How do you deal with a taurus-gemini cusp with commitment phobias? His friends and family say he's scared of commitment, however, I know there's a good man in there. He's hot and cold, he isolates himself from everyone when stressed and depressed, and he also runs away when things get too serious or when he is getting too close. I know he has that loyal Taurus side in him, but I know he also had emotional growth stunted early as a child and I know his only other ex hurt him really bad. We're not in love but I do know we both have strong feelings and chemistry for each other.
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Posted by JohnTheBaptist100He does chase me often and then runs away... He was chasing me for months and then we started to see each other and talk again. He told me a lot of things he missed about us and confided in me about certain things that he only told his best guy friend about. Everything changed because his kid's mother basically abandon his kid, he now has his son everyday, he now has to pay more daycare and I know he was struggling to pay bills before this happened. He also makes comments that I deserve better or that he is not good enough for me and he is very insecure.
Strong feelings and chemistry is not enough....
A strong foundation of friendship and emotional attachment has to be developed with a Taurus man before you can develop a relationship.
Those women who come on here and talk about the "hot and cold" of a Taurus and they do not know why has not spent enough time emotionally getting to know their Taurus. A Taurus man will tell you why he is not around before he "disappears" and you will know why as you would be emotionally close enough to feel it and to know. A Taurus will only "disappear" if they have problems they have to deal with and they will tell you why...
A Taurus who is really attached to you will chase you down for however long it takes (especially if he has fire placements) and from there a deep friendship and an emotional bond will grow as well as a physical attraction to each other.
You will be able to tell your Taurus anything and everything and there will be openness and honestly and mutual respect between you. If this is not what is happening then you need to keep him as a friend and build a platonic friendship with him until you are able to speak to him openly.
If a Taurus is not chasing you with vigor then he is just not that into you.
If a Taurus man is into you, you will know. You will not be here asking....
Posted by sagsagsagPosted by JohnTheBaptist100
Strong feelings and chemistry is not enough....
A strong foundation of friendship and emotional attachment has to be developed with a Taurus man before you can develop a relationship.
Those women who come on here and talk about the "hot and cold" of a Taurus and they do not know why has not spent enough time emotionally getting to know their Taurus. A Taurus man will tell you why he is not around before he "disappears" and you will know why as you would be emotionally close enough to feel it and to know. A Taurus will only "disappear" if they have problems they have to deal with and they will tell you why...
A Taurus who is really attached to you will chase you down for however long it takes (especially if he has fire placements) and from there a deep friendship and an emotional bond will grow as well as a physical attraction to each other.
You will be able to tell your Taurus anything and everything and there will be openness and honestly and mutual respect between you. If this is not what is happening then you need to keep him as a friend and build a platonic friendship with him until you are able to speak to him openly.
If a Taurus is not chasing you with vigor then he is just not that into you.
If a Taurus man is into you, you will know. You will not be here asking....
Actually...
If a man of any sign is into you, you wont be here asking...click to expand
Well, a lot of people stress or depression can take over one's life as I know it does for me if I am stressed or depressed. So, in that case, even when I am "into" someone I will push them away. So again, I don't actually think that is totally accurate that if someone is into you then you wouldn't need to question what's going on. Everyone deals with stress and depression differently. Right now I am not seeking advice on every other sign. Clearly, my question asks how to deal with a taurus who has commitment phobias as I know that is an issue for him and has been for years. THANKS though.
Posted by ALGLAM1026Posted by sagsagsagPosted by JohnTheBaptist100
Strong feelings and chemistry is not enough....
A strong foundation of friendship and emotional attachment has to be developed with a Taurus man before you can develop a relationship.
Those women who come on here and talk about the "hot and cold" of a Taurus and they do not know why has not spent enough time emotionally getting to know their Taurus. A Taurus man will tell you why he is not around before he "disappears" and you will know why as you would be emotionally close enough to feel it and to know. A Taurus will only "disappear" if they have problems they have to deal with and they will tell you why...
A Taurus who is really attached to you will chase you down for however long it takes (especially if he has fire placements) and from there a deep friendship and an emotional bond will grow as well as a physical attraction to each other.
You will be able to tell your Taurus anything and everything and there will be openness and honestly and mutual respect between you. If this is not what is happening then you need to keep him as a friend and build a platonic friendship with him until you are able to speak to him openly.
If a Taurus is not chasing you with vigor then he is just not that into you.
If a Taurus man is into you, you will know. You will not be here asking....
Actually...
If a man of any sign is into you, you wont be here asking...
Well, a lot of people stress or depression can take over one's life as I know it does for me if I am stressed or depressed. So, in that case, even when I am "into" someone I will push them away. So again, I don't actually think that is totally accurate that if someone is into you then you wouldn't need to question what's going on. Everyone deals with stress and depression differently. Right now I am not seeking advice on every other sign. Clearly, my question asks how to deal with a taurus who has commitment phobias as I know that is an issue for him and has been for years. THANKS though.
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Also, I would push everyone away if my kid's other parent just abandon my kid and I am now struggling to pay all of the bills myself regardless if I have commitment fear or not.

I can relate. I need to feel safe almost before I can commit. I also gotta know I want this for the long term and not just checking it out. I can check out things for years knowing it's not where I'm going to stay, but when i'm like that, it's obvious you can't keep me.
Comfort, passion, love and trust, and if you got my full attention, I'm going to commit, and damn rights I'll give you the same and more.
Comfort, passion, love and trust, and if you got my full attention, I'm going to commit, and damn rights I'll give you the same and more.

I'm a commitment phobic Taurus woman. I'm on the Aries/Taurus cusp.
I use my son, my family, my job...anything as an excuse to put it off.
Just be consistent but respectful of any space he may request. If he's into you he WILL make an effort to make sure you know if even if he isn't ready to go all in.
I use my son, my family, my job...anything as an excuse to put it off.
Just be consistent but respectful of any space he may request. If he's into you he WILL make an effort to make sure you know if even if he isn't ready to go all in.
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100He has never said that he doesn't want me in his life. He only said that he can't be in a relationship right now once his kid's mother vanished. The he told me that I deserve better. We have known each other for over a year and we were together for 6 months and apart 7 months now. However, we have a lot of mutual friends and always see each other places. I met all of his friends and family including his son. He took me to a place that meant a lot to him regarding his Dad who is no longer here, he explained he has never taken anyone there before (not even his ex of 4 years). He started to flirt and seemed like he really wanted to rekindle things then once his kids mother vanished, he vanished. He posted a few statuses on facebook saying how life is truly challenging him right now. He told my best friend that if anyone is good for him, that it is me. He also told his best friend that he will never find a better woman than me... he does not know that friend told me he said that either. Also, we have never had sex once we broke up and I am the only woman who has ever made him wait for sex too.Posted by ALGLAM1026He does not have "commitment phobia" he has a child and ex baby mama!Posted by JohnTheBaptist100He does chase me often and then runs away... He was chasing me for months and then we started to see each other and talk again. He told me a lot of things he missed about us and confided in me about certain things that he only told his best guy friend about. Everything changed because his kid's mother basically abandon his kid, he now has his son everyday, he now has to pay more daycare and I know he was struggling to pay bills before this happened. He also makes comments that I deserve better or that he is not good enough for me and he is very insecure.
Strong feelings and chemistry is not enough....
A strong foundation of friendship and emotional attachment has to be developed with a Taurus man before you can develop a relationship.
Those women who come on here and talk about the "hot and cold" of a Taurus and they do not know why has not spent enough time emotionally getting to know their Taurus. A Taurus man will tell you why he is not around before he "disappears" and you will know why as you would be emotionally close enough to feel it and to know. A Taurus will only "disappear" if they have problems they have to deal with and they will tell you why...
A Taurus who is really attached to you will chase you down for however long it takes (especially if he has fire placements) and from there a deep friendship and an emotional bond will grow as well as a physical attraction to each other.
You will be able to tell your Taurus anything and everything and there will be openness and honestly and mutual respect between you. If this is not what is happening then you need to keep him as a friend and build a platonic friendship with him until you are able to speak to him openly.
If a Taurus is not chasing you with vigor then he is just not that into you.
If a Taurus man is into you, you will know. You will not be here asking....
He is presently tied down with the "practicalities of life" ie looking after his child and the responsibilities of that.
You have to determine if you are both committed to each other ie he cannot give you his undivided attention right now but he wants you in his life but it will take patience on your part or he will "set you free" ie give you the chance to find someone else or
You decide you don't have the patience to wait for him and chose to be with someone else..
Has he told you he does not want you in his life? How long have you known him? Are you both committed to each other? Is there a solid foundation of friendship....
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Posted by taurusgoddessThank you!
I can relate. I need to feel safe almost before I can commit. I also gotta know I want this for the long term and not just checking it out. I can check out things for years knowing it's not where I'm going to stay, but when i'm like that, it's obvious you can't keep me.
Comfort, passion, love and trust, and if you got my full attention, I'm going to commit, and damn rights I'll give you the same and more.
Posted by RedbullYes, I feel like we were just starting to rekindle everything. Then his kid's mother abandon their son, he has him everyday now, has to pay more in daycare now and he was struggling with bills before that happened. Once that happened, he started to write statuses on facebook about how life is really challenging him right now.Posted by ALGLAM1026Im a Taurus Gemini cusp. I have been single like forever. Its just how I am and operate.Its a mix of needing/liking space, individuality, freedom, patience (not rushing things) comfort, not wanting to limit myself, caution and etc. And more external forces like timing and circumstances. These are some of the things i can put into words but not the entire story. Just speaking from the perspective of one.
How do you deal with a taurus-gemini cusp with commitment phobias? His friends and family say he's scared of commitment, however, I know there's a good man in there. He's hot and cold, he isolates himself from everyone when stressed and depressed, and he also runs away when things get too serious or when he is getting too close. I know he has that loyal Taurus side in him, but I know he also had emotional growth stunted early as a child and I know his only other ex hurt him really bad. We're not in love but I do know we both have strong feelings and chemistry for each other.
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That whole "Taurus with fire will chase" it's both true and false. I will chase every object and person of my desire....I wasn't chasing commitment tho...
Posted by AneemAI am trying, thank you lol. I am just not sure how long I should be patient for.... :-/
Take that pill of patience again, and double dose it 😛
Posted by SweetestFataleHow do you deal with stress and life changing situations?
That whole "Taurus with fire will chase" it's both true and false. I will chase every object and person of my desire....I wasn't chasing commitment tho...
Posted by RedbullThank you. How do you deal with stress and life changing situations?Posted by ALGLAM1026Im a Taurus Gemini cusp. I have been single like forever. Its just how I am and operate.Its a mix of needing/liking space, individuality, freedom, patience (not rushing things) comfort, not wanting to limit myself, caution and etc. And more external forces like timing and circumstances. These are some of the things i can put into words but not the entire story. Just speaking from the perspective of one.
How do you deal with a taurus-gemini cusp with commitment phobias? His friends and family say he's scared of commitment, however, I know there's a good man in there. He's hot and cold, he isolates himself from everyone when stressed and depressed, and he also runs away when things get too serious or when he is getting too close. I know he has that loyal Taurus side in him, but I know he also had emotional growth stunted early as a child and I know his only other ex hurt him really bad. We're not in love but I do know we both have strong feelings and chemistry for each other.
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Posted by ALGLAM1026How do you deal with stress and life changing situations?Posted by taurusgoddessThank you!
I can relate. I need to feel safe almost before I can commit. I also gotta know I want this for the long term and not just checking it out. I can check out things for years knowing it's not where I'm going to stay, but when i'm like that, it's obvious you can't keep me.
Comfort, passion, love and trust, and if you got my full attention, I'm going to commit, and damn rights I'll give you the same and more.click to expand
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100We have seen eachother about 4 times in the 7 month gap, 4 times since December.Posted by AneemAWow... You have been learning....
Take that pill of patience again, and double dose it 😛
I have to agree with you... Just for a change...
As said above OP ^^^
And seeing that he has allowed a 7 month gap without even seeing you, make it a "tripple dose"....
Your Taurus is truly deep in his man cave and is wedged deep in the practicalities of life with his child etc... It may be a while to get him out... And no amount of pushing from your end will make him resurface. The more you push the more he will stay his protective cave..click to expand

Stop crying for man, they only want sex. Taurus woman is not that ''open'', they hug and are lovely with everyone, and when you show you want them, they run, very cruel thing.
Posted by AneemAWow, you are extremely patient lolPosted by ALGLAM1026As long as you can take. I don't think pushing ourselves beyond limit is healthy either. I'm afraid it will take compensation to other aspects of us/our lives.Posted by AneemAI am trying, thank you lol. I am just not sure how long I should be patient for.... :-/
Take that pill of patience again, and double dose it 😛
However, you know if we take a supplement without the main diet then it is not going to cut it.
If the rhythm doesn't match then what to do.
I've been waiting for the next level with my taurus ex for 4 years and when I'm done, I'm so done. You know your limit. 🙂
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Posted by JohnTheBaptist100I am a gemini.... Apparently we're actually not supposed to be compatible, I guess. However we have never really had a fight- except one disagreement.Posted by ALGLAM1026This is pretty positive...Posted by JohnTheBaptist100We have seen eachother about 4 times in the 7 month gap, 4 times since December.Posted by AneemAWow... You have been learning....
Take that pill of patience again, and double dose it 😛
I have to agree with you... Just for a change...
As said above OP ^^^
And seeing that he has allowed a 7 month gap without even seeing you, make it a "tripple dose"....
Your Taurus is truly deep in his man cave and is wedged deep in the practicalities of life with his child etc... It may be a while to get him out... And no amount of pushing from your end will make him resurface. The more you push the more he will stay his protective cave..
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Posted by littlebubbleI couldn't disagree more... lol it's sad that you go through life feeling that way. Clearly you're still in a lot of pain from a taurus rel. However, I know our relationship is more than just sex for him.
Stop crying for man, they only want sex. Taurus woman is not that ''open'', they hug and are lovely with everyone, and when you show you want them, they run, very cruel thing.
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by AneemABut your Taurus is an "Ex".. Once that person becomes an ex there is no other level to take it... You should not be with them if you have "officially broken up"...Posted by ALGLAM1026As long as you can take. I don't think pushing ourselves beyond limit is healthy either. I'm afraid it will take compensation to other aspects of us/our lives.Posted by AneemAI am trying, thank you lol. I am just not sure how long I should be patient for.... :-/
Take that pill of patience again, and double dose it 😛
However, you know if we take a supplement without the main diet then it is not going to cut it.
If the rhythm doesn't match then what to do.
I've been waiting for the next level with my taurus ex for 4 years and when I'm done, I'm so done. You know your limit. 🙂
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I have not been sexual with him since we broke up. He started to flirt and try to rekindle with me and I was willing to try again because I know the good overcame the bad as there was only one disagreement.
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Well, I have not dated or been with anyone else since we broke up and he knows that. I am not an easy one and definitely don't sleep around so.....Posted by AneemAIf you have been with other people, I suggest you move on...Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Nope, when I was still in a relationship, of course. I was waiting for his life to improve so we can do what we spoke of, marriage but seeing him seemingly put little effort to it, then I started to think that we were not going anywhere, so.Posted by AneemABut your Taurus is an "Ex".. Once that person becomes an ex there is no other level to take it... You should not be with them if you have "officially broken up"...Posted by ALGLAM1026As long as you can take. I don't think pushing ourselves beyond limit is healthy either. I'm afraid it will take compensation to other aspects of us/our lives.Posted by AneemAI am trying, thank you lol. I am just not sure how long I should be patient for.... :-/
Take that pill of patience again, and double dose it 😛
However, you know if we take a supplement without the main diet then it is not going to cut it.
If the rhythm doesn't match then what to do.
I've been waiting for the next level with my taurus ex for 4 years and when I'm done, I'm so done. You know your limit. 🙂
We both tried out with other people after then we casually came in contact again and he asked playfully to be back like how we used to, I was like... Wut?
As a Taurus, if a person made me their ex and then went on to someone else, then it would be OVER. No going back... Because as far as this Leo moon of mine is concerned, I am the best and if you can't see it at the time and decide to risk being with me by ending our relationship and then you move onto someone else and then realise that you made a mistake and you want me back... They become a fool in my eyes.. I don't date fools...
If a person is an ex because of personal problems and is seeing no one else and not engaging with anyone else then that is different....click to expand
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100hmmmm.... I will try but it is so hard because I never know when I am going to run into him around our friends. Taurus men are so difficult lolPosted by ALGLAM1026Good move... DO NOT be sexual with you... As he will then put you in the FWB compartment of his brain. Just continue to get to know him as a friend again ie.. Like starting a courtship of a new relationship all over again... As this is practically what is is...Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by AneemABut your Taurus is an "Ex".. Once that person becomes an ex there is no other level to take it... You should not be with them if you have "officially broken up"...Posted by ALGLAM1026As long as you can take. I don't think pushing ourselves beyond limit is healthy either. I'm afraid it will take compensation to other aspects of us/our lives.Posted by AneemAI am trying, thank you lol. I am just not sure how long I should be patient for.... :-/
Take that pill of patience again, and double dose it 😛
However, you know if we take a supplement without the main diet then it is not going to cut it.
If the rhythm doesn't match then what to do.
I've been waiting for the next level with my taurus ex for 4 years and when I'm done, I'm so done. You know your limit. 🙂
I have not been sexual with him since we broke up. He started to flirt and try to rekindle with me and I was willing to try again because I know the good overcame the bad as there was only one disagreement.
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Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Yea, I told him that if we decided to start spending time together and rekindle us that he would have to wait for me again. lol
Sorry correction: do not be sexual with HIM.
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by ALGLAM1026And this is what we look for... This is the NUMBER ONE factor which will get a Taurus to dump you or "go off you".. Even if not officially together "loyalty" plays a BIG part... If we have a disagreement with you which is not officially a permanent split, there is still an "invisible string" connecting us to you where we will still do "background checks" on your fb or in general to see what you are "upto"... Any "whiff" of another person etc. We are OUT..Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Well, I have not dated or been with anyone else since we broke up and he knows that. I am not an easy one and definitely don't sleep around so.....Posted by AneemAIf you have been with other people, I suggest you move on...Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Nope, when I was still in a relationship, of course. I was waiting for his life to improve so we can do what we spoke of, marriage but seeing him seemingly put little effort to it, then I started to think that we were not going anywhere, so.Posted by AneemABut your Taurus is an "Ex".. Once that person becomes an ex there is no other level to take it... You should not be with them if you have "officially broken up"...Posted by ALGLAM1026As long as you can take. I don't think pushing ourselves beyond limit is healthy either. I'm afraid it will take compensation to other aspects of us/our lives.Posted by AneemAI am trying, thank you lol. I am just not sure how long I should be patient for.... :-/
Take that pill of patience again, and double dose it 😛
However, you know if we take a supplement without the main diet then it is not going to cut it.
If the rhythm doesn't match then what to do.
I've been waiting for the next level with my taurus ex for 4 years and when I'm done, I'm so done. You know your limit. 🙂
We both tried out with other people after then we casually came in contact again and he asked playfully to be back like how we used to, I was like... Wut?
As a Taurus, if a person made me their ex and then went on to someone else, then it would be OVER. No going back... Because as far as this Leo moon of mine is concerned, I am the best and if you can't see it at the time and decide to risk being with me by ending our relationship and then you move onto someone else and then realise that you made a mistake and you want me back... They become a fool in my eyes.. I don't date fools...
If a person is an ex because of personal problems and is seeing no one else and not engaging with anyone else then that is different....click to expand
He does check my facebook a lot - as he "likes" stuff a lot. He always said that me not being the easy type was one of his favorite things about me. He liked how I made him wait for sex and no woman has ever made him wait before. I feel like he watches my facebook and watches me in person when I see him out.
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Oh, geez I am sorry it didn't work. Everytime I look up compatiblity, it always says we're not a match l :-/ I hope you found the "one" now.Posted by ALGLAM1026Gemini I have some good news for you.. My ex was a gem and I was with him for four years.. You have better compatibility than a scorp... I know many Taurus male and gem fem relationships /taurus and Taurus / taurus and libra and Taurus and aries and they are engaged / married and in long term relationships..Posted by JohnTheBaptist100I am a gemini.... Apparently we're actually not supposed to be compatible, I guess. However we have never really had a fight- except one disagreement.Posted by ALGLAM1026This is pretty positive...Posted by JohnTheBaptist100We have seen eachother about 4 times in the 7 month gap, 4 times since December.Posted by AneemAWow... You have been learning....
Take that pill of patience again, and double dose it 😛
I have to agree with you... Just for a change...
As said above OP ^^^
And seeing that he has allowed a 7 month gap without even seeing you, make it a "tripple dose"....
Your Taurus is truly deep in his man cave and is wedged deep in the practicalities of life with his child etc... It may be a while to get him out... And no amount of pushing from your end will make him resurface. The more you push the more he will stay his protective cave..
What sun sign are you?
The Taurus / Scorpio is one of the most hyped up bunch of tosh on the planet.... This mainly works with a scorp male / taurus female.. But also depends on placements..
The reasons it's successful mostly with gems is that Gemini is the next position after Taurus and most Taurus either have gem moons, Jupiter in gem (I have this), VIG (my Taurus sun SO) has this.. So it depends on placements.
The gem sun takes a bit to get used to but this combination bounce of each other... The reason it ended with my ex is that even though he had a gem sun which I loved he had 4 water placements one being a scorp moon and three other placements in cancer.. He was too clingy and I became bored. It felt like being with an "annoying brother" in the end...click to expand
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Aww, that is a great story!! Thanks.Posted by ALGLAM1026Trust me... He knows this..Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Yea, I told him that if we decided to start spending time together and rekindle us that he would have to wait for me again. lol
Sorry correction: do not be sexual with HIM.
One of my little gem friends who owns a Vietnamese nail salon (I lived with her and her taurus SO for 4 months).. Every morning you could here her howling his name "Tonnnnnyyy" ? ? He was always "in trouble". His evergy was soooo quiet and he was like a mouse compared to her. They worked together as she offered him a job in her nail salon 3 years ago and he never left!!
He did the practical things in the salon ie fixed things, painted kept it updated.. She appreciated him so much. She also have three children and he has none.
He would buy her flowers, take her out.. Very romantic and she would buy him things like leather jackets or shoes.. Practical things and she would say to me "he is a good man. I appreciate him and I show him through buying him nice clothes".. They are now engaged and their business is very very successful.. Lovely couple.
So Taurus and gem can have a happy ending... ?click to expand
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100LOLOL Thank you!!! AHHH....Posted by ALGLAM1026I made mine wait 18 months and it was the longest in history for him... Lol lol lol He used to say "I may not look like George Clooney but I have a lot to offer".... He treated me like a QueenPosted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by ALGLAM1026And this is what we look for... This is the NUMBER ONE factor which will get a Taurus to dump you or "go off you".. Even if not officially together "loyalty" plays a BIG part... If we have a disagreement with you which is not officially a permanent split, there is still an "invisible string" connecting us to you where we will still do "background checks" on your fb or in general to see what you are "upto"... Any "whiff" of another person etc. We are OUT..Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Well, I have not dated or been with anyone else since we broke up and he knows that. I am not an easy one and definitely don't sleep around so.....Posted by AneemAIf you have been with other people, I suggest you move on...Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Nope, when I was still in a relationship, of course. I was waiting for his life to improve so we can do what we spoke of, marriage but seeing him seemingly put little effort to it, then I started to think that we were not going anywhere, so.Posted by AneemABut your Taurus is an "Ex".. Once that person becomes an ex there is no other level to take it... You should not be with them if you have "officially broken up"...Posted by ALGLAM1026As long as you can take. I don't think pushing ourselves beyond limit is healthy either. I'm afraid it will take compensation to other aspects of us/our lives.Posted by AneemAI am trying, thank you lol. I am just not sure how long I should be patient for.... :-/
Take that pill of patience again, and double dose it 😛
However, you know if we take a supplement without the main diet then it is not going to cut it.
If the rhythm doesn't match then what to do.
I've been waiting for the next level with my taurus ex for 4 years and when I'm done, I'm so done. You know your limit. 🙂
We both tried out with other people after then we casually came in contact again and he asked playfully to be back like how we used to, I was like... Wut?
As a Taurus, if a person made me their ex and then went on to someone else, then it would be OVER. No going back... Because as far as this Leo moon of mine is concerned, I am the best and if you can't see it at the time and decide to risk being with me by ending our relationship and then you move onto someone else and then realise that you made a mistake and you want me back... They become a fool in my eyes.. I don't date fools...
If a person is an ex because of personal problems and is seeing no one else and not engaging with anyone else then that is different....
He does check my facebook a lot - as he "likes" stuff a lot. He always said that me not being the easy type was one of his favorite things about me. He liked how I made him wait for sex and no woman has ever made him wait before. I feel like he watches my facebook and watches me in person when I see him out.
Just try and hang in there..
The life of a Taurus will always be a roller-coaster ".. We seek harmony in life but our lives seem to go the opposite way...
When my ex gem bf become my ex I said to him "when you were with me you had 5* luxury. Now you are back to Basics"... A good Taurus is worth the wait. ?
But you have to decide how much your value is and how much he is worth....click to expand
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by ALGLAM1026If you look at a chart you will see the connected placements. I have a Jupiter in gem in 11th house.Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Oh, geez I am sorry it didn't work. Everytime I look up compatiblity, it always says we're not a match l :-/ I hope you found the "one" now.Posted by ALGLAM1026Gemini I have some good news for you.. My ex was a gem and I was with him for four years.. You have better compatibility than a scorp... I know many Taurus male and gem fem relationships /taurus and Taurus / taurus and libra and Taurus and aries and they are engaged / married and in long term relationships..Posted by JohnTheBaptist100I am a gemini.... Apparently we're actually not supposed to be compatible, I guess. However we have never really had a fight- except one disagreement.Posted by ALGLAM1026This is pretty positive...Posted by JohnTheBaptist100We have seen eachother about 4 times in the 7 month gap, 4 times since December.Posted by AneemAWow... You have been learning....
Take that pill of patience again, and double dose it 😛
I have to agree with you... Just for a change...
As said above OP ^^^
And seeing that he has allowed a 7 month gap without even seeing you, make it a "tripple dose"....
Your Taurus is truly deep in his man cave and is wedged deep in the practicalities of life with his child etc... It may be a while to get him out... And no amount of pushing from your end will make him resurface. The more you push the more he will stay his protective cave..
What sun sign are you?
The Taurus / Scorpio is one of the most hyped up bunch of tosh on the planet.... This mainly works with a scorp male / taurus female.. But also depends on placements..
The reasons it's successful mostly with gems is that Gemini is the next position after Taurus and most Taurus either have gem moons, Jupiter in gem (I have this), VIG (my Taurus sun SO) has this.. So it depends on placements.
The gem sun takes a bit to get used to but this combination bounce of each other... The reason it ended with my ex is that even though he had a gem sun which I loved he had 4 water placements one being a scorp moon and three other placements in cancer.. He was too clingy and I became bored. It felt like being with an "annoying brother" in the end...
My VIP spends it's life searching for a soul connection with the One. I have found him. He is everything I want physically, emotionally deep; Sensual, Mediterranean, intelligent and has good job. He is everything I spent my life searching for. He really cared for me and things between us grew. A spiritual connection. And my feelings were reinforced when I did a chart symmetry 2 years after our first meeting and I was so surprised when I read about our symmetry.
He is a Taurus sun and his mars in Pisces in the 8th house conjuncts my Venus in Pisces in the 8th house. In astrology (other placements also count) it is the perfect combination. It made total sense.... And to top it even those his Venus is in Gemini, it is also in the 12th house of Pisces! I am also a Taurus sun.
It's not easy. We have had a couple of occasions when the practicalities of life have got in the way and we have locked horns but our emotional level is so deep that we can openly talk about anything and everything.... It's natural for us. We are like really good friends as well...click to expand
I am not too good with those astrology charts lol. He did say he has a hard time talking about certain things. :-/ ugh.... I don't know if I should just wait for him to contact me or if I should eventually text him
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100I am not too good with those astrology charts lol. He did say he has a hard time talking about certain things. :-/ ugh.... I don't know if I should just wait for him to contact me or if I should eventually text himPosted by ALGLAM1026I made mine wait 18 months and it was the longest in history for him... Lol lol lol He used to say "I may not look like George Clooney but I have a lot to offer".... He treated me like a QueenPosted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by ALGLAM1026And this is what we look for... This is the NUMBER ONE factor which will get a Taurus to dump you or "go off you".. Even if not officially together "loyalty" plays a BIG part... If we have a disagreement with you which is not officially a permanent split, there is still an "invisible string" connecting us to you where we will still do "background checks" on your fb or in general to see what you are "upto"... Any "whiff" of another person etc. We are OUT..Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Well, I have not dated or been with anyone else since we broke up and he knows that. I am not an easy one and definitely don't sleep around so.....Posted by AneemAIf you have been with other people, I suggest you move on...Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Nope, when I was still in a relationship, of course. I was waiting for his life to improve so we can do what we spoke of, marriage but seeing him seemingly put little effort to it, then I started to think that we were not going anywhere, so.Posted by AneemABut your Taurus is an "Ex".. Once that person becomes an ex there is no other level to take it... You should not be with them if you have "officially broken up"...Posted by ALGLAM1026As long as you can take. I don't think pushing ourselves beyond limit is healthy either. I'm afraid it will take compensation to other aspects of us/our lives.Posted by AneemAI am trying, thank you lol. I am just not sure how long I should be patient for.... :-/
Take that pill of patience again, and double dose it 😛
However, you know if we take a supplement without the main diet then it is not going to cut it.
If the rhythm doesn't match then what to do.
I've been waiting for the next level with my taurus ex for 4 years and when I'm done, I'm so done. You know your limit. 🙂
We both tried out with other people after then we casually came in contact again and he asked playfully to be back like how we used to, I was like... Wut?
As a Taurus, if a person made me their ex and then went on to someone else, then it would be OVER. No going back... Because as far as this Leo moon of mine is concerned, I am the best and if you can't see it at the time and decide to risk being with me by ending our relationship and then you move onto someone else and then realise that you made a mistake and you want me back... They become a fool in my eyes.. I don't date fools...
If a person is an ex because of personal problems and is seeing no one else and not engaging with anyone else then that is different....
He does check my facebook a lot - as he "likes" stuff a lot. He always said that me not being the easy type was one of his favorite things about me. He liked how I made him wait for sex and no woman has ever made him wait before. I feel like he watches my facebook and watches me in person when I see him out.
Just try and hang in there..
The life of a Taurus will always be a roller-coaster ".. We seek harmony in life but our lives seem to go the opposite way...
When my ex gem bf become my ex I said to him "when you were with me you had 5* luxury. Now you are back to Basics"... A good Taurus is worth the wait. ?
But you have to decide how much your value is and how much he is worth....click to expand
What do you suggest?
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100I don't want to fight with him. I just want to know how he is doing and if he is okay. However, I don't know if I should just wait until he contacts me or until I see him next time we are with our friends. So confusing! lolPosted by ScorpGIf you box into a corner... They will do either of two things 1) stand and fight or 2) runPosted by JohnTheBaptist100haha it's not like that, I love Taurus women. But they always distance themselves when you step towards them 😛Posted by ScorpGCome guys... Don't let bitterness cloud the judgment of truth.. Lol lolPosted by littlebubbleSo accurate.
Stop crying for man, they only want sex. Taurus woman is not that ''open'', they hug and are lovely with everyone, and when you show you want them, they run, very cruel thing.
I have a fire moon so you can step up to me any time but most of the Taurus males and females I know if you corner them they run.. They hate conflict as a rule...
If you mean something to me I will stand and hash it out with you if you mean nothing to me I will walk....
I always told my exes.. Be grateful when I am arguing with you as there is still passions... When I am silent and I no longer "fight" the passion has died that's when I walk away and I walk away for GOOD.. Leo moon... 😉click to expand
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100I am not sure. He was born May 20th, 1990.Posted by ALGLAM1026What moon is he?Posted by JohnTheBaptist100I am not too good with those astrology charts lol. He did say he has a hard time talking about certain things. :-/ ugh.... I don't know if I should just wait for him to contact me or if I should eventually text himPosted by ALGLAM1026I made mine wait 18 months and it was the longest in history for him... Lol lol lol He used to say "I may not look like George Clooney but I have a lot to offer".... He treated me like a QueenPosted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by ALGLAM1026And this is what we look for... This is the NUMBER ONE factor which will get a Taurus to dump you or "go off you".. Even if not officially together "loyalty" plays a BIG part... If we have a disagreement with you which is not officially a permanent split, there is still an "invisible string" connecting us to you where we will still do "background checks" on your fb or in general to see what you are "upto"... Any "whiff" of another person etc. We are OUT..Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Well, I have not dated or been with anyone else since we broke up and he knows that. I am not an easy one and definitely don't sleep around so.....Posted by AneemAIf you have been with other people, I suggest you move on...Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Nope, when I was still in a relationship, of course. I was waiting for his life to improve so we can do what we spoke of, marriage but seeing him seemingly put little effort to it, then I started to think that we were not going anywhere, so.Posted by AneemABut your Taurus is an "Ex".. Once that person becomes an ex there is no other level to take it... You should not be with them if you have "officially broken up"...Posted by ALGLAM1026As long as you can take. I don't think pushing ourselves beyond limit is healthy either. I'm afraid it will take compensation to other aspects of us/our lives.Posted by AneemAI am trying, thank you lol. I am just not sure how long I should be patient for.... :-/
Take that pill of patience again, and double dose it 😛
However, you know if we take a supplement without the main diet then it is not going to cut it.
If the rhythm doesn't match then what to do.
I've been waiting for the next level with my taurus ex for 4 years and when I'm done, I'm so done. You know your limit. 🙂
We both tried out with other people after then we casually came in contact again and he asked playfully to be back like how we used to, I was like... Wut?
As a Taurus, if a person made me their ex and then went on to someone else, then it would be OVER. No going back... Because as far as this Leo moon of mine is concerned, I am the best and if you can't see it at the time and decide to risk being with me by ending our relationship and then you move onto someone else and then realise that you made a mistake and you want me back... They become a fool in my eyes.. I don't date fools...
If a person is an ex because of personal problems and is seeing no one else and not engaging with anyone else then that is different....
He does check my facebook a lot - as he "likes" stuff a lot. He always said that me not being the easy type was one of his favorite things about me. He liked how I made him wait for sex and no woman has ever made him wait before. I feel like he watches my facebook and watches me in person when I see him out.
Just try and hang in there..
The life of a Taurus will always be a roller-coaster ".. We seek harmony in life but our lives seem to go the opposite way...
When my ex gem bf become my ex I said to him "when you were with me you had 5* luxury. Now you are back to Basics"... A good Taurus is worth the wait. ?
But you have to decide how much your value is and how much he is worth....
What do you suggest?
The fact, he has told you about his situation. But with the limited time he has or emotional investment, he still makes time to see you.. You have to work out if that is valuable enough or means enough for you to continue and wait for better days to come or walk away... Depends on how much he means to you...
I know that my life would be emptier without my bull in it....click to expand
Posted by ScorpGTrue but my gut tells me it's not a dead situation. My gut has always been right in the past so I don't know. I truly do not think he would've vanished if all of those things didn't happen right at the moment we were rekindling....Posted by JohnTheBaptist100It seems to be true. You know, I wish everybody here had all this knowledge when it was the time. But we tend to learn on the aftermath/ analyzing a dead situation.Posted by ScorpGIf you box into a corner... They will do either of two things 1) stand and fight or 2) runPosted by JohnTheBaptist100haha it's not like that, I love Taurus women. But they always distance themselves when you step towards them 😛Posted by ScorpGCome guys... Don't let bitterness cloud the judgment of truth.. Lol lolPosted by littlebubbleSo accurate.
Stop crying for man, they only want sex. Taurus woman is not that ''open'', they hug and are lovely with everyone, and when you show you want them, they run, very cruel thing.
I have a fire moon so you can step up to me any time but most of the Taurus males and females I know if you corner them they run.. They hate conflict as a rule...
If you mean something to me I will stand and hash it out with you if you mean nothing to me I will walk....
I always told my exes.. Be grateful when I am arguing with you as there is still passions... When I am silent and I no longer "fight" the passion has died that's when I walk away and I walk away for GOOD.. Leo moon... 😉click to expand
Posted by ScorpGI understand. Thank you.Posted by ALGLAM1026Excuse me for the misunderstanding, of course yours it's not a dead situation, I was talking in general, mostly referring to mine 🙂Posted by ScorpGTrue but my gut tells me it's not a dead situation. My gut has always been right in the past so I don't know. I truly do not think he would've vanished if all of those things didn't happen right at the moment we were rekindling....Posted by JohnTheBaptist100It seems to be true. You know, I wish everybody here had all this knowledge when it was the time. But we tend to learn on the aftermath/ analyzing a dead situation.Posted by ScorpGIf you box into a corner... They will do either of two things 1) stand and fight or 2) runPosted by JohnTheBaptist100haha it's not like that, I love Taurus women. But they always distance themselves when you step towards them 😛Posted by ScorpGCome guys... Don't let bitterness cloud the judgment of truth.. Lol lolPosted by littlebubbleSo accurate.
Stop crying for man, they only want sex. Taurus woman is not that ''open'', they hug and are lovely with everyone, and when you show you want them, they run, very cruel thing.
I have a fire moon so you can step up to me any time but most of the Taurus males and females I know if you corner them they run.. They hate conflict as a rule...
If you mean something to me I will stand and hash it out with you if you mean nothing to me I will walk....
I always told my exes.. Be grateful when I am arguing with you as there is still passions... When I am silent and I no longer "fight" the passion has died that's when I walk away and I walk away for GOOD.. Leo moon... 😉click to expand

Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by littlebubbleThis is crap... We are friendly to everyone... Especially if they have a VIP.
Stop crying for man, they only want sex. Taurus woman is not that ''open'', they hug and are lovely with everyone, and when you show you want them, they run, very cruel thing.
If we are not interested in a person on an intimate level we will tell you...click to expand
For me a Cancer with Scorpio moon, flirt, be excessively friendly and stare at me while sucking an ice cream, it is not only to be ''friendly''.She did it and when I wanted something else, she did not answer '' yes '' or '' no ''.
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100What age is the settle down age for you guys? I am 30 and I told him he was too young for me in the beginning and that I've never dated someone younger. He said that he was wise beyond his years. I do agree to an extent and I think he's been through a lot in his life. However, he does not have many experiences in a relationship.Posted by ALGLAM1026Where was he born? Do a Web search for his time of birth..Posted by JohnTheBaptist100I am not sure. He was born May 20th, 1990.Posted by ALGLAM1026What moon is he?Posted by JohnTheBaptist100I am not too good with those astrology charts lol. He did say he has a hard time talking about certain things. :-/ ugh.... I don't know if I should just wait for him to contact me or if I should eventually text himPosted by ALGLAM1026I made mine wait 18 months and it was the longest in history for him... Lol lol lol He used to say "I may not look like George Clooney but I have a lot to offer".... He treated me like a QueenPosted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by ALGLAM1026And this is what we look for... This is the NUMBER ONE factor which will get a Taurus to dump you or "go off you".. Even if not officially together "loyalty" plays a BIG part... If we have a disagreement with you which is not officially a permanent split, there is still an "invisible string" connecting us to you where we will still do "background checks" on your fb or in general to see what you are "upto"... Any "whiff" of another person etc. We are OUT..Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Well, I have not dated or been with anyone else since we broke up and he knows that. I am not an easy one and definitely don't sleep around so.....Posted by AneemAIf you have been with other people, I suggest you move on...Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Nope, when I was still in a relationship, of course. I was waiting for his life to improve so we can do what we spoke of, marriage but seeing him seemingly put little effort to it, then I started to think that we were not going anywhere, so.Posted by AneemABut your Taurus is an "Ex".. Once that person becomes an ex there is no other level to take it... You should not be with them if you have "officially broken up"...Posted by ALGLAM1026As long as you can take. I don't think pushing ourselves beyond limit is healthy either. I'm afraid it will take compensation to other aspects of us/our lives.Posted by AneemAI am trying, thank you lol. I am just not sure how long I should be patient for.... :-/
Take that pill of patience again, and double dose it 😛
However, you know if we take a supplement without the main diet then it is not going to cut it.
If the rhythm doesn't match then what to do.
I've been waiting for the next level with my taurus ex for 4 years and when I'm done, I'm so done. You know your limit. 🙂
We both tried out with other people after then we casually came in contact again and he asked playfully to be back like how we used to, I was like... Wut?
As a Taurus, if a person made me their ex and then went on to someone else, then it would be OVER. No going back... Because as far as this Leo moon of mine is concerned, I am the best and if you can't see it at the time and decide to risk being with me by ending our relationship and then you move onto someone else and then realise that you made a mistake and you want me back... They become a fool in my eyes.. I don't date fools...
If a person is an ex because of personal problems and is seeing no one else and not engaging with anyone else then that is different....
He does check my facebook a lot - as he "likes" stuff a lot. He always said that me not being the easy type was one of his favorite things about me. He liked how I made him wait for sex and no woman has ever made him wait before. I feel like he watches my facebook and watches me in person when I see him out.
Just try and hang in there..
The life of a Taurus will always be a roller-coaster ".. We seek harmony in life but our lives seem to go the opposite way...
When my ex gem bf become my ex I said to him "when you were with me you had 5* luxury. Now you are back to Basics"... A good Taurus is worth the wait. ?
But you have to decide how much your value is and how much he is worth....
What do you suggest?
The fact, he has told you about his situation. But with the limited time he has or emotional investment, he still makes time to see you.. You have to work out if that is valuable enough or means enough for you to continue and wait for better days to come or walk away... Depends on how much he means to you...
I know that my life would be emptier without my bull in it....
But he is only 27... Young bulls see not the commitment type at that age to be honest... I'm mature and I still find it hard to commit or settle into a relationship...click to expand
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100LOLOLPosted by littlebubbleSo she is a cock tease... Big deal.. Get Over it... I've been called a cock tease before.... Next...Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by littlebubbleThis is crap... We are friendly to everyone... Especially if they have a VIP.
Stop crying for man, they only want sex. Taurus woman is not that ''open'', they hug and are lovely with everyone, and when you show you want them, they run, very cruel thing.
If we are not interested in a person on an intimate level we will tell you...
For me a Cancer with Scorpio moon, flirt, be excessively friendly and stare at me while sucking an ice cream, it is not only to be ''friendly''.She did it and when I wanted something else, she did not answer '' yes '' or '' no ''.click to expand
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Geez, that stinks. What makes someone "ready"? I have twin girls and I am 30. I just thought he'd want a family by now especially if he finally found a good woman who made him wait and loves cooking. He did say we have a special bond. Guys suck :-/ sorry, most guys haPosted by ALGLAM1026Posted by JohnTheBaptist100What age is the settle down age for you guys? I am 30 and I told him he was too young for me in the beginning and that I've never dated someone younger. He said that he was wise beyond his years. I do agree to an extent and I think he's been through a lot in his life. However, he does not have many experiences in a relationship.Posted by ALGLAM1026Where was he born? Do a Web search for his time of birth..Posted by JohnTheBaptist100I am not sure. He was born May 20th, 1990.Posted by ALGLAM1026What moon is he?Posted by JohnTheBaptist100I am not too good with those astrology charts lol. He did say he has a hard time talking about certain things. :-/ ugh.... I don't know if I should just wait for him to contact me or if I should eventually text himPosted by ALGLAM1026I made mine wait 18 months and it was the longest in history for him... Lol lol lol He used to say "I may not look like George Clooney but I have a lot to offer".... He treated me like a QueenPosted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by ALGLAM1026And this is what we look for... This is the NUMBER ONE factor which will get a Taurus to dump you or "go off you".. Even if not officially together "loyalty" plays a BIG part... If we have a disagreement with you which is not officially a permanent split, there is still an "invisible string" connecting us to you where we will still do "background checks" on your fb or in general to see what you are "upto"... Any "whiff" of another person etc. We are OUT..Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Well, I have not dated or been with anyone else since we broke up and he knows that. I am not an easy one and definitely don't sleep around so.....Posted by AneemAIf you have been with other people, I suggest you move on...Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Nope, when I was still in a relationship, of course. I was waiting for his life to improve so we can do what we spoke of, marriage but seeing him seemingly put little effort to it, then I started to think that we were not going anywhere, so.Posted by AneemABut your Taurus is an "Ex".. Once that person becomes an ex there is no other level to take it... You should not be with them if you have "officially broken up"...Posted by ALGLAM1026As long as you can take. I don't think pushing ourselves beyond limit is healthy either. I'm afraid it will take compensation to other aspects of us/our lives.Posted by AneemAI am trying, thank you lol. I am just not sure how long I should be patient for.... :-/
Take that pill of patience again, and double dose it 😛
However, you know if we take a supplement without the main diet then it is not going to cut it.
If the rhythm doesn't match then what to do.
I've been waiting for the next level with my taurus ex for 4 years and when I'm done, I'm so done. You know your limit. 🙂
We both tried out with other people after then we casually came in contact again and he asked playfully to be back like how we used to, I was like... Wut?
As a Taurus, if a person made me their ex and then went on to someone else, then it would be OVER. No going back... Because as far as this Leo moon of mine is concerned, I am the best and if you can't see it at the time and decide to risk being with me by ending our relationship and then you move onto someone else and then realise that you made a mistake and you want me back... They become a fool in my eyes.. I don't date fools...
If a person is an ex because of personal problems and is seeing no one else and not engaging with anyone else then that is different....
He does check my facebook a lot - as he "likes" stuff a lot. He always said that me not being the easy type was one of his favorite things about me. He liked how I made him wait for sex and no woman has ever made him wait before. I feel like he watches my facebook and watches me in person when I see him out.
Just try and hang in there..
The life of a Taurus will always be a roller-coaster ".. We seek harmony in life but our lives seem to go the opposite way...
When my ex gem bf become my ex I said to him "when you were with me you had 5* luxury. Now you are back to Basics"... A good Taurus is worth the wait. ?
But you have to decide how much your value is and how much he is worth....
What do you suggest?
The fact, he has told you about his situation. But with the limited time he has or emotional investment, he still makes time to see you.. You have to work out if that is valuable enough or means enough for you to continue and wait for better days to come or walk away... Depends on how much he means to you...
I know that my life would be emptier without my bull in it....
But he is only 27... Young bulls see not the commitment type at that age to be honest... I'm mature and I still find it hard to commit or settle into a relationship...
Unfortunately age will play a huge factor here... He's not ready to settle down whereas you are and he already has a child...
Most Taurus I know are marrying either too early (I was divorced by age 30) and only had one relationship with the ex gem 4 years later and I stayed single many years. No children.
My other Taurus male friend aged 51 single after ending a relationship 2 years ago. Never married no kids, never engaged.
My Taurus beau 41 never married or engaged got child aged 19.
My taurus female twin friends. Aged 40. One has been in a relationship with an Aries male for 13 years and getting married this year. Her sister was in a relationship for 15 years but he went off with someone else. She met her bull husband a year later and they married within 3 years. No children.
Look at George Clooney! That says it all...
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Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Great... ugh I don't know if I am wasting my time or if he will ever come aroundPosted by ALGLAM1026But that is most men in their 20s... Have a look on any astrological site and they all staff young bulls are not good before age 35.Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Geez, that stinks. What makes someone "ready"? I have twin girls and I am 30. I just thought he'd want a family by now especially if he finally found a good woman who made him wait and loves cooking. He did say we have a special bond. Guys suck :-/ sorry, most guys haPosted by ALGLAM1026Posted by JohnTheBaptist100What age is the settle down age for you guys? I am 30 and I told him he was too young for me in the beginning and that I've never dated someone younger. He said that he was wise beyond his years. I do agree to an extent and I think he's been through a lot in his life. However, he does not have many experiences in a relationship.Posted by ALGLAM1026Where was he born? Do a Web search for his time of birth..Posted by JohnTheBaptist100I am not sure. He was born May 20th, 1990.Posted by ALGLAM1026What moon is he?Posted by JohnTheBaptist100I am not too good with those astrology charts lol. He did say he has a hard time talking about certain things. :-/ ugh.... I don't know if I should just wait for him to contact me or if I should eventually text himPosted by ALGLAM1026I made mine wait 18 months and it was the longest in history for him... Lol lol lol He used to say "I may not look like George Clooney but I have a lot to offer".... He treated me like a QueenPosted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by ALGLAM1026And this is what we look for... This is the NUMBER ONE factor which will get a Taurus to dump you or "go off you".. Even if not officially together "loyalty" plays a BIG part... If we have a disagreement with you which is not officially a permanent split, there is still an "invisible string" connecting us to you where we will still do "background checks" on your fb or in general to see what you are "upto"... Any "whiff" of another person etc. We are OUT..Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Well, I have not dated or been with anyone else since we broke up and he knows that. I am not an easy one and definitely don't sleep around so.....Posted by AneemAIf you have been with other people, I suggest you move on...Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Nope, when I was still in a relationship, of course. I was waiting for his life to improve so we can do what we spoke of, marriage but seeing him seemingly put little effort to it, then I started to think that we were not going anywhere, so.Posted by AneemABut your Taurus is an "Ex".. Once that person becomes an ex there is no other level to take it... You should not be with them if you have "officially broken up"...Posted by ALGLAM1026As long as you can take. I don't think pushing ourselves beyond limit is healthy either. I'm afraid it will take compensation to other aspects of us/our lives.Posted by AneemAI am trying, thank you lol. I am just not sure how long I should be patient for.... :-/
Take that pill of patience again, and double dose it 😛
However, you know if we take a supplement without the main diet then it is not going to cut it.
If the rhythm doesn't match then what to do.
I've been waiting for the next level with my taurus ex for 4 years and when I'm done, I'm so done. You know your limit. 🙂
We both tried out with other people after then we casually came in contact again and he asked playfully to be back like how we used to, I was like... Wut?
As a Taurus, if a person made me their ex and then went on to someone else, then it would be OVER. No going back... Because as far as this Leo moon of mine is concerned, I am the best and if you can't see it at the time and decide to risk being with me by ending our relationship and then you move onto someone else and then realise that you made a mistake and you want me back... They become a fool in my eyes.. I don't date fools...
If a person is an ex because of personal problems and is seeing no one else and not engaging with anyone else then that is different....
He does check my facebook a lot - as he "likes" stuff a lot. He always said that me not being the easy type was one of his favorite things about me. He liked how I made him wait for sex and no woman has ever made him wait before. I feel like he watches my facebook and watches me in person when I see him out.
Just try and hang in there..
The life of a Taurus will always be a roller-coaster ".. We seek harmony in life but our lives seem to go the opposite way...
When my ex gem bf become my ex I said to him "when you were with me you had 5* luxury. Now you are back to Basics"... A good Taurus is worth the wait. ?
But you have to decide how much your value is and how much he is worth....
What do you suggest?
The fact, he has told you about his situation. But with the limited time he has or emotional investment, he still makes time to see you.. You have to work out if that is valuable enough or means enough for you to continue and wait for better days to come or walk away... Depends on how much he means to you...
I know that my life would be emptier without my bull in it....
But he is only 27... Young bulls see not the commitment type at that age to be honest... I'm mature and I still find it hard to commit or settle into a relationship...
Unfortunately age will play a huge factor here... He's not ready to settle down whereas you are and he already has a child...
Most Taurus I know are marrying either too early (I was divorced by age 30) and only had one relationship with the ex gem 4 years later and I stayed single many years. No children.
My other Taurus male friend aged 51 single after ending a relationship 2 years ago. Never married no kids, never engaged.
My Taurus beau 41 never married or engaged got child aged 19.
My taurus female twin friends. Aged 40. One has been in a relationship with an Aries male for 13 years and getting married this year. Her sister was in a relationship for 15 years but he went off with someone else. She met her bull husband a year later and they married within 3 years. No children.
Look at George Clooney! That says it all...
My bull ended his 12 year relationship age 38. I ended mine aged 37. My bull friend ended his age 48! Taurus is not afraid to end a relationship but they take a long time to get there hence their hesitancy to even commit to one...click to expand

I can't trust easily because I've been cheated on, and that s h i t messes you up. I have a hard time trusting people nowadays from it, but in time I'll grow to trust them. Just gotta be patient. Do you know his past relationships?
Posted by earlorg16I am sorry about that. He's really only had one other relationship, 4 years though. She slept with him the first night so that should've been his first sign. However, he left her because she went put one night without him, didnt answer her phone and came home at 5 am.
I can't trust easily because I've been cheated on, and that s h i t messes you up. I have a hard time trusting people nowadays from it, but in time I'll grow to trust them. Just gotta be patient. Do you know his past relationships?

Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by LentoBull91I have always only been addicted to work and travel but bloomed late, gave relationships a try. Was married in my 20s divorced aged 30. I love my singledom but also searched for the One. I know in my heart that I have finally found him... I always pray we can overcome life's hurdles and it lasts till eternity... ??Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by ALGLAM1026Where was he born? Do a Web search for his time of birth..Posted by JohnTheBaptist100I am not sure. He was born May 20th, 1990.Posted by ALGLAM1026What moon is he?Posted by JohnTheBaptist100I am not too good with those astrology charts lol. He did say he has a hard time talking about certain things. :-/ ugh.... I don't know if I should just wait for him to contact me or if I should eventually text himPosted by ALGLAM1026I made mine wait 18 months and it was the longest in history for him... Lol lol lol He used to say "I may not look like George Clooney but I have a lot to offer".... He treated me like a QueenPosted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by ALGLAM1026And this is what we look for... This is the NUMBER ONE factor which will get a Taurus to dump you or "go off you".. Even if not officially together "loyalty" plays a BIG part... If we have a disagreement with you which is not officially a permanent split, there is still an "invisible string" connecting us to you where we will still do "background checks" on your fb or in general to see what you are "upto"... Any "whiff" of another person etc. We are OUT..Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Well, I have not dated or been with anyone else since we broke up and he knows that. I am not an easy one and definitely don't sleep around so.....Posted by AneemAIf you have been with other people, I suggest you move on...Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Nope, when I was still in a relationship, of course. I was waiting for his life to improve so we can do what we spoke of, marriage but seeing him seemingly put little effort to it, then I started to think that we were not going anywhere, so.Posted by AneemABut your Taurus is an "Ex".. Once that person becomes an ex there is no other level to take it... You should not be with them if you have "officially broken up"...Posted by ALGLAM1026As long as you can take. I don't think pushing ourselves beyond limit is healthy either. I'm afraid it will take compensation to other aspects of us/our lives.Posted by AneemAI am trying, thank you lol. I am just not sure how long I should be patient for.... :-/
Take that pill of patience again, and double dose it 😛
However, you know if we take a supplement without the main diet then it is not going to cut it.
If the rhythm doesn't match then what to do.
I've been waiting for the next level with my taurus ex for 4 years and when I'm done, I'm so done. You know your limit. 🙂
We both tried out with other people after then we casually came in contact again and he asked playfully to be back like how we used to, I was like... Wut?
As a Taurus, if a person made me their ex and then went on to someone else, then it would be OVER. No going back... Because as far as this Leo moon of mine is concerned, I am the best and if you can't see it at the time and decide to risk being with me by ending our relationship and then you move onto someone else and then realise that you made a mistake and you want me back... They become a fool in my eyes.. I don't date fools...
If a person is an ex because of personal problems and is seeing no one else and not engaging with anyone else then that is different....
He does check my facebook a lot - as he "likes" stuff a lot. He always said that me not being the easy type was one of his favorite things about me. He liked how I made him wait for sex and no woman has ever made him wait before. I feel like he watches my facebook and watches me in person when I see him out.
Just try and hang in there..
The life of a Taurus will always be a roller-coaster ".. We seek harmony in life but our lives seem to go the opposite way...
When my ex gem bf become my ex I said to him "when you were with me you had 5* luxury. Now you are back to Basics"... A good Taurus is worth the wait. ?
But you have to decide how much your value is and how much he is worth....
What do you suggest?
The fact, he has told you about his situation. But with the limited time he has or emotional investment, he still makes time to see you.. You have to work out if that is valuable enough or means enough for you to continue and wait for better days to come or walk away... Depends on how much he means to you...
I know that my life would be emptier without my bull in it....
But he is only 27... Young bulls see not the commitment type at that age to be honest... I'm mature and I still find it hard to commit or settle into a relationship...
odd I've been ready to settle down since like 19 I knew what I wanted and that's a cohesive unit. I just haven't been able to find the right one to settle down with and start a family but I guess my cancer influence plays a part in that. I remember one time my friends Aquarius sister told me that I need to settle down already and I was only 21 I laughed because she's younger than me I guess she sensed that I wanted too.
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yeah I get that I do love my freedom and like to do as I please no attachments go where ever I want when I want less stress as well which is great. Glad to hear you found a good prospect patience truly is a virtue good look on your journey.
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100We are good at being free. Thank you for all of your advice.Posted by ALGLAM1026You cant change fate.. What will be will be. Patience is the key...Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Great... ugh I don't know if I am wasting my time or if he will ever come aroundPosted by ALGLAM1026But that is most men in their 20s... Have a look on any astrological site and they all staff young bulls are not good before age 35.Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Geez, that stinks. What makes someone "ready"? I have twin girls and I am 30. I just thought he'd want a family by now especially if he finally found a good woman who made him wait and loves cooking. He did say we have a special bond. Guys suck :-/ sorry, most guys haPosted by ALGLAM1026Posted by JohnTheBaptist100What age is the settle down age for you guys? I am 30 and I told him he was too young for me in the beginning and that I've never dated someone younger. He said that he was wise beyond his years. I do agree to an extent and I think he's been through a lot in his life. However, he does not have many experiences in a relationship.Posted by ALGLAM1026Where was he born? Do a Web search for his time of birth..Posted by JohnTheBaptist100I am not sure. He was born May 20th, 1990.Posted by ALGLAM1026What moon is he?Posted by JohnTheBaptist100I am not too good with those astrology charts lol. He did say he has a hard time talking about certain things. :-/ ugh.... I don't know if I should just wait for him to contact me or if I should eventually text himPosted by ALGLAM1026I made mine wait 18 months and it was the longest in history for him... Lol lol lol He used to say "I may not look like George Clooney but I have a lot to offer".... He treated me like a QueenPosted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by ALGLAM1026And this is what we look for... This is the NUMBER ONE factor which will get a Taurus to dump you or "go off you".. Even if not officially together "loyalty" plays a BIG part... If we have a disagreement with you which is not officially a permanent split, there is still an "invisible string" connecting us to you where we will still do "background checks" on your fb or in general to see what you are "upto"... Any "whiff" of another person etc. We are OUT..Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Well, I have not dated or been with anyone else since we broke up and he knows that. I am not an easy one and definitely don't sleep around so.....Posted by AneemAIf you have been with other people, I suggest you move on...Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Nope, when I was still in a relationship, of course. I was waiting for his life to improve so we can do what we spoke of, marriage but seeing him seemingly put little effort to it, then I started to think that we were not going anywhere, so.Posted by AneemABut your Taurus is an "Ex".. Once that person becomes an ex there is no other level to take it... You should not be with them if you have "officially broken up"...Posted by ALGLAM1026As long as you can take. I don't think pushing ourselves beyond limit is healthy either. I'm afraid it will take compensation to other aspects of us/our lives.Posted by AneemAI am trying, thank you lol. I am just not sure how long I should be patient for.... :-/
Take that pill of patience again, and double dose it 😛
However, you know if we take a supplement without the main diet then it is not going to cut it.
If the rhythm doesn't match then what to do.
I've been waiting for the next level with my taurus ex for 4 years and when I'm done, I'm so done. You know your limit. 🙂
We both tried out with other people after then we casually came in contact again and he asked playfully to be back like how we used to, I was like... Wut?
As a Taurus, if a person made me their ex and then went on to someone else, then it would be OVER. No going back... Because as far as this Leo moon of mine is concerned, I am the best and if you can't see it at the time and decide to risk being with me by ending our relationship and then you move onto someone else and then realise that you made a mistake and you want me back... They become a fool in my eyes.. I don't date fools...
If a person is an ex because of personal problems and is seeing no one else and not engaging with anyone else then that is different....
He does check my facebook a lot - as he "likes" stuff a lot. He always said that me not being the easy type was one of his favorite things about me. He liked how I made him wait for sex and no woman has ever made him wait before. I feel like he watches my facebook and watches me in person when I see him out.
Just try and hang in there..
The life of a Taurus will always be a roller-coaster ".. We seek harmony in life but our lives seem to go the opposite way...
When my ex gem bf become my ex I said to him "when you were with me you had 5* luxury. Now you are back to Basics"... A good Taurus is worth the wait. ?
But you have to decide how much your value is and how much he is worth....
What do you suggest?
The fact, he has told you about his situation. But with the limited time he has or emotional investment, he still makes time to see you.. You have to work out if that is valuable enough or means enough for you to continue and wait for better days to come or walk away... Depends on how much he means to you...
I know that my life would be emptier without my bull in it....
But he is only 27... Young bulls see not the commitment type at that age to be honest... I'm mature and I still find it hard to commit or settle into a relationship...
Unfortunately age will play a huge factor here... He's not ready to settle down whereas you are and he already has a child...
Most Taurus I know are marrying either too early (I was divorced by age 30) and only had one relationship with the ex gem 4 years later and I stayed single many years. No children.
My other Taurus male friend aged 51 single after ending a relationship 2 years ago. Never married no kids, never engaged.
My Taurus beau 41 never married or engaged got child aged 19.
My taurus female twin friends. Aged 40. One has been in a relationship with an Aries male for 13 years and getting married this year. Her sister was in a relationship for 15 years but he went off with someone else. She met her bull husband a year later and they married within 3 years. No children.
Look at George Clooney! That says it all...
My bull ended his 12 year relationship age 38. I ended mine aged 37. My bull friend ended his age 48! Taurus is not afraid to end a relationship but they take a long time to get there hence their hesitancy to even commit to one...
Just carry on your life as normal... If you care for him... Call him from time to time and see how he is...
If you set a person free and they return then they are meant to be with you. Geminis are good at being free...click to expand
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100I don't really know what it means when a man says he's not "ready" especially when he has kids because I think that shouls be a priority to find a good person to have a family with. I also think Taurus guys are very insecure. He says that I deserve better than him.Posted by LentoBull91I have always only been addicted to work and travel but bloomed late, gave relationships a try. Was married in my 20s divorced aged 30. I love my singledom but also searched for the One. I know in my heart that I have finally found him... I always pray we can overcome life's hurdles and it lasts till eternity... ??Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by ALGLAM1026Where was he born? Do a Web search for his time of birth..Posted by JohnTheBaptist100I am not sure. He was born May 20th, 1990.Posted by ALGLAM1026What moon is he?Posted by JohnTheBaptist100I am not too good with those astrology charts lol. He did say he has a hard time talking about certain things. :-/ ugh.... I don't know if I should just wait for him to contact me or if I should eventually text himPosted by ALGLAM1026I made mine wait 18 months and it was the longest in history for him... Lol lol lol He used to say "I may not look like George Clooney but I have a lot to offer".... He treated me like a QueenPosted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by ALGLAM1026And this is what we look for... This is the NUMBER ONE factor which will get a Taurus to dump you or "go off you".. Even if not officially together "loyalty" plays a BIG part... If we have a disagreement with you which is not officially a permanent split, there is still an "invisible string" connecting us to you where we will still do "background checks" on your fb or in general to see what you are "upto"... Any "whiff" of another person etc. We are OUT..Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Well, I have not dated or been with anyone else since we broke up and he knows that. I am not an easy one and definitely don't sleep around so.....Posted by AneemAIf you have been with other people, I suggest you move on...Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Nope, when I was still in a relationship, of course. I was waiting for his life to improve so we can do what we spoke of, marriage but seeing him seemingly put little effort to it, then I started to think that we were not going anywhere, so.Posted by AneemABut your Taurus is an "Ex".. Once that person becomes an ex there is no other level to take it... You should not be with them if you have "officially broken up"...Posted by ALGLAM1026As long as you can take. I don't think pushing ourselves beyond limit is healthy either. I'm afraid it will take compensation to other aspects of us/our lives.Posted by AneemAI am trying, thank you lol. I am just not sure how long I should be patient for.... :-/
Take that pill of patience again, and double dose it 😛
However, you know if we take a supplement without the main diet then it is not going to cut it.
If the rhythm doesn't match then what to do.
I've been waiting for the next level with my taurus ex for 4 years and when I'm done, I'm so done. You know your limit. 🙂
We both tried out with other people after then we casually came in contact again and he asked playfully to be back like how we used to, I was like... Wut?
As a Taurus, if a person made me their ex and then went on to someone else, then it would be OVER. No going back... Because as far as this Leo moon of mine is concerned, I am the best and if you can't see it at the time and decide to risk being with me by ending our relationship and then you move onto someone else and then realise that you made a mistake and you want me back... They become a fool in my eyes.. I don't date fools...
If a person is an ex because of personal problems and is seeing no one else and not engaging with anyone else then that is different....
He does check my facebook a lot - as he "likes" stuff a lot. He always said that me not being the easy type was one of his favorite things about me. He liked how I made him wait for sex and no woman has ever made him wait before. I feel like he watches my facebook and watches me in person when I see him out.
Just try and hang in there..
The life of a Taurus will always be a roller-coaster ".. We seek harmony in life but our lives seem to go the opposite way...
When my ex gem bf become my ex I said to him "when you were with me you had 5* luxury. Now you are back to Basics"... A good Taurus is worth the wait. ?
But you have to decide how much your value is and how much he is worth....
What do you suggest?
The fact, he has told you about his situation. But with the limited time he has or emotional investment, he still makes time to see you.. You have to work out if that is valuable enough or means enough for you to continue and wait for better days to come or walk away... Depends on how much he means to you...
I know that my life would be emptier without my bull in it....
But he is only 27... Young bulls see not the commitment type at that age to be honest... I'm mature and I still find it hard to commit or settle into a relationship...
odd I've been ready to settle down since like 19 I knew what I wanted and that's a cohesive unit. I just haven't been able to find the right one to settle down with and start a family but I guess my cancer influence plays a part in that. I remember one time my friends Aquarius sister told me that I need to settle down already and I was only 21 I laughed because she's younger than me I guess she sensed that I wanted too.
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Posted by JohnTheBaptist100You men are confusing lol I try to read between the lines but they're such bumpy and crooked lines. I am very patient unlike most geminis. I give him space for days and even weeks sometimes when he shut me out. I am trying to decipher the difference between too much space and just enough.Posted by LentoBull91Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by LentoBull91I have always only been addicted to work and travel but bloomed late, gave relationships a try. Was married in my 20s divorced aged 30. I love my singledom but also searched for the One. I know in my heart that I have finally found him... I always pray we can overcome life's hurdles and it lasts till eternity... ??Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by ALGLAM1026Where was he born? Do a Web search for his time of birth..Posted by JohnTheBaptist100I am not sure. He was born May 20th, 1990.Posted by ALGLAM1026What moon is he?Posted by JohnTheBaptist100I am not too good with those astrology charts lol. He did say he has a hard time talking about certain things. :-/ ugh.... I don't know if I should just wait for him to contact me or if I should eventually text himPosted by ALGLAM1026I made mine wait 18 months and it was the longest in history for him... Lol lol lol He used to say "I may not look like George Clooney but I have a lot to offer".... He treated me like a QueenPosted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by ALGLAM1026And this is what we look for... This is the NUMBER ONE factor which will get a Taurus to dump you or "go off you".. Even if not officially together "loyalty" plays a BIG part... If we have a disagreement with you which is not officially a permanent split, there is still an "invisible string" connecting us to you where we will still do "background checks" on your fb or in general to see what you are "upto"... Any "whiff" of another person etc. We are OUT..Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Well, I have not dated or been with anyone else since we broke up and he knows that. I am not an easy one and definitely don't sleep around so.....Posted by AneemAIf you have been with other people, I suggest you move on...Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Nope, when I was still in a relationship, of course. I was waiting for his life to improve so we can do what we spoke of, marriage but seeing him seemingly put little effort to it, then I started to think that we were not going anywhere, so.Posted by AneemABut your Taurus is an "Ex".. Once that person becomes an ex there is no other level to take it... You should not be with them if you have "officially broken up"...Posted by ALGLAM1026As long as you can take. I don't think pushing ourselves beyond limit is healthy either. I'm afraid it will take compensation to other aspects of us/our lives.Posted by AneemAI am trying, thank you lol. I am just not sure how long I should be patient for.... :-/
Take that pill of patience again, and double dose it 😛
However, you know if we take a supplement without the main diet then it is not going to cut it.
If the rhythm doesn't match then what to do.
I've been waiting for the next level with my taurus ex for 4 years and when I'm done, I'm so done. You know your limit. 🙂
We both tried out with other people after then we casually came in contact again and he asked playfully to be back like how we used to, I was like... Wut?
As a Taurus, if a person made me their ex and then went on to someone else, then it would be OVER. No going back... Because as far as this Leo moon of mine is concerned, I am the best and if you can't see it at the time and decide to risk being with me by ending our relationship and then you move onto someone else and then realise that you made a mistake and you want me back... They become a fool in my eyes.. I don't date fools...
If a person is an ex because of personal problems and is seeing no one else and not engaging with anyone else then that is different....
He does check my facebook a lot - as he "likes" stuff a lot. He always said that me not being the easy type was one of his favorite things about me. He liked how I made him wait for sex and no woman has ever made him wait before. I feel like he watches my facebook and watches me in person when I see him out.
Just try and hang in there..
The life of a Taurus will always be a roller-coaster ".. We seek harmony in life but our lives seem to go the opposite way...
When my ex gem bf become my ex I said to him "when you were with me you had 5* luxury. Now you are back to Basics"... A good Taurus is worth the wait. ?
But you have to decide how much your value is and how much he is worth....
What do you suggest?
The fact, he has told you about his situation. But with the limited time he has or emotional investment, he still makes time to see you.. You have to work out if that is valuable enough or means enough for you to continue and wait for better days to come or walk away... Depends on how much he means to you...
I know that my life would be emptier without my bull in it....
But he is only 27... Young bulls see not the commitment type at that age to be honest... I'm mature and I still find it hard to commit or settle into a relationship...
odd I've been ready to settle down since like 19 I knew what I wanted and that's a cohesive unit. I just haven't been able to find the right one to settle down with and start a family but I guess my cancer influence plays a part in that. I remember one time my friends Aquarius sister told me that I need to settle down already and I was only 21 I laughed because she's younger than me I guess she sensed that I wanted too.
yeah I get that I do love my freedom and like to do as I please no attachments go where ever I want when I want less stress as well which is great. Glad to hear you found a good prospect patience truly is a virtue good look on your journey.
Everything you wrote above is me to a T.
My beau is a Taurus also and his mars in Pisces in 8th house conjuncts my Venus in Pisces in the 8th house which feels exactly as described in the astrological Web sites. It's not without its dramas and the "practicalities of life" do get in the way but we hold on as best we can to each other.. We never give up..
With a Taurus you have to "read between the lines" sometimes OP.
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Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Good for those of you who have found the "one". I hope I can say the same someday. Best of luck.Posted by LentoBull91PS. Thank you for your kind words. I hope you also find the One eventually. .. It takes years but "get there in the end" is Taurus motto.. Afterall "Enduring One" is our name...Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by LentoBull91I have always only been addicted to work and travel but bloomed late, gave relationships a try. Was married in my 20s divorced aged 30. I love my singledom but also searched for the One. I know in my heart that I have finally found him... I always pray we can overcome life's hurdles and it lasts till eternity... ??Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by ALGLAM1026Where was he born? Do a Web search for his time of birth..Posted by JohnTheBaptist100I am not sure. He was born May 20th, 1990.Posted by ALGLAM1026What moon is he?Posted by JohnTheBaptist100I am not too good with those astrology charts lol. He did say he has a hard time talking about certain things. :-/ ugh.... I don't know if I should just wait for him to contact me or if I should eventually text himPosted by ALGLAM1026I made mine wait 18 months and it was the longest in history for him... Lol lol lol He used to say "I may not look like George Clooney but I have a lot to offer".... He treated me like a QueenPosted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by ALGLAM1026And this is what we look for... This is the NUMBER ONE factor which will get a Taurus to dump you or "go off you".. Even if not officially together "loyalty" plays a BIG part... If we have a disagreement with you which is not officially a permanent split, there is still an "invisible string" connecting us to you where we will still do "background checks" on your fb or in general to see what you are "upto"... Any "whiff" of another person etc. We are OUT..Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Well, I have not dated or been with anyone else since we broke up and he knows that. I am not an easy one and definitely don't sleep around so.....Posted by AneemAIf you have been with other people, I suggest you move on...Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Nope, when I was still in a relationship, of course. I was waiting for his life to improve so we can do what we spoke of, marriage but seeing him seemingly put little effort to it, then I started to think that we were not going anywhere, so.Posted by AneemABut your Taurus is an "Ex".. Once that person becomes an ex there is no other level to take it... You should not be with them if you have "officially broken up"...Posted by ALGLAM1026As long as you can take. I don't think pushing ourselves beyond limit is healthy either. I'm afraid it will take compensation to other aspects of us/our lives.Posted by AneemAI am trying, thank you lol. I am just not sure how long I should be patient for.... :-/
Take that pill of patience again, and double dose it 😛
However, you know if we take a supplement without the main diet then it is not going to cut it.
If the rhythm doesn't match then what to do.
I've been waiting for the next level with my taurus ex for 4 years and when I'm done, I'm so done. You know your limit. 🙂
We both tried out with other people after then we casually came in contact again and he asked playfully to be back like how we used to, I was like... Wut?
As a Taurus, if a person made me their ex and then went on to someone else, then it would be OVER. No going back... Because as far as this Leo moon of mine is concerned, I am the best and if you can't see it at the time and decide to risk being with me by ending our relationship and then you move onto someone else and then realise that you made a mistake and you want me back... They become a fool in my eyes.. I don't date fools...
If a person is an ex because of personal problems and is seeing no one else and not engaging with anyone else then that is different....
He does check my facebook a lot - as he "likes" stuff a lot. He always said that me not being the easy type was one of his favorite things about me. He liked how I made him wait for sex and no woman has ever made him wait before. I feel like he watches my facebook and watches me in person when I see him out.
Just try and hang in there..
The life of a Taurus will always be a roller-coaster ".. We seek harmony in life but our lives seem to go the opposite way...
When my ex gem bf become my ex I said to him "when you were with me you had 5* luxury. Now you are back to Basics"... A good Taurus is worth the wait. ?
But you have to decide how much your value is and how much he is worth....
What do you suggest?
The fact, he has told you about his situation. But with the limited time he has or emotional investment, he still makes time to see you.. You have to work out if that is valuable enough or means enough for you to continue and wait for better days to come or walk away... Depends on how much he means to you...
I know that my life would be emptier without my bull in it....
But he is only 27... Young bulls see not the commitment type at that age to be honest... I'm mature and I still find it hard to commit or settle into a relationship...
odd I've been ready to settle down since like 19 I knew what I wanted and that's a cohesive unit. I just haven't been able to find the right one to settle down with and start a family but I guess my cancer influence plays a part in that. I remember one time my friends Aquarius sister told me that I need to settle down already and I was only 21 I laughed because she's younger than me I guess she sensed that I wanted too.
yeah I get that I do love my freedom and like to do as I please no attachments go where ever I want when I want less stress as well which is great. Glad to hear you found a good prospect patience truly is a virtue good look on your journey.
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Posted by JohnTheBaptist100It's okay... s h i t happens lol. I've given people a chance ever since but they either don't understand my situation (since they've never been cheated on) or the people I give a chance to end up leaving town due to work. It's fine though, I know eventually it'll happen. 🙂Posted by earlorg16Sorry to hear this... If a woman you like also likes you, give her a chance...
I can't trust easily because I've been cheated on, and that s h i t messes you up. I have a hard time trusting people nowadays from it, but in time I'll grow to trust them. Just gotta be patient. Do you know his past relationships?
So many tauruses lose out on sweet love through fear and not taking enough chances... They let logic overrule emotion which is not always a good thing... Good luck..click to expand
Posted by palehoovesI told him we would not have sex unless we were back together and he would have to wait for me again. He said he does love that about me as no other woman has ever made him wait.
lol. i've been reading this thread and you're telling her the same kind of shit that i would've told her. i was being serious. you're doing a good job explaining taurus to her in this thread.
the only other thing i'd personally add is to not have sex with him unless there's going to be commitment. don't give a man everything he wants out of a relationship and not have the relationship. that's just setting yourself up for heartbreak. women and men are different in how we respond to intimacy. it'll make her closer to him but he won't necessarily feel any closer to her.
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Ohh yes, I definitely reread them and try to figure out exactly what he means.Posted by ALGLAM1026I am actually female... 😉Posted by JohnTheBaptist100You men are confusing lol I try to read between the lines but they're such bumpy and crooked lines. I am very patient unlike most geminis. I give him space for days and even weeks sometimes when he shut me out. I am trying to decipher the difference between too much space and just enough.Posted by LentoBull91Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by LentoBull91I have always only been addicted to work and travel but bloomed late, gave relationships a try. Was married in my 20s divorced aged 30. I love my singledom but also searched for the One. I know in my heart that I have finally found him... I always pray we can overcome life's hurdles and it lasts till eternity... ??Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by ALGLAM1026Where was he born? Do a Web search for his time of birth..Posted by JohnTheBaptist100I am not sure. He was born May 20th, 1990.Posted by ALGLAM1026What moon is he?Posted by JohnTheBaptist100I am not too good with those astrology charts lol. He did say he has a hard time talking about certain things. :-/ ugh.... I don't know if I should just wait for him to contact me or if I should eventually text himPosted by ALGLAM1026I made mine wait 18 months and it was the longest in history for him... Lol lol lol He used to say "I may not look like George Clooney but I have a lot to offer".... He treated me like a QueenPosted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by ALGLAM1026And this is what we look for... This is the NUMBER ONE factor which will get a Taurus to dump you or "go off you".. Even if not officially together "loyalty" plays a BIG part... If we have a disagreement with you which is not officially a permanent split, there is still an "invisible string" connecting us to you where we will still do "background checks" on your fb or in general to see what you are "upto"... Any "whiff" of another person etc. We are OUT..Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Well, I have not dated or been with anyone else since we broke up and he knows that. I am not an easy one and definitely don't sleep around so.....Posted by AneemAIf you have been with other people, I suggest you move on...Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Nope, when I was still in a relationship, of course. I was waiting for his life to improve so we can do what we spoke of, marriage but seeing him seemingly put little effort to it, then I started to think that we were not going anywhere, so.Posted by AneemABut your Taurus is an "Ex".. Once that person becomes an ex there is no other level to take it... You should not be with them if you have "officially broken up"...Posted by ALGLAM1026As long as you can take. I don't think pushing ourselves beyond limit is healthy either. I'm afraid it will take compensation to other aspects of us/our lives.Posted by AneemAI am trying, thank you lol. I am just not sure how long I should be patient for.... :-/
Take that pill of patience again, and double dose it 😛
However, you know if we take a supplement without the main diet then it is not going to cut it.
If the rhythm doesn't match then what to do.
I've been waiting for the next level with my taurus ex for 4 years and when I'm done, I'm so done. You know your limit. 🙂
We both tried out with other people after then we casually came in contact again and he asked playfully to be back like how we used to, I was like... Wut?
As a Taurus, if a person made me their ex and then went on to someone else, then it would be OVER. No going back... Because as far as this Leo moon of mine is concerned, I am the best and if you can't see it at the time and decide to risk being with me by ending our relationship and then you move onto someone else and then realise that you made a mistake and you want me back... They become a fool in my eyes.. I don't date fools...
If a person is an ex because of personal problems and is seeing no one else and not engaging with anyone else then that is different....
He does check my facebook a lot - as he "likes" stuff a lot. He always said that me not being the easy type was one of his favorite things about me. He liked how I made him wait for sex and no woman has ever made him wait before. I feel like he watches my facebook and watches me in person when I see him out.
Just try and hang in there..
The life of a Taurus will always be a roller-coaster ".. We seek harmony in life but our lives seem to go the opposite way...
When my ex gem bf become my ex I said to him "when you were with me you had 5* luxury. Now you are back to Basics"... A good Taurus is worth the wait. ?
But you have to decide how much your value is and how much he is worth....
What do you suggest?
The fact, he has told you about his situation. But with the limited time he has or emotional investment, he still makes time to see you.. You have to work out if that is valuable enough or means enough for you to continue and wait for better days to come or walk away... Depends on how much he means to you...
I know that my life would be emptier without my bull in it....
But he is only 27... Young bulls see not the commitment type at that age to be honest... I'm mature and I still find it hard to commit or settle into a relationship...
odd I've been ready to settle down since like 19 I knew what I wanted and that's a cohesive unit. I just haven't been able to find the right one to settle down with and start a family but I guess my cancer influence plays a part in that. I remember one time my friends Aquarius sister told me that I need to settle down already and I was only 21 I laughed because she's younger than me I guess she sensed that I wanted too.
yeah I get that I do love my freedom and like to do as I please no attachments go where ever I want when I want less stress as well which is great. Glad to hear you found a good prospect patience truly is a virtue good look on your journey.
Everything you wrote above is me to a T.
My beau is a Taurus also and his mars in Pisces in 8th house conjuncts my Venus in Pisces in the 8th house which feels exactly as described in the astrological Web sites. It's not without its dramas and the "practicalities of life" do get in the way but we hold on as best we can to each other.. We never give up..
With a Taurus you have to "read between the lines" sometimes OP.
In days of "shutting out" re read and dischiper his text messages... Therein likes the clues....click to expand

Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Haha in time! Thanks for the kind words. 🙂Posted by earlorg16Patience will always be the key and Taurus people need this element which very very few people have which probably makes Taurus v Taurus a good combination when they are not looking horns... Lol lol lolPosted by JohnTheBaptist100It's okay... s h i t happens lol. I've given people a chance ever since but they either don't understand my situation (since they've never been cheated on) or the people I give a chance to end up leaving town due to work. It's fine though, I know eventually it'll happen. 🙂Posted by earlorg16Sorry to hear this... If a woman you like also likes you, give her a chance...
I can't trust easily because I've been cheated on, and that s h i t messes you up. I have a hard time trusting people nowadays from it, but in time I'll grow to trust them. Just gotta be patient. Do you know his past relationships?
So many tauruses lose out on sweet love through fear and not taking enough chances... They let logic overrule emotion which is not always a good thing... Good luck..
Its a long road but get there in the end...click to expand

Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by LentoBull91PS. Thank you for your kind words. I hope you also find the One eventually. .. It takes years but "get there in the end" is Taurus motto.. Afterall "Enduring One" is our name...Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by LentoBull91I have always only been addicted to work and travel but bloomed late, gave relationships a try. Was married in my 20s divorced aged 30. I love my singledom but also searched for the One. I know in my heart that I have finally found him... I always pray we can overcome life's hurdles and it lasts till eternity... ??Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by ALGLAM1026Where was he born? Do a Web search for his time of birth..Posted by JohnTheBaptist100I am not sure. He was born May 20th, 1990.Posted by ALGLAM1026What moon is he?Posted by JohnTheBaptist100I am not too good with those astrology charts lol. He did say he has a hard time talking about certain things. :-/ ugh.... I don't know if I should just wait for him to contact me or if I should eventually text himPosted by ALGLAM1026I made mine wait 18 months and it was the longest in history for him... Lol lol lol He used to say "I may not look like George Clooney but I have a lot to offer".... He treated me like a QueenPosted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by ALGLAM1026And this is what we look for... This is the NUMBER ONE factor which will get a Taurus to dump you or "go off you".. Even if not officially together "loyalty" plays a BIG part... If we have a disagreement with you which is not officially a permanent split, there is still an "invisible string" connecting us to you where we will still do "background checks" on your fb or in general to see what you are "upto"... Any "whiff" of another person etc. We are OUT..Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Well, I have not dated or been with anyone else since we broke up and he knows that. I am not an easy one and definitely don't sleep around so.....Posted by AneemAIf you have been with other people, I suggest you move on...Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Nope, when I was still in a relationship, of course. I was waiting for his life to improve so we can do what we spoke of, marriage but seeing him seemingly put little effort to it, then I started to think that we were not going anywhere, so.Posted by AneemABut your Taurus is an "Ex".. Once that person becomes an ex there is no other level to take it... You should not be with them if you have "officially broken up"...Posted by ALGLAM1026As long as you can take. I don't think pushing ourselves beyond limit is healthy either. I'm afraid it will take compensation to other aspects of us/our lives.Posted by AneemAI am trying, thank you lol. I am just not sure how long I should be patient for.... :-/
Take that pill of patience again, and double dose it 😛
However, you know if we take a supplement without the main diet then it is not going to cut it.
If the rhythm doesn't match then what to do.
I've been waiting for the next level with my taurus ex for 4 years and when I'm done, I'm so done. You know your limit. 🙂
We both tried out with other people after then we casually came in contact again and he asked playfully to be back like how we used to, I was like... Wut?
As a Taurus, if a person made me their ex and then went on to someone else, then it would be OVER. No going back... Because as far as this Leo moon of mine is concerned, I am the best and if you can't see it at the time and decide to risk being with me by ending our relationship and then you move onto someone else and then realise that you made a mistake and you want me back... They become a fool in my eyes.. I don't date fools...
If a person is an ex because of personal problems and is seeing no one else and not engaging with anyone else then that is different....
He does check my facebook a lot - as he "likes" stuff a lot. He always said that me not being the easy type was one of his favorite things about me. He liked how I made him wait for sex and no woman has ever made him wait before. I feel like he watches my facebook and watches me in person when I see him out.
Just try and hang in there..
The life of a Taurus will always be a roller-coaster ".. We seek harmony in life but our lives seem to go the opposite way...
When my ex gem bf become my ex I said to him "when you were with me you had 5* luxury. Now you are back to Basics"... A good Taurus is worth the wait. ?
But you have to decide how much your value is and how much he is worth....
What do you suggest?
The fact, he has told you about his situation. But with the limited time he has or emotional investment, he still makes time to see you.. You have to work out if that is valuable enough or means enough for you to continue and wait for better days to come or walk away... Depends on how much he means to you...
I know that my life would be emptier without my bull in it....
But he is only 27... Young bulls see not the commitment type at that age to be honest... I'm mature and I still find it hard to commit or settle into a relationship...
odd I've been ready to settle down since like 19 I knew what I wanted and that's a cohesive unit. I just haven't been able to find the right one to settle down with and start a family but I guess my cancer influence plays a part in that. I remember one time my friends Aquarius sister told me that I need to settle down already and I was only 21 I laughed because she's younger than me I guess she sensed that I wanted too.
yeah I get that I do love my freedom and like to do as I please no attachments go where ever I want when I want less stress as well which is great. Glad to hear you found a good prospect patience truly is a virtue good look on your journey.
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thanks for that I'm glad we can get over our past disagreements and talk to each other in a positive light. It does take time I've learned my last good relationship took a few years of being single waiting and searching for a good prospect to come into my life and not just settling for less. good things do come to those who wait which is something people who want to snag one of us need to understand more.
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