sweethearts
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So guys..
Posted by sweethearts
Your interested in a lady romantically… maybe… you reach out a little but not much.. you’ve hung out a couple times but she isn’t jumping on your bone.. so to speak.
Can you turn it around and just be mates?
Does she need to tell you that or will you figure it out for yourself?
Can you be friends?
Hon. Secret. There is no men in this cave.
It’s more like Disney World Paris or Las Vegas. 😂
Oh me and scorpio ladies hang out all the time. Nothing romantically. I can easily be mates with them if I want to without telling them. Their an easy bunch. But unfortunately for me I got a mate if you want to call it that.
Damn. I still can't get over this cute Taurus lady I've known for quite some times tho. Everytime we get together I be gettin that loose cannon vibe to grab her by the head and kiss that cute and endearing forehead of hers. But still nothing romantic between me and her. Just sort of businessmen and women.
Damn. I still can't get over this cute Taurus lady I've known for quite some times tho. Everytime we get together I be gettin that loose cannon vibe to grab her by the head and kiss that cute and endearing forehead of hers. But still nothing romantic between me and her. Just sort of businessmen and women.
Posted by alexscariesPosted by sweethearts
Your interested in a lady romantically… maybe… you reach out a little but not much.. you’ve hung out a couple times but she isn’t jumping on your bone.. so to speak.
Can you turn it around and just be mates?
Does she need to tell you that or will you figure it out for yourself?
Can you be friends?
Depends if I want to be friends with her. Too be honest I'm not nice, if I had 3 dates and it looked like it was going nowhere I'm done.click to expand
So if my looooove said ‘I fell for you’ - he isn’t making up the stories right? I am still hanged over that 2 years age gap…hate it! I wish HE was older!
Posted by ATGR
If he wasn’t that into you it could work out being friends.
What if it was the opposite? If she wasn’t into him but he kept insisting on more? It makes me feel so uncomfortable.
Posted by ATGRPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by ATGR
If he wasn’t that into you it could work out being friends.
What if it was the opposite? If she wasn’t into him but he kept insisting on more? It makes me feel so uncomfortable.
Depends how the woman feels. If she’s uncomfortable then she might have to break contact.click to expand
Thank you.
Posted by alexscariesPosted by sweethearts
Your interested in a lady romantically… maybe… you reach out a little but not much.. you’ve hung out a couple times but she isn’t jumping on your bone.. so to speak.
Can you turn it around and just be mates?
Does she need to tell you that or will you figure it out for yourself?
Can you be friends?
Depends if I want to be friends with her. Too be honest I'm not nice, if I had 3 dates and it looked like it was going nowhere I'm done.click to expand
Is that an Aries thing? He’s Taurus on the cusp.
We haven’t officially been out on a date, unofficial meetups but he’s asking to go to dinner and I’ve cancelled twice. Just don’t want to get into a tricky situation because I already know, I just want to be friends.
Posted by GemiMayPosted by sweethearts
Your interested in a lady romantically… maybe… you reach out a little but not much.. you’ve hung out a couple times but she isn’t jumping on your bone.. so to speak.
Can you turn it around and just be mates?
Does she need to tell you that or will you figure it out for yourself?
Can you be friends?
Hon. Secret. There is no men in this cave.
It’s more like Disney World Paris or Las Vegas. 😂click to expand
🤣🤣🤣 it’s like pulling teeth
Same when you’re in a relationship with them… they don’t want to talk
Posted by ATGR
If he wasn’t that into you it could work out being friends.
I don’t think he’s that into me, so how do I flip it?
Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by ATGR
If he wasn’t that into you it could work out being friends.
What if it was the opposite? If she wasn’t into him but he kept insisting on more? It makes me feel so uncomfortable.click to expand
Yes that! The awkwardness when saying goodbye and I turn the cheek with the kiss. Or when he starts putting his arms around my shoulders for a cuddle when talking with others… like a claim thing. I tend to freeze up.
Posted by sweetheartsPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by ATGR
If he wasn’t that into you it could work out being friends.
What if it was the opposite? If she wasn’t into him but he kept insisting on more? It makes me feel so uncomfortable.
Yes that! The awkwardness when saying goodbye and I turn the cheek with the kiss. Or when he starts putting his arms around my shoulders for a cuddle when talking with others… like a claim thing. I tend to freeze up.click to expand
Sometimes I am too nice for my own good. I think women tend to under-read interest from guys and guys tend to over-read. Like, I was just bored and chatting to you and you have feelings already? Men don’t take rejection well. If you go out, they think they are guaranteed something.
And I can’t help it. I attract a lot of men. For better or worse. I was at a bank the other day and talking to the director and he said “how come I haven’t noticed such a pretty woman around here before” (and I am thinking…I just moved here!) But I quickly changed the subject by mentioning to him that his last name is that of my middle school friend. And he said that was his cousin. Just awkward, lol! 🤦♀️
Posted by alexscariesPosted by sweetheartsPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by ATGR
If he wasn’t that into you it could work out being friends.
What if it was the opposite? If she wasn’t into him but he kept insisting on more? It makes me feel so uncomfortable.
Yes that! The awkwardness when saying goodbye and I turn the cheek with the kiss. Or when he starts putting his arms around my shoulders for a cuddle when talking with others… like a claim thing. I tend to freeze up.
Question is what did he do wrong why you are not attracted to him?click to expand
I was originally attracted when I first met him over a year ago. He’s a bar manager and lately (since this year) I’ve started to get to know him better and I can see a train wreck before it’s happened. Way too much drinking!
I’d still like to pop in every once and a while when I’ve had a s**t day and have a friend to chat with etc
I need to spin it now. But it’s awkward to know when’s the right time to do it and how?
Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by sweetheartsPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by ATGR
If he wasn’t that into you it could work out being friends.
What if it was the opposite? If she wasn’t into him but he kept insisting on more? It makes me feel so uncomfortable.
Yes that! The awkwardness when saying goodbye and I turn the cheek with the kiss. Or when he starts putting his arms around my shoulders for a cuddle when talking with others… like a claim thing. I tend to freeze up.
Sometimes I am too nice for my own good. I think women tend to under-read interest from guys and guys tend to over-read. Like, I was just bored and chatting to you and you have feelings already? Men don’t take rejection well. If you go out, they think they are guaranteed something.
And I can’t help it. I attract a lot of men. For better or worse. I was at a bank the other day and talking to the director and he said “how come I haven’t noticed such a pretty woman around here before” (and I am thinking…I just moved here!) But I quickly changed the subject by mentioning to him that his last name is that of my middle school friend. And he said that was his cousin. Just awkward, lol! 🤦♀️click to expand
Yes, too nice.
I always put myself in the others shoes.
Posted by ATGRPosted by sweetheartsPosted by ATGR
If he wasn’t that into you it could work out being friends.
I don’t think he’s that into me, so how do I flip it?
I saw upthread you said you hadn’t actually met up yet. Probably best to just be direct in that case and say you only want friendship.click to expand
I pop into his bar sometimes after work, well I have a handful of times. He’s asked me to come in as well. He’s been trying to arrange a dinner date. I know, I want to remain as friends and just hang out sometimes. The bar is local to me and sometimes you just want a drink with someone after a hard day.
I'm like the least likely to make it work with people nowadays, but in the past I've done it many times. You need to make it clear you are better then other men, but in a tactful way. You really need to look deep into the type of person she is, and be all those types of things. Just do it in low doses... This approach can backfire in bad ways if not done correctly. More then the idea of how much you want her, you need to actually look into her and see who she is. It might not even be in the open, and she might be hiding things, but once you dig deep enough you can pretty much make all the calls, and she will want you to do so. Become her in a sense, just in male form that is better then all the other men. Just don't try too hard and make this obvious, or she might get nervous. All you really need to know is learning her motivations, her movements, actions, likes, speech, and soul. Eventually you will be identical to the voice in her head telling her what choices to make. This aspect is more important then your idea of simply being with her, especially if she doesn't want you. Once you master that, you will pretty much be in control 😊
Just don't abuse the power if you gain it, or turn into a monster and hurt her. If you ever feel that's the case, never date again. In the end it's better to see someone you love remaining pure and living their life happy, then being consumed by one's fucked up world. Take it from me.
Just don't abuse the power if you gain it, or turn into a monster and hurt her. If you ever feel that's the case, never date again. In the end it's better to see someone you love remaining pure and living their life happy, then being consumed by one's fucked up world. Take it from me.
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