men and women cheat!

I am sooooo sick of people saying they ony cheated for sex..... people cheat for more then just sex!!!! Its something deeper then sex. people cheat because somewhere along the way their ego was bruised. and they have sex to feel wanted and feel good for the time. But wake up people. only you yourself can find the way to fix a bruised ego...

hahaha. i am not saying in doesnt feel good. but I dont think people cheat just to have sex.

so its that simple? so why not just leave 1st then have sex with who ever.

Depends. Sex brings some things to some, other things to others. So...
Yes...and No....depending on who you are.

Wow, I'm not EVEN trying to be cryptic and that came out weird. Time for more coffee.

all I am saying s I dont agree with the line "oh it was just sex" nope that just doesnt sit well with me. not saying one is right or wrong. it is what it is. I am just saying I dislike when I hear that line.

thats my point they dont just cheat for sex.. people are looking for something more. the sex is just a quick fix for the moment.

if you only cheated to bust a nut. to cum. or whatever.. why not just play with your self? that feels good. I do it all the time.hehehe

*Yes -- there is a mental element to it.

thats all I am saying. . its a deeper issue.

just had to vent..

Mn cheat...women cheat....we hear the morning after lines...she was easy!, he was horney!, i Just needed a quik pick-me up!....I hadn't got it in ages!!!.......none of those bullshit lines are true......they SOUND GOODD TO the ego limited cabaualry ///sex in the cityish stuffy.....bottom line, u think so god dam little of yourself at this PAAARTICULAAR MONENT IN time, THAT anyone, from Eric Roberts to Frazier!!!...will make you feel a little bit better ego-wiser...but look into your dam soul the following SOULFUL morning and no matter how sparkly you speak of someone and their sexual prowness.....you soul is going down to the bottom floor...........WHO can pick it and you up— AS USUAL IT'S ONLY YOU AND YOU ALONE...YOU MAY HAVE ERIC RBERTS,BRITNEY SPEARS OR WHOEVER YOUR DREAM GUY/GAL MAY BE BUT FO YOU BLISFULLY" 100 TIMES FUCKUFLLY ANY BETTER!!?? my REAL QUEATION IS ...MAKE LOVE TO YOUR LOVELY OR MAKE LOVETO YOUR FANTANWY BEAUTY....—?WHAT THE BEST—

AX

I have no idea what you just said.

Instead, I'll just say .... I agree with you Misskarma .... sex outside of a commitment comes from an emotional place, not a physical one.

fs, did you seriously just say that you have no qualms in sleeping with another woman's man .... KNOWING he was HER man?

::: shakes head :::

I will say even after thinking about this subject a little man. I believe there may be very few people who just cheat for sex. VERY FEW!

I think it depends on the person and what their needs are at the time. In my opinion the need is not only sex. people just want to feel wanted

I have to say Plz just leave me 1st.. I dont care how many kids we have or what the money looks like leave and take the money with you.. because at the end of the day when you have busted a few nuts here and there . you will soon start to look and feel stupid .Sex only fills the need for the moment!! I think sex is a spirit.. I mean dont get me wrong its good but is it really worth money, family, your mind?

So, is this about the Scorpio man that you talked about on the Scorp board last month, where your relationship with him was based around just the sex, and then you decided to tell him your period was late to get a reaction out of him .... and now, since you want him on a different level than just sex, that him sleeping with others has gotten under your skin?

Or, is this about a new man?

If it's a new man, then we're talking about a brand new relationship trying to develop ... why would "cheating" even be in the mind at all to ponder?

FS, you have a sex drive. As a Sag I have to say I can live without. For months.
I had my first man with 23. First kiss with 22.

Don't worry LikeBrad, you are not alone at all

I had my first sexual thing until the age of 21 hahahaha, so its fine -- I had my reasons for not being so quick to blow or screw a guy and I wasn't ashamed of it. Plus, the group of friends that I had/have are into other things and all of us feared getting preggy or getting one of those diseases or whatever lol.

At the time, I felt I was ready but now that I think about it, I should have waited alonger hahaha, seriously. I should've just waited until I was married or something, but noooo me with my overly-proactive self just had to do it *shakes head*

Now here's the thing, I feel as if I can't get satisfied now 😢 😢 😢 its terrible. It was a disaster with my last boyfriend .... no details, its way too complicated lol.

I'm not sure what it is but its like I need something that none of the other guys I've been with can give me, and I'm not quite sure I know what it is either lol -- its the stupid Aqua Venus I have I guess ... its like that Rolling Stones song actually 😄

My first kiss was at the age of 15 though. This could have been the means to the end if I wasn't so focused on school, trying to do well kept my legs closed for a while along with a few family members 🙂

I have to say Plz just leave me 1st.. I dont care how many kids we have or what the money looks like leave and take the money with you.. because at the end of the day when you have busted a few nuts here and there . you will soon start to look and feel stupid .

I agree with you there MK 🙂 No self-respecting person whats a whore -- this applies to both men and women.

hahaha P_angel.. well is it really important who I am talking about? I have heard this line from many people my post LAST month is not really important.

as i said I just feel like men and women cheat for more reasns then just sex... wow.. sum people just cant stay out the past... oh well see y they are so miserable. Today is a newday!!!hehehehe

how can sum1 cheat if they establish a just sex relationship.. thats not cheating he is and was not my husband nor boyfriend... I am talking about cheating on this board thanks!!

Not really miserable on my end .. cheating, unloyalty, lying about periods to fuck with mens heads .. really doesn't enter my mind unless someone else brings it up.

"I am sooooo sick of people saying they ony cheated for sex"

To say the above the way you did .. to put 5 o's after the s infers that you are very very very tired of hearing about cheating. So, this topic didn't come up as just a random question that popped in your head because you wanted to think up an interesting topic to post about.

The word "cheating" comes up often in your relations for you to be able to get sick of hearing about it.

So, I find this curious ... are you finding yourselves having to ask another about their reasons for cheating, and this is what you hear, or are you hanging around hoes who are often put on the spot about cheating, or are your men constantly asking you about your cheating.

This has made you "sooooo" sick of hearing ... why do you hear it all the time to even make you sick?

WOOOOOOOOOOW!!!!!!! count the OOOOOOOOOOO's hehehehehe

thanks to those who actually responded to the post from this month

If someone cheats, its not about the sex, theres a deeper reason.
Theyre trying to get something that their partner isnt giving them.
Usually its on an emotional level.

It is a temporary fix but alas, the usual conclusion is that the relationship doesnt survive in the end.

OR
maybe they really arent trying to get something that their partner isnt giving them. maybe they are just sluts/whores that NEED to have sex with someone other than their so called boyfriend/girlfriend... you know, i hear its called a 'habit'

if you do something consistently, then its hard to break out of it. call it a rut. call it a mold. call it routine. whatever you want. if they LIKE having sex with more than one person, and they try to get into a relationship, then im CERTAIN that they will cheat, not because of lack of something, but because they are so used to going around that its just second nature. or like my ex would say: Force of Habit.

sad but true.