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Posted by Flo
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I don't think men, in general, prefer plus size women, we just find the anorexic ones painful to observe.
When you got a Scorpio saying things like,
"I love your thick body . I truly wish I could just have you home every night . strip for me . now ."

Your comment will be somewhat inaccurate.
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My comment was more to underline that any men could go for either types, most don't care.

The only type we avoid like a plague is the "too skinny" one, because there's much more behind it, they're most likely to be "sick in the head" and we don't want that. It makes us feel really uncomfortable dealing with anorexic because we start caring about their health and everything else is put on the back burner.

It's toxic.
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I've never seen an actual "scene" or "emo" girl over the age of 14, you pedos. It's kind of like a rite of passage to be one as a junior high schooler.


Lol I think you guys are referring to the more mature version (the style of Tess Holliday) "rockabilly" or "pinup"

They are sexy
I don't think Tessa Holliday is sexy, I can see how she could be considered so by the men who are interested in that genre of women - which I think is referred to BBW - but she is considered "plus size" in terms of the thread. "Plus size" is loosely interpretted nowadays. There is a massive difference between "curvy" and "BBW." I do think Tess Holliday is a beautiful woman though.
you should come to Sydney... we have a few that are hitting their 30s.... lol....





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I've never seen an actual "scene" or "emo" girl over the age of 14, you pedos. It's kind of like a rite of passage to be one as a junior high schooler.


Lol I think you guys are referring to the more mature version (the style of Tess Holliday) "rockabilly" or "pinup"

They are sexy
I don't think Tessa Holliday is sexy, I can see how she could be considered so by the men who are interested in that genre of women - which I think is referred to BBW - but she is considered "plus size" in terms of the thread. "Plus size" is loosely interpretted nowadays. There is a massive difference between "curvy" and "BBW." I do think Tess Holliday is a beautiful woman though.
Lol @ pedos hey wtf man
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You know you like your plus-sized boy toys! and feby I feel like it's been a life time since I we talked.

When did this occur?
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I don't remember chat much. I only have a memory of the lovely gentleman with the hoover..... was interesting. I also remember being on there to entertain a Gemini.

Anyway, there's something really beautiful about the human body so I'll go with Aquistorm on this one. As long as they look after themselves to an extent most times the personality shines through or perhaps both of us have placements in pisces which coupled with Aqua makes us like that? *shrugs*

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Some refer to this as 'plus' size. Why? I have no fucking idea.
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The country you live in plays a role too, you need to adapt to what you have at your disposal.

For instance in Italy women are naturally skinny and averagely flat, so overlooking the breast is almost the norm here. So as much as we all like Maria Grazia Cucinotta that body type is too rare to wait for someone like her to come knock on your door.

If I lived in Colombia it'd be different, I'd be an idiot not to pretend at least a large breast.

Basically picking what you like from an ample sea (skinny and tall) is way easier then picking it from a small pond (curvy and tall). Now, considering it's tough already to obtain what you like (by default) at least I would prefer to have more margin and options.
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The country you live in plays a role too, you need to adapt to what you have at your disposal.

For instance in Italy women are naturally skinny and averagely flat, so overlooking the breast is almost the norm here. So as much as we all like Maria Grazia Cucinotta that body type is too rare to wait for someone like her to come knock on your door.

If I lived in Colombia it'd be different, I'd be an idiot not to pretend at least a large breast.

Basically picking what you like from an ample sea (skinny and tall) is way easier then picking it from a small pond (curvy and tall). Now, considering it's tough already to obtain what you like (by default) at least I would prefer to have more margin and options.
Nah I like what I like and Ill go and get it, if it meant going to another land, id gladly grab a plane ticket =)
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I would love a flexible job too.
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I mean no disrespect, but plus-sized girls are not for me. There are many that I have found very beautiful, and for quite a few, those extra lbs actually work for them. I've certainly gotten my fair share of loving from bigger gals, so it's not like I didn't give it a go despite not really being my type. But it just so happens that I get more excited and perform much better with thin/petite girls. It's just how my brain is wired, plus I'm 5'10 165lbs and pretty fit, so I'm not exactly a big guy.
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The country you live in plays a role too, you need to adapt to what you have at your disposal.

For instance in Italy women are naturally skinny and averagely flat, so overlooking the breast is almost the norm here. So as much as we all like Maria Grazia Cucinotta that body type is too rare to wait for someone like her to come knock on your door.

If I lived in Colombia it'd be different, I'd be an idiot not to pretend at least a large breast.

Basically picking what you like from an ample sea (skinny and tall) is way easier then picking it from a small pond (curvy and tall). Now, considering it's tough already to obtain what you like (by default) at least I would prefer to have more margin and options.
Nah I like what I like and Ill go and get it, if it meant going to another land, id gladly grab a plane ticket =)
I would love a flexible job too.
So get one.
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I don't care about boobs as long as she's tall and with a tight body.
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Are we referring to plus-size in terms of "hey they aren't really plus-size they are actually sexy as shit and not twigs with chopstick legs. or are we referring to plus-size for the sake of making obesity more appealing.
First option but people still get obese confused with curvy/thick. Two totally different things.
What is curvy/thick?
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I'm curvy/thick. You've seen my pic... A few remember the boobs thread and my thighs lolol
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I go for a woman's mind and personality rather then physical appearance. It's more attractive IMO.
So you would go for that goth woman if she was...what?
I wouldn't mind her. As long she isn't a punk ether.
You aquas are something else Ill tell ya
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Are we referring to plus-size in terms of "hey they aren't really plus-size they are actually sexy as shit and not twigs with chopstick legs. or are we referring to plus-size for the sake of making obesity more appealing.
First option but people still get obese confused with curvy/thick. Two totally different things.
What is curvy/thick?

I'm curvy/thick. You've seen my pic... A few remember the boobs thread and my thighs lolol
But what is the definition of curvy thick? they are different things yet there's no definition
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See that's the rub, it will be different for everyone. Like a few others I think the goth chick earlier was unhealthy fat/obese then ones Kodak shared are hot.

From urban dictionary lol
not to be confused with fat; a woman with meat on her bones who is voluptuous and curvy. Thick women have NATURALLY large breasts (a cup size of D or bigger) and/or large rear-ends.
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To find the article but basically it said men the fiercest financial security get with heavyset women. Versus a financial secure man will get with a fit woman somehow the cushion of the woman makes them feel secure
I read something like this too..
Men who aren't financially well off tend to like heavier women.. While the rest find petite women classy
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The country you live in plays a role too, you need to adapt to what you have at your disposal.

For instance in Italy women are naturally skinny and averagely flat, so overlooking the breast is almost the norm here. So as much as we all like Maria Grazia Cucinotta that body type is too rare to wait for someone like her to come knock on your door.

If I lived in Colombia it'd be different, I'd be an idiot not to pretend at least a large breast.

Basically picking what you like from an ample sea (skinny and tall) is way easier then picking it from a small pond (curvy and tall). Now, considering it's tough already to obtain what you like (by default) at least I would prefer to have more margin and options.
There's a reason why I'm going back to Italy. Adapting to anywhere else feels like dying on the inside.
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To find the article but basically it said men the fiercest financial security get with heavyset women. Versus a financial secure man will get with a fit woman somehow the cushion of the woman makes them feel secure
yes... in times of economic crisis, men pursue heavier women. its an evolutionary instinct.

in times of economic crisis/famine when food is scarce, men are more attracted to heavier women because the extra fat (fenergy/nutrient storage) indicates that the woman will outlive a fit or skinny woman (it will take longer for her to starve to death) and thus have a greater chance of carrying the man's offspring to term.

when food is plentiful, the man will default to the most genetically compatible/physically healthy.
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To find the article but basically it said men the fiercest financial security get with heavyset women. Versus a financial secure man will get with a fit woman somehow the cushion of the woman makes them feel secure
yes... in times of economic crisis, men pursue heavier women. its an evolutionary instinct.

in times of economic crisis/famine when food is scarce, men are more attracted to heavier women because the extra fat (fenergy/nutrient storage) indicates that the woman will outlive a fit or skinny woman (it will take longer for her to starve to death) and thus have a greater chance of carrying the man's offspring to term.

when food is plentiful, the man will default to the most genetically compatible/physically healthy.
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I refuse, as a man, to think in these terms, it's depressing.
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To find the article but basically it said men the fiercest financial security get with heavyset women. Versus a financial secure man will get with a fit woman somehow the cushion of the woman makes them feel secure
yes... in times of economic crisis, men pursue heavier women. its an evolutionary instinct.

in times of economic crisis/famine when food is scarce, men are more attracted to heavier women because the extra fat (fenergy/nutrient storage) indicates that the woman will outlive a fit or skinny woman (it will take longer for her to starve to death) and thus have a greater chance of carrying the man's offspring to term.

when food is plentiful, the man will default to the most genetically compatible/physically healthy.
I refuse, as a man, to think in these terms, it's depressing.
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Well actually its not even true, he's misinformed. that's not how the body works, fat people and skinny people will starve at the same time. Human bodies don't store food for that purpose, say like bears... if you aren't getting in your caloric intake at a certain point everyone bodies start eating their organs.
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To find the article but basically it said men the fiercest financial security get with heavyset women. Versus a financial secure man will get with a fit woman somehow the cushion of the woman makes them feel secure
yes... in times of economic crisis, men pursue heavier women. its an evolutionary instinct.

in times of economic crisis/famine when food is scarce, men are more attracted to heavier women because the extra fat (fenergy/nutrient storage) indicates that the woman will outlive a fit or skinny woman (it will take longer for her to starve to death) and thus have a greater chance of carrying the man's offspring to term.

when food is plentiful, the man will default to the most genetically compatible/physically healthy.
I refuse, as a man, to think in these terms, it's depressing.

Well actually its not even true, he's misinformed. that's not how the body works, fat people and skinny people will starve at the same time. Human bodies don't store food for that purpose, say like bears... if you aren't getting in your caloric intake at a certain point everyone bodies start eating their organs.
not if the guy eats the female first
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LOL!!!
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To find the article but basically it said men the fiercest financial security get with heavyset women. Versus a financial secure man will get with a fit woman somehow the cushion of the woman makes them feel secure
yes... in times of economic crisis, men pursue heavier women. its an evolutionary instinct.

in times of economic crisis/famine when food is scarce, men are more attracted to heavier women because the extra fat (fenergy/nutrient storage) indicates that the woman will outlive a fit or skinny woman (it will take longer for her to starve to death) and thus have a greater chance of carrying the man's offspring to term.

when food is plentiful, the man will default to the most genetically compatible/physically healthy.
I refuse, as a man, to think in these terms, it's depressing.

Well actually its not even true, he's misinformed. that's not how the body works, fat people and skinny people will starve at the same time. Human bodies don't store food for that purpose, say like bears... if you aren't getting in your caloric intake at a certain point everyone bodies start eating their organs.
not if the guy eats the female first
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I hate you, I was about to post "not if the man is into cannibalism".
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To find the article but basically it said men the fiercest financial security get with heavyset women. Versus a financial secure man will get with a fit woman somehow the cushion of the woman makes them feel secure
yes... in times of economic crisis, men pursue heavier women. its an evolutionary instinct.

in times of economic crisis/famine when food is scarce, men are more attracted to heavier women because the extra fat (fenergy/nutrient storage) indicates that the woman will outlive a fit or skinny woman (it will take longer for her to starve to death) and thus have a greater chance of carrying the man's offspring to term.

when food is plentiful, the man will default to the most genetically compatible/physically healthy.
I refuse, as a man, to think in these terms, it's depressing.

Well actually its not even true, he's misinformed. that's not how the body works, fat people and skinny people will starve at the same time. Human bodies don't store food for that purpose, say like bears... if you aren't getting in your caloric intake at a certain point everyone bodies start eating their organs.
not if the guy eats the female first
I hate you, I was about to post "not if the man is into cannibalism".
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To find the article but basically it said men the fiercest financial security get with heavyset women. Versus a financial secure man will get with a fit woman somehow the cushion of the woman makes them feel secure
yes... in times of economic crisis, men pursue heavier women. its an evolutionary instinct.

in times of economic crisis/famine when food is scarce, men are more attracted to heavier women because the extra fat (fenergy/nutrient storage) indicates that the woman will outlive a fit or skinny woman (it will take longer for her to starve to death) and thus have a greater chance of carrying the man's offspring to term.

when food is plentiful, the man will default to the most genetically compatible/physically healthy.
I refuse, as a man, to think in these terms, it's depressing.

Well actually its not even true, he's misinformed. that's not how the body works, fat people and skinny people will starve at the same time. Human bodies don't store food for that purpose, say like bears... if you aren't getting in your caloric intake at a certain point everyone bodies start eating their organs.
not if the guy eats the female first
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Lmao, that'd do it!
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Not true that a fat person and skinny person would starve at the same rate.

The body deprived of food eats it's own fat and also some of it's lean tissue, and the more fat you have (and muscle) the more fuel you have to draw from. Not a pleasant way to be fed, though. If you look up studies on fasting and related you'll find info that shows that having more body fat gives you more time before you die of starvation.

And some obese people have opted for fasting as a way to deal with excess weight and they can do that for much longer than a smaller person becuase they have the resources to feed them. Still, not a good way to be fed, because there's a lot of crap stored in body fat usually thanks to poor diet and chemical exposure, and of course muscle atrophy isn't good.

But if a more moderate approach is taken with calorie restriction, you can preserve muscle if you are getting enough protein in your diet and you do muscle building exercise at the same time you're restricting to offset the muscle loss you'd otherwise experience
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To find the article but basically it said men the fiercest financial security get with heavyset women. Versus a financial secure man will get with a fit woman somehow the cushion of the woman makes them feel secure
yes... in times of economic crisis, men pursue heavier women. its an evolutionary instinct.

in times of economic crisis/famine when food is scarce, men are more attracted to heavier women because the extra fat (fenergy/nutrient storage) indicates that the woman will outlive a fit or skinny woman (it will take longer for her to starve to death) and thus have a greater chance of carrying the man's offspring to term.

when food is plentiful, the man will default to the most genetically compatible/physically healthy.
I refuse, as a man, to think in these terms, it's depressing.
actually, this emotional rejection of accepted biological facts rooted in cold logic indicates that you are thinking more like a woman than a man. would you like me to explain why using cold logic rooted in accepted biological factsโ€”




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I'm not rejecting accepted biological facts, I'm just an Aqua mars that refuses to fill a hole just for the sake of filling it.

I may decide, eventually, to lower my standard but a woman with extra fat will never become more attractive to my eyes because I'm starving.
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To find the article but basically it said men the fiercest financial security get with heavyset women. Versus a financial secure man will get with a fit woman somehow the cushion of the woman makes them feel secure
yes... in times of economic crisis, men pursue heavier women. its an evolutionary instinct.

in times of economic crisis/famine when food is scarce, men are more attracted to heavier women because the extra fat (fenergy/nutrient storage) indicates that the woman will outlive a fit or skinny woman (it will take longer for her to starve to death) and thus have a greater chance of carrying the man's offspring to term.

when food is plentiful, the man will default to the most genetically compatible/physically healthy.
I refuse, as a man, to think in these terms, it's depressing.

Well actually its not even true, he's misinformed. that's not how the body works, fat people and skinny people will starve at the same time. Human bodies don't store food for that purpose, say like bears... if you aren't getting in your caloric intake at a certain point everyone bodies start eating their organs.
not if the guy eats the female first
I hate you, I was about to post "not if the man is into cannibalism".
I hate him too.Let's hate him together ๐Ÿ˜›
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I'm actually glad he anticipated me because it means I've got great trolling potential.
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Posted by Impulsv
To find the article but basically it said men the fiercest financial security get with heavyset women. Versus a financial secure man will get with a fit woman somehow the cushion of the woman makes them feel secure
yes... in times of economic crisis, men pursue heavier women. its an evolutionary instinct.

in times of economic crisis/famine when food is scarce, men are more attracted to heavier women because the extra fat (fenergy/nutrient storage) indicates that the woman will outlive a fit or skinny woman (it will take longer for her to starve to death) and thus have a greater chance of carrying the man's offspring to term.

when food is plentiful, the man will default to the most genetically compatible/physically healthy.
I refuse, as a man, to think in these terms, it's depressing.
not if the guy eats the female first
I hate you, I was about to post "not if the man is into cannibalism".
I hate him too.Let's hate him together ๐Ÿ˜›
I'm actually glad he anticipated me because it means I've got great trolling potential.
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Lol! Oh c'mon!! He's not that great *eye roll* But wait,he actually is!! Whatever ๐Ÿ˜
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this thread lol

curvy women appreciation thread turns into will they survive a famine over thin bitches thread
lol, yes.

So I'll die faster in a famine and the curvy ones who will start to look like I did prefamine will take over.
or like if a new ice age comes u wont last the winter
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haha, but I'm not sure how much body fat insulates to give an advantage. I don't get cold as easily as some women thanks to things I do to optimize health.
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this thread lol

curvy women appreciation thread turns into will they survive a famine over thin bitches thread
Is that what this is and what happened? You just saved me some time by not having to read through the pages. Lol ๐Ÿ˜›
also soul gave us a lecture in the differences between goths and emos.
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That's where I had left off.

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To do their eyebrows of course ๐Ÿ˜‰ lol
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To find the article but basically it said men the fiercest financial security get with heavyset women. Versus a financial secure man will get with a fit woman somehow the cushion of the woman makes them feel secure
yes... in times of economic crisis, men pursue heavier women. its an evolutionary instinct.

in times of economic crisis/famine when food is scarce, men are more attracted to heavier women because the extra fat (fenergy/nutrient storage) indicates that the woman will outlive a fit or skinny woman (it will take longer for her to starve to death) and thus have a greater chance of carrying the man's offspring to term.

when food is plentiful, the man will default to the most genetically compatible/physically healthy.
I refuse, as a man, to think in these terms, it's depressing.
not if the guy eats the female first
I hate you, I was about to post "not if the man is into cannibalism".
I hate him too.Let's hate him together ๐Ÿ˜›
I'm actually glad he anticipated me because it means I've got great trolling potential.
Lol! Oh c'mon!! He's not that great *eye roll* But wait,he actually is!! Whatever ๐Ÿ˜
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Strong inner dialogue here, I like it.

Where's your merc?
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To find the article but basically it said men the fiercest financial security get with heavyset women. Versus a financial secure man will get with a fit woman somehow the cushion of the woman makes them feel secure
yes... in times of economic crisis, men pursue heavier women. its an evolutionary instinct.

in times of economic crisis/famine when food is scarce, men are more attracted to heavier women because the extra fat (fenergy/nutrient storage) indicates that the woman will outlive a fit or skinny woman (it will take longer for her to starve to death) and thus have a greater chance of carrying the man's offspring to term.

when food is plentiful, the man will default to the most genetically compatible/physically healthy.
I refuse, as a man, to think in these terms, it's depressing.
not if the guy eats the female first
I hate you, I was about to post "not if the man is into cannibalism".
I hate him too.Let's hate him together ๐Ÿ˜›
I'm actually glad he anticipated me because it means I've got great trolling potential.
Lol! Oh c'mon!! He's not that great *eye roll* But wait,he actually is!! Whatever ๐Ÿ˜
Strong inner dialogue here, I like it.

Where's your merc?
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Lol!! Indeed!
I've a Sag mercury ๐Ÿ™‚
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The country you live in plays a role too, you need to adapt to what you have at your disposal.

For instance in Italy women are naturally skinny and averagely flat, so overlooking the breast is almost the norm here. So as much as we all like Maria Grazia Cucinotta that body type is too rare to wait for someone like her to come knock on your door.

If I lived in Colombia it'd be different, I'd be an idiot not to pretend at least a large breast.

Basically picking what you like from an ample sea (skinny and tall) is way easier then picking it from a small pond (curvy and tall). Now, considering it's tough already to obtain what you like (by default) at least I would prefer to have more margin and options.
There's a reason why I'm going back to Italy. Adapting to anywhere else feels like dying on the inside.
L'amore che nutri nei confronti del nostro paese รƒยจ tangibile, spesso e volentieri e in ogni tua singola parola.

Si avverte perรƒยฒ, nel medesimo istante, anche un pizzico di prurito e malinconia, di irrequietezza per un qualcosa, o molto probabilmente un qualcuno, che hai qui lasciato; motivo per cui, alla fine della fiera, ho sempre evitato di chiederti delucidazioni sul perchรƒยจ effettivo, nel vecchio scarpone chiamato Italia, volessi poi tornare.

Insomma, per fortuna tua, non ho mai voluto infierire mettendo il dildo nella piaga!

P.s. Ho scritto in modo bislacco e in italiano, perchรƒยจ quanno ce vรƒยฒ ce vรƒยฒ ๐Ÿ˜„
LOL ti manderรƒยฒ una riposta tra poco
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Scialla, che significa "vai tranquillo/quando vuoi" in romano.

P.s. you can obviously write in English.
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"I'm not rejecting accepted biological facts, I'm just an Aqua mars that refuses to fill a hole just for the sake of filling it.

I may decide, eventually, to lower my standard but a woman with extra fat will never become more attractive to my eyes because I'm starving."

@Palerio : that makes even less sense!

but if it makes you feel any better, i could hardly care less whose holes you fill and why.
It was a metaphor taken to the extreme, you're not following me.

It's simpler than that, we're almost saying the same things.

Aqua, as we all know, can be, at times, emotionally detached (I'm Pisces so I'm definitely not like that all the way), sometimes it sucks, sometimes not. This is because from detachment, or air in general, comes also the ability to see things in a clear and pretty objective way, since we don't usually get blinded or affected by external events. I don't personally feel the need to judge anyone, I don't care, but I know I can be a good judge if I want to.

For instance if I think my girlfriend is less attractive than the one of a friend of mine, she's doesn't become all of a sudden more attractive, from a physical standpoint, just because I'm in love with her, she's not.

Therefore, going back to our discussion, in time of famine some men, and I agree with you here, can be attracted to heavier women because their rooted evolutionary instinct kicks in, basically they lower their standards to an historical minimum (just to fill the hole). Some others, differently, are well aware of the fact that being "poor" makes them look less attractive to the eyes of a fit woman that will logically never choose them. They still like fit though, but they "sacrifice" for the sake of companionship, conscious of the fact they don't have a choice. Some others prefer to die alone, instead of lowering.

So what I'm saying here is that famine doesn't make certain type of women look more attractive to the eye of a man, it just makes them look like their only options, which goes beyond their reproduction instinct, it means they're desperate, which, to me, it's really depressing if I think about it.

Now the only state I'll refuse to be in, even in wartime, is depression because I'm convinced a Pisces can't be depressed by nature.

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To find the article but basically it said men the fiercest financial security get with heavyset women. Versus a financial secure man will get with a fit woman somehow the cushion of the woman makes them feel secure
yes... in times of economic crisis, men pursue heavier women. its an evolutionary instinct.

in times of economic crisis/famine when food is scarce, men are more attracted to heavier women because the extra fat (fenergy/nutrient storage) indicates that the woman will outlive a fit or skinny woman (it will take longer for her to starve to death) and thus have a greater chance of carrying the man's offspring to term.

when food is plentiful, the man will default to the most genetically compatible/physically healthy.
I refuse, as a man, to think in these terms, it's depressing.
not if the guy eats the female first
I hate you, I was about to post "not if the man is into cannibalism".
I hate him too.Let's hate him together ๐Ÿ˜›
I'm actually glad he anticipated me because it means I've got great trolling potential.
Lol! Oh c'mon!! He's not that great *eye roll* But wait,he actually is!! Whatever ๐Ÿ˜
Strong inner dialogue here, I like it.

Where's your merc?
Lol!! Indeed!
I've a Sag mercury ๐Ÿ™‚
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I thought it was familiar!

Sag moon here ๐Ÿ™‚
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@Palerio : no, I understand where you are coming from ๐Ÿ™‚ i was teasing you because lets face it- aqua mars totally will fill a hole just for the sake of... science. experimentation.


but yes, you are talking about the other side of the coin- aquarius is the sign of the rebel. you wont fill the hole of someone that you are not attracted to just because nature thinks you should.

yes?
I think they could just fill it if they're really really desperate, but they won't in many other cases.

I don't intend to generalize but most Aqua mars men can handle celibacy really well and won't get touchy with someone, pretty much like Aqua sun women, if they don't find her attractive or very stimulating somehow. It's not because they're rebel it's because their body would simply refuse to move if they're not into her. They don't feel the physical urge of doing something for the sake of it.


Trust me on this one, Aqua mars in a man (and I have venus too), is that strong because it's a feminine placement, probably one the most feminine you can find. We like to get approached by the other gender (ideal scenario), which doesn't really suit the fact that we're men, so in order for us to get going we need extra stimulation, which considering my Pisces sun/mercury is mentally stimulated by any kind of personality, can only come from a fit body, hence you either take it to the next level or the alternative is to turn gay...

After all, there must be a reason Aqua mars come across as aloof, it just means fewer things/people really entice them. Basically their drive is either insane or nonexistent.

It may take a while for a man to deal with the polarized energies, but it's definitely worth it considering what you can get when, at the end of the process, you're finally confident.
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My little brother is overweight and is a drag queen, I would design his costumes and glamourise him in outfits to give him an idea of silhouettes for his size and shape and I now prefer to draw plus size women because I love generous curves.

I get offended though when women don't dress for their body shape and don't take the opportunity to flatter their shapes, I can't help it.
What you mean flatter their shapes
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I meant to say accentuate their shape......not flatter or flatten lol
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@Palerio : no, I understand where you are coming from ๐Ÿ™‚ i was teasing you because lets face it- aqua mars totally will fill a hole just for the sake of... science. experimentation.


but yes, you are talking about the other side of the coin- aquarius is the sign of the rebel. you wont fill the hole of someone that you are not attracted to just because nature thinks you should.

yes?
I think they could just fill it if they're really really desperate, but they won't in many other cases.

I don't intend to generalize but most Aqua mars men can handle celibacy really well and won't get touchy with someone, pretty much like Aqua sun women, if they don't find her attractive or very stimulating somehow. It's not because they're rebel it's because their body would simply refuse to move if they're not into her. They don't feel the physical urge of doing something for the sake of it.


Trust me on this one, Aqua mars in a man (and I have venus too), is that strong because it's a feminine placement, probably one the most feminine you can find. We like to get approached by the other gender (ideal scenario), which doesn't really suit the fact that we're men, so in order for us to get going we need extra stimulation, which considering my Pisces sun/mercury is mentally stimulated by any kind of personality, can only come from a fit body, hence you either take it to the next level or the alternative is to turn gay...

After all, there must be a reason Aqua mars come across as aloof, it just means fewer things/people really entice them. Basically their drive is either insane or nonexistent.

It may take a while for a man to deal with the polarized energies, but it's definitely worth it considering what you can get when, at the end of the process, you're finally confident.
Aquarius is a masculine sign. We are yang energy = male.
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I agree as a sun sign, but if you look further at placements it's pretty mixed energy.

Aqua sun = masculine
Aqua moon = both
Aqua mercury = very masculine
Aqua venus = feminine
Aqua mars = very feminine

For instance I see a lot of similarities between Aqua sun and Aries, while Aqua mars can be similar to Virgo. There's a hell of a difference in how you interact if you're the first one or the second, which is why I've said it's polarizing in many ways.

I think it's key to understand the energy first and use it then as you like.

P.s. You can obviously play the same game with every sign to understand the energy better.