@virgoOPPP
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how do you interpret this?
Posted by SlipperySlopeI wish office team karaoke was a thing in the west.
i just tell people i'm attending but i never do
so i'm not clingy enough 🤔🤔
I CAN CHANGE 😭😭
Posted by SlipperySlopePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by SlipperySlopeI wish office team karaoke was a thing in the west.
i just tell people i'm attending but i never do
Boring
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i'm virgo and capricorn dominant
can't expect anything else
Lol so you thought his distance would continue? Caps are clingy when they feel close to you.
Posted by WangsNoodleHousePosted by virgoOPPPso this cap sun/pisces moon guy was extra clingy the other day and was telling me how he felt like we don't spend enough time with each other all that much. it's almost as if he got more clingy right after we became more intimate but i've become more distant. i have no idea why the dynamic suddenly shifted but that's how it is.
but then i find out later today that some random girl from facebook (not even his friend) sent him nudes outta nowhere and i'm like.... is this somehow connected to him being extra clingy the other day? (the same day some girl tried to throw herself at him again?)
and he even gave me a lengthy speech about the strength of our relationship (don't ask, he's a pisces moon).
what's that about?
i'm not jealous, just annoyed like i didn't even know it's a thing for other females to be throwing themselves randomly at unsuspecting men. there's also that chick back in his office (married with kids) who pretended to be drunk after their team karaoke and attempted to kiss him. this why i don't do gross things like 'make friends' with unvetted people in the office.
protect yourself from unvetted hoes is all i got from this.
How’d you find out about those incidents
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he told me about that married chick from karaoke that tried to kiss him and now there's this rando girl sending nudes (he was manically clingy that day). i get this vibe that he likes it when i get clingy like that time i started a fight over him sending me a bag and moving our sched for the 2nd time in a row. i'm very emotional about schedules (don't ask, i'm a virgo).
Posted by smolIt's hard to be a Cap sun-Pisces moon man, women often mistaken you for the wonderful Pisces man and then disappointed when they realized you're just a Capricorn man.
Thats why i'm not flattered at all when non-Pisces women showing interest at me.
men are more like their moon signs than the women
remember that
except his obsession with work
Posted by virgoOPPPi'm not jealous, just annoyed like i didn't even know it's a thing for other females to be throwing themselves randomly at unsuspecting men.
Its not a thing. We are hardwired to fear rejection and have less experience with it then men (speaking about romantic rejection).
So I wouldn't assume it was random and he was unsuspecting.
He sent some mixed signals, may have even had a fling with this woman at one point. No way she sends nudes unsolicited to a random like that.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by virgoOPPPi'm not jealous, just annoyed like i didn't even know it's a thing for other females to be throwing themselves randomly at unsuspecting men.
Its not a thing. We are hardwired to fear rejection and have less experience with it then men (speaking about romantic rejection).
So I wouldn't assume it was random and he was unsuspecting.
He sent some mixed signals, may have even had a fling with this woman at one point. No way she sends nudes unsolicited to a random like that.
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impossible
he's a prude
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by virgoOPPPi'm not jealous, just annoyed like i didn't even know it's a thing for other females to be throwing themselves randomly at unsuspecting men.
Its not a thing. We are hardwired to fear rejection and have less experience with it then men (speaking about romantic rejection).
So I wouldn't assume it was random and he was unsuspecting.
He sent some mixed signals, may have even had a fling with this woman at one point. No way she sends nudes unsolicited to a random like that.
impossible
he's a prude
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This is the down side of love bombing. Now your discovering the skeletons in his closet.
If multiple women are throwing themselves at him, repeatedly, it'd be naive to think he's an innocent bystander in all this.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by virgoOPPPi'm not jealous, just annoyed like i didn't even know it's a thing for other females to be throwing themselves randomly at unsuspecting men.
Its not a thing. We are hardwired to fear rejection and have less experience with it then men (speaking about romantic rejection).
So I wouldn't assume it was random and he was unsuspecting.
He sent some mixed signals, may have even had a fling with this woman at one point. No way she sends nudes unsolicited to a random like that.
impossible
he's a prude
This is the down side of love bombing. Now your discovering the skeletons in his closet.
If multiple women are throwing themselves at him, repeatedly, it'd be naive to think he's an innocent bystander in all this.
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he's just way too sweet and friendly...unlike me. you gotta twist my arm to be friends with me lol.
or be an aquarius so i don't suspect you're trying to attach.
he told me that my anti-social attitude is one of the reasons he likes me so much coz he feels he can trust me more.
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by virgoOPPPi'm not jealous, just annoyed like i didn't even know it's a thing for other females to be throwing themselves randomly at unsuspecting men.
Its not a thing. We are hardwired to fear rejection and have less experience with it then men (speaking about romantic rejection).
So I wouldn't assume it was random and he was unsuspecting.
He sent some mixed signals, may have even had a fling with this woman at one point. No way she sends nudes unsolicited to a random like that.
impossible
he's a prude
This is the down side of love bombing. Now your discovering the skeletons in his closet.
If multiple women are throwing themselves at him, repeatedly, it'd be naive to think he's an innocent bystander in all this.
he's just way too sweet and friendly...unlike me. you gotta twist my arm to be friends with me lol.
or be an aquarius so i don't suspect you're trying to attach
he told me that my anti-social attitude is one of the reasons he likes me so much coz he feels he can trust me more.
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The sweet and friendly facade is part of the love bombing. Wait until you meet the real him at around the 2 year mark.
women will throw themselves at attractive and/or powerful men....its not uncommon at all....what I don't understand is the connection you're trying to make betw. this and his clinginess...like, how are the two supposed to be related?
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by virgoOPPPi'm not jealous, just annoyed like i didn't even know it's a thing for other females to be throwing themselves randomly at unsuspecting men.
Its not a thing. We are hardwired to fear rejection and have less experience with it then men (speaking about romantic rejection).
So I wouldn't assume it was random and he was unsuspecting.
He sent some mixed signals, may have even had a fling with this woman at one point. No way she sends nudes unsolicited to a random like that.
impossible
he's a prude
This is the down side of love bombing. Now your discovering the skeletons in his closet.
If multiple women are throwing themselves at him, repeatedly, it'd be naive to think he's an innocent bystander in all this.
he's just way too sweet and friendly...unlike me. you gotta twist my arm to be friends with me lol.
or be an aquarius so i don't suspect you're trying to attach
he told me that my anti-social attitude is one of the reasons he likes me so much coz he feels he can trust me more.
The sweet and friendly facade is part of the love bombing. Wait until you meet the real him at around the 2 year mark.click to expand
i'm a love bomber so we're usually good sports about these things
meh i'll just go with the flow
Posted by Metatronwomen will throw themselves at attractive and/or powerful men....its not uncommon at all....what I don't understand is the connection you're trying to make betw. this and his clinginess...like, how are the two supposed to be related?
we have yet to post pics together online (coz i'm so embarrassed about that recent breakup with the aries)
just odd how he's particularly manic that day
even repeated that story about how he prayed (he's super religious) then met me right after
he associates me with a prayer he made at the start of this year like even as a non=pisces woman, one can imagine how it'd be very difficult to cheat on that
Posted by PhantumWhy is it that none of your posts make any sense but we still pretend we believe you?
how does it not make sense?
@Phantum
you can just f u c k off my threads
or BLOCK me
you know that right?
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by Metatronwomen will throw themselves at attractive and/or powerful men....its not uncommon at all....what I don't understand is the connection you're trying to make betw. this and his clinginess...like, how are the two supposed to be related?
we have yet to post pics together online (coz i'm so embarrassed about that recent breakup with the aries)
just odd how he's particularly manic that day
even repeated that story about how he prayed (he's super religious) then met me right after
he associates me with a prayer he made at the start of this year like even as a non=pisces woman, one can imagine how it'd be very difficult to cheat on that
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sounds like he is just faithfully vetting satan's hoes, holding fast to what the good lord has provided...
Posted by MetatronPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by Metatronwomen will throw themselves at attractive and/or powerful men....its not uncommon at all....what I don't understand is the connection you're trying to make betw. this and his clinginess...like, how are the two supposed to be related?
we have yet to post pics together online (coz i'm so embarrassed about that recent breakup with the aries)
just odd how he's particularly manic that day
even repeated that story about how he prayed (he's super religious) then met me right after
he associates me with a prayer he made at the start of this year like even as a non=pisces woman, one can imagine how it'd be very difficult to cheat on that
sounds like he is just faithfully vetting satan's hoes, holding fast to what the good lord has provided...
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lmao i love to study people
Posted by virgoOPPPso i'm not clingy enough 🤔🤔
I CAN CHANGE 😭😭
OMG!! Would this even work, if I told a Virgo this??
Please don't give me any ideas! 😭
Posted by PhantumPosted by virgoOPPP@Phantum
you can just f u c k off my threads
or BLOCK me
you know that right?
I sure do.
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Fish moon Vs Fish moon. CAT FIIIIIIGHT!!!
Believe it or not, that's all the offense they can muster, because they're too fat and tire themselves out instantly.
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by PhantumPosted by virgoOPPP@Phantum
you can just f u c k off my threads
or BLOCK me
you know that right?
I sure do.
Fish moon Vs Fish moon. CAT FIIIIIIGHT!!!
Believe it or not, that's all the offense they can muster, because they're too fat and tire themselves out instantly.
https://i.imgur.com/JftOlUQ.gif
whose side are you on?
you saw how she's suddenly on the offensive
I think the correlation between his sudden clinginess and women throwing themselves at him is guilt...not necessarily because he's done anything dodgy (although that's a possibility) but because he feels bad for you....
Posted by MyStarsShineI think the correlation between his sudden clinginess and women throwing themselves at him is guilt...not necessarily because he's done anything dodgy (although that's a possibility) but because he feels bad for you....
wait what?
why does he 'feel bad' for me?
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by MyStarsShineI think the correlation between his sudden clinginess and women throwing themselves at him is guilt...not necessarily because he's done anything dodgy (although that's a possibility) but because he feels bad for you....
wait what?
why does he 'feel bad' for me?
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Women throwing themselves at him
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by MyStarsShineI think the correlation between his sudden clinginess and women throwing themselves at him is guilt...not necessarily because he's done anything dodgy (although that's a possibility) but because he feels bad for you....
wait what?
why does he 'feel bad' for me?
Women throwing themselves at him
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i still don't get it
like i don't even talk about other guys around him
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by MyStarsShineI think the correlation between his sudden clinginess and women throwing themselves at him is guilt...not necessarily because he's done anything dodgy (although that's a possibility) but because he feels bad for you....
wait what?
why does he 'feel bad' for me?
Women throwing themselves at him
i still don't get it
like i don't even talk about other guys around him
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He told you about the women throwing themselves at him?
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by MyStarsShineI think the correlation between his sudden clinginess and women throwing themselves at him is guilt...not necessarily because he's done anything dodgy (although that's a possibility) but because he feels bad for you....
wait what?
why does he 'feel bad' for me?
Women throwing themselves at him
i still don't get it
like i don't even talk about other guys around him
He told you about the women throwing themselves at him?
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yes these 2 separate instances
first instance he told me before we were intimate
then the the 2nd one just the other day
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by PhantumPosted by virgoOPPP@Phantum
you can just f u c k off my threads
or BLOCK me
you know that right?
I sure do.
Fish moon Vs Fish moon. CAT FIIIIIIGHT!!!
Believe it or not, that's all the offense they can muster, because they're too fat and tire themselves out instantly.
whose side are you on?
you saw how she's suddenly on the offensive
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LMFAO I was talking about the cats being too fat to tussle properly, not you.
Besides, my support is an earned privilege, not a given. It's only reserved for those who defended me when I was the one being unfairly attacked. And you, my dear Sierra, have never had my back. So to answer your question:
But it doesn't matter anyway, Phantum is just riding the cotton pony from the looks of it. Hilarious 🤣🤣🤣
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by PhantumPosted by virgoOPPP@Phantum
you can just f u c k off my threads
or BLOCK me
you know that right?
I sure do.
Fish moon Vs Fish moon. CAT FIIIIIIGHT!!!
Believe it or not, that's all the offense they can muster, because they're too fat and tire themselves out instantly.
whose side are you on?
you saw how she's suddenly on the offensive
LMFAO I was talking about the cats being too fat to tussle properly, not you.
Besides, my support is an earned privilege, not a given. It's only reserved for those who defended me when I was the one being unfairly attacked. And you, my dear Sierra, have never had my back. So to answer your question:
But it doesn't matter anyway, Phantum is just riding the cotton pony from the looks of it. Hilarious 🤣🤣🤣
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you kidding?
i just remember you getting paranoid over some pm
funny coz it's not like i even talk to people here
i'm just mad that some people happily participate in my threads while making resentful side comments about something that happened almost a year ago now. in the next thread.
like what's that about?
nobody died nor is it even a big deal.
just being fake nice to me in one thread then being resentful the next.
classic gemini.
i've only ever expected small penis men to react, not exactly WHITE FEMALES.
Posted by PhantumPosted by virgoOPPPi'm just mad that some people happily participate in my threads while making resentful side comments about something that happened almost a year ago now. in the next.
like what's that about?
nobody died nor is it even a big deal.
just being fake nice to me in one thread then being resentful the next.
classic gemini.
lol
I can still see you, ya know.
I'm not fake. I was nice to you when you admitted who you were and acted like you were going to be honest now, but you're still just lying through your teeth.
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that's your opinion
i have a way of telling very simple events this way
could've just been vague but i'd rather be detailed
you can choose to believe it or not
but the way you came off to me,
you must understand why i'd read it that way
@Phantum and if you really think about the situation:
other women throwing themselves at OP boyfriend
what has this specific situation, troll or reality has taken away from your life?
that's my only concern regarding your resentment and encroachment
Posted by PhantumPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by PhantumPosted by virgoOPPPi'm just mad that some people happily participate in my threads while making resentful side comments about something that happened almost a year ago now. in the next.
like what's that about?
nobody died nor is it even a big deal.
just being fake nice to me in one thread then being resentful the next.
classic gemini.
lol
I can still see you, ya know.
I'm not fake. I was nice to you when you admitted who you were and acted like you were going to be honest now, but you're still just lying through your teeth.
that's your opinion
i have a way of telling very simple events this way
could've just been vague but i'd rather be detailed
you can choose to believe it or not
but the way you came off to me,
you must understand why i'd read it that way
I really don't have anything against you personally. I'm just bitchy today, I reckon. I'll attempt to stay our of your threads. lol
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alright that's fair
maybe it's the supermoon
Posted by PhantumPosted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by PhantumPosted by virgoOPPP@Phantum
you can just f u c k off my threads
or BLOCK me
you know that right?
I sure do.
Fish moon Vs Fish moon. CAT FIIIIIIGHT!!!
Believe it or not, that's all the offense they can muster, because they're too fat and tire themselves out instantly.
whose side are you on?
you saw how she's suddenly on the offensive
LMFAO I was talking about the cats being too fat to tussle properly, not you.
Besides, my support is an earned privilege, not a given. It's only reserved for those who defended me when I was the one being unfairly attacked. And you, my dear Sierra, have never had my back. So to answer your question:
But it doesn't matter anyway, Phantum is just riding the cotton pony from the looks of it. Hilarious 🤣🤣🤣
You wanna ride? Hop on. I'll take you to Bitch Town.
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Fly lower, Icarus, lest you get burned.
In the meantime, I wasn't kidding. They really are too fat to fight properly, like the rassling matches in the 70s and 80s that went on for an hour. 5 moves each, and then rest-holds for 30 minutes.
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so this cap sun/pisces moon guy was extra clingy the other day and was telling me how he felt like we don't spend enough time with each other all that much. it's almost as if he got more clingy right after we became more intimate but i've become more distant. i have no idea why the dynamic suddenly shifted but that's how it is.
but then i find out later today that some random girl from facebook (not even his friend) sent him nudes outta nowhere and i'm like.... is this somehow connected to him being extra clingy the other day? (the same day some girl tried to throw herself at him again?)
and he even gave me a lengthy speech about the strength of our relationship (don't ask, he's a pisces moon).
what's that about?
i'm not jealous, just annoyed like i didn't even know it's a thing for other females to be throwing themselves randomly at unsuspecting men. there's also that chick back in his office (married with kids) who pretended to be drunk after their team karaoke and attempted to kiss him. this why i don't do gross things like 'make friends' with unvetted people in the office.
protect yourself from unvetted hoes is all i got from this.