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what do you find unattractive
Physical or behaviour?
I’m attracted the most to Aquarius men and they are usually tall and awkward IME, which makes sense because of gem Venus in the 11th, duh
I also like Gemini men a lot, who are notorious and widely hated by male and female alike.
But I see a lot of women posting and drooling for male celebrities on here and I’m just like, mehhh
Except for Henry Cavill because he’s a god. I have to give credit where it’s due when it comes to conventionally attractive god-like Taurus men
my venus is in the 11th too and i like the vibes of aqua men
overly masculine men
overly feminine women
virgo venus in the 11th house
Huge muscles bleh. I’d rather have a guy whose a little chub or just fit than have one that overdoes it to the extreme. I love a strong man but those big, veiny muscles are gross.
Overconfidence—I cant stand this. I really like a confident man, but also a humble one.
Lack of hair, and not talking about up top haha I love furry places on men to grab! I love playing with chest hair and tickling tummy hair, and a completely shaved dong is just gross. Like it looked prepubescent and that was NOT a turn on yuck! As soon as I saw it, I think he saw the light in my eyes go dark immediately lulz but just whyyyyyy all of it?!? Anyways, yeah I like MEN so I need some hair to smell and play with. I’m very sensual so it’s little things like this.
Taurus Venus in the 11th house
I’m attracted the most to Aquarius men and they are usually tall and awkward IME, which makes sense because of gem Venus in the 11th, duh
I also like Gemini men a lot, who are notorious and widely hated by male and female alike.
But I see a lot of women posting and drooling for male celebrities on here and I’m just like, mehhh
Except for Henry Cavill because he’s a god. I have to give credit where it’s due when it comes to conventionally attractive god-like Taurus men
my venus is in the 11th too and i like the vibes of aqua men
Yes! Huge sucker for them. My aqua ex looks exactly like Bo Burnham and I could not have been more physically attracted to a man 🤣🤣🤣
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lol he's a virgo though
eww
Confidence
Smooth (and or sweet) talkers
Scorp Venus in 2H
Hard pass on the dad bod fad.
Taurus ven 4th
Men who dont Ask Women Out
Cigar/Cigarette smoking
Short guys 5"5 and below
Detached people
Rudeness
Lack of empathy
Lack of desire
People who are unproductive
People who complain...repeatedly
Idiots
i really can't stand men who have way too many jokes
and talks too much, seems way too engaging and extroverted
(these are usually gossipy men i find)
Body builders
Beer bellies
Cold eyes
No humour
Unintelligent
Unkind
Non assertive
Doesn't like children and animals
Workaholics
Mainstream views
Scorpio Venus 7th
Venus/Pluto/Water dom.
Men who have a lot of women after them.
Men who have a high number of sexual partners.
Dominant, masculine men although I find them physically attractive we have personality clashes.
I'm too alpha and masculine. I might be gay.
Venus in the 10th.
lol i think it's the libra mars
if they're not understated enough, too independent and not cooperative enough or doesn't have a sweet-talking mouth,,,, that's irritating to me
like why is this man even talking to me?
People who are "kind " and " Good " to everyone and need to talk to every person they see. I find it disingenuous. Go with the flow types. None assertive people. Liars.
Aquarius 7th house
i really can't stand men who have way too many jokes
and talks too much, seems way too engaging and extroverted
(these are usually gossipy men i find)
Dude preach
Huge muscles bleh. I’d rather have a guy whose a little chub or just fit than have one that overdoes it to the extreme. I love a strong man but those big, veiny muscles are gross.
Overconfidence—I cant stand this. I really like a confident man, but also a humble one.
Lack of hair, and not talking about up top haha I love furry places on men to grab! I love playing with chest hair and tickling tummy hair, and a completely shaved dong is just gross. Like it looked prepubescent and that was NOT a turn on yuck! As soon as I saw it, I think he saw the light in my eyes go dark immediately lulz but just whyyyyyy all of it?!? Anyways, yeah I like MEN so I need some hair to smell and play with. I’m very sensual so it’s little things like this.
Taurus Venus in the 11th house
Whoa. Me too. Taurus Venus in the 12th house
I'm not actually grossed out by muscle-bound men. It's just not my thing.
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It’s the extremity that grosses me out I think more than anything. But I also have a father who went through a mid life crisis and became a body builder at age like 45 or something—not to say I’m not very proud of him! It’s just not my thing...
I think a lot of people missed the part of the OP where they said these are things other people usually find attractive. Some of these answers I’m like... who thinks that’s attractive?! Okay done with this thread bc now it’s just people reading the title and responding.... that wasn’t the whole question tho lulz ok byeeeeee
straight men with feminine characteristics i.e ( men who act stuck up, don't do manly things because they don't want to get their shoes/ hands dirty, gossip like women, wear pants with holes in them, have too many actively sex partners, I can go on lol)
people who smack when the eat
fat & greedy ppl (don't mean to fat shame)
women who curse non stop
loud mouth people
people who lack common sense annoy me
lazy people
people who talk, talk, talk...
they aren't deal breakers but geez ...
virgo venus 2nd house
and people just list everything most people find unattractive
oh well i tried
Confidence
Smooth (and or sweet) talkers
Scorp Venus in 2H
Ditto
I also find emotional unavailability attractive while dating and ownership/possession of making someone mine and vice verse. Claiming they're mine even if they aren't.
Scorp Venus in 2H
Being overly polite = fake
People pleasers
Long nails
Men w/ no body hair
Yards with no trees
Houses built really close together/cookie cutters
Suped up trucks/cars w/ loud exhaust systems
Ppl who bash moms who breastfeed in public
Scorpio Venus 4th
Loud, overconfident and in-your-face men who talk too much. Virgo venus in 10th
What do you think of men who close the fridge with their hip?
i really can't stand men who have way too many jokes
and talks too much, seems way too engaging and extroverted
(these are usually gossipy men i find)
Are we supposed to be listing what we don't like or what we do like? I'm confused now
Dumb women.
You like them?
Dumb women.
You like them?
Nah. I can tolerate them but I won't have any lasting attraction. I get bored with people too quickly if they can't stimulate me one way or another.
So unless we fucking every other day dumb women won't give me the stimulation I need to care.
I'd only hit them up for sex since that's the only thing that would keep my attention. I have ADHD and I wish I could not sound harsh but I just stop caring about people suddenly. It just happens.
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I'm the same way. I fall for intellectual. I can't stand a nice looking guy who's an idiot. I lose interest quick and will not even look their way.
Dumb women.
You like them?
Nah. I can tolerate them but I won't have any lasting attraction. I get bored with people too quickly if they can't stimulate me one way or another.
So unless we fucking every other day dumb women won't give me the stimulation I need to care.
I'd only hit them up for sex since that's the only thing that would keep my attention. I have ADHD and I wish I could not sound harsh but I just stop caring about people suddenly. It just happens.
I'm the same way. I fall for intellectual. I can't stand a nice looking guy who's an idiot. I lose interest quick and will not even look their way.
Yeah but the intellectual is not going to let you have your way constantly. He's also prone to being snarky , sarcastic and downright mean sometimes. They wanna test what the know. Ya know.
Can the cancer moon tolerate the mouth that has even more shit than the LA sewer system?
I for myself can't imagine not arguing with any potential woman. I don't know what it is but arguing makes me hot and bothered.
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I don't need to have my way 🙂 I just post memes and stuff that I think is funny and bratty. I like letting a man lead and I need to be told no cause I like pouting sometimes too. I'm a brat.
Snarky and Sarcastic are fine, downright mean isn't but I will handle it well and then politely do it back. There's no reason to be mean, but I love surprising someone with how mean I can be back. It's a hidden talent of not giving a fuck 😆
I don't know how to argue or even keep on going, usually I try to be understanding. I get hot and bothered with it too but I just don't get upset often. I'm dating a Aries moon guy and I keep telling him we need to have an argument but he keeps saying no he likes the peace 😆
I don't know what to believe. 😢
Dumb women.
You like them?
Nah. I can tolerate them but I won't have any lasting attraction. I get bored with people too quickly if they can't stimulate me one way or another.
So unless we fucking every other day dumb women won't give me the stimulation I need to care.
I'd only hit them up for sex since that's the only thing that would keep my attention. I have ADHD and I wish I could not sound harsh but I just stop caring about people suddenly. It just happens.
I'm the same way. I fall for intellectual. I can't stand a nice looking guy who's an idiot. I lose interest quick and will not even look their way.
Yeah but the intellectual is not going to let you have your way constantly. He's also prone to being snarky , sarcastic and downright mean sometimes. They wanna test what the know. Ya know.
Can the cancer moon tolerate the mouth that has even more shit than the LA sewer system?
I for myself can't imagine not arguing with any potential woman. I don't know what it is but arguing makes me hot and bothered.
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it's all in the mouth
Unadventurous, to overly fake cosmetically and definitely worrying about money all the time.
Scorpio Venus
Dumb women.
You like them?
Nah. I can tolerate them but I won't have any lasting attraction. I get bored with people too quickly if they can't stimulate me one way or another.
So unless we fucking every other day dumb women won't give me the stimulation I need to care.
I'd only hit them up for sex since that's the only thing that would keep my attention. I have ADHD and I wish I could not sound harsh but I just stop caring about people suddenly. It just happens.
I'm the same way. I fall for intellectual. I can't stand a nice looking guy who's an idiot. I lose interest quick and will not even look their way.
Yeah but the intellectual is not going to let you have your way constantly. He's also prone to being snarky , sarcastic and downright mean sometimes. They wanna test what the know. Ya know.
Can the cancer moon tolerate the mouth that has even more shit than the LA sewer system?
I for myself can't imagine not arguing with any potential woman. I don't know what it is but arguing makes me hot and bothered.
I don't need to have my way 🙂 I just post memes and stuff that I think is funny and bratty. I like letting a man lead and I need to be told no cause I like pouting sometimes too. I'm a brat.
Snarky and Sarcastic are fine, downright mean isn't but I will handle it well and then politely do it back. There's no reason to be mean, but I love surprising someone with how mean I can be back. It's a hidden talent of not giving a fuck 😆
I don't know how to argue or even keep on going, usually I try to be understanding. I get hot and bothered with it too but I just don't get upset often. I'm dating a Aries moon guy and I keep telling him we need to have an argument but he keeps saying no he likes the peace 😆
I don't know what to believe. 😢
I don't know. I'm just an attention whore. I'm not representative of all Aries Moon.
When I say mean from my perspective it means mean like a little bot mean. Not adult manipulative asshole mean.
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Oh ok, I think that has to do with your Sun.
Cancers can be stubborn and mean! 😛
I'm still trying to find out the inner workings of an Aries Moon. But most of them need attention.
I'd call my girl fat for fun and then say it's fine because it makes it easier to hold on to you tight.
Those sound like fighting words!
I'd call my girl fat for fun and then say it's fine because it makes it easier to hold on to you tight.
Those sound like fighting words!
It just means more activities are needed. Especially the kind done together. I'm ready to help. Make love not war.
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You’d be running your ass right out the door talking to me like that 🤣🤣🤣
I'd call my girl fat for fun and then say it's fine because it makes it easier to hold on to you tight.
Those sound like fighting words!
It just means more activities are needed. Especially the kind done together. I'm ready to help. Make love not war.
You’d be running your ass right out the door talking to me like that 🤣🤣🤣
The one that needs to run is you. How do you think weight is lost?
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😩😩😩😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭 👊
Audiences!
Leo Venus 8th
promiscuous women
women who "try" to act overtly dominant
look awkward doing physical tasks
"have" to wear make up
cant cook
hobbies only consist of things that dont involve physical activity
no shame
curse too much
fake nails, hair, etc
I like widow's peak and receiding hairline on guys, aquiline nose, I also find buck teeth cute, especially when they barely open their mouth because of it.
Pale skin.
Chinless wonders too.
Venus Libra 12th house
Business men ... short hair and suits don’t do it for me
Cap Venus
I don't like: pushy men, rude or sarcastic man.
girl same
coz i can tell there'd be no lovebombing there
Aries men
Venus in cancer in the 10th house
In the 9th house I mean
Business men ... short hair and suits don’t do it for me
Long haired brick layers?
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Does he lay bricks?
Muscles - I am not attracted to muscly gym type dudes in the least.
Too Flattery / Smooth talkers - This has always been a red flag for me. Don't want to hear your pick up lines dude.
Cancer Venus in the 8th
Yea it does seem like only fire and water sign women find big bulk muscular men like me attractive for some reason. Every other women I can't mess with. Naw naw uh-uh.
Muscles - I am not attracted to muscly gym type dudes in the least.
Too Flattery / Smooth talkers - This has always been a red flag for me. Don't want to hear your pick up lines dude.
Cancer Venus in the 8th
Yea it does seem like only fire and water sign women find big bulk muscular men like me attractive for some reason. Every other women I can't mess with. Naw naw uh-uh.
You doing okay, Jup? I wondered where you were.
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Yeah I'm doing ok. I just wanted to take a little break from this stressful site. And I'm thinking about taking a much longer break this time. It's for the better, trust me.
Muscles - I am not attracted to muscly gym type dudes in the least.
Too Flattery / Smooth talkers - This has always been a red flag for me. Don't want to hear your pick up lines dude.
Cancer Venus in the 8th
Yea it does seem like only fire and water sign women find big bulk muscular men like me attractive for some reason. Every other women I can't mess with. Naw naw uh-uh.
Aww I'm sorry!! I am water dominant. I don't mind some muscle, but some dudes I look at and think.. I couldn't even snuggle you in fear of your bicep crushing me.. Lmaoo
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You didn't have to apologise for that. I wasn't offended. You just going by what the thread is all about. You find musculy gym dudes unattractive whereas some find them attractive. I can respect everyone's opinions.
This thread is fun.
Muscles - I am not attracted to muscly gym type dudes in the least.
Too Flattery / Smooth talkers - This has always been a red flag for me. Don't want to hear your pick up lines dude.
Cancer Venus in the 8th
Yea it does seem like only fire and water sign women find big bulk muscular men like me attractive for some reason. Every other women I can't mess with. Naw naw uh-uh.
Aww I'm sorry!! I am water dominant. I don't mind some muscle, but some dudes I look at and think.. I couldn't even snuggle you in fear of your bicep crushing me.. Lmaoo
You didn't have to apologise for that. I wasn't offended. You just going by what the thread is all about. You find musculy gym dudes unattractive whereas some find them attractive. I can respect everyone's opinions.
This thread is fun.
I'm guessing since you are in shape you likely find smokers unattractive.. I'm a smoker, and a lazy stoner.. so we're even 😛 haha
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Ugh!!! Tell me about it. I used to smoke those fat cigars and I never realized how stupid and awkward it made me look and feel. My ex smokes cigarettes and I don't know but somehow it never bothered me in terms of how she look with a cigarette in her mouth.
I don't want to say smokers are unattractive. That's definitely not on my attractive/unattractive scale.
I’m oddly attracted to obviously loose men.....the ones you know might pass along an std.
Aries Venus.
I also like the idea of doing something risky but I’ll never follow through cuz Taurus mars.
I like the idea of having flings but I’m not just not build for quick romances....takes me a while to gauge safety and emotional issues, cuz Pisces moon.
Overall I won’t act on anything even if I’m attracted to them. I’m like one of those weird people that like emotional well-being and safety and reliability 🤓
—— what I do like that to know others don’t like——
I like someone who’s very tame and unbothered and isn’t emotional 🙃
Followers, carbon copies of the same personality, validation seekers, people pleasers, clingy people in general, and people who take everything personally and create problems for themselves and others as a result of that.
Also: Vain, physically attractive people who seem dispassionate about everyone and everything. If I feel attracted towards someone and I don't sense that they feel the same way about me I instantly feel deeply repulsed by them to the point that I can't even stand to have them anywhere near me. As if they had committed some sort of blasphemy.
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that most people find attractive?
state your venus and its house pls