
Seajatt
@Seajatt
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Posted by SassyKiwi
Why couldn’t she call her own masculine man over to do it for her? Oh das right, no one ever wanted her Karen ass.

Posted by SeajattPosted by SassyKiwi
Why couldn’t she call her own masculine man over to do it for her? Oh das right, no one ever wanted her Karen ass.
She tried to get me to do it because she doesn't care about the possible outcome. In her mind, it was acceptable for me to possibly get bit, and possibly die. She cares about her man/other neighbors, but I'm new to the area.
This is how that "man up" shit works. It implies that said man "manning up" is expendable/sacrificial.click to expand

Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by SeajattPosted by SassyKiwi
Why couldn’t she call her own masculine man over to do it for her? Oh das right, no one ever wanted her Karen ass.
She tried to get me to do it because she doesn't care about the possible outcome. In her mind, it was acceptable for me to possibly get bit, and possibly die. She cares about her man/other neighbors, but I'm new to the area.
This is how that "man up" shit works. It implies that said man "manning up" is expendable/sacrificial.
Then you also bite back and say “I’m sure your man could do a better job. Do update me.” The woman’s already ruined the peace so you don’t have much else to lose.click to expand


Posted by SeajattPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by SeajattPosted by SassyKiwi
Why couldn’t she call her own masculine man over to do it for her? Oh das right, no one ever wanted her Karen ass.
She tried to get me to do it because she doesn't care about the possible outcome. In her mind, it was acceptable for me to possibly get bit, and possibly die. She cares about her man/other neighbors, but I'm new to the area.
This is how that "man up" shit works. It implies that said man "manning up" is expendable/sacrificial.
Then you also bite back and say “I’m sure your man could do a better job. Do update me.” The woman’s already ruined the peace so you don’t have much else to lose.
I won't be giving her the time of day going forward, when people show you who they are, believe them.click to expand


Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by SeajattPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by SeajattPosted by SassyKiwi
Why couldn’t she call her own masculine man over to do it for her? Oh das right, no one ever wanted her Karen ass.
She tried to get me to do it because she doesn't care about the possible outcome. In her mind, it was acceptable for me to possibly get bit, and possibly die. She cares about her man/other neighbors, but I'm new to the area.
This is how that "man up" shit works. It implies that said man "manning up" is expendable/sacrificial.
Then you also bite back and say “I’m sure your man could do a better job. Do update me.” The woman’s already ruined the peace so you don’t have much else to lose.
I won't be giving her the time of day going forward, when people show you who they are, believe them.
Good. Her loss. I will never understand people who live nearby that are willing to have sour interactions with their neighbors. You never know who can end up helpful in any emergency situation. But definitely not when you have a history of being a jerk.click to expand


Posted by IndyJuki
It's about to call human control

Posted by GhostOfKuromi
I’d fake a snake but bite then a seizure then crawl back into my home
Then eat my lunch 😅

Posted by jazzykid
I’ve witnessed similar situations where the person asked to take care of a risky/compromising/sacrificial situation is getting boosted into doing it through praise.
Don’t be a hero, man. Or if you must, be your own damn hero. lol
Lucky for you she dropped her damsel in distress mask quick.

Posted by PezRojoPescadoAzul
It's kinda funny to me (but actually it's sad when you really think about it because kids/teens/young adults can really fuck their lives up or die because of it) that people fall for this shit. I can't even think of a specific instance where I was pressured into something by someone explicitly saying things like this (but I'm sure it happened when I was really young), I think partly because I've always been stubborn and the second someone said something like that I'd be like "well now I'm really not doing it because you're stupid, and fuck you" and they always immediately backtrack or apologize and try some other manipulative tactic 😂
I get into enough stupid, dangerous and risky situations on my own without having to take on extra ones lol


Posted by GhostOfKuromi
I’d fake a snake but bite then a seizure then crawl back into my home
Then eat my lunch 😅


Posted by nanobotzPosted by borednbeautiful
Don’t kill the snake, please!!
Local superstition legend says that it’s really bad karma and bad luck for years 😧
Right? The snake doesn’t need to die just for existingclick to expand


Posted by SeajattPosted by jazzykid
I’ve witnessed similar situations where the person asked to take care of a risky/compromising/sacrificial situation is getting boosted into doing it through praise.
Don’t be a hero, man. Or if you must, be your own damn hero. lol
Lucky for you she dropped her damsel in distress mask quick.
Damn, what a poignant comment. You're too right, thanks for posting that. Praise can definitely be used to manipulate someone.click to expand


Posted by PezRojoPescadoAzulPosted by SeajattPosted by PezRojoPescadoAzul
It's kinda funny to me (but actually it's sad when you really think about it because kids/teens/young adults can really fuck their lives up or die because of it) that people fall for this shit. I can't even think of a specific instance where I was pressured into something by someone explicitly saying things like this (but I'm sure it happened when I was really young), I think partly because I've always been stubborn and the second someone said something like that I'd be like "well now I'm really not doing it because you're stupid, and fuck you" and they always immediately backtrack or apologize and try some other manipulative tactic 😂
I get into enough stupid, dangerous and risky situations on my own without having to take on extra ones lol
It happens a lot, peer pressure I think is a topic that fits well into the current subject.
One thing I was thinking about while typing this was peer pressure among teens with drugs and alcohol. That one's not as gender specific but there still is a heavy dose of "Bro don't be a pussy, just take these pills, smoke this, whatever" in that arena. Drug overdose deaths have skyrocketed through the foof in the past couple of years because of the prevelance of fentanyl and it being in fake prescription pills and stuff. I have 3 younger siblings in high school right now, 2 brothers and 1 sister. I worry for them. I feel like if I was born 5-10 years later and started my drug/alcohol career later I'd probably be dead nowclick to expand

Posted by nanobotzPosted by borednbeautiful
Don’t kill the snake, please!!
Local superstition legend says that it’s really bad karma and bad luck for years 😧
Right? The snake doesn’t need to die just for existingclick to expand


Posted by Raminheartz
The most important question, was she hawt?





Posted by TruemaraPosted by Raminheartz
The most important question, was she hawt?
Want the answer
If she was homely would he even stepped out the door lolclick to expand
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And that brings me to my last point: Young dudes, if anyone, male or female, ever tries to shame you into a situation with comments like "man up" or something to a similar effect, they are trying to manipulate you into a risky/compromising/sacrificial situation that they would not subject themselves to. Flip them the bird and carry on with your business.