Why do FAT women have such high standards? (Page 2)

I was gonna roast you ....but the others water sign ladies already came thru and did that ...

cheers ladies~!

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Posted by Aliensusedourbogroll
What is considered fat? I've heard my friends call a women fat and a lot of the time when I look at the woman I wouldn't really consider her fat. Definitely not skinny but not fat either. Do some people think that if your not skinny your automatically fat?

One guy can think a woman is fat , another guy can think the woman is of normal weight. Depends on preference

Posted by Cancan26
I was gonna roast you ....but the others water sign ladies already came thru and did that ...

cheers ladies~!

@LadyNeptune

@Seraphlight

@Moonartist

You can add to it....I like sharing 😄

Posted by Cancan26
I was gonna roast you ....but the others water sign ladies already came thru and did that ...

cheers ladies~!

@LadyNeptune

@Seraphlight

@Moonartist

You can play, I know how to share 😄

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Posted by Canbullrius

Posted by Aliensusedourbogroll
What is considered fat? I've heard my friends call a women fat and a lot of the time when I look at the woman I wouldn't really consider her fat. Definitely not skinny but not fat either. Do some people think that if your not skinny your automatically fat?

Self projection of their inner hate and inner insecurities.

You can thank me this imbecile is not replying as i silenced him instantly with a post i have now hidden.

He's scurried back into his shell!

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Unlike most of you, I live a fulfilling life, therefor I don't lurk the site 24/7. So I missed your insignificant snipe at me.

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King Teddy ? Getting those hit threads!

You Know it 😉

Posted by TeddyBearMD

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Posted by Canbullrius

Posted by Aliensusedourbogroll
What is considered fat? I've heard my friends call a women fat and a lot of the time when I look at the woman I wouldn't really consider her fat. Definitely not skinny but not fat either. Do some people think that if your not skinny your automatically fat?

Self projection of their inner hate and inner insecurities.

You can thank me this imbecile is not replying as i silenced him instantly with a post i have now hidden.

He's scurried back into his shell!

Unlike most of you, I live a fulfilling life, therefor I don't lurk the site 24/7. So I missed your insignificant snipe at me.

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Not so insignificant as you made a point to address it to let us all know you didn't crawl off to lick your wounds. I see you.

One of my friend's ex gf weighs around 260lbs. She always complained to him that no man likes her because of heir weight etc. My friend is 6ft tall and around 175lbs. After 7 years she left him because she seemed to get more attention from other guys. Once he told me she would have never been with him, if his height were below 6ft. lol

funny thing is it comes down to personal preference. your personal preference is that you prefer a thin, toned physique. some men PREFER a bigger lady. i had a funny convo with my bf this month about our neighbor. it seems he is a chubby chaser and i made a comment that i had met a cute girl i thought hed like. i described her as being a little fluffier and very cute. he said, "Fluffy huh... how fluffy are we talkin' because he likes them big. the bigger the better." he is a good looking man, very tall and muscular. not what i would consider fat but healthy. it's purely on the person. some people could care less about the actual package but moreso on the contents. that's like me. if i like your personality enough, it doesnt matter what you look like. i can say this on age and physical appearance in general. for example, one of my patients i work on not having a crush on lol is a scorpio gentleman whos probably 20 years my senior, practically bald, imperfect teeth, dresses very minimalistic. it is in our conversations and his attitude that i am so so fond of. hes just amazing. and, to my surprise and yet not, he has a beautiful young wife whom I'm sure treats him well as he leads a very happy life with her. i have dated men that couldn't gain weight, and others with extra skin from being very fluffy early on. another person i try not to crush on lol is definitely fluffy and muscular. he works hard and is reserved which is so attractive, and has the cutest face with the prettiest brown eyes. im sure someone said it but you never can tell what one person may find attractive.

on the subject of some chubby women swinging for the fences... swing away! you never know what transition someone is in in their life that has caused an unhealthy weight but encouragement to become healthier should be the main focus. leading by example and promoting healthy living should be your focus if you are that bothered by it. be the change. talk to some of these people and help them break through whatever is holding them back. you also have to remember that not everyone is going to agree with you and they will only do what they want to do. it should not cause any ripple in how you live your life tho. wasteful energy.

Posted by Canbullrius
He never missed the confronting force i gave him, disappeared as soon as i showed my face, cowardly little cunt.

Nothing cowardly about making a thread that I know people will "attack" me behind. But not giving a fuck because I am who I am and I'm not afraid to say it. The fact that you or anybody talking shit in this thread think that they are actually getting under my skin is laughable.

You showed your face? Some might say that makes you bold, I say it makes you pretty stupid. But to each is own. As I keep saying, I don't care about my reputation here. And if nobody likes me posting... doesn't affect me one single bit. I post because I want to. Not to get people to agree with me. Not to get people to change people's minds.

But yeah, keep telling yourselves whatever helps you sleep at night. "He must be this" "Must be that" "this must have happened". Pat yourselves on the back and say "Good job, we showed that crabby asshole".

🙂

Size is irrelevant but I think the point he's trying to make is that people have high standards but don't even measure up to their own standards.. it's contradicting or hypocritical rather?

Posted by TeddyBearMD
Feminists and Amy Schumer have convinced these whales that you can be fat as fuck and still get Ryan Goslin.

You mean like the not-as-pretty men having sex/being partnered with models in porn, movies, shows, etc.?

I know the expectations you are talking about are not okay to many people.

But honestly, why is this only furiously talked about when it's the woman that is less attractive than the man?

My theory is bigger women have nothing to lose. They don't give a fuck if they are rejected. They are likely use to it from having it happen a few times, therefor have no filter or fear when going for attractive men. This mindset of having no fear actually grants them the ability of tagging attractive men, because most men in general are attracted to women with this type of mindset. This is just a theory though.

I'm going to play devils advocate...standards are boring...and superficial

Ugh, you're always hating on women. I just assume you're one of those rare Cancer men that don't get along with their mothers.

Posted by beautifulsoul74
I'm going to play devils advocate...standards are boring...and superficial

True. In the end if they enjoy me for my good parts and can compromise while keeping a somewhat mature head on their shoulders I can pretty much care less about looks. Respect for a person deeply outweighs attraction in my book.

It's all in attitude and self-esteem!

Has nothing to do with size!

OP is just dumbass by posting it!

Like you've never seen model looking girl with obese animal walking by her side shorter by 20in chewing fast food while cheese is dripping on his dirty tshirt saying SEXY—

Common!!!

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Posted by beautifulsoul74
I'm going to play devils advocate...standards are boring...and superficial

True. In the end if they enjoy me for my good parts and can compromise while keeping a somewhat mature head on their shoulders I can pretty much care less about looks. Respect for a person deeply outweighs attraction in my book.

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Bingo.

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Posted by TeddyBearMD
@seraphlight

I see it happen to men way more often than women. Fat women still get offered dick 24/7. That's probably why they are still choosy as fuck even though they look below average.

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If fat women are offered dick 24/7 maybe is men problem.

Ppl who ARE choosey is because they CAN choose 😉

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Posted by TeddyBearMD
Okay, here is my problem with this double standard. Women are getting praised for being FAT AS FUCK. Feminists and Amy Schumer have convinced these whales that you can be fat as fuck and still get Ryan Goslin. They have fucking MODEL level standards, but look like fucking Rosie O' Donnell. I mean, they are almost being put on a pedestal these days. It's fucking disgusting.

Meanwhile a guy that's FAT AS FUCK can't even get a date. A fat guy is a laughing stock among his peers or looked down upon in by society. You can ridicule a fat guy and society will say that he deserves the ridicule because he doesn't love himself. In fact, I would even go as far to say that if a fat guy isn't rich or famous or both... he has no shot in hell of ever finding someone.

Now don't get me wrong, I have nothing against fat women. I actually like a girl with a little extra cushion. BUT... these bitches have gotten BOLD over the last couple of years. At least fat guys are realistic and understand that they won't get the a model level woman. But fat women.... DELUSIONAL AS FUCK.

Have you not seen Hugh Jackman's wife?

.....in short, that's why women love him. It's not just the way he looks.

superficiality is such a turnoff.