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So those of you who know the bullette that i've been posting about well she rejected me in silence,i cant understand why she would do something like that it seems very childish

She agreed to hang out with me this nov.14 then i messaged her 2 days before she didnt respond so i said ok thats fine the day before i msg again saying "are we still going to hang out tomorrow?" She just seen zoned me

She could have just told me that no i cant or just make an excuse like im busy something came up but just reading my message not responding, and honoring our plan

I just cant anymore,i guess im going to let this one go😧something in me felt like its going to be ok when after she unfriended me and i reach out to her she responded and even agreed to hang out but now i dont know
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Posted by scentedGhost
She is not yet ready or she is not interested in you. But I suggest if you really like her, message her again about your true intention and make things clear for her or at least you've got the ball to let her see and feel how you really care, if she ignores it again, move-on!

i'll take the she is not interested,if i do that woudnt i just annoy her as being seen zoned means no?and i dont like her to think that im chasing her because im not,i want her to be my friend but i guess she doesnt want too.one thing would be she might be scared coz i can see my effect on her when i see her she coudnt keep her cool with me,she has been doing this for a long time going hot and cold with me
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Wait hold up....can’t keep up with all your sanchas.

Is this the girl crush or your long term gf Scorpio?

oh and dont worry my scorpio girl know,she knows that i get a crush once in a while and she trusts me that i woudnt cheat on her
Umm, so she knows you have a gf?
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yes she knows why?just to clear it up they both know,i've been trying to be friends with this taurus girl for quite sometime now
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Wait hold up....can’t keep up with all your sanchas.

Is this the girl crush or your long term gf Scorpio?

oh and dont worry my scorpio girl know,she knows that i get a crush once in a while and she trusts me that i woudnt cheat on her
What a beautifully healthy communion

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oh yeah like some hypocrite who pretends that they dont feel attraction or admiration with someone else sure
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Wait hold up....can’t keep up with all your sanchas.

Is this the girl crush or your long term gf Scorpio?

oh and dont worry my scorpio girl know,she knows that i get a crush once in a while and she trusts me that i woudnt cheat on her
What a beautifully healthy communion



oh yeah like some hypocrite who pretends that they dont feel attraction or admiration with someone else sure

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Can I offer you a pair of chanclas
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Posted by bittercupcake
Wait hold up....can’t keep up with all your sanchas.

Is this the girl crush or your long term gf Scorpio?

oh and dont worry my scorpio girl know,she knows that i get a crush once in a while and she trusts me that i woudnt cheat on her
What a beautifully healthy communion



oh yeah like some hypocrite who pretends that they dont feel attraction or admiration with someone else sure


Can I offer you a pair of chanclas

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sure😄deliver it with love
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Posted by Aquarius3189
Posted by bittercupcake
Wait hold up....can’t keep up with all your sanchas.

Is this the girl crush or your long term gf Scorpio?

oh and dont worry my scorpio girl know,she knows that i get a crush once in a while and she trusts me that i woudnt cheat on her
What a beautifully healthy communion



oh yeah like some hypocrite who pretends that they dont feel attraction or admiration with someone else sure


Can I offer you a pair of chanclas



sure😄deliver it with love
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I refuse to be one of the whores in the harem.

But I will be your chancla supplier.
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Posted by Aquarius3189
Posted by SmeWman
Posted by Aquarius3189
Posted by SmeWman
Posted by Aquarius3189
Posted by bittercupcake
Wait hold up....can’t keep up with all your sanchas.

Is this the girl crush or your long term gf Scorpio?

oh and dont worry my scorpio girl know,she knows that i get a crush once in a while and she trusts me that i woudnt cheat on her
What a beautifully healthy communion



oh yeah like some hypocrite who pretends that they dont feel attraction or admiration with someone else sure


Can I offer you a pair of chanclas



sure😄deliver it with love
I refuse to be one of the whores in the harem.

But I will be your chancla supplier.

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you cant fight it even if you want too😉so just let yourself be drawn to the dark side😈1 chancla a month is that ok?
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Posted by Aquarius3189
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Posted by Aquarius3189
Posted by bittercupcake
Wait hold up....can’t keep up with all your sanchas.

Is this the girl crush or your long term gf Scorpio?

oh and dont worry my scorpio girl know,she knows that i get a crush once in a while and she trusts me that i woudnt cheat on her
What a beautifully healthy communion



oh yeah like some hypocrite who pretends that they dont feel attraction or admiration with someone else sure


Can I offer you a pair of chanclas



sure😄deliver it with love
I refuse to be one of the whores in the harem.

But I will be your chancla supplier.



you cant fight it even if you want too😉so just let yourself be drawn to the dark side😈1 chancla a month is that ok?

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Only if you answer me this. Is your other half mentally deranged or a retarded individual of sorts
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Posted by Aquarius3189
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Posted by Aquarius3189
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Posted by Aquarius3189
Posted by SmeWman
Posted by Aquarius3189
Posted by bittercupcake
Wait hold up....can’t keep up with all your sanchas.

Is this the girl crush or your long term gf Scorpio?

oh and dont worry my scorpio girl know,she knows that i get a crush once in a while and she trusts me that i woudnt cheat on her
What a beautifully healthy communion



oh yeah like some hypocrite who pretends that they dont feel attraction or admiration with someone else sure


Can I offer you a pair of chanclas



sure😄deliver it with love
I refuse to be one of the whores in the harem.

But I will be your chancla supplier.



you cant fight it even if you want too😉so just let yourself be drawn to the dark side😈1 chancla a month is that ok?


Only if you answer me this. Is your other half mentally deranged or a retarded individual of sorts

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well is your other half one of those whores?
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Posted by Aquarius3189
Posted by SmeWman
Posted by Aquarius3189
Posted by bittercupcake
Wait hold up....can’t keep up with all your sanchas.

Is this the girl crush or your long term gf Scorpio?

oh and dont worry my scorpio girl know,she knows that i get a crush once in a while and she trusts me that i woudnt cheat on her
What a beautifully healthy communion



oh yeah like some hypocrite who pretends that they dont feel attraction or admiration with someone else sure


Can I offer you a pair of chanclas



sure😄deliver it with love
I refuse to be one of the whores in the harem.

But I will be your chancla supplier.



you cant fight it even if you want too😉so just let yourself be drawn to the dark side😈1 chancla a month is that ok?


Only if you answer me this. Is your other half mentally deranged or a retarded individual of sorts



well is your other half one of those whores?

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My other half is a chancla
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Posted by AquaNextDoor
Wtf hope your gf finds better soon - you both sound very young.. atleast you do.

Well she's a scorp right? I bet she already laid her eyes on someone else behind your back since you were eyeing dat taurus girl 😱 Now taurus got rid of your weird ass - how awkward

you got it all wrong😂we have very different culture,a crush in our country is just admiration my gf knows this im not making a move on the taurus,figures people here are very judgemental people think they are so mature😂so think what you want to think but your 105% wrong
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Posted by Aquarius3189
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Posted by Aquarius3189
Posted by bittercupcake
Wait hold up....can’t keep up with all your sanchas.

Is this the girl crush or your long term gf Scorpio?

oh and dont worry my scorpio girl know,she knows that i get a crush once in a while and she trusts me that i woudnt cheat on her
What a beautifully healthy communion



oh yeah like some hypocrite who pretends that they dont feel attraction or admiration with someone else sure


Can I offer you a pair of chanclas



sure😄deliver it with love
I refuse to be one of the whores in the harem.

But I will be your chancla supplier.



you cant fight it even if you want too😉so just let yourself be drawn to the dark side😈1 chancla a month is that ok?


Only if you answer me this. Is your other half mentally deranged or a retarded individual of sorts



well is your other half one of those whores?


My other half is a chancla

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Ah so thats why,are you on crack right now?😂
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So those of you who know the bullette that i've been posting about well she rejected me in silence,i cant understand why she would do something like that it seems very childish

She agreed to hang out with me this nov.14 then i messaged her 2 days before she didnt respond so i said ok thats fine the day before i msg again saying "are we still going to hang out tomorrow?" She just seen zoned me

She could have just told me that no i cant or just make an excuse like im busy something came up but just reading my message not responding, and honoring our plan

I just cant anymore,i guess im going to let this one go😧something in me felt like its going to be ok when after she unfriended me and i reach out to her she responded and even agreed to hang out but now i dont know
Unfortunately she just wasn't that into you. Either that or she lost interest between the time she agreed to see you and now. Don't count on her keeping her word to hang out again, just let it go. Obviously there are a lot of details missing, but from what little I can gather you were into her more than she was into you.

Hence why you checked up on her twice. That's typically something a woman would do when she wants to see you, but isn't confident about the plans. By checking in twice you showed that you weren't confident. When she didn't reply the first time, that should've been the hint that she wasn't going to make it out. My guess is that she either made plans with you that she didn't plan on keeping or she was turned off when you checked up on her the first time. Either way her attraction level for you just wasn't high enough.

Question, when did you set the plan to see her today and how any times have you contacted her since setting those plans?
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Wtf hope your gf finds better soon - you both sound very young.. atleast you do.

Well she's a scorp right? I bet she already laid her eyes on someone else behind your back since you were eyeing dat taurus girl 😱 Now taurus got rid of your weird ass - how awkward

you got it all wrong😂we have very different culture,a crush in our country is just admiration my gf knows this im not making a move on the taurus,figures people here are very judgemental people think they are so mature😂so think what you want to think but your 105% wrong
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Wait what? Something doesn't sound right here. Are you trying to be the Taurus girl's friend?
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Wtf hope your gf finds better soon - you both sound very young.. atleast you do.

Well she's a scorp right? I bet she already laid her eyes on someone else behind your back since you were eyeing dat taurus girl 😱 Now taurus got rid of your weird ass - how awkward

you got it all wrong😂we have very different culture,a crush in our country is just admiration my gf knows this im not making a move on the taurus,figures people here are very judgemental people think they are so mature😂so think what you want to think but your 105% wrong
Wait what? Something doesn't sound right here. Are you trying to be the Taurus girl's friend?
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He has a Scorpio girlfriend and also wants the Taurus girl to entertain his unplutonic advances

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Wtf hope your gf finds better soon - you both sound very young.. atleast you do.

Well she's a scorp right? I bet she already laid her eyes on someone else behind your back since you were eyeing dat taurus girl 😱 Now taurus got rid of your weird ass - how awkward

you got it all wrong😂we have very different culture,a crush in our country is just admiration my gf knows this im not making a move on the taurus,figures people here are very judgemental people think they are so mature😂so think what you want to think but your 105% wrong
Wait what? Something doesn't sound right here. Are you trying to be the Taurus girl's friend?
He has a Scorpio girlfriend and also wants the Taurus girl to entertain his unplutonic advances

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Well that would expain the rejection.
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So those of you who know the bullette that i've been posting about well she rejected me in silence,i cant understand why she would do something like that it seems very childish

She agreed to hang out with me this nov.14 then i messaged her 2 days before she didnt respond so i said ok thats fine the day before i msg again saying "are we still going to hang out tomorrow?" She just seen zoned me

She could have just told me that no i cant or just make an excuse like im busy something came up but just reading my message not responding, and honoring our plan

I just cant anymore,i guess im going to let this one go😧something in me felt like its going to be ok when after she unfriended me and i reach out to her she responded and even agreed to hang out but now i dont know
Unfortunately she just wasn't that into you. Either that or she lost interest between the time she agreed to see you and now. Don't count on her keeping her word to hang out again, just let it go. Obviously there are a lot of details missing, but from what little I can gather you were into her more than she was into you.

Hence why you checked up on her twice. That's typically something a woman would do when she wants to see you, but isn't confident about the plans. By checking in twice you showed that you weren't confident. When she didn't reply the first time, that should've been the hint that she wasn't going to make it out. My guess is that she either made plans with you that she didn't plan on keeping or she was turned off when you checked up on her the first time. Either way her attraction level for you just wasn't high enough.

Question, when did you set the plan to see her today and how any times have you contacted her since setting those plans?
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yes i figured that on my own,doesnt matter if she still likes me or not i dont like her the same way either thats why im confident on asking her to hang out just as friends as i dont have a lot of friends my other friend is busy at the moment so i asked her just to unwind and relieve my stress,i set the plan 2wks ago then i contacted her 2 days before the said date then the day before,honestly no one deserves to be treated that way she could have said she cant go i would understand but seen zoning is just so unetiquette when you made plans with someone
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So those of you who know the bullette that i've been posting about well she rejected me in silence,i cant understand why she would do something like that it seems very childish

She agreed to hang out with me this nov.14 then i messaged her 2 days before she didnt respond so i said ok thats fine the day before i msg again saying "are we still going to hang out tomorrow?" She just seen zoned me

She could have just told me that no i cant or just make an excuse like im busy something came up but just reading my message not responding, and honoring our plan

I just cant anymore,i guess im going to let this one go😧something in me felt like its going to be ok when after she unfriended me and i reach out to her she responded and even agreed to hang out but now i dont know
Unfortunately she just wasn't that into you. Either that or she lost interest between the time she agreed to see you and now. Don't count on her keeping her word to hang out again, just let it go. Obviously there are a lot of details missing, but from what little I can gather you were into her more than she was into you.

Hence why you checked up on her twice. That's typically something a woman would do when she wants to see you, but isn't confident about the plans. By checking in twice you showed that you weren't confident. When she didn't reply the first time, that should've been the hint that she wasn't going to make it out. My guess is that she either made plans with you that she didn't plan on keeping or she was turned off when you checked up on her the first time. Either way her attraction level for you just wasn't high enough.

Question, when did you set the plan to see her today and how any times have you contacted her since setting those plans?

yes i figured that on my own,doesnt matter if she still likes me or not i dont like her the same way either thats why im confident on asking her to hang out just as friends as i dont have a lot of friends my other friend is busy at the moment so i asked her just to unwind and relieve my stress,i set the plan 2wks ago then i contacted her 2 days before the said date then the day before,honestly no one deserves to be treated that way she could have said she cant go i would understand but seen zoning is just so unetiquette when you made plans with someone
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Well if this was just a platonic situation, then it shouldn't matter. Just find someone else to be friends with, possibly a guy. It's a bit dramatic to say that you were "rejected" if you weren't looking for anything serious in the first place.
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So those of you who know the bullette that i've been posting about well she rejected me in silence,i cant understand why she would do something like that it seems very childish

She agreed to hang out with me this nov.14 then i messaged her 2 days before she didnt respond so i said ok thats fine the day before i msg again saying "are we still going to hang out tomorrow?" She just seen zoned me

She could have just told me that no i cant or just make an excuse like im busy something came up but just reading my message not responding, and honoring our plan

I just cant anymore,i guess im going to let this one go😧something in me felt like its going to be ok when after she unfriended me and i reach out to her she responded and even agreed to hang out but now i dont know
Unfortunately she just wasn't that into you. Either that or she lost interest between the time she agreed to see you and now. Don't count on her keeping her word to hang out again, just let it go. Obviously there are a lot of details missing, but from what little I can gather you were into her more than she was into you.

Hence why you checked up on her twice. That's typically something a woman would do when she wants to see you, but isn't confident about the plans. By checking in twice you showed that you weren't confident. When she didn't reply the first time, that should've been the hint that she wasn't going to make it out. My guess is that she either made plans with you that she didn't plan on keeping or she was turned off when you checked up on her the first time. Either way her attraction level for you just wasn't high enough.

Question, when did you set the plan to see her today and how any times have you contacted her since setting those plans?

yes i figured that on my own,doesnt matter if she still likes me or not i dont like her the same way either thats why im confident on asking her to hang out just as friends as i dont have a lot of friends my other friend is busy at the moment so i asked her just to unwind and relieve my stress,i set the plan 2wks ago then i contacted her 2 days before the said date then the day before,honestly no one deserves to be treated that way she could have said she cant go i would understand but seen zoning is just so unetiquette when you made plans with someone
Well if this was just a platonic situation, then it shouldn't matter. Just find someone else to be friends with, possibly a guy. It's a bit dramatic to say that you were "rejected" if you weren't looking for anything serious in the first place.
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sorry its just a word we always use in our workplace like when we hail a cab and the driver just past us "rejected",i felt dramatic maybe because i dont make plans with friends or with someone for that matter like ever im just beginning to open up little by little but still selective,gotta find more though.anyway thanks for not judging
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So those of you who know the bullette that i've been posting about well she rejected me in silence,i cant understand why she would do something like that it seems very childish

She agreed to hang out with me this nov.14 then i messaged her 2 days before she didnt respond so i said ok thats fine the day before i msg again saying "are we still going to hang out tomorrow?" She just seen zoned me

She could have just told me that no i cant or just make an excuse like im busy something came up but just reading my message not responding, and honoring our plan

I just cant anymore,i guess im going to let this one go😧something in me felt like its going to be ok when after she unfriended me and i reach out to her she responded and even agreed to hang out but now i dont know
Unfortunately she just wasn't that into you. Either that or she lost interest between the time she agreed to see you and now. Don't count on her keeping her word to hang out again, just let it go. Obviously there are a lot of details missing, but from what little I can gather you were into her more than she was into you.

Hence why you checked up on her twice. That's typically something a woman would do when she wants to see you, but isn't confident about the plans. By checking in twice you showed that you weren't confident. When she didn't reply the first time, that should've been the hint that she wasn't going to make it out. My guess is that she either made plans with you that she didn't plan on keeping or she was turned off when you checked up on her the first time. Either way her attraction level for you just wasn't high enough.

Question, when did you set the plan to see her today and how any times have you contacted her since setting those plans?

yes i figured that on my own,doesnt matter if she still likes me or not i dont like her the same way either thats why im confident on asking her to hang out just as friends as i dont have a lot of friends my other friend is busy at the moment so i asked her just to unwind and relieve my stress,i set the plan 2wks ago then i contacted her 2 days before the said date then the day before,honestly no one deserves to be treated that way she could have said she cant go i would understand but seen zoning is just so unetiquette when you made plans with someone
Well if this was just a platonic situation, then it shouldn't matter. Just find someone else to be friends with, possibly a guy. It's a bit dramatic to say that you were "rejected" if you weren't looking for anything serious in the first place.
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He is lying though
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Wtf hope your gf finds better soon - you both sound very young.. atleast you do.

Well she's a scorp right? I bet she already laid her eyes on someone else behind your back since you were eyeing dat taurus girl 😱 Now taurus got rid of your weird ass - how awkward

you got it all wrong😂we have very different culture,a crush in our country is just admiration my gf knows this im not making a move on the taurus,figures people here are very judgemental people think they are so mature😂so think what you want to think but your 105% wrong
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Seriously? U justify your behavior with cultural differences? Duuuhhhh

A crush is ALWAYS and everywhere seen as admiration but you didn't just admire her from a far you tried to "hang out" with that taurus chick 😂
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Wtf hope your gf finds better soon - you both sound very young.. atleast you do.

Well she's a scorp right? I bet she already laid her eyes on someone else behind your back since you were eyeing dat taurus girl 😱 Now taurus got rid of your weird ass - how awkward

you got it all wrong😂we have very different culture,a crush in our country is just admiration my gf knows this im not making a move on the taurus,figures people here are very judgemental people think they are so mature😂so think what you want to think but your 105% wrong
Seriously? U justify your behavior with cultural differences? Duuuhhhh

A crush is ALWAYS and everywhere seen as admiration but you didn't just admire her from a far you tried to "hang out" with that taurus chick 😂
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yah i invited her because i dont feel like i did before,im awkward and will retreat everytime i see the person i have an admiration but the fact that i did invite her means i dont mind looking stupid i dont care what she thinks because i just want her as a friend,sure put justification for what you Think about the situation and for what you perceive ba-bye!
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So those of you who know the bullette that i've been posting about well she rejected me in silence,i cant understand why she would do something like that it seems very childish

She agreed to hang out with me this nov.14 then i messaged her 2 days before she didnt respond so i said ok thats fine the day before i msg again saying "are we still going to hang out tomorrow?" She just seen zoned me

She could have just told me that no i cant or just make an excuse like im busy something came up but just reading my message not responding, and honoring our plan

I just cant anymore,i guess im going to let this one go😧something in me felt like its going to be ok when after she unfriended me and i reach out to her she responded and even agreed to hang out but now i dont know
Unfortunately she just wasn't that into you. Either that or she lost interest between the time she agreed to see you and now. Don't count on her keeping her word to hang out again, just let it go. Obviously there are a lot of details missing, but from what little I can gather you were into her more than she was into you.

Hence why you checked up on her twice. That's typically something a woman would do when she wants to see you, but isn't confident about the plans. By checking in twice you showed that you weren't confident. When she didn't reply the first time, that should've been the hint that she wasn't going to make it out. My guess is that she either made plans with you that she didn't plan on keeping or she was turned off when you checked up on her the first time. Either way her attraction level for you just wasn't high enough.

Question, when did you set the plan to see her today and how any times have you contacted her since setting those plans?

yes i figured that on my own,doesnt matter if she still likes me or not i dont like her the same way either thats why im confident on asking her to hang out just as friends as i dont have a lot of friends my other friend is busy at the moment so i asked her just to unwind and relieve my stress,i set the plan 2wks ago then i contacted her 2 days before the said date then the day before,honestly no one deserves to be treated that way she could have said she cant go i would understand but seen zoning is just so unetiquette when you made plans with someone
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i see. do you feel like she owed it to you?
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So those of you who know the bullette that i've been posting about well she rejected me in silence,i cant understand why she would do something like that it seems very childish

She agreed to hang out with me this nov.14 then i messaged her 2 days before she didnt respond so i said ok thats fine the day before i msg again saying "are we still going to hang out tomorrow?" She just seen zoned me

She could have just told me that no i cant or just make an excuse like im busy something came up but just reading my message not responding, and honoring our plan

I just cant anymore,i guess im going to let this one go😧something in me felt like its going to be ok when after she unfriended me and i reach out to her she responded and even agreed to hang out but now i dont know
Unfortunately she just wasn't that into you. Either that or she lost interest between the time she agreed to see you and now. Don't count on her keeping her word to hang out again, just let it go. Obviously there are a lot of details missing, but from what little I can gather you were into her more than she was into you.

Hence why you checked up on her twice. That's typically something a woman would do when she wants to see you, but isn't confident about the plans. By checking in twice you showed that you weren't confident. When she didn't reply the first time, that should've been the hint that she wasn't going to make it out. My guess is that she either made plans with you that she didn't plan on keeping or she was turned off when you checked up on her the first time. Either way her attraction level for you just wasn't high enough.

Question, when did you set the plan to see her today and how any times have you contacted her since setting those plans?

yes i figured that on my own,doesnt matter if she still likes me or not i dont like her the same way either thats why im confident on asking her to hang out just as friends as i dont have a lot of friends my other friend is busy at the moment so i asked her just to unwind and relieve my stress,i set the plan 2wks ago then i contacted her 2 days before the said date then the day before,honestly no one deserves to be treated that way she could have said she cant go i would understand but seen zoning is just so unetiquette when you made plans with someone
i see. do you feel like she owed it to you?
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not really,i feel like its the right thing to do,because for me its called manners,but honestly its fine im over it and im done in trying to make friends with her i did my part but you cant push yourself into someone who doesnt want you*shrug*
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The real question is why are you going so hard for a 'friend'. Kinda suspect.

i wasnt even trying hard an occational hello how are you?that kinda thing once or twice a month for a year then i took it up a notch and invited her to hang out i just tried,she said yes then she ignored me
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You've been contacting her for a year?? Yeah not trying hard AT ALL. 🙄🙄🙄

Dude you played yourself.

Of course she said yes and then ghosted. You've been pestering her for A YEAR. Maybe she figured that if she stood you up you'd get the message...guess not.
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Wait hold up....can’t keep up with all your sanchas.

Is this the girl crush or your long term gf Scorpio?

ex girl crush,i wanted her as a friend as she is fun but i can also be quiet with her and oh boy theres only a few people who can make me feel not awkward when im in my silent mode
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Were you willing to have sex with her? Why do Aquas try and keep friends that you have a crush on without putting out?

I'm trying to cut off my Aqua right now for this. 😆 I have needs lol
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Wait hold up....can’t keep up with all your sanchas.

Is this the girl crush or your long term gf Scorpio?

ex girl crush,i wanted her as a friend as she is fun but i can also be quiet with her and oh boy theres only a few people who can make me feel not awkward when im in my silent mode
Were you willing to have sex with her? Why do Aquas try and keep friends that you have a crush on without putting out?

I'm trying to cut off my Aqua right now for this. 😆 I have needs lol
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thats disgusting hell no! im sorry about your aqua but im a diffirent kind of aqua i didnt cheat on my girl for 11years i wont start now.thats the thing i know what you will become in my life the 1st time or 2nd time i land my eyes on you i know what i want call it intuition,if i only have an admiration for you or it faded i will still be your friend but once your my friend it wont change what i feel about you and you will remain my friend forever i've never started a relatonship with a friend it feels so wrong to me and i value my friends i'd rather keep you as a friend than start a relationship with you and lose you forever if it didnt work out
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Wait hold up....can’t keep up with all your sanchas.

Is this the girl crush or your long term gf Scorpio?

oh and dont worry my scorpio girl know,she knows that i get a crush once in a while and she trusts me that i woudnt cheat on her
Umm, so she knows you have a gf?

yes she knows why?just to clear it up they both know,i've been trying to be friends with this taurus girl for quite sometime now


Maybe she was interested in you romantically so... the gf is a turn off.
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yep i know,we have this silent attraction we make each other nervous and all that stuff that comes with attraction sexually and magnetically i can literally feel her when she is in the room or i would see her,i thought she was over it since its been 1 yr because i do,so i tried to befriend her i guess i was wrong,and the hang out thing would feel like a date for her since its only the two of us so she chickened out
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Posted by bittercupcake
Wait hold up....can’t keep up with all your sanchas.

Is this the girl crush or your long term gf Scorpio?

ex girl crush,i wanted her as a friend as she is fun but i can also be quiet with her and oh boy theres only a few people who can make me feel not awkward when im in my silent mode
Were you willing to have sex with her? Why do Aquas try and keep friends that you have a crush on without putting out?

I'm trying to cut off my Aqua right now for this. 😆 I have needs lol

thats disgusting hell no! im sorry about your aqua but im a diffirent kind of aqua i didnt cheat on my girl for 11years i wont start now.thats the thing i know what you will become in my life the 1st time or 2nd time i land my eyes on you i know what i want call it intuition,if i only have an admiration for you or it faded i will still be your friend but once your my friend it wont change what i feel about you and you will remain my friend forever i've never started a relatonship with a friend it feels so wrong to me and i value my friends i'd rather keep you as a friend than start a relationship with you and lose you forever if it didnt work out
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Well if this is true,then maybe that's why she doesn't want to be friends. You said she was a crush.

It's wasted energy and selfish to keep someone around for admiration and because you want a friend fan club. I wouldn't be able to be friends either lol
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Posted by bittercupcake
Wait hold up....can’t keep up with all your sanchas.

Is this the girl crush or your long term gf Scorpio?

oh and dont worry my scorpio girl know,she knows that i get a crush once in a while and she trusts me that i woudnt cheat on her
Umm, so she knows you have a gf?

yes she knows why?just to clear it up they both know,i've been trying to be friends with this taurus girl for quite sometime now


Maybe she was interested in you romantically so... the gf is a turn off.

yep i know,we have this silent attraction we make each other nervous and all that stuff that comes with attraction sexually and magnetically i can literally feel her when she is in the room or i would see her,i thought she was over it since its been 1 yr because i do,so i tried to befriend her i guess i was wrong,and the hang out thing would feel like a date for her since its only the two of us so she chickened out
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Why were you willing to do this if you knew it would feel like a date? Knew there is sexual tension? Whats the point? And you're doing this when you're girl is out of town.

You need your ass whooped.
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