Scorpio man is already in a hazy relationship...

So...the scorpio is already in a confuse/hazy/uncertain relationship for about 5 months with someone. He said that their relationship doesn't work because she sometimes wants to be with him and sometimes wants to be alone. He said to me that he wants to take things slowly(that's want i want too) He also said that he has his heart broken and don't want to make me suffer hurring up things. I told him I understand his point of view, i appreciate cuz he was honest and told him to follow his heart. Our friendship was just starting, we were seeing 3 times we kissed and also want to take things slowly. Is it to early to make plans for our future relationship? How to deal with this problem?

Girl bye

Posted by andrea13
So...the scorpio is already in a confuse/hazy/uncertain relationship for about 5 months with someone. He said that their relationship doesn't work because she sometimes wants to be with him and sometimes wants to be alone. He said to me that he wants to take things slowly(that's want i want too) He also said that he has his heart broken and don't want to make me suffer hurring up things. I told him I understand his point of view, i appreciate cuz he was honest and told him to follow his heart. Our friendship was just starting, we were seeing 3 times we kissed and also want to take things slowly. Is it to early to make plans for our future relationship? How to deal with this problem?

heres the truth,

hes in a great relationship. But hes already let you know, he dont want you all up in his shit, I.e taking it slow. But, if you want a cock to sit on and some cuddling afterwards, hes your man. Just dont expect to meet his mama.

wear a rubber.

lol damn

sooo he says he had his heartbroken, yet he wants to cheat on his girlfriend with you and keep you on the side, move slow yet he is still concerned about his heartbreaking. Doesn't make much sense to me.

Posted by tiziani

Posted by andrea13
So...the scorpio is already in a confuse/hazy/uncertain relationship for about 5 months with someone. He said that their relationship doesn't work because she sometimes wants to be with him and sometimes wants to be alone. He said to me that he wants to take things slowly(that's want i want too) He also said that he has his heart broken and don't want to make me suffer hurring up things. I told him I understand his point of view, i appreciate cuz he was honest and told him to follow his heart. Our friendship was just starting, we were seeing 3 times we kissed and also want to take things slowly. Is it to early to make plans for our future relationship? How to deal with this problem?

This question seems so out of context I wasn't even sure I had read the right post.

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You think?

Where there's a gullible creature, immediately someone appears to sell a fantasy.

"I've been with this chick for 5 months" => implies his relationship isn't that certain, leaves room for you to believe it can be easily broken. allows you to indulge in the fantasy of a future with him. after all this isn't marriage and it's "only" been 5 months

"she sometimes wants to be with me, sometimes wants to be alone" => implies he is being starved for affection here and he is uncertain...so you go in overdrive to build certainty around him and how things with you would be better.

He's setting it for you to rescue him out of his predicament. After all you're so special to him, he is going to move slowly about this.

An honest man would have taken a huge step back, solved his situation with his girlfriend if his heart was set on another and then would've contacted you and started something with you. He is pulling you into a scenario you shouldn't belong in.

Posted by Arielle83
Damnata logically assassinated him!

lmao.

yeah i didn't see this as a scorpio dude post. he's so transparent it's not even funny.

He needs to figure out what he wants to do with his current relationship before starting anything with me. That's all!

Posted by andrea13
He needs to figure out what he wants to do with his current relationship before starting anything with me. That's all!

Therefore you've answered this:

Posted by andrea13
Is it to early to make plans for our future relationship?

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Where do y'all come up with this stuff? 😆...

Posted by PhoenixRising

Posted by andrea13
He needs to figure out what he wants to do with his current relationship before starting anything with me. That's all!

Therefore you've answered this:

Posted by andrea13
Is it to early to make plans for our future relationship?

Where do y'all come up with this stuff? 😆...

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Posted by PhoenixRising

Posted by andrea13
He needs to figure out what he wants to do with his current relationship before starting anything with me. That's all!

Therefore you've answered this:

Posted by andrea13
Is it to early to make plans for our future relationship?

Where do y'all come up with this stuff? 😆...

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You're too annoying

Posted by Iwill

Posted by andrea13
He needs to figure out what he wants to do with his current relationship before starting anything with me. That's all!

This will be a great lesson in your life to teach you, that sometimes, MANY times in fact, people lie to get what they want. Men, women, the political and economical leaders and "saviors" of the world. It's very sad but also very real.

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Unfortunately that's the truth. Someone is lying to get what he wants. Can't know someone's intentions but their actions speak.

I have never understand how is that pleasure to correct someone? What the fuck we're humans we do mistakes. Helping people or leave them alone is better than correct them in a arrogant way. It's just my point of view, don't jump!

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Posted by PhoenixRising

Posted by andrea13
He needs to figure out what he wants to do with his current relationship before starting anything with me. That's all!

Therefore you've answered this:

Posted by andrea13
Is it to early to make plans for our future relationship?

Where do y'all come up with this stuff? 😆...

You're too annoying

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😆 this may be true, but does it make what I pointed out untrue? I find it interesting that you decided to quote my post though. Transparent much?

Anyhoo, I won't hold you up with any more obvious points. I believe you have a penis to share somewhere---or are you debating if it's too early to do that? Carry on.

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Posted by andrea13
He needs to figure out what he wants to do with his current relationship before starting anything with me. That's all!

Therefore you've answered this:

Posted by andrea13
Is it to early to make plans for our future relationship?

Where do y'all come up with this stuff? 😆...

You're too annoying

😆 this may be true, but does it make what I pointed out untrue? I find it interesting that you decided to quote my post though. Transparent much?

Anyhoo, I won't hold you up with any more obvious points. I believe you have a penis to share somewhere---or are you debating if it's too early to do that? Carry on.

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This sound soo bitchy coming from you. It's ok for me to share a penis but you and your bitchy behaviour don't deserve even a penis. I expect you'll quote this because as I said you are a bitch.

That's what i wouldn't do. I don't want to lose my virginity until marriage. Choosing him is already out. I can't make things better and I can't do anything to change the way the situation is and that's what bothers me...because I can't do anything. Thanks you all for advices!

Posted by flowingwater

Posted by andrea13
That's what i wouldn't do. I don't want to lose my virginity until marriage. Choosing him is already out. I can't make things better and I can't do anything to change the way the situation is and that's what bothers me...because I can't do anything. Thanks you all for advices!

Your so emotional..
Get your damn 19yr old ignorance ass out of here.
Don't come with that crying bullshit.

Nobody cares, share the damn D.

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Just because you're a crone doesn't make me a "19yr old ignorance ass". Don't like, don't watch! Nobody forced you to comment here! If you don't like GO AWAY CRONE!

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Posted by andrea13
That's what i wouldn't do. I don't want to lose my virginity until marriage. Choosing him is already out. I can't make things better and I can't do anything to change the way the situation is and that's what bothers me...because I can't do anything. Thanks you all for advices!

Your so emotional..
Get your damn 19yr old ignorance ass out of here.
Don't come with that crying bullshit.

Nobody cares, share the damn D.

Just because you're a crone doesn't make me a "19yr old ignorance ass". Don't like, don't watch! Nobody forced you to comment here! If you don't like GO AWAY CRONE!

Coming from a floozy, who's nothing but a side piece of ass!
You will never be #1!!
Let me define Ignorance- coming on here asking for a advice on how to accommodate your new side bitch life style .

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Let's clarify here who's the bitch!P.S. I'm a virgin you piece of shit.

Posted by Arielle83
Haven't you just gone on 2 dates? How could he have become any bit important at all? He has a girlfriend so don't bother. Plus your a virgin so what are you offering him? Please don't give him that, because you'll regret it one day. Foolish man and only thinking with one thing.

I told him I'll not be on the side chick position and he said again that he's not on a really serious relationship with his gf. So he claim his relationship unstable and wonky just to make accept it?

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Posted by andrea13
That's what i wouldn't do. I don't want to lose my virginity until marriage. Choosing him is already out. I can't make things better and I can't do anything to change the way the situation is and that's what bothers me...because I can't do anything. Thanks you all for advices!

Your so emotional..
Get your damn 19yr old ignorance ass out of here.
Don't come with that crying bullshit.

Nobody cares, share the damn D.

Just because you're a crone doesn't make me a "19yr old ignorance ass". Don't like, don't watch! Nobody forced you to comment here! If you don't like GO AWAY CRONE!

Coming from a floozy, who's nothing but a side piece of ass!
You will never be #1!!
Let me define Ignorance- coming on here asking for a advice on how to accommodate your new side bitch life style .

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Please go on another topic, you're just waisting your time here bothering me.

Posted by Rambunctious76

Posted by andrea13
So...the scorpio is already in a confuse/hazy/uncertain relationship for about 5 months with someone. He said that their relationship doesn't work because she sometimes wants to be with him and sometimes wants to be alone. He said to me that he wants to take things slowly(that's want i want too) He also said that he has his heart broken and don't want to make me suffer hurring up things. I told him I understand his point of view, i appreciate cuz he was honest and told him to follow his heart. Our friendship was just starting, we were seeing 3 times we kissed and also want to take things slowly. Is it to early to make plans for our future relationship? How to deal with this problem?

1) There is NO future relationship. You are a side dish. Accept that, or drop him immediately!
2) Take everything he says from now on with a pinch of salt (and hot peppers).
3) Ask him straight up if his gf knows about you. If his answer is no, drop him immediately! If his answer is yes, ask if it's possible to meet her. If he says no to that as well, drop him immediately!

Unless of course, you're in it just for the sex and you can guarantee emotions won't get involved, then carry on!

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I understand just "drop him immediately"..

Posted by Rabbit
Hazy?

Girl...you're a hazy shade of thirsty.

I'm romanian. English isn't my natal language. I really have to warn that I don't speak English very well on every topic I post?

However, it's hard to be a side chick; this situation will just make me upset and frustrated, there's no need to fake being "cool" with everything when i'm not. It's simple. If it's not for me, i'll get out. Thanks for advices!

Posted by Rabbit
Hazy?

Girl...you're a hazy shade of thirsty.

Best post of the day

Seriously though, I can pick up on the neptune in your chart. I have an aries friend and she loves love. Her high epectations and need to control will always be her downfall. So we as friends help to keep her realistic. But youre not realistic here. Take a step back and see the situation for what it is early on instead of trying to create and mold a fairytale.

Posted by Hotbeefy
Only missing thing is her mercury, Saturn, Venus & Mars.
I really do bet that she has venus in aries since she's very straightforward to do this.

But seriously, DMV has got right on the nose when it comes to reality. Because you never know what kind of person is he. Plus telling him that you're virgin is asking for sex rather than taken serious in relationship.

It's to built up knowing each other who they are and see if he's capable of. THATS the mature thing (& cautious) things to do.

Mercury in taurus
saturn in aries
venus in gemini
mars in aries

So there are degrees to a relationship? Hazy, not serious. These are the trap words im talking about. Youre either in a relationship or not. Why call someone your girlfriend if youre not in a relationship.?

You have to listen to people words.

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Posted by Arielle83
Haven't you just gone on 2 dates? How could he have become any bit important at all? He has a girlfriend so don't bother. Plus your a virgin so what are you offering him? Please don't give him that, because you'll regret it one day. Foolish man and only thinking with one thing.

I told him I'll not be on the side chick position and he said again that he's not on a really serious relationship with his gf. So he claim his relationship unstable and wonky just to make accept it?

i missed this.

ya he wants you to think she's not important. so doesn't that tell you he's a douche? i mean if this other chick was all into him and found out he was trying to get you in on him, don't you think she would be hurt? just put yourself in the other persons shoes, because if it actually was hazy, i think it would of ended. it hasn't. someones going to get hurt. he said he wants his space and she wants to be with him. she likes him and he's making you think she isn't important. how rude.

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oldest tricks in the book.

1. Cheater says their relationship sucks
2. Cheater badmouths their significant other

Dont fall for this shit