UPDATE

My virgo seams to have changed.. i've defiently noticed more effort from him, he's nicer, he genuinely wants to see me, when i cooked us dinner the other night he actually complimented me on how good it tasted.. twice! with ZERO critisism. i guess when he noticed my change in attitude and that i dont NEED him in my life and would be okay on my own, he began putting more effort in 🙂 Everything that has happened has also made me alot stronger, and when there has been situations where i would usually cry, i have just stood my ground and just stayed calm and confident instead which i guess is appealing to him. He isn't all lovey dovey, but thats okay i guess thats just not his nature but his venus in cancer has defiently made him be the one who wants to cuddle and stuff. 😄 hopefully things continue to go uphill from here! 🙂

So you settled for the fwb I gather?

Posted by RealTalk
So you settled for the fwb I gather?

he's quite attractive, he's confident and can be very charming. He can get any girl he wanted, him and I both know that. if it really was just about sex to him and nothign else, why would he have come back balling his eyes out in my arms? It has nothing to do with "FWB" since he can get benefits elsewhere but obviously he wants to be with me. 🙂

You're the only broad willing to put up with his shit duh. 🙂

Goodluck to you cause your def need it! I hope he doesn't drop and ignore you now you gave him what he wanted..

whatever 🙂

Well...he hasn't proposed anything yet now has he—

Posted by RealTalk
You're the only broad willing to put up with his shit duh. 🙂

+1,0000000

Posted by scorpio24

Posted by RealTalk
So you settled for the fwb I gather?

he's quite attractive, he's confident and can be very charming. He can get any girl he wanted, him and I both know that. if it really was just about sex to him and nothign else, why would he have come back balling his eyes out in my arms? It has nothing to do with "FWB" since he can get benefits elsewhere but obviously he just wants to fuck me. 🙂

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fixed it 😉

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So you settled for the fwb I gather?

he's quite attractive, he's confident and can be very charming. He can get any girl he wanted, him and I both know that. if it really was just about sex to him and nothign else, why would he have come back balling his eyes out in my arms? It has nothing to do with "FWB" since he can get benefits elsewhere but obviously he just wants to fuck me. 🙂

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LMAO!!! Go figure...she tried to manipulate him & now he's manipulating her. *classic*

Oh give her some slack people it's good right now and maybe it sticks. May you all never end up in a similar situation. BTW all you virg's today is a day when can be very snarky. So check yourself before you post, some of you are coming across as very bitter and or mean.

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So you settled for the fwb I gather?

he's quite attractive, he's confident and can be very charming. He can get any girl he wanted, him and I both know that. if it really was just about sex to him and nothign else, why would he have come back balling his eyes out in my arms? It has nothing to do with "FWB" since he can get benefits elsewhere but obviously he just wants to fuck me. 🙂

fixed it 😉

LMAO!!! Go figure...she tried to manipulate him & now he's manipulating her. *classic*

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Right!!! smh and Im just waiting for the Updated thread of this update lol

I predicted these two would get back together. Although I DO feel the OP is quite manipulative, nevertheless, her tactic was quite successful. Her plan was executed quite perfectly.

The OP's only primary objective?

Was to get back to where she was with him initially....

In that romantic lovey-dovey phase.

She understood the personality type of the individual she was dealing with...

Kept her emotions in check...and moved accordingly.

You can't be mad at her really.

Posted by miamivirgo
Oh give her some slack people it's good right now and maybe it sticks. May you all never end up in a similar situation. BTW all you virg's today is a day when can be very snarky. So check yourself before you post, some of you are coming across as very bitter and or mean.

Fuck off. If you don't like what I post there is a simple solution called "not reading it". I'll post however & whenever I want capiche?

i'm finding everyone's responses quite amusing at the fact that you all think he's in it just for sex. you can think it all you want, but i trust my intuition & trust that he actually does love and care about me. The last 2 months we have only had sex when I have truly wanted to. there has been plenty of times i have politely refused it to him. - like i said, he could get whoever he wanted but he loves me. our communication has improved so much aswell & i'm my own person now 🙂

example: lastnight i went for a run and he messaged me saying to come over after.. i did, we hung out with his house mate for a while and then went to bed.. we cuddled me to sleep and didnt try ANYTHING with me. we woke up this morning and he spooned me for 10 minutes before having to get up for work.. i followed him downstairs into the kitchen and just i stood there cause i was still half asleep, he stopped eating his breakfast and came up to me and gave me a random long hug. then this morning i recieved a message saying "love you 🙂

lol

Oh he cuddled you...it must be love. Lol
Guys don't change...especially overnight...and you're naive to think so!


Just wait...

Posted by LostinmyMind11
Oh he cuddled you...it must be love. Lol
Guys don't change...especially overnight...and you're naive to think so!


Just wait...

Duh what am I thinking ...you are naive.

I know people dont change overnight, he might not change ever.. but from what i have seen the last few weeks is consistency from him, & i like it it and appreciate it. i am well aware that things may infact turn bad again, but for now i'm going to enjoy the moment & take it as it comes, cause right now we are quite good. 🙂 thanks for your smartass opinion though LIMM

Posted by scorpio24
I know people dont change overnight, he might not change ever.. but from what i have seen the last few weeks is consistency from him, & i like it it and appreciate it. i am well aware that things may infact turn bad again, but for now i'm going to enjoy the moment & take it as it comes, cause right now we are quite good. 🙂 thanks for your smartass opinion though LIMM

Anytime 😉

Posted by scorpio24
but i trust my intuition

How about you trust your "intuition" & stop making 475 threads requesting advice about this Virgo who just wants to fuck you. Use your intuition for THAT since you know so damn much.

Posted by scorpio24
The last 2 months we have only had sex when I have truly wanted to.

And that's supposed to mean what exactly?

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so fuck you all 🙂

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You're the one who will be fucked in the end boo, you'll see.

"How about you trust your "intuition" & stop making 475 threads requesting advice about this Virgo who just wants to fuck you. Use your intuition for THAT since you know so damn much."

- I'll write as many threads as i want, if you have a problem with this then don't open them or read them it's simple 🙂 I never said "I know so much" hence why I come on here for opinions, but at the end of the day I'm going to trust my own intuition.

"What's that supposed to mean exactly"

- it means what it says. I only fuck him when I truly want to, I don't just give in every single time he wants sex. And the fact that he doesn't even TRY to fuck me and ACTUALLY is the one who wants to cuddle me and kiss me and be affectionate is a big deal. 🙂

"You'll be the one who will get fucked in the end l. You'll see"

- Cool. 🙂 do you feel better about yourself now? I hope so, cause I sure as hell don't see the point of this nasty remark

Like I said to LIMM, I am well aware that people don't change over a night and am well aware and ready for this to potentially happen again, but right now I am seeing a consistency in my virgo and I'm going to enjoy the moment and give him another shot, if it goes down hill then ohwell, I'll think about that when or if it happens. I'm sorry that you're lives must be so shit if you can't be happy for someone else for 5 minutes. Good luck to you all.

**your

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Posted by scorpio24
Like I said to LIMM, I am well aware that people don't change over a night and am well aware and ready for this to potentially happen again, but right now I am seeing a consistency in my virgo and I'm going to enjoy the moment and give him another shot, if it goes down hill then ohwell, I'll think about that when or if it happens. I'm sorry that you're lives must be so shit if you can't be happy for someone else for 5 minutes. Good luck to you all.

It has nothing to do with not being able to be happy for someone...we all can see how this will turn out...you apparently cant/wont accept it. Who wants to be in a relationship where you constantly have to be on guard for him to be a douche bag (according to you...he always acts like it...even though you are the reason he is/has been one)...when you can be in a relationship with someone that actually cares about you (which he probably did before you went all Scorpio on him all the time). Doesnt make any sense...but you have fun living in the moment...and dont come crying to us when that moment goes to shit!

"- it means what it says. I only treetrunk him when I truly want to, I don't just give in every single time he wants sex. And the fact that he doesn't even TRY to treetrunk me and ACTUALLY is the one who wants to cuddle me and kiss me and be affectionate is a big deal"

Ummmm so now you withhold sex in order to manipulate... Isn't he your boyfriend and you guys are happy why not make love freely I wonder... smh

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"- it means what it says. I only treetrunk him when I truly want to, I don't just give in every single time he wants sex. And the fact that he doesn't even TRY to treetrunk me and ACTUALLY is the one who wants to cuddle me and kiss me and be affectionate is a big deal"

Ummmm so now you withhold sex in order to manipulate... Isn't he your boyfriend and you guys are happy why not make love freely I wonder... smh

+1

She knows what she is doing!
Then tries to come in here to I guess throw it in our faces (which is funny because in the end ..its not gonna be us thats gonna get shit on) (again she did it to herself). And wants us to believe she matured and grown...if its not gonna happen over night with him..same applies to you! You're still trying to manipulate him (which if you really cared...you wouldn't feel the need to)..and he's trying to get laid on the regular (which has already happened..he knows it take a couple cuddles and you drop those panties).but like I said enjoy that moment...it will be a short one!

The fact she needs to think when to give in into sex with her boyfriend says a lot about the relationship...

When you are with the right person everything is natural, there is no overthinking especially when it comes to sex...

LOL I'm not manipulating him at all, I'm just trying to make a point that I don't always want sex and he isnt with me for sex. What's wrong with that? Hahaha I think it's completely normal to not want sex ALL the time cause you simply don't feel like it.

And no I'm not on here to "rub it in your faces" I don't know any of you people and it's highly unlikely I will ever meet any of you in real life, so at the end of the day I don't really give a fuck what any of you think? 🙂 the reason I am posting up my happy update is for the few silent dxp users who have contacted me in messages asking about my relationship and giving them hope for their relationship that in fact people CAN possibly change sometimes. I've seen nothing but love from my virgo consistently and I'm going to appreciate it and be happy 🙂 LIKE I SAID... I'm living in the moment and accepting it for what it is, if it changes that's fine, ill deal with it when it happens. Sorry that your lives are so sad you feel the need to constantly kick me down. 🙂

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Posted by scorpio24
Like I said to LIMM, I am well aware that people don't change over a night and am well aware and ready for this to potentially happen again, but right now I am seeing a consistency in my virgo and I'm going to enjoy the moment and give him another shot, if it goes down hill then ohwell, I'll think about that when or if it happens. I'm sorry that you're lives must be so shit if you can't be happy for someone else for 5 minutes. Good luck to you all.

Im happy for you Im just curious why you politely withheld sex. Pure curiosity thats all.

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Sorry 🙂 ^^^ that message wasnt directed to you.

Well I'm not horny 24/7 sometimes I just don't feel like sex which is fair enough 🙂 most of the time I do though cause I'm a scorpio haha. 🙂

"Ummmm so now you withhold sex in order to manipulate... Isn't he your boyfriend and you guys are happy why not make love freely I wonder"


Hahahaha I love how you turn my words around all the time and straight away think I'm trying to be manipulate etc.

Posted by scorpio24
"How about you trust your "intuition" & stop making 475 threads requesting advice about this Virgo who just wants to fuck you. Use your intuition for THAT since you know so damn much."

- I'll write as many threads as i want, if you have a problem with this then don't open them or read them it's simple 🙂 I never said "I know so much" hence why I come on here for opinions, but at the end of the day I'm going to trust my own intuition.

"What's that supposed to mean exactly"

- it means what it says. I only fuck him when I truly want to, I don't just give in every single time he wants sex. And the fact that he doesn't even TRY to fuck me and ACTUALLY is the one who wants to cuddle me and kiss me and be affectionate is a big deal. 🙂

"You'll be the one who will get fucked in the end l. You'll see"

- Cool. 🙂 do you feel better about yourself now? I hope so, cause I sure as hell don't see the point of this nasty remark

Who are you trying to convince? Hahahaha. Obviously yourself.

Apparently you can't "see" shit. The "point" is if your intuition is "on point" you wouldn't need to make so many threads about this dude. That's my point, & guess what? I will go into whatever thread I'd like & say whatever the fuck I'd like. You just can't handle the truth, little Scorpio. You're only gonna get squashed...🙂

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Posted by scorpio24
Like I said to LIMM, I am well aware that people don't change over a night and am well aware and ready for this to potentially happen again, but right now I am seeing a consistency in my virgo and I'm going to enjoy the moment and give him another shot, if it goes down hill then ohwell, I'll think about that when or if it happens. I'm sorry that you're lives must be so shit if you can't be happy for someone else for 5 minutes. Good luck to you all.

It has nothing to do with not being able to be happy for someone...we all can see how this will turn out...you apparently cant/wont accept it. Who wants to be in a relationship where you constantly have to be on guard for him to be a douche bag (according to you...he always acts like it...even though you are the reason he is/has been one)...when you can be in a relationship with someone that actually cares about you (which he probably did before you went all Scorpio on him all the time). Doesnt make any sense...but you have fun living in the moment...and dont come crying to us when that moment goes to shit!

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Exactly.

I really hope you feel better about yourself now, keep kicking as much as you like if that's what will make you feel better. I don't care 🙂

Hmmm I've noticed somethings...ill get to it in a moment.

Posted by LostinmyMind11
She knows what she is doing!
Then tries to come in here to I guess throw it in our faces

That's the shit that annoys me, her trying to gloat about it. Trying to prove to everyone that her relationship is "perfect" now. If it's so great then there is no need to state the obvious, especially to internet strangers.

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Hmmm I've noticed somethings...ill get to it in a moment."

Hahha of course you did!, you clearly have no life outside of dxp 🙂 and so you come on here to be nasty and as soon as someone agrees with one of your remarks you get all excited behind your computer screen

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Posted by LostinmyMind11
She knows what she is doing!
Then tries to come in here to I guess throw it in our faces

That's the shit that annoys me, her trying to gloat about it. Trying to prove to everyone that her relationship is "perfect" now. If it's so great then there is no need to state the obvious, especially to internet strangers.

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can you read? I said I'm doing updates for the silent dxp users to give them hope in their relationships. I enjoy helping people instead of trying to make people feel like shit like you do. Maybe you should try be nicer to people, you'll be surprised at how much it can improve your life 🙂

Posted by scorpio24
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Hmmm I've noticed somethings...ill get to it in a moment."

Hahha of course you did!, you clearly have no life outside of dxp 🙂 and so you come on here to be nasty and as soon as someone agrees with one of your remarks you get all excited behind your computer screen

Really?...I'm not the only who has to post about my non existent relationship lol

Posted by scorpio24
I really hope you feel better about yourself now, keep kicking as much as you like if that's what will make you feel better. I don't care 🙂

Lol, so why do you keep responding then? Besides, that "kicking" job is reserved for Mr. Virgo boo, not me.

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Posted by LostinmyMind11
She knows what she is doing!
Then tries to come in here to I guess throw it in our faces

That's the shit that annoys me, her trying to gloat about it. Trying to prove to everyone that her relationship is "perfect" now. If it's so great then there is no need to state the obvious, especially to internet strangers.

can you read? I said I'm doing updates for the silent dxp users to give them hope in their relationships. I enjoy helping people instead of trying to make people feel like shit like you do. Maybe you should try be nicer to people, you'll be surprised at how much it can improve your life 🙂

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Then why not pm them??

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Posted by LostinmyMind11
She knows what she is doing!
Then tries to come in here to I guess throw it in our faces

That's the shit that annoys me, her trying to gloat about it. Trying to prove to everyone that her relationship is "perfect" now. If it's so great then there is no need to state the obvious, especially to internet strangers.

can you read? I said I'm doing updates for the silent dxp users to give them hope in their relationships. I enjoy helping people instead of trying to make people feel like shit like you do. Maybe you should try be nicer to people, you'll be surprised at how much it can improve your life 🙂

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Bitch apparently you can't. If that was the case you wouldn't keep asking for advice or trying to convince people that you're happy. Hahahaha...

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Posted by LostinmyMind11
She knows what she is doing!
Then tries to come in here to I guess throw it in our faces

That's the shit that annoys me, her trying to gloat about it. Trying to prove to everyone that her relationship is "perfect" now. If it's so great then there is no need to state the obvious, especially to internet strangers.

to give them hope in their relationships.

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Lmao...

I haven't asked for advice in ages 🙂

I don't PM incase there is more silent users that read my update and also it's easier to make a thread then reply individually.

I keep responding cause your responses make me laugh!

🙂 why do you keep responding? Oh cause you're bored and have no life and need to take out your frustration on me, keep it coming! 🙂

Keep laughing at me all you want! Hahahaha I don't give a fuck 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂

"He isn't all lovey dovey"

"we cuddled me to sleep and didnt try ANYTHING with me. we woke up this morning and he spooned me for 10 minutes before having to get up for work.. i followed him downstairs into the kitchen and just i stood there cause i was still half asleep, he stopped eating his breakfast and came up to me and gave me a random long hug. then this morning i recieved a message saying "love you

Don't worry about me boo, I'm good. On the other hand, you're a lost cause. Hahahaha...

Posted by scorpio24
Keep laughing at me all you want! Hahahaha I don't give a fuck 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂

Of course you do. 🙂

Posted by scorpio24
"Ummmm so now you withhold sex in order to manipulate... Isn't he your boyfriend and you guys are happy why not make love freely I wonder"


Hahahaha I love how you turn my words around all the time and straight away think I'm trying to be manipulate etc.

That's not turning your words around sweetie...is just stating the obvious, of course you don't see it bc you are in your own little world and only see what you want to see...