
Cancer Lady
@Cancer Lady
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Posted by AstrobynYeah I personally don't like all the jerking and tend to think suction is far more important.
I can’t believe nobody has given this poor girl any decent advice. Obviously, they don’t know what they want, which often makes this the perfect opportunity to take control and fuck with them.
To expand on it not being a job; This can be sexy sensual act (in most cases) let your mind get into it, let it turn you on… the hotter you get the more it should reflect in what you’re doing.
Encourage his interaction, some dudes get so dumbfounded they can’t move or make a peep, if they go catatonic you can grab his hand encourage him to run his finger through his hair… And most love it when you make eye contact.
I have never sucked too hard. The harder the better, and most the time you can make him cum at a medium pace (not jerking your head franticly giving yourself whiplash) if you got good “HARD” suction.
You can also put your personality into it, if your sweet play that up… if you’re sour tease the fuck out of them never let them cum ect.

Posted by Cancer Lady
PM then as I want alllll the details lol

Posted by WhorpioDone!Posted by Cancer Lady
PM then as I want alllll the details lol
It won't load the PM box when I click your profile, so PM me first lol.
Astrobyn said some pretty good stuff too.click to expand

Posted by Cancer LadyNo, just her confortability...does she find it gross, or not at all...is she playful, having fun...that sort of thing. A bit of ball play's good lol but it's not the main point, it's about how relaxed she is.Posted by bricklemarkSo you mean like not being afraid to explore all around including balls?
Not about technique, it's about how comfortable she is around peeny.?click to expand

Posted by bricklemarkOh okay got it!Posted by Cancer LadyNo, just her confortability...does she find it gross, or not at all...is she playful, having fun...that sort of thing. A bit of ball play's good lol but it's not the main point, it's about how relaxed she is.Posted by bricklemarkSo you mean like not being afraid to explore all around including balls?
Not about technique, it's about how comfortable she is around peeny.?click to expand


Posted by Fun4LifeActually this is me and I don't do cute I do drop dead gorgeous.Posted by shakedown![]()
OMG - it's EleventhSign..Cute ain't she/he..it. LOL
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Posted by Whorpio
I guuuuueeeess I'll post what I told OP over PM here too because I feel bad for leaving everyone else out.
In my experience, as long as you act super into it and do your own thing guys will love it. And usually they tell you what to not do if you do something wrong, so don't ever question if you're doing it right unless he says something.
As soon as you pull his dick outta his pants, look like a kid in a candy store like "woooow cool!" I feel bad to use a kid for this representation, but like this:![]()
If he's not hard, play with it in your hands for a few seconds. He should get hard pretty quickly. Once hard, first put your mouth on his tip and swirl your tongue around it a couple times. Then you can start bobbing. Depending on how long you want it to last, you can either start slow & soft or hard & "aggressive" (I don't mean like growling savage aggressive, just using your hands, strong suction, fast, etc.) If you're going for the slow approach kneed/massage his balls while you're going up and down. As I'm going up and down I like to swirl my tongue around the tip when I come up and then deepthroat once I go down. Then lick the dick up, down, side ways, all around; the goal is to worship every square inch of his dick with your tongue. Then get to bobbing again, this time harder suction and still massaging/fondling his balls with your hands. After a minute or so start sucking/licking his balls, while still stroking the dick. Think of how a hungry fat kid would carnage a bowl of whipped cream, and do that to his balls. Then after getting his balls nice and wet you can go back to sucking the dick. This time go full throttle: strong suction, fast speed, and lots of hand action and he should cum in no time. If he still hasn't cum take his hands and place them on your head so he can control the tempo and use you how he likes until completion.
Although technique counts for a lot, I've found that attitude accounts for most of it, because with a good attitude you will do better and guys get encouraged/more turned on when girls are crazy for their dick.

Posted by earlorg16Do you like for them to swallow?
i like how women have their own style s to doing them. i tend to like when there's spit involved so its smoother and not much friction while they're using their hands. deep throating is a nice touch here and there, but don't over do it. as long as both a hand is being used to hold it with your mouth going up and down in unison and you're actually sucking it and now just putting it in your mouth, it's solid.

Posted by Cancer Ladytotally up to them. i personally don't mind either way.Posted by earlorg16Do you like for them to swallow?
i like how women have their own style s to doing them. i tend to like when there's spit involved so its smoother and not much friction while they're using their hands. deep throating is a nice touch here and there, but don't over do it. as long as both a hand is being used to hold it with your mouth going up and down in unison and you're actually sucking it and not just putting it in your mouth, it's solid.click to expand

Posted by earlorg16I generally don't but I hear some guys go crazy for it, so it's great to hear it's not that big of a factor.Posted by Cancer Ladytotally up to them. i personally don't mind either way.Posted by earlorg16Do you like for them to swallow?
i like how women have their own style s to doing them. i tend to like when there's spit involved so its smoother and not much friction while they're using their hands. deep throating is a nice touch here and there, but don't over do it. as long as both a hand is being used to hold it with your mouth going up and down in unison and you're actually sucking it and not just putting it in your mouth, it's solid.click to expand

Posted by Cancer Ladyi'd imagine that girls would generally hate to swallow, which is why i leave it up to them. shoot, if i was a girl i wouldn't want that stuff anywhere near my mouth honestly.Posted by earlorg16I generally don't but I hear some guys go crazy for it, so it's great to hear it's not that big of a factor.Posted by Cancer Ladytotally up to them. i personally don't mind either way.Posted by earlorg16Do you like for them to swallow?
i like how women have their own style s to doing them. i tend to like when there's spit involved so its smoother and not much friction while they're using their hands. deep throating is a nice touch here and there, but don't over do it. as long as both a hand is being used to hold it with your mouth going up and down in unison and you're actually sucking it and not just putting it in your mouth, it's solid.click to expand

Posted by earlorg16That's —?Posted by Cancer Ladyi'd imagine that girls would generally hate to swallow, which is why i leave it up to them. shoot, if i was a girl i wouldn't want that stuff anywhere near my mouth honestly.Posted by earlorg16I generally don't but I hear some guys go crazy for it, so it's great to hear it's not that big of a factor.Posted by Cancer Ladytotally up to them. i personally don't mind either way.Posted by earlorg16Do you like for them to swallow?
i like how women have their own style s to doing them. i tend to like when there's spit involved so its smoother and not much friction while they're using their hands. deep throating is a nice touch here and there, but don't over do it. as long as both a hand is being used to hold it with your mouth going up and down in unison and you're actually sucking it and not just putting it in your mouth, it's solid.click to expand

Posted by earlorg16You sound like a mature and intelligent manPosted by Cancer Ladyi'd imagine that girls would generally hate to swallow, which is why i leave it up to them. shoot, if i was a girl i wouldn't want that stuff anywhere near my mouth honestly.Posted by earlorg16I generally don't but I hear some guys go crazy for it, so it's great to hear it's not that big of a factor.Posted by Cancer Ladytotally up to them. i personally don't mind either way.Posted by earlorg16Do you like for them to swallow?
i like how women have their own style s to doing them. i tend to like when there's spit involved so its smoother and not much friction while they're using their hands. deep throating is a nice touch here and there, but don't over do it. as long as both a hand is being used to hold it with your mouth going up and down in unison and you're actually sucking it and not just putting it in your mouth, it's solid.click to expand

Posted by MyStarsShineaw thank you! just being real.Posted by earlorg16You sound like a mature and intelligent manPosted by Cancer Ladyi'd imagine that girls would generally hate to swallow, which is why i leave it up to them. shoot, if i was a girl i wouldn't want that stuff anywhere near my mouth honestly.Posted by earlorg16I generally don't but I hear some guys go crazy for it, so it's great to hear it's not that big of a factor.Posted by Cancer Ladytotally up to them. i personally don't mind either way.Posted by earlorg16Do you like for them to swallow?
i like how women have their own style s to doing them. i tend to like when there's spit involved so its smoother and not much friction while they're using their hands. deep throating is a nice touch here and there, but don't over do it. as long as both a hand is being used to hold it with your mouth going up and down in unison and you're actually sucking it and not just putting it in your mouth, it's solid.
It doesn't taste the best tbh, despite the way it's portrayed in porno movies
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Posted by earlorg16This decription made me want to vomit......mucus.....yukPosted by MyStarsShineaw thank you! just being real.Posted by earlorg16You sound like a mature and intelligent manPosted by Cancer Ladyi'd imagine that girls would generally hate to swallow, which is why i leave it up to them. shoot, if i was a girl i wouldn't want that stuff anywhere near my mouth honestly.Posted by earlorg16I generally don't but I hear some guys go crazy for it, so it's great to hear it's not that big of a factor.Posted by Cancer Ladytotally up to them. i personally don't mind either way.Posted by earlorg16Do you like for them to swallow?
i like how women have their own style s to doing them. i tend to like when there's spit involved so its smoother and not much friction while they're using their hands. deep throating is a nice touch here and there, but don't over do it. as long as both a hand is being used to hold it with your mouth going up and down in unison and you're actually sucking it and not just putting it in your mouth, it's solid.
It doesn't taste the best tbh, despite the way it's portrayed in porno movies
i've heard different variations of how the stuff tastes. i've heard it ranges from sweet to metallic tasting. supposedly if you eat a lot of fruits, it can sweeten it up but i don't think it's a flavor issue and more of a texture issue. i'd imagine it tastes like sweet or salty with metallic tones, with a thin mucus like texture which... doesn't sound very good at all.click to expand

Posted by MyStarsShine
Is that the best picture you could find?
Jesus Christ



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Nah that's not true because I love giving my man a blowjob so do my friends and we're not doing it just because it's what he wants and counting down till he cums.
I think that's the major difference in whether or not you're good or not because I'm sure it's obvious to the guy when a girl is just going through the motions vs a girl that really likes and is into it. There are lots of women that love giving blowjobs contrary to popular belief most just keep quiet about it because people try to shame them for it.