How do you get over a broken heart?

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SOOOOO

Me and my Sagittarius decided to 'mutually' break up on valentines day. Long story short I'm trying to get over my broken heart obviously it won't be anytime soon, but I've looked at so many articles on how us Taurus's usually get over break ups and its mainly just time and healing by being distant. Like there is no other way really.

I was just interested in how my fellow Tauruses get over their break ups and how you deal With it. Maybe I can take some of your advice? Idk

I am like a total mess and I feel like it doesn't help that I have moon in Scorpio, because my emotions are like 10x more intense than it should be. :p
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Posted by thatdiamgirl
SOOOOO

Me and my Sagittarius decided to 'mutually' break up on valentines day. Long story short I'm trying to get over my broken heart obviously it won't be anytime soon, but I've looked at so many articles on how us Taurus's usually get over break ups and its mainly just time and healing by being distant. Like there is no other way really.

I was just interested in how my fellow Tauruses get over their break ups and how you deal With it. Maybe I can take some of your advice? Idk

I am like a total mess and I feel like it doesn't help that I have moon in Scorpio, because my emotions are like 10x more intense than it should be. :p
You better get with the program because it's going to take the Sag about an hour to get over a break-up. Like Gemini they move-on quickly.

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Posted by Noni05
Talk about the bad things

Write when needed about this

Release everything

Reclaim yourself the neglected part of you

Be you again.

Expand yourself reach my goals focus your direction on YOU

Recover physically and emotionally

( It ended )... REMIND YOURSELF

I am beautiful, strong, vibrant and extraordinary ...Nothing has changed. REMINDERS!

Write cry talk ....

Shake it off & you'll begin to move on ..


Writing about it does make me feel a little bit better. Hopefully sooner than later I can snap out of it and build up the motivation to start focusing on myself. I am only 18 and so young I shouldn't let this get to me but god its so harddd
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Posted by Celticmoongoddess89
Keep yourself distracted! Hangout with friends and family, take up new hobbies, go to the gym. Just occupy your time!! My ex broke up with me months ago and I still haven't gotten over him. Ugh. I blame it on my cancer moon. Lol. Anyway, I hope this helps!! 🙂
I'm sorry:/ I know how that feels 100% ugh. what sign was your guy? And yeah my aunt is buying me a pass to the gym so I can at least have something to go out and do. I recently moved to a hour away from where I originally lived to be w my family so I have like no friends here.
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Keep yourself distracted! Hangout with friends and family, take up new hobbies, go to the gym. Just occupy your time!! My ex broke up with me months ago and I still haven't gotten over him. Ugh. I blame it on my cancer moon. Lol. Anyway, I hope this helps!! 🙂
I'm sorry:/ I know how that feels 100% ugh. what sign was your guy? And yeah my aunt is buying me a pass to the gym so I can at least have something to go out and do. I recently moved to a hour away from where I originally lived to be w my family so I have like no friends here.
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He was a cap sun/Pisces moon and suuuppper gorgeous! I still have to see him at work but we both act like the other doesn't exist. Lol. We taurean women are awesome so I know you won't have any problems making new friends. ?
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Step 1: Cry your eyes out while watching 50 First Dates and eating pizza/chocolate/ anything your heart/tummy desires

Step 2: Call your friends for they know what to do with a Taurus' sad ass and will be happy to assist

Step 3: Repeat step 2 and continue to vent until you feel a little relieved

Step 4: Start to occupy yourself with hobbies, working out, exercise that credit card(my fav), anything that will bring peace into your mind, body and soul

Step 5 (only if you have a pet): Spend more time with said pet, give them all the love they deserve, it's also helping you.

Step 6: Once you laugh at something so loud for the first time in a long time, that's when life starts to get a little easier for you.

Step 7: Celebrate your singleness. Put on your "freakum" dress and party and just enjoy life. Someone worthy will someday come into your life and hopefully cherish & love you.

Good Luck 🙂
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Posted by Noni05
Talk about the bad things

Write when needed about this

Release everything

Reclaim yourself the neglected part of you

Be you again.

Expand yourself reach my goals focus your direction on YOU

Recover physically and emotionally

( It ended )... REMIND YOURSELF

I am beautiful, strong, vibrant and extraordinary ...Nothing has changed. REMINDERS!

Write cry talk ....

Shake it off & you'll begin to move on ..


Writing about it does make me feel a little bit better. Hopefully sooner than later I can snap out of it and build up the motivation to start focusing on myself. I am only 18 and so young I shouldn't let this get to me but god its so harddd
Grab a notebook and write away

Write all the things that he did that made you mad

All the things that he should have done differently

Get your anger out!!

Forgive him!! Forgive yourself for feeling this way!'

It's okay to cry... tell yourself that you accept it's over!!! Delete all forms of contact to him!!

Let it all outttt!! Then breathe and tell yourself your ready to bounce back up!!

Get up go places meet people go hang with friends laugh and continue moving forward!!

You're young he's not the first man that will make you feel this way!! You'll love again your hurt again it gets easier as you get older!!! We become pros at heartbreak each time!!!
Then one day you'll meet the one that will never break your heart that one that will love you till the end of time and he will put a ring on your finger!!!! In the meantime Enjoy the journey ....
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This only happens in fairy tales; fairy tales don't happen in real life.

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I tell my friends I'll be a mess for a bit and not to worry. Get really drunk for a couple weeks and paint. Realize I am better off and think about why it wasn't right. Cry. Laugh. Distract. Maybe even a little sexy distraction. Done. Work on things that make me healthy happy and move on.

Allow yourself to feel the emotion. Otherwise it will stay with you longer than it needs to.
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Posted by thatdiamgirl
SOOOOO

Me and my Sagittarius decided to 'mutually' break up on valentines day. Long story short I'm trying to get over my broken heart obviously it won't be anytime soon, but I've looked at so many articles on how us Taurus's usually get over break ups and its mainly just time and healing by being distant. Like there is no other way really.

I was just interested in how my fellow Tauruses get over their break ups and how you deal With it. Maybe I can take some of your advice? Idk

I am like a total mess and I feel like it doesn't help that I have moon in Scorpio, because my emotions are like 10x more intense than it should be. :p
I hope you die from it ?