taurus husband wants a divorce (Page 2)

@RedOcotber,

Trust me, this Taurus went into detail about why he wanted a divorce.

Posted by Sssupes
Man, lots of relationship issues lately

Rarely do people talk about their relationship unless there are issues. "Sharing bad news instead of the good news" et al

@AriesLady,

You're correct in your assumption.

During the initial stages of courting you, a Bull will look for a million excuses not to dive in, waiting for you to hang yourself.

But once we dive in, we're in it for the long haul.

If we leave,

Then every other possibility has been exhausted, and there is no looking back.

For the OP and her husband, it's cultural, and yet he STILL wants out. What does this tell you about the OP?

Something is rotting...and it's not in Denmark.

If you notice, the OP is avoiding all direct questions.

I didn't read everyone's responses, so I apologize if you said something extra or everyone covered this, but I think there is another woman and don't stay with someone that says they don't have feelings for you, especially a taurus - we can get very very cold especially if we feel we are being forced into something, don't do this to yourself. There is happiness out there waiting for you, go and get it!

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Trust me, this Bull spoke....and spoke....and spoke...

Posted by TaurusBull1977

Posted by stella_wry
He says we are just too different, and we can't make it work.

Something tells me he elaborated on this reason.

What did your Taurus man tell you EXACTLY?

I can't give a candid answer/advice for such a vague statement.

Bulls do not simply walk away without a valid reason.

It's tick....tick...tick... then BOOM.

What was being said, stressed and elaborated when he was in 'ticking' mode?

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Dang he sound selfish.

I'm sorry that you're going through this OP 😢 But I feel like I'm missing something. I believe you when you say there isn't another woman involved, but there had to be some sort of long-simmering problem that eventually led the Bull to make the decision he made, right? Bulls aren't typically petty in relationships, so I don't think he would be attempting to leave for anything but a very serious reason. The distance between the two of you seems to be propelled by something...

We don't want cold and detached though we want someone to stick by us like we do them and not play stupid petty games. Especially if bull has opened to the possibility of family and kids, with marriage. And sometimes you can be great parents separated just not living together.

I don't know how to explain to kids other than it didn't work out but we have had a great time and people change sweet hearts.

A taurus with air or fixed placements have it hard because people don't think before speaking. Even me.

But when it comes to long term relationship with marriage and kids got to work it out.

But it's okay to separate due to differences. It is life. And must stay strong and keep strong, smart, communicate and adapt.

Taurus doesn't hold resentment just memories of good, bad, and horrible and still work it out or let it go but still be friends in away but with kids now must focus on your kids and you.

You are a cancer. I am sure you smell something before he comes up into conclusion. If he said he doesnt have woman. If you believe that. Then go ahead. I believe taurus will also tell you truth.

He said you are both different because he needs solid relationship and you are jokingly saying you want a divorce. Talk to him again. Negotiate.

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Posted by wagtail

Posted by Sssupes
Man, lots of relationship issues lately

I think may have something to do with Libra Jupiter transit - upcoming

But why would the transit mean separations?? Isn't libra about partnerships

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It eases the decision to make the break.

Posted by Redoctober2000

Posted by TaurusinTexas
I didn't read everyone's responses, so I apologize if you said something extra or everyone covered this, but I think there is another woman and don't stay with someone that says they don't have feelings for you, especially a taurus - we can get very very cold especially if we feel we are being forced into something, don't do this to yourself. There is happiness out there waiting for you, go and get it!

People do not always need someone else as a crutch to end a relationship!! Really?! Why does there have to be "someone else"?

Are people really that weak?

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I agree ppl don't always need someone else but in this case, he's married with a child and he goes straight to divorce. Like I said maybe she explained more but just in her first post that was my thought. Married men with children try for the sake of their child first, divorce is the last step.

My Jupiter in Libra too jeez it is never ending for the last few months.

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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
My Jupiter in Libra too jeez it is never ending for the last few months.

Mine is too.

What does that mean?

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Re Libra Jupiter transit I mentioned earlier-

"The energy that is about to gear up will help manifest love, luck and cooperation much more abundantly than it is now.

*I take this to include ending current relationships that may not be working out- despite Libras reputation for hooking shiz up-because if things don't end, we don't have the room for inviting new and healthier options into our lives*

People are going to be more in the mood to connect. They will want to work in partnerships rather than fly solo. It will also help those struggling in relationships. If you’ve been thinking of jumping ship with a particular relationship this shift can help you if you’re serious about making it work.

*or the courage to leave if it isn't*

Libra also likes commitment. It pushes to work through problems, find ways to compromise and balance things out. It doesn’t say, forget it I’m done. This is the sign that truly sees the value and worth in cooperation.

It will also push people to actually want to be around others. Libra wants a partner and believes in partnerships. A new energy will manifest that will help people get into this relationship-oriented zone.

...The sign of Libra, of course, will feel this shift strongest. They will enter their new 12-year cycle and feel reborn again. The air signs (Gemini, Libra & Aquarius) will be closely in touch with the Jupiter love. *also Capricorn* Sagittarius should get a lift too, given that Jupiter is their planetary BFF.

But it doesn’t stop there. Jupiter shifts can help all of us because he’s always travelling through some area in each of our personal astrology."

Taken from Crystal B Astrology

If my husband want a divorce. I maybe ask a few questions why or if that is the solution of the problem. If he is clear of his answers I will negotiate the child support and ask him to give some amount of money for me to start my new life depending on his capability. Then his request will be granted.

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Posted by TaurusBull1977
@RedOcotber,

Trust me, this Taurus went into detail about why he wanted a divorce.

Exactly. We leave no stone unturned..

The OP is hiding something... And like a lot of cancer sign people, she is playing the role of "victim" and playing her "woe is me sympathy card" as you state..

But in the same breadth refuses to answer questions about her part in all of this..

Her "jokingly" asking for a divorce more than likely triggered something within him and I bet this was not the first time she showed him this hand. I believe she has "jokingly" said this to him more than once.

She won't get my sympathy... Any person who does not take their relationship seriously to make a joke out of it deserves what they get...

The OP is also partly responsible for having a baby knowing that your marriage is already in crisis and that a baby will only put more strain on an already failing relationship.

The Taurus is not the only one to blame here. they BOTH are!

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i know i have my problems on my side, he has his.

what i mean is he now refuses to change with me, even after i express my hope to change myself.

he just want to be who he is. he doesnt want to talk, he doesnt want to change. that's what makes me freaked out!

Posted by stella_wry

Posted by Redoctober2000

Posted by TaurusBull1977
@RedOcotber,

Trust me, this Taurus went into detail about why he wanted a divorce.

Exactly. We leave no stone unturned..

The OP is hiding something... And like a lot of cancer sign people, she is playing the role of "victim" and playing her "woe is me sympathy card" as you state..

But in the same breadth refuses to answer questions about her part in all of this..

Her "jokingly" asking for a divorce more than likely triggered something within him and I bet this was not the first time she showed him this hand. I believe she has "jokingly" said this to him more than once.

She won't get my sympathy... Any person who does not take their relationship seriously to make a joke out of it deserves what they get...

The OP is also partly responsible for having a baby knowing that your marriage is already in crisis and that a baby will only put more strain on an already failing relationship.

The Taurus is not the only one to blame here. they BOTH are!

i know i have my problems on my side, he has his.

what i mean is he now refuses to change with me, even after i express my hope to change myself.

he just want to be who he is. he doesnt want to talk, he doesnt want to change. that's what makes me freaked out!

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They are fixed. They don't (or rarely or slowly) change. What you see is what you're going to get.

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Posted by stella_wry

Posted by Redoctober2000

Posted by TaurusBull1977
@RedOcotber,

Trust me, this Taurus went into detail about why he wanted a divorce.

Exactly. We leave no stone unturned..

The OP is hiding something... And like a lot of cancer sign people, she is playing the role of "victim" and playing her "woe is me sympathy card" as you state..

But in the same breadth refuses to answer questions about her part in all of this..

Her "jokingly" asking for a divorce more than likely triggered something within him and I bet this was not the first time she showed him this hand. I believe she has "jokingly" said this to him more than once.

She won't get my sympathy... Any person who does not take their relationship seriously to make a joke out of it deserves what they get...

The OP is also partly responsible for having a baby knowing that your marriage is already in crisis and that a baby will only put more strain on an already failing relationship.

The Taurus is not the only one to blame here. they BOTH are!

i know i have my problems on my side, he has his.

what i mean is he now refuses to change with me, even after i express my hope to change myself.

he just want to be who he is. he doesnt want to talk, he doesnt want to change. that's what makes me freaked out!

They are fixed. They don't (or rarely or slowly) change. What you see is what you're going to get.

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Reverse the situation while too early. Feed his stubborness. Will see. Stop convincing him now. Dont talk as well.

If he wants divorce.tell him when he is going to process that. Name now the price you want to start a life without him. Support for your baby monthly is important. Then grant him what he needs. You have nothing to do with his stubborness. Be courageous. Be strong woman.

Omg. This is why my aqua ex cannot move on for 13 yrs of broke up and still talking about me to all his cousin to convince me. Maybe my sag rising help me to see the bright side of life. Always look up ahead not what is being left. Or the scorpio demon in me help me to see the darkest times when we were together and conquered it.

I don't know his side only what the OP has said, but sadly there is a child involved and that makes my heart hurt for everyone involved. I hope what is meant to be will happen. Most importantly is that things don't get messy because you have a child. Try to talk to him and really have a discussion about what is going on. Not when either of you are upset, when you are calm. Allow him to talk without talking and then say your piece. He will be stubborn there's not a doubt in my mind. (Been around, lived with, and loved far too many Taurus peeps) But just know that the outcome even of that discussion could be the opposite of what you want. You can't change a person's mind, you'll have to accept it. Besides you wouldn't want to be attached to someone who feels like he doesn't love you anymore. Keep your emotions on check. I'm not saying you have to accept any harsh behavior, but if he just calmly tells you he's not willing to make it work, then do what's right for your daughter and you going forward. Respect his wishes and respect yourself by moving on. Divorce is a sad thing. It's hard to understand, and worse to feel as you go through it. But again, you can't make a person stay. They only will if they wish to.

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Posted by Arielle83

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
My Jupiter in Libra too jeez it is never ending for the last few months.

Mine is too.

What does that mean?

Re Libra Jupiter transit I mentioned earlier-

"The energy that is about to gear up will help manifest love, luck and cooperation much more abundantly than it is now.

*I take this to include ending current relationships that may not be working out- despite Libras reputation for hooking shiz up-because if things don't end, we don't have the room for inviting new and healthier options into our lives*

People are going to be more in the mood to connect. They will want to work in partnerships rather than fly solo. It will also help those struggling in relationships. If you’ve been thinking of jumping ship with a particular relationship this shift can help you if you’re serious about making it work.

*or the courage to leave if it isn't*

Libra also likes commitment. It pushes to work through problems, find ways to compromise and balance things out. It doesn’t say, forget it I’m done. This is the sign that truly sees the value and worth in cooperation.

It will also push people to actually want to be around others. Libra wants a partner and believes in partnerships. A new energy will manifest that will help people get into this relationship-oriented zone.

...The sign of Libra, of course, will feel this shift strongest. They will enter their new 12-year cycle and feel reborn again. The air signs (Gemini, Libra & Aquarius) will be closely in touch with the Jupiter love. *also Capricorn* Sagittarius should get a lift too, given that Jupiter is their planetary BFF.

But it doesn’t stop there. Jupiter shifts can help all of us because he’s always travelling through some area in each of our personal astrology."

Taken from Crystal B Astrology

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Maybe it's good then. Or another cold detached placement haha that have in my chart. I am looking for career options too. Or a more decent friend one that doesn't lie or being secretive it's time for new friends that's for sure.

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
How long have you been married for though?

How long have you lived together for?

And yes maybe get help in moving away from him far but close enough to see the baby and handle business fairly like that too.

I really hope taurus woman don't be ''so loyal', 😄