Scorpios. Should i just run for the hills?

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AbelTurn4worse
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To make a long story short.

My Scorpio woman is something else.

She says she doesn't like me and wants nothing more then to be friends.

Yet she still gets jealous, she's insecure around me and will try to look her best or hide her face from me if she feels ugly.

She calls me names and says im weak or submissive to her yet, she gets her feelings hurt if I tell her im tired of her.

She went cold on me.

Claims I drain her emotionally.

Wants me to leave her alone yet will respond to my texts before leaving abruptly.

Only responds to my texts as far as I know.

Never wants to hang out yet goes out with her friends.

Doesn't want me on her social medias because she thinks shes ugly.

If shes in a good mood she'll be kissing me and holding onto me.

In a bad mood? Im this beast.

Is this a Scorpio thing or a crazy woman thing? I need help.
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Posted by Phantom_Limbo
Posted by AbelTurn4worse

To make a long story short.

My Scorpio woman is something else.

She says she doesn't like me and wants nothing more then to be friends.

- She doesn't like you at all or she doesn't like you romantically? Why should you be even friends with someone who doesn't like you?

- Romantically

Yet she still gets jealous, she's insecure around me and will try to look her best or hide her face from me if she feels ugly.

- Are you assuming these things or does she tell you these things?

- She told me this

She calls me names and says im weak or submissive to her yet, she gets her feelings hurt if I tell her im tired of her.

- That sounds mean and abusive.

She went cold on me.

- After she told you she just wanted to be friends? That seems normalish?

- We broke up long ago and remained close friends. Closer then her own friends but we sort or were romantic as in kissing sometimes and holding hands.

Claims I drain her emotionally.

- You currently drain her emotionally or that's why she broke things off?

- I should've specified we broke up awhile ago but we remained decently passionate about each other.

Around February this year is when she told me this but we were getting along perfectly fine until she got this new promotion at her job.

Wants me to leave her alone yet will respond to my texts before leaving abruptly.

- Maybe she has manners and thinks it's rude to not answer a text. What do you mean about leaving abruptly?

- We will have a conversation and then she'll randomly end it and ignore me.

Only responds to my texts as far as I know.

- As opposed to whose texts?

- Her friends, family, co-workers, etc.

Never wants to hang out yet goes out with her friends.

- You broke up, right? So she would go out with her friends and not you.

- Again and this was my fault for not mentioning this. We were hanging out fine. In fact, she told me she'd rather hang out with me then her friends. Its complicated. Her and her friends.

Doesn't want me on her social medias because she thinks shes ugly.

- Or she doesn't want you acting like her boyfriend on social media and cramping her style .

- Even when we were together she got mad at me for finding her social medias and made me block her which I didn't.

She told me its because shes ugly. I am only going by what she told me.

If shes in a good mood she'll be kissing me and holding onto me.

- Is this current or was this before? If it's current, she's giving very mixed messages.

- back when we were hanging out.

In a bad mood? Im this beast.

Is this a Scorpio thing or a crazy woman thing? I need help.

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I realized I should've gave more detail. I was kinda weighing everything out and trying to get an answer.

BASICALLY.

We broke up back in October 2018 but remained close.

We had a weird relationship I guess.

She gave me different reasons for the break up but it was mutual.

We were both very passionate and possessive of each other.

(I am a leo)

We were almost inseparable and i know all of that sounds weird to some of you but to us, it was normal and we cared deeply but I guess she was scared.

Now all of the sudden after this job promotion shes withdrawn and mean.

She was always insecure and now she's even more insecure which I dont understand.

She's suddenly doesn't want to be bothered at all.

She's telling me how much she almost hates her friends.

And going out with them at the same time and when I question her she says its to distract her from everything going on in her life.

I feel offended because apparently im to much for her emotionally I guess and shes hanging out with friends she doesn't even like.

So now im at a point where I weigh all of that out and feeling like going my own way.
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AbelTurn4worse
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I realized I should've gave more detail. I was kinda weighing everything out and trying to get an answer.

BASICALLY.

We broke up back in October 2018 but remained close.

We had a weird relationship I guess.

She gave me different reasons for the break up but it was mutual.

We were both very passionate and possessive of each other.

(I am a leo)

We were almost inseparable and i know all of that sounds weird to some of you but to us, it was normal and we cared deeply but I guess she was scared.

Now all of the sudden after this job promotion shes withdrawn and mean.

She was always insecure and now she's even more insecure which I dont understand.

She's suddenly doesn't want to be bothered at all.

She's telling me how much she almost hates her friends.

And going out with them at the same time and when I question her she says its to distract her from everything going on in her life.

I feel offended because apparently im to much for her emotionally I guess and shes hanging out with friends she doesn't even like.

So now im at a point where I weigh all of that out and feeling like going my own way.
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Posted by AbelTurn4worse

I realized I should've gave more detail. I was kinda weighing everything out and trying to get an answer.

BASICALLY.

We broke up back in October 2018 but remained close.

We had a weird relationship I guess.

She gave me different reasons for the break up but it was mutual.

We were both very passionate and possessive of each other.

(I am a leo)

We were almost inseparable and i know all of that sounds weird to some of you but to us, it was normal and we cared deeply but I guess she was scared.

Now all of the sudden after this job promotion shes withdrawn and mean.

She was always insecure and now she's even more insecure which I dont understand.

She's suddenly doesn't want to be bothered at all.

She's telling me how much she almost hates her friends.

And going out with them at the same time and when I question her she says its to distract her from everything going on in her life.

I feel offended because apparently im to much for her emotionally I guess and shes hanging out with friends she doesn't even like.

So now im at a point where I weigh all of that out and feeling like going my own way.


Your added details doesn't change the advice given above. She's a mess. Her insecurity can't be fixed by you. She was likely that way BEFORE you two began to date. Let her go.
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AbelTurn4worse
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Posted by pisceanloves

You used UGLY twice while talking about her. Who's idea was that her appearance is way below average?

I'd say there's lot to the story than you are saying and her insecurities must be coming from somewhere


Im using her own words.

Shes far from ugly in my eyes.

I've seen guys checking her out and girls too!

Her insecurities I honestly don't know where they stem from at this point besides some personal things that shes been through.

I've asked her many times if I ever made her feel that way and she insists it has nothing to do with me.

She won't open up to me about them so I just try not to press.