SuperSize9
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I’ve been with over 60 women and counting.Posted by SuperSize9
Pick the top guys or better quality of guys and you won’t have to worry about finding another guy. You may run across a few bad ones but over 10 slow down and 20— Come on that’s 20 guys I’m not calling you a bad person but get counseling. That should hold more value.
Op perhaps consider taking your own advice. Speaking to a therapist might do you wonders.
Or is this a, do as I say not as I do.
No your right. Going forward I’ll just tell women to sleep many guys as they want. I’ll tell them it’ll increase their chances of getting married and having a happy relationship etc. because you know! Boys grow up thinking I really hope my gurl has been with a tone of guys and possibly has kids. Who cares if my first is her 2nd or 3rd. And that’s why
The truth hurts but it’s real.
You proposed to a woman who had a child from a previous relationship.Posted by SuperSize9
I didn’t propose just for a piece of the cookie in the cookie jar. That may have been a little motivation but 2 years into a relationship and a possible beautiful little step daughter I’m all in for it. I don’t see me going anywhere and If she is Prego I wouldn’t be too upset.
Your own actions are the opposite of your advice. Which is unsolicited btw. Women neither requested nor want your outdated hypocritical approach to relationships.
Yes I have and I still will Marry a women with kids but if I had to pick between versions of my wife one with out a kid the 2nd with I’d go for option 1 every time. And I love my step kid. But that’s how men are
Perhaps instead of wasting your time on strangers online you should be open and honest in your own relationship. Let your wife know that you would've preferred her child didn't exist and you fantasize about an alternate universe where her body count was lower and she was childless.
Also let her know that you are planning to fuck other women. 60 and counting...
Your so eager to tell women 'the truth' why don't you start with telling your wife your truth.click to expand

Posted by SuperSize9
Let’s say your dating 2 guys.
Posted by IxiPosted by SuperSize9Posted by IxiPosted by SuperSize9Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by SuperSize9
I’ve been with over 60 women and counting.Posted by SuperSize9
Pick the top guys or better quality of guys and you won’t have to worry about finding another guy. You may run across a few bad ones but over 10 slow down and 20— Come on that’s 20 guys I’m not calling you a bad person but get counseling. That should hold more value.
Op perhaps consider taking your own advice. Speaking to a therapist might do you wonders.
Or is this a, do as I say not as I do.
No your right. Going forward I’ll just tell women to sleep many guys as they want. I’ll tell them it’ll increase their chances of getting married and having a happy relationship etc. because you know! Boys grow up thinking I really hope my gurl has been with a tone of guys and possibly has kids. Who cares if my first is her 2nd or 3rd. And that’s why
The truth hurts but it’s real.
Why are you telling women anything about their sex lives, or lack thereof? Have they all asked you to?
If so, why?
Why does it matter to you. You’ve express your position already. You gave your response. This isn’t a debate this a question between 2 options. Your trying dissect the question for what it’s a waste of time.
It matters to me, because I am curious about your motivations, view point, and what information you are drawing on to make these claims.
Especially since you have explicitly said that you know what all men think. I am curious what makes you believe that. Especially since there are two men who have explicitly said they don't see nor feel the way you are saying "all men" do. You seem to look at that actual bona fide fact as dishonest, I want to know why.
Do you dislike questions on the topic you brought up?
Were you expecting to have people uncritically accept your words?click to expand

Posted by SuperSize9Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by SuperSize9Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by SuperSize9Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by SuperSize9
I’ve been with over 60 women and counting.Posted by SuperSize9
Pick the top guys or better quality of guys and you won’t have to worry about finding another guy. You may run across a few bad ones but over 10 slow down and 20— Come on that’s 20 guys I’m not calling you a bad person but get counseling. That should hold more value.
Op perhaps consider taking your own advice. Speaking to a therapist might do you wonders.
Or is this a, do as I say not as I do.
No your right. Going forward I’ll just tell women to sleep many guys as they want. I’ll tell them it’ll increase their chances of getting married and having a happy relationship etc. because you know! Boys grow up thinking I really hope my gurl has been with a tone of guys and possibly has kids. Who cares if my first is her 2nd or 3rd. And that’s why
The truth hurts but it’s real.
You proposed to a woman who had a child from a previous relationship.Posted by SuperSize9
I didn’t propose just for a piece of the cookie in the cookie jar. That may have been a little motivation but 2 years into a relationship and a possible beautiful little step daughter I’m all in for it. I don’t see me going anywhere and If she is Prego I wouldn’t be too upset.
Your own actions are the opposite of your advice. Which is unsolicited btw. Women neither requested nor want your outdated hypocritical approach to relationships.
Yes I have and I still will Marry a women with kids but if I had to pick between versions of my wife one with out a kid the 2nd with I’d go for option 1 every time. And I love my step kid. But that’s how men are
Perhaps instead of wasting your time on strangers online you should be open and honest in your own relationship. Let your wife know that you would've preferred her child didn't exist and you fantasize about an alternate universe where her body count was lower and she was childless.
Also let her know that you are planning to fuck other women. 60 and counting...
Your so eager to tell women 'the truth' why don't you start with telling your wife your truth.
Not with her anymore. I gave her a brand new house, brand new cars, a large sum of money. That’s what happens when you pick a man that can afford to take care of you.
And I was honest from day one I told her her kid would be obstacle for me. But every one I’ve dated doesn’t have to fit to what I know (not feel or think or assume) I’ve had privilege to be around guys who run major I.T companies, one who is large broker in New York city, guys who’ve made millions who are married and we talk about business more business, money and than women. So when I hear Guys lie to women like that other guy did it is disappointing because he knows it’s lie but these guys want be like rather than being respected.click to expand
Posted by IxiPosted by SuperSize9Posted by IxiPosted by SuperSize9Posted by IxiPosted by SuperSize9Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by SuperSize9
I’ve been with over 60 women and counting.Posted by SuperSize9
Pick the top guys or better quality of guys and you won’t have to worry about finding another guy. You may run across a few bad ones but over 10 slow down and 20— Come on that’s 20 guys I’m not calling you a bad person but get counseling. That should hold more value.
Op perhaps consider taking your own advice. Speaking to a therapist might do you wonders.
Or is this a, do as I say not as I do.
No your right. Going forward I’ll just tell women to sleep many guys as they want. I’ll tell them it’ll increase their chances of getting married and having a happy relationship etc. because you know! Boys grow up thinking I really hope my gurl has been with a tone of guys and possibly has kids. Who cares if my first is her 2nd or 3rd. And that’s why
The truth hurts but it’s real.
Why are you telling women anything about their sex lives, or lack thereof? Have they all asked you to?
If so, why?
Why does it matter to you. You’ve express your position already. You gave your response. This isn’t a debate this a question between 2 options. Your trying dissect the question for what it’s a waste of time.
It matters to me, because I am curious about your motivations, view point, and what information you are drawing on to make these claims.
Especially since you have explicitly said that you know what all men think. I am curious what makes you believe that. Especially since there are two men who have explicitly said they don't see nor feel the way you are saying "all men" do. You seem to look at that actual bona fide fact as dishonest, I want to know why.
Do you dislike questions on the topic you brought up?
Were you expecting to have people uncritically accept your words?
Because it’s my thread, it’s my post. You keep asking the creator questions I don’t owe. The topic is about what I post. Not what you want to hear. And it’s not going to change
Hrm am I not talking about what you posted about? Are these questions not what you want to hear? I have asked you to change something?click to expand

Posted by SuperSize9
Let’s say your dating 2 guys.
Guy 1, you paint a picture of yourself like an angel. You want him to see you in the purest light. So you hid things from your past and lie here and there little lies but still. You don’t tell him about your dirty secrets, you decrease the number of guys you been with, sexual experience you tell him well I’ve never done this before(but you have). You create a different person only for him to see because how he sees you matters some what.
Guy 2, he knows your deepest darkest secrets, because you don’t really care what he thinks that much or if he knows about you being promiscuous in your past. Your an open book with him and you do connect with him, he can see you how ever he wants, and you remain open and honest with him about seeing other guys because his opinion of you doesn’t matter as much.
Which guy do you love more, and why?

Posted by Enfant-Terrible-IIPosted by SuperSize9
Let’s say your dating 2 guys.
Why would anyone date a skank who's dating two guys at the same time? lolclick to expand
Posted by saggurl88Posted by SuperSize9
Let’s say your dating 2 guys.
Guy 1, you paint a picture of yourself like an angel. You want him to see you in the purest light. So you hid things from your past and lie here and there little lies but still. You don’t tell him about your dirty secrets, you decrease the number of guys you been with, sexual experience you tell him well I’ve never done this before(but you have). You create a different person only for him to see because how he sees you matters some what.
Guy 2, he knows your deepest darkest secrets, because you don’t really care what he thinks that much or if he knows about you being promiscuous in your past. Your an open book with him and you do connect with him, he can see you how ever he wants, and you remain open and honest with him about seeing other guys because his opinion of you doesn’t matter as much.
Which guy do you love more, and why?
Typical Virgo with a Virgin / Whore scenario. Why does it have to be like this? so Black/White?
The person meant for me would be one that is accepting of me PERIOD, whether they know secrets or not.click to expand
Posted by saggurl88Posted by Enfant-Terrible-IIPosted by SuperSize9
Let’s say your dating 2 guys.
Why would anyone date a skank who's dating two guys at the same time? lol
It's pretty common in Americaclick to expand

Posted by SuperSize9Posted by saggurl88Posted by SuperSize9
Let’s say your dating 2 guys.
Guy 1, you paint a picture of yourself like an angel. You want him to see you in the purest light. So you hid things from your past and lie here and there little lies but still. You don’t tell him about your dirty secrets, you decrease the number of guys you been with, sexual experience you tell him well I’ve never done this before(but you have). You create a different person only for him to see because how he sees you matters some what.
Guy 2, he knows your deepest darkest secrets, because you don’t really care what he thinks that much or if he knows about you being promiscuous in your past. Your an open book with him and you do connect with him, he can see you how ever he wants, and you remain open and honest with him about seeing other guys because his opinion of you doesn’t matter as much.
Which guy do you love more, and why?
Typical Virgo with a Virgin / Whore scenario. Why does it have to be like this? so Black/White?
The person meant for me would be one that is accepting of me PERIOD, whether they know secrets or not.
How can someone except you if they don’t know you fully. You want someone to except you even if that means excepting their deal breakersclick to expand

Posted by SuperSize9Posted by MareInfamePosted by SuperSize9Posted by MareInfame
The love from #2 would be felt deeply.
#1 is in love with someone that doesn’t exist. Deep inside, nothing is felt.
But you put so much effort to get guy 1. Guy 2 takes no effort. So loosing guy one would hurt because you tried to impress him while guy 2 come a dime a dozen.
And that person does exist we all re create ourselves
Maybe I shouldn’t participate in this thread. I’m not a Cardinal, and there is no way in hell I’d put that much effort into a lie.
Talk about wasted energy 🥴👎🏼
If you had to get a job you really wanted your dream job with your dream company but to get the job you’d had have to been a model citizen. Would you lie to get the job?click to expand

Posted by IxiPosted by SuperSize9
Let’s say your dating 2 guys.
Guy 1, you paint a picture of yourself like an angel. You want him to see you in the purest light. So you hid things from your past and lie here and there little lies but still. You don’t tell him about your dirty secrets, you decrease the number of guys you been with, sexual experience you tell him well I’ve never done this before(but you have). You create a different person only for him to see because how he sees you matters some what.
Guy 2, he knows your deepest darkest secrets, because you don’t really care what he thinks that much or if he knows about you being promiscuous in your past. Your an open book with him and you do connect with him, he can see you how ever he wants, and you remain open and honest with him about seeing other guys because his opinion of you doesn’t matter as much.
Which guy do you love more, and why?
"Dirty" secrets? Like what?click to expand
Posted by MrNoName
Feminism is about flexible balance.
To help stop woman & children being raped and murdered.......
Millions of women get raped or murdered every year and have been since time began.
In Rwanda they use to cut the breast of woman....so a woman could not feed new-born children........... they both die.
In the Uk 1-3 boomer were abuse by men!!
Pretty much the same all over the world.
And paedophiles are the worst.
I can’t fault many men for not looking, as it a true horror story and it is walk through hell on earth .
Just My 2 pence worth.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by SuperSize9Posted by saggurl88Posted by SuperSize9
Let’s say your dating 2 guys.
Guy 1, you paint a picture of yourself like an angel. You want him to see you in the purest light. So you hid things from your past and lie here and there little lies but still. You don’t tell him about your dirty secrets, you decrease the number of guys you been with, sexual experience you tell him well I’ve never done this before(but you have). You create a different person only for him to see because how he sees you matters some what.
Guy 2, he knows your deepest darkest secrets, because you don’t really care what he thinks that much or if he knows about you being promiscuous in your past. Your an open book with him and you do connect with him, he can see you how ever he wants, and you remain open and honest with him about seeing other guys because his opinion of you doesn’t matter as much.
Which guy do you love more, and why?
Typical Virgo with a Virgin / Whore scenario. Why does it have to be like this? so Black/White?
The person meant for me would be one that is accepting of me PERIOD, whether they know secrets or not.
How can someone except you if they don’t know you fully. You want someone to except you even if that means excepting their deal breakers
Knowing someone fully takes years and you can't keep everything hidden. I'm not sure why past sexual experiences even matter.
If my first boyfriend rammed a jalapeno up my poosy, just to see what would happen, why is that relevant information years later to my next boyfriend? Is this type of thing going to help you and her sex life?
I think dark secrets like 3 somes, bi interactions or anything else that isn't relevant to the current relationship is private to the person involved. It can hurt a fragile ego and it gives someone more insecurities.
I can understand public sites like OF or porn, but a 3 some? Really? What is the good of knowing this?
As long as safe sex was had, and there is nothing that will get passed to you, I don't think it matters much.
You want to be the first one in on the 3 some or what?click to expand
Posted by 51R60
I'd rather them feel like they can tell me anything that's truth. If they're scared to or choose not to then I or them or we fucked up somewhere. And I've made that mistake in the past of being unaccepting, but I've realized openness and honesty should be rewarded because I'd rather have them do what makes them happy I guess than live a lie.
Posted by 51R60
I'm a cute virgin and you're the first man I've ever talked to. Can I have a house now?
Posted by 51R60
I'd rather them feel like they can tell me anything that's truth. If they're scared to or choose not to then I or them or we fucked up somewhere. And I've made that mistake in the past of being unaccepting, but I've realized openness and honesty should be rewarded because I'd rather have them do what makes them happy I guess than live a lie.

Posted by SuperSize9Posted by saggurl88Posted by SuperSize9Posted by saggurl88Posted by SuperSize9
Let’s say your dating 2 guys.
Guy 1, you paint a picture of yourself like an angel. You want him to see you in the purest light. So you hid things from your past and lie here and there little lies but still. You don’t tell him about your dirty secrets, you decrease the number of guys you been with, sexual experience you tell him well I’ve never done this before(but you have). You create a different person only for him to see because how he sees you matters some what.
Guy 2, he knows your deepest darkest secrets, because you don’t really care what he thinks that much or if he knows about you being promiscuous in your past. Your an open book with him and you do connect with him, he can see you how ever he wants, and you remain open and honest with him about seeing other guys because his opinion of you doesn’t matter as much.
Which guy do you love more, and why?
Typical Virgo with a Virgin / Whore scenario. Why does it have to be like this? so Black/White?
The person meant for me would be one that is accepting of me PERIOD, whether they know secrets or not.
How can someone except you if they don’t know you fully. You want someone to except you even if that means excepting their deal breakers
Knowing someone fully takes years and you can't keep everything hidden. I'm not sure why past sexual experiences even matter.
If my first boyfriend rammed a jalapeno up my poosy, just to see what would happen, why is that relevant information years later to my next boyfriend? Is this type of thing going to help you and her sex life?
I think dark secrets like 3 somes, bi interactions or anything else that isn't relevant to the current relationship is private to the person involved. It can hurt a fragile ego and it gives someone more insecurities.
I can understand public sites like OF or porn, but a 3 some? Really? What is the good of knowing this?
As long as safe sex was had, and there is nothing that will get passed to you, I don't think it matters much.
You want to be the first one in on the 3 some or what?
If you feel any hesitation or embarrassment in telling your boyfriend or husband what you did with other men. Than you know in your gut. It was wrong and nothing to proud of or liberating. Everything you can learn from other guys you could easily learn from your man. Plus you don’t have all does guys living in your head.click to expand
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Thank you you are a emotionally intelligent women! You could teach a lot of women how to get to the point and not allow emotions to over flow. It’s a shame that a question can be an attack to do many women.