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This Taurus is ditching me on New Years. (Page 2)
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Posted by sagittariusxoPosted by jeane
why not just say "stay here with me. we'll have fun." and then do something stupid to make him laugh.
your relationship sounds very serious.
and don't say you aren't trying to tell him what to do...
" I don't know babe , im not really the right person to help you with this issue because you having trouble picking ryan over me. which frankly sucks. but I guess ask yourself who you see yourself spending new years with? Ryan at the festival or me not at the festival. but like I said I don't wanna here about how you should have done this, are sad because of that or rather of had this. - its not fair to me "
lol.
muah ha ha
yes yes im a little manipulative with my words aren't I.
I mean I think that's the perfect way to be helpful to him, show him I don't personally want him to go, and let him know if he chooses him over me that he should not do the following or he will make it worse.
everytimes he goes out without me and he ends up says "I wish I was with you" - once he even got emotional because I choose not to go out one nice. nothing major could have also been a little too much to drink that made him emotional but I mean this is why the man is so confusing.
why do you get emotional when i didn't go out on a regular shmegular night but choose to ditch me on new years when everyone is expected to kiss someone they choose as they jump start the new year. its sounds like regret if you ask me.
i pretty much positive he will regret it. and that's why i said don't tell me nothing when we are breaking in a new year not only for us personally but also for us as a couple with our relationship at separate places, with separate people.... sounds like a good way to start our 3 year together.
lol. -click to expand
Lols
Posted by FknMeow
Come to cleveland and party with me, dj rektem. Finger banging the ones and twos.
Yeasss feel the RHYTHM
Posted by MacDaddyInfinitePosted by Arielle83
You seem to write a lot of threads explaining how much he disappoints you, because he doesn’t behave in the way you want him to.
The real question is, why hasn't she broken up with him already if she truly feels the way she says she does so much. If he disappoints her so much, shouldn't she find an upgrade?click to expand
Codependency
Its okay, my Taurus knows about Nate—
Girl bye
Girl bye
Posted by Arielle83Posted by Black-MambaPosted by Arielle83Posted by Black-MambaPosted by PostHuman
I wouldn't put you aside for Ryan tho. I don't even know a Ryan!
xD
She sounds like a selfish bytch
So this is what it takes to get a man
Just be an annoying weirdo
She’s mature
What does that mean?
It means she’s above him and he’s immature. So he must pander to her to see how he should live his life.click to expand
Yes, but then we all require money to ...
Posted by Timon
You told your bf that you didn't want to go and made him feel bad about going and now someone you've dated in the past is taking you and crashing at your place and now you're going? Lol
Where.. I am on November always
I'm trying but people don't work..
I think you’re absolutely right for
1) prioratizing your relationship
2) prioritizing your financial goals
In a mature manner he should choose to spend NYE with you because
A) anniversary sentiment > partying with friend
B) his friend will be there w his gf and i promise u he wont miss a beat if the Taurus is not there w them
C) there are other chances to take Ryan out
D) a grown ass relationship should prioritize their partner over being a 3rd wheel to a friend
Guarantee you if he explaines the situation to his buddy his buddy would be like aww sux man ok cool see u later lol
Whereas you’re actually having a heartache over it. So priorities, priorities, priorities.
Also i know some ppl are like that ir parental BUT ur just laying out the realities bcz u have the ability to foresee patterns.
Hopefully im late to the game and ur bf woke up from a very obvious decision.
I think you should tell him “ why dont u talk to Ryan first and see if he can give u a pass to spend time w me?”
But wtffff it hurts to ask people to prioritize u when u give them that priority on your own.
Hence why u might be on different pages when it comes to planning for the future.
1) prioratizing your relationship
2) prioritizing your financial goals
In a mature manner he should choose to spend NYE with you because
A) anniversary sentiment > partying with friend
B) his friend will be there w his gf and i promise u he wont miss a beat if the Taurus is not there w them
C) there are other chances to take Ryan out
D) a grown ass relationship should prioritize their partner over being a 3rd wheel to a friend
Guarantee you if he explaines the situation to his buddy his buddy would be like aww sux man ok cool see u later lol
Whereas you’re actually having a heartache over it. So priorities, priorities, priorities.
Also i know some ppl are like that ir parental BUT ur just laying out the realities bcz u have the ability to foresee patterns.
Hopefully im late to the game and ur bf woke up from a very obvious decision.
I think you should tell him “ why dont u talk to Ryan first and see if he can give u a pass to spend time w me?”
But wtffff it hurts to ask people to prioritize u when u give them that priority on your own.
Hence why u might be on different pages when it comes to planning for the future.
Posted by euphony
Are you trying to see why he’s choosing his friend over being with you? I feel like you have it figured out already, but since it’s not working in your favor you feel the need to ask about/talk about it.
I do see a lot of your points though. That wouldn’t sound fun to me either because of the time, the cost, and that it makes you sick afterwards. On the other hand, Taurus are not really the, I only want to be with you, romantic types (to me.) The friends they choose usually mean a lot to them and they stay loyal.
He seems to get you upset a lot!!
Noticed this about Taurus men too...they definitely consistently choose friends > everything.
Which would not go well w a woman who sees a future w him. I couldn’t be w someone like that.
Posted by sagittariusxo
@Impulsv
I couldn't because I'm poor. and so many other valid reasons.
but there has been a turn of events
a pretty weird and out of know were offer was presented to me by a very unlikely person.
I met my bull on the same night I met another person, and that other person very breifly dated before things ended and my bull and I really started to get to know each other. I remand friends with NATE because he's a decent person and no hard feeling and even my bull is aware Nate and I are friends and were friends prior to him and I
well he text me today, he now lives in MN asked me if I was going to said festival . I told him know because im poor and he offered to buy me a ticket if he can crash at my place and we can all go together.
the universe is on my side and listening and the manifestation is real.
so crazy so random. but incredibly thankful.
Heyy that worked out! Happy for u 🙂 but hopefully ur bf is understanding that another man is paying for ur ticket and will be joining the group.
But should be a good lesson for him if he is upset bcz since he didn’t include u in his decision making and priorities then he cant be mad if ur doing ur own thing to get there.
I feel DXP is man-thirsty meaning they always defend the guys in the relationship. But to me its so clear that given 2 yrs being together its an easy decision to spend time w u ( given all the details u gave). Not like Ryan is a lonely divorced or heartbroken man to need ur bf so badly lmao.
The whole thing w ur bf is funny. Good time to re-evaluate how much ur into it vs him. And like u said maybe u see different futures.
Posted by MissKrabsPosted by Timon
You told your bf that you didn't want to go and made him feel bad about going and now someone you've dated in the past is taking you and crashing at your place and now you're going? Lol
he is not taking her, he is buying the ticket. and crashing. and if he did, more the merrier 😆click to expand
she said nate and her were going together because the boyfriend doesn't get off work until 10.
Posted by MissKrabsPosted by jeanePosted by MissKrabsPosted by Timon
You told your bf that you didn't want to go and made him feel bad about going and now someone you've dated in the past is taking you and crashing at your place and now you're going? Lol
he is not taking her, he is buying the ticket. and crashing. and if he did, more the merrier 😆
she said nate and her were going together because the boyfriend doesn't get off work until 10.
oh really? i missed that. well the taurus (since his name we still don't know lol) is fine by it? never boring with sags.
Posted by sagittariusxo
Nates staying at my place and seeing as how he doesn't live here he will probably ride with me there.
my bull doesn't get off work until 10p and I get off at 430 so Nate and I will probably go and my bull will meet me or whatever. I don't even know. its just a crazy turn of events. totally unexpected. silly universe.click to expand
Here is my assessment of the situtation,
You're manipulative, and passive aggressive in a controlling way.
Why did you tell Nate you weren't going because you were broke, rather than because you simply didn't want to go...which was the REAL reason. Something tells me, you knew he would offer to buy you the ticket.
A reason to show up at the festival with Nate while throwing it up in your man's face.
Completely childish.
...And now here you are, pinning the two against each other while making "Nate" feel like the hero, and your man feel like a loser.
He's not partying every night of the week.
He chose ONE day out the year to return a favor to a friend who bestowed kindness, fun and tourism when he was in NY.
This says a lot about him.
Your taurus man is clearly a good guy.
...And here you are, making him out to look like a villian because you're feeling 'salty' about a NYE kiss.
Really?
Get your head out the clouds.
He's coming home to you.
You're manipulative, and passive aggressive in a controlling way.
Why did you tell Nate you weren't going because you were broke, rather than because you simply didn't want to go...which was the REAL reason. Something tells me, you knew he would offer to buy you the ticket.
A reason to show up at the festival with Nate while throwing it up in your man's face.
Completely childish.
...And now here you are, pinning the two against each other while making "Nate" feel like the hero, and your man feel like a loser.
He's not partying every night of the week.
He chose ONE day out the year to return a favor to a friend who bestowed kindness, fun and tourism when he was in NY.
This says a lot about him.
Your taurus man is clearly a good guy.
...And here you are, making him out to look like a villian because you're feeling 'salty' about a NYE kiss.
Really?
Get your head out the clouds.
He's coming home to you.
Despite how casual you're making the outcome to appear on the surface as 'silly universe...'
Your embedded traits to control and manipulate is REAL.
Hopefully he will see right through you.....
And RUN.....
Your embedded traits to control and manipulate is REAL.
Hopefully he will see right through you.....
And RUN.....
Posted by PostHuman
This is a pretty annoying way to handle the new year for all involved.
Seriously lol I was thinking the same
OP- make a damn compromise and go to the festival with them and have fun.
I really should have read the rest of the thread before posting
You guys are craaaaaaaaaaaazy! It's not just one night...it's new years + anniversary.
I dont know...I can't date any of you guys, we would be fighting every day.
I dont know...I can't date any of you guys, we would be fighting every day.
@Stillwater-
You're entitled to your opinion.
....And the Tauruses (and everyone else) is entitled to theirs.
After all,
This is the Taurus board.
The OP...
in my opinion is underhanded and vindictive...
Anyone who co-signs on her actions clearly operate in a synonymous manner in their own relationships.
To each its own.
I'm just not co-signing her BS!
You're entitled to your opinion.
....And the Tauruses (and everyone else) is entitled to theirs.
After all,
This is the Taurus board.
The OP...
in my opinion is underhanded and vindictive...
Anyone who co-signs on her actions clearly operate in a synonymous manner in their own relationships.
To each its own.
I'm just not co-signing her BS!
Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsPosted by stillstillwater
You guys are craaaaaaaaaaaazy! It's not just one night...it's new years + anniversary.
I dont know...I can't date any of you guys, we would be fighting every day.
Think of the DXP threads though.click to expand
It would be interesting...hhmmm...
but i also feel like anyone on DXP, including myself, is tad bit either crazy or lacking in their social life lol... so two people with the same problem....
This Taurus man is allegedly immature because he wants to bestow the same kindness, hospitality and tourism that his friend Ryan has given him in NY....when the OP clearly stated that she wasn't interested in going.
One night only!
The OP,
On the other hand, didn't blink twice accepting an offer from Nate to go to the festival, after she told her Taurus that she wasn't interested in going.
...And she's not called out on this BS?
Come on.
The OP needs to grow up.
She's behaving like a spoiled brat!
One night only!
The OP,
On the other hand, didn't blink twice accepting an offer from Nate to go to the festival, after she told her Taurus that she wasn't interested in going.
...And she's not called out on this BS?
Come on.
The OP needs to grow up.
She's behaving like a spoiled brat!
Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsPosted by stillstillwater
You guys are craaaaaaaaaaaazy! It's not just one night...it's new years + anniversary.
I dont know...I can't date any of you guys, we would be fighting every day.
Think of the DXP threads though.
It would be interesting...hhmmm...
but i also feel like anyone on DXP, including myself, is tad bit either crazy or lacking in their social life lol... so two people with the same problem....click to expand
speak for yourself. i'm just here for the lulz 😉
Posted by TaurusBull1977
This Taurus man is allegedly immature because he wants to bestow the same kindness, hospitality and tourism that his friend Ryan has given him in NY....when the OP clearly stated that she wasn't interested in going.
One night only!
The OP,
On the other hand, didn't blink twice accepting an offer from Nate to go to the festival, after she told her Taurus that she wasn't interested in going.
...And she's not called out on this BS?
Come on.
The OP needs to grow up.
She's behaving like a spoiled brat!
The way she is going about it is not ideal.
Why not just ask the bf to help with the ticket. Or if truly not wanting to go then...don't go.
Putting an ex into the mix seems spiteful and passive aggressive.
But at the same time I can see why she's salty. This dude doesn't make the effort to see her during the typical week and now on the holiday he isn't making time for her either. I would be mad too.
But I'd call him out about it straight on. Instead of trying to get my revenge by having an ex on my arm.
Posted by jeanePosted by stillstillwaterPosted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsPosted by stillstillwater
You guys are craaaaaaaaaaaazy! It's not just one night...it's new years + anniversary.
I dont know...I can't date any of you guys, we would be fighting every day.
Think of the DXP threads though.
It would be interesting...hhmmm...
but i also feel like anyone on DXP, including myself, is tad bit either crazy or lacking in their social life lol... so two people with the same problem....
speak for yourself. i'm just here for the lulz 😉
click to expand
Was saying it light heartedly.... but also seriously in a light way but with a serious under tone and a winky face
Such a Sag thing to do though
Have an ex on standby to take you instead
Smh
This is how people get shot
Have an ex on standby to take you instead
Smh
This is how people get shot
Posted by jeanePosted by stillstillwaterPosted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsPosted by stillstillwater
You guys are craaaaaaaaaaaazy! It's not just one night...it's new years + anniversary.
I dont know...I can't date any of you guys, we would be fighting every day.
Think of the DXP threads though.
It would be interesting...hhmmm...
but i also feel like anyone on DXP, including myself, is tad bit either crazy or lacking in their social life lol... so two people with the same problem....
speak for yourself. i'm just here for the lulz 😉
click to expand
well my social life sucks balls so that's why I'm here. I thank God for DXP every day or else I don't know how I'd get that human interaction we all so dearly need.
@LadyNeptune,
I haven't read her other threads....
Has this been an ongoing problem with her Taurus man?
His reluctance to spend any quality time with her?
I haven't read her other threads....
Has this been an ongoing problem with her Taurus man?
His reluctance to spend any quality time with her?
Posted by TaurusBull1977
@LadyNeptune,
I haven't read her other threads....
Has this been an ongoing problem with her Taurus man?
His reluctance to spend any quality time with her?
tb, it's been a tumultuous relationship for a few years now.
mainly stemming imho, from him being in a different stage of life to her.
Posted by Black-MambaPosted by stillstillwater
You guys are craaaaaaaaaaaazy! It's not just one night...it's new years + anniversary.
I dont know...I can't date any of you guys, we would be fighting every day.
I understood all her points and agreed with why she's not going etc
But she still has plans to go out to other events/ venues
My thing is she seems controlling, especially with all that Nate situation.
If i was Ryan I'd bounce just to get a reprieve. I'm sure his friend is more fun than this balls and chains
Who really is trying to mold him to take over fatherhood for her son and to help pay mortgage payments
Does she even LOVE Ryan?click to expand
ryan is the visiting friend.
> Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by jeanePosted by stillstillwaterPosted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsPosted by stillstillwater
You guys are craaaaaaaaaaaazy! It's not just one night...it's new years + anniversary.
I dont know...I can't date any of you guys, we would be fighting every day.
Think of the DXP threads though.
It would be interesting...hhmmm...
but i also feel like anyone on DXP, including myself, is tad bit either crazy or lacking in their social life lol... so two people with the same problem....
speak for yourself. i'm just here for the lulz 😉
Was saying it light heartedly.... but also seriously in a light way but with a serious under tone and a winky faceclick to expand
Posted by Black-MambaPosted by jeanePosted by Black-MambaPosted by stillstillwater
You guys are craaaaaaaaaaaazy! It's not just one night...it's new years + anniversary.
I dont know...I can't date any of you guys, we would be fighting every day.
I understood all her points and agreed with why she's not going etc
But she still has plans to go out to other events/ venues
My thing is she seems controlling, especially with all that Nate situation.
If i was Ryan I'd bounce just to get a reprieve. I'm sure his friend is more fun than this balls and chains
Who really is trying to mold him to take over fatherhood for her son and to help pay mortgage payments
Does she even LOVE Ryan?
ryan is the visiting friend.
Ooh well what's the Taurus nameclick to expand
unknown at this point.
Posted by Black-MambaPosted by stillstillwater
You guys are craaaaaaaaaaaazy! It's not just one night...it's new years + anniversary.
I dont know...I can't date any of you guys, we would be fighting every day.
I understood all her points and agreed with why she's not going etc
But she still has plans to go out to other events/ venues
My thing is she seems controlling, especially with all that Nate situation.
If i was Ryan I'd bounce just to get a reprieve. I'm sure his friend is more fun than this balls and chains
Who really is trying to mold him to take over fatherhood for her son and to help pay mortgage payments
Does she even LOVE Ryan?click to expand
see this is how I know you're not fully paying attention. Ryan is not teh Taurus bf. Ryan is the friend of the Taurus who shse is being ditched for.
Sorry in my book if you're in a relationship, major holidays (esp anniversary) should be saved to spend with your partner.
And anything less than that is not acceptable.
PS: Why I'm single.... something about high maintenance.
Posted by elllle
I love when people give first names.....it becomes way more interesting. Like a reality TV show.
Ryan for next bachelor
Lots of women wanting to tell him he deserves so much better
Posted by Black-MambaPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by Black-MambaPosted by stillstillwater
You guys are craaaaaaaaaaaazy! It's not just one night...it's new years + anniversary.
I dont know...I can't date any of you guys, we would be fighting every day.
I understood all her points and agreed with why she's not going etc
But she still has plans to go out to other events/ venues
My thing is she seems controlling, especially with all that Nate situation.
If i was Ryan I'd bounce just to get a reprieve. I'm sure his friend is more fun than this balls and chains
Who really is trying to mold him to take over fatherhood for her son and to help pay mortgage payments
Does she even LOVE Ryan?
see this is how I know you're not fully paying attention. Ryan is not teh Taurus bf. Ryan is the friend of the Taurus who shse is being ditched for.
Sorry in my book if you're in a relationship, major holidays (esp anniversary) should be saved to spend with your partner.
And anything less than that is not acceptable.
PS: Why I'm single.... something about high maintenance.
Nah that's not high maintenance
Its mature and cute
click to expand
Thanks! Appreciate it...I thought it was normal expectations but then a lot of people on here are so damn easy going. It makes me feel high maintenance and unreasonable....
Posted by TaurusBull1977
@LadyNeptune,
I haven't read her other threads....
Has this been an ongoing problem with her Taurus man?
His reluctance to spend any quality time with her?
Yes. She wants him to be more involved after the 2+ years they've been together. More involved in her life and her sons life.
I feel like she pushes these conversations and he gives her lip service to shut her up but nothing actually changes. His effort levels remain the same.
Posted by Black-MambaPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by Black-MambaPosted by stillstillwater
You guys are craaaaaaaaaaaazy! It's not just one night...it's new years + anniversary.
I dont know...I can't date any of you guys, we would be fighting every day.
I understood all her points and agreed with why she's not going etc
But she still has plans to go out to other events/ venues
My thing is she seems controlling, especially with all that Nate situation.
If i was Ryan I'd bounce just to get a reprieve. I'm sure his friend is more fun than this balls and chains
Who really is trying to mold him to take over fatherhood for her son and to help pay mortgage payments
Does she even LOVE Ryan?
see this is how I know you're not fully paying attention. Ryan is not teh Taurus bf. Ryan is the friend of the Taurus who shse is being ditched for.
Sorry in my book if you're in a relationship, major holidays (esp anniversary) should be saved to spend with your partner.
And anything less than that is not acceptable.
PS: Why I'm single.... something about high maintenance.
Anniversary, maybe she's scared he'll meet another the same way they met.
My thing is tho im selfish. So let's say mySO wants to go to a party with friends. All glitter and fancy
If i don't want to go. Should i deprive him of having fun.
Im selfish cause if i dont want to do something i might not do it
That's on meclick to expand
Well relationships are not always about being HAPPY at every instant. It's also loyalty and compromise within reason or i should say within heart.
I want that kind of love where it's like it doesn't matter where we are as long as we're together.
Posted by TaurusBull1977
This Taurus man is allegedly immature because he wants to bestow the same kindness, hospitality and tourism that his friend Ryan has given him in NY....when the OP clearly stated that she wasn't interested in going.
One night only!
The OP,
On the other hand, didn't blink twice accepting an offer from Nate to go to the festival, after she told her Taurus that she wasn't interested in going.
...And she's not called out on this BS?
Come on.
The OP needs to grow up.
She's behaving like a spoiled brat!
I DONT WANT TO GO. its true.
but he only got himself a ticket
so what choice to I have. i cant buy my own ticket so im not going to go and i will be sad about it or i take the freak ticket surprise and go so i can be with him at not effort to him. im putting way to much effort into this man is how i see it.
Posted by Black-MambaPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by TaurusBull1977
@LadyNeptune,
I haven't read her other threads....
Has this been an ongoing problem with her Taurus man?
His reluctance to spend any quality time with her?
Yes. She wants him to be more involved after the 2+ years they've been together. More involved in her life and her sons life.
I feel like she pushes these conversations and he gives her lip service to shut her up but nothing actually changes. His effort levels remain the same.
Then pull the plug?click to expand
.
i don't know if i agree although the process isn't evolving as fast as i wish it would. but it is progressing.
he offers to help me pick him up from school, he got him really thought full gifts for xmas such as matching t-shirts.
and he tells me his thoughts about the my sons future such as " he should learn a trade like fixing cars, if your dad passes down his old car maybe that could be something him and i can work on" -
those are progress to our life. and this is why i love him. i love him so much that my heart breaks when he chooses me over his friend on important dates. if this was a regular sunday have at it but this is not just his new year and his midnight its mine too.
Posted by Black-MambaPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by TaurusBull1977
@LadyNeptune,
I haven't read her other threads....
Has this been an ongoing problem with her Taurus man?
His reluctance to spend any quality time with her?
Yes. She wants him to be more involved after the 2+ years they've been together. More involved in her life and her sons life.
I feel like she pushes these conversations and he gives her lip service to shut her up but nothing actually changes. His effort levels remain the same.
Then pull the plug?click to expand
Easier said then done when your heart is invested.
Posted by tiziani
I remember your threads at the start
It's gotten too Hollywood now
it's like you're dead set on forcing it into a movie-like choice, either/or
but both options will feel like shit to you no matter what he decides because the whole thing is staged
there's been 2 or 3 suggestions here about how you could both make sure to have a good time on the night itself, and just seems to me like being grown up about it would feel far more surprising and redemptive by the time it's all done
but if you want the soap opera finish with Nate you gotta do what you gotta do
i don't see it that way.
its so easy for you say that but i feel i am very observant to every action and ever world.
he tells me he wants to travel the world and i want to make that happen for us to go together. moving in together will help us save money, investing in buying a home will help us make money, living together will allow us a home base to be more independent. when he has chances to tell me why that's not what he wants he cant because he wants all those things he just still resistant to be resistant. he doesn't want to make the effort, hes slow paced, hes a sloth.
what am i do that isn't with him in mind.
my dreams are making his dreams come true. honestly but i don't want to feel as if my heart desires shouldn't be met.
im never going to ask him for material things im only going to ask for priceless moments and memories.
its sounds movie after saying it but it doesn't sounds out of reach, i see the vision and so far im making it happen for him and for i.
and with nate. yeah its a weird situation that is outta the norm. but that's not really anything im stressed about. im more stressed about this issue of me feeling like not a priority and how im going to feel or how we are going to work this out. nate is just a friend who is going with us and paid for my ticket which is only something that should hurt my bulls ego because me getting to be with him is at no effort or cost to him.
he tells me family means so much to him and
Posted by tizianiPosted by sagittariusxo
and with nate. yeah its a weird situation that is outta the norm. but that's not really anything im stressed about. im more stressed about this issue of me feeling like not a priority and how im going to feel or how we are going to work this out. nate is just a friend who is going with us and paid for my ticket which is only something that should hurt my bulls ego because me getting to be with him is at no effort or cost to him.
he tells me family means so much to him and
sure, it's easy for me to say i'm an outsider
but i'm just talking about the night itself.
What is your plan here?
option 1 - go into the party with some dude you dated, wait for your partner to be upset about it, he gets upset
and you're really planning to give him the old "I don't see why you're upset, it's a not effort and no cost to you" line?
I bet you will feel like crap the next day for this. Minimising his feelings after you fished a reaction from him.
option 2 - you got to the party with some dude you dated, your partner DOESN'T get upset.
again, you'll feel like crap.
You're giving yourself crappy options, it's the same outcome.
-
I'm only talking about the night itself. I don't know the full story behind all of this. But I don't remember you being so intent on having a bad time before.click to expand
#libralogicftw
Is sounds like you just simply aren't compatible. It's no one's fault
Posted by sagittariusxoPosted by TaurusBull1977
This Taurus man is allegedly immature because he wants to bestow the same kindness, hospitality and tourism that his friend Ryan has given him in NY....when the OP clearly stated that she wasn't interested in going.
One night only!
The OP,
On the other hand, didn't blink twice accepting an offer from Nate to go to the festival, after she told her Taurus that she wasn't interested in going.
...And she's not called out on this BS?
Come on.
The OP needs to grow up.
She's behaving like a spoiled brat!
I DONT WANT TO GO. its true.
but he only got himself a ticket
so what choice to I have. i cant buy my own ticket so im not going to go and i will be sad about it or i take the freak ticket surprise and go so i can be with him at not effort to him. im putting way to much effort into this man is how i see it.click to expand
100% . if he's not prioritizing spending NYE/anniversary with you then why are you putting so much effort into it? Just curious. Obviously love and all that...but what else?
Posted by Black-MambaPosted by sagittariusxoPosted by Black-MambaPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by TaurusBull1977
@LadyNeptune,
I haven't read her other threads....
Has this been an ongoing problem with her Taurus man?
His reluctance to spend any quality time with her?
Yes. She wants him to be more involved after the 2+ years they've been together. More involved in her life and her sons life.
I feel like she pushes these conversations and he gives her lip service to shut her up but nothing actually changes. His effort levels remain the same.
Then pull the plug?
.
i don't know if i agree although the process isn't evolving as fast as i wish it would. but it is progressing.
he offers to help me pick him up from school, he got him really thought full gifts for xmas such as matching t-shirts.
and he tells me his thoughts about the my sons future such as " he should learn a trade like fixing cars, if your dad passes down his old car maybe that could be something him and i can work on" -
those are progress to our life. and this is why i love him. i love him so much that my heart breaks when he chooses me over his friend on important dates. if this was a regular sunday have at it but this is not just his new year and his midnight its mine too.
To quote my favorite author a Lebanese named khalil gibran from the book of the prophet
"Love one another, but make not a bond of love: Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls."
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bro that's the only book from him you've read. stop pretending lol
When you said "ditched" in the title I thought you meant "dumped".
Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by euphony
Are you trying to see why he’s choosing his friend over being with you? I feel like you have it figured out already, but since it’s not working in your favor you feel the need to ask about/talk about it.
I do see a lot of your points though. That wouldn’t sound fun to me either because of the time, the cost, and that it makes you sick afterwards. On the other hand, Taurus are not really the, I only want to be with you, romantic types (to me.) The friends they choose usually mean a lot to them and they stay loyal.
He seems to get you upset a lot!!
Noticed this about Taurus men too...they definitely consistently choose friends > everything.
Which would not go well w a woman who sees a future w him. I couldn’t be w someone like that.click to expand
It’s not easy. I was with a Taurus once. He told me after we broke up, years after, that he took me for granted. He chose his friends over me a lot of times. But hated if I did that. 😂 I find older Taurus men to be a little different.
An Aqua I dated did that also. The Sag I’m married to has never chosen his friends over me. Never once. I wonder if the OP is like that and that’s why it’s hard to accept it? It can be hard if you are the opposite.
Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Black-MambaPosted by sagittariusxoPosted by Black-MambaPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by TaurusBull1977
@LadyNeptune,
I haven't read her other threads....
Has this been an ongoing problem with her Taurus man?
His reluctance to spend any quality time with her?
Yes. She wants him to be more involved after the 2+ years they've been together. More involved in her life and her sons life.
I feel like she pushes these conversations and he gives her lip service to shut her up but nothing actually changes. His effort levels remain the same.
Then pull the plug?
.
i don't know if i agree although the process isn't evolving as fast as i wish it would. but it is progressing.
he offers to help me pick him up from school, he got him really thought full gifts for xmas such as matching t-shirts.
and he tells me his thoughts about the my sons future such as " he should learn a trade like fixing cars, if your dad passes down his old car maybe that could be something him and i can work on" -
those are progress to our life. and this is why i love him. i love him so much that my heart breaks when he chooses me over his friend on important dates. if this was a regular sunday have at it but this is not just his new year and his midnight its mine too.
To quote my favorite author a Lebanese named khalil gibran from the book of the prophet
"Love one another, but make not a bond of love: Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls."
bro that's the only book from him you've read. stop pretending lolclick to expand
Sarcasm isn't needed.
I'm a huge fan as well....
...The quote was fitting for her situation. Well quoted!
Posted by sagittariusxo
I DONT WANT TO GO. its true.
but he only got himself a ticket
so what choice to I have. i cant buy my own ticket so im not going to go and i will be sad about it or i take the freak ticket surprise and go so i can be with him at not effort to him. im putting way to much effort into this man is how i see it.
Why didn't you ask him to get you a ticket?
Since you clearly told him in the beginning that you were not interested in going.
A closed mouth doesn't get fed.
You can't hold someone responsible for something you didn't speak up on.
I haven't read your other threads, but something tells me you have 'bigger' issues with your Bull.
If you can't speak up, or be yourself with the individual you're with, then you may want to re-examine who you're supposed to be compatible with.click to expand
Posted by ImpulsvPosted by Black-MambaPosted by PostHuman
I wouldn't put you aside for Ryan tho. I don't even know a Ryan!
xD
She sounds like a selfish bytch
So this is what it takes to get a man
Just be an annoying weirdo
Actually what guy is ok with another man fully paying his gf tix
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The man who can’t figire out simple shit on how to be with his gf on NY and feeling obligated to be with others like a kik bitch...
Boyfriend upsets her and an ex immediately "appears back up" into her life.
How the universe works sometimes.......
How the universe works sometimes.......
Posted by Black-Mamba
Let me just say. An hour is just an hour. If you have a bad moment that doesn't entail the whole day is ruined
A day is just a day please don't tell me this bs that if you don't get kissed at midnight or whatever that you're not going to have a great year
That's just bs
Ppl put way too much emphasis on these made up holidays
New Year is not made up holiday!
Kwanza is...
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