What's worse

A man who keeps trying to slip you the tip metaphorically speaking, or a man that "respects" your wishes and shows 0 passion or initiative or interest until you say you're ready.

Please post In theory vs. In practice

mmmmhhhhh I think your mind is already made up 🤔

Posted by hydorah
mmmmhhhhh I think your mind is already made up 🤔

You'd think so but actually I haven't. For the record, I've always played it safe and passive - which in turn seems to have made me more enigmatic. I love making them squirm and work for it. I've heard on numerous occasions that I have the patience of a saint.

Maybe that's why out of all the signs Scorpettes respond to me the best? They like the challange or opening a closed can?

Anywho, it's not a game plan, it's just that I hate making chicks feel uncomfortable. So I make it comfortable for them to thrive and grow their passions and fantasize "hmmmm wonder about that Enfant" lol

0 pasion wouldn’t do for me and better when they have the initiative and show interests.

So I will go for A.

I am good at stopping it if is going to fast 😄

Well ok 0 passion or initiative was maybe a tad bit extreme.. but I meant he shows interest but it's on that level where u wonder if he's gay for not trying anything already

part 2 lol

What if you had what you felt was fully adequate sex and somewhere down the line, some friend or social media plants a seed & tells you "gurrl that was rape!"

Do you start feeling raped? Is it that complicated being a woman?

Posted by Smidge

Posted by enfant_terrible
What if you had what you felt was fully adequate sex and somewhere down the line, some friend or social media plants a seed & tells you "gurrl that was rape!"

Do you start feeling raped? Is it that complicated being a woman?

'da faacck?

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I'm not joking. Seeds are easily planted in this day and age. If it applies to every other aspect of our lives, why not rape aswell?

Posted by ItsMeRoman
Enfant. Your moon is showing.

What part of it?

Posted by Smidge
It just escalated quickly is all.

I guess some people mightn't know what's right or wrong in those situations.

They used to. Now that social media is thinking for them, I'm not sure. This is literally what it's like these days lol

Posted by enfant_terrible

I'm not joking. Seeds are easily planted in this day and age.

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Yeap, like that seed that germinated in your brain causing you to feel entitled to doubt about every feeling a woman has without being one. Rape is based on consent. And it makes sense to me. If you want to see grey areas on it and walk through the line of ambiguity to feel like a respectable ladies' man I won't take that from you, but facts are facts, take it or leave it.

Of course its definition or what it implies has changed, time evolves and words too.

Doesn't seem weird to think everyone is brainwashed except you? I'm a product of this society. So are you. Surprise.

Posted by nightowl
A guy willing to wait but ik most guys arent like that. Theres always an impulsive side to men..and if you are in the room on the bed alone with a guy..you know whats going to happen.

Posted by enfant_terrible
What if you had what you felt was fully adequate sex and somewhere down the line, some friend or social media plants a seed & tells you "gurrl that was rape!"

Do you start feeling raped? Is it that complicated being a woman?

LOLOLOL

Posted by Blackburn
Doesn't seem weird to think everyone is brainwashed except you? I'm a product of this society. So are you. Surprise.

Actually I've grown up in the most progressive country in the world as far as social- and women's issues go. I doubt we are of the same society. What are you, american? In US feminism is still something "progressive". Where I'm from we are indoctrinated in school that we are all feminists.

There is nothing you can possibly say or educate me on that I haven't already heard. This is also why I've taken this stand on the subject. Don't get me wrong, I am a feminist. I'm a feminist because I don't believe in vagina privilege and because I believe women can be held accountable for stupidity to the same extent as men.

 

Posted by Smidge
Social media is a great way to get a message heard, I've no idea why you're so against it.

It seems to be a preferred topic of yours lately.

Do you feel men are being attacked? If you never perform unwanted behavior, you've nothing to be worried about.

Social media is the absolute worst way to get anything across.

I don't care about men nor am I worried. I'm pissed.

Why this is a preferred topic of mine as of lately is bc I've had a peek behind the curtain, big time, and it doesn't check out with how things are spun.

I used to be the most progressive guy in here. Now being progressive, means having to dive into the deep and uncertain end of things. Time will show ✌

Posted by Supes
👀

May I do the same? 👀

Posted by enfant_terrible

Posted by Blackburn
Doesn't seem weird to think everyone is brainwashed except you? I'm a product of this society. So are you. Surprise.

Actually I've grown up in the most progressive country in the world as far as social- and women's issues go. I doubt we are of the same society. What are you, american? In US feminism is still something "progressive". Where I'm from we are indoctrinated in school that we are all feminists.

There is nothing you can possibly say or educate me on that I haven't already heard. This is also why I've taken this stand on the subject. Don't get me wrong, I am a feminist. I'm a feminist because I don't believe in vagina privilege and because I believe women can be held accountable for stupidity to the same extent as men.

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I'm not from the US and I'd like to hear about that paradisiacal place you talk about. I respect that belief of yours, but then I don't really see the point in creating a thread to gather opinions over a matter where nothing can change your mind or open it. Is just like showing us how big your dick is.

For you holding accountable for stupidity translates into hearing 'yes' when they say 'no' because they - poor angels - don't really say what they want. It really sounds as paternalism more than feminism, but what do I know? I'm just a woman! My system is if someone says 'no' meaning 'yes' they can fuck themselves. I believe this will make them make up their mind faster on future occasions. And this goes to both genders.

When for you being raped is stupidity on womens end, believe me, you are not a feminist, you are just justifying aggressors. Stupidity is not saying what you really mean. If you steal me, the blame is always on you, no matter how I carried my bag.

what if the social media tells you you aren't getting paid equal as men, but you can't really compete with men in the workplace, so you start a smear campaign against the whole male gender and accuse them of being a rapist after perfectly adequate sex, but the end result is that all males choose to either change gender or live with sex dolls in the future rather than bother with the trouble