how do you interpret this?

Profile picture of virgoOPPP
longafternoonnaps
@virgoOPPP
6 Years10,000+ Posts

Comments: 5390 · Posts: 10885 · Topics: 287
so this cap sun/pisces moon guy was extra clingy the other day and was telling me how he felt like we don't spend enough time with each other all that much. it's almost as if he got more clingy right after we became more intimate but i've become more distant. i have no idea why the dynamic suddenly shifted but that's how it is.

but then i find out later today that some random girl from facebook (not even his friend) sent him nudes outta nowhere and i'm like.... is this somehow connected to him being extra clingy the other day? (the same day some girl tried to throw herself at him again?)

and he even gave me a lengthy speech about the strength of our relationship (don't ask, he's a pisces moon).

what's that about?

i'm not jealous, just annoyed like i didn't even know it's a thing for other females to be throwing themselves randomly at unsuspecting men. there's also that chick back in his office (married with kids) who pretended to be drunk after their team karaoke and attempted to kiss him. this why i don't do gross things like 'make friends' with unvetted people in the office.

protect yourself from unvetted hoes is all i got from this.
Profile picture of virgoOPPP
longafternoonnaps
@virgoOPPP
6 Years10,000+ Posts

Comments: 5390 · Posts: 10885 · Topics: 287
Posted by WangsNoodleHouse
Posted by virgoOPPP

so this cap sun/pisces moon guy was extra clingy the other day and was telling me how he felt like we don't spend enough time with each other all that much. it's almost as if he got more clingy right after we became more intimate but i've become more distant. i have no idea why the dynamic suddenly shifted but that's how it is.

but then i find out later today that some random girl from facebook (not even his friend) sent him nudes outta nowhere and i'm like.... is this somehow connected to him being extra clingy the other day? (the same day some girl tried to throw herself at him again?)

and he even gave me a lengthy speech about the strength of our relationship (don't ask, he's a pisces moon).

what's that about?

i'm not jealous, just annoyed like i didn't even know it's a thing for other females to be throwing themselves randomly at unsuspecting men. there's also that chick back in his office (married with kids) who pretended to be drunk after their team karaoke and attempted to kiss him. this why i don't do gross things like 'make friends' with unvetted people in the office.

protect yourself from unvetted hoes is all i got from this.

How’d you find out about those incidents
click to expand



he told me about that married chick from karaoke that tried to kiss him and now there's this rando girl sending nudes (he was manically clingy that day). i get this vibe that he likes it when i get clingy like that time i started a fight over him sending me a bag and moving our sched for the 2nd time in a row. i'm very emotional about schedules (don't ask, i'm a virgo).
Profile picture of LadyNeptune
LadyNeptune
@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Comments: 11076 · Posts: 35718 · Topics: 110
Posted by virgoOPPP

i'm not jealous, just annoyed like i didn't even know it's a thing for other females to be throwing themselves randomly at unsuspecting men.


Its not a thing. We are hardwired to fear rejection and have less experience with it then men (speaking about romantic rejection).

So I wouldn't assume it was random and he was unsuspecting.

He sent some mixed signals, may have even had a fling with this woman at one point. No way she sends nudes unsolicited to a random like that.

Profile picture of virgoOPPP
longafternoonnaps
@virgoOPPP
6 Years10,000+ Posts

Comments: 5390 · Posts: 10885 · Topics: 287
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by virgoOPPP

i'm not jealous, just annoyed like i didn't even know it's a thing for other females to be throwing themselves randomly at unsuspecting men.

Its not a thing. We are hardwired to fear rejection and have less experience with it then men (speaking about romantic rejection).

So I wouldn't assume it was random and he was unsuspecting.

He sent some mixed signals, may have even had a fling with this woman at one point. No way she sends nudes unsolicited to a random like that.
click to expand



impossible

he's a prude
Profile picture of LadyNeptune
LadyNeptune
@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Comments: 11076 · Posts: 35718 · Topics: 110
Posted by virgoOPPP
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by virgoOPPP

i'm not jealous, just annoyed like i didn't even know it's a thing for other females to be throwing themselves randomly at unsuspecting men.

Its not a thing. We are hardwired to fear rejection and have less experience with it then men (speaking about romantic rejection).

So I wouldn't assume it was random and he was unsuspecting.

He sent some mixed signals, may have even had a fling with this woman at one point. No way she sends nudes unsolicited to a random like that.

impossible

he's a prude
click to expand



This is the down side of love bombing. Now your discovering the skeletons in his closet.

If multiple women are throwing themselves at him, repeatedly, it'd be naive to think he's an innocent bystander in all this.
Profile picture of virgoOPPP
longafternoonnaps
@virgoOPPP
6 Years10,000+ Posts

Comments: 5390 · Posts: 10885 · Topics: 287
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by virgoOPPP
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by virgoOPPP

i'm not jealous, just annoyed like i didn't even know it's a thing for other females to be throwing themselves randomly at unsuspecting men.

Its not a thing. We are hardwired to fear rejection and have less experience with it then men (speaking about romantic rejection).

So I wouldn't assume it was random and he was unsuspecting.

He sent some mixed signals, may have even had a fling with this woman at one point. No way she sends nudes unsolicited to a random like that.

impossible

he's a prude

This is the down side of love bombing. Now your discovering the skeletons in his closet.

If multiple women are throwing themselves at him, repeatedly, it'd be naive to think he's an innocent bystander in all this.
click to expand


he's just way too sweet and friendly...unlike me. you gotta twist my arm to be friends with me lol.

or be an aquarius so i don't suspect you're trying to attach.

he told me that my anti-social attitude is one of the reasons he likes me so much coz he feels he can trust me more.
Profile picture of LadyNeptune
LadyNeptune
@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Comments: 11076 · Posts: 35718 · Topics: 110
Posted by virgoOPPP
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by virgoOPPP
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by virgoOPPP

i'm not jealous, just annoyed like i didn't even know it's a thing for other females to be throwing themselves randomly at unsuspecting men.

Its not a thing. We are hardwired to fear rejection and have less experience with it then men (speaking about romantic rejection).

So I wouldn't assume it was random and he was unsuspecting.

He sent some mixed signals, may have even had a fling with this woman at one point. No way she sends nudes unsolicited to a random like that.

impossible

he's a prude

This is the down side of love bombing. Now your discovering the skeletons in his closet.

If multiple women are throwing themselves at him, repeatedly, it'd be naive to think he's an innocent bystander in all this.

he's just way too sweet and friendly...unlike me. you gotta twist my arm to be friends with me lol.

or be an aquarius so i don't suspect you're trying to attach

he told me that my anti-social attitude is one of the reasons he likes me so much coz he feels he can trust me more.
click to expand



The sweet and friendly facade is part of the love bombing. Wait until you meet the real him at around the 2 year mark.
Profile picture of virgoOPPP
longafternoonnaps
@virgoOPPP
6 Years10,000+ Posts

Comments: 5390 · Posts: 10885 · Topics: 287
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by virgoOPPP
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by virgoOPPP
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by virgoOPPP

i'm not jealous, just annoyed like i didn't even know it's a thing for other females to be throwing themselves randomly at unsuspecting men.

Its not a thing. We are hardwired to fear rejection and have less experience with it then men (speaking about romantic rejection).

So I wouldn't assume it was random and he was unsuspecting.

He sent some mixed signals, may have even had a fling with this woman at one point. No way she sends nudes unsolicited to a random like that.

impossible

he's a prude

This is the down side of love bombing. Now your discovering the skeletons in his closet.

If multiple women are throwing themselves at him, repeatedly, it'd be naive to think he's an innocent bystander in all this.

he's just way too sweet and friendly...unlike me. you gotta twist my arm to be friends with me lol.

or be an aquarius so i don't suspect you're trying to attach

he told me that my anti-social attitude is one of the reasons he likes me so much coz he feels he can trust me more.

The sweet and friendly facade is part of the love bombing. Wait until you meet the real him at around the 2 year mark.
click to expand



i'm a love bomber so we're usually good sports about these things

meh i'll just go with the flow
Profile picture of virgoOPPP
longafternoonnaps
@virgoOPPP
6 Years10,000+ Posts

Comments: 5390 · Posts: 10885 · Topics: 287
Posted by Metatron

women will throw themselves at attractive and/or powerful men....its not uncommon at all....what I don't understand is the connection you're trying to make betw. this and his clinginess...like, how are the two supposed to be related?


we have yet to post pics together online (coz i'm so embarrassed about that recent breakup with the aries)

just odd how he's particularly manic that day

even repeated that story about how he prayed (he's super religious) then met me right after

he associates me with a prayer he made at the start of this year like even as a non=pisces woman, one can imagine how it'd be very difficult to cheat on that
Profile picture of Metatron
Metatron
@Metatron
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 1489 · Posts: 2835 · Topics: 0
Posted by virgoOPPP
Posted by Metatron

women will throw themselves at attractive and/or powerful men....its not uncommon at all....what I don't understand is the connection you're trying to make betw. this and his clinginess...like, how are the two supposed to be related?

we have yet to post pics together online (coz i'm so embarrassed about that recent breakup with the aries)

just odd how he's particularly manic that day

even repeated that story about how he prayed (he's super religious) then met me right after

he associates me with a prayer he made at the start of this year like even as a non=pisces woman, one can imagine how it'd be very difficult to cheat on that
click to expand



sounds like he is just faithfully vetting satan's hoes, holding fast to what the good lord has provided...
Profile picture of virgoOPPP
longafternoonnaps
@virgoOPPP
6 Years10,000+ Posts

Comments: 5390 · Posts: 10885 · Topics: 287
Posted by Metatron
Posted by virgoOPPP
Posted by Metatron

women will throw themselves at attractive and/or powerful men....its not uncommon at all....what I don't understand is the connection you're trying to make betw. this and his clinginess...like, how are the two supposed to be related?

we have yet to post pics together online (coz i'm so embarrassed about that recent breakup with the aries)

just odd how he's particularly manic that day

even repeated that story about how he prayed (he's super religious) then met me right after

he associates me with a prayer he made at the start of this year like even as a non=pisces woman, one can imagine how it'd be very difficult to cheat on that

sounds like he is just faithfully vetting satan's hoes, holding fast to what the good lord has provided...
click to expand



lmao i love to study people
Profile picture of virgoOPPP
longafternoonnaps
@virgoOPPP
6 Years10,000+ Posts

Comments: 5390 · Posts: 10885 · Topics: 287
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Posted by Phantum
Posted by virgoOPPP

@Phantum

you can just f u c k off my threads

or BLOCK me

you know that right?

I sure do.

Fish moon Vs Fish moon. CAT FIIIIIIGHT!!!

Image Not Found

Believe it or not, that's all the offense they can muster, because they're too fat and tire themselves out instantly.

https://i.imgur.com/JftOlUQ.gif<div class="bqfade">click to expand



whose side are you on?

you saw how she's suddenly on the offensive
Profile picture of virgoOPPP
longafternoonnaps
@virgoOPPP
6 Years10,000+ Posts

Comments: 5390 · Posts: 10885 · Topics: 287
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by virgoOPPP
Posted by MyStarsShine

I think the correlation between his sudden clinginess and women throwing themselves at him is guilt...not necessarily because he's done anything dodgy (although that's a possibility) but because he feels bad for you....

wait what?

why does he 'feel bad' for me?

Women throwing themselves at him
click to expand



i still don't get it

like i don't even talk about other guys around him
Profile picture of MyStarsShine
MyStarsShine
@MyStarsShine
9 Years25,000+ Posts

Comments: 37529 · Posts: 41243 · Topics: 331
Posted by virgoOPPP
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by virgoOPPP
Posted by MyStarsShine

I think the correlation between his sudden clinginess and women throwing themselves at him is guilt...not necessarily because he's done anything dodgy (although that's a possibility) but because he feels bad for you....

wait what?

why does he 'feel bad' for me?

Women throwing themselves at him

i still don't get it

like i don't even talk about other guys around him
click to expand



He told you about the women throwing themselves at him?
Profile picture of virgoOPPP
longafternoonnaps
@virgoOPPP
6 Years10,000+ Posts

Comments: 5390 · Posts: 10885 · Topics: 287
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by virgoOPPP
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by virgoOPPP
Posted by MyStarsShine

I think the correlation between his sudden clinginess and women throwing themselves at him is guilt...not necessarily because he's done anything dodgy (although that's a possibility) but because he feels bad for you....

wait what?

why does he 'feel bad' for me?

Women throwing themselves at him

i still don't get it

like i don't even talk about other guys around him

He told you about the women throwing themselves at him?
click to expand



yes these 2 separate instances

first instance he told me before we were intimate

then the the 2nd one just the other day
Profile picture of HeavyEntertainmentShow
HeavyEntertainmentShow
@HeavyEntertainmentShow
8 Years5,000+ Posts

Comments: 4555 · Posts: 7614 · Topics: 100
Posted by virgoOPPP
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Posted by Phantum
Posted by virgoOPPP

@Phantum

you can just f u c k off my threads

or BLOCK me

you know that right?

I sure do.

Fish moon Vs Fish moon. CAT FIIIIIIGHT!!!

Image Not Found

Believe it or not, that's all the offense they can muster, because they're too fat and tire themselves out instantly.

Image Not Found

whose side are you on?

you saw how she's suddenly on the offensive
click to expand



LMFAO I was talking about the cats being too fat to tussle properly, not you.

Besides, my support is an earned privilege, not a given. It's only reserved for those who defended me when I was the one being unfairly attacked. And you, my dear Sierra, have never had my back. So to answer your question:

Image Not Found

But it doesn't matter anyway, Phantum is just riding the cotton pony from the looks of it. Hilarious 🤣🤣🤣
Profile picture of virgoOPPP
longafternoonnaps
@virgoOPPP
6 Years10,000+ Posts

Comments: 5390 · Posts: 10885 · Topics: 287
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Posted by virgoOPPP
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Posted by Phantum
Posted by virgoOPPP

@Phantum

you can just f u c k off my threads

or BLOCK me

you know that right?

I sure do.

Fish moon Vs Fish moon. CAT FIIIIIIGHT!!!

Image Not Found

Believe it or not, that's all the offense they can muster, because they're too fat and tire themselves out instantly.

Image Not Found

whose side are you on?

you saw how she's suddenly on the offensive

LMFAO I was talking about the cats being too fat to tussle properly, not you.

Besides, my support is an earned privilege, not a given. It's only reserved for those who defended me when I was the one being unfairly attacked. And you, my dear Sierra, have never had my back. So to answer your question:

Image Not Found

But it doesn't matter anyway, Phantum is just riding the cotton pony from the looks of it. Hilarious 🤣🤣🤣
click to expand



you kidding?

i just remember you getting paranoid over some pm

funny coz it's not like i even talk to people here
Profile picture of virgoOPPP
longafternoonnaps
@virgoOPPP
6 Years10,000+ Posts

Comments: 5390 · Posts: 10885 · Topics: 287
@HeavyEntertainmentShow

i'm just mad that some people happily participate in my threads while making resentful side comments about something that happened almost a year ago now. in the next thread.

like what's that about?

nobody died nor is it even a big deal.

just being fake nice to me in one thread then being resentful the next.

classic gemini.

i've only ever expected small penis men to react, not exactly WHITE FEMALES.
Profile picture of virgoOPPP
longafternoonnaps
@virgoOPPP
6 Years10,000+ Posts

Comments: 5390 · Posts: 10885 · Topics: 287
Posted by Phantum
Posted by virgoOPPP

@HeavyEntertainmentShow

i'm just mad that some people happily participate in my threads while making resentful side comments about something that happened almost a year ago now. in the next.

like what's that about?

nobody died nor is it even a big deal.

just being fake nice to me in one thread then being resentful the next.

classic gemini.

lol

I can still see you, ya know.

I'm not fake. I was nice to you when you admitted who you were and acted like you were going to be honest now, but you're still just lying through your teeth.
click to expand



that's your opinion

i have a way of telling very simple events this way

could've just been vague but i'd rather be detailed

you can choose to believe it or not

but the way you came off to me,

you must understand why i'd read it that way
Profile picture of virgoOPPP
longafternoonnaps
@virgoOPPP
6 Years10,000+ Posts

Comments: 5390 · Posts: 10885 · Topics: 287
Posted by Phantum
Posted by virgoOPPP
Posted by Phantum
Posted by virgoOPPP

@HeavyEntertainmentShow

i'm just mad that some people happily participate in my threads while making resentful side comments about something that happened almost a year ago now. in the next.

like what's that about?

nobody died nor is it even a big deal.

just being fake nice to me in one thread then being resentful the next.

classic gemini.

lol

I can still see you, ya know.

I'm not fake. I was nice to you when you admitted who you were and acted like you were going to be honest now, but you're still just lying through your teeth.

that's your opinion

i have a way of telling very simple events this way

could've just been vague but i'd rather be detailed

you can choose to believe it or not

but the way you came off to me,

you must understand why i'd read it that way

I really don't have anything against you personally. I'm just bitchy today, I reckon. I'll attempt to stay our of your threads. lol
click to expand



alright that's fair

maybe it's the supermoon
Profile picture of HeavyEntertainmentShow
HeavyEntertainmentShow
@HeavyEntertainmentShow
8 Years5,000+ Posts

Comments: 4555 · Posts: 7614 · Topics: 100
Posted by Phantum
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Posted by virgoOPPP
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Posted by Phantum
Posted by virgoOPPP

@Phantum

you can just f u c k off my threads

or BLOCK me

you know that right?

I sure do.

Fish moon Vs Fish moon. CAT FIIIIIIGHT!!!

Image Not Found

Believe it or not, that's all the offense they can muster, because they're too fat and tire themselves out instantly.

Image Not Found

whose side are you on?

you saw how she's suddenly on the offensive

LMFAO I was talking about the cats being too fat to tussle properly, not you.

Besides, my support is an earned privilege, not a given. It's only reserved for those who defended me when I was the one being unfairly attacked. And you, my dear Sierra, have never had my back. So to answer your question:

Image Not Found

But it doesn't matter anyway, Phantum is just riding the cotton pony from the looks of it. Hilarious 🤣🤣🤣

You wanna ride? Hop on. I'll take you to Bitch Town.
click to expand



Fly lower, Icarus, lest you get burned.

Image Not Found

In the meantime, I wasn't kidding. They really are too fat to fight properly, like the rassling matches in the 70s and 80s that went on for an hour. 5 moves each, and then rest-holds for 30 minutes.