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He makes me feel safe - What does it mean?
Posted by SeleukosLol. This 🙂
Prepare to be stabbed by them the moment they tell you those phrases.
Posted by SeleukosAs much as I believe in love - safety doesn’t exist! When you feeling safe for years and one day he says I am leaving...no guarantee that it won’t happen to anybody! There goes your safety!
Prepare to be stabbed by them the moment they tell you those phrases.
Feel safe in yourself
Don't look to others to
Don't look to others to
It’s an emotional safety for me. It’s means he is the man and I feel completely like a woman with him. Best feeling ever. I feel safe to be vulnerable with him and I know he wouldn’t let me down.
Posted by GemitatiThisPosted by SeleukosAs much as I believe in love - safety doesn’t exist! When you feeling safe for years and one day he says I am leaving...no guarantee that it won’t happen to anybody! There goes your safety!
Prepare to be stabbed by them the moment they tell you those phrases.click to expand
No man can make you feel safe
Posted by pisceswoman123.....but he could.....let you down, that is
It’s an emotional safety for me. It’s means he is the man and I feel completely like a woman with him. Best feeling ever. I feel safe to be vulnerable with him and I know he wouldn’t let me down.
Rely on thine own self....always
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by pisceswoman123.....but he could.....let you down, that is
It’s an emotional safety for me. It’s means he is the man and I feel completely like a woman with him. Best feeling ever. I feel safe to be vulnerable with him and I know he wouldn’t let me down.
Rely on thine own self....alwaysclick to expand
I can rely on my self for everything. 😉 But you cannot love completely without surrendering your self to your partner. It’s a mutual thing.
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by GemitatiThisPosted by SeleukosAs much as I believe in love - safety doesn’t exist! When you feeling safe for years and one day he says I am leaving...no guarantee that it won’t happen to anybody! There goes your safety!
Prepare to be stabbed by them the moment they tell you those phrases.
No man can make you feel safeclick to expand
A man is not a proper man if it’s doesn’t make you feel safe.
Submissive people are in control actually. They never totally surrender they modulate your room for dominance and boundary crossing. But thats a totally different thread, please stick to my question.
Posted by SeleukosNo. He is the man and it will make you feel safe so you can surrender to him completelyPosted by pisceswoman123Wouldn't the surrender lose most of its meaning if you already feel completly safe with the other person?Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by pisceswoman123.....but he could.....let you down, that is
It’s an emotional safety for me. It’s means he is the man and I feel completely like a woman with him. Best feeling ever. I feel safe to be vulnerable with him and I know he wouldn’t let me down.
Rely on thine own self....always
I can rely on my self for everything. 😉 But you cannot love completely without surrendering your self to your partner. It’s a mutual thing.
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Posted by pisceswoman123I beg you to explain all this mushy crap you just written! Safe from what? Natural disasters?
It’s an emotional safety for me. It’s means he is the man and I feel completely like a woman with him. Best feeling ever. I feel safe to be vulnerable with him and I know he wouldn’t let me down.
He makes you feel like a woman...how?
What did you feel like before? A man?
What do you do I’m a moment of your vulnerability so he can let you down but he don’t?
It’s all crap from the books and have nothing to do with reality!
Unless you can explain...
Posted by tizianiIt’s not about money. Or needing a man to take care of me. I can do that perfectly by myself. Is about connection and love
Sounds like daddy issues.
Posted by pisceswoman123Yes. You can always end up hurt. You just take he risk and hope for the best.Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by pisceswoman123.....but he could.....let you down, that is
It’s an emotional safety for me. It’s means he is the man and I feel completely like a woman with him. Best feeling ever. I feel safe to be vulnerable with him and I know he wouldn’t let me down.
Rely on thine own self....always
I can rely on my self for everything. 😉 But you cannot love completely without surrendering your self to your partner. It’s a mutual thing.
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(why the hell my comment multiple?)
Posted by GemitatiPosted by pisceswoman123I beg you to explain all this mushy crap you just written! Safe from what? Natural disasters?
It’s an emotional safety for me. It’s means he is the man and I feel completely like a woman with him. Best feeling ever. I feel safe to be vulnerable with him and I know he wouldn’t let me down.
He makes you feel like a woman...how?
What did you feel like before? A man?
What do you do I’m a moment of your vulnerability so he can let you down but he don’t?
It’s all crap from the books and have nothing to do with reality!
Unless you can explain...click to expand
😂😂😂 ok.
Safe from what? Safe to show him the real you
Natural disasters? If is needed I know he will protect me from that as much as he can
He makes you feel like a woman...how? By being a real man, not a boy
What did you feel like before? A man? Always a woman but he will bring that feeling of that is how it’s supposed to be.
What do you do I’m a moment of your vulnerability so he can let you down but he don’t? That is too deep to write in here, but the whole point is that he wouldn’t want to let you down, ever, it would be his biggest mistake 😉
Posted by pisceswoman123Everyone who understood written above - say ‘I’...Posted by GemitatiPosted by pisceswoman123I beg you to explain all this mushy crap you just written! Safe from what? Natural disasters?
It’s an emotional safety for me. It’s means he is the man and I feel completely like a woman with him. Best feeling ever. I feel safe to be vulnerable with him and I know he wouldn’t let me down.
He makes you feel like a woman...how?
What did you feel like before? A man?
What do you do I’m a moment of your vulnerability so he can let you down but he don’t?
It’s all crap from the books and have nothing to do with reality!
Unless you can explain...
😂😂😂 ok.
Safe from what? Safe to show him the real you
Natural disasters? If is needed I know he will protect me from that as much as he can
He makes you feel like a woman...how? By being a real man, not a boy
What did you feel like before? A man? Always a woman but he will bring that feeling of that is how it’s supposed to be.
What do you do I’m a moment of your vulnerability so he can let you down but he don’t? That is too deep to write in here, but the whole point is that he wouldn’t want to let you down, ever, it would be his biggest mistake 😉
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It’s all water...nothing concrete...words without anything to hold on to...feeling like a woman...I don’t need a man for that! I have a mirror...
Safe? Like oops...I am sick...
No honey I’ll save you...crap!
Posted by RooSagicornI would never have relashionships with a man if I felt any different than you described. And I never did. I just don’t say crap like this...lol
Emotionally and physically. It doesn’t mean you are actually “safe”. It is a feeling. You trust them, can tell them anything, are not on guard around them. I think this is important in a healthy relationship actually. The guy should feel safe with you too.
I am living it naturally.
Safe as in secure with the relationship in the way he expresses his feelings, is attentive, etc.
Posted by SheeverPosted by pisceswoman123Yes. You can always end up hurt. You just take he risk and hope for the best.Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by pisceswoman123.....but he could.....let you down, that is
It’s an emotional safety for me. It’s means he is the man and I feel completely like a woman with him. Best feeling ever. I feel safe to be vulnerable with him and I know he wouldn’t let me down.
Rely on thine own self....always
I can rely on my self for everything. 😉 But you cannot love completely without surrendering your self to your partner. It’s a mutual thing.
(why the hell my comment multiple?)click to expand
Exactly! You just need to take the risk. I go all in or not at all 😊
Dxp is miss behaving again? 😄
safe as in emotionally means open communication about feelings and secrets etc. , trusting him (he wont tell or use your secrets etc).
Posted by WarAngel1Exactly! Only a man understands that
I've always been told I make women feel safe physically and emotionally. It's how they slowly begin to fall in love you.
Part of a man's job description is to be man a man and let the woman be a woman. 😏
Posted by Gemitati😂😂 If you haven’t understand it, don’t blame it on me 😉 Hopefully one day you willPosted by pisceswoman123Everyone who understood written above - say ‘I’...Posted by GemitatiPosted by pisceswoman123I beg you to explain all this mushy crap you just written! Safe from what? Natural disasters?
It’s an emotional safety for me. It’s means he is the man and I feel completely like a woman with him. Best feeling ever. I feel safe to be vulnerable with him and I know he wouldn’t let me down.
He makes you feel like a woman...how?
What did you feel like before? A man?
What do you do I’m a moment of your vulnerability so he can let you down but he don’t?
It’s all crap from the books and have nothing to do with reality!
Unless you can explain...
😂😂😂 ok.
Safe from what? Safe to show him the real you
Natural disasters? If is needed I know he will protect me from that as much as he can
He makes you feel like a woman...how? By being a real man, not a boy
What did you feel like before? A man? Always a woman but he will bring that feeling of that is how it’s supposed to be.
What do you do I’m a moment of your vulnerability so he can let you down but he don’t? That is too deep to write in here, but the whole point is that he wouldn’t want to let you down, ever, it would be his biggest mistake 😉
It’s all water...nothing concrete...words without anything to hold on to...feeling like a woman...I don’t need a man for that! I have a mirror...
Safe? Like oops...I am sick...
No honey I’ll save you...crap!
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Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123I can understand that.Posted by WarAngel1Exactly! Only a man understands that
I've always been told I make women feel safe physically and emotionally. It's how they slowly begin to fall in love you.
Part of a man's job description is to be man a man and let the woman be a woman. 😏
What i don't get however is why women ghost the man to whom they said those things afterwards.click to expand
You need to step up
Posted by pisceswoman123It's nothing to do with the man......it's to do with how we feel in ourselvesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by GemitatiThisPosted by SeleukosAs much as I believe in love - safety doesn’t exist! When you feeling safe for years and one day he says I am leaving...no guarantee that it won’t happen to anybody! There goes your safety!
Prepare to be stabbed by them the moment they tell you those phrases.
No man can make you feel safe
A man is not a proper man if it’s doesn’t make you feel safe.
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Posted by pisceswoman123True, as long as you stay grounded and not too unrealisticPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by pisceswoman123.....but he could.....let you down, that is
It’s an emotional safety for me. It’s means he is the man and I feel completely like a woman with him. Best feeling ever. I feel safe to be vulnerable with him and I know he wouldn’t let me down.
Rely on thine own self....always
I can rely on my self for everything. 😉 But you cannot love completely without surrendering your self to your partner. It’s a mutual thing.
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Been there, done that
😼
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by pisceswoman123True, as long as you stay grounded and not too unrealisticPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by pisceswoman123.....but he could.....let you down, that is
It’s an emotional safety for me. It’s means he is the man and I feel completely like a woman with him. Best feeling ever. I feel safe to be vulnerable with him and I know he wouldn’t let me down.
Rely on thine own self....always
I can rely on my self for everything. 😉 But you cannot love completely without surrendering your self to your partner. It’s a mutual thing.
Been there, done that
😼click to expand
I am always grounded, always in control. That is why I need a strong man that I can feel safe with.
Posted by pisceswoman123Then if things don't turn out well, you will be finePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by pisceswoman123True, as long as you stay grounded and not too unrealisticPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by pisceswoman123.....but he could.....let you down, that is
It’s an emotional safety for me. It’s means he is the man and I feel completely like a woman with him. Best feeling ever. I feel safe to be vulnerable with him and I know he wouldn’t let me down.
Rely on thine own self....always
I can rely on my self for everything. 😉 But you cannot love completely without surrendering your self to your partner. It’s a mutual thing.
Been there, done that
😼
I am always grounded, always in control. That is why I need a strong man that I can feel safe with.
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Nice one. 🙂
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by pisceswoman123It's nothing to do with the man......it's to do with how we feel in ourselvesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by GemitatiThisPosted by SeleukosAs much as I believe in love - safety doesn’t exist! When you feeling safe for years and one day he says I am leaving...no guarantee that it won’t happen to anybody! There goes your safety!
Prepare to be stabbed by them the moment they tell you those phrases.
No man can make you feel safe
A man is not a proper man if it’s doesn’t make you feel safe.
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Oh, no. Is the man that bring that out. And you as a woman bring the man out in him.
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by pisceswoman123Then if things don't turn out well, you will be finePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by pisceswoman123True, as long as you stay grounded and not too unrealisticPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by pisceswoman123.....but he could.....let you down, that is
It’s an emotional safety for me. It’s means he is the man and I feel completely like a woman with him. Best feeling ever. I feel safe to be vulnerable with him and I know he wouldn’t let me down.
Rely on thine own self....always
I can rely on my self for everything. 😉 But you cannot love completely without surrendering your self to your partner. It’s a mutual thing.
Been there, done that
😼
I am always grounded, always in control. That is why I need a strong man that I can feel safe with.
Nice one. 🙂click to expand
If’s not meant to be is not meant to be. You have to be always prepared for that and learn from it 😉
Posted by pisceswoman123I wouldn't know any morePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by pisceswoman123It's nothing to do with the man......it's to do with how we feel in ourselvesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by GemitatiThisPosted by SeleukosAs much as I believe in love - safety doesn’t exist! When you feeling safe for years and one day he says I am leaving...no guarantee that it won’t happen to anybody! There goes your safety!
Prepare to be stabbed by them the moment they tell you those phrases.
No man can make you feel safe
A man is not a proper man if it’s doesn’t make you feel safe.
Oh, no. Is the man that bring that out. And you as a woman bring the man out in him.
click to expand
Been soo long since I was with one lol 😂
Posted by pisceswoman123Yes I know ... I've had five long termers and lost all my family so if I don't know now I never willPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by pisceswoman123Then if things don't turn out well, you will be finePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by pisceswoman123True, as long as you stay grounded and not too unrealisticPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by pisceswoman123.....but he could.....let you down, that is
It’s an emotional safety for me. It’s means he is the man and I feel completely like a woman with him. Best feeling ever. I feel safe to be vulnerable with him and I know he wouldn’t let me down.
Rely on thine own self....always
I can rely on my self for everything. 😉 But you cannot love completely without surrendering your self to your partner. It’s a mutual thing.
Been there, done that
😼
I am always grounded, always in control. That is why I need a strong man that I can feel safe with.
Nice one. 🙂
If’s not meant to be is not meant to be. You have to be always prepared for that and learn from it 😉
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Lol
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by pisceswoman123I wouldn't know any morePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by pisceswoman123It's nothing to do with the man......it's to do with how we feel in ourselvesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by GemitatiThisPosted by SeleukosAs much as I believe in love - safety doesn’t exist! When you feeling safe for years and one day he says I am leaving...no guarantee that it won’t happen to anybody! There goes your safety!
Prepare to be stabbed by them the moment they tell you those phrases.
No man can make you feel safe
A man is not a proper man if it’s doesn’t make you feel safe.
Oh, no. Is the man that bring that out. And you as a woman bring the man out in him.
Been soo long since I was with one lol 😂click to expand
😂 I hope 2018 changes that 😉
Posted by pisceswoman123I really don't lolPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by pisceswoman123I wouldn't know any morePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by pisceswoman123It's nothing to do with the man......it's to do with how we feel in ourselvesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by GemitatiThisPosted by SeleukosAs much as I believe in love - safety doesn’t exist! When you feeling safe for years and one day he says I am leaving...no guarantee that it won’t happen to anybody! There goes your safety!
Prepare to be stabbed by them the moment they tell you those phrases.
No man can make you feel safe
A man is not a proper man if it’s doesn’t make you feel safe.
Oh, no. Is the man that bring that out. And you as a woman bring the man out in him.
Been soo long since I was with one lol 😂
😂 I hope 2018 changes that 😉
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Seriously, I don't feel the need for a man at all
I think I have learned the lessons now
.....thankfully 😊
Posted by MyStarsShineI get you, but we learn something every day. There is always hope as long as there is a futurePosted by pisceswoman123Yes I know ... I've had five long termers and lost all my family so if I don't know now I never willPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by pisceswoman123Then if things don't turn out well, you will be finePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by pisceswoman123True, as long as you stay grounded and not too unrealisticPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by pisceswoman123.....but he could.....let you down, that is
It’s an emotional safety for me. It’s means he is the man and I feel completely like a woman with him. Best feeling ever. I feel safe to be vulnerable with him and I know he wouldn’t let me down.
Rely on thine own self....always
I can rely on my self for everything. 😉 But you cannot love completely without surrendering your self to your partner. It’s a mutual thing.
Been there, done that
😼
I am always grounded, always in control. That is why I need a strong man that I can feel safe with.
Nice one. 🙂
If’s not meant to be is not meant to be. You have to be always prepared for that and learn from it 😉
Lolclick to expand
Posted by pisceswoman123....but I am not hoping to be with a manPosted by MyStarsShineI get you, but we learn something every day. There is always hope as long as there is a futurePosted by pisceswoman123Yes I know ... I've had five long termers and lost all my family so if I don't know now I never willPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by pisceswoman123Then if things don't turn out well, you will be finePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by pisceswoman123True, as long as you stay grounded and not too unrealisticPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by pisceswoman123.....but he could.....let you down, that is
It’s an emotional safety for me. It’s means he is the man and I feel completely like a woman with him. Best feeling ever. I feel safe to be vulnerable with him and I know he wouldn’t let me down.
Rely on thine own self....always
I can rely on my self for everything. 😉 But you cannot love completely without surrendering your self to your partner. It’s a mutual thing.
Been there, done that
😼
I am always grounded, always in control. That is why I need a strong man that I can feel safe with.
Nice one. 🙂
If’s not meant to be is not meant to be. You have to be always prepared for that and learn from it 😉
Lolclick to expand
I've more important things in my life
Thanks anyway though 😊
Maybe I hope one for you ..... ?
Posted by pisceswoman123I don’t understand opposite...Posted by Gemitati😂😂 If you haven’t understand it, don’t blame it on me 😉 Hopefully one day you willPosted by pisceswoman123Everyone who understood written above - say ‘I’...Posted by GemitatiPosted by pisceswoman123I beg you to explain all this mushy crap you just written! Safe from what? Natural disasters?
It’s an emotional safety for me. It’s means he is the man and I feel completely like a woman with him. Best feeling ever. I feel safe to be vulnerable with him and I know he wouldn’t let me down.
He makes you feel like a woman...how?
What did you feel like before? A man?
What do you do I’m a moment of your vulnerability so he can let you down but he don’t?
It’s all crap from the books and have nothing to do with reality!
Unless you can explain...
😂😂😂 ok.
Safe from what? Safe to show him the real you
Natural disasters? If is needed I know he will protect me from that as much as he can
He makes you feel like a woman...how? By being a real man, not a boy
What did you feel like before? A man? Always a woman but he will bring that feeling of that is how it’s supposed to be.
What do you do I’m a moment of your vulnerability so he can let you down but he don’t? That is too deep to write in here, but the whole point is that he wouldn’t want to let you down, ever, it would be his biggest mistake 😉
It’s all water...nothing concrete...words without anything to hold on to...feeling like a woman...I don’t need a man for that! I have a mirror...
Safe? Like oops...I am sick...
No honey I’ll save you...crap!
click to expand
Posted by GemitatiPosted by pisceswoman123I don’t understand opposite...Posted by Gemitati😂😂 If you haven’t understand it, don’t blame it on me 😉 Hopefully one day you willPosted by pisceswoman123Everyone who understood written above - say ‘I’...Posted by GemitatiPosted by pisceswoman123I beg you to explain all this mushy crap you just written! Safe from what? Natural disasters?
It’s an emotional safety for me. It’s means he is the man and I feel completely like a woman with him. Best feeling ever. I feel safe to be vulnerable with him and I know he wouldn’t let me down.
He makes you feel like a woman...how?
What did you feel like before? A man?
What do you do I’m a moment of your vulnerability so he can let you down but he don’t?
It’s all crap from the books and have nothing to do with reality!
Unless you can explain...
😂😂😂 ok.
Safe from what? Safe to show him the real you
Natural disasters? If is needed I know he will protect me from that as much as he can
He makes you feel like a woman...how? By being a real man, not a boy
What did you feel like before? A man? Always a woman but he will bring that feeling of that is how it’s supposed to be.
What do you do I’m a moment of your vulnerability so he can let you down but he don’t? That is too deep to write in here, but the whole point is that he wouldn’t want to let you down, ever, it would be his biggest mistake 😉
It’s all water...nothing concrete...words without anything to hold on to...feeling like a woman...I don’t need a man for that! I have a mirror...
Safe? Like oops...I am sick...
No honey I’ll save you...crap!
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Well, none offense but it seems to me that what you don’t understand is deep relationship
Posted by pisceswoman123None taken.Posted by GemitatiPosted by pisceswoman123I don’t understand opposite...Posted by Gemitati😂😂 If you haven’t understand it, don’t blame it on me 😉 Hopefully one day you willPosted by pisceswoman123Everyone who understood written above - say ‘I’...Posted by GemitatiPosted by pisceswoman123I beg you to explain all this mushy crap you just written! Safe from what? Natural disasters?
It’s an emotional safety for me. It’s means he is the man and I feel completely like a woman with him. Best feeling ever. I feel safe to be vulnerable with him and I know he wouldn’t let me down.
He makes you feel like a woman...how?
What did you feel like before? A man?
What do you do I’m a moment of your vulnerability so he can let you down but he don’t?
It’s all crap from the books and have nothing to do with reality!
Unless you can explain...
😂😂😂 ok.
Safe from what? Safe to show him the real you
Natural disasters? If is needed I know he will protect me from that as much as he can
He makes you feel like a woman...how? By being a real man, not a boy
What did you feel like before? A man? Always a woman but he will bring that feeling of that is how it’s supposed to be.
What do you do I’m a moment of your vulnerability so he can let you down but he don’t? That is too deep to write in here, but the whole point is that he wouldn’t want to let you down, ever, it would be his biggest mistake 😉
It’s all water...nothing concrete...words without anything to hold on to...feeling like a woman...I don’t need a man for that! I have a mirror...
Safe? Like oops...I am sick...
No honey I’ll save you...crap!
Well, none offense but it seems to me that what you don’t understand is deep relationship
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What I don’t understand is how and why would woman be with a man who treats her that she doesn’t feel like a woman, being a mess and can’t rely on him and tip-toeing around him choosing words to not to offend him. THAT I don’t understand.
Posted by GemitatiPosted by pisceswoman123None taken.Posted by GemitatiPosted by pisceswoman123I don’t understand opposite...Posted by Gemitati😂😂 If you haven’t understand it, don’t blame it on me 😉 Hopefully one day you willPosted by pisceswoman123Everyone who understood written above - say ‘I’...Posted by GemitatiPosted by pisceswoman123I beg you to explain all this mushy crap you just written! Safe from what? Natural disasters?
It’s an emotional safety for me. It’s means he is the man and I feel completely like a woman with him. Best feeling ever. I feel safe to be vulnerable with him and I know he wouldn’t let me down.
He makes you feel like a woman...how?
What did you feel like before? A man?
What do you do I’m a moment of your vulnerability so he can let you down but he don’t?
It’s all crap from the books and have nothing to do with reality!
Unless you can explain...
😂😂😂 ok.
Safe from what? Safe to show him the real you
Natural disasters? If is needed I know he will protect me from that as much as he can
He makes you feel like a woman...how? By being a real man, not a boy
What did you feel like before? A man? Always a woman but he will bring that feeling of that is how it’s supposed to be.
What do you do I’m a moment of your vulnerability so he can let you down but he don’t? That is too deep to write in here, but the whole point is that he wouldn’t want to let you down, ever, it would be his biggest mistake 😉
It’s all water...nothing concrete...words without anything to hold on to...feeling like a woman...I don’t need a man for that! I have a mirror...
Safe? Like oops...I am sick...
No honey I’ll save you...crap!
Well, none offense but it seems to me that what you don’t understand is deep relationship
What I don’t understand is how and why would woman be with a man who treats her that she doesn’t feel like a woman, being a mess and can’t rely on him and tip-toeing around him choosing words to not to offend him. THAT I don’t understand.click to expand
Well, I understand that. Some women are not strong enough. If’s you are not strong the man will have the power. It’s all about balance
Posted by RooSagicornMy fav part is when I’m being nice like this before sex.... then they go I don’t want to sleep with you and things change... 😒Posted by GemitatiWell I think sometimes people say it because they have not felt safe in the places & people they’ve been with. But you should feel this way in a relationship or you shouldn’t be in it.Posted by RooSagicorn
Emotionally and physically. It doesn’t mean you are actually “safe”. It is a feeling. You trust them, can tell them anything, are not on guard around them. I think this is important in a healthy relationship actually. The guy should feel safe with you too.
I would never have relashionships with a man if I felt any different than you described. And I never did. I just don’t say crap like this...lol
I am living it naturally.click to expand
So now you have to convince them it’s not about sex. Crazy....
To thy own self be true!
Posted by Gob_Shitethanks, I needed that lol
It means he can utter "I'll be back" convincingly...
Posted by crazysiouxHey my comment has nothing to do with women’s rights. That for me is a given thing. I am very lucky to live in a country where I don’t have to even think about that. We as people have the same rights, it’s doesn’t matter what gender you are, what color or what sexuality. We are all equals.Part of a man's job description is to be man a man and let the woman be a woman. 😏Hey, I was meaning to ask how's that case of testicular torsion coming?!?
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Exactly! Only a man understands that
Oh wait, only a man understands that ... my bad! 😆
*stands with mouth agape*
What ... the ... fuck ... is ... this ... this ... this slop?!?! You mean to tell me, after 43 fucking years, I got this "man" shit wrong?!? That I was never supposed to be 100% responsible and accountable for my emotions, my actions, my reactions, my feelings, etc. and I was expected -- nay, commanded; obligated even -- to periodically outsource them to all those temporary human beings euphemistically referred to as "girlfriends"?!?
Wow, that sounds almost like ... co-dependency ... wait ... it is co-dependency!! 😛
Not to mention sexist, too. As a man, I'm guaranteed never to have an abortion. Just not gonna happen. All males -- be they gay, bi, or straight - represent an entire class of people guaranteed never to have an abortion. Does that fact seem to never stop some of us in our Messianic quests to beat women over the head with our cockamamie and confabulated notions of how a woman must feel, what to think, how to behave, what they can and can't do with their bodies?!?!? Nooooooo! On the same token, no woman in this thread will ever ever ever understand what it's like to be man. In fact, there's a damn good article on at URBO.COM that details 7 specific things that are unique to the male experience. So uh ... yeah ... way to go there, testicular torsion. Now, if only we can stop this "Man Up" culture from greatly contributing to our suicide rates, that would be great ...
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But I am a woman. And as a woman I want to be treated as one. That doesn’t mean that I am inferior to a man. Noooo. I just want to be treated and made feel like a woman, and a real man knows how to and it’s not scared of showing it.
Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by crazysiouxHey my comment has nothing to do with women’s rights. That for me is a given thing. I am very lucky to live in a country where I don’t have to even think about that. We as people have the same rights, it’s doesn’t matter what gender you are, what color or what sexuality. We are all equals.Part of a man's job description is to be man a man and let the woman be a woman. 😏Hey, I was meaning to ask how's that case of testicular torsion coming?!?
--
Exactly! Only a man understands that
Oh wait, only a man understands that ... my bad! 😆
*stands with mouth agape*
What ... the ... fuck ... is ... this ... this ... this slop?!?! You mean to tell me, after 43 fucking years, I got this "man" shit wrong?!? That I was never supposed to be 100% responsible and accountable for my emotions, my actions, my reactions, my feelings, etc. and I was expected -- nay, commanded; obligated even -- to periodically outsource them to all those temporary human beings euphemistically referred to as "girlfriends"?!?
Wow, that sounds almost like ... co-dependency ... wait ... it is co-dependency!! 😛
Not to mention sexist, too. As a man, I'm guaranteed never to have an abortion. Just not gonna happen. All males -- be they gay, bi, or straight - represent an entire class of people guaranteed never to have an abortion. Does that fact seem to never stop some of us in our Messianic quests to beat women over the head with our cockamamie and confabulated notions of how a woman must feel, what to think, how to behave, what they can and can't do with their bodies?!?!? Nooooooo! On the same token, no woman in this thread will ever ever ever understand what it's like to be man. In fact, there's a damn good article on at URBO.COM that details 7 specific things that are unique to the male experience. So uh ... yeah ... way to go there, testicular torsion. Now, if only we can stop this "Man Up" culture from greatly contributing to our suicide rates, that would be great ...
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But I am a woman. And as a woman I want to be treated as one. That doesn’t mean that I am inferior to a man. Noooo. I just want to be treated and made feel like a woman, and a real man knows how to and it’s not scared of showing it.
It means I can let my guard down and just be real. No “phone voice”.
Cap moon/venus/merc/saturn/uranus/neptune
To me personally "he makes me feel safe" means that he can provide emotional/physical/financial safety.
I can't stress enough how important financial safety is to me. Doesn't mean he has to be rich! Means he doesn't waste our money instead he builds a future with me, he safes money and is focussed on investing in our future. He makes me feel safe and cared for because I never have to worry if our bills will be paid or if there is enough money for food. A responsible man who takes care emotionally and financially of his family.
My husband makes me feel safe and cared for that's why we decided to start a family - otherwise I would never agree getting off birth control. He takes great pride in being able to do so and I'm really proud of him too. He worked his ass off to get in a good position and I respect him so much for that.
Emotionally he listens to my worries and he comes with logic and rational ways to find solutions. He tells me that I never have to worry as long as I have him - to almost every problem there is a solution and we'll find one together. Jezz... he is a true blessing in my life.
To me personally "he makes me feel safe" means that he can provide emotional/physical/financial safety.
I can't stress enough how important financial safety is to me. Doesn't mean he has to be rich! Means he doesn't waste our money instead he builds a future with me, he safes money and is focussed on investing in our future. He makes me feel safe and cared for because I never have to worry if our bills will be paid or if there is enough money for food. A responsible man who takes care emotionally and financially of his family.
My husband makes me feel safe and cared for that's why we decided to start a family - otherwise I would never agree getting off birth control. He takes great pride in being able to do so and I'm really proud of him too. He worked his ass off to get in a good position and I respect him so much for that.
Emotionally he listens to my worries and he comes with logic and rational ways to find solutions. He tells me that I never have to worry as long as I have him - to almost every problem there is a solution and we'll find one together. Jezz... he is a true blessing in my life.
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