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Sex drive and age
How Age Affects Sex Drive and Hormonal Changes
Sex drive can vary widely with age due to hormonal fluctuations, health, and lifestyle. Many people experience a decline after their 30s, but some maintain high libido into later years. Factors like testosterone levels and psychological health influence sexual desire, making it highly individual.
I've been told for women it's after menopause.
But I don't think that will happen since I've been like this my whole life. I will believe it when I see it.
I blame it on my water placements.
My fire placements just lets me acknowledge it as the truth 😉
I lived above a couple who had to be in their late 50s at least.
They was fucking like it was nothing.
I've been told for women it's after menopause.
But I don't think that will happen since I've been like this my whole life. I will believe it when I see it.
I blame it on my water placements.
My fire placements just lets me acknowledge it as the truth 😉
No, but you seriously 😂😂😂
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Pluto in the first house.
It's it's own curse indeed...
Has gotten stronger the older I’ve gotten !! Yippee kyee yaaaa mthrfers
Hahaha it depends on the person! I’m the same I’ve always been Menopause did not change that, but I heard a lot of women it does. Maybe they never liked sex in the first place 😂😂 For me, I want sex when I’m with someone, not just wanting sex for the sake of sex. And then I’m always ready. 🤷♀️ No lubrication issues either.. 🤷♀️🤷♀️
For men, I don’t think desire changes actually. It more has to do with how it may change, and how well they do with that. We are talking 50’s & 60’s not earlier than that. My dad freaking got a pump so he could.. because he had issues due to Diabetes but desire 100% still there.. this is according to my stepmom 😂😂
I’ve blew my load early in life.
Now, I don’t care for sex
I’ll have to get back to you on that one. I’ll be 39 and if anything mine has done the opposite. It’s revved up rather than slowed down. Which is why I make sure my toys are charged at all times. 😂
SAME!!!! and for the waterproof toys INVEST in rechargeable batteries with the charging port... A-M-A-Z-I-N-G
I was going to blame your water placements, but you have a Mars in Libra. Yall love sex and sensuality... Hmmm, I'll say for you MAYBE around age 60 your drive may start to turn down.
Until then.. Turn down for what??
I’ve blew my load early in life.
Now, I don’t care for sex
Lol... you've reached that point..
When does your sex drive die down… I thought by 30 I would be “normal” but I’m pushing 40 and still am super horny daily and it might not be 4 rounds a day but 2-3 make me happy. I can go a day or two without then I’m cranky. Just curious
Are their placements that make you hyper sexual?
8th & 5th house, mars placements, pluto, lilth, eros, fire placements and water placements when their is a emotional connection.
So many ways. Really depends on what triggers you. Hell could just mean you got a dopamine addiction lol
I think it peaks around 50 for men. Well I hope it does peaks around 50 because I can't become much more sexual than I've become recently.
Your T-levels blow up in the mid-40s, and out of the blue there's also a bigger demand placed on you. It's taking a toll. I think some guys start decaying faster physically because of that.
Anyway I'm sure the drive starts going down after 55 at least. That's the time impotence problems can happen I think.
I think men aren't really sexual until their 40s. I mean they think they are, but sexuality takes another meaning with that maturity. But it's difficult to explain.
You must be a bum if you have so much time for that tbh
I think it peaks around 50 for men. Well I hope it does peaks around 50 because I can't become much more sexual than I've become recently.
Your T-levels blow up in the mid-40s, and out of the blue there's also a bigger demand placed on you. It's taking a toll. I think some guys start decaying faster physically because of that.
Anyway I'm sure the drive starts going down after 55 at least. That's the time impotence problems can happen I think.
I think men aren't really sexual until their 40s. I mean they think they are, but sexuality takes another meaning with that maturity. But it's difficult to explain.
You confused women with men.
Libido for women is the highest in their 40es, coinciding with the hormonal storm before menopause.
For men, it's in their 20es, coinciding with the highest testosterone levels. It drops ever since. It also drops for 1-3 years after they become fathers.
The age it drops depends on the age one stops having sex (or masturbating) regularly for whatever reason.
Use it or lose it 😉
I think it peaks around 50 for men. Well I hope it does peaks around 50 because I can't become much more sexual than I've become recently.
Your T-levels blow up in the mid-40s, and out of the blue there's also a bigger demand placed on you. It's taking a toll. I think some guys start decaying faster physically because of that.
Anyway I'm sure the drive starts going down after 55 at least. That's the time impotence problems can happen I think.
I think men aren't really sexual until their 40s. I mean they think they are, but sexuality takes another meaning with that maturity. But it's difficult to explain.
You confused women with men.
Libido for women is the highest in their 40es, coinciding with the hormonal storm before menopause.
For men, it's in their 20es, coinciding with the highest testosterone levels. It drops ever since. It also drops for 1-3 years after they become fathers.
Isn't that libido for women is highest when they are most fertile? 🙂 when it's time for baby
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This thread is about age, not time of the month.
It's been pretty consistent I think, but my chart is predominantly fire so
I think it peaks around 50 for men. Well I hope it does peaks around 50 because I can't become much more sexual than I've become recently.
Your T-levels blow up in the mid-40s, and out of the blue there's also a bigger demand placed on you. It's taking a toll. I think some guys start decaying faster physically because of that.
Anyway I'm sure the drive starts going down after 55 at least. That's the time impotence problems can happen I think.
I think men aren't really sexual until their 40s. I mean they think they are, but sexuality takes another meaning with that maturity. But it's difficult to explain.
You confused women with men.
Libido for women is the highest in their 40es, coinciding with the hormonal storm before menopause.
For men, it's in their 20es, coinciding with the highest testosterone levels. It drops ever since. It also drops for 1-3 years after they become fathers.
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That's an opinion I heard often in the late 80s/early 90s. I read it in some women magazines trying spread the idea that older women and younger men are made to have sex together because they have the highest libido. I even believed it for a part of my life. Women magazines had a very strong following back then.
Now I can't talk for women, but from the side of men, all I'm going to say is that you couldn't be further from the truth. And I'll leave it at that because there are some taboos that are best left unspoken, even though they're at the center of our worlds.
I'm okay to let some people with their illusion, but spreading lies is something else.
I concede, maybe it's not about the testosterone levels, I don't know what it is, but there's definitely something else
I think it peaks around 50 for men. Well I hope it does peaks around 50 because I can't become much more sexual than I've become recently.
Your T-levels blow up in the mid-40s, and out of the blue there's also a bigger demand placed on you. It's taking a toll. I think some guys start decaying faster physically because of that.
Anyway I'm sure the drive starts going down after 55 at least. That's the time impotence problems can happen I think.
I think men aren't really sexual until their 40s. I mean they think they are, but sexuality takes another meaning with that maturity. But it's difficult to explain.
You confused women with men.
Libido for women is the highest in their 40es, coinciding with the hormonal storm before menopause.
For men, it's in their 20es, coinciding with the highest testosterone levels. It drops ever since. It also drops for 1-3 years after they become fathers.
Isn't that libido for women is highest when they are most fertile? 🙂 when it's time for baby
This thread is about age, not time of the month.
Lol but women at some AGE are more fertile too, not only monthly. Best time frame to have kids for women is from 16-35 years old so I assume they have higher libido then to be more willing to reproduce.
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The main hormone driving the libido is testosterone...
"THE SECRETS OF MID-LIFE SEXUAL CHEMISTRY
A woman's sex drive is dependent on many things, including psychological factors and hormones, says Peter Bowen-Simpkins, a spokesperson for the Royal College of Gynaecologists and Obstetricians and medical director of the London Women's Clinic.
'Physically, it is the hormones that have the most impact, and one reason women in their 40s may feel more sexually driven is due to increased testosterone levels.
Testosterone is traditionally thought of as a male hormone, but all women produce it from puberty.
'It has a number of different effects, including boosting sexual desire. However, it is a very powerful hormone, so women produce the sex hormone-binding globulin(SHBG), which mops up much of the testosterone to help keep its effects in check.
'Levels of SHBG are dictated by oestrogen, and as women approach menopause, their oestrogen levels fall. The knock-on effect of this would be an increase in testosterone - which could lead to increased desire.'
There are other explanations for this age group's sexual desire, such as the female hormone, oxytocin.
Professor Ellis Downes, consultant gynaecologist and obstetrician at Chase Farm Hospital, Middlesex, says: 'It can help promote the bond a woman feels with her partner. However, while levels tend to drop a little as a women gets older, the more sex a women has the more oxytocin she produces - it is known as the libido meter.
'So if you consider other factors going on during a woman's 40s - she will have less anxiety about falling pregnant, and tends to be more confident about her body - it could explain partly why she feels more sexually driven.'
What’s sex and the reason for it.
I've been told for women it's after menopause.
But I don't think that will happen since I've been like this my whole life. I will believe it when I see it.
It will return in full force after menopause.
IMO, It fluctuates depending on the circumstances and the person you’re with. If it’s a relationship and it becomes mundane and boring, well it Goes.
When does your sex drive die down… I thought by 30 I would be “normal” but I’m pushing 40 and still am super horny daily and it might not be 4 rounds a day but 2-3 make me happy. I can go a day or two without then I’m cranky. Just curious
Are their placements that make you hyper sexual?
I think fire sign people tend to have a higher sex drive that can actually last for longer than their other non fire peers.
You must be a bum if you have so much time for that tbh
Lmao my first thought too.
4xs a day, your skin is gonna rub off from the friction. Unless it’s a one minute man 🤣
By the way ladies, the honey pot brand makes an AMAZING vulva cream. 10 outta 10. Will soothe you after some rough sex
I want the 🐱 torn up in theory not reality 🥴
You must be a bum if you have so much time for that tbh
Lmao my first thought too.
4xs a day, your skin is gonna rub off from the friction. Unless it’s a one minute man 🤣
By the way ladies, the honey pot brand makes an AMAZING vulva cream. 10 outta 10. Will soothe you after some rough sex
I want the 🐱 torn up in theory not reality 🥴
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Gurl very easy to make your own cream!
I've been told for women it's after menopause.
But I don't think that will happen since I've been like this my whole life. I will believe it when I see it.
I blame it on my water placements.
My fire placements just lets me acknowledge it as the truth 😉
At 42 it has died down slightly...like...I can go days and weeks with out it no problem but if I had it everyday I wouldn't mind either...between age 35-40 I was like a fucking sex machine tho so I may have gotten it out of my system or just have other shit to worry about.
I've been told for women it's after menopause.
But I don't think that will happen since I've been like this my whole life. I will believe it when I see it.
Admit it, you're reserving it all for me. 😈
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I'm looking into retiring over seas- So yes. Be prepared for the hurricane and major flooding! 😆
You must be a bum if you have so much time for that tbh
Lmao my first thought too.
4xs a day, your skin is gonna rub off from the friction. Unless it’s a one minute man 🤣
By the way ladies, the honey pot brand makes an AMAZING vulva cream. 10 outta 10. Will soothe you after some rough sex
I want the 🐱 torn up in theory not reality 🥴
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After 2 orgasms I'm good for a session really, but I prefer the one and done during the week. After the gym lifting I'm typically horny.... nah. I like short sessions bc I don't beat off. I like 5-10 minutes of good fun.... I only really do the 30 min or more on weekends.
I like variety... some days/session just oral, or warm up and regular.... once women in my experienced are aroused you don't have to go to pound town for 10+ min. give em one or two O's and have them ready to come back....
but if I only orgasm once in a day... i'm still horny
I've been told for women it's after menopause.
But I don't think that will happen since I've been like this my whole life. I will believe it when I see it.
Admit it, you're reserving it all for me. 😈
I'm looking into retiring over seas- So yes. Be prepared for the hurricane and major flooding! 😆
Where do you want to move to?
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I don’t have one particular place in mind but I will be going over seas once I retire.
American money coming in and it will be going out with me living comfortably somewhere else that has a better quality of life.
I want to eat healthy authentic food with little to no extra additives and smell fresh air daily.
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When does your sex drive die down… I thought by 30 I would be “normal” but I’m pushing 40 and still am super horny daily and it might not be 4 rounds a day but 2-3 make me happy. I can go a day or two without then I’m cranky. Just curious
Are their placements that make you hyper sexual?