Cancer woman confused by Virgo man

Well....I read here all kind of stories about Virgo men...and still don't know what to believe...
I am in love with a Virgo man and I am sure about this.
He used to like me a lot and he did lots of nice things for me in the past, those things someone who really cares do...
We were just friends and at that time I was not so much attracted to him.
Afterwards, I was away for 4 months and we kept on messaging and chatting and that was the time when he shared his feelings and that he would want me back and to be more than friends.... We started to share those flirty messages, i found very romantic that every morning he sent me "good morning" (and he still does)... I started to thnk more and more about him and us being together. And finally happened. I came back, we started to date, but i had the feeling things are not the same as far as he was acting. Not so much wanted to spend time with me or talk to me, not too much going out with me.
We shared intimacy and after, his reaction shocked me. He told me he wants us just friends again. I discussed with him trying to find some sensible reason for all that. He denied seeing someone else or not caring for me, telling me that he only doesn't want to have a relationship.
After some time, we met and he told me that he wants me only for sex, nothing more. I felt miserable and I couldn't believe is the same man I used to know.
I confronted him again and I tried to find all the answers I wanted - which was I think a big mistake.
I just want him back the same old one. He still sends me the "good morning" message, daily, he tells me that he cares for me and he is not interested in anybody.... I am confused and completely messed up.... Any idea here for my silly situation?? Tell me anything - anything might help me... Thanks

is my story so bad? no opinion? (:

thanks, stargirl for sharing your thoughts... i agree with you, it sounds complicated here, maybe that's why i am so puzzled. let him time and space - yes i do now. no calls or messages from me, just reply when smth comes from him. we don't go out, just from time to time he helps mewith some small issues. and the morning greetings. i am decided to give him some time...

"he told me that he wants me only for sex, nothing more"



Seeing that you are in here, pining away, regardless ... I'm certain that the above will be an acceptable position for you in his life.

Moonstruck,

A Virgo Man can use & abuse you as well as any other man. Forget about him, and move on...

Words/Phrases Strings used ...

he was horny
wanted a piece of ass
slithered back into his SELFISH!!! domain
self-centered
anti-commitment
emotional juvenile
Psychological Brainwashers/Manipulators

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"I almost used the word "abusive" in my posts, but I figured someone would just come on here and tell me I was being way too overbearing."



rflmao @ Strings ... if that isn't riding Dyr's balls, I don't know what is. You know ..

.. people actually comprehend.

Ah... Angelina! Everybody wants a piece of me... please, get in line!

you all...thanks....i feel like shit, but please, keep writing any thoughts coming to your mind.....
i know the third party sees things more clear, in an objective manner, that's why i put a piece of my story here.
of course the full story is not that simple at all, but....who the hell cares for more—
i just wish sometimes i was a Virgo...

XXX for all

ok, we are censored...i meant i feel like % ^&*(( or let's be academic - like crap

this was a good one, indeed Sagi LOL; the truth is he just said that, ever since we had sex just 1 time.... that's why i got so confused about all this story. im only for sex, but he is not using me (as he said - he doesn't want to treat me like that because he loves me....).....but is a good idea to answer as you suggested, even though I have never been rude.....

Moonstruck .. it's all about sex. A relationship with a Virgo is based, built, reinforced, maintained .. all around sex.

These men don't know how to express emotions on a level in which a water person does .... and THROUGH sexuality is where they aim.

It will always be about sex .... with all Virgos you attempt to secure.

Alright, I'll clarify for you ... several terms used in your description were much worse than "abusive", and others actually described "abusive", such as Manipulators.

When reading this .. we comprehend that you were describing the behaviour of an abusive person.

Then .. as soon as Dyr wrote that word, you jumped on it, saying you wanted to say that but thought people would think you were being overbearing ... when in reality, you had already presented yourself as being overbearing in your lengthy description.

It was just an opportunity to ride Dyr's balls .... points.

There, now that I simplified that for you, can you grasp?

Moonstruck, the above post ^^^ was for Strings.

P-Angel: Moonstruck .. it's all about sex. A relationship with a Virgo is based, built, reinforced, maintained .. all around sex.

Bullshit! What Angelina meant to say was that HER relationship with HER Virgo Husband revolves around sex, and otherwise he's an empty shell...

I'm married to a Scorpio woman, and we relate on many different levels - mental, physical, and emotional. Men in general, and Virgo men in particular, ARE NOT "mushy" if they're straight. Virgo men are often very clumsy in dealing with emotional situations. BUT, when we love someone, we make the effort to understand and communicate -- whatever the level. Even when we don't succeed, we still try...

just to relax a bit the atmosphere here....something funny... he wants us to celebrate my birthday together? isn't it sweet??
Strings you make sense. And somehow, all of you. I read your oppinions here and to be honest, really helps me.
You people know the Cancerians....too much feeling. But I like myself a lot and I like to feel. I don't mind feeling a Virgo from time to time also.... but this one broke my heart...
Somehow, in my heart, I hoped to read something encouraging me I should give him time to "process" as i was told. I should be wiser I guess than that.
I keep on reading. Don't stop writing. Maybe later on I can bring my contribution to your confusions also... XXX