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Was this topic just a ruse to get women to admit we all have a rape fantasy? I don’t. Not even CNC.

I question the legitimacy of this story anyway. “A guy a while back…” sure

No.. What I was asking has a pretty broad range. I just used that example because the guy didn't know how to react to what she wanted. It's a real story and I'm positive that's not the majority of women.

You're just being obtuse today.
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No, some of you are just really that dumb. Do you think a rape fantasy is about getting off? It’s about the power exchange. It’s psychological. It’s about trust and vulnerability. You think people are just engaging in role play as a new way to just get off because the old ways got boring?

The answers are right in your face and you’re still asking me to explain it to you.
I never made that connection. Clearly you're purposefully being obtuse.
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Yes, I know 🤣 can you please understand how maddening it is to try to explain that sex is not just in out in out penetration, change positions, put your leg up until someone cums? Am I alone here? That is really what y’all do? You just stick it in until you feel tingly?

Some people want to feel loved, or vulnerable, or powerful, or degraded. I’m sure you can perform the act of sex. Can you create the emotions the other person is looking to have fulfilled?

Some people are having sex to get validation that they are desired. The act itself is enough for those people.

No.. what I said is in reference to a rape fantasy and getting off. Not the rest of your condescending comments.


You're a bit uptight today. Maybe you need an orgasm 🤣🤣
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That’s what I was addressing. Your lack of knowledge
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We're so thankful to have you here today. I've learned so much..
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I would disagree - all of the men I have experience with have been very receptive to my desire/kinks that I’ve wanted to try. I think men in general want to please their sex partner. I’ve never had experience with anything otherwise. The key factor here is communication. I think the issue is that people aren’t open talking about this stuff, especially if you’re a person who has a lot of casual sex.

Your example is very extreme and an huge outlier from the norm. It sounds like that woman had a lot of psychological issues. Like she secretly literally wanted to be raped or what? No one would know she wanted that if she doesn’t tell them, she just expected them to do it of their own volition? Huge red flag. She sounds like she’s suffered from sexual assault/rape and hasn’t dealt with the trauma properly. That’s in no way a standard desire or expectation for most women.

Disagree 62% of women have had rape fantasies. The women's fantasies are always more interesting than men's. Most popular male fantasy is a threesome ... borin'.

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19085605/

I doubt that figure is correct
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I don't. Loads of brutes in fiction, even Mr Darcy and the beast. It's a sexual fantasy not a romantic fantasy

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But how many of them would act that out?

Probably more than you think given the right partner

Most of your sexual partners?

Lol nah, i haven't even had many partners, maybe like 6 at this point. Never broached CNC with any of them. Just that people like all kinds of wild shit
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I’ve not had many either …

Taurus moon purity 😋😂
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Is that a thing? Taurus is known for indulging and being glutinous.

I know a Gemini Sun, Taurus moon, and Scorpio Mars that is a forever bachelor and will never settle because he loves being with a variety of different women. He will tell women that he will cheat if he's caged into a relationship. He gets too bored.
He's a scorpio mars we're special people.
Everyone has a choice on what they want to do in their private lives. He tries to warn women lol.


P.S. Scorpio Venus is better!


Scorpio venus = Jimmy Savile.

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Seems like Scorpio Sun/ Scorpio Venus issue. Eeewwwww Creepy pedo vibes!







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Yaaaaayyy! 😂🥴🤣

lol My boyfriends too! Hahaha! He's no creep though.

Where’s his moon and mars?
Cap moon and Leo mars.



He's actually a big prude and not creepy in the slightest. He said that I'm the one who should've been a Scorpio because of how I am in private

Yes Cap moon is quite guarded and restrained


Lol at you and your Scorpio Venus 😃being more Scorpio then he.


Do you shock him? 😋

Yeah, I do. I'm finding he's more receptive to my behavior while being in the act, then me talking about it. He says I'm not very lady like.

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Lol ladylike 😀

I bet he’s mad for you 🔥😘

My last lover called me “brazen”

Lol

Love a woman like that. When they be grabby ♥
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Grabby Taurus moon 🌝
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Look at the men commenting.

Yeah I do this and that, the dumb shit women require to drop their pants. Not because I find any satisfaction in pleasing my woman or I think her desires are important. Just because they need that dumb emotional shit so I can put my dick in.


You sound jaded by your poor experiences with men. There are plenty of men who make sure their woman climaxes or fulfilled their needs. Are they the majority? no..

…it’s not about getting off 🤦🏽‍♀️ getting off is the least important part of sex with women.

What exactly is the most important?

Do you have sex with women? Otherwise I don’t know why you’re concerned.

You just like being argumentative.

First you say that the Libra isn't a women so he can't understand, now you say this.

GTFOH

You act difficult for no reason at all.
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If sex was purely about getting off women would live alone with their vibrators.

You’re just a pick me girl, so no I’m not explaining shit to you lol. Your self worth is tied to what men think about you.
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Some women do live alone with their vibrators. Ever been to a feminist bookshop?

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I love alone without a vibro

But have ✨Magick✨witch’s fingers

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If you're a witch you need a wand
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Or two …
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I would disagree - all of the men I have experience with have been very receptive to my desire/kinks that I’ve wanted to try. I think men in general want to please their sex partner. I’ve never had experience with anything otherwise. The key factor here is communication. I think the issue is that people aren’t open talking about this stuff, especially if you’re a person who has a lot of casual sex.

Your example is very extreme and an huge outlier from the norm. It sounds like that woman had a lot of psychological issues. Like she secretly literally wanted to be raped or what? No one would know she wanted that if she doesn’t tell them, she just expected them to do it of their own volition? Huge red flag. She sounds like she’s suffered from sexual assault/rape and hasn’t dealt with the trauma properly. That’s in no way a standard desire or expectation for most women.

Disagree 62% of women have had rape fantasies. The women's fantasies are always more interesting than men's. Most popular male fantasy is a threesome ... borin'.

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19085605/

I doubt that figure is correct
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I don't. Loads of brutes in fiction, even Mr Darcy and the beast. It's a sexual fantasy not a romantic fantasy

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But how many of them would act that out?

Probably more than you think given the right partner

Most of your sexual partners?

Lol nah, i haven't even had many partners, maybe like 6 at this point. Never broached CNC with any of them. Just that people like all kinds of wild shit
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I’ve not had many either …

Taurus moon purity 😋😂
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Is that a thing? Taurus is known for indulging and being glutinous.

I know a Gemini Sun, Taurus moon, and Scorpio Mars that is a forever bachelor and will never settle because he loves being with a variety of different women. He will tell women that he will cheat if he's caged into a relationship. He gets too bored.
He's a scorpio mars we're special people.
Everyone has a choice on what they want to do in their private lives. He tries to warn women lol.


P.S. Scorpio Venus is better!


Scorpio venus = Jimmy Savile.

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Seems like Scorpio Sun/ Scorpio Venus issue. Eeewwwww Creepy pedo vibes!







These are my placements 🙋‍♀️





Yaaaaayyy! 😂🥴🤣

lol My boyfriends too! Hahaha! He's no creep though.

Where’s his moon and mars?
Cap moon and Leo mars.



He's actually a big prude and not creepy in the slightest. He said that I'm the one who should've been a Scorpio because of how I am in private

Yes Cap moon is quite guarded and restrained


Lol at you and your Scorpio Venus 😃being more Scorpio then he.


Do you shock him? 😋

Yeah, I do. I'm finding he's more receptive to my behavior while being in the act, then me talking about it. He says I'm not very lady like.

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Lol ladylike 😀

I bet he’s mad for you 🔥😘

My last lover called me “brazen”

Lol



Love a woman like that. When they be grabby ♥


Grabby Taurus moon 🌝

Gotta grab everything!
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Was this topic just a ruse to get women to admit we all have a rape fantasy? I don’t. Not even CNC.

I question the legitimacy of this story anyway. “A guy a while back…” sure

No.. What I was asking has a pretty broad range. I just used that example because the guy didn't know how to react to what she wanted. It's a real story and I'm positive that's not the majority of women.

You're just being obtuse today.
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No, some of you are just really that dumb. Do you think a rape fantasy is about getting off? It’s about the power exchange. It’s psychological. It’s about trust and vulnerability. You think people are just engaging in role play as a new way to just get off because the old ways got boring?

The answers are right in your face and you’re still asking me to explain it to you.
I never made that connection. Clearly you're purposefully being obtuse.
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Yes, I know 🤣 can you please understand how maddening it is to try to explain that sex is not just in out in out penetration, change positions, put your leg up until someone cums? Am I alone here? That is really what y’all do? You just stick it in until you feel tingly?

Some people want to feel loved, or vulnerable, or powerful, or degraded. I’m sure you can perform the act of sex. Can you create the emotions the other person is looking to have fulfilled?

Some people are having sex to get validation that they are desired. The act itself is enough for those people.

So in short, he's incapable of getting you off, so you justify lack of orgasms by whole philosophy about validation and at the same time speaking in the name of all women kind meanwhile.

Emotions men I had sex with and I were looking to have fulfilled are to have an orgasm. To fulfill your sexual desire. To release the stress. To release the tension. To have your heart pumping rapidly from joy.

And yeah, repeating in and out, changing positions and stuff like that does get you there. Had no complaints thus far and have not complained thus far on that. Sexual desire fulfilled by getting an orgasm. Don't care a slightest bit about philosophy when I'm having sex. There is plenty of time during day where we can philosophize about everything we can think of. Sex is for bodily pleasures. And no, I don't need to connect on a deeper level either. And yes, I'm a woman too. A woman who likes both sex and philosophy - in separate time.
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Good for you? You’re a part of the current culture that views sex purely as physical pleasure. You’re not unique. You’re a Sagittarius, I wouldn’t really expect anything more.
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Who is eggroll? Is that you sancho? Are you much sassier than I remembered? How are you and how is Ohio up your way?
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I liked this point:

“Some people want to feel loved, or vulnerable, or powerful, or degraded. I’m sure you can perform the act of sex. Can you create the emotions the other person is looking to have fulfilled?”

The orgasm + this emotional requirement is what makes sex good or not. Whatever that requirement looks like for the individual. An orgasm alone is only fulfilling the need for physical release, but it’s far from the whole picture
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Was this topic just a ruse to get women to admit we all have a rape fantasy? I don’t. Not even CNC.

I question the legitimacy of this story anyway. “A guy a while back…” sure

No.. What I was asking has a pretty broad range. I just used that example because the guy didn't know how to react to what she wanted. It's a real story and I'm positive that's not the majority of women.

You're just being obtuse today.
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No, some of you are just really that dumb. Do you think a rape fantasy is about getting off? It’s about the power exchange. It’s psychological. It’s about trust and vulnerability. You think people are just engaging in role play as a new way to just get off because the old ways got boring?

The answers are right in your face and you’re still asking me to explain it to you.

I never made that connection. Clearly you're purposefully being obtuse.
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Yes, I know 🤣 can you please understand how maddening it is to try to explain that sex is not just in out in out penetration, change positions, put your leg up until someone cums? Am I alone here? That is really what y’all do? You just stick it in until you feel tingly?

Some people want to feel loved, or vulnerable, or powerful, or degraded. I’m sure you can perform the act of sex. Can you create the emotions the other person is looking to have fulfilled?

Some people are having sex to get validation that they are desired. The act itself is enough for those people.

So in short, he's incapable of getting you off, so you justify lack of orgasms by whole philosophy about validation and at the same time speaking in the name of all women kind meanwhile.

Emotions men I had sex with and I were looking to have fulfilled are to have an orgasm. To fulfill your sexual desire. To release the stress. To release the tension. To have your heart pumping rapidly from joy.

And yeah, repeating in and out, changing positions and stuff like that does get you there. Had no complaints thus far and have not complained thus far on that. Sexual desire fulfilled by getting an orgasm. Don't care a slightest bit about philosophy when I'm having sex. There is plenty of time during day where we can philosophize about everything we can think of. Sex is for bodily pleasures. And no, I don't need to connect on a deeper level either. And yes, I'm a woman too. A woman who likes both sex and philosophy - in separate time.
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Good for you? You’re a part of the current culture that views sex purely as physical pleasure. You’re not unique. You’re a Sagittarius, I wouldn’t really expect anything more.
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Who is eggroll? Is that you sancho? Are you much sassier than I remembered? How are you and how is Ohio up your way?
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Not her.
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Sorry I don’t spend as much time on here anymore to keep up with it
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Was this topic just a ruse to get women to admit we all have a rape fantasy? I don’t. Not even CNC.

I question the legitimacy of this story anyway. “A guy a while back…” sure

No.. What I was asking has a pretty broad range. I just used that example because the guy didn't know how to react to what she wanted. It's a real story and I'm positive that's not the majority of women.

You're just being obtuse today.
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No, some of you are just really that dumb. Do you think a rape fantasy is about getting off? It’s about the power exchange. It’s psychological. It’s about trust and vulnerability. You think people are just engaging in role play as a new way to just get off because the old ways got boring?

The answers are right in your face and you’re still asking me to explain it to you.
I never made that connection. Clearly you're purposefully being obtuse.
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Yes, I know 🤣 can you please understand how maddening it is to try to explain that sex is not just in out in out penetration, change positions, put your leg up until someone cums? Am I alone here? That is really what y’all do? You just stick it in until you feel tingly?

Some people want to feel loved, or vulnerable, or powerful, or degraded. I’m sure you can perform the act of sex. Can you create the emotions the other person is looking to have fulfilled?

Some people are having sex to get validation that they are desired. The act itself is enough for those people.
So in short, he's incapable of getting you off, so you justify lack of orgasms by whole philosophy about validation and at the same time speaking in the name of all women kind meanwhile.



Emotions men I had sex with and I were looking to have fulfilled are to have an orgasm. To fulfill your sexual desire. To release the stress. To release the tension. To have your heart pumping rapidly from joy.



And yeah, repeating in and out, changing positions and stuff like that does get you there. Had no complaints thus far and have not complained thus far on that. Sexual desire fulfilled by getting an orgasm. Don't care a slightest bit about philosophy when I'm having sex. There is plenty of time during day where we can philosophize about everything we can think of. Sex is for bodily pleasures. And no, I don't need to connect on a deeper level either. And yes, I'm a woman too. A woman who likes both sex and philosophy - in separate time.

Good for you? You’re a part of the current culture that views sex purely as physical pleasure. You’re not unique. You’re a Sagittarius, I wouldn’t really expect anything more.

Current culture? Oh, I'm sorry "special" person from another planet, read a bit of history about people from this planet, regarding those kind of topics and see since when sex "became" physical pleasure. I'm sure brothels served a higher, devine, purpose and so many people suffered from all those horrible STD's purely due to their desire for special bonding and mind connection in which they don't get to orgasm🤣 Because there is so much else to it, that we poor un-unique people wouldn't understand🤣 yeah, I get to orgasm and you don't, that's why I'm not arguing all the people on this topic and you are - lack of satisfaction makes you that way. May God help you get that orgasm once in a blue Moon, it will really widen your horizons, you sound bitter and frustrated. And no, I'm not unique, I'm a normal person, just like others, who enjoys sex and gets to orgasm when they are having sex instead of coming up with reasons why I failed to get that pleasure or why my man is incapable of providing me with it
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No, you’re an absolute idiot. The topic is “can men handle women’s SEXUAL FANTASIES and desires.” I said NO, my fantasies are UNREALISTIC. Read that part again slowly.


My. Fantasies. Are. Unrealistic. Read it one more time just so it sinks in to your thick ass skull this time.


The topic was never do you cum. I don’t know how or why those of you with tiny brains became obsessed with whether or not a get off when that it the absolute bare minimum requirement of sex. If you and the other dumb Sagittarius can get off, what makes you think others don’t? I can enjoy sex the way you enjoy sex.


But you’re pissing mad at me because I won’t share my FANTASIES (the original topic) with you in elaborate detail, which would be of no use to you, because they’re deeply personal to my own DESIRES. Maybe you’re angry because all you’re bringing to the table is a vagina and bare minimum expectations of sex. If that’s the case I have a leg up. Literally and figuratively.
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Or a leg over 😆

And now I’m sounding like @alexscaries
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Was this topic just a ruse to get women to admit we all have a rape fantasy? I don’t. Not even CNC.

I question the legitimacy of this story anyway. “A guy a while back…” sure

No.. What I was asking has a pretty broad range. I just used that example because the guy didn't know how to react to what she wanted. It's a real story and I'm positive that's not the majority of women.

You're just being obtuse today.
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No, some of you are just really that dumb. Do you think a rape fantasy is about getting off? It’s about the power exchange. It’s psychological. It’s about trust and vulnerability. You think people are just engaging in role play as a new way to just get off because the old ways got boring?

The answers are right in your face and you’re still asking me to explain it to you.
I never made that connection. Clearly you're purposefully being obtuse.
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Yes, I know 🤣 can you please understand how maddening it is to try to explain that sex is not just in out in out penetration, change positions, put your leg up until someone cums? Am I alone here? That is really what y’all do? You just stick it in until you feel tingly?

Some people want to feel loved, or vulnerable, or powerful, or degraded. I’m sure you can perform the act of sex. Can you create the emotions the other person is looking to have fulfilled?

Some people are having sex to get validation that they are desired. The act itself is enough for those people.

So in short, he's incapable of getting you off, so you justify lack of orgasms by whole philosophy about validation and at the same time speaking in the name of all women kind meanwhile.


Emotions men I had sex with and I were looking to have fulfilled are to have an orgasm. To fulfill your sexual desire. To release the stress. To release the tension. To have your heart pumping rapidly from joy.


And yeah, repeating in and out, changing positions and stuff like that does get you there. Had no complaints thus far and have not complained thus far on that. Sexual desire fulfilled by getting an orgasm. Don't care a slightest bit about philosophy when I'm having sex. There is plenty of time during day where we can philosophize about everything we can think of. Sex is for bodily pleasures. And no, I don't need to connect on a deeper level either. And yes, I'm a woman too. A woman who likes both sex and philosophy - in separate time.

Good for you? You’re a part of the current culture that views sex purely as physical pleasure. You’re not unique. You’re a Sagittarius, I wouldn’t really expect anything more.
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Current culture? Oh, I'm sorry "special" person from another planet, read a bit of history about people from this planet, regarding those kind of topics and see since when sex "became" physical pleasure. I'm sure brothels served a higher, devine, purpose and so many people suffered from all those horrible STD's purely due to their desire for special bonding and mind connection in which they don't get to orgasm🤣 Because there is so much else to it, that we poor un-unique people wouldn't understand🤣 yeah, I get to orgasm and you don't, that's why I'm not arguing all the people on this topic and you are - lack of satisfaction makes you that way. May God help you get that orgasm once in a blue Moon, it will really widen your horizons, you sound bitter and frustrated. And no, I'm not unique, I'm a normal person, just like others, who enjoys sex and gets to orgasm when they are having sex instead of coming up with reasons why I failed to get that pleasure or why my man is incapable of providing me with it
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Honestly I think you're wasting your breathe on her. She lacks the skills to have a decent conversation.

She gaslights, deflects, is very emotional, and name calls instead of being able to handle a person asking questions and challenging her fixed views.

I asked a simple question in reference to what she said, and she stated that it wasn't a valid question and then proceeded to say a whole bunch of other stuff that was unrelated to the topic, but was based on her opinion of who I am as a person.

She is insecure, immature, and very unevolved.

Good luck with her!

I understand completely what you are saying, but her closed mind and strong will to "win" is trying to gaslight you, even though she knows what you are talking about.
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Fear not, stricken heathens. For there is salvation in the lord Jesus Christ.




The only decent thing in this entire thread. 😌🙏🏼
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Lol I actually listened to one, her voice is soothing as.
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Was this topic just a ruse to get women to admit we all have a rape fantasy? I don’t. Not even CNC.

I question the legitimacy of this story anyway. “A guy a while back…” sure

No.. What I was asking has a pretty broad range. I just used that example because the guy didn't know how to react to what she wanted. It's a real story and I'm positive that's not the majority of women.

You're just being obtuse today.
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No, some of you are just really that dumb. Do you think a rape fantasy is about getting off? It’s about the power exchange. It’s psychological. It’s about trust and vulnerability. You think people are just engaging in role play as a new way to just get off because the old ways got boring?

The answers are right in your face and you’re still asking me to explain it to you.
I never made that connection. Clearly you're purposefully being obtuse.
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Yes, I know 🤣 can you please understand how maddening it is to try to explain that sex is not just in out in out penetration, change positions, put your leg up until someone cums? Am I alone here? That is really what y’all do? You just stick it in until you feel tingly?

Some people want to feel loved, or vulnerable, or powerful, or degraded. I’m sure you can perform the act of sex. Can you create the emotions the other person is looking to have fulfilled?

Some people are having sex to get validation that they are desired. The act itself is enough for those people.

So in short, he's incapable of getting you off, so you justify lack of orgasms by whole philosophy about validation and at the same time speaking in the name of all women kind meanwhile.


Emotions men I had sex with and I were looking to have fulfilled are to have an orgasm. To fulfill your sexual desire. To release the stress. To release the tension. To have your heart pumping rapidly from joy.


And yeah, repeating in and out, changing positions and stuff like that does get you there. Had no complaints thus far and have not complained thus far on that. Sexual desire fulfilled by getting an orgasm. Don't care a slightest bit about philosophy when I'm having sex. There is plenty of time during day where we can philosophize about everything we can think of. Sex is for bodily pleasures. And no, I don't need to connect on a deeper level either. And yes, I'm a woman too. A woman who likes both sex and philosophy - in separate time.

Good for you? You’re a part of the current culture that views sex purely as physical pleasure. You’re not unique. You’re a Sagittarius, I wouldn’t really expect anything more.
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Current culture? Oh, I'm sorry "special" person from another planet, read a bit of history about people from this planet, regarding those kind of topics and see since when sex "became" physical pleasure. I'm sure brothels served a higher, devine, purpose and so many people suffered from all those horrible STD's purely due to their desire for special bonding and mind connection in which they don't get to orgasm🤣 Because there is so much else to it, that we poor un-unique people wouldn't understand🤣 yeah, I get to orgasm and you don't, that's why I'm not arguing all the people on this topic and you are - lack of satisfaction makes you that way. May God help you get that orgasm once in a blue Moon, it will really widen your horizons, you sound bitter and frustrated. And no, I'm not unique, I'm a normal person, just like others, who enjoys sex and gets to orgasm when they are having sex instead of coming up with reasons why I failed to get that pleasure or why my man is incapable of providing me with it


Honestly I think you're wasting your breathe on her. She lacks the skills to have a decent conversation.


She gaslights, deflects, is very emotional, and name calls instead of being able to handle a person asking questions and challenging her fixed views.


I asked a simple question in reference to what she said, and she stated that it wasn't a valid question and then proceeded to say a whole bunch of other stuff that was unrelated to the topic, but was based on her opinion of who I am as a person.


She is insecure, immature, and very unevolved.


Good luck with her!


I understand completely what you are saying, but her closed mind and strong will to "win" is trying to gaslight you, even though she knows what you are talking about.

Oh I read your debate with her and see your point exactly there. She knows ofc but is trying to play smartass and in the mean time humiliate anyone who calls her on bs. Not gonna work on me anyway😂 typical sample of frustrated individual who tries defending their distorted POV with anything they can think of. All I see in those comments is a person who lacks quality sex life and exudes frustration
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She just throws anything and everything at you, except for what you actually wanted to know! lol

I don't get it.

Like they say, misery enjoys company. I don't understand the joy in spewing misery.

She needs to grow up!
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Also given the way people are afraid to communicate I bet most if not all of you are bad when it comes to those things hehe
Speak for yourself

If he isn’t up for blood play and water sports, it doesn’t even get to the point of meeting irl 💅🏼
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I think this is gemini humour, but seriously I won't do anything if I can't do it safely and I do a lot.

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You do what a lot
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What's everyone's thoughts on men handling and accepting women's true desires sexually?


Most women tend to not reach that level of comfort with the average man they date, but lo and behold if they do... The majority of men cannot handle all the sexual ideas or fantasies in a woman's mind, let own some actual experiences. Other than my own experiences, I've had a couple friends share some of their adventures and even though there's no romantic interest, at times like I'm still damn.. and in utter disbelief.


There was a guy a while back I know who went on several dates with a woman, but she was extremely closed off, yet kept communicating she liked him. He did not believe her and stated he wanted to end things.. she then turned the tables and stated she has a rape fantasy and he failed to take her by force so the relationship would not have progressed anyway.


The man was in complete shock and thought she was batshit crazy.


I don't think it's a man or woman thing. It's really about the individual. However, I do find men are generally known to be more open to sex in general. Yet, also have a tendancy to be hypocrites and pass judgment even if they liked it...LOL

All fantasies don't involve a person, touch or penetration necessarily. Some involve things, places, certain fluids, and sometimes no penetration... way more kinky, putting yourself really out there mwahaha with touch to just celebrate, maybe "reward."

My husband knows my desires. He seems to just like the idea of possessing freaky woman.

I found every man had one something they were okay with but not everything. I mean, you can't have it all. Well, you can.. but not from one person, LOL. I really hate to say it but it's best to pursue fantasies while single.

Like turning people out accidentally. I always thought turning people out was about introducing them to a "rare" experience they never thought they would feign for. It's beautiful, vain, exciting, spiritual and shallow all at once. Like Ice Cube said,

It's all quite intricate. Like how they can say no to one person but say yes to another... Then, have them questioning themselves...LOL. Like Ice Cube said, "now she wanna change her God and the way she pray."

I guess it's a vibe, LOL

But, you gotta pace yourself. I'm resting up to press up on phase 2 of wearing a mf down, LOL... in between life and him occasionally pissing me off. House is finally empty so I can finally get a swing.
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You guys got major issues on this thread arguing about who's not getting sex, who's vagina is better, who's forever single or whatever yada yada yah! I only come back because I'm finally bored and decided to take a stroll through to see what's going on only to come back to see nothing really.

I ain' got nothing to contribute to this thread specifically. It's not worth the boring time to argue about men can't handle the truth. I honestly couldn't or could (whichever way it goes I don't know) care less.