What is that?! Someone please explain why you Scorpions must bore holes into peoples psyche with your eyeballs. I hate it. and I love it.
Scorpio men and STARING
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🙂 My best Scorp girl friend does it to me too sometimes when we're having an intense conversation...I always tell her if I was a dude, i'd be groveling at her feet over that look 🙂 She's clueless and has no idea she's even doing it. I try to pretend like I'm immune to the Scorpio vibe(my Leo pride?), but deep inside I think that stare down is one of the sexiest thangs I ever did see.
🙂 he wants to know how you could be so beautiful AND want to talk to him. he wants to know everything about you. if he could take a pic of your smile he would and frame it. he just likes to look and undres you.
you are the most interesting thing in the room
you are the most interesting thing in the room
Posted by Rabbit
We're devouring your soul.
Deal with it.
😛
I knew it! Luckily I have another soul as a backup, I guess I should just give in already and let you guys devour 😛
Posted by DMV
🙂 he wants to know how you could be so beautiful AND want to talk to him. he wants to know everything about you. if he could take a pic of your smile he would and frame it. he just likes to look and undres you.
you are the most interesting thing in the room
lol awwww, now I'm purring....my Leo-ness always feels like it's an attempt to dominate me, hence the hate it and love it thing. I immediately feel violated, and light headed 😛 I know two really attractive, deep-dark Scorpio dudes - they're both friends of ours(i'm married) but they do this right in front of my husband, it's like they literally don't care who sees.
I do it subconsciously...
But yes, i've been called out on it before and just "shrug" back
But yes, i've been called out on it before and just "shrug" back
Posted by ryu8
I do it subconsciously...
But yes, i've been called out on it before and just "shrug" back
Perhaps it's more subconscious than I suspect then, cause one of my best girlfriends (Scorp) does it to me when she's passionate about something we're discussing. I'm sure she does it to men on purpose (to be honest, I think most women do that when they want to get a guys attention), but the remainder of the time it's just this unintentional look that oozes out of her pretty, seductive little eyes 🙂
Is she single?
lol nope, she's currently got her hooks in a Gemini and isn't budging.
I've only experienced the "Scorpio gaze" once. I didn't feel violated, undressed, or like my soul was being devoured.
I think it's the one time in my life I've ever felt totally "owned" by another human being. I and a Scorpio colleague had been involved in a "power struggle" for several months. Scorpio wanted me to work exclusively for him, I didn't want that. For several months, I believed the matter was closed and I'd more or less come out "on top."
I was mistaken.
Anyway, he turned the gaze on me while delivering a dramatic, flowery speech about how proud he was to have me promoted to working under his supervision...And I literally "heard" the invisible cage door slam shut behind me. It made me claustrophobic. I couldn't speak or breathe or see anyone but him.
An intellectual corner of my mind respected the move enough to applaud, "Darn! THAT was well played!" The more emotional side was seething, "SON of a BISCUIT! NO he did NOT! I'm quitting! That's it. THAT IS IT!"
The look itself...I wouldn't call it cruel or malicious or even triumphant. He looked serene and satisfied, like he'd just finished his favorite meal or a really good drink. It was a "Gotcha" but it was a very civilized "Gotcha."
He DID have enough sense to pull this mess the day before he left the country for a month, though. I'm guessing that was deliberate, too.
I'll never underestimate him again.
To date, I've only learned one remedy to the "Scorpio gaze." And that's the "Libra smile." Libra signs know what I'm talking about -- the big smile that's all dimples, bright eyes, and honest warmth. There's a catch, though. You have to love the Scorpio to disarm him, and the Scorpio knows the false goods from the real.
I think it's the one time in my life I've ever felt totally "owned" by another human being. I and a Scorpio colleague had been involved in a "power struggle" for several months. Scorpio wanted me to work exclusively for him, I didn't want that. For several months, I believed the matter was closed and I'd more or less come out "on top."
I was mistaken.
Anyway, he turned the gaze on me while delivering a dramatic, flowery speech about how proud he was to have me promoted to working under his supervision...And I literally "heard" the invisible cage door slam shut behind me. It made me claustrophobic. I couldn't speak or breathe or see anyone but him.
An intellectual corner of my mind respected the move enough to applaud, "Darn! THAT was well played!" The more emotional side was seething, "SON of a BISCUIT! NO he did NOT! I'm quitting! That's it. THAT IS IT!"
The look itself...I wouldn't call it cruel or malicious or even triumphant. He looked serene and satisfied, like he'd just finished his favorite meal or a really good drink. It was a "Gotcha" but it was a very civilized "Gotcha."
He DID have enough sense to pull this mess the day before he left the country for a month, though. I'm guessing that was deliberate, too.
I'll never underestimate him again.
To date, I've only learned one remedy to the "Scorpio gaze." And that's the "Libra smile." Libra signs know what I'm talking about -- the big smile that's all dimples, bright eyes, and honest warmth. There's a catch, though. You have to love the Scorpio to disarm him, and the Scorpio knows the false goods from the real.
Posted by blisssPosted by ryu8
I do it subconsciously...
But yes, i've been called out on it before and just "shrug" back
I'm a Scorpio sun and Aries moon. Let's be friends!?click to expand
lets 🙂
I just give the stare right back. As a Cancer I can do that.
how do you get a scorpio man to STOP staring?? i have a coworker who loves to sneak glances at me. i've resorted to putting my head down and hiding behind this partition but that only causes him to move to another place to stare at me. it's seriously SOOOOOO annoying. and he loves to ask me stupid questions to get an excuse to talk to me. i put on my hood and my headphones but he still loves to bug me. isn't that just a known rule.. when someone has their hood and headphones on to NOT disturb them?? i'm trying so hard not to snap at him and act like a total bitch. he KNOWS i would NEVER date him.
sorry just a rant.
sorry just a rant.
Posted by bloodflood
how do you get a scorpio man to STOP staring?? i have a coworker who loves to sneak glances at me. i've resorted to putting my head down and hiding behind this partition but that only causes him to move to another place to stare at me. it's seriously SOOOOOO annoying. and he loves to ask me stupid questions to get an excuse to talk to me. i put on my hood and my headphones but he still loves to bug me. isn't that just a known rule.. when someone has their hood and headphones on to NOT disturb them?? i'm trying so hard not to snap at him and act like a total bitch. he KNOWS i would NEVER date him.
sorry just a rant.
If that's not enough....do this....
Posted by MoonArtist
If that's not enough....do this....
You'll definitely have to give an update on how it worked with a scorpio 😄
my ex and his whole family do it??_.when we are having a conversation we made eye contacts but their eyes drift and look all over my face like my nose mouth forehead??_??_its so weird
I actually like that stare a lot. I know then that I have got their attention. Weather its work or social, they are listening now.
Its quite a funny feeling, because it feels like you and the scorp are the only people in the room, even if there are a hundred more.
But I also know people that find that stare uncomfortable. As a pisces Im able to deal with it and communicate through it with the scorp, this way the scorp and me are a step ahead of the others and its good to team up with someone without having to make a big announcement about it.
Its quite a funny feeling, because it feels like you and the scorp are the only people in the room, even if there are a hundred more.
But I also know people that find that stare uncomfortable. As a pisces Im able to deal with it and communicate through it with the scorp, this way the scorp and me are a step ahead of the others and its good to team up with someone without having to make a big announcement about it.
Posted by bloodflood
how do you get a scorpio man to STOP staring?? i have a coworker who loves to sneak glances at me. i've resorted to putting my head down and hiding behind this partition but that only causes him to move to another place to stare at me. it's seriously SOOOOOO annoying. and he loves to ask me stupid questions to get an excuse to talk to me. i put on my hood and my headphones but he still loves to bug me. isn't that just a known rule.. when someone has their hood and headphones on to NOT disturb them?? i'm trying so hard not to snap at him and act like a total bitch. he KNOWS i would NEVER date him.
sorry just a rant.
In my experience, the more you resist Scorpio attention, the more they seek to get it. When you hide or conceal yourself from him, that just challenges him to "work harder" to get you.
I would recommend confronting him directly. Just say politely, "Excuse me, but I would prefer if you stopped staring at me. It's a distraction in the workplace and it makes me uncomfortable." If that doesn't do the trick, request a meeting with your supervisor and explain the problem.
I'm convinced sexual harrassment laws were created and enacted specifically because of Scorpio males.
because of staring— seriously nobody can tell you to look the other way. And it doesnt even have to be sexual interest. Maybe he is not quite sure what to expect from her and is just trying to figure her out.
Posted by RabbitPosted by CreoleGeishaPosted by bloodflood
how do you get a scorpio man to STOP staring?? i have a coworker who loves to sneak glances at me. i've resorted to putting my head down and hiding behind this partition but that only causes him to move to another place to stare at me. it's seriously SOOOOOO annoying. and he loves to ask me stupid questions to get an excuse to talk to me. i put on my hood and my headphones but he still loves to bug me. isn't that just a known rule.. when someone has their hood and headphones on to NOT disturb them?? i'm trying so hard not to snap at him and act like a total bitch. he KNOWS i would NEVER date him.
sorry just a rant.
In my experience, the more you resist Scorpio attention, the more they seek to get it. When you hide or conceal yourself from him, that just challenges him to "work harder" to get you.
I would recommend confronting him directly. Just say politely, "Excuse me, but I would prefer if you stopped staring at me. It's a distraction in the workplace and it makes me uncomfortable." If that doesn't do the trick, request a meeting with your supervisor and explain the problem.
I'm convinced sexual harrassment laws were created and enacted specifically because of Scorpio males.
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Good morning, Rabbit. Now don't trip on what I posted. The Scorpio presence is very dominant. Very "Alpha" if you will. And it can be pretty disturbing to non-water signs. Particularly those more sensitive to psychic impressions around them.
I've attended seminars where discussion of behaviors cited as sexual harrassment are defined. And male employees are always advised "not to give female employees THAT LOOK." "THAT LOOK" is defined as "stripping" or "undressing with your eyes," you know? All the stuff Scorpios are lauded for.
thanks for the tips! because we work together in a close environment, i'm just unsure of how to handle things. though confronting him about it would be the most straightforward way and would assure that there are no questions about things, i think given the circumstances (which i won't go into detail about) it would put a strain on the working environment by making things very awkward to say the least. but like someone said, he might be staring because he's trying to figure me out. but at this point i really don't care the reason why, i just would like him to stop! it really unsettles me and i have all this frustration bottled up at him as a result. i wouldn't go as far as to say he is "stripping" me with his eyes or that it's a form of sexual harassment, but it definitely frustrates me. i almost want to tell him to just come straight to my desk and just stare at me instead of being sneaky about it. i know this is very "first world problem" of me, so i'll just stop talking and hope he gets the hint ONE DAY.
Posted by Rabbit
You've made a broad and ill-conceived statement which trivializes the experience of women whose careers and livelihoods have been destroyed by sexual harassment to justify some stereotypical cat lady astrology crap about "Scorpio men staring".
Not all Scorpio men stare and not all people who stare are Scorpios and not all staring is related to a man "wanting you".
Co-sign. WTF?
Posted by Rabbit
You've made a broad and ill-conceived statement which trivializes the experience of women whose careers and livelihoods have been destroyed by sexual harassment to justify some stereotypical cat lady astrology crap about "Scorpio men staring".
I thought I just posted an opinion. I am truly sorry if I have offended you or anyone else in any way.
And you're correct. sexual harrassment (of ANYONE) and employment law are not joking matters. But what I said about the coaching and training to minimize incidents of real/alleged sexual harrassment involve minimizing staring because this is viewed as rude, inappropriate, distracting, etc.
Not all Scorpio men stare and not all people who stare are Scorpios
I thought anybody is capable of staring. BTW, didn't you comment earlier that the purpose of the alleged "Scorpio stare" is to devour a human soul? That's pretty heavy-duty stuff if you really mean it. I presumed you were making light, casual conversation with strangers on a message board for entertainment purposes only. Am I mistaken? Because, honestly, I'd rather some randsom guy stare at me out of appreciation/bordom/desire/other random reason than because he craves fresh Libra soul energy for mid-morning snack. Just sayin'. There are vampires and there are vampires. The ones who suck blood aren't the worst and the most dangerous beasts alive tread on human feet, yadda yadda yadda...
and not all staring is related to a man "wanting you".click to expand
Agreed. I suspect most staring is an effect of daydreaming.
Posted by Rabbit
Not all Scorpio men stare and not all people who stare are Scorpios and not all staring is related to a man "wanting you".
Very true. They might be staring at a zit or some leftover lunch or that piece of lettuce stuck between your teeth or abysmal fashion sense.
I'll add this, and it's purely from observation: the scorpios I know love to get a reaction out of people and if they know they will and can then you're the new playtoy. A dear friend of mine knows I have NO poker face, that what I'm thinking or feeling is usually plastered on my face at any given moment. So, I'll be on the phone with him in my ear (headset) while in a store and he'll choose that moment to say the most sexy sexual suggestions possible knowing full well that I won't/can't say anything out loud that would give away what he's saying but also knowing that I'm trying desperately to not blush or look aroused while shopping.
Posted by CancerOnTheCuspPosted by Rabbit
Not all Scorpio men stare and not all people who stare are Scorpios and not all staring is related to a man "wanting you".
Very true. They might be staring at a zit or some leftover lunch or that piece of lettuce stuck between your teeth or abysmal fashion sense.click to expand
Or imagining a person trussed up and gutted like a pig on the spit.
Posted by CancerOnTheCuspPosted by Rabbit
Not all Scorpio men stare and not all people who stare are Scorpios and not all staring is related to a man "wanting you".
Very true. They might be staring at a zit or some leftover lunch or that piece of lettuce stuck between your teeth or abysmal fashion sense.click to expand
Or reading auras and trying to decide which soul is tastiest?
For many people, being stared at is an uncomfortable experience. In my home country, staring is considered impolite.
At the end of the day, perception is reality, and if people are being made to feel exploited in some way, that experience is real to THEM and it impacts the environment.
And, I apologize to the board, because clearly my remarks have left several individuals feeling insulted or exploited. Such was not my intent. I'm so sorry and I retract the offensive remark. Would it make everyone more comfortable if I deleted the post?
What Irresistible is trying to say is that the stare is a lot more of this, but inside their heads. 😉
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Posted by AksMirrorPosted by MoonArtist
What Irresistible is trying to say is that the stare is a lot more of this, but inside their heads. 😉
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Are you a scorpio male,is she a scorpio male?
you are not even a male.
But assuming and almost claiming your assumption is plain bluff.
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Hmmm....lets see....(exploratory groping....oooo! lovely pink girly bits!)....Nope, definitely not male. And I'm a darling moon child, not a scorpio. Harumph...my genteel sensibilities have been trod upon most viciously! ~sob~
For such atrocities to the most esteemed Pirate Sun Goddess you shall receive a whipping!
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Posted by AksMirrorPosted by CreoleGeishaPosted by CancerOnTheCuspPosted by Rabbit
Not all Scorpio men stare and not all people who stare are Scorpios and not all staring is related to a man "wanting you".
Very true. They might be staring at a zit or some leftover lunch or that piece of lettuce stuck between your teeth or abysmal fashion sense.
Or reading auras and trying to decide which soul is tastiest?
For many people, being stared at is an uncomfortable experience. In my home country, staring is considered impolite.
At the end of the day, perception is reality, and if people are being made to feel exploited in some way, that experience is real to THEM and it impacts the environment.
And, I apologize to the board, because clearly my remarks have left several individuals feeling insulted or exploited. Such was not my intent. I'm so sorry and I retract the offensive remark. Would it make everyone more comfortable if I deleted the post?
You air sign woman act smart and speak whatever non sense you like to and wan't to get away with it
claiming innocence.
You very well know what is part of culture and what is not,and I suppose you also know what does "sexual harassment" mean and how it is done,you are making all this up,just to substantiate
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Gracious, I'm very sorry. You are perfectly right. I did not put as much thought and sensitivity into my comment as I should have. Again, sorry.
When staring is put into the category of sexual harassment I will definitely put humor into it. But I lean towards irreverent humor, so there you go.
As for a person making another feel that they have to grant sexual favors to keep or get a job or otherwise use a position of power take free rein on sexually exploiting someone against their will, that's a different matter entirely. Those kinds of people need the law to drop down heavy on them as well as losing their livelihood. I don't like bullies.
As for a person making another feel that they have to grant sexual favors to keep or get a job or otherwise use a position of power take free rein on sexually exploiting someone against their will, that's a different matter entirely. Those kinds of people need the law to drop down heavy on them as well as losing their livelihood. I don't like bullies.
Posted by AksMirrorPosted by CreoleGeishaPosted by AksMirrorPosted by CreoleGeishaPosted by CancerOnTheCuspPosted by Rabbit
Not all Scorpio men stare and not all people who stare are Scorpios and not all staring is related to a man "wanting you".
Very true. They might be staring at a zit or some leftover lunch or that piece of lettuce stuck between your teeth or abysmal fashion sense.
Or reading auras and trying to decide which soul is tastiest?
For many people, being stared at is an uncomfortable experience. In my home country, staring is considered impolite.
At the end of the day, perception is reality, and if people are being made to feel exploited in some way, that experience is real to THEM and it impacts the environment.
And, I apologize to the board, because clearly my remarks have left several individuals feeling insulted or exploited. Such was not my intent. I'm so sorry and I retract the offensive remark. Would it make everyone more comfortable if I deleted the post?
You air sign woman act smart and speak whatever non sense you like to and wan't to get away with it
claiming innocence.
You very well know what is part of culture and what is not,and I suppose you also know what does "sexual harassment" mean and how it is done,you are making all this up,just to substantiate
your non sense.
Gracious, I'm very sorry. You are perfectly right. I did not put as much thought and sensitivity into my comment as I should have. Again, sorry.
I don't know whether you are just being sarcastic or really regret your statement,though I would like to believe later.
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Thank you for your kindness. Good luck to you as well. : )
lazer them right back atchya crazy ass starers
Interesting how "somebody looking at somebody else" turned into an arguement....
I will get my sunglasses out because here and there I look at people too :-/
(connection might get a little difficult if we cant look at eachother anymore... but.. oh well...)
I will get my sunglasses out because here and there I look at people too :-/
(connection might get a little difficult if we cant look at eachother anymore... but.. oh well...)
Lolz @ this thread
*Scorpio man staring into my soul*
Me: *yawn*
or if I'm feeling particularly snarky that day:
"Did anything get into your eye?"
Me: *yawn*
or if I'm feeling particularly snarky that day:
"Did anything get into your eye?"
Adowable.
Fluffy, itsy bity teeny Scorpios.
^If this didn't conjure a mental picture of puking in your mind, you aren't a Scorpio.
Fluffy, itsy bity teeny Scorpios.
^If this didn't conjure a mental picture of puking in your mind, you aren't a Scorpio.
We're alright.
Though I've seen vindictive Virgos and dear God..few Scorpios could rival that shit. Came out of the left field entirely.
Though I've seen vindictive Virgos and dear God..few Scorpios could rival that shit. Came out of the left field entirely.
I have to be. It's a tough, cold world out there. Need the heat 😄
I wasn't on here this weekend and just checked this thread again - just to clarify, I didn't mean anything bad by it! I'm actually really curious about the apparently multiple reasons behind that stare (maybe because I just find it very attractive?) honestly who knows exactly why anyone stares at anyone. And I didn't mean I really hate it (someone asked me what the problem was, if I also love it), that's just me being silly and showing both sides of the reaction. But all playfulness aside, that look is real and powerful, hence my questioning. Lots of insight here.... 🙂
I agree, Leoness, the look is real, it's KMO (Knock Me Over), and you don't want to be on the bad side of it.
Posted by AksMirrorPosted by CreoleGeishaPosted by bloodflood
how do you get a scorpio man to STOP staring?? i have a coworker who loves to sneak glances at me. i've resorted to putting my head down and hiding behind this partition but that only causes him to move to another place to stare at me. it's seriously SOOOOOO annoying. and he loves to ask me stupid questions to get an excuse to talk to me. i put on my hood and my headphones but he still loves to bug me. isn't that just a known rule.. when someone has their hood and headphones on to NOT disturb them?? i'm trying so hard not to snap at him and act like a total bitch. he KNOWS i would NEVER date him.
sorry just a rant.
In my experience, the more you resist Scorpio attention, the more they seek to get it. When you hide or conceal yourself from him, that just challenges him to "work harder" to get you.
I would recommend confronting him directly. Just say politely, "Excuse me, but I would prefer if you stopped staring at me. It's a distraction in the workplace and it makes me uncomfortable." If that doesn't do the trick, request a meeting with your supervisor and explain the problem.
I'm convinced sexual harrassment laws were created and enacted specifically because of Scorpio males.
lady,I just wan't to salute your stupidity
GRAND SALUTE in factclick to expand
LOL
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