's suffering internally? is his wife a harpy and naggy and mean? 😕
He married her in worse time if his life. He was a badass and for 19 years he was just partying and spending...she came from money though...
I can understand her point. She can’t forgive him for screwing up her yourh.
Then he grew up and matured! And his Uncle basically molded him into what he is now. Person who loved by everybody! And the one who everybody go to for everything.
He can do anything and never refuses helping.
However his wife is still holding grudges from the past and being very hostile. But until he found out she was cheating and it turned ugly by her getting STD and thanks God they weren’t having sex so he was safe...THEN he became really mad and shit broke lose!
THEN when our 5 years of platonic admiration for each other turned into an affair...
you understand HER point? for screwing up her youth? lol She sounds entitled.![]()
and btw, he married her. No one took the shotgun to his face and said, "Marry this woman"..
good or bad, he made his bed.
yeah, those things are irrelevant. their choices.
I was simply explaining if she is a harpy - this is why! Because she can’t forget...and shit is boiling inside!
She throws shit like ‘your gielfriend’ not knowing that he knows about her affair!
but u are doing the SAME thing as his wife is doing...
not too far off ;p
click to expand
Posted by GemitatiPosted by lisabethur8Posted by GemitatiPosted by MissKrabsPosted by lisabethur8Posted by GemitatiPosted by lisabethur8Posted by GemitatiPosted by AneemA04
By the way, I don't think scorps need someone to worry about them even if they are suffering.
PLUS
Why do you think he's suffering??
I just posted. And it’s not true. He does need me. Otherwise he wouldn’t be reaching out to me for every detail when shit just chocking him.
When he said he is dreaming of being buried alive more often than he wants to admit. Isn’t it sign of internal and mental suffering?
When he said the easiest solution would be to jump of the bridge. How happy does this sound?
And when he said if I could only get rid of one person in my life - everyrhing would be better. I said I hope it’s not me. He said never!
And trust me...for all these years as soon as I pick up the phone I know how he is feeling. And very rarely he sounds normal. It breaks my heart.
Yes...I said THAT to see if I am on a right track of thoughts. If he said I am not sure what you mean...I would know he is talking about something else. But he said what he said and I know I was right. And I also know this desicion won’t be made in a week.
I just promised to wait...
he's suffering internally? is his wife a harpy and naggy and mean? 😕
He married her in worse time if his life. He was a badass and for 19 years he was just partying and spending...she came from money though...
I can understand her point. She can’t forgive him for screwing up her yourh.
Then he grew up and matured! And his Uncle basically molded him into what he is now. Person who loved by everybody! And the one who everybody go to for everything.
He can do anything and never refuses helping.
However his wife is still holding grudges from the past and being very hostile. But until he found out she was cheating and it turned ugly by her getting STD and thanks God they weren’t having sex so he was safe...THEN he became really mad and shit broke lose!
THEN when our 5 years of platonic admiration for each other turned into an affair...
you understand HER point? for screwing up her youth? lol She sounds entitled.![]()
and btw, he married her. No one took the shotgun to his face and said, "Marry this woman"..
good or bad, he made his bed.
yeah, those things are irrelevant. their choices.
I was simply explaining if she is a harpy - this is why! Because she can’t forget...and shit is boiling inside!
She throws shit like ‘your gielfriend’ not knowing that he knows about her affair!
but u are doing the SAME thing as his wife is doing...
not too far off ;p
I’ve never proclaimed myself without sin! But all fair in love and war!
And trust me dear...nobody can tell me shit about myself that I don’t know. I know it all! And I am paying dearly. For every little thing I’ve done that is wrong...🙏🏻click to expand

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By the way, I don't think scorps need someone to worry about them even if they are suffering.
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Why do you think he's suffering??
I just posted. And it’s not true. He does need me. Otherwise he wouldn’t be reaching out to me for every detail when shit just chocking him.
When he said he is dreaming of being buried alive more often than he wants to admit. Isn’t it sign of internal and mental suffering?
When he said the easiest solution would be to jump of the bridge. How happy does this sound?
And when he said if I could only get rid of one person in my life - everyrhing would be better. I said I hope it’s not me. He said never!
And trust me...for all these years as soon as I pick up the phone I know how he is feeling. And very rarely he sounds normal. It breaks my heart.
Yes...I said THAT to see if I am on a right track of thoughts. If he said I am not sure what you mean...I would know he is talking about something else. But he said what he said and I know I was right. And I also know this desicion won’t be made in a week.
I just promised to wait...
he's suffering internally? is his wife a harpy and naggy and mean? 😕
He married her in worse time if his life. He was a badass and for 19 years he was just partying and spending...she came from money though...
I can understand her point. She can’t forgive him for screwing up her yourh.
Then he grew up and matured! And his Uncle basically molded him into what he is now. Person who loved by everybody! And the one who everybody go to for everything.
He can do anything and never refuses helping.
However his wife is still holding grudges from the past and being very hostile. But until he found out she was cheating and it turned ugly by her getting STD and thanks God they weren’t having sex so he was safe...THEN he became really mad and shit broke lose!
THEN when our 5 years of platonic admiration for each other turned into an affair...
you understand HER point? for screwing up her youth? lol She sounds entitled.![]()
and btw, he married her. No one took the shotgun to his face and said, "Marry this woman"..
good or bad, he made his bed.
yeah, those things are irrelevant. their choices.
I was simply explaining if she is a harpy - this is why! Because she can’t forget...and shit is boiling inside!
She throws shit like ‘your gielfriend’ not knowing that he knows about her affair!
but u are doing the SAME thing as his wife is doing...
not too far off ;p
I’ve never proclaimed myself without sin! But all fair in love and war!
And trust me dear...nobody can tell me shit about myself that I don’t know. I know it all! And I am paying dearly. For every little thing I’ve done that is wrong...🙏🏻
lol i know...but, you said that he knows about her affair, and because it comes from her hatred and deep resentment of him.
but you are also having an afffair, which is also your deep resentment and hatred from your husband..
you and her are very very SIMILAR.
it's just an exchange of wives really, who are very similar.click to expand
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We were talking mostly discussing his business problems and shit.
I never call. He calls me.
It went to 3-5 times per day!
We were talking business! Not fucking!
Then he calling about meeting.
I am all for it. He said he want to talk. I am sure of course. He is calling 3 times in one day and dissapearing for 6 days!
I am fine. I know his shit after almost decade...
Call out of blue!
Me sarcastically...did you miss me?
Him yes that’s why I am calling..
Me what took you so long?
Him honestly? I didn’t want to talk to you...
Me dying...gasping for the air
Him when I hear your voice you sway me so I can’t think and function. I need to make my desicion without you influencing me. So if I make it - I wouldn’t blame you for anything!
Me I know what you are saying
Him TELL ME
me I won’t because I can’t say it and I don’t have any part of it. You do it on your own
Him can you tell me anything?
Me I know you will make right desicion and will be finally happy...with me...
Him yes! I will let you know by the end of the week
Me no! Take your time. It’ll be longer than that! I’ll wait as long as it’ll take...
Him I love you
Me I love you too...
Whatever. I am waiting and being very calm. Strangely. Just worry that he is suffering. Wish I could help. But I said I’ll give him time.
And I am waiting. The end.