Capilance
@Capilance
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Virgo played me a fool
Posted by dilettante
is your mercury in sag or somethin? cuz this was a weird af read
My friend argues i have ADD like her.. let me look up my Chart..
Posted by dilettante
is your mercury in sag or somethin? cuz this was a weird af read
lol
What—? She's from another country lol
Posted by Sassysailorscout
I'm sorry this sucks !!!
Was there chemistry ?
Umm I can only give my outlook as a Virgo girl....
I never like guys who don't put a move on me physically. It makes the relationship friends only.
Also chill out maybe he's trying to see your reaction. I do that alot too. *shrug* I'm human I want to be wanted.
Tell him or show him how you feel in a non angry way. Flirt more. 👀👅
We had great chemistry actually...but i am capricorn...i am 35 and hes...46..seriously ..I told him To have fun.Sorry but i dont like being played like a fool.But beside touchant à monde there and there .And he would always sit at the en of the sofa...i cant just naturelly doe the arm stress thing you know. 😉
He could know that you're waiting around for him. He most likely wont choose you as an option. He already knows he has you in his back pocket.
Move on and date. He will come around once he doesn't find anything more interesting. Then the ball will be in your court and you can decide on if he's worth it or not.
Move on and date. He will come around once he doesn't find anything more interesting. Then the ball will be in your court and you can decide on if he's worth it or not.
Posted by dilettantePosted by saggurl88Posted by dilettante
is your mercury in sag or somethin? cuz this was a weird af read
lol
What—? She's from another country lol
i have merc in sag & it seems like something i woulda typed out.
its manic, changes topics, doesnt make sense, & is all over the place. it’s also typed out as if she is having a conversation w/ someone... someone who is not present.click to expand
I have it too but I wouldn't ramble so much with the never ending run on sentences and "thinking out loud" stuff. I do that in private 🙂
can someone with better english skills translate this for me?
Posted by dilettantePosted by saggurl88Posted by dilettantePosted by saggurl88Posted by dilettante
is your mercury in sag or somethin? cuz this was a weird af read
lol
What—? She's from another country lol
i have merc in sag & it seems like something i woulda typed out.
its manic, changes topics, doesnt make sense, & is all over the place. it’s also typed out as if she is having a conversation w/ someone... someone who is not present.
I have it too but I wouldn't ramble so much with the never ending run on sentences and "thinking out loud" stuff. I do that in private 🙂
my merc conjuncts uranus at 0 so my shit is extra fuckin wild.
when writing long detailed stuff, i sit & proofread before i do anything else. it can take 2 days for me to respond to a lengthy email cuz i have to sit & make sure stuff is in an orderly fashion.
punctuation tho, that has never been my strong suit.click to expand
I'm the same way but I majored in English. I used to knock out 10 page essays in 2 hours. Used to get paid for papers in college as well. I still have to process stuff for a while. Mostly conversations in person cause I half listen. I can replay the whole day with someone and save questions for them for the next time we see each other lol
Well we shall see what she is. I don't know if she's actually from another country, the writing was so broken, that I assumed she was. 🙂
Posted by colliereborn
can someone with better english skills translate this for me?
She was by his side as a friend first, loved him, but hoe is life and he isn't ready to commit.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by colliereborn
can someone with better english skills translate this for me?
She was by his side as a friend first, loved him, but hoe is life and he isn't ready to commit.click to expand
yeaaah, the being friends first thing rarely works
gotta be direct with your intentions
Posted by dilettantePosted by saggurl88Posted by dilettante
is your mercury in sag or somethin? cuz this was a weird af read
lol
What—? She's from another country lol
i have merc in sag & it seems like something i woulda typed out.
its manic, changes topics, doesnt make sense, & is all over the place. it’s also typed out as if she is having a conversation w/ someone... someone who is not present.click to expand
My friend is sagittarius and ADD. .so thanks?
Posted by saggurl88Posted by dilettantePosted by saggurl88Posted by dilettantePosted by saggurl88Posted by dilettante
is your mercury in sag or somethin? cuz this was a weird af read
lol
What—? She's from another country lol
i have merc in sag & it seems like something i woulda typed out.
its manic, changes topics, doesnt make sense, & is all over the place. it’s also typed out as if she is having a conversation w/ someone... someone who is not present.
I have it too but I wouldn't ramble so much with the never ending run on sentences and "thinking out loud" stuff. I do that in private 🙂
my merc conjuncts uranus at 0 so my shit is extra fuckin wild.
when writing long detailed stuff, i sit & proofread before i do anything else. it can take 2 days for me to respond to a lengthy email cuz i have to sit & make sure stuff is in an orderly fashion.
punctuation tho, that has never been my strong suit.
I'm the same way but I majored in English. I used to knock out 10 page essays in 2 hours. Used to get paid for papers in college as well. I still have to process stuff for a while. Mostly conversations in person cause I half listen. I can replay the whole day with someone and save questions for them for the next time we see each other lol
Well we shall see what she is. I don't know if she's actually from another country, the writing was so broken, that I assumed she was. 🙂click to expand
I am just from up north...Canada.Yes i am a french canadian but perfect bilingual.My challenge is more my phone changing what i write to french words and having to double check myself.
So beside following my thougts ,double checking that, the changing words because of a french setting phone.sorry
Can we get back on topic🙃
Posted by saggurl88
He could know that you're waiting around for him. He most likely wont choose you as an option. He already knows he has you in his back pocket.
Move on and date. He will come around once he doesn't find anything more interesting. Then the ball will be in your court and you can decide on if he's worth it or not.
I know sagg are very move on with life.But has thsis tactic ever work with a virgo? I understand they dont like to be played around even if they keep looking untill they are sure.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by colliereborn
can someone with better english skills translate this for me?
She was by his side as a friend first, loved him, but hoe is life and he isn't ready to commit.click to expand
Ok so first thing first...
We were collegues.Each in our own relationship.I saw him and him me only as collegues.
We became friends. My relationship entre he was in his.So thst was a no go zone. A couple of my friends and conformer pointes out how we should be toguether.But out of respect for him and me i necer did anything but be his friend.
When his relationship ended all on his own, we became closer.But it got stuck...i showed interested and even if i wanted to kiss him...try being 5"2 with a well over 6"4 tall guy lol ita hard to naturelly learn in beside taking a stool To do it.
Now while i was asking his plan for the weekend,he mentionned he had a date.
Posted by dilettantePosted by saggurl88Posted by dilettante
is your mercury in sag or somethin? cuz this was a weird af read
lol
What—? She's from another country lol
i have merc in sag & it seems like something i woulda typed out.
its manic, changes topics, doesnt make sense, & is all over the place. it’s also typed out as if she is having a conversation w/ someone... someone who is not present.click to expand
Yeah.... this is a weird read
Posted by SassysailorscoutPosted by CapilancePosted by Sassysailorscout
I'm sorry this sucks !!!
Was there chemistry ?
Umm I can only give my outlook as a Virgo girl....
I never like guys who don't put a move on me physically. It makes the relationship friends only.
Also chill out maybe he's trying to see your reaction. I do that alot too. *shrug* I'm human I want to be wanted.
Tell him or show him how you feel in a non angry way. Flirt more. 👀👅
We had great chemistry actually...but i am capricorn...i am 35 and hes...46..seriously ..I told him To have fun.Sorry but i dont like being played like a fool.But beside touchant à monde there and there .And he would always sit at the en of the sofa...i cant just naturelly doe the arm stress thing you know. 😉
Hmm .... this is interesting ....click to expand
Crap my phone translating everything is annoying !!! That does not make sens for me...i might try what you said.But ill come off just as despesrated i think
Posted by SeaLionPosted by dilettantePosted by saggurl88Posted by dilettante
is your mercury in sag or somethin? cuz this was a weird af read
lol
What—? She's from another country lol
i have merc in sag & it seems like something i woulda typed out.
its manic, changes topics, doesnt make sense, & is all over the place. it’s also typed out as if she is having a conversation w/ someone... someone who is not present.
Yeah.... this is a weird readclick to expand
Well if it make any of you feel better.He says the same thing when i talk about something.Omitting and introduction,subject,verb.
Si here i was looking for input...
I got some alrigth.On how incomprehensive i can be.How people cannot follow my train of thougt.
Its a really great to help with the ego...
There is an almost animal quality to it...
Look at it...how it talks,think...
Anybody making any sens of what its saying?
Maybe we could make an exhibit and show it in New York...
Enjoying some self irony.
Because clearly that is all i have left.
Posted by CapilancePosted by saggurl88
He could know that you're waiting around for him. He most likely wont choose you as an option. He already knows he has you in his back pocket.
Move on and date. He will come around once he doesn't find anything more interesting. Then the ball will be in your court and you can decide on if he's worth it or not.
I know sagg are very move on with life.But has thsis tactic ever work with a virgo? I understand they dont like to be played around even if they keep looking untill they are sure.click to expand
I don't play with guys, but if they are showing no interest, I will let them know that I'm gonna start dating, and I do.
I'm currently dating 2 Virgos. One I cut off and wasn't even expecting to come back, nor did I care. The other I am dating and he pretty much does what he wants and sees me either if I ask or he mentions it. I have never cut him off, because he's asked me not to hurt him and I'm a sucker for that type of thing. He's been hurt by a Sag before and I would never want to do that to him.
While he wasn't seeing me though, the other Virgo came back and we've been dating off and on. It takes up my time while I get to know the Virgo I like.
Neither one has said that they loved me and we aren't in a relationship. So dating is fine.
You never can tell with these guys but I'm just enjoying my time with them, until someone else who wants a relationship falls into my lap. One Virgo wants a relationship, but I don't. The other one is about to move to another city, so I have limited time with him now.
If they want you, cutting them off seems to get them in gear. If they don't, then that will help you out too, because they won't be playing with your emotions. It's a win win.
Posted by CapilancePosted by saggurl88Posted by dilettantePosted by saggurl88Posted by dilettantePosted by saggurl88Posted by dilettante
is your mercury in sag or somethin? cuz this was a weird af read
lol
What—? She's from another country lol
i have merc in sag & it seems like something i woulda typed out.
its manic, changes topics, doesnt make sense, & is all over the place. it’s also typed out as if she is having a conversation w/ someone... someone who is not present.
I have it too but I wouldn't ramble so much with the never ending run on sentences and "thinking out loud" stuff. I do that in private 🙂
my merc conjuncts uranus at 0 so my shit is extra fuckin wild.
when writing long detailed stuff, i sit & proofread before i do anything else. it can take 2 days for me to respond to a lengthy email cuz i have to sit & make sure stuff is in an orderly fashion.
punctuation tho, that has never been my strong suit.
I'm the same way but I majored in English. I used to knock out 10 page essays in 2 hours. Used to get paid for papers in college as well. I still have to process stuff for a while. Mostly conversations in person cause I half listen. I can replay the whole day with someone and save questions for them for the next time we see each other lol
Well we shall see what she is. I don't know if she's actually from another country, the writing was so broken, that I assumed she was. 🙂
I am just from up north...Canada.Yes i am a french canadian but perfect bilingual.My challenge is more my phone changing what i write to french words and having to double check myself.
So beside following my thougts ,double checking that, the changing words because of a french setting phone.sorry
Can we get back on topic🙃click to expand
Well did you find out what your Mercury was? We are all curious now! 😆 Also whats your moon, mars and Venus 😄
Posted by CapilancePosted by SeaLionPosted by dilettantePosted by saggurl88Posted by dilettante
is your mercury in sag or somethin? cuz this was a weird af read
lol
What—? She's from another country lol
i have merc in sag & it seems like something i woulda typed out.
its manic, changes topics, doesnt make sense, & is all over the place. it’s also typed out as if she is having a conversation w/ someone... someone who is not present.
Yeah.... this is a weird read
Well if it make any of you feel better.He says the same thing when i talk about something.Omitting and introduction,subject,verb.
Si here i was looking for input...
I got some alrigth.On how incomprehensive i can be.How people cannot follow my train of thougt.
Its a really great to help with the ego...
There is an almost animal quality to it...
Look at it...how it talks,think...
Anybody making any sens of what its saying?
Maybe we could make an exhibit and show it in New York...
Enjoying some self irony.
Because clearly that is all i have left.click to expand
Stick to the subject at hand and perhaps we can help. This is what I got and correct me if I'm wrong
1. Work colleagues
2. Got together after he broke up
3. Were just friends with benefits
4. He told you he had a date with someone else
5. Now you're pissed cause you thought you were more
Yes? No? Take it slow
Posted by Capilance
I am just from up north...Canada.Yes i am a french canadian but perfect bilingual.My challenge is more my phone changing what i write to french words and having to double check myself.
So beside following my thougts ,double checking that, the changing words because of a french setting phone.sorry
Can we get back on topic🙃
try a bilingual settings perhaps?
swiftkey can recognize the language you're typing in, and adapt accordingly, I use that.
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besides that, have you considered that 'perhaps' HE IS NOT THAT INTO YOU?
he's not afraid, he shares personal stuff, invite you home, you meet his family and friend (you are on of them so duh), he confess? (isn't that just sharing personal stuff thought?) he helps you out...
sound like a normal friendship to me, and that is how he looks at you, he doesn't want more, and that's ok, if you can't deal with that, move on.
"Why do you friendzone someone and keep them on stand by without being clear"
seems clear as day to me, and why should he need to go beyond that? he doesn't own you romance.
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just imagine how things would be if this was inverse, imagine someone you're just not into, ranting on why you don't give him a chance in a online forum.
you need to move on.
Posted by EndlessPosted by Capilance
I am just from up north...Canada.Yes i am a french canadian but perfect bilingual.My challenge is more my phone changing what i write to french words and having to double check myself.
So beside following my thougts ,double checking that, the changing words because of a french setting phone.sorry
Can we get back on topic🙃
try a bilingual settings perhaps?
swiftkey can recognize the language you're typing in, and adapt accordingly, I use that.
---------------------------------------------
besides that, have you considered that 'perhaps' HE IS NOT THAT INTO YOU?
he's not afraid, he shares personal stuff, invite you home, you meet his family and friend (you are on of them so duh), he confess? (isn't that just sharing personal stuff thought?) he helps you out...
sound like a normal friendship to me, and that is how he looks at you, he doesn't want more, and that's ok, if you can't deal with that, move on.
"Why do you friendzone someone and keep them on stand by without being clear"
seems clear as day to me, and why should he need to go beyond that? he doesn't own you romance.
--------------------------------------------
just imagine how things would be if this was inverse, imagine someone you're just not into, ranting on why you don't give him a chance in a online forum.
you need to move on.click to expand
Dear god,he owe me nothing.And he still a great friend.Just he crossed a line with the romantic dinners and all.I never spent *alone quality time wine and wine with male friends with candles...
Do you do that woth female friends you have no intentions with?
Posted by SeaLionPosted by CapilancePosted by SeaLionPosted by dilettantePosted by saggurl88Posted by dilettante
is your mercury in sag or somethin? cuz this was a weird af read
lol
What—? She's from another country lol
i have merc in sag & it seems like something i woulda typed out.
its manic, changes topics, doesnt make sense, & is all over the place. it’s also typed out as if she is having a conversation w/ someone... someone who is not present.
Yeah.... this is a weird read
Well if it make any of you feel better.He says the same thing when i talk about something.Omitting and introduction,subject,verb.
Si here i was looking for input...
I got some alrigth.On how incomprehensive i can be.How people cannot follow my train of thougt.
Its a really great to help with the ego...
There is an almost animal quality to it...
Look at it...how it talks,think...
Anybody making any sens of what its saying?
Maybe we could make an exhibit and show it in New York...
Enjoying some self irony.
Because clearly that is all i have left.
Stick to the subject at hand and perhaps we can help. This is what I got and correct me if I'm wrong
1. Work colleagues
2. Got together after he broke up
3. Were just friends with benefits
4. He told you he had a date with someone else
5. Now you're pissed cause you thought you were more
Yes? No? Take it slowclick to expand
I didn't get any 'friend with benefits' vibe from that reading to be honest LMAO it was the 'netflix together' thing? did I miss something 😅 she said "but...nothing" so I think nothing happened, and he just not into her.
EDIT: I was right, It was just dinner together 🙄
Posted by SeaLionPosted by CapilancePosted by SeaLionPosted by dilettantePosted by saggurl88Posted by dilettante
is your mercury in sag or somethin? cuz this was a weird af read
lol
What—? She's from another country lol
i have merc in sag & it seems like something i woulda typed out.
its manic, changes topics, doesnt make sense, & is all over the place. it’s also typed out as if she is having a conversation w/ someone... someone who is not present.
Yeah.... this is a weird read
Well if it make any of you feel better.He says the same thing when i talk about something.Omitting and introduction,subject,verb.
Si here i was looking for input...
I got some alrigth.On how incomprehensive i can be.How people cannot follow my train of thougt.
Its a really great to help with the ego...
There is an almost animal quality to it...
Look at it...how it talks,think...
Anybody making any sens of what its saying?
Maybe we could make an exhibit and show it in New York...
Enjoying some self irony.
Because clearly that is all i have left.
Stick to the subject at hand and perhaps we can help. This is what I got and correct me if I'm wrong
1. Work colleagues
2. Got together after he broke up
3. Were just friends with benefits
4. He told you he had a date with someone else
5. Now you're pissed cause you thought you were more
Yes? No? Take it slowclick to expand
3-..something sorta happend we talk about it,agreed we fooled around but that we enjoyed being with each other and wanted to be in each other lives amd keep seong each other.No fooling around after that.But relaxe qualtiy time together in private *dating*setting but no benefits.Very slow.Stupid astrology site thats says not to be too harsh/direct with them.
4.correct
5...disapointed...sorey this is 3rd time a guy cant just tell.me straight up.I understand but dont drag it out.
Posted by EndlessPosted by SeaLionPosted by CapilancePosted by SeaLionPosted by dilettantePosted by saggurl88Posted by dilettante
is your mercury in sag or somethin? cuz this was a weird af read
lol
What—? She's from another country lol
i have merc in sag & it seems like something i woulda typed out.
its manic, changes topics, doesnt make sense, & is all over the place. it’s also typed out as if she is having a conversation w/ someone... someone who is not present.
Yeah.... this is a weird read
Well if it make any of you feel better.He says the same thing when i talk about something.Omitting and introduction,subject,verb.
Si here i was looking for input...
I got some alrigth.On how incomprehensive i can be.How people cannot follow my train of thougt.
Its a really great to help with the ego...
There is an almost animal quality to it...
Look at it...how it talks,think...
Anybody making any sens of what its saying?
Maybe we could make an exhibit and show it in New York...
Enjoying some self irony.
Because clearly that is all i have left.
Stick to the subject at hand and perhaps we can help. This is what I got and correct me if I'm wrong
1. Work colleagues
2. Got together after he broke up
3. Were just friends with benefits
4. He told you he had a date with someone else
5. Now you're pissed cause you thought you were more
Yes? No? Take it slow
I didn't get any 'friend with benefits' vibe from that reading to be honest LMAO it was the 'netflix together' thing? did I miss something 😅 she said "but...nothing" so I think nothing happened, and he just not into her.
EDIT: I was right, It was just dinner together 🙄click to expand
Yup i just dont continuously candlelight dinners with my male friends around a bottle of wine all the time.
But like i said...might of been all in my head.😶
Posted by Arielle83
He doesn’t owe you a relationship just because you were nice to him.
I dont believe he one me anything.I simply thougt we really connected.Crap, weirdly enough i dont need any **man**to be happy.But i truly believe hapiness and life should be shared .Weirdly enough, i actually feel like since he isint 100% right now,he is actually pulling away .I mean the man helped me with so much it rodiculous that he want out of his way like he did.I and Weirdly e nough i wanted to be there for him.I just cant relate over a year worth of life in here.😊
Posted by CapilancePosted by EndlessPosted by Capilance
I am just from up north...Canada.Yes i am a french canadian but perfect bilingual.My challenge is more my phone changing what i write to french words and having to double check myself.
So beside following my thougts ,double checking that, the changing words because of a french setting phone.sorry
Can we get back on topic🙃
try a bilingual settings perhaps?
swiftkey can recognize the language you're typing in, and adapt accordingly, I use that.
---------------------------------------------
besides that, have you considered that 'perhaps' HE IS NOT THAT INTO YOU?
he's not afraid, he shares personal stuff, invite you home, you meet his family and friend (you are on of them so duh), he confess? (isn't that just sharing personal stuff thought?) he helps you out...
sound like a normal friendship to me, and that is how he looks at you, he doesn't want more, and that's ok, if you can't deal with that, move on.
"Why do you friendzone someone and keep them on stand by without being clear"
seems clear as day to me, and why should he need to go beyond that? he doesn't own you romance.
--------------------------------------------
just imagine how things would be if this was inverse, imagine someone you're just not into, ranting on why you don't give him a chance in a online forum.
you need to move on.
Dear god,he owe me nothing.And he still a great friend.Just he crossed a line with the romantic dinners and all.I never spent *alone quality time wine and wine with male friends with candles...
Do you do that woth female friends you have no intentions with?click to expand
I had friends misinterpret my intentions by buying them ice creams, if I had a dinner with someone, I might even get raped smdh.
anyway let's imagine, for the sake of the argument, that the reason he invited you into those dinners was because he was interested in something closer, if he's not continuing that, then he probably didn't feel the rapport he's looking for, and moved to look it on another girl.
it happens a lot when dating people, so many post on dxp of being ghosted after a couple dates is a testament to that, if he didn't do the move (and we assume you gave green light to it) then I'm sorry but he didn't feel it.
Posted by CapilancePosted by SeaLionPosted by CapilancePosted by SeaLionPosted by dilettantePosted by saggurl88Posted by dilettante
is your mercury in sag or somethin? cuz this was a weird af read
lol
What—? She's from another country lol
i have merc in sag & it seems like something i woulda typed out.
its manic, changes topics, doesnt make sense, & is all over the place. it’s also typed out as if she is having a conversation w/ someone... someone who is not present.
Yeah.... this is a weird read
Well if it make any of you feel better.He says the same thing when i talk about something.Omitting and introduction,subject,verb.
Si here i was looking for input...
I got some alrigth.On how incomprehensive i can be.How people cannot follow my train of thougt.
Its a really great to help with the ego...
There is an almost animal quality to it...
Look at it...how it talks,think...
Anybody making any sens of what its saying?
Maybe we could make an exhibit and show it in New York...
Enjoying some self irony.
Because clearly that is all i have left.
Stick to the subject at hand and perhaps we can help. This is what I got and correct me if I'm wrong
1. Work colleagues
2. Got together after he broke up
3. Were just friends with benefits
4. He told you he had a date with someone else
5. Now you're pissed cause you thought you were more
Yes? No? Take it slow
3-..something sorta happend we talk about it,agreed we fooled around but that we enjoyed being with each other and wanted to be in each other lives amd keep seong each other.No fooling around after that.But relaxe qualtiy time together in private *dating*setting but no benefits.Very slow.Stupid astrology site thats says not to be too harsh/direct with them.
4.correct
5...disapointed...sorey this is 3rd time a guy cant just tell.me straight up.I understand but dont drag it out.click to expand
How long was this going on? I think others are right. Virgos aren’t that shy. They may tell you they don’t want a relationship but the still will want some sex.
If he is a friend, he may not want to ruin the friendship he had with you if he knows it will be just about sex.
You should just ask him directly. Especially if he knows that you like him.
Going slow with a Virgo doesn’t mean no intimacy. It just means getting to know them at their pace.
He’s dating and having sex with others, so why not be having it with you? That would be something you should think about.
Virgos are pretty aggressive when it comes to getting sex. There’s nothing shy about them in that area.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by CapilancePosted by SeaLionPosted by CapilancePosted by SeaLionPosted by dilettantePosted by saggurl88Posted by dilettante
is your mercury in sag or somethin? cuz this was a weird af read
lol
What—? She's from another country lol
i have merc in sag & it seems like something i woulda typed out.
its manic, changes topics, doesnt make sense, & is all over the place. it’s also typed out as if she is having a conversation w/ someone... someone who is not present.
Yeah.... this is a weird read
Well if it make any of you feel better.He says the same thing when i talk about something.Omitting and introduction,subject,verb.
Si here i was looking for input...
I got some alrigth.On how incomprehensive i can be.How people cannot follow my train of thougt.
Its a really great to help with the ego...
There is an almost animal quality to it...
Look at it...how it talks,think...
Anybody making any sens of what its saying?
Maybe we could make an exhibit and show it in New York...
Enjoying some self irony.
Because clearly that is all i have left.
Stick to the subject at hand and perhaps we can help. This is what I got and correct me if I'm wrong
1. Work colleagues
2. Got together after he broke up
3. Were just friends with benefits
4. He told you he had a date with someone else
5. Now you're pissed cause you thought you were more
Yes? No? Take it slow
3-..something sorta happend we talk about it,agreed we fooled around but that we enjoyed being with each other and wanted to be in each other lives amd keep seong each other.No fooling around after that.But relaxe qualtiy time together in private *dating*setting but no benefits.Very slow.Stupid astrology site thats says not to be too harsh/direct with them.
4.correct
5...disapointed...sorey this is 3rd time a guy cant just tell.me straight up.I understand but dont drag it out.
How long was this going on? I think others are right. Virgos aren’t that shy. They may tell you they don’t want a relationship but the still will want some sex.
If he is a friend, he may not want to ruin the friendship he had with you if he knows it will be just about sex.
You should just ask him directly. Especially if he knows that you like him.
Going slow with a Virgo doesn’t mean no intimacy. It just means getting to know them at their pace.
He’s dating and having sex with others, so why not be having it with you? That would be something you should think about.
Virgos are pretty aggressive when it comes to getting sex. There’s nothing shy about them in that area.click to expand
Thank you that was insightful. The sorta datjng part 2 months...so yeah,i have been friendzone.Simple as that. I love having having a new friend but really i was ready for more.I guess i should of never been his back-up girlfriend(when he bad the first one) and never try to help him on that front.Because he had best of both world right? The fiesty dosent get along with kiddo have sex with one.And the i can be really me with you and tell you all that his happening in ny life and head one and family like one.Worst part je, at that time i really wanted things to get better for him.My feelings eventually changed. Sorry human.
Its like you said. This would of move along at some point. Maybe he has a cute guy friend to present to me when i am ready? Or maybe i should tell him about my future dating stories. Because do you seriously tell a friend you know has feelings for you your dating life? I understand that was on hold for a while, i guess he has healed.But the answer is no.Make sure the other one has move on.
I understand my part in this do not be fooled.I probable miss my boat at the start and didnt say out right how i felt .But nobody super excited about possible rejection.I guess i have a knack of making it last To think i didnt want to rush him.🤣 I got served right.
Cause sleeping with a guy the first night that always ends in long term relarionship(hush i know some of them do ok)
Were you ever direct and let him know point blank you like him?
Cause he calls you friend and treats you like a friend. I think he just sees you as a friend.
Cause he calls you friend and treats you like a friend. I think he just sees you as a friend.
Posted by Arielle83Posted by CapilancePosted by Arielle83
He doesn’t owe you a relationship just because you were nice to him.
I dont believe he one me anything.I simply thougt we really connected.Crap, weirdly enough i dont need any **man**to be happy.But i truly believe hapiness and life should be shared .Weirdly enough, i actually feel like since he isint 100% right now,he is actually pulling away .I mean the man helped me with so much it rodiculous that he want out of his way like he did.I and Weirdly e nough i wanted to be there for him.I just cant relate over a year worth of life in here.😊
I’m sure he doesn’t want a relationship after just leaving one.click to expand
So way cause the other chick is only going to be for sex? Not sure i feel any better but yeah make sens.Emotional rebound...he isint my first...
Dammit why do i see these poor hepless man i fall for them.stupid maternal/mess-up lover instinct !🤣🤣🤣
As for your list, you can do all that without being in a relationship. Don’t wait around for a partner to pursue your goals.
Travel
Buy a house
Have kids
You can do all of that on your own.
Repeat after me, I’m not waiting to be chosen. I am the chooser.
Travel
Buy a house
Have kids
You can do all of that on your own.
Repeat after me, I’m not waiting to be chosen. I am the chooser.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Were you ever direct and let him know point blank you like him?
Cause he calls you friend and treats you like a friend. I think he just sees you as a friend.
I wrote this response and i hit the wrong button.But basically know.
Because texting hum things like hotpants,😘💕 touching him without it being weird and whenever he asked he i dated someone else ...I said know i am seeing no one else.Remind me to all the person...are you seeing anyone else?
Posted by Arielle83Posted by CapilancePosted by Arielle83Posted by CapilancePosted by Arielle83
He doesn’t owe you a relationship just because you were nice to him.
I dont believe he one me anything.I simply thougt we really connected.Crap, weirdly enough i dont need any **man**to be happy.But i truly believe hapiness and life should be shared .Weirdly enough, i actually feel like since he isint 100% right now,he is actually pulling away .I mean the man helped me with so much it rodiculous that he want out of his way like he did.I and Weirdly e nough i wanted to be there for him.I just cant relate over a year worth of life in here.😊
I’m sure he doesn’t want a relationship after just leaving one.
So way cause the other chick is only going to be for sex? Not sure i feel any better but yeah make sens.Emotional rebound...he isint my first...
Dammit why do i see these poor hepless man i fall for them.stupid maternal/mess-up lover instinct !🤣🤣🤣
No, he’s dating around.
People date around to learn about people. ***To learn about knew people or themselve ?He’ll probably be dating a while if he’s got another date lined up.
Why should he settle if he doesn’t feel what he wants?and that sentence sorta dosen make sens in my head...The last part...he dosent feel ehat he wants? You mean he dosen't know what he want or he la not feeling the spark—that would make more sens to me.click to expand
Posted by Arielle83Posted by CapilancePosted by Arielle83Posted by CapilancePosted by Arielle83Posted by CapilancePosted by Arielle83
He doesn’t owe you a relationship just because you were nice to him.
I dont believe he one me anything.I simply thougt we really connected.Crap, weirdly enough i dont need any **man**to be happy.But i truly believe hapiness and life should be shared .Weirdly enough, i actually feel like since he isint 100% right now,he is actually pulling away .I mean the man helped me with so much it rodiculous that he want out of his way like he did.I and Weirdly e nough i wanted to be there for him.I just cant relate over a year worth of life in here.😊
I’m sure he doesn’t want a relationship after just leaving one.
So way cause the other chick is only going to be for sex? Not sure i feel any better but yeah make sens.Emotional rebound...he isint my first...
Dammit why do i see these poor hepless man i fall for them.stupid maternal/mess-up lover instinct !🤣🤣🤣
No, he’s dating around.
People date around to learn about people. ***To learn about knew people or themselve ?He’ll probably be dating a while if he’s got another date lined up.
Why should he settle if he doesn’t feel what he wants?and that sentence sorta dosen make sens in my head...The last part...he dosent feel ehat he wants? You mean he dosen't know what he want or he la not feeling the spark—that would make more sens to me.
He doesn’t feel the other person can give him what he needs in order to commit and have a stable relationship.---funny,back when he was eith his girlfriend.He would tell me things like.You understand life.You know what it like to have kids.I never argue with you...
Guess it wasent what he wanted even if said he did.Someone who understand his situation bla bla bla...lol
It’s not always about some sexual/chemistry “spark”click to expand
Thanks i understand now.
Virgos are pretty aggressive when it comes to getting sex. There’s nothing shy about them in that area.
Ain't that the truth 😂😂😂 I've never had a Virgo not try to have sex with me from day 1.
Posted by CapilancePosted by SeaLionPosted by dilettantePosted by saggurl88Posted by dilettante
is your mercury in sag or somethin? cuz this was a weird af read
lol
What—? She's from another country lol
i have merc in sag & it seems like something i woulda typed out.
its manic, changes topics, doesnt make sense, & is all over the place. it’s also typed out as if she is having a conversation w/ someone... someone who is not present.
Yeah.... this is a weird read
Well if it make any of you feel better.He says the same thing when i talk about something.Omitting and introduction,subject,verb.
Si here i was looking for input...
I got some alrigth.On how incomprehensive i can be.How people cannot follow my train of thougt.
Its a really great to help with the ego...
There is an almost animal quality to it...
Look at it...how it talks,think...
Anybody making any sens of what its saying?
Maybe we could make an exhibit and show it in New York...
Enjoying some self irony.
Because clearly that is all i have left.click to expand
funny!
you sound super cute
ask him why he is tying to date normal person
when he could be dating you
Wot
Posted by shellshockerPosted by CapilancePosted by SeaLionPosted by dilettantePosted by saggurl88Posted by dilettante
is your mercury in sag or somethin? cuz this was a weird af read
lol
What—? She's from another country lol
i have merc in sag & it seems like something i woulda typed out.
its manic, changes topics, doesnt make sense, & is all over the place. it’s also typed out as if she is having a conversation w/ someone... someone who is not present.
Yeah.... this is a weird read
Well if it make any of you feel better.He says the same thing when i talk about something.Omitting and introduction,subject,verb.
Si here i was looking for input...
I got some alrigth.On how incomprehensive i can be.How people cannot follow my train of thougt.
Its a really great to help with the ego...
There is an almost animal quality to it...
Look at it...how it talks,think...
Anybody making any sens of what its saying?
Maybe we could make an exhibit and show it in New York...
Enjoying some self irony.
Because clearly that is all i have left.
funny!
Ahhh thank, i know i am a fun,quirky,95% of the time laughing (serisously even when i am sick).My ex would tell me,how do you wake up happy all the time...
Maybe my hapiness is scaring men away!
Here,i will try sulking right away.😠😳🤣🤣🤣
Anyone felt chemistry attraction for half a second there?
you sound super cute
ask him why he is tying to date normal person
when he could be dating youclick to expand
Stop playing therapist for people you have a deeper interest in.
Why place yourself in a position to be used as a rebound? Developing feelings for someone who just lost a relationship is foolish.
You may not want to date 12 dudes but maybe you should consider dating 2-4? Seriously. In my 20s I did. No sex/intimacy involved. One of the best times OF MY LIFE.
You don't trust easily? No one should. But, that's all the more reason to weigh all options.
You should really consider broadening your social circle, to meet ALL kinds of mens.
Why place yourself in a position to be used as a rebound? Developing feelings for someone who just lost a relationship is foolish.
You may not want to date 12 dudes but maybe you should consider dating 2-4? Seriously. In my 20s I did. No sex/intimacy involved. One of the best times OF MY LIFE.
You don't trust easily? No one should. But, that's all the more reason to weigh all options.
You should really consider broadening your social circle, to meet ALL kinds of mens.
Posted by sweetpea2977
Stop playing therapist for people you have a deeper interest in.
Why place yourself in a position to be used as a rebound? Developing feelings for someone who just lost a relationship is foolish.
---of course,but its not exactly and on and off switch. That i can just turn on or not.
-But yeah one of my friend offered me one of her exes.. who was clearly still hung up on her.That was fun.
-My other friend wanted to lend me a guy she sees in a...several poeple setting small we say?So left-overs,not so much.
-online dating,i got an incredible amout of men wanting me to be there dominatrix(stupid bettie page fringe) or nice guys that never show up
-Local bar...that was a disaster...
-But thats just normal*** fun*** dating*** 😂😂😂
You may not want to date 12 dudes but maybe you should consider dating 2-4? Seriously. In my 20s I did. No sex/intimacy involved. One of the best times OF MY LIFE.
---i aint in my 20s anymore.I am not looking for THE one.Simply someone i have a great connection with. .I am passed the lets fool around until i find someone better.
I saw different guys in my 20s.Some i was intimate with,others not. But been there,it was ok-ish.
You don't trust easily? No one should. But, that's all the more reason to weigh all options.
You should really consider broadening your social circle, to meet ALL kinds of mens.
--- I have broadened...i asked a friend once,that guy you set me up.Would you of dated him?
Looked away and said no...-you were both single.🤣
Pleased be more discerning if you want me to meet someone.lol
Posted by SassysailorscoutPosted by CapilancePosted by SassysailorscoutPosted by CapilancePosted by Sassysailorscout
I'm sorry this sucks !!!
Was there chemistry ?
Umm I can only give my outlook as a Virgo girl....
I never like guys who don't put a move on me physically. It makes the relationship friends only.
Also chill out maybe he's trying to see your reaction. I do that alot too. *shrug* I'm human I want to be wanted.
Tell him or show him how you feel in a non angry way. Flirt more. 👀👅
We had great chemistry actually...but i am capricorn...i am 35 and hes...46..seriously ..I told him To have fun.Sorry but i dont like being played like a fool.But beside touchant à monde there and there .And he would always sit at the en of the sofa...i cant just naturelly doe the arm stress thing you know. 😉
Hmm .... this is interesting ....
Crap my phone translating everything is annoying !!! That does not make sens for me...i might try what you said.But ill come off just as despesrated i think
I figured you spoke another language !!
touchant à monde 😍👀
It's never desperate if your sexy about it 😉 let loose and don't think who cares .
You only got one life to live.
Let me tell you a story of a woman who didn't care.
There was this lady who really like this man, he was hardworking and serious and kind. He didn't have a woman. This lady went to visit the man in another state and asked to sLee on his couch in the living room. Everyday she would make his breakfast lunch and dinner. After a whIle she moved from the living room to his bedroom. They are married now with two kids I believe.
😉😉😉😉she wasn't worried about being desperate.click to expand
❤Wow That's beautiful.❤
I actually wrote back when he said he had a date to have fun.
Maybe i will let him know if he tells me about his date that...you know,i am NOT interested in knowing about that.Have anything else to say?😝
Posted by dilettante
is your mercury in sag or somethin? cuz this was a weird af read
So it turns out. It totally is! My bad
Posted by SassysailorscoutPosted by CapilancePosted by SassysailorscoutPosted by CapilancePosted by SassysailorscoutPosted by CapilancePosted by Sassysailorscout
I'm sorry this sucks !!!
Was there chemistry ?
Umm I can only give my outlook as a Virgo girl....
I never like guys who don't put a move on me physically. It makes the relationship friends only.
Also chill out maybe he's trying to see your reaction. I do that alot too. *shrug* I'm human I want to be wanted.
Tell him or show him how you feel in a non angry way. Flirt more. 👀👅
We had great chemistry actually...but i am capricorn...i am 35 and hes...46..seriously ..I told him To have fun.Sorry but i dont like being played like a fool.But beside touchant à monde there and there .And he would always sit at the en of the sofa...i cant just naturelly doe the arm stress thing you know. 😉
Hmm .... this is interesting ....
Crap my phone translating everything is annoying !!! That does not make sens for me...i might try what you said.But ill come off just as despesrated i think
I figured you spoke another language !!
touchant à monde 😍👀
It's never desperate if your sexy about it 😉 let loose and don't think who cares .
You only got one life to live.
Let me tell you a story of a woman who didn't care.
There was this lady who really like this man, he was hardworking and serious and kind. He didn't have a woman. This lady went to visit the man in another state and asked to sLee on his couch in the living room. Everyday she would make his breakfast lunch and dinner. After a whIle she moved from the living room to his bedroom. They are married now with two kids I believe.
😉😉😉😉she wasn't worried about being desperate.
❤Wow That's beautiful.❤
I actually wrote back when he said he had a date to have fun.
Maybe i will let him know if he tells me about his date that...you know,i am NOT interested in knowing about that.Have anything else to say?😝
Try this "
Now that your dating again... i need you to take me out. Pick me up at 8 next weekend!😘"
Aggressiveness works with Virgos. We like fire and Hott. Demanding
You deserve this date dammit !!! 😆 😆 😆 🎁 🎁 🎁click to expand
ahhh your sweet
Ha ha ha actually, i am seing a friend tomorrow.And plan on telling her i want us to go out dating men next weekend and after that also.So that when/if i get a follow up about his date.
-I am enjoying myself
-I need to keep my options open
-I need to see how other guys are willing to treat me.
-And maybe he will realise some things...
-And maybe so will i...
Maybe the grass wont be that green elsewhere.
But yeah,vjrgo like headstrong poeple.The only problem is,we actually have lots of similar views.So maybe in his head i am just trying to conform to his ideal.I simoly happened to agree on a bunch of them.Maybe i need a really polymic subject so we can lovely disagree around a conversation while being both logical and headstrong...😆
Ps talking with you is a blast.It is both fun and supportive but with no BS.Just saying...they do say Virgos are good at giving advice.😉
So next career? I can plan an entire curriculum.But then you virgo plan for the year ahead...Or more like the rest of your life.You guys got this all worked out.
Posted by SassysailorscoutPosted by CapilancePosted by SassysailorscoutPosted by CapilancePosted by SassysailorscoutPosted by CapilancePosted by SassysailorscoutPosted by CapilancePosted by Sassysailorscout
I'm sorry this sucks !!!
Was there chemistry ?
Umm I can only give my outlook as a Virgo girl....
I never like guys who don't put a move on me physically. It makes the relationship friends only.
Also chill out maybe he's trying to see your reaction. I do that alot too. *shrug* I'm human I want to be wanted.
Tell him or show him how you feel in a non angry way. Flirt more. 👀👅
We had great chemistry actually...but i am capricorn...i am 35 and hes...46..seriously ..I told him To have fun.Sorry but i dont like being played like a fool.But beside touchant à monde there and there .And he would always sit at the en of the sofa...i cant just naturelly doe the arm stress thing you know. 😉
Hmm .... this is interesting ....
Crap my phone translating everything is annoying !!! That does not make sens for me...i might try what you said.But ill come off just as despesrated i think
I figured you spoke another language !!
touchant à monde 😍👀
It's never desperate if your sexy about it 😉 let loose and don't think who cares .
You only got one life to live.
Let me tell you a story of a woman who didn't care.
There was this lady who really like this man, he was hardworking and serious and kind. He didn't have a woman. This lady went to visit the man in another state and asked to sLee on his couch in the living room. Everyday she would make his breakfast lunch and dinner. After a whIle she moved from the living room to his bedroom. They are married now with two kids I believe.
😉😉😉😉she wasn't worried about being desperate.
❤Wow That's beautiful.❤
I actually wrote back when he said he had a date to have fun.
Maybe i will let him know if he tells me about his date that...you know,i am NOT interested in knowing about that.Have anything else to say?😝
Try this "
Now that your dating again... i need you to take me out. Pick me up at 8 next weekend!😘"
Aggressiveness works with Virgos. We like fire and Hott. Demanding
You deserve this date dammit !!! 😆 😆 😆 🎁 🎁 🎁
ahhh your sweet
Ha ha ha actually, i am seing a friend tomorrow.And plan on telling her i want us to go out dating men next weekend and after that also.So that when/if i get a follow up about his date.
-I am enjoying myself
-I need to keep my options open
-I need to see how other guys are willing to treat me.
-And maybe he will realise some things...
-And maybe so will i...
Maybe the grass wont be that green elsewhere.
But yeah,vjrgo like headstrong poeple.The only problem is,we actually have lots of similar views.So maybe in his head i am just trying to conform to his ideal.I simoly happened to agree on a bunch of them.Maybe i need a really polymic subject so we can lovely disagree around a conversation while being both logical and headstrong...😆
Ps talking with you is a blast.It is both fun and supportive but with no BS.Just saying...they do say Virgos are good at giving advice.😉
So next career? I can plan an entire curriculum.But then you virgo plan for the year ahead...Or more like the rest of your life.You guys got this all worked out.
Ohhh thanks kinda !
I'm terrible Virgo. Fish moon and just fucking surrounded around everyone who wants to be like me when I just want to die.
I hate being charge now but recently still can't help but be in charge it's so destructive. Ugh I'm not organized! And I'm getting slower but yea I don't even remember what I was saying ...
If
Your
Talking
About
Your
Virgo
Man
Get
Physical
Asap
Because otherwise it's dead. Get some heat in the mix. Fire fire fire woman. Sheesh.
Even I'm getting distracted by myself ( example in point)click to expand
🔥🔥🔥🔥
Posted by SeaLion
Virgos are pretty aggressive when it comes to getting sex. There’s nothing shy about them in that area.
Ain't that the truth 😂😂😂 I've never had a Virgo not try to have sex with me from day 1.
Well,the first evening we were alone after his break-up within a month i guess,the ball did get moving lol.
Posted by SassysailorscoutPosted by CapilancePosted by SassysailorscoutPosted by CapilancePosted by SassysailorscoutPosted by CapilancePosted by SassysailorscoutPosted by CapilancePosted by Sassysailorscout
I'm sorry this sucks !!!
Was there chemistry ?
Umm I can only give my outlook as a Virgo girl....
I never like guys who don't put a move on me physically. It makes the relationship friends only.
Also chill out maybe he's trying to see your reaction. I do that alot too. *shrug* I'm human I want to be wanted.
Tell him or show him how you feel in a non angry way. Flirt more. 👀👅
We had great chemistry actually...but i am capricorn...i am 35 and hes...46..seriously ..I told him To have fun.Sorry but i dont like being played like a fool.But beside touchant à monde there and there .And he would always sit at the en of the sofa...i cant just naturelly doe the arm stress thing you know. 😉
Hmm .... this is interesting ....
Crap my phone translating everything is annoying !!! That does not make sens for me...i might try what you said.But ill come off just as despesrated i think
I figured you spoke another language !!
touchant à monde 😍👀
It's never desperate if your sexy about it 😉 let loose and don't think who cares .
You only got one life to live.
Let me tell you a story of a woman who didn't care.
There was this lady who really like this man, he was hardworking and serious and kind. He didn't have a woman. This lady went to visit the man in another state and asked to sLee on his couch in the living room. Everyday she would make his breakfast lunch and dinner. After a whIle she moved from the living room to his bedroom. They are married now with two kids I believe.
😉😉😉😉she wasn't worried about being desperate.
❤Wow That's beautiful.❤
I actually wrote back when he said he had a date to have fun.
Maybe i will let him know if he tells me about his date that...you know,i am NOT interested in knowing about that.Have anything else to say?😝
Try this "
Now that your dating again... i need you to take me out. Pick me up at 8 next weekend!😘"
Aggressiveness works with Virgos. We like fire and Hott. Demanding
You deserve this date dammit !!! 😆 😆 😆 🎁 🎁 🎁
ahhh your sweet
Ha ha ha actually, i am seing a friend tomorrow.And plan on telling her i want us to go out dating men next weekend and after that also.So that when/if i get a follow up about his date.
-I am enjoying myself
-I need to keep my options open
-I need to see how other guys are willing to treat me.
-And maybe he will realise some things...
-And maybe so will i...
Maybe the grass wont be that green elsewhere.
But yeah,vjrgo like headstrong poeple.The only problem is,we actually have lots of similar views.So maybe in his head i am just trying to conform to his ideal.I simoly happened to agree on a bunch of them.Maybe i need a really polymic subject so we can lovely disagree around a conversation while being both logical and headstrong...😆
Ps talking with you is a blast.It is both fun and supportive but with no BS.Just saying...they do say Virgos are good at giving advice.😉
So next career? I can plan an entire curriculum.But then you virgo plan for the year ahead...Or more like the rest of your life.You guys got this all worked out.
Ohhh thanks kinda !
I'm terrible Virgo. Fish moon and just fucking surrounded around everyone who wants to be like me when I just want to die.
I hate being charge now but recently still can't help but be in charge it's so destructive. Ugh I'm not organized! And I'm getting slower but yea I don't even remember what I was saying ...
If
Your
Talking
About
Your
Virgo
Man
Get
Physical
Asap
Because otherwise it's dead. Get some heat in the mix. Fire fire fire woman. Sheesh.
Even I'm getting distracted by myself ( example in point)click to expand
Ha ha ha your approach/humour is amazing. Will when I get the chance to see him or not.But planning on dating around too.Sucks,cause for me dating,the version today is all about non long term.And us cappies,we like close knit relationship...and i gotta go into the world and meet a bunch of strangers. .whom i probably won't keep in my life for very long.🤣🤣🤣
And maybe i just dont like being sociable all that much...the whole...what you do for work?want kids? Whats your morgage like...Damn that sound boring to me...
Posted by Arielle83
Op I think he doesn’t see you as a date yet, because he knows you from work and you became friends while you were with other people.
You got closer when he was single, because he didn’t have a gf holding him back. Or a gf getting mad he’s friends with a female work colleague.
------Actually,i think he purpously hide the fact that we hung out when he had his girlfriend even do it was purely platonic at that point.
He probably liked having the single freedom to bond with you on a friendship level. Eating dinner with wine is something a lot of friends do together. Doesn’t mean it equals intent to couple.
--- i know that,it the whole setting,timing,vibe thing also.I dont candle light,make sure kiddo isint home(wich was never and issue before.We all hung out together,and it was weird because we had *family quality time together,but with his ex,it wasent working when they all did hang out)
You saying or asking about his dating or saying you’re not seeing anyone is too vague and passive in announcing your devoted interest in him.
I’d say don’t be bitter about him, stay friends and judge him as a potential partner based on how he talks about the women he dates.
You might realise he isn’t that great of a partner, or if he’s only interested in short term flings.
----Since we got to be friends,we actually talked about this.And Weirdly enough when i voice my point of view on those subject,relationship,family,children...he always said things...like Wow, that is exactly what i think,want,you understand what it is all about,etc.
You’ll get closer to him as a friend, and probably see who he really is. He won’t have the pressure to be something he isn’t.
----And the thing is,i saw him as a collegue,friend,dad,brother,partner(to someone else)...And i did see someone i think would be a great partner.
---***Obviously if he dosent see me that way...Well beside telling him directly how i feel and kiss him ...he wont change his mind if i am only a friend To him.But he has made paid compliments to so many things. Have it be physical,values,etc... I mean either your the nicest guy who went of his way to help me with everything(Like i said,over a year worth of: painting my appartement,putting up wallpaper,fixing my window,going with me To get stuff at the hardware store,giving me stuff,showing me how to do things,took the time on 21 to get a christmas tree with me and the list goes on and on(but yes i helped too lol) ,Call me To talk over the Phone,asking me along to help you buy your nephews and niece their christmas gifts,showered me with compliments and have dinners(cause we are not calling them dates) and tease me and everything ...And you only want to be friend...Thats a bloody first for me.
I mean even my closes friends don't do that much.So yes,i might be biased about his possible interest in me.But can you blame me?🤣
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I love to read manuals well I take a dump.. it relaxes me... That is all
Any other Virgos feel at times like they want to give up on life...not like commit suicide but just drop everything and walk away from it all?
Just before Christmas I reconnected with a guy that I dated right out of high school. He is Virgo and I am a cap. I had gotten hit by a drunk driver and was out of work. When I came back he asked me out. We dated for 2 years and I split up with him. N
my scorpio sun/cap moon co-worker who uses negging as a 'technique' to attract females is now using mimicry L O L
so he copies stuff his virgo sun/sag moon crush says but all it does is annoy the crap outta her
but her crush walks into the room, does an
Hello all,
I'm a Pisces. My question of the day is - when do virgos use terms of endearment?
Of course my question doesn't come out of nowhere, so I give the context here:
I'm an immigrant and I work in a company for few months now. The country I live in
Okay, so basically since changing colleges I went from never getting an F or a D in my life to potentially failing two classes. I am utterly devistated by this and would love some sign specific advice for dealing with this feeling of failure and embarrass
- the main reason I called things off was because I didn't believe I was their future husband and we were like friends.
Otherwise they were great experience to date and overall wonderful.
Then again I haven't had horrible experiences with Virgos in life
Met this Virgo through a dating website about a month ago, he's divorced with 2 kids, 42.
First few dates went great, then he became a bit distant and unavailable. It seems he only texts me when he feels he's got time to meet up, and I don't feel much aff
Hi
what signs do you think i'd be the most compatible with? I'm a Virgo sun, leo moon, virgo mercury, gemini mars, virgo venus and cancer rising.
I have sun in 3rd house, moon in 1st house, venus in 3rd house and mars in 11th house.
Do you always find yourself like hyper-focusing on details and at times always feel like you're missing some pivotal or perhaps not grasping the big picture? Also, would you consider Virgo in Mercury as pedant?
Y'all are hilarious. How do you love? Give me the detz!!!
Anyone else experienced their Virgo peeps being selfish. I’ve noticed this in two of my Virgo friends, one of them tends to ask me for a lot of stuff that they don’t need? And the other would never go out of his way for me. I am just curious if this a Vir
Listen lmao. I just need help, I try but listen okay I need help lol. My love as per my recent last topic is a virgo sun/cancer moon. So you know, workaholic, workoutholic, homebody. I’m going to Italy & paris end of the month and he brought up wantin
Ok let's try this again....
At what point or how much time do you consider someone as your friend?
I've been hanging with Virgo sun/pisces moon for alil over a year. About 3 months ago, we considered opening a business together, as we work in the same f
Yeah, so I'm a bit analytical. If you piss a Virgo off and they have stopped talking you, but they haven't blocked your phone or from social media. What is going on in the Virgo's head?
Well??
What’s it all supposed to mean
Hey ya
I deadass love dxp and I wanna shout out all my virgos
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And to anyone with virgo placements
Shall you be orga
Title says it all.
Also, would it best to send it once they’re not so emotionally charged or?
Opinions/suggestions/advice please.
I don't know if you guys have seen the new neflix speacial I did twice lol But he really when in on some of these groups cough lbgt groups. Exposeed there plan and dare them to try to cancel him. Little do they know virgos don't mind being cancel especial
I have no experience with Virgo venuses at all. I’m dating a guy now that is one, and just curious about you all. How are you when you first start dating? In a relationship?
Went from collegues to friends...to seing each other but not going anything.He got dumped a few month back,that is when we got closer.We would have nice dinners with wine,watch netflix toguether,etc.. but...nothing.
I casually asked how is looking was looking,i have an upcoming brunch with a friend on sunday.
He clearly stated how busy he was and his upcoming date on sunday.
Seriously i let you heal,not rushing you but show you interested but let you decided the paste and this?
I guess some men are afraid.Him being a dad dosent scared me,been there done that.You being a few years older...Its fine.
But i Guess it was all in my head.
I have been through a lot.Like most people.😉My ex left me for someone else(we tried the good old polyamourous thing(i being bi),and i got unceremoniously dumped for another person way too long thing to explain.So i got left that time not by one but 2 people.I was told she is exactly what you are not.How ironic! it cause you to challenge what you are an rethink everything but anyway i digress.I was also step mom during that time and had to forgo that relationship also.
I find myself confuse.I dont want to date 12 guys at a time like my other friend.I dont trust easily new people. I am happy with my life and was looking foward to share with someone else.
I guess people think someone else is going to make them happy.I know its not the case.And i am not entirely sure he was happy.
Of course my ego is slightly bruised. Even if i am capricorn...i am still...***cough*** human***cough*** .
I understand that your are supposed to know what you want.But life as so much to offer. Do i have to stay alone because i am open to different experience?
-no i dont want to buy a house for now,maybe someday
-maybe i want kids it all a question of where when what...and with whom!
-i want to travel but dont want to quit my job to travel 6 months.
-i enjoy my alone time as well as time with family and loved ones
-ps it does not mean i open to open relationship do anymore do ...lol
So retiring at 50 living alone with my cats(only have one for now) kinda looking like an option...
Sorry this is long rent more on me.
But why are virgo afraid.Don't they know they are hurting us when they do stupid shit like that?
I mean you shared your personnel.stuff with us.Invite us into your home.We meet your family and friend.You confesse in us.You help.us out...
But you doN't want more...
You dont say it clearly.You used us has a buffer when you had a girldfriend( i was only a friend and never bad talk the relationship or her).encouraged him to talk and express his needs and feelings.
Then graduelle things change when you became single,privately set us up.Date-like night but no foward till you are ready to.move on and meet other women...? Are they all the same?
I have been rebound.before...
Miraculously managed to be a talking version for better or worse...but this gig is getting old.
Cappies and Virgo are supposed to be a great match.
We were great collegues.Had great fun.
We were great friends...Supportive and relaxing
But everything went south after that.Dating never took off because you got hurt and where afraid again?
So running away with another?
This one his hard because,this is someone i trusted.Weirdly enough i am pretty sure i can call him if i need help and he will show.
But its not another friend i wanted.
Si virgos,is this you? Why do you friendzone someone and keep them on stand by without being clear?
Well i guess this apply to all signs..and sexes obvisouly.