Please don't tell me all Virgo men live double lives!!!

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I don't want to believe this to be true but I have a number of men (friends and family) in my life that are Virgos. They all have this sneaky vibe about them in which I've always told myself that I would never... ever date one, ..well never say never...

Brief background: I met this guy back in October at a bar & the second question he asked me (after my name of course) was "what is your sign?" I told him Virgo and he replied back "me too." I jokingly said 'oh you live a double life' and we both laughed it off, exchanged a few more words and switched numbers... I saved his name in my phone as 'double life' (yes, I know I'm childish need to grow up). He called me about 2-3 nights later and reminded me of the 'double life' joke & in my head I'm thinking it has to have some truths to that statement because he brought it back up (I know i'm a super Virgo and over analyze things), but instead we laugh it off and moved on with our conversations. Soooooo.... after about 1 month of talking I stopped hearing from him & about another month later I ran into him with another girl at the movies!!! But I was in no shape or form bothered by it. It is what it is...

Fast forward.. about 2 months ago, I ran into him again and he was telling me how much he thinks about me and all this other butter. Since then he has been pretty consistent. He calls me every morning on his way to work and text me throughout the day, but there is one huge red flag... I don't hear from him when hes at home! Me being me, I never brought it to his attention because in my head I didn't think I could ever take him serious anyways. So the story gets a little more interesting... one Saturday morning he asked me to meet him at the mall near my house. When I get there, he has flowers for me, I thought that was nice of him. He then asked me if I could help him pick out a purse for his mom. We get to the store & I picked out this really cute purse... he went to pay for it then gave me that the bag and told me it was for me to keep. He later told me, 'I've never done anything like this to a girl I barely know but there's something about you.' I couldn't stop smiling for some reason and I thought to myself that he's really sweet.

So, I finally brought it to his attention on why I don't hear from him when he's at home. He told me when he gets home he goes to bed. BS excuse but I didn't want to argue over that so I changed the subject. Since that conversation I have not heard a word from him. However, he text me today after about two weeks of not hearing from him asking if he could take me to dinner tonight. I haven't replied and don't think I'm going to.

What is up with this Virgo man? I thought maybes its his moon sign (Aquarius) as to why he disappears like that? Any ideas or advice?
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Posted by Boots1313
Read your post...did you ask if he had a gf? Look him up on social media? I mean tall aren't dating or even exclusive so he's allowed right now to "lead a double life"

Let me know when you guys date and he lies about his 2 other gfs and his closet drug addiction. ..then we will talk.
Lol! Funny you mention me looking him on social media because that's the first thing I do when I meet someone, but he doesn't have social media. I've asked him more than a few times if he's involved with someone and he swears hes single *rolls eyes*
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Read your post...did you ask if he had a gf? Look him up on social media? I mean tall aren't dating or even exclusive so he's allowed right now to "lead a double life"

Let me know when you guys date and he lies about his 2 other gfs and his closet drug addiction. ..then we will talk.

Lol! Funny you mention me looking him on social media because that's the first thing I do when I meet someone, but he doesn't have social media. I've asked him more than a few times if he's involved with someone and he swears hes single *rolls eyes* click to expand
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Well. Just don't get too excited is all I can say.

And don't sleep with him unless you know for sure.

But I had 2 Virgo bfs who were cheats and 3 others I was hooking up with who "swore" they were single. ..ha, they certainly werent!
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Read your post...did you ask if he had a gf? Look him up on social media? I mean tall aren't dating or even exclusive so he's allowed right now to "lead a double life"

Let me know when you guys date and he lies about his 2 other gfs and his closet drug addiction. ..then we will talk.



Lol! Funny you mention me looking him on social media because that's the first thing I do when I meet someone, but he doesn't have social media. I've asked him more than a few times if he's involved with someone and he swears hes single *rolls eyes* click to expand
also familiar...mine "didn't have it" either until we were committed and he made a new fresh account. Ofc I knew he had one before just under different name... click to expand
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Now I wouldn't be surprised if he had one especially one under a different name.
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I mean, c'mon, you know what's up already.

Did you ask him who the girl was he was with? When he went missing before?

Sounds like a 9-5 Casanova, who goes home to his girlfriend.



He told me the girl was just a date, nothing serious but see idk... something ain't right with him click to expand

Then you know all you need to know.
And who buys a woman a purse after 2 weeks?
To me that sounds like a 'forget what you just saw' gesture.

Was it on sale? Cheap ass Virgo men ain't splurging on anything unless they covering up something. click to expand
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Who hurt you?
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I mean, c'mon, you know what's up already.

Did you ask him who the girl was he was with? When he went missing before?

Sounds like a 9-5 Casanova, who goes home to his girlfriend.



He told me the girl was just a date, nothing serious but see idk... something ain't right with him click to expand



Then you know all you need to know.
And who buys a woman a purse after 2 weeks?
To me that sounds like a 'forget what you just saw' gesture.

Was it on sale? Cheap ass Virgo men ain't splurging on anything unless they covering up something. click to expand



Who hurt you? click to expand

A cheap ass Virgo mans..
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I noticed.

This is a safe place...let it all out.
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Posted by MadHatter
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I mean, c'mon, you know what's up already.

Did you ask him who the girl was he was with? When he went missing before?

Sounds like a 9-5 Casanova, who goes home to his girlfriend.



He told me the girl was just a date, nothing serious but see idk... something ain't right with him click to expand

Then you know all you need to know.
And who buys a woman a purse after 2 weeks?
To me that sounds like a 'forget what you just saw' gesture.

Was it on sale? Cheap ass Virgo men ain't splurging on anything unless they covering up something. click to expand
click to expand

This is true! They are cheap and only splurge when they got caught up or about to get caught up! The purse was about $ 90
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He has someone else. Probably still with the other girl/woman but he's not happy in relationship just isn't sure about breaking it up yet.
Exactly how my Virgo acted in exact same situation...



After reading your post...I'm leaning towards this as well. click to expand
To me it sounds like that. I'll also add that content Virgo in relationship doesn't cheat. This one sounds like he's definitely hiding someone and behavior sounds incredibly familiar to me but then again, probably valuating his interests still in her and possible other girl click to expand
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Any sign can cheat. My one awful Virgo the worst relationship I ever had. Had me move in with him after two weeks (I was 21 and infatuated)...when I found other girls underwwar in my laundry it was "his sisters" who was staying with us. Then there was the drawer with the lock on it...when I finally cracked it open one day oh boy all hell broke lose.

Found out about the drugs and the two other girls. This was 7 years ago. He still hits me up and even though he's in a relationship with one if the girls he was cheating on me with....he tells me I'm the best thing to ever happen to him and how "real" our connection was. He's an idiot and if I forgave him he would come running back. Hahahahaah absolutely not!
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Posted by Boots1313
Read your post...did you ask if he had a gf? Look him up on social media? I mean tall aren't dating or even exclusive so he's allowed right now to "lead a double life"

Let me know when you guys date and he lies about his 2 other gfs and his closet drug addiction. ..then we will talk.



Lol! Funny you mention me looking him on social media because that's the first thing I do when I meet someone, but he doesn't have social media. I've asked him more than a few times if he's involved with someone and he swears hes single *rolls eyes* click to expand


also familiar...mine "didn't have it" either until we were committed and he made a new fresh account. Ofc I knew he had one before just under different name... click to expand



Now I wouldn't be surprised if he had one especially one under a different name. click to expand
Not talking to you when he's home is a huge red flag. Also, how did he act when you saw him with that girl? Was he looking nervous or uncomfortable? click to expand
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He hurried and turned the other direction hoping I didn't see him, but I saw his ass good and clear.
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I mean, c'mon, you know what's up already.

Did you ask him who the girl was he was with? When he went missing before?

Sounds like a 9-5 Casanova, who goes home to his girlfriend.



He told me the girl was just a date, nothing serious but see idk... something ain't right with him click to expand



Then you know all you need to know.
And who buys a woman a purse after 2 weeks?
To me that sounds like a 'forget what you just saw' gesture.

Was it on sale? Cheap ass Virgo men ain't splurging on anything unless they covering up something. click to expand

This is true! They are cheap and only splurge when they got caught up or about to get caught up! The purse was about $ 90 click to expand
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Damn...I don't even buy myself $ 90 purses..
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Posted by MadHatter
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Posted by MadHatter
I mean, c'mon, you know what's up already.

Did you ask him who the girl was he was with? When he went missing before?

Sounds like a 9-5 Casanova, who goes home to his girlfriend.



He told me the girl was just a date, nothing serious but see idk... something ain't right with him click to expand



Then you know all you need to know.
And who buys a woman a purse after 2 weeks?
To me that sounds like a 'forget what you just saw' gesture.

Was it on sale? Cheap ass Virgo men ain't splurging on anything unless they covering up something. click to expandclick to expandclick to expandclick to expandclick to expandclick to expand
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99% True... they're chintzy as hell.

Exception: LEO Moon. ♡


Maybe Aqua moon is alright, being

on the other end of the axis, but I can't verify that.
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Posted by MadHatter
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Posted by MadHatter
I mean, c'mon, you know what's up already.

Did you ask him who the girl was he was with? When he went missing before?

Sounds like a 9-5 Casanova, who goes home to his girlfriend.



He told me the girl was just a date, nothing serious but see idk... something ain't right with him click to expand



Then you know all you need to know.
And who buys a woman a purse after 2 weeks?
To me that sounds like a 'forget what you just saw' gesture.

Was it on sale? Cheap ass Virgo men ain't splurging on anything unless they covering up something. click to expand



Who hurt you? click to expand



A cheap ass Virgo mans..
click to expand



I noticed.
This is a safe place...let it all out.
click to expand

Do you not read the Taurus forum?

I don't wanna talk about it. Lol

Jk.

My best friend of 30+ years is a virgo married to a Cap now, but when they first got married he did this kinda shit... and his Cap is hawt.. the other girls weren't.. I didn't get it... but whatever.. click to expand
click to expand

There is a Taurus forum?? Lies..

Did the Cap know and not care or he was just good at hiding all of it?
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I mean, c'mon, you know what's up already.

Did you ask him who the girl was he was with? When he went missing before?

Sounds like a 9-5 Casanova, who goes home to his girlfriend.



He told me the girl was just a date, nothing serious but see idk... something ain't right with him click to expand



Then you know all you need to know.
And who buys a woman a purse after 2 weeks?
To me that sounds like a 'forget what you just saw' gesture.

Was it on sale? Cheap ass Virgo men ain't splurging on anything unless they covering up something. click to expandclick to expandclick to expandclick to expandclick to expandclick to expand



99% True... they're chintzy as hell.

Exception: LEO Moon. ♡


Maybe Aqua moon is alright, being

on the other end of the axis, but I can't verify that. click to expand
click to expand

Virgos with Leo moons are the best...













😂😋
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Posted by MadHatter
I mean, c'mon, you know what's up already.

Did you ask him who the girl was he was with? When he went missing before?

Sounds like a 9-5 Casanova, who goes home to his girlfriend.



He told me the girl was just a date, nothing serious but see idk... something ain't right with him click to expand



Then you know all you need to know.
And who buys a woman a purse after 2 weeks?
To me that sounds like a 'forget what you just saw' gesture.

Was it on sale? Cheap ass Virgo men ain't splurging on anything unless they covering up something. click to expand



Who hurt you? click to expand



A cheap ass Virgo mans..
click to expand



I noticed.
This is a safe place...let it all out.
click to expand



Do you not read the Taurus forum?

I don't wanna talk about it. Lol

Jk.

My best friend of 30+ years is a virgo married to a Cap now, but when they first got married he did this kinda butter... and his Cap is hawt.. the other girls weren't.. I didn't get it... but whatever.. click to expand



There is a Taurus forum?? Lies..

Did the Cap know and not care or he was just good at hiding all of it? click to expand

I don't think she knew. I kinda thought the ugly chick's were part of his scheme.. why would she think he's cheating with ugly girls when his wife was hawt? That doesn't make sense.

And that's the kinda scheming he was always up to back then. click to expand
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Ahhh...I hate to say this but that is kinda genius while also being horrible and dirty to do to someone else.
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I mean, c'mon, you know what's up already.

Did you ask him who the girl was he was with? When he went missing before?

Sounds like a 9-5 Casanova, who goes home to his girlfriend.



He told me the girl was just a date, nothing serious but see idk... something ain't right with him click to expand



Then you know all you need to know.
And who buys a woman a purse after 2 weeks?
To me that sounds like a 'forget what you just saw' gesture.

Was it on sale? Cheap ass Virgo men ain't splurging on anything unless they covering up something. click to expand



Who hurt you? click to expand



A cheap ass Virgo mans..
click to expand



I noticed.
This is a safe place...let it all out.
click to expand



Do you not read the Taurus forum?

I don't wanna talk about it. Lol

Jk.

My best friend of 30+ years is a virgo married to a Cap now, but when they first got married he did this kinda butter... and his Cap is hawt.. the other girls weren't.. I didn't get it... but whatever.. click to expand



There is a Taurus forum?? Lies..

Did the Cap know and not care or he was just good at hiding all of it? click to expand



I don't think she knew. I kinda thought the ugly chick's were part of his scheme.. why would she think he's cheating with ugly girls when his wife was hawt? That doesn't make sense.

And that's the kinda scheming he was always up to back then. click to expand


Similar thing as my Pisces friend. His wife was pretty sweet Cancer girl but he cheated a lot. Once I saw him with a girl he cheated on, cause he stopped the car and offered to take me home as I was waiting for a bus....she was plain, much uglier and older, really nothing impressive about her. Can't even compare her to his wife but yep he cheated with those kind of girls... click to expand

I didn't get it. I was like find a hot girl if you're gonna do that so if your wife finds out you

A) don't look stupid if everyone finds out.

B) at least have a decent looking backup if shit hits the fan lol.


Disclaimer: I do not condone cheating on your spouse or SO.

But if you do... it should be a lateral or forward move. click to expand
click to expand

Yessss. Thank you...I completely agree.

If you gonna cheat...you better upgrade and make it worth it.

Disclaimer: I also don't condone cheating.
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Posted by MadHatter
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Posted by MadHatter
I mean, c'mon, you know what's up already.

Did you ask him who the girl was he was with? When he went missing before?

Sounds like a 9-5 Casanova, who goes home to his girlfriend.



He told me the girl was just a date, nothing serious but see idk... something ain't right with him click to expand



Then you know all you need to know.
And who buys a woman a purse after 2 weeks?
To me that sounds like a 'forget what you just saw' gesture.

Was it on sale? Cheap ass Virgo men ain't splurging on anything unless they covering up something. click to expand



This is true! They are cheap and only splurge when they got caught up or about to get caught up! The purse was about $ 90 click to expand

Damn...I don't even buy myself $ 90 purses.. click to expand
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You and me both
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Posted by MadHatter
I mean, c'mon, you know what's up already.

Did you ask him who the girl was he was with? When he went missing before?

Sounds like a 9-5 Casanova, who goes home to his girlfriend.



He told me the girl was just a date, nothing serious but see idk... something ain't right with him click to expand



Then you know all you need to know.
And who buys a woman a purse after 2 weeks?
To me that sounds like a 'forget what you just saw' gesture.

Was it on sale? Cheap ass Virgo men ain't splurging on anything unless they covering up something. click to expand



Who hurt you? click to expand



A cheap ass Virgo mans..
click to expand



I noticed.
This is a safe place...let it all out.
click to expand



Do you not read the Taurus forum?

I don't wanna talk about it. Lol

Jk.

My best friend of 30+ years is a virgo married to a Cap now, but when they first got married he did this kinda butter... and his Cap is hawt.. the other girls weren't.. I didn't get it... but whatever.. click to expand



There is a Taurus forum?? Lies..

Did the Cap know and not care or he was just good at hiding all of it? click to expand



I don't think she knew. I kinda thought the ugly chick's were part of his scheme.. why would she think he's cheating with ugly girls when his wife was hawt? That doesn't make sense.

And that's the kinda scheming he was always up to back then. click to expand


Similar thing as my Pisces friend. His wife was pretty sweet Cancer girl but he cheated a lot. Once I saw him with a girl he cheated on, cause he stopped the car and offered to take me home as I was waiting for a bus....she was plain, much uglier and older, really nothing impressive about her. Can't even compare her to his wife but yep he cheated with those kind of girls... click to expand



I didn't get it. I was like find a hot girl if you're gonna do that so if your wife finds out you

A) don't look stupid if everyone finds out.

B) at least have a decent looking backup if shit hits the fan lol.


Disclaimer: I do not condone cheating on your spouse or SO.

But if you do... it should be a lateral or forward move. click to expand

Yessss. Thank you...I completely agree.

If you gonna cheat...you better upgrade and make it worth it.

Disclaimer: I also don't condone cheating. click to expand
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In the words of my cheating Virgo brother. If you’re going to cheat fcuk up never fcuk down 🙄
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I mean, c'mon, you know what's up already.

Did you ask him who the girl was he was with? When he went missing before?

Sounds like a 9-5 Casanova, who goes home to his girlfriend.



He told me the girl was just a date, nothing serious but see idk... something ain't right with him click to expand



Then you know all you need to know.
And who buys a woman a purse after 2 weeks?
To me that sounds like a 'forget what you just saw' gesture.

Was it on sale? Cheap ass Virgo men ain't splurging on anything unless they covering up something. click to expand



Who hurt you? click to expand



A cheap ass Virgo mans..
click to expand



I noticed.
This is a safe place...let it all out.
click to expand



Do you not read the Taurus forum?

I don't wanna talk about it. Lol

Jk.

My best friend of 30+ years is a virgo married to a Cap now, but when they first got married he did this kinda butter... and his Cap is hawt.. the other girls weren't.. I didn't get it... but whatever.. click to expand



There is a Taurus forum?? Lies..

Did the Cap know and not care or he was just good at hiding all of it? click to expand



I don't think she knew. I kinda thought the ugly chick's were part of his scheme.. why would she think he's cheating with ugly girls when his wife was hawt? That doesn't make sense.

And that's the kinda scheming he was always up to back then. click to expand


Similar thing as my Pisces friend. His wife was pretty sweet Cancer girl but he cheated a lot. Once I saw him with a girl he cheated on, cause he stopped the car and offered to take me home as I was waiting for a bus....she was plain, much uglier and older, really nothing impressive about her. Can't even compare her to his wife but yep he cheated with those kind of girls... click to expand



I didn't get it. I was like find a hot girl if you're gonna do that so if your wife finds out you

A) don't look stupid if everyone finds out.

B) at least have a decent looking backup if butter hits the fan lol.


Disclaimer: I do not condone cheating on your spouse or SO.

But if you do... it should be a lateral or forward move. click to expand



Yessss. Thank you...I completely agree.

If you gonna cheat...you better upgrade and make it worth it.

Disclaimer: I also don't condone cheating. click to expand


Dan right! And you better be saving your money for all dem purses! Lol click to expand
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Whose Dan? Is that the cheap ass Virgo man that hurt you? 😋
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I mean, c'mon, you know what's up already.

Did you ask him who the girl was he was with? When he went missing before?

Sounds like a 9-5 Casanova, who goes home to his girlfriend.



He told me the girl was just a date, nothing serious but see idk... something ain't right with him click to expand



Then you know all you need to know.
And who buys a woman a purse after 2 weeks?
To me that sounds like a 'forget what you just saw' gesture.

Was it on sale? Cheap ass Virgo men ain't splurging on anything unless they covering up something. click to expand



Who hurt you? click to expand



A cheap ass Virgo mans..
click to expand



I noticed.
This is a safe place...let it all out.
click to expand



Do you not read the Taurus forum?

I don't wanna talk about it. Lol

Jk.

My best friend of 30+ years is a virgo married to a Cap now, but when they first got married he did this kinda butter... and his Cap is hawt.. the other girls weren't.. I didn't get it... but whatever.. click to expand



There is a Taurus forum?? Lies..

Did the Cap know and not care or he was just good at hiding all of it? click to expand



I don't think she knew. I kinda thought the ugly chick's were part of his scheme.. why would she think he's cheating with ugly girls when his wife was hawt? That doesn't make sense.

And that's the kinda scheming he was always up to back then. click to expand


Similar thing as my Pisces friend. His wife was pretty sweet Cancer girl but he cheated a lot. Once I saw him with a girl he cheated on, cause he stopped the car and offered to take me home as I was waiting for a bus....she was plain, much uglier and older, really nothing impressive about her. Can't even compare her to his wife but yep he cheated with those kind of girls... click to expand



I didn't get it. I was like find a hot girl if you're gonna do that so if your wife finds out you

A) don't look stupid if everyone finds out.

B) at least have a decent looking backup if butter hits the fan lol.


Disclaimer: I do not condone cheating on your spouse or SO.

But if you do... it should be a lateral or forward move. click to expand



Yessss. Thank you...I completely agree.

If you gonna cheat...you better upgrade and make it worth it.

Disclaimer: I also don't condone cheating. click to expand




Dan right! And you better be saving your money for all dem purses! Lol click to expand



Whose Dan? Is that the cheap ass Virgo man that hurt you? 😋 click to expand
He cant get him off his mind. Virgo dickmatized. click to expand
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There is no escaping that virguy magic stick..
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I mean, c'mon, you know what's up already.

Did you ask him who the girl was he was with? When he went missing before?

Sounds like a 9-5 Casanova, who goes home to his girlfriend.



He told me the girl was just a date, nothing serious but see idk... something ain't right with him click to expand



Then you know all you need to know.
And who buys a woman a purse after 2 weeks?
To me that sounds like a 'forget what you just saw' gesture.

Was it on sale? Cheap ass Virgo men ain't splurging on anything unless they covering up something. click to expand



Who hurt you? click to expand



A cheap ass Virgo mans..
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I noticed.
This is a safe place...let it all out.
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Do you not read the Taurus forum?

I don't wanna talk about it. Lol

Jk.

My best friend of 30+ years is a virgo married to a Cap now, but when they first got married he did this kinda butter... and his Cap is hawt.. the other girls weren't.. I didn't get it... but whatever.. click to expand



There is a Taurus forum?? Lies..

Did the Cap know and not care or he was just good at hiding all of it? click to expand



I don't think she knew. I kinda thought the ugly chick's were part of his scheme.. why would she think he's cheating with ugly girls when his wife was hawt? That doesn't make sense.

And that's the kinda scheming he was always up to back then. click to expand


Similar thing as my Pisces friend. His wife was pretty sweet Cancer girl but he cheated a lot. Once I saw him with a girl he cheated on, cause he stopped the car and offered to take me home as I was waiting for a bus....she was plain, much uglier and older, really nothing impressive about her. Can't even compare her to his wife but yep he cheated with those kind of girls... click to expand



I didn't get it. I was like find a hot girl if you're gonna do that so if your wife finds out you

A) don't look stupid if everyone finds out.

B) at least have a decent looking backup if shit hits the fan lol.


Disclaimer: I do not condone cheating on your spouse or SO.

But if you do... it should be a lateral or forward move. click to expand



Yessss. Thank you...I completely agree.

If you gonna cheat...you better upgrade and make it worth it.

Disclaimer: I also don't condone cheating. click to expand

In the words of my cheating Virgo brother. If you’re going to cheat fcuk up never fcuk down 🙄 click to expand
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Hahaha...he ain't wrong.
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Just admit it, you already have a crush on him long way back but didn't know he had a girlfriend already and there's no calling, chasing or whatsoever, he just probably talk to you one time in a friendly way and you assume he likes you but he doesn't really after that you haven't seen him since then and now you're hoping and waiting for a miracle to happen that he will come to your door and say "I love you" but *cricket, cricket, tumbleweed passes by in the dessert, spider web, and skeleton sitting on the chair* waiting for nothing moment. Now, after 1 month or whatever you ran into him again and saw him with his girlfriend and now you got jealous and disappointed because you didn't know he had a girlfriend already. Now you're lying down in a dark room being petty because your dream didn't come true as boyfriend and girlfriend.
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Gurrrrl, I'd buy you sunglasses more expensive than that. Pretty sure I left my most expensive shades in the car I sold last year because I can't find them anywhere. Its so bright out. Its making me so sad.



I'm a sunglass just like me. click to expand


I'll buy you some that are super reflective so I can see when youre staring at other ass. click to expand



I'll only stare at the uggos... swear. click to expand


More shades for you 😎🤑 click to expand

I'm not cheap... I'm a Maui Jim guy. click to expand
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😯 What's Dan gonna say?
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Gurrrrl, I'd buy you sunglasses more expensive than that. Pretty sure I left my most expensive shades in the car I sold last year because I can't find them anywhere. Its so bright out. Its making me so sad.



I'm a sunglass just like me. click to expand


I'll buy you some that are super reflective so I can see when youre staring at other ass. click to expand



I'll only stare at the uggos... swear. click to expand


More shades for you 😎🤑 click to expand



I'm not cheap... I'm a Maui Jim guy. click to expand


As long as youre okay with me cheating down. click to expand

That'd be your only option. click to expand
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Someone's Leo Rising is showing...
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I think in that sense female and male Virgo are not so different we do not like to break things off unless we are really sure and the feeling is gone. There could be 2 things possible he is trying to move on while still being in the relationship so it's easier to break up but he doesn't want to tell you because he's afraid that you won't continu with him specially if he likes you he will not take the risk to ruin it with you. He can also can be dating 2 women and you're one of them. I have been guilty of doing that in the past but I would talk to multiple guys but actually never seeing them so when you do see each other that means you're probably important to him
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Definitely not a Virgo though...




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You should def still do this to him:

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Mess with his head and send him a blank text? (This site is so exasperating) But no need for me to do anything, bebe. Karma took care of it nicely. click to expand
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Ugh...it really is!

But good...glad karma took care of his ass!!
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Another little story:

My friend was hooking up casually with this guy. She never got his name we just referenced to him by his nickname "HICK" which everyone called him. He would disappear for weeks at a time and then hit her up and they would spend 3 or 4 nights together. Again it was very casual and she wasn't looking for a relationship so the arrangement worked for her.

Recently I saw this guy at a BBQ and with him was a gorgeous smart, funny blonde who I came to find out was his gf, whom he lived with for the last 3 years!!

His gf is a flight attendant and I guess when she's away....

I immediately texted my friend and told her. 3 days later he texted me friend for a good time. She asked him where his gf was...he didn't respond.

His sign : Virgo
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Another little story:
My friend was hooking up casually with this guy. She never got his name we just referenced to him by his nickname "HICK" which everyone called him. He would disappear for weeks at a time and then hit her up and they would spend 3 or 4 nights together. Again it was very casual and she wasn't looking for a relationship so the arrangement worked for her.
Recently I saw this guy at a BBQ and with him was a gorgeous smart, funny blonde who I came to find out was his gf, whom he lived with for the last 3 years!!
His gf is a flight attendant and I guess when she's away....
I immediately texted my friend and told her. 3 days later he texted me friend for a good time. She asked him where his gf was...he didn't respond.
His sign : Virgo

Just curious:

Would you say his gf was prettier than your friend or vice-versa? click to expand
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Well I turned to my bf and said...if his gf is so hot what is he doing with my friend...

My friend isn't hideous but she's shorter and on the heavier side and I kind of consider her a "dude chick" where his gf was the definition of a bombshell...with intellect
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Another little story:
My friend was hooking up casually with this guy. She never got his name we just referenced to him by his nickname "HICK" which everyone called him. He would disappear for weeks at a time and then hit her up and they would spend 3 or 4 nights together. Again it was very casual and she wasn't looking for a relationship so the arrangement worked for her.
Recently I saw this guy at a BBQ and with him was a gorgeous smart, funny blonde who I came to find out was his gf, whom he lived with for the last 3 years!!
His gf is a flight attendant and I guess when she's away....
I immediately texted my friend and told her. 3 days later he texted me friend for a good time. She asked him where his gf was...he didn't respond.
His sign : Virgo



Just curious:

Would you say his gf was prettier than your friend or vice-versa? click to expand
Well I turned to my bf and said...if his gf is so hot what is he doing with my friend...
My friend isn't hideous but she's shorter and on the heavier side and I kind of consider her a "dude chick" where his gf was the definition of a bombshell...with intellect click to expand
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I have heard my friend is a good lay tho...and she has a reputation for being "easy"...which I don't think she is.
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Posted by MadHatter
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Another little story:
My friend was hooking up casually with this guy. She never got his name we just referenced to him by his nickname "HICK" which everyone called him. He would disappear for weeks at a time and then hit her up and they would spend 3 or 4 nights together. Again it was very casual and she wasn't looking for a relationship so the arrangement worked for her.
Recently I saw this guy at a BBQ and with him was a gorgeous smart, funny blonde who I came to find out was his gf, whom he lived with for the last 3 years!!
His gf is a flight attendant and I guess when she's away....
I immediately texted my friend and told her. 3 days later he texted me friend for a good time. She asked him where his gf was...he didn't respond.
His sign : Virgo



Just curious:

Would you say his gf was prettier than your friend or vice-versa? click to expand


Well I turned to my bf and said...if his gf is so hot what is he doing with my friend...
My friend isn't hideous but she's shorter and on the heavier side and I kind of consider her a "dude chick" where his gf was the definition of a bombshell...with intellect click to expand

Hmm. Maybe there's something to that for Virgo guys. IDK

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Why is this a pattern you have noticed? I hear typically the girls who someone is cheating with arent as attractive as their s.o.
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Brief background: I met this guy back in October at a bar & the second question he asked me (after my name of course) was "what is your sign?" I told him Virgo and he replied back "me too." I jokingly said 'oh you live a double life' and we both laughed it off, exchanged a few more words and switched numbers... I saved his name in my phone as 'double life' (yes, I know I'm childish need to grow up). He called me about 2-3 nights later and reminded me of the 'double life' joke & in my head I'm thinking it has to have some truths to that statement because he brought it back up (I know i'm a super Virgo and over analyze things), but instead we laugh it off and moved on with our conversations.

What is up with this Virgo man? I thought maybes its his moon sign (Aquarius) as to why he disappears like that? Any ideas or advice?



A. He thinks you're cool with it because you brought up "double life" and laughed.
B. How do you know his moon sign, have you ever gone on an actual date with him?