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Let’s say your dating 2 guys.

Guy 1, you paint a picture of yourself like an angel. You want him to see you in the purest light. So you hid things from your past and lie here and there little lies but still. You don’t tell him about your dirty secrets, you decrease the number of guys you been with, sexual experience you tell him well I’ve never done this before(but you have). You create a different person only for him to see because how he sees you matters some what.

Guy 2, he knows your deepest darkest secrets, because you don’t really care what he thinks that much or if he knows about you being promiscuous in your past. Your an open book with him and you do connect with him, he can see you how ever he wants, and you remain open and honest with him about seeing other guys because his opinion of you doesn’t matter as much.

Which guy do you love more, and why?

Personally, I don't see the difference between 1 and 2. If the person doesn't ask then don't tell. Unless of course health and safety are involved. From interacting with men over the years, I learnt that some secrets are best untold.

I draw that boundary from any potential risk. Let's just say it's damage control and unnecessary. I don't want to date a guy who I can't be my authentic self.

I don't owe anybody anything and somebody knowing my deepest secret doesn't mean we have the "ultimate" connection.

It really depends what my plan is in life. Am I thinking short or long term? Is it based on logic? emotion? sexual desire?

Thank you you are a emotionally intelligent women! You could teach a lot of women how to get to the point and not allow emotions to over flow. It’s a shame that a question can be an attack to do many women.
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I’ve been with over 60 women and counting.

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Pick the top guys or better quality of guys and you won’t have to worry about finding another guy. You may run across a few bad ones but over 10 slow down and 20— Come on that’s 20 guys I’m not calling you a bad person but get counseling. That should hold more value.

Op perhaps consider taking your own advice. Speaking to a therapist might do you wonders.

Or is this a, do as I say not as I do.

No your right. Going forward I’ll just tell women to sleep many guys as they want. I’ll tell them it’ll increase their chances of getting married and having a happy relationship etc. because you know! Boys grow up thinking I really hope my gurl has been with a tone of guys and possibly has kids. Who cares if my first is her 2nd or 3rd. And that’s why

The truth hurts but it’s real.

You proposed to a woman who had a child from a previous relationship.
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I didn’t propose just for a piece of the cookie in the cookie jar. That may have been a little motivation but 2 years into a relationship and a possible beautiful little step daughter I’m all in for it. I don’t see me going anywhere and If she is Prego I wouldn’t be too upset.

Your own actions are the opposite of your advice. Which is unsolicited btw. Women neither requested nor want your outdated hypocritical approach to relationships.

Yes I have and I still will Marry a women with kids but if I had to pick between versions of my wife one with out a kid the 2nd with I’d go for option 1 every time. And I love my step kid. But that’s how men are

Perhaps instead of wasting your time on strangers online you should be open and honest in your own relationship. Let your wife know that you would've preferred her child didn't exist and you fantasize about an alternate universe where her body count was lower and she was childless.

Also let her know that you are planning to fuck other women. 60 and counting...

Your so eager to tell women 'the truth' why don't you start with telling your wife your truth.
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Not with her anymore. I gave her a brand new house, brand new cars, a large sum of money. That’s what happens when you pick a man that can afford to take care of you.

And I was honest from day one I told her her kid would be obstacle for me. But every one I’ve dated doesn’t have to fit to what I know (not feel or think or assume) I’ve had privilege to be around guys who run major I.T companies, one who is large broker in New York city, guys who’ve made millions who are married and we talk about business more business, money and than women. So when I hear Guys lie to women like that other guy did it is disappointing because he knows it’s lie but these guys want be like rather than being respected.
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I’ve been with over 60 women and counting.

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Pick the top guys or better quality of guys and you won’t have to worry about finding another guy. You may run across a few bad ones but over 10 slow down and 20— Come on that’s 20 guys I’m not calling you a bad person but get counseling. That should hold more value.

Op perhaps consider taking your own advice. Speaking to a therapist might do you wonders.

Or is this a, do as I say not as I do.

No your right. Going forward I’ll just tell women to sleep many guys as they want. I’ll tell them it’ll increase their chances of getting married and having a happy relationship etc. because you know! Boys grow up thinking I really hope my gurl has been with a tone of guys and possibly has kids. Who cares if my first is her 2nd or 3rd. And that’s why

The truth hurts but it’s real.

Why are you telling women anything about their sex lives, or lack thereof? Have they all asked you to?

If so, why?

Why does it matter to you. You’ve express your position already. You gave your response. This isn’t a debate this a question between 2 options. Your trying dissect the question for what it’s a waste of time.

It matters to me, because I am curious about your motivations, view point, and what information you are drawing on to make these claims.

Especially since you have explicitly said that you know what all men think. I am curious what makes you believe that. Especially since there are two men who have explicitly said they don't see nor feel the way you are saying "all men" do. You seem to look at that actual bona fide fact as dishonest, I want to know why.

Do you dislike questions on the topic you brought up?

Were you expecting to have people uncritically accept your words?
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Because it’s my thread, it’s my post. You keep asking the creator questions I don’t owe. The topic is about what I post. Not what you want to hear. And it’s not going to change
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I’ve been with over 60 women and counting.

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Pick the top guys or better quality of guys and you won’t have to worry about finding another guy. You may run across a few bad ones but over 10 slow down and 20— Come on that’s 20 guys I’m not calling you a bad person but get counseling. That should hold more value.

Op perhaps consider taking your own advice. Speaking to a therapist might do you wonders.

Or is this a, do as I say not as I do.

No your right. Going forward I’ll just tell women to sleep many guys as they want. I’ll tell them it’ll increase their chances of getting married and having a happy relationship etc. because you know! Boys grow up thinking I really hope my gurl has been with a tone of guys and possibly has kids. Who cares if my first is her 2nd or 3rd. And that’s why

The truth hurts but it’s real.

You proposed to a woman who had a child from a previous relationship.
Posted by SuperSize9

I didn’t propose just for a piece of the cookie in the cookie jar. That may have been a little motivation but 2 years into a relationship and a possible beautiful little step daughter I’m all in for it. I don’t see me going anywhere and If she is Prego I wouldn’t be too upset.

Your own actions are the opposite of your advice. Which is unsolicited btw. Women neither requested nor want your outdated hypocritical approach to relationships.

Yes I have and I still will Marry a women with kids but if I had to pick between versions of my wife one with out a kid the 2nd with I’d go for option 1 every time. And I love my step kid. But that’s how men are

Perhaps instead of wasting your time on strangers online you should be open and honest in your own relationship. Let your wife know that you would've preferred her child didn't exist and you fantasize about an alternate universe where her body count was lower and she was childless.

Also let her know that you are planning to fuck other women. 60 and counting...

Your so eager to tell women 'the truth' why don't you start with telling your wife your truth.

Not with her anymore. I gave her a brand new house, brand new cars, a large sum of money. That’s what happens when you pick a man that can afford to take care of you.

And I was honest from day one I told her her kid would be obstacle for me. But every one I’ve dated doesn’t have to fit to what I know (not feel or think or assume) I’ve had privilege to be around guys who run major I.T companies, one who is large broker in New York city, guys who’ve made millions who are married and we talk about business more business, money and than women. So when I hear Guys lie to women like that other guy did it is disappointing because he knows it’s lie but these guys want be like rather than being respected.
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Yikes. So your body count is 60 and counting and you haven't been able to find a women to bribe into marriage? Gasp.

Again, you need to rethink your approach. Instead of viewing women as objects whose affection you can buy, look instead for qualities you can connect with outside of sex. Someone who is a partner looking to build a future with you. What else do you bring to the table outside of money? Lean into that.

Instead of leading with what you THINK women want (money/a provider) try being open to what women TELL you they want. You can practice by starting with this thread.

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I’ve been with over 60 women and counting.

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Pick the top guys or better quality of guys and you won’t have to worry about finding another guy. You may run across a few bad ones but over 10 slow down and 20— Come on that’s 20 guys I’m not calling you a bad person but get counseling. That should hold more value.

Op perhaps consider taking your own advice. Speaking to a therapist might do you wonders.

Or is this a, do as I say not as I do.

No your right. Going forward I’ll just tell women to sleep many guys as they want. I’ll tell them it’ll increase their chances of getting married and having a happy relationship etc. because you know! Boys grow up thinking I really hope my gurl has been with a tone of guys and possibly has kids. Who cares if my first is her 2nd or 3rd. And that’s why

The truth hurts but it’s real.

Why are you telling women anything about their sex lives, or lack thereof? Have they all asked you to?

If so, why?

Why does it matter to you. You’ve express your position already. You gave your response. This isn’t a debate this a question between 2 options. Your trying dissect the question for what it’s a waste of time.

It matters to me, because I am curious about your motivations, view point, and what information you are drawing on to make these claims.

Especially since you have explicitly said that you know what all men think. I am curious what makes you believe that. Especially since there are two men who have explicitly said they don't see nor feel the way you are saying "all men" do. You seem to look at that actual bona fide fact as dishonest, I want to know why.

Do you dislike questions on the topic you brought up?

Were you expecting to have people uncritically accept your words?

Because it’s my thread, it’s my post. You keep asking the creator questions I don’t owe. The topic is about what I post. Not what you want to hear. And it’s not going to change

Hrm am I not talking about what you posted about? Are these questions not what you want to hear? I have asked you to change something?
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No, I just don’t care. Because it’s serves my post nothing. Are you a man or a women?
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Let’s say your dating 2 guys.

Guy 1, you paint a picture of yourself like an angel. You want him to see you in the purest light. So you hid things from your past and lie here and there little lies but still. You don’t tell him about your dirty secrets, you decrease the number of guys you been with, sexual experience you tell him well I’ve never done this before(but you have). You create a different person only for him to see because how he sees you matters some what.

Guy 2, he knows your deepest darkest secrets, because you don’t really care what he thinks that much or if he knows about you being promiscuous in your past. Your an open book with him and you do connect with him, he can see you how ever he wants, and you remain open and honest with him about seeing other guys because his opinion of you doesn’t matter as much.

Which guy do you love more, and why?


Typical Virgo with a Virgin / Whore scenario. Why does it have to be like this? so Black/White?

The person meant for me would be one that is accepting of me PERIOD, whether they know secrets or not.
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Let’s say your dating 2 guys.

Guy 1, you paint a picture of yourself like an angel. You want him to see you in the purest light. So you hid things from your past and lie here and there little lies but still. You don’t tell him about your dirty secrets, you decrease the number of guys you been with, sexual experience you tell him well I’ve never done this before(but you have). You create a different person only for him to see because how he sees you matters some what.

Guy 2, he knows your deepest darkest secrets, because you don’t really care what he thinks that much or if he knows about you being promiscuous in your past. Your an open book with him and you do connect with him, he can see you how ever he wants, and you remain open and honest with him about seeing other guys because his opinion of you doesn’t matter as much.

Which guy do you love more, and why?

Typical Virgo with a Virgin / Whore scenario. Why does it have to be like this? so Black/White?

The person meant for me would be one that is accepting of me PERIOD, whether they know secrets or not.
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How can someone except you if they don’t know you fully. You want someone to except you even if that means excepting their deal breakers
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Let’s say your dating 2 guys.

Why would anyone date a skank who's dating two guys at the same time? lol

It's pretty common in America
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It’s true I don’t fault women for having two guys. But if you play the field then make sure you know your man. And be safe doing it. Take all precautions.
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Let’s say your dating 2 guys.

Guy 1, you paint a picture of yourself like an angel. You want him to see you in the purest light. So you hid things from your past and lie here and there little lies but still. You don’t tell him about your dirty secrets, you decrease the number of guys you been with, sexual experience you tell him well I’ve never done this before(but you have). You create a different person only for him to see because how he sees you matters some what.

Guy 2, he knows your deepest darkest secrets, because you don’t really care what he thinks that much or if he knows about you being promiscuous in your past. Your an open book with him and you do connect with him, he can see you how ever he wants, and you remain open and honest with him about seeing other guys because his opinion of you doesn’t matter as much.

Which guy do you love more, and why?

Typical Virgo with a Virgin / Whore scenario. Why does it have to be like this? so Black/White?

The person meant for me would be one that is accepting of me PERIOD, whether they know secrets or not.

How can someone except you if they don’t know you fully. You want someone to except you even if that means excepting their deal breakers
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Knowing someone fully takes years and you can't keep everything hidden. I'm not sure why past sexual experiences even matter.

If my first boyfriend rammed a jalapeno up my poosy, just to see what would happen, why is that relevant information years later to my next boyfriend? Is this type of thing going to help you and her sex life?

I think dark secrets like 3 somes, bi interactions or anything else that isn't relevant to the current relationship is private to the person involved. It can hurt a fragile ego and it gives someone more insecurities.

I can understand public sites like OF or porn, but a 3 some? Really? What is the good of knowing this?

As long as safe sex was had, and there is nothing that will get passed to you, I don't think it matters much.

You want to be the first one in on the 3 some or what?
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The love from #2 would be felt deeply.

#1 is in love with someone that doesn’t exist. Deep inside, nothing is felt.

But you put so much effort to get guy 1. Guy 2 takes no effort. So loosing guy one would hurt because you tried to impress him while guy 2 come a dime a dozen.

And that person does exist we all re create ourselves

Maybe I shouldn’t participate in this thread. I’m not a Cardinal, and there is no way in hell I’d put that much effort into a lie.

Talk about wasted energy 🥴👎🏼

If you had to get a job you really wanted your dream job with your dream company but to get the job you’d had have to been a model citizen. Would you lie to get the job?
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Easy like MTFKER!
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No one talks about it openly in society, because it obviously makes a lot of women look bad, but many women commonly have had both types of men in their lives. The latter men have clearly been friendzoned. If you wonder how that wild Stacy or Kim from college eventually got married to that “perfect man” who seems kinda too good to be true for how you knew them as, scenario #1 is the oldest, obvious “trick” in the book. If someone is desperate enough to want to settle for the best that they can, they will lie. It is what it is. It’s part of life. Whether it’s a guy or a girl. It’s also part of the game/process to figure out who’s playing you or is the most genuine. The only thing is I’ve socially seen women more often not minding overlooking a man’s promiscuous past if they can be a good provider over a man overlooking a woman’s promiscuous past because I’ve seen way more men being hypocrites than women who’s egos believe they deserve a virgin or something close to it when they themselves are far from it. Once again, the whole dating and relationship game also includes figuring out others’ facades and what one is willing to settle on. It definitely doesn’t go one way.
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Let’s say your dating 2 guys.

Guy 1, you paint a picture of yourself like an angel. You want him to see you in the purest light. So you hid things from your past and lie here and there little lies but still. You don’t tell him about your dirty secrets, you decrease the number of guys you been with, sexual experience you tell him well I’ve never done this before(but you have). You create a different person only for him to see because how he sees you matters some what.

Guy 2, he knows your deepest darkest secrets, because you don’t really care what he thinks that much or if he knows about you being promiscuous in your past. Your an open book with him and you do connect with him, he can see you how ever he wants, and you remain open and honest with him about seeing other guys because his opinion of you doesn’t matter as much.

Which guy do you love more, and why?

"Dirty" secrets? Like what?
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Let’s say you stole money from a friend or lied on someone to get them in trouble does type of secrets
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Feminism is about flexible balance.

To help stop woman & children being raped and murdered.......

Millions of women get raped or murdered every year and have been since time began.

In Rwanda they use to cut the breast of woman....so a woman could not feed new-born children........... they both die.

In the Uk 1-3 boomer were abuse by men!!

Pretty much the same all over the world.

And paedophiles are the worst.

I can’t fault many men for not looking, as it a true horror story and it is walk through hell on earth .

Just My 2 pence worth.

Your very off topic but I’ll enlighten you.

Men made the laws that punished sex offenders, rape can easily get you 25 years to life. No matter what you believe.

Men also passed laws saying murder of any human is punishable by life in prison or death.

Men in government also passed laws to let women vote, get jobs, have equal right, protect them from sexual harassment at work.

In Rawanda it was a civil war, were women and men and even children participated in murder and slaughter and torture hyped by propaganda. And who do you think stop them? Other Men stopped them an Army of men. Not a army of feminist.

Paedophiles include women too. Women molest and have sex with under age children everyday. All it takes is a Simple google searches. In the Great Depression in America and many countries that suffered Famine, women ate their own children.

Matter of fact here’s a bit of history, feminist didn’t even want black women or women of many other races to join their party til after the 1960’s. That’s like if men join the klu klux klan today. And reasoned on their behalf and the good they had no influence in doing.
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Let’s say your dating 2 guys.

Guy 1, you paint a picture of yourself like an angel. You want him to see you in the purest light. So you hid things from your past and lie here and there little lies but still. You don’t tell him about your dirty secrets, you decrease the number of guys you been with, sexual experience you tell him well I’ve never done this before(but you have). You create a different person only for him to see because how he sees you matters some what.

Guy 2, he knows your deepest darkest secrets, because you don’t really care what he thinks that much or if he knows about you being promiscuous in your past. Your an open book with him and you do connect with him, he can see you how ever he wants, and you remain open and honest with him about seeing other guys because his opinion of you doesn’t matter as much.

Which guy do you love more, and why?

Typical Virgo with a Virgin / Whore scenario. Why does it have to be like this? so Black/White?

The person meant for me would be one that is accepting of me PERIOD, whether they know secrets or not.

How can someone except you if they don’t know you fully. You want someone to except you even if that means excepting their deal breakers

Knowing someone fully takes years and you can't keep everything hidden. I'm not sure why past sexual experiences even matter.

If my first boyfriend rammed a jalapeno up my poosy, just to see what would happen, why is that relevant information years later to my next boyfriend? Is this type of thing going to help you and her sex life?

I think dark secrets like 3 somes, bi interactions or anything else that isn't relevant to the current relationship is private to the person involved. It can hurt a fragile ego and it gives someone more insecurities.

I can understand public sites like OF or porn, but a 3 some? Really? What is the good of knowing this?

As long as safe sex was had, and there is nothing that will get passed to you, I don't think it matters much.

You want to be the first one in on the 3 some or what?
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If you feel any hesitation or embarrassment in telling your boyfriend or husband what you did with other men. Than you know in your gut. It was wrong and nothing to proud of or liberating. Everything you can learn from other guys you could easily learn from your man. Plus you don’t have all does guys living in your head.
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I'd rather them feel like they can tell me anything that's truth. If they're scared to or choose not to then I or them or we fucked up somewhere. And I've made that mistake in the past of being unaccepting, but I've realized openness and honesty should be rewarded because I'd rather have them do what makes them happy I guess than live a lie.

Than live a lonely life. That simple
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I'd rather them feel like they can tell me anything that's truth. If they're scared to or choose not to then I or them or we fucked up somewhere. And I've made that mistake in the past of being unaccepting, but I've realized openness and honesty should be rewarded because I'd rather have them do what makes them happy I guess than live a lie.

You’ll never tell the truth. You live a lie every day.
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Let’s say your dating 2 guys.

Guy 1, you paint a picture of yourself like an angel. You want him to see you in the purest light. So you hid things from your past and lie here and there little lies but still. You don’t tell him about your dirty secrets, you decrease the number of guys you been with, sexual experience you tell him well I’ve never done this before(but you have). You create a different person only for him to see because how he sees you matters some what.

Guy 2, he knows your deepest darkest secrets, because you don’t really care what he thinks that much or if he knows about you being promiscuous in your past. Your an open book with him and you do connect with him, he can see you how ever he wants, and you remain open and honest with him about seeing other guys because his opinion of you doesn’t matter as much.

Which guy do you love more, and why?

Typical Virgo with a Virgin / Whore scenario. Why does it have to be like this? so Black/White?

The person meant for me would be one that is accepting of me PERIOD, whether they know secrets or not.

How can someone except you if they don’t know you fully. You want someone to except you even if that means excepting their deal breakers

Knowing someone fully takes years and you can't keep everything hidden. I'm not sure why past sexual experiences even matter.

If my first boyfriend rammed a jalapeno up my poosy, just to see what would happen, why is that relevant information years later to my next boyfriend? Is this type of thing going to help you and her sex life?

I think dark secrets like 3 somes, bi interactions or anything else that isn't relevant to the current relationship is private to the person involved. It can hurt a fragile ego and it gives someone more insecurities.

I can understand public sites like OF or porn, but a 3 some? Really? What is the good of knowing this?

As long as safe sex was had, and there is nothing that will get passed to you, I don't think it matters much.

You want to be the first one in on the 3 some or what?

If you feel any hesitation or embarrassment in telling your boyfriend or husband what you did with other men. Than you know in your gut. It was wrong and nothing to proud of or liberating. Everything you can learn from other guys you could easily learn from your man. Plus you don’t have all does guys living in your head.
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It doesn’t even get brought up in conversation because it’s not important.

Anyone who has other guys “living in their head” while with someone else doesn’t need to be in a relationship anyways.

Asking about past sexual experiences is immature. We are grown adults with a sexual past.

Get a virgin if you are worried about your girl having dicks in her mouth previously and enjoying them.