Awamitam
@Awamitam
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Trouble in the bedroom
Yup. All you’ll get from strangers is negative feedback to get you in even worst shape.
You should have an open discussion with him and see what’s going on and how you can help.
There was one couple in a news story that made a pact to have sex everyday for a month to get the intimacy level back to where it was supposed to be. Having short quickies and longer sessions. It brought them closer in the end.
Once a month is a long time to go without sex in a marriage when you see him daily.
You should have an open discussion with him and see what’s going on and how you can help.
There was one couple in a news story that made a pact to have sex everyday for a month to get the intimacy level back to where it was supposed to be. Having short quickies and longer sessions. It brought them closer in the end.
Once a month is a long time to go without sex in a marriage when you see him daily.
Posted by SlipperySlope
Porn addiction 100%
https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/
https://nofap.com/
Yeah. This Is a very legit reason people stop having sex with their partners
That's a nightmare. So sorry. But, me personally, I'd make him by me a full size high quality sex doll. I'd be fucking it to gangsta rap. I ain't playin.
Posted by VenusAquarius
That's a nightmare. So sorry. But, me personally, I'd make him by me a full size high quality sex doll. I'd be fucking it to gangsta rap. I ain't playin.
This reminds me of that movie Colors when dude was fucking that blow up rabbit to rap music! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
"After we got married".....
This often happens, sadly 😥
This often happens, sadly 😥
Posted by VenusAquarius
That's a nightmare. So sorry. But, me personally, I'd make him by me a full size high quality sex doll. I'd be fucking it to gangsta rap. I ain't playin.
You are a...moron!
Posted by peachy06
Personally whenever I act like this it's because I need distance. I'm not the cuddle or affectionate type, it's kinda draining.
You aren’t ANY kind of type. You are just fucking retard. Have life treating you badly?
Posted by GobbyPosted by Black-Mamba
because erectile dysfunction is a zodiac specific problem
Well, Scorpios are governed by the genitals and, therefore, have to take extra care down there. Also, I've heard a few stories about middle-aged Scorpio men not being able to get it up...click to expand
Is that why they always look like they got a brick up their ass?
Posted by saggurl88Posted by VenusAquarius
That's a nightmare. So sorry. But, me personally, I'd make him by me a full size high quality sex doll. I'd be fucking it to gangsta rap. I ain't playin.
This reminds me of that movie Colors when dude was fucking that blow up rabbit to rap music! 🤣🤣🤣🤣click to expand
Wut? I don't remember that scene
Posted by GobbyPosted by Black-Mamba
because erectile dysfunction is a zodiac specific problem
Well, Scorpios are governed by the genitals and, therefore, have to take extra care down there. Also, I've heard a few stories about middle-aged Scorpio men not being able to get it up...click to expand
It isn’t a Scorpio issue! It’s all of you men issue.
Few stories my ass!
I’ve lived with your sign who isn’t a Scorpio...same fucking issue. Lazy dick Cap syndrome I called it!
Keep paws off Scorpios! 🧟♀️
Posted by MyStarsShine
"After we got married".....
This often happens, sadly 😥
1 year marriage after 10 of together and he lost his dick? No!
Something had changed in her. I swear something happened with her and he just lost his mojo.
But woman will never admit. Maybe she doesn’t even know what happened...🤦♀️
He is middle aged?
If so, have him checked by a doctor for enlarged prostate. It can cause rectile problems.
It could also be that his brain has a million tabs open, basically distracting him.
Could also be a bloodflow problem.
Please, dont make an issue out of it towards him, it will only cause more problems in long run. Instead, make it talkable. Try to make him feel at ease. Erectile problems is a very common thing amongst men above 40...
Seek professional help from a doctor.
If so, have him checked by a doctor for enlarged prostate. It can cause rectile problems.
It could also be that his brain has a million tabs open, basically distracting him.
Could also be a bloodflow problem.
Please, dont make an issue out of it towards him, it will only cause more problems in long run. Instead, make it talkable. Try to make him feel at ease. Erectile problems is a very common thing amongst men above 40...
Seek professional help from a doctor.
Posted by GemitatiPosted by MyStarsShine
"After we got married".....
This often happens, sadly 😥
1 year marriage after 10 of together and he lost his dick? No!
Something had changed in her. I swear something happened with her and he just lost his mojo.
But woman will never admit. Maybe she doesn’t even know what happened...🤦♀️click to expand
It totally happens....there have been couples where after marriage the guy has cheated soon after. Some kind of psychological warfare happens lol. Wife aint just lover anymore
🤪
I just found this.....it’s a thing!
https://www.womenshealthmag.com/beauty/a19925827/why-men-cheat-0/
https://www.womenshealthmag.com/beauty/a19925827/why-men-cheat-0/
Posted by GobbyPosted by Black-Mamba
because erectile dysfunction is a zodiac specific problem
Well, Scorpios are governed by the genitals and, therefore, have to take extra care down there. Also, I've heard a few stories about middle-aged Scorpio men not being able to get it up...click to expand
It probably has to do with having other more important things to do.
I’ve been with the same person for little over 13 years. We separated a few years back and moved on from one another only to reunite again....
Intimacy was never our problem but at a certain point in our relationship when we separated I found that we lost our compassion for one another.
More sex isn’t the solution.
What needs to be given time is your love and compassion for one another. Intimacy doesn’t just come in the form of touching, intimacy needs to start in the mind first. How you love someone silently without touching is how you truly give to them. We often times lose touch with the human individual we love and their companionship becomes less rare and taken for granted.
I know my advice won’t seam like advice but...
Don’t focus on sex or touching. Don’t turn to sex or touching to express love. Instead focus on actions - things your husband enjoys. Focus on conversation - talk freely about everything. Focus on quality time - without distractions. Spend more time apart doing things you enjoy.
It becomes easier to love someone more who releases the pressure of constant displays of affection. Seeing them independently enjoying their life allows you to feel less stressed about how much they need you to respond with love.
This is only my initial advice. Once you’ve broken the habit that sex means love.....and you’ve replaced love with actual connection- then I’d start with the real repair together.
It’s not all your job to fix this but you are aware it’s a problem and you can find ways to help your relationship. I suggest making sure you stay a priority to yourself....and you will explore a huge part of yourself by regaining independence and seeking things that make you happy.
It takes a lot to talk about this. Sex doesn’t define a relationship. It’s a bonus of the relationship. Sometimes you have to focus on loving the soul first.
Intimacy was never our problem but at a certain point in our relationship when we separated I found that we lost our compassion for one another.
More sex isn’t the solution.
What needs to be given time is your love and compassion for one another. Intimacy doesn’t just come in the form of touching, intimacy needs to start in the mind first. How you love someone silently without touching is how you truly give to them. We often times lose touch with the human individual we love and their companionship becomes less rare and taken for granted.
I know my advice won’t seam like advice but...
Don’t focus on sex or touching. Don’t turn to sex or touching to express love. Instead focus on actions - things your husband enjoys. Focus on conversation - talk freely about everything. Focus on quality time - without distractions. Spend more time apart doing things you enjoy.
It becomes easier to love someone more who releases the pressure of constant displays of affection. Seeing them independently enjoying their life allows you to feel less stressed about how much they need you to respond with love.
This is only my initial advice. Once you’ve broken the habit that sex means love.....and you’ve replaced love with actual connection- then I’d start with the real repair together.
It’s not all your job to fix this but you are aware it’s a problem and you can find ways to help your relationship. I suggest making sure you stay a priority to yourself....and you will explore a huge part of yourself by regaining independence and seeking things that make you happy.
It takes a lot to talk about this. Sex doesn’t define a relationship. It’s a bonus of the relationship. Sometimes you have to focus on loving the soul first.
Posted by emeraldgemPosted by bmoon8Posted by GemitatiPosted by peachy06
Personally whenever I act like this it's because I need distance. I'm not the cuddle or affectionate type, it's kinda draining.
You aren’t ANY kind of type. You are just fucking retard. Have life treating you badly?
That was really rude and mean of you. 😢
She calls me a bitch and moron regularly. I think it's a sign of her love.......? (shrugs) 🙂click to expand
Lol she’s a feral little beast asshole with no heart
Posted by emeraldgem
@MyStarsShine
Quote from the article: "Also, "newlyweds have this sense about cheating that if you're going to do it, do it now,"
Me: LOL!
Get it over with 🥴🥳😂
So I don't want to scare you but my ex husband had issues in the bedroom and all intimacy and it didn't get better, it got worse and it broke my heart. He was cheating on me for years.
He had insecurities about his sexual performance as well. He had low testosterone, as well.
But the root of most of his issues was that closet of his. He was so disconnected from me, he told me after I found out, he couldn't believe I hadn't cheated bc he was like an igloo to live with.
You need to get him to open up and maybe therapy, a getaway, one where you two are like you were when dating.
He had insecurities about his sexual performance as well. He had low testosterone, as well.
But the root of most of his issues was that closet of his. He was so disconnected from me, he told me after I found out, he couldn't believe I hadn't cheated bc he was like an igloo to live with.
You need to get him to open up and maybe therapy, a getaway, one where you two are like you were when dating.
is he afraid of having children maybe ?
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I’m a really affectionate person who is always touching and hugging and kissing. Before getting married, he was too. I felt desired and loved.
After we got married, things slowly started to slip. We would start to fool around, everything would be good, but we would start to have sex, he would get soft. This went on for a few months until he just stopped trying. He didn’t even want to kiss anymore. He grew so distant. It felt like whenever we would have sex, it was me initiating. He always telling me he loves me, and doing things for me, being open and honest about other aspects but was never showing it physically.
I brush it off like it doesn’t bother me but it really does. We have sex like once a month. Being the one always initiating makes me feel like this is a one sided thing. I don’t feel wanted or desired, I feel like when we are intimate, it’s like a gesture of pity.
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