Why Virgo and Sagittarius do NOT work (Page 3)

...not every woman is wife material
....some women who serve no purpose to you whatsoever.
...If you put energy into every woman you deal with, then you're going to have a really hard life son....

purpose! LOL. merchant's viewpoint.

Bachelor of zodiac, Virgo.

hey, he has time. In the middle age we had a short life. Now we live too long.
Let the young man play games like you did last years. If political correctness is his thing, then he cannot just play and go. No, he has to stay and take it serious. After all we define us by our approaches. Apparently Cajun has more nerves than you. And he takes his time, his thoughts and feelings for serious.

(zodiac)prgorams run. (destiy)plans become realized.

Posted by VirgoHero

Posted by FUMRedFairy_tales
you are right, hikoro. (I assume your comment was meant for me)

I do regret posting my thoughts. And I do hope cajun forgives me.

Aww you can't ever STAY mad at Fumi. You just CAN'T 😛

click to expand

Fumi knows her not-so-flattering qualities, but thank you, Hero 🙂

Posted by Shaks
FUM, yes it is branh,

cajun, get yourself a nice, respectable cappy girl 😄 most of them (even at your age) prefer relationships that lead to something serious, more so than girls of other signs.

thanks for the update, Shaks.

I do agree with you all about women my age and Mr. Defense's comment is depressingly accurate.

But this is the first time I have put so much energy into a relationship. I went against my nature and did everything I could to make it work.
I am tired for trying honestly but I continue to do so.

hikoro, is right... seems to be a habit she has. You all only know what I post here.

DwellingonMove, I do take everything seriously. I know it's not a good way to do things, but it's how I want to be.

For many years I realised girls my age are not interested in marriage, anything serious or to put it bluntly, stupid to thinking of long term relationships.

I don't disagree, I just want all my effort to be worth it and for my relationship to prosper...

Well hikoro, judging from your description, that is exactly what will happen to me. I am far past the point.

Posted by Summer Bear

Posted by cappysweetie
*continued*

Basically, your sun sign keeps you grounded, meaning that you will go through your moods but you will think about what you are doing and have reflections upon it later and then understand what do next time. This is why you can control yourself better and better each time.

Cappysweetie.. you've been on these boards for the longest. I think it's about time we see some pics 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂

Curiosity is killing me right now.

click to expand

hahaha, from what I typed there, you are curious huh? lol, well what do ya know 😉

Posted by Mr. Defense

Posted by Summer Bear

Cappysweetie.. you've been on these boards for the longest. I think it's about time we see some pics 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂

Curiosity is killing me right now.

Cappysweetie is really short.

click to expand

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!

😛 😛 😛 @ Mr.Defense

Posted by Mr. Defense
20 years old huh? That makes sense. You don't seem to understand that not every woman is wife material. Not every woman is meant for you to invest emotional energy in. Some women are only good to talk to, some women are only good for fucking, and then there are some women who serve no purpose to you whatsoever.

Sag women are the women are good for hanging out, fucking, and being done with it. You shouldn't expect a whole lot from them. They're very impulsive people, always riding the wave of life. Sags are good for great sex, a few drinks, and a fun night on the town. You probably don't want to make too many long term plans with them if you're smart. But what Sags do they do well.

Eventually you'll begin to to distinguish what purpose a woman should be serving in your life. If you put energy into every woman you deal with, then you're going to have a really hard life son. This is probably not the most politically correct answer, but trust me, it's true. And at your age, women are stupid anyway, you may as well just be having fun with them at this point.

Well, I disagree with this point-of-view and I agree with it ... to a certain extent. I do believe that every woman is not 'wife' material, nor is every man 'huband' worthy. However, I don't agree that most woman are stupid in their 20s. You know why I don't believe this? Because I have witnesses women (and men too) acting like a bunch of idoits who are close to 30, in the 30s and in their 40s -- by that time its just sad but its what I see.

I'm in my 20s and I'm not close to 30 yet. I will be 30 in the next 6 yrs or so -- thats plenty of time for me to get more bumps and bruises in the relationship dept ^_^.

My point here is that age has nothing to do with being stupid. Failure to understand your position in terms of your situation is stupid -- people like this come in all sorts of ages.

Now I will admire, I don't always make the greatest choices when it comes to guys 😉 I'll admit that, but I try to learn from my mistakes and move on. My problem is that theres always some new encounter and therefore a new issues arises.

Posted by Shaks
Some people just need to get out of their countries a little more.

AGREED 😄

Posted by sagigoat
i knew i can count on you sweetie and archer! 🙂 🙂 and of course the generous canjun for using his space 😉

great analysis and insights i will think about it more later tonight.

"You must remember not to be too hard on yourself because you must keep in mind, if you were not blamed for anything said, then maybe it was a good thing that you said what others may have been thinking "

well i was told about what he thought which confirms how i perceived but that's not the point really coz i infact knew about the risk but when it happened to me my pride and rebellious nature couldn't take it well. i should have prepared myself a bit better this time.

and the reason that i was not critisized at all (instead he apologized for his loved one and told me he still loves me even tho i think he is a loser 😐 told u i was mean 😐 ) was only because he spoils me not because i did something right. i wouldn't want to become a monster if i spoil myself too.

I still think you feel worse about it then the others who are involved. I wouldn't worry too much about it. Whats done is done now and you can't change what you have already said 🙂 Just let it be and think better about things next time ^_^.

Posted by Shaks
^this woman knows whats shes on about^

Just because branh has shown a pretty rubbish ability to commit himself to someone (or to find someone who adjusts to his ideals of what commitment should be like) doesnt mean cajun has been doing the wrong thing all along, after all branh is judging the situation from experiences linked to his own environment, which happens to be in the US, whereas I wouldnt be so sure to assume girls in Trinidad show exactly the same values and behaviour. Cajun has more reason to feel good about himself, than your average commmitment phobia type of guy.

After all he wouldnt be acting from his heart if he wouldnt be taking the approach he takes with women.

Now, I agree totally.

I have a crush on Cajun🙂

Posted by Sagittarius89
I have a crush on Cajun🙂

*Cajun makes the cutest confused look you will ever see*

... 😛

Heh🙂