@Cancer Lady
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I can’t believe nobody has given this poor girl any decent advice. Obviously, they don’t know what they want, which often makes this the perfect opportunity to take control and fuck with them.
To expand on it not being a job; This can be sexy sensual act (in most cases) let your mind get into it, let it turn you on… the hotter you get the more it should reflect in what you’re doing.
Encourage his interaction, some dudes get so dumbfounded they can’t move or make a peep, if they go catatonic you can grab his hand encourage him to run his finger through his hair… And most love it when you make eye contact.
I have never sucked too hard. The harder the better, and most the time you can make him cum at a medium pace (not jerking your head franticly giving yourself whiplash) if you got good “HARD” suction.
You can also put your personality into it, if your sweet play that up… if you’re sour tease the fuck out of them never let them cum ect.
Posted by Astrobyn
I can’t believe nobody has given this poor girl any decent advice. Obviously, they don’t know what they want, which often makes this the perfect opportunity to take control and fuck with them.To expand on it not being a job; This can be sexy sensual act (in most cases) let your mind get into it, let it turn you on… the hotter you get the more it should reflect in what you’re doing.
Encourage his interaction, some dudes get so dumbfounded they can’t move or make a peep, if they go catatonic you can grab his hand encourage him to run his finger through his hair… And most love it when you make eye contact.
I have never sucked too hard. The harder the better, and most the time you can make him cum at a medium pace (not jerking your head franticly giving yourself whiplash) if you got good “HARD” suction.
You can also put your personality into it, if your sweet play that up… if you’re sour tease the fuck out of them never let them cum ect.
Yeah I personally don't like all the jerking and tend to think suction is far more important.
Posted by Cancer Lady
PM then as I want alllll the details lol
It won't load the PM box when I click your profile, so PM me first lol.
Astrobyn said some pretty good stuff too.
Posted by Cancer Lady
PM then as I want alllll the details lolIt won't load the PM box when I click your profile, so PM me first lol.
Astrobyn said some pretty good stuff too.
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Done!
Posted by bricklemark
Not about technique, it's about how comfortable she is around peeny.?So you mean like not being afraid to explore all around including balls?
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No, just her confortability...does she find it gross, or not at all...is she playful, having fun...that sort of thing. A bit of ball play's good lol but it's not the main point, it's about how relaxed she is.
Posted by bricklemark
Not about technique, it's about how comfortable she is around peeny.?So you mean like not being afraid to explore all around including balls?
No, just her confortability...does she find it gross, or not at all...is she playful, having fun...that sort of thing. A bit of ball play's good lol but it's not the main point, it's about how relaxed she is.
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Oh okay got it!
This is still my favorite... 😄
OMG - it's EleventhSign..Cute ain't she/he..it. LOL
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Actually this is me and I don't do cute I do drop dead gorgeous.
First! I love a warm mouth, nothing worse than sticking into someone's cold wet mouth so take a swig of hot chocolate.
Vageenka I think said if you don't love the look of cock and drool doesn't run down your mouth then don't even try to suck it....if you truly love cock then you will know what to do.
i like how women have their own style s to doing them. i tend to like when there's spit involved so its smoother and not much friction while they're using their hands. deep throating is a nice touch here and there, but don't over do it. as long as both a hand is being used to hold it with your mouth going up and down in unison and you're actually sucking it and not just putting it in your mouth, it's solid. also, i love it when they look into my eyes as they're doing it. some licks under the shaft and the balls is nice too.
LOL
Posted by Whorpio
I guuuuueeeess I'll post what I told OP over PM here too because I feel bad for leaving everyone else out.In my experience, as long as you act super into it and do your own thing guys will love it. And usually they tell you what to not do if you do something wrong, so don't ever question if you're doing it right unless he says something.
As soon as you pull his dick outta his pants, look like a kid in a candy store like "woooow cool!" I feel bad to use a kid for this representation, but like this:
If he's not hard, play with it in your hands for a few seconds. He should get hard pretty quickly. Once hard, first put your mouth on his tip and swirl your tongue around it a couple times. Then you can start bobbing. Depending on how long you want it to last, you can either start slow & soft or hard & "aggressive" (I don't mean like growling savage aggressive, just using your hands, strong suction, fast, etc.) If you're going for the slow approach kneed/massage his balls while you're going up and down. As I'm going up and down I like to swirl my tongue around the tip when I come up and then deepthroat once I go down. Then lick the dick up, down, side ways, all around; the goal is to worship every square inch of his dick with your tongue. Then get to bobbing again, this time harder suction and still massaging/fondling his balls with your hands. After a minute or so start sucking/licking his balls, while still stroking the dick. Think of how a hungry fat kid would carnage a bowl of whipped cream, and do that to his balls. Then after getting his balls nice and wet you can go back to sucking the dick. This time go full throttle: strong suction, fast speed, and lots of hand action and he should cum in no time. If he still hasn't cum take his hands and place them on your head so he can control the tempo and use you how he likes until completion.
Although technique counts for a lot, I've found that attitude accounts for most of it, because with a good attitude you will do better and guys get encouraged/more turned on when girls are crazy for their dick.
Is that the best picture you could find?
Jesus Christ
Posted by earlorg16
i like how women have their own style s to doing them. i tend to like when there's spit involved so its smoother and not much friction while they're using their hands. deep throating is a nice touch here and there, but don't over do it. as long as both a hand is being used to hold it with your mouth going up and down in unison and you're actually sucking it and now just putting it in your mouth, it's solid.
Do you like for them to swallow?
Posted by earlorg16
i like how women have their own style s to doing them. i tend to like when there's spit involved so its smoother and not much friction while they're using their hands. deep throating is a nice touch here and there, but don't over do it. as long as both a hand is being used to hold it with your mouth going up and down in unison and you're actually sucking it and not just putting it in your mouth, it's solid.Do you like for them to swallow?
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totally up to them. i personally don't mind either way.
Posted by earlorg16
i like how women have their own style s to doing them. i tend to like when there's spit involved so its smoother and not much friction while they're using their hands. deep throating is a nice touch here and there, but don't over do it. as long as both a hand is being used to hold it with your mouth going up and down in unison and you're actually sucking it and not just putting it in your mouth, it's solid.Do you like for them to swallow?
totally up to them. i personally don't mind either way.
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I generally don't but I hear some guys go crazy for it, so it's great to hear it's not that big of a factor.
Posted by earlorg16
i like how women have their own style s to doing them. i tend to like when there's spit involved so its smoother and not much friction while they're using their hands. deep throating is a nice touch here and there, but don't over do it. as long as both a hand is being used to hold it with your mouth going up and down in unison and you're actually sucking it and not just putting it in your mouth, it's solid.Do you like for them to swallow?
totally up to them. i personally don't mind either way.
I generally don't but I hear some guys go crazy for it, so it's great to hear it's not that big of a factor.
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i'd imagine that girls would generally hate to swallow, which is why i leave it up to them. shoot, if i was a girl i wouldn't want that stuff anywhere near my mouth honestly.
Posted by earlorg16
i like how women have their own style s to doing them. i tend to like when there's spit involved so its smoother and not much friction while they're using their hands. deep throating is a nice touch here and there, but don't over do it. as long as both a hand is being used to hold it with your mouth going up and down in unison and you're actually sucking it and not just putting it in your mouth, it's solid.Do you like for them to swallow?
totally up to them. i personally don't mind either way.
I generally don't but I hear some guys go crazy for it, so it's great to hear it's not that big of a factor.
i'd imagine that girls would generally hate to swallow, which is why i leave it up to them. shoot, if i was a girl i wouldn't want that stuff anywhere near my mouth honestly.
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That's —?
Posted by earlorg16
i like how women have their own style s to doing them. i tend to like when there's spit involved so its smoother and not much friction while they're using their hands. deep throating is a nice touch here and there, but don't over do it. as long as both a hand is being used to hold it with your mouth going up and down in unison and you're actually sucking it and not just putting it in your mouth, it's solid.Do you like for them to swallow?
totally up to them. i personally don't mind either way.
I generally don't but I hear some guys go crazy for it, so it's great to hear it's not that big of a factor.
i'd imagine that girls would generally hate to swallow, which is why i leave it up to them. shoot, if i was a girl i wouldn't want that stuff anywhere near my mouth honestly.
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You sound like a mature and intelligent man
It doesn't taste the best tbh, despite the way it's portrayed in porno movies
Posted by earlorg16
i like how women have their own style s to doing them. i tend to like when there's spit involved so its smoother and not much friction while they're using their hands. deep throating is a nice touch here and there, but don't over do it. as long as both a hand is being used to hold it with your mouth going up and down in unison and you're actually sucking it and not just putting it in your mouth, it's solid.Do you like for them to swallow?
totally up to them. i personally don't mind either way.
I generally don't but I hear some guys go crazy for it, so it's great to hear it's not that big of a factor.
i'd imagine that girls would generally hate to swallow, which is why i leave it up to them. shoot, if i was a girl i wouldn't want that stuff anywhere near my mouth honestly.
You sound like a mature and intelligent man
It doesn't taste the best tbh, despite the way it's portrayed in porno movies
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aw thank you! just being real.
i've heard different variations of how the stuff tastes. i've heard it ranges from sweet to metallic tasting. supposedly if you eat a lot of fruits, it can sweeten it up but i don't think it's a flavor issue and more of a texture issue. i'd imagine it tastes like sweet or salty with metallic tones, with a thin mucus like texture which... doesn't sound very good at all.
Yeah the texture like you never really know what you're going to get because there's no "standard" for what it's suppose to be which makes me reframe from indulging lol.
Posted by earlorg16
i like how women have their own style s to doing them. i tend to like when there's spit involved so its smoother and not much friction while they're using their hands. deep throating is a nice touch here and there, but don't over do it. as long as both a hand is being used to hold it with your mouth going up and down in unison and you're actually sucking it and not just putting it in your mouth, it's solid.Do you like for them to swallow?
totally up to them. i personally don't mind either way.
I generally don't but I hear some guys go crazy for it, so it's great to hear it's not that big of a factor.
i'd imagine that girls would generally hate to swallow, which is why i leave it up to them. shoot, if i was a girl i wouldn't want that stuff anywhere near my mouth honestly.
You sound like a mature and intelligent man
It doesn't taste the best tbh, despite the way it's portrayed in porno movies
aw thank you! just being real.
i've heard different variations of how the stuff tastes. i've heard it ranges from sweet to metallic tasting. supposedly if you eat a lot of fruits, it can sweeten it up but i don't think it's a flavor issue and more of a texture issue. i'd imagine it tastes like sweet or salty with metallic tones, with a thin mucus like texture which... doesn't sound very good at all.
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This decription made me want to vomit......mucus.....yuk
Lol
Posted by MyStarsShine
Is that the best picture you could find?Jesus Christ
The other pictures I found were completely ridiculous! That girl deserves a medal for looking naturally excited ?
This is the second best I could find. Rita Hayworth has a perfect sexy thousand cock stare IMO ❤️
A book I read called "Jacks Blowjob Lessons" was interesting. Interesting... kind of rude, fellow.
I know a girl who says she does it just like that from the porn movies. I agree I'm not with all that extraness and I don't see how all the theatrics can help with the intimacy aspect.
I can understand them being that way in the movies because there's no emotional attachment to each other and it's "acting" but on a real personal level yeah that is entirely too much.
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Nah that's not true because I love giving my man a blowjob so do my friends and we're not doing it just because it's what he wants and counting down till he cums.
I think that's the major difference in whether or not you're good or not because I'm sure it's obvious to the guy when a girl is just going through the motions vs a girl that really likes and is into it. There are lots of women that love giving blowjobs contrary to popular belief most just keep quiet about it because people try to shame them for it.