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UPDATE:

So today at motocross I gave him heaps of space but not in an awkward or obvious way, just spoke to all our other friends heaps etc... He messaged me later on saying "dinner at hogs breath at 7pm if your keen little darling"

This is what he used to call me all the time when we were all good... Obviously I really wanted to go with him but I decided to go have dinner with one of my girlfriends in stead so I said "I'm on my way to have dinner with el but I hope ur dinner is delecious 🙂"

So this is what I used to be like at the begining! I'm also gonna sleep at my own house tonight instead of his... Hopefully if I can keep this up I won't be insecure with the relationship anymore and go back to being my independent self like I was at the start!

Oh... :/ haha oops.

Although he sent that nice message I won't be surprised if he goes back to being distant and mean.. I really don't understand him, is it a virgo thing? Is this kind of the "push pull" thing everyone talks about? I feel like I'm getting my hopes up and I feel like the relationship might never be like it was at the beginning and I'm really lost as what to do. 😢 i feel like he's unsure of what he wants.. And that kills me. Why can't he decide if he wants me or doesn't? And if he doesn't why can't he just break up with me already? Why pull me along for a joy ride? Can someone please explain to me WHY? I don't get it. I don't think he intentionally wants to hurt me but its becoming too much for me, I am literally going crazy, I hate this feeling so much & I should be happy that he was nice yesterday but I'm still not I still sense that something isn't right. 😭

but he seams quite content with what he wants out of life? He loves his job and every boss he has ever had think hes the greatest worker of all time, he has saved a ridiculous amount of money for a house which he will be buying within the next few months, he loves keeping himself healthy and fit, he has a good group of friends, he has so many hobbies etc. overall he seams to enjoy life, which is great. So I don't know? Seams at the moment I'm the one that he's confused about in regards of what he wants. Unless there is something deeper? I'm not sure if he will ever get over his brothers death, but he says he's fine about it? But I know he thinks about it alot and blames himself alot for it.. He's not that close with his parents, he gets along with them well now but when he was younger he didn't at all.. His mum is nice but he never met eye to eye with his dad, even though they get along now and I think when he was young his dad blamed him for the brothers death, he didn't verbally say it but its how he made him feel. His very close to his two other brothers, he is soo good with them it's lovely. But he makes a big effort to see his grandparents very often and uncles etc which is really good... Hmm I don't know. You are right though there is no point in trying to force it out of him.. So I need to learn patience. I am going to try distract myself with reading, doing my own hobbies etc. I feel like I am subconsciously blaming him for my unhappiness but at the end of the day me being happy is my own job and I shouldn't rely on anyone else to make me happy. I am trying very hard to be positive and look at the good things in life that I have despite my break down the last few days. I need to control myself again otherwise ill go insane.

I know CC, that's what I'm trying to do now! He's 25 in august

I hate how we females sometimes lose ourselves in a relationship, especially when guys like him, they don't know what they want and just string you along, we totally lose control of our lives, he gets distant and we get more insecure to the point when even the most insignificant thing like a "nice" message makes us keep hope...
He is not doing anything for you, if you didn't go to his place at 8:30 am you probably would still be waiting for him to initiate contact, you said he was nice with you that morning, did he say i thought about us and I love you and I am willing to make an effort... No he was just decent, he let you in, he was making a smoothie for himself so he offered you one, what was he supposed to do kick you out? When confronted he didn't give you a definite answer, he wanted space, you didn't give him or you any and now you guys are in this weird relationship where you know he wants out and he is just keeping you at arm's lenght...
You are so used to feeling bad that anything makes you happy, he is not crazy about you, showering you with attention, showing you his love everyday... He is doing nothing, you ask why he doesn't end it— He is just hoping that one day you get so fed up with his wishy washy behavior that you would end it... Any other girl as young and beautiful as you with just a little tinny bit of more self- estime would have done it a while ago... 😢

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maybe aussie boys are different to americans?? haha..

i worshipped the ground that he walked on. 😢

That was the problem. He knew he had you in the palm of his hand.

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We all have been guilty of the worship. I cheat and worship at the same time tho. We have all been guilty at some point....

LmAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO SAG89 I'm sorry, but your the funniest poster on DXP..the shit you say.

GOLd.

I CHEAT and WORSHIP at the SAME time THO...

Haha it's the sag honesty, just flys out!

but how do you do that, separate your emotions to be able to do that, i want to go sleep with men right now, but i can't..i still feel loyal to the Virgo although he's possibly getting around town.

you are having an imaginary relationship.

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I agree.

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Posted by scorpio24
😭 😭 😭 😭 😭 😭 😭

Ya I did the tears thing too against the wall. I did the throwing up thing. I did the anxiety body full of pain thing for weeks. I lost weight.

Why suffer? Let it go....

whoa it just happened to the poor girl. this post says i, i, i me mre me so do the,virgo posts. i heart you cc but it seems as tho you have a hard time seeing outside of yourself sometimes just sayin.

You know what sucks about this it's happening to so many women. I need to get around people that are happy in their relationships, because this just depresses me so much, like I'll never find love. that it's impossible.

DXP can be depressing sometimes. Especially lately. All these men cheating on their girlfriends, people breaking up left and right.

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So I think there is a positive side to all of this, the difficult times are put in our lives as a learning opportunity, it depends what we choose to do that makes all the difference.

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Absolutely...you now have a great relationship because you learned. You focused on YOU to see what it was you needed to change about yourself. You weren't ready for love then, but since you've been through those experiences & applied what you've learned, you became a better woman & was ready for love. 🙂

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Posted by moongirljj
In other words go back to being the woman he first met, the woman who isn't afraid or impacted by his every move. Back to the time before any fear of losing him even entered your head.

its just so hard to do cause im so insecure in the relationship (not with myself)

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But you are insecure with yourself. It shows.

WHY is he stringing me along then— by sending that nice message...

i just dont understand, i think i might give it a week or two of just trying to live my life and be independent and sleep at my own house most of the time and give him a huge amount of space etc and if he's just gonna continue stringing me along after i give him alot of distancing/letting him be completely free etc then i think i might just have to end it. it will be so hard though and i am so afraid ill regret it.. 😢 (i think thats why he isnt breaking up with me? cause he is scared he will regret it so he's trying to mess up my head so that I am the one who does it and then he wont feel bad about kissing other girls, and being the mean one—)

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WHY is he stringing me along then— by sending that nice message...

i just dont understand, i think i might give it a week or two of just trying to live my life and be independent and sleep at my own house most of the time and give him a huge amount of space etc and if he's just gonna continue stringing me along after i give him alot of distancing/letting him be completely free etc then i think i might just have to end it. it will be so hard though and i am so afraid ill regret it.. 😢 (i think thats why he isnt breaking up with me? cause he is scared he will regret it so he's trying to mess up my head so that I am the one who does it and then he wont feel bad about kissing other girls, and being the mean one—)

He's stringing you along because he knows that you will jump. Carrot dangling...you know. Any little thing he does is going to rile you up & he's aware of this. It's some form of comfort to him, knowing that you'll always be around for him...ego boost.

He doesn't regret a thing, he already broke up with you, really? Focus on yourself. You are giving him way too much power over you & your happiness. To hell with him, get YOURSELF in order & stop worrying about him. Do you REALLY think that he's thinking about your every move, & obsessing about what you're doing? I doubt it.

well if it comes to the point where i break up with him i think i will do it in a very scorpian way and tell him i dont want to but have to and its not my fault its his lol and say that the only reason he isnt breaking up with me is so he doesnt look like the bad one etc.


!!!!!

and stand up to him and tell him that i like myself the way that i am and that im an idiot for letting him try tell me who i should be etc.

i am so sad i will never get over him

Because he feels bad for you and also bc he has the perfect situation, a girl that worships him, that sleeps at his house every night, tends to his physical & emotional needs whenever he feels like, and put up with his BS and all of this with MINIMUN EFFORT on his part. That's why...

Awww scorp...you are only 22 darling. You have plenty of time to get serious with someone that actually deserves you!
You're a scorp...they make it thru anything 🙂. You'll be fine...and soon Virgo boy won't even enter your mind!

no, hes born on the 24th of august! but he turns 25 this year!

we both have moon in capricorn which is maybe why we get along.

his venus is in cancer mine is libra

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i keep getting waves of emotions, one minute im like "yeah ill be fine, who cares if we break up" next i become anxious.

i havent been eating much either 😢 which is my bodies way of responding to shock.

***we both have moon in capricon which is maybe why we got along to begin with

his mars is aries mine is gemini


please explain??

im not good at charts, and please explain why it makes sense that my venus is libra

Posted by tiziani
A Libra Venus. Suddenly a lot of things make a lot of sense without needing words lol

I have a Libra Venus :-P

also, i have noticed all the times we have been rocky have been through a mecury retrograde 😐

his mecury is virgo mine is scorpio

does that mean the intensity of his logical thinking/confusion is even stronger?

i feel like this whole situation is karma for me.

this is honestly the first long term relationship i have been in where I am the obsessive one.. in my past 2 relationships the boy has been left heartbroken and i just completely cut them off and moved on. there was also another boy who i was only really with for like a month, he broke up with me cause we didnt click that well.. then he came back after a week and i wasnt interested and he expressed his love for me.

:/ i feel like im getting karma for breaking all these boys hearts 😢 (i never cheated on any of them or anything like that, simply just got bored of them or lost interest)

😭

Posted by scorpio24
no, hes born on the 24th of august! but he turns 25 this year!

we both have moon in capricorn which is maybe why we get along.

his venus is in cancer mine is libra

😢

i keep getting waves of emotions, one minute im like "yeah ill be fine, who cares if we break up" next i become anxious.

i havent been eating much either 😢 which is my bodies way of responding to shock.

Cancer in Venus. That's why he doesn't let go. Cancers have a hard time letting go of the past. If you want peace just end it cold turkey or leave it as is BUT focus on yourself first. STOP thinking and analyzing every DETAIL he says or does. the message was nice but that's it, it was JUST a message. Leave him alone, do want you have to and if it's meant to be he will come to you.

I thought I was emotional and overthinking and overanalyzing. STOP IT. Take it for what it is. Most of the time, guys, Virgo or no Virgo texts mean nothing. He typed it and pressed sent. Now leave it. And him. Do your own b!tter.

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A Libra Venus. Suddenly a lot of things make a lot of sense without needing words lol

*clears throat* & what does ^^^THAT mean? Lol.

All I can say is when a Virgo LOVES you, they will make everything easy for you, you won't feel unlove...

Posted by CluelessCancer
Can i get some advise as well. Virgo been calling me on the regular. We talk about random stuff. I don't discuss us. I'm trying to learn detachment. So he made my work I'm progress go down the drain when he said he called me this past Friday or Saturday to go out for coffee. I didn't see a missed call and told him. He was like I'm not lying. I was like didn't say that. So we continue to converse about other things and he says he wishes i was in bed with him . I'm life you're a funny guy. He goes is that a good or bad thing. I was like it's interesting how you play hot and cold. But it's not bad out good, it is what it us. I'm trying to keep my cool. He says well ill be boring than and not be that funny guy. Are you mad? I said nope. Really i I'm trying to learn how to detach emotionally. Than i asked him how life was in general and he replies life is smooth as glass.

That really hurt me because I'm in extreme pain and he's living smooth as glass— Urff than he says he'll call me tomorrow, but he won't, cause he never keeps his word....the other day he mentioned maturity and forgiveness. I cut him off stating i didn't want to talk about that. I wonder now what he was going to say...hmmm missed moment...but I'm so into the detachment part, i don't want to discuss that stuff and get rejected all over again. What you guys think—

I was with a Virgo before, I waited around to see if some day he will realize how amazing I was and make the effort to be together, CC I was patient for a year, a rollercoaster ride is the best way to deacribe it... Then I was done, I started dating and found myself a boyfriend, when he cound out through FB he called me and told me he loved me, he said everythinng I wanted to hear for the whole year, he asked me to break up with my bf, he wanted me and he wanted is to be together officially... The next day he sent me a message saying that he said all of those thongs last night and he felt them at that moment but not anymore lol, that I wanted everything and it was hard for him... Yadda yadda yadda... I said you know what, I knew this was going to happen, you are hot, you are cold and there is nothjng wrong with it, that's who you are, you don't even know why you feel and do the things you do, the problem here is not you, it was me that accepted those terms in spite of how I felt, I never thought for a minute tk break u

** I never consider for a minute to break up with my bf, I knew thos was going to happen and you are absolutely right I want and deserve everything, We are done.
My advice is to move on, go out there and force yourself to date others, make sure he knows about it, if you want to keep jn contact do so if he initiates but treat him like what he is now, just another guy you talk to, not the center of your life. Some book I read advices that to prevent focusing too much in one guy and developjng felings too soon you should date at least 3 guys, i did it and it works :-)
You know you deserve better than what you are getting, go out and find it, I did and J couldn't be happier

I know is hard bc you wonder if you dkn't want me why don't you stop calling??!!! They never do, to this day he contacts me from time to time, he knows I am jn a relationship and he is too, he texted me recently saying how I am still in his mind.... My best friend was married to a Virgo, they have a child together, he is married with kids, she is married and expecting another child, to this day after 10 years since they are done he sends her texts saying how she is the love of his life and wonders how happy they would have been if they never broke up...
You have to see his attempts to keep kn touch for what they mean, ASOLUTELY NOTHING lol

Your not needy. Your with a man that is incapable of loving and thinking of other people. Since you can it makes him feel bad about himself because he can't.

Feel sorry for him.


Your stronger and braver than he will ever be. You feel. You feel a lot. You will find love that is reciprocal because of that.

UPDATE:

so lastnight I went to his, it was only meant to be a quick 2 hour visit.. I was acting like my usual happy self but wasnt trying to cuddle him etc like I usually do.. I just acted like I didn't care.. Anyway so when it was bed time he was like "ok I'm going to bed and started turning the tv off etc so I was like "okay cya I'm going home!" And he wasnt expecting that, so he was like well sleepover so I did.. And we slept together which is good cause it had been 5 days and i wanted to lol. but after usually when we lye in bed IM the one who is always like can u cuddle me etc and sometimes he does but sometimes he wants to go straight to sleep.. This time I just acted like I didn't care and was like okayy night!! And turned around, he didn't quite cuddle me but he was being silly and annoying me by coming real close and sniffing my face and neck LOL (he is very attracted to my natural smell) hahaha. But I just didn't even retaliate and turned over cause it was annoying me (secretly I loved the attention lol) anyway despite all thay, things are still not resolved and i feel like the situation is being ignored, so this morning we wake up and I was VERY strong and I firmly said "look, if you want to break up can you please just do it already, I feel like you're pushing me to do it" and he very clearly and firmly and in an annoyed toned was like "no I don't want to break up tash" and I said "well I feel like your stringing me along and I'm sick of not knowing where I stand so if you need to just break up with me, i feel like you want me to do it so you don't feel guilty" and he again in the same clear a bit aggressive tone said "tash, if I wanted to break up with you I would just do it! All I want is a bit of a break" (like we have been having)

So yes.... :/ I'm confused.. I basically gave him a opportunity to just break up with me in a clear strong way, I didn't cry AT all so it's not like he would have felt bad, I made it easy for him and he was so clear that he didn't want to?

What the..?

"so lastnight I went to his, it was only meant to be a quick 2 hour visit.. I was acting like my usual happy self but wasnt trying to cuddle him etc like I usually do.. I just acted like I didn't care..."
FAIL you are still the one initiating going to his place

"so I was like "okay cya I'm going home!" And he wasnt expecting that, so he was like well sleepover so I did.. And we slept together..."
FAIL if you say i am going home then you follow through and go home!!!! you were already there so yeah he wanted you to stay over, sorry but what guy is going to turn down sex... Again you are not getting what you want but he continues to get all of his needs taken care of in the most convenient way... He wants a break from you, makes no effort at all but of course you continue to make it so easy for him...

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Posted by Sag89
Your not needy. Your with a man that is incapable of loving and thinking of other people. Since you can it makes him feel bad about himself because he can't.

Feel sorry for him.


Your stronger and braver than he will ever be. You feel. You feel a lot. You will find love that is reciprocal because of that.

Hell yes she's NEEDY...so what...feeling alot doesn't entail your not a NEEDY person..sometimes you have to check yourself before you WRECK yourself.

Control your Emotions before they CONTROL you.

She's lucky she's learning this at 22 and not having a mid life crisis, like I am.

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No she isn't. Everything she has wanted or expected has been rational. He is a totally self absorbed ass who tries to hide it by playing " nice guy " he constantly shames her for having emotions. Normal people don't do that.

the only thing she is doing wrong is expecting he is capable of loving her.

I don't think he is an ass, he is living his life and dealing with his emotions and feelings within his capacity, he doesn't know better, the problem is not what other people do to you, the problem arises when you allow it to hurt you. He could find some other girl that just want to have fun, that recognizes him as somene incapable of having a relationship and she would be fine with it because she is not looking for someone to complete her, she will not be hurt by the way he acts...
The issue here is that she is going through hell, she is constantly wondering when is he going to break it off, she is anxious, doesn't sleep, doesn't eat and is not his fault, is her responsability to accept that the situation is not good for her and walk away.
You cannot change people, he will not fix all his issues because or for her, we only have control of our life, we can only change our circumstances and how we react to what happen to us or what other people do to us...

Posted by CluelessCancer
Can i get some advise as well. Virgo been calling me on the regular. We talk about random stuff. I don't discuss us. I'm trying to learn detachment. So he made my work I'm progress go down the drain when he said he called me this past Friday or Saturday to go out for coffee. I didn't see a missed call and told him. He was like I'm not lying. I was like didn't say that. So we continue to converse about other things and he says he wishes i was in bed with him . I'm life you're a funny guy. He goes is that a good or bad thing. I was like it's interesting how you play hot and cold. But it's not bad out good, it is what it us. I'm trying to keep my cool. He says well ill be boring than and not be that funny guy. Are you mad? I said nope. Really i I'm trying to learn how to detach emotionally. Than i asked him how life was in general and he replies life is smooth as glass.

I have a little advice that could help, but its ONLY if YOU want him. If he's hurt you too deeply beyond repair, then don't read this & tell him to move on:
But The fact that your Virgo still comes around shows he's still interested. It is possible to detach your emotions & not have super sensitive touchy conversations. You cancers are good at being witty & flirty. Use that instead of coldness ! The key to hooking a Virgo is through our minds first....mental stimulation. Then the rest of our bodies will follow, including our hearts! That witty, spicy, flirtation cancers do is addicting!!

For example, your guy said he wished you was over at his place. You should've said, "if I was over there what would we do? 😉" Flirt back, Yes, flirt! If he wants to have hot steamy convos, go along too! You're not scared of him! Because you are in control....He's the one that's gonna be falling for it not you! And then DO NOT once again, DO NOT actually run over to his place...Don't actually jump when he says jump. You remind him that he's been a very naughty boy & only good boys get your time. Yes, this is called being hard to get...Some might even call this being a tease. My point is, Continue to NOT give your emotions until he deserves it. But make him WANT to chase you. Make him drool over you by using that great intellect. If possible, Forget that emotional stuff like he's doing & have some fun with him. He'll become more hot than cold 🙂

^^^^ Soooo wait, you two aren't a couple anymore —?? Like its over ??

Yea If you & him are broken up, then by all means DO NOT advertise sex with !!!! I was thinking he was only being hot & cold.

Yes disregard that last post lol. He gets NO love!! haha. Carry on girl 🙂

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^^^^ Soooo wait, you two aren't a couple anymore —?? Like its over ??

Yea If you & him are broken up, then by all means DO NOT advertise sex with !!!! I was thinking he was only being hot & cold.

Yes disregard that last post lol. He gets NO love!! haha. Carry on girl 🙂

Well he is being hot and cold, one week he tells me he doesn't want to be in a relationship, the next week he's talking about maturity and forgiveness..

he doesn't know what he wants. So I'm going to stick to my guns right now.

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I am curious, were you guys ever a couple? Or the issue is the fact that he is hot & cold about making a commitment??

Posted by CluelessCancer
If a guy has to fake love me and he stated it, i don't know how I'd be able to allow him to touch me let alone ask him about us. Sag you're right lots of people can't handle emotion or are unable to reciprocate, but you also have to ask yourself, does this hurt me to the point, i don't love myself anymore. You are loving too much when you're obsessing over him, his feelings, his needs. What about you—?

I don't understand what your point is?

Listen to me, Scorpio24. He really likes you, he just doesn't know it yet. Yes, he's playing you, it's just that you make him feel like a God the way things are. Show your independence, your strength and resolve. Don't play games with him, because that can taint the relationship, so show your love to him unconditionally, but be your own PERSON. Get hobbies, be passionate about something you're really passionate about, describe how it makes you feel and why. Get a job you like, laugh, enjoy life. Structure your mentality positively. And then hope he understands reciprocity and how to give back his love that you know is lying under there.

And if I'm wrong, life goes on...

Sounds like he keeps you around scorpio24 because he wants convenient sex and he may like you as a person but does not want to be in a relationship with you. Thats why he wants you to end it so he won't feel like a bad guy.

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Okay it all makes sense now.... I'm totally behind you on this. Since he doesn't know what he wants, don't attach In kind of way. Keep reading & building confidence within yourself.

The more independent you become.....the more dependent he becomes.

Many attractive men OR men with big egos can't understand how ANY woman doesn't want them. It's something about being rejected that draws human beings in (both men & women). Someone's need to reject us makes them MORE desirable to us in a twisted way...this is what's happening to your Virgo. You not needing him makes him kinda clingy. Makes him want to keep you...He doesn't know how to leave. You are desirable to him! So you're doing good to not let him get too close to you until he's WITH you. You deserve to be in a consistent relationship. He's going to have to man up & lead if he wants to keep you because your catch 🙂

^^^^ this was for cluelesscancer 🙂

Posted by virgoking
Sounds like he keeps you around scorpio24 because he wants convenient sex and he may like you as a person but does not want to be in a relationship with you. Thats why he wants you to end it so he won't feel like a bad guy.

it's one of those things where you have to be there to know.. it's easy for the things i say on dxp to be taken differently.. but i usually have quite good intuition and i know that he doesnt want to keep me around for that reason.. before he commited to me he had quite a few girls who liked him.. he shooed them all off when he began dating me but these are the type of girls that would jump right in there if me and him broke up and i think he knows that too. during the night i actually was the one who hinted that i needed some bedroom time lol. kind of embarassing to write that on here which is why i didnt ^^^^ but yeah..

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^^^^ this was for cluelesscancer 🙂

😢 oh hahaa

okay okay ill chill out. just hard to do when im a overthinking emotional SCORPIO. ahh

this is a bit off topic but.. earlier in this thread i said how i had a few little dreams and then it actually happened the next day (like my zip on a particular pair of denim shorts broke)

well i find it heaps interesting cause not long ago i had a dream that my parents decided we were going to move into a bigger and nicer house (i live with them) they have had the house we have now for around 15 years.. anyway, my mum just texted me before saying that her and my dad are strongly thinking of moving to a bigger and nicer house. i also had a dream that my boyfriend will be buying a house very soon (he's been planning to and saving his $ ) and lastnight he was teling me about how he will be buying it in the next couple of months.

hopefully my dreams about my virgo telling me he DOES love me and need me will come true too. haha, but seriously.. everything i have been dreaming lately is coming true!

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Posted by CluelessCancer
If a guy has to fake love me and he stated it, i don't know how I'd be able to allow him to touch me let alone ask him about us. Sag you're right lots of people can't handle emotion or are unable to reciprocate, but you also have to ask yourself, does this hurt me to the point, i don't love myself anymore. You are loving too much when you're obsessing over him, his feelings, his needs. What about you—?

I don't understand what your point is?

My point is that nobody else is responsible for your emotional and mental well being except for you! So giving expecting to receive is pointless. Of course we water signs love reciprocity, but if we are not going to get it, its going to just make us sick.

so why make yourself sick. Make yourself better.

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Expecting yo receive from someone who is incapable yes, in general no.

Smh...haha.

i think im slowly getting stronger...

i sent him a message this morning saying have a nice day 🙂 and he hasnt written back... lol usually im really sad about it but im not bothered that much.. i guess the last few days might have toughened me up??

i know ive said this before.. but i am actually just not going to contact him for the next 3/4 days. hopefully he will contact me by then, do u think he will by everything you guys have read ^^^^

i ate normally today too thank goodness.

okay.. i only just wrote that ^^^ 5 minutes ago.. and he has just sent me a message saying "night x"

im not going to write back, cause why should i?

when he starts initiating more contact what should i do virgos? i dont want to play mind games.. but i dont want to be straight at his feet because HE decided he wanted to contact me after stringing me along... :/ lol

^^i haven't been following your thread and i just read your last post... all i can say is, i do that too... all the time... whenever someone texts me, i always feel that i needed to text back... but that is strange coz you texted him in the morning, but he texted back at night? @_@