If Your Boyfriend Got Beat Up in front of You

This topic was created in the The Powder Room forum by Emhendo on Thursday, December 26, 2019 and has 16 replies.

How to Support Your Boyfriend After a Fight

Supporting your boyfriend after he is beaten involves understanding his feelings, offering comfort, and avoiding judgment. His reaction to being attacked and whether he fought back can impact your perspective, but showing empathy and reassurance is key. Remember that emotional support helps strengthen your relationship during difficult times.

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@Emhendo
9 Years1,000+ PostsCancer

How would you react?

Would you look at him the same?

Would you lose attraction?

Would you dump him?

Would you nurse him?

Is there a difference if he fought back or if he didn't fight back at all?

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@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Posted by Emhendo

Posted by DMV

My ex leo (white) was jumped and hogtied by cops and it was lowkey enjoyable to watch but I pretended to be outraged.

AHAHAHAHAA!!!!

HE GOT HOGTIED?? AHAAHAHAAA

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How would you react? I was happy, vindicated

Would you look at him the same? He was an asshole before they beat the shyt outtake him so my impression of him did not change.

Would you lose attraction? Been lost attraction. I stayed out of duty. Never again.

Would you dump him? Still couldn't find the strength to dump him.

Would you nurse him? Nope.

Is there a difference if he fought back or if he didn't fight back at all? He did fight back and it got worse for him.

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@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by Emhendo

Posted by LadyNeptune

Ummm why is he being beat up?

I need context here.

I don't know.. He owe money

Some dude mean mugged him and he asked what the fuck is up..

Situations I've been in infront of women but I didn't get beat up.. But just what if..

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The owing money bit is a bigger turn off than being beat up over it tbh.

And as far as being glared at or whatever, I'd expect him not to be triggered by some random. He's not the type of personality to get hot headed and confront some random hater. Why fuel that insecure energy.

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@777
8 Years1,000+ Posts

If you've never lost a fight either you never start trouble, or you're very selective about your opponent. The greatest fighters have lost fights.

If another female put hands on my girl I would slap the shit out of her. If a random dude tried to fight my homeboy hes getting snuffed. Period

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@SeaLion
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I've never had anyone beat up in front of me but the Virgo was beat up so bad he almost died in the hospital. He was jumped. It made me look at him differently but in a more vulnerable way and it made me want to take care of him more.

If I had been with him I would have fought who ever was attacking.

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@Jumpin_Jupiter
7 Years5,000+ Posts

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Posted by dilettante

i’d dump his stupid, embarrassing, ass

There's a reason people don't like you.

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😆 I thought I was the only one who notices nobody likes her🤣

Everybody dislikes her that's why they don't interact with anything that relates to her.

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If there's only one thing I like, is to piss her off. Scorpio women just don't know how fun it is to taunt them when they get angry.

But in all seriousness. That response from her is totally weak. Like why dump your man if he get beat up instead of taking him to the hospital and press charges on your man assailant.

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@Jumpin_Jupiter
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Posted by dilettante

i’d dump his stupid, embarrassing, ass

There's a reason people don't like you.

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😆 I thought I was the only one who notices nobody likes her🤣

Everybody dislikes her that's why they don't interact with anything that relates to her.

If there's only one thing I like, is to piss her off. Scorpio women just don't know how fun it is to taunt them when they get angry.But in all seriousness. That response from her is totally weak. Like why dump your man if he get beat up instead of taking him to the hospital and press charges on your man assailant.

She always speaks dumb things, so that response doesn't surprise me at all.

look at these 2 lil bitches talking shit lmao

Lol dilettante just stop right there before you embarrass yourself even further. You already outnumbered 2 to 1. Just quit now and accept defeat.

lmao you are so stupid. 2 dudes saying they dont like me isnt defeat. 1 beats his wife & the other claims he hates me but stays liking my posts 😂😂😂

this is the internet, stop taking shit so seriously.

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Nah I'm not taking any of this seriously. I'm actually trolling you. And the sad thing about it, you don't even realize I'm trolling you. And you falling right in my trap.

This isn't serious but more like the truth. You have been defeated by two dudes. Just like you'll more likely get beat up by a girl in front of your man if you even got or will ever get a man.