Help me understand this taurus

Posted by elogean

So I met this Taurus through a dating app. We met 1.5 month after we matched and had sex on the 2nd date.

After this, when I asked this taurus what were his intentions, his reply was: I want to go with the flow, but I don't want to be in a relationship righ now.

I agreed with him on "going with the flow".

So we have been seeing each other since then, we text everyday, he initiates most of those, gives me compliments, although it was more before we had sex. When i see him he is very affectionate, likes to touch, hug etc

He once got "sulky" because i took too long to reply to a text (2h). To be honest after two days of constant texting back and forth, i needed a bit of space and proceed to fall asleep instead of replying to said text.

He also got mad last week cause I am / was too closed off as in, I would ask him (via text) do you want to see me, do you dream about me, do you think about me, and he would always answer positively. But then when he needed reassurance from me i was not direct enough ( blame my venus is pisces)

For exemple when he asked me if I was resisting his charm, i replied that we were both resisting our charms (But i know he does not resist mine, and i am not either) or once he asked me if he was good in bed: again I asked if he was doudbting it, and then I said " I guess we can say that we are compatible"

So taurus did not like that, said that I only reply by asking questions back, that I ask him for his opinion, which he does not like giving, but I never give mine and that he does not want to be in a relationship, but we are already having relationship problems.

Since then, we resolved this, I am trying to be more open with my feelings, and I give him compliments from time to time.

From my side, I only would like to see him more, as in every week, right now it's more every other week. But he works a lot and his schedule is given to him last minut.

I just feel that it strange that the taurus stated that he does not want a relashionship, but acts like someone that wants to move in that direction. Is it normal for them and how should I proceed.

Me

Aries sun

Aries moon

Pisces venus

Pisces mercury

Taurus Mars

Him

Taurus sun

Sag moon (unsure could be a cap, but his love of travel, and playful attitude makes me feel that he is a sag moon)

Aries venus

Taurus mercury

Pisces mars

You wrote this:

So I met this Taurus through a dating app. We met 1.5 month after we matched and had sex on the 2nd date.

After this, when I asked this taurus what were his intentions, his reply was: I want to go with the flow, but I don't want to be in a relationship righ now.

The rest of your text is just meaningless hot air and waffle designed to fill in the large vacant void of 'boyfriend' that you desperately want this Taurus to fill.

You already know the answer to your questions.

You had sex on date two and then he said he did not want a relationship. The two keywords he conveniently omitted to use in his speech were "with you", as in, he doesn't want a relationship - with you.

He's happy to continue fucking you though because it's free sex but do not hold onto hope that he will one day present you with the 'girlfriend contract' because if he wanted you (Aries Venus) then he would make it clear and you would not be in any doubt. He sees you as a possession (Taurus sun) hence his behaviour but do not confuse his apparent gentlemanly behaviour as anything more than politeness and a means for him to continue inserting his penis into you on a reasonably regular basis.

If you're not happy with this and prefer to be in a committed relationship then you need to kick this guy to the kerb to make way for a man who does want to be with you.

Posted by AgentP911

Posted by elogean

So I met this Taurus through a dating app. We met 1.5 month after we matched and had sex on the 2nd date.

After this, when I asked this taurus what were his intentions, his reply was: I want to go with the flow, but I don't want to be in a relationship righ now.

I agreed with him on "going with the flow".

So we have been seeing each other since then, we text everyday, he initiates most of those, gives me compliments, although it was more before we had sex. When i see him he is very affectionate, likes to touch, hug etc

He once got "sulky" because i took too long to reply to a text (2h). To be honest after two days of constant texting back and forth, i needed a bit of space and proceed to fall asleep instead of replying to said text.

He also got mad last week cause I am / was too closed off as in, I would ask him (via text) do you want to see me, do you dream about me, do you think about me, and he would always answer positively. But then when he needed reassurance from me i was not direct enough ( blame my venus is pisces)

For exemple when he asked me if I was resisting his charm, i replied that we were both resisting our charms (But i know he does not resist mine, and i am not either) or once he asked me if he was good in bed: again I asked if he was doudbting it, and then I said " I guess we can say that we are compatible"

So taurus did not like that, said that I only reply by asking questions back, that I ask him for his opinion, which he does not like giving, but I never give mine and that he does not want to be in a relationship, but we are already having relationship problems.

Since then, we resolved this, I am trying to be more open with my feelings, and I give him compliments from time to time.

From my side, I only would like to see him more, as in every week, right now it's more every other week. But he works a lot and his schedule is given to him last minut.

I just feel that it strange that the taurus stated that he does not want a relashionship, but acts like someone that wants to move in that direction. Is it normal for them and how should I proceed.

Me

Aries sun

Aries moon

Pisces venus

Pisces mercury

Taurus Mars

Him

Taurus sun

Sag moon (unsure could be a cap, but his love of travel, and playful attitude makes me feel that he is a sag moon)

Aries venus

Taurus mercury

Pisces mars

You wrote this:

So I met this Taurus through a dating app. We met 1.5 month after we matched and had sex on the 2nd date.

After this, when I asked this taurus what were his intentions, his reply was: I want to go with the flow, but I don't want to be in a relationship righ now.

The rest of your text is just meaningless hot air and waffle designed to fill in the large vacant void of 'boyfriend' that you desperately want this Taurus to fill.

You already know the answer to your questions.

You had sex on date two and then he said he did not want a relationship. The two keywords he conveniently omitted to use in his speech were "with you", as in, he doesn't want a relationship - with you.

He's happy to continue fucking you though because it's free sex but do not hold onto hope that he will one day present you with the 'girlfriend contract' because if he wanted you (Aries Venus) then he would make it clear and you would not be in any doubt. He sees you as a possession (Taurus sun) hence his behaviour but do not confuse his apparent gentlemanly behaviour as anything more than politeness and a means for him to continue inserting his penis into you on a reasonably regular basis.

If you're not happy with this and prefer to be in a committed relationship then you need to kick this guy to the kerb to make way for a man who does want to be with you.

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Very well said!

Taurus moves slow in love generally—idk about his Venus and Mars influences. But generally, we want to get to know someone before getting into a relationship. And sex is not getting to know someone. He wants to continue having sex with you, until he figures out if he likes you enough as a person to call you his girlfriend. You can continue being that placeholder for him, or you can make some boundaries for yourself. If you really like him as a person and want to get to know him better, stop having sex with him and just go on regular dates. You’re already giving him what he wants rn so he doesn’t have to commit. This is how I see it anyway. Remember, I don’t know y’all. This is just from what you’ve written here.

Normally Taurus men want to lock you down immediately if they want you, it my experience. If any guy says "I want to go with the flow, but I don't want a relationship right now", bounce if you're the one wanting the relationship. He should be the one asking you for one.

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Posted by elogean

So I met this Taurus through a dating app. We met 1.5 month after we matched and had sex on the 2nd date.

After this, when I asked this taurus what were his intentions, his reply was: I want to go with the flow, but I don't want to be in a relationship righ now.

I agreed with him on "going with the flow".

So we have been seeing each other since then, we text everyday, he initiates most of those, gives me compliments, although it was more before we had sex. When i see him he is very affectionate, likes to touch, hug etc

He once got "sulky" because i took too long to reply to a text (2h). To be honest after two days of constant texting back and forth, i needed a bit of space and proceed to fall asleep instead of replying to said text.

He also got mad last week cause I am / was too closed off as in, I would ask him (via text) do you want to see me, do you dream about me, do you think about me, and he would always answer positively. But then when he needed reassurance from me i was not direct enough ( blame my venus is pisces)

For exemple when he asked me if I was resisting his charm, i replied that we were both resisting our charms (But i know he does not resist mine, and i am not either) or once he asked me if he was good in bed: again I asked if he was doudbting it, and then I said " I guess we can say that we are compatible"

So taurus did not like that, said that I only reply by asking questions back, that I ask him for his opinion, which he does not like giving, but I never give mine and that he does not want to be in a relationship, but we are already having relationship problems.

Since then, we resolved this, I am trying to be more open with my feelings, and I give him compliments from time to time.

From my side, I only would like to see him more, as in every week, right now it's more every other week. But he works a lot and his schedule is given to him last minut.

I just feel that it strange that the taurus stated that he does not want a relashionship, but acts like someone that wants to move in that direction. Is it normal for them and how should I proceed.

Me

Aries sun

Aries moon

Pisces venus

Pisces mercury

Taurus Mars

Him

Taurus sun

Sag moon (unsure could be a cap, but his love of travel, and playful attitude makes me feel that he is a sag moon)

Aries venus

Taurus mercury

Pisces mars

You wrote this:

So I met this Taurus through a dating app. We met 1.5 month after we matched and had sex on the 2nd date.

After this, when I asked this taurus what were his intentions, his reply was: I want to go with the flow, but I don't want to be in a relationship righ now.

The rest of your text is just meaningless hot air and waffle designed to fill in the large vacant void of 'boyfriend' that you desperately want this Taurus to fill.

You already know the answer to your questions.

You had sex on date two and then he said he did not want a relationship. The two keywords he conveniently omitted to use in his speech were "with you", as in, he doesn't want a relationship - with you.

He's happy to continue fucking you though because it's free sex but do not hold onto hope that he will one day present you with the 'girlfriend contract' because if he wanted you (Aries Venus) then he would make it clear and you would not be in any doubt. He sees you as a possession (Taurus sun) hence his behaviour but do not confuse his apparent gentlemanly behaviour as anything more than politeness and a means for him to continue inserting his penis into you on a reasonably regular basis.

If you're not happy with this and prefer to be in a committed relationship then you need to kick this guy to the kerb to make way for a man who does want to be with you.

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Thank you for your point of view, I don't know if I am not happy with the current situation, I think I am going with the flow, but indeed, if things go further, I will probably want more in the future. I feel like his words dont really match his actions ie constant texting, initiates, loving etc, so it is a bit confusing to me

Posted by AbbyNormal

Taurus moves slow in love generally—idk about his Venus and Mars influences. But generally, we want to get to know someone before getting into a relationship. And sex is not getting to know someone. He wants to continue having sex with you, until he figures out if he likes you enough as a person to call you his girlfriend. You can continue being that placeholder for him, or you can make some boundaries for yourself. If you really like him as a person and want to get to know him better, stop having sex with him and just go on regular dates. You’re already giving him what he wants rn so he doesn’t have to commit. This is how I see it anyway. Remember, I don’t know y’all. This is just from what you’ve written here.

I would have indeed preferred to go on regular dates with him, but the current situation in my country makes that impossible as allr restaurants, cinemas, museums etc are closed. To date the only choice left is to go to someone's place.

I feel that if we would not have been in that situation, everything would have been more simple and sex would have been involved way later than what it was

Posted by DonnaLibra

Normally Taurus men want to lock you down immediately if they want you, it my experience. If any guy says "I want to go with the flow, but I don't want a relationship right now", bounce if you're the one wanting the relationship. He should be the one asking you for one.

For now I am not asking for one, but I can see that eventually, if we keep seeing each other, that might be a possibility. Also, I am confused cause his words do not match his actions

Posted by elogean

Posted by AbbyNormal

Taurus moves slow in love generally—idk about his Venus and Mars influences. But generally, we want to get to know someone before getting into a relationship. And sex is not getting to know someone. He wants to continue having sex with you, until he figures out if he likes you enough as a person to call you his girlfriend. You can continue being that placeholder for him, or you can make some boundaries for yourself. If you really like him as a person and want to get to know him better, stop having sex with him and just go on regular dates. You’re already giving him what he wants rn so he doesn’t have to commit. This is how I see it anyway. Remember, I don’t know y’all. This is just from what you’ve written here.

I would have indeed preferred to go on regular dates with him, but the current situation in my country makes that impossible as allr restaurants, cinemas, museums etc are closed. To date the only choice left is to go to someone's place.

I feel that if we would not have been in that situation, everything would have been more simple and sex would have been involved way later than what it was

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I do not accept that. You do not need to go somewhere for a date. Whatever happened to a walk in the park, or talking over coffee? You make the boundaries for yourself—if you don’t want to chance making things physical too fast, don’t go to each other’s homes so quickly. The lock down indeed made things different when it comes to dating, but not that different. You call and talk on the phone, you can even video call now and have dates that way! I respect that you realize you rushed it, you’re not the first and won’t be the last. It’s just hard to back track after already going there, but it’s not impossible. As a Taurus, I appreciate directness. So you may need to have a heart to heart and directly tell him how you’re feeling.

Posted by AbbyNormal

Posted by elogean

Posted by AbbyNormal

Taurus moves slow in love generally—idk about his Venus and Mars influences. But generally, we want to get to know someone before getting into a relationship. And sex is not getting to know someone. He wants to continue having sex with you, until he figures out if he likes you enough as a person to call you his girlfriend. You can continue being that placeholder for him, or you can make some boundaries for yourself. If you really like him as a person and want to get to know him better, stop having sex with him and just go on regular dates. You’re already giving him what he wants rn so he doesn’t have to commit. This is how I see it anyway. Remember, I don’t know y’all. This is just from what you’ve written here.

I would have indeed preferred to go on regular dates with him, but the current situation in my country makes that impossible as allr restaurants, cinemas, museums etc are closed. To date the only choice left is to go to someone's place.

I feel that if we would not have been in that situation, everything would have been more simple and sex would have been involved way later than what it was

I do not accept that. You do not need to go somewhere for a date. Whatever happened to a walk in the park, or talking over coffee? You make the boundaries for yourself—if you don’t want to chance making things physical too fast, don’t go to each other’s homes so quickly. The lock down indeed made things different when it comes to dating, but not that different. You call and talk on the phone, you can even video call now and have dates that way! I respect that you realize you rushed it, you’re not the first and won’t be the last. It’s just hard to back track after already going there, but it’s not impossible. As a Taurus, I appreciate directness. So you may need to have a heart to heart and directly tell him how you’re feeling.

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indeed the current situation requires people be way more creative than what we use to be. It also rushes things I feel. He did complain that I was making to much insinuations, which I don't do on purpose. Down the line I will propbably have a heart to heart.

Manly, my thing is that I'd like to see him more often, He states that he understands, that he wants to see me too and still he not coming. Granted his work schedule is complicated...but repeting myself to him make feel like iam becoming forceful almost, and I dont think that would go well with a taurus...

Posted by ImperfectStorm

I thought for sure he would have a Leo mars since he asked if he was good in bed. Lol womp! Guess I was wrong.

Taurus sun with Aries energy is direct as hell. I kinda dig that about them. But yeah you’re right, it’s like you purposely dodge the questions. Does his directness make you squirm?

Iam not as direct as I'd like, particularly in the matter of the heart...i blame this on my pisces placements However I am also an aries sun and moon so I actually like when people are direct with me...so it does not make me squirm

Posted by ImperfectStorm

As someone who has dated a Taurus sun/Aries Venus, it’s actually kind of a good thing that you are a challenge to him though. Keeps him on his toes. I think if he wants to be with you though he will leave no room for doubt. The Taurus/Aries that I briefly dated joked about going down to the courthouse to get married. Lol Taurus are kind of slow, but that Aries Venus shows up and accelerates things. They become very possessive and very direct about wanting a relationship. So if he hasn’t mentioned it yet, he may not be there yet but just wanting his ego stroked.

I am trying to be less of a challenge by sharing my feelings more since he complained. I now tell him that I have been thinking about him all day or that Id like to hug him etc. I can feel that he likes that reassurance. As for the relationship talk, I do think it is a little bit early for us to be talking about that. The only thing is that he said that he does not want one but acts otherwise. Do you you know if it's common for them?

Also, I would like to see him more, and I have been mentioning that a lot the past few days, he always states that he wants to see me too. His work schedule prevent that tho, plus I guess I am not yet a priority for him to make more efforts . The fact that I am repeating myself tho makes me feel that iam nagging him which could make him run away from me. do you have any suggestions on how I could act in that situation?

I'm sad for reading this. Taurus are so fake to your face to save face..

Leave now... hes full of shit

Theyre charming as hell. Leave now before you break your own heart. Play hard to get and ignore all calls and texts for a a week or too. Fantasize about a new man

Seeing each other every two weeks is a joke. He would make time no matter how busy...



When taurus says they are busy, it's to save face.

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Posted by elogean

Posted by ImperfectStorm

I thought for sure he would have a Leo mars since he asked if he was good in bed. Lol womp! Guess I was wrong.

Taurus sun with Aries energy is direct as hell. I kinda dig that about them. But yeah you’re right, it’s like you purposely dodge the questions. Does his directness make you squirm?

Iam not as direct as I'd like, particularly in the matter of the heart...i blame this on my pisces placements However I am also an aries sun and moon so I actually like when people are direct with me...so it does not make me squirm

Yeah it surprised me to see that you’re an Aries but not as direct. It also makes me wonder if you have planets in your 12th house. I have Venus, Saturn and Jupiter all in my 12th house and I kinda feel like this too.. I don’t like to lay all my cards on the table, it makes me feel vulnerable and makes me squirm a little.

The Taurus/Aries I dated last year kept asking me if I loved him (I definitely didn’t lol ) he was so direct and I didn’t want to hurt his feelings, but I kinda did the same thing and didn’t flat out say no, but told him that I would tell him when I loved him. I will agree that the direct questioning can make you feel put on the spot. Lol like damnit I will express my thoughts and feelings on MY terms 😂😂

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I am a scorpionic aries since my sun, moon an jupiter are all in the 8th house, that might be the reason why I am not so direct

Posted by Lavaliquid2

I'm sad for read this. Taurus are so fake to your face to save face..

Leave now... hes full of shit

Theyre charming as hell. Leave now before you break your own heart. Play hard to get and ignore all calls and texts for a a week or too. Fantasize about a new man

Seeing each every two weeks is a joke. He would make time no matter how busy...



When taurus says they are busy, it's to save face.

Sadly, I kind of agree that if he wanted to see me more he would. This does make me want to take a step back...even if everything else is fine by me

I’ve had a Aries Venus, Taurus Sun

I never have his ass a compliment. When he said he didn’t want commitment but still wanted all the benefits. I agreed. Here’s what he got from moi

I never kissed him on the mouth. He would ask and I would deny.

He wasn’t allowed to sleep over.

Barely looked him in the eye

The only time I touched him was during sex and I only touched his penis and his forehead when he gave head.

I never told him how good he was in bed

I always made it seem like I was in two minds. It didn’t matter.

He would blow up on me because I wouldn’t be direct and fall at his feet worshipping him. He would storm out of my house slamming doors and I wasn’t chasing after him

I’d ignore him if I saw him out in public.

Since he wanted to be just a penis. That’s what he became.

He still tries to contact me years later. I never answer. But I’d be sure he saw me active online tho.

That’s what he got from me.

Posted by elogean

Posted by ImperfectStorm

As someone who has dated a Taurus sun/Aries Venus, it’s actually kind of a good thing that you are a challenge to him though. Keeps him on his toes. I think if he wants to be with you though he will leave no room for doubt. The Taurus/Aries that I briefly dated joked about going down to the courthouse to get married. Lol Taurus are kind of slow, but that Aries Venus shows up and accelerates things. They become very possessive and very direct about wanting a relationship. So if he hasn’t mentioned it yet, he may not be there yet but just wanting his ego stroked.

I am trying to be less of a challenge by sharing my feelings more since he complained. I now tell him that I have been thinking about him all day or that Id like to hug him etc. I can feel that he likes that reassurance. As for the relationship talk, I do think it is a little bit early for us to be talking about that. The only thing is that he said that he does not want one but acts otherwise. Do you you know if it's common for them?

Also, I would like to see him more, and I have been mentioning that a lot the past few days, he always states that he wants to see me too. His work schedule prevent that tho, plus I guess I am not yet a priority for him to make more efforts . The fact that I am repeating myself tho makes me feel that iam nagging him which could make him run away from me. do you have any suggestions on how I could act in that situation?

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Stop repeating yourself.

He’s not a toddler. He heard you and he just didn’t care enough to act.

Make room for someone who makes you a priority.

Is he hedonistic ?

Has he asked you about going further sexually?

Posted by DMV

I’ve had a Aries Venus, Taurus Sun

I never have his ass a compliment. When he said he didn’t want commitment but still wanted all the benefits. I agreed. Here’s what he got from moi

I never kissed him on the mouth. He would ask and I would deny.

He wasn’t allowed to sleep over.

Barely looked him in the eye

The only time I touched him was during sex and I only touched his penis and his forehead when he gave head.

I never told him how good he was in bed

I always made it seem like I was in two minds. It didn’t matter.

He would blow up on me because I wouldn’t be direct and fall at his feet worshipping him. He would storm out of my house slamming doors and I wasn’t chasing after him

I’d ignore him if I saw him out in public.

Since he wanted to be just a penis. That’s what he became.

He still tries to contact me years later. I never answer. But I’d be sure he saw me active online tho.

That’s what he got from me.

This is f@@cking hilarious 😭😭😭

Ladies I hope you’re taking notes 📝😂... this reads like a scene from “Two can play that game”. 👌🏽

Posted by ImperfectStorm

Posted by DMV

I’ve had a Aries Venus, Taurus Sun

I never have his ass a compliment. When he said he didn’t want commitment but still wanted all the benefits. I agreed. Here’s what he got from moi

I never kissed him on the mouth. He would ask and I would deny.

He wasn’t allowed to sleep over.

Barely looked him in the eye

The only time I touched him was during sex and I only touched his penis and his forehead when he gave head.

I never told him how good he was in bed

I always made it seem like I was in two minds. It didn’t matter.

He would blow up on me because I wouldn’t be direct and fall at his feet worshipping him. He would storm out of my house slamming doors and I wasn’t chasing after him

I’d ignore him if I saw him out in public.

Since he wanted to be just a penis. That’s what he became.

He still tries to contact me years later. I never answer. But I’d be sure he saw me active online tho.

That’s what he got from me.

It’s almost as if they like women that keep them at arms length lol I haven’t seen the Taurus/aries since last October, it’s been 6 months since I’ve seen him and he just text me last week saying “you know I still have feelings for you right”. 🥴

I always got playboy vibes from him though so I kept him at arms length and never let him in emotionally. He was extremely childish too and had some toxic traits like blocking, ghosting, trying to manipulate a response out of me and it was such a turnoff.. He was a Taurus sun with Libra moon and Aries Venus and rising.

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😂 😂😂 SAME!!!

keeping emotionally detached makes me go nuts.

It wasn’t game playing tho.

He chose his own fate wanting to be just a penis

He texts me “ DMV, you don’t miss me.” “Can we talk” “I miss you DMV.”

When I used to respond, I would say “lol”

Drove him nuts

When he would ask me a direct question to my face if I liked him, while he stars at me instantly waiting on my gushing reply....

I’d say, “sorry what, I wasn’t listening “

I heard him.

Posted by DMV

I’ve had a Aries Venus, Taurus Sun

I never have his ass a compliment. When he said he didn’t want commitment but still wanted all the benefits. I agreed. Here’s what he got from moi

I never kissed him on the mouth. He would ask and I would deny.

He wasn’t allowed to sleep over.

Barely looked him in the eye

The only time I touched him was during sex and I only touched his penis and his forehead when he gave head.

I never told him how good he was in bed

I always made it seem like I was in two minds. It didn’t matter.

He would blow up on me because I wouldn’t be direct and fall at his feet worshipping him. He would storm out of my house slamming doors and I wasn’t chasing after him

I’d ignore him if I saw him out in public.

Since he wanted to be just a penis. That’s what he became.

He still tries to contact me years later. I never answer. But I’d be sure he saw me active online tho.

That’s what he got from me.

Well, he got what he asked for. And I guess the more you did this, the more he was running after you

Posted by DMV

Posted by elogean

Posted by ImperfectStorm

As someone who has dated a Taurus sun/Aries Venus, it’s actually kind of a good thing that you are a challenge to him though. Keeps him on his toes. I think if he wants to be with you though he will leave no room for doubt. The Taurus/Aries that I briefly dated joked about going down to the courthouse to get married. Lol Taurus are kind of slow, but that Aries Venus shows up and accelerates things. They become very possessive and very direct about wanting a relationship. So if he hasn’t mentioned it yet, he may not be there yet but just wanting his ego stroked.

I am trying to be less of a challenge by sharing my feelings more since he complained. I now tell him that I have been thinking about him all day or that Id like to hug him etc. I can feel that he likes that reassurance. As for the relationship talk, I do think it is a little bit early for us to be talking about that. The only thing is that he said that he does not want one but acts otherwise. Do you you know if it's common for them?

Also, I would like to see him more, and I have been mentioning that a lot the past few days, he always states that he wants to see me too. His work schedule prevent that tho, plus I guess I am not yet a priority for him to make more efforts . The fact that I am repeating myself tho makes me feel that iam nagging him which could make him run away from me. do you have any suggestions on how I could act in that situation?

Stop repeating yourself.

He’s not a toddler. He heard you and he just didn’t care enough to act.

Make room for someone who makes you a priority.

Is he hedonistic ?

Has he asked you about going further sexually?

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I dont know if being an hesonist only applies to sex, but he has never asked for more, actually he is quite a respectful dude, plus he does not drink, has never smoked a blunt or a cigarette. His big thing is travelling, he loves that, and if he could, he would go on a world tour.

Posted by ImperfectStorm

Posted by DMV

I’ve had a Aries Venus, Taurus Sun

I never have his ass a compliment. When he said he didn’t want commitment but still wanted all the benefits. I agreed. Here’s what he got from moi

I never kissed him on the mouth. He would ask and I would deny.

He wasn’t allowed to sleep over.

Barely looked him in the eye

The only time I touched him was during sex and I only touched his penis and his forehead when he gave head.

I never told him how good he was in bed

I always made it seem like I was in two minds. It didn’t matter.

He would blow up on me because I wouldn’t be direct and fall at his feet worshipping him. He would storm out of my house slamming doors and I wasn’t chasing after him

I’d ignore him if I saw him out in public.

Since he wanted to be just a penis. That’s what he became.

He still tries to contact me years later. I never answer. But I’d be sure he saw me active online tho.

That’s what he got from me.

It’s almost as if they like women that keep them at arms length lol I haven’t seen the Taurus/aries since last October, it’s been 6 months since I’ve seen him and he just text me last week saying “you know I still have feelings for you right”. 🥴

I always got playboy vibes from him though so I kept him at arms length and never let him in emotionally. He was extremely childish too and had some toxic traits like blocking, ghosting, trying to manipulate a response out of me and it was such a turnoff.. He was a Taurus sun with Libra moon and Aries Venus and rising.

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My taurus does not block, does not ghost, spend a lot of time texting. They like the chase i guess. But what I read is that They like to chase and be chased too

Good lord lady, you are way too cheesy.

"Do you think about me, do you dream about me, do you want to see me"

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OKAY —?

What kind of desperation is that?

Posted by pisceanloves

Good lord lady, you are way too cheesy.

"Do you think about me, do you dream about me, do you want to see me"

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OKAY —?

What kind of desperation is that?

Maybe I should have written the entire conversations for you to have the entire context and for you to avoid passing judgement...

Anyway if I am cheesy and / or desperate, then be it

Posted by elogean

Posted by pisceanloves

Good lord lady, you are way too cheesy.

"Do you think about me, do you dream about me, do you want to see me"

...

...

...

OKAY —?

What kind of desperation is that?

Maybe I should have written the entire conversations for you to have the entire context and for you to avoid passing judgement...

Anyway if I am cheesy and / or desperate, then be it

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Yeah idk.. If I had a man asking me those kind of questions that would turn me off instantly.

Anything that is genuine won't need to be discussed - It will be rather obvious.. If you have to ask either it's not there or you are abnormally insecure. Good night

Posted by pisceanloves

Posted by elogean

Posted by pisceanloves

Good lord lady, you are way too cheesy.

"Do you think about me, do you dream about me, do you want to see me"

...

...

...

OKAY —?

What kind of desperation is that?

Maybe I should have written the entire conversations for you to have the entire context and for you to avoid passing judgement...

Anyway if I am cheesy and / or desperate, then be it

Yeah idk.. If I had a man asking me those kind of questions that would turn me off instantly.

Anything that is genuine won't need to be discussed - It will be rather obvious.. If you have to ask either it's not there or you are abnormally insecure. Good night

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Who knows...

Good morning to you too, and thank you for your insight

A little update regarding that situation with the Taurus.

We kept seeing each other and somewhere around the begining of July we started having issues, so we saw each other way less although I did see the taurus at the end july, it was quick but lovely. we laughed, talked even about ourselved, but nothing sexual. I then went away on vacation, and I started to think, got a little fed up with him again.

Upon my return, I texted him telling him I wanted to do more stuff, more quality time (restaurants, spend the night etc). He laughed it off, so since he was not hearing me, I decided to end it. At first I was proud of myself for that move but after a few weeks I started to miss him, So I resumed contact with him in september and I told him that I wanted to talk to him face to face as I think I was wrong for discussing our issues via text the last time, he agreed even if he was hesitant.

We met, I told him that I wanted us to continue to see each other but that I needed more, not a relationship per se but something in the middle, with no label. I did not lie and said that obvioulsy, if in a few month, all goes well I will most probably want the label. He said that he did not feel ready for a relationship but he agreed to think about it which he did for about 2 weeks. He then said that he was not as optimistic as me but he was ok to try.

So I saw him at my place, and that encounter was everything, very passionate, intense. He openned up about what was bothering him in life, his projects, his youth many things. At one point, I was looking at his lips, lost in my thoughts, so he asked what was wrong with his lips, I replied "nothing, they are perfect" and he said "my lips are yours".

Fast forward to 2 weeks later, so last thursday, he is acting distant takes ages to reply to my texts and I have not seen him this week, so of course I asked why was he like that, and he said he forgets to texts, he does not feel like doing it"

Keep in mind that this dude at one point was smothering me with texts...

to this, I replied that i did not know what he wanted me to say to this, that I wanted peace in november. I then said that he was just panicking because he thought that I wanted to make him my "husband".

I then said that " if you wanna text, text me, if you dont want to, don't. If you wanna see me, come see me, if you dont want to, dont come".

He replied "humm ok"

I texted " Our last meeting so passionate, I dont get this drama"

He replied: It's nothing, I have just noticed that I was not on the lookout for your texts.

Since then I took a step back obviously

I got a good night text text last night to which I replied

Is it normal taurus behavior to get close to someone, only to be cold later?

Thank you for the update. It's fair to say that you've been chasing this guy, Aries style , and he was --and still remains-- uninterested in a relationship with you.

Bonus points for your courage and tenacity, however it's time to change your focus, since this guy isn't the one.

Posted by Parilicium

Noting

Play hard so you live rent free in her head

📝✔️

What is your venus?

Actually he got me at begining cause he was chasing hard, giving me compliments, always telling me how beautiful I was etc

And then he changed on me, he started chasing less soI picked up on the chasing

So you might need to rethink your strayegy 🤷🏾‍♀️

Interesting update.

Thanks for your vulnerability.

I do love me some Taurus sun sign men.

Strangely I do enjoy their push and pull game. They’re adorable trying to get control on the low.

They know the exact moment to turn it on and off.

Takes a certain level of emotional detachment to deal with them. Hobbies help as well. A Taurus man with fruitful hobbies is like birthday cake to me. He will hate that you have hobbies that take your attention from him.

It’s he who wants the harem to be at his beck and call.

Try not genuinely being at his beck and call.

Taurus go hard in the beginning. First earth sign. He’s gotta sell you on being in his team. Show you how good it is in his little cult. He going to promote himself like a club. Now you want to get in the club every night! But then he starts to get stingy with his time and effort. Rations. Makes you want to get in the club and even more. He made himself those super exclusive entity.

Be more scare and never be afraid of not getting in club taurus

Posted by DMV

Interesting update.

Thanks for your vulnerability.

I do love me some Taurus sun sign men.

Strangely I do enjoy their push and pull game. They’re adorable trying to get control on the low.

They know the exact moment to turn it on and off.

Takes a certain level of emotional detachment to deal with them. Hobbies help as well. A Taurus man with fruitful hobbies is like birthday cake to me. He will hate that you have hobbies that take your attention from him.

It’s he who wants the harem to be at his beck and call.

Try not genuinely being at his beck and call.

Taurus go hard in the beginning. First earth sign. He’s gotta sell you on being in his team. Show you how good it is in his little cult. He going to promote himself like a club. Now you want to get in the club every night! But then he starts to get stingy with his time and effort. Rations. Makes you want to get in the club and even more. He made himself those super exclusive entity.

Be more scare and never be afraid of not getting in club taurus

Thank you for your advice, I feel that you describe the situation really well.

I have indeed turned off all the attention I was giving him...I feel that there is nothing else to do when someone tells you that they are not on the lookout for your texts.

And the more we stay without talking or seeing each other the more I want to terminate this situation...as I came back to him the last time I did that, iam trying to give the situation (and myself) a little bit more time to see how things evolve tho

Posted by Wizardz_

Unless you just want a casual relationship and fun, I don't know why you are putting energy into this?

There are no indications that this relationship will last the distance. It's like trying to take a decent but not great horse and racing it in the Kentucky Derby. It's never going to win and it doesn't matter what you do with it

I was putting energy into this, but Iam not anymore...See when you've never tried a great horse, you get confused easily...

Lol at this being a relationship problem

In essence the problem is you are your own person. N behave anything than the way he wants you to behave

Posted by elogean

We met, I told him that I wanted us to continue to see each other but that I needed more, not a relationship per se but something in the middle, with no label. I did not lie and said that obvioulsy, if in a few month, all goes well I will most probably want the label. He said that he did not feel ready for a relationship but he agreed to think about it which he did for about 2 weeks. He then said that he was not as optimistic as me but he was ok to try.

Your end goals don't align. You can both agree that each others lips are perfection or whatever but that doesn't change the facts.

Facts being that you are wanting to date him to develop a serious relationship.

While he is looking to casually date you with minimal effort and on his timeline with no serious relationship in sight.

Spending more time, more energy, giving more of yourself to him is not going to change that. Time to start emotionally withdrawing because this only ends in you being hurt and him having no responsibility for that hurt because he told how it is from the jump.

We are indoctrinated to believe our worth is tied up in how much men desire us. But Disney lied to you, to us all. You can't change him anymore than he can change you.

Posted by LadyNeptune

We are indoctrinated to believe our worth is tied up in how much men desire us. But Disney lied to you, to us all. You can't change him anymore than he can change you.

I have indeed started to withdraw.

There is always this part in me that makes me believe that I will be able to make these men see the light as in agreeing with my end goal. Time to remove my rose glasses

Posted by Parilicium

This was potentially a cute chart if was not for the aries moon egocentric crap

What's wrong with my Aries Moon?!

it is the best part of my chart 🤷🏾‍♀️

Posted by elogean

Posted by LadyNeptune

We are indoctrinated to believe our worth is tied up in how much men desire us. But Disney lied to you, to us all. You can't change him anymore than he can change you.

I have indeed started to withdraw.

There is always this part in me that makes me believe that I will be able to make these men see the light as in agreeing with my end goal. Time to remove my rose glasses

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What's the point in having to pull teeth to get someone to be with you. Its so much more rewarding when you don't have to lead the horse to water, he just goes cause he's parched.

There are many men out there that would be thrilled to be with you, you just gotta wade through the timewasters to find em.

Posted by Parilicium

Posted by elogean

Posted by Parilicium

This was potentially a cute chart if was not for the aries moon egocentric crap

What's wrong with my Aries Moon?!

it is the best part of my chart 🤷🏾‍♀️

Nooo the best is the aries sun and pisces merc

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What can I say... i was that close to perfection

Posted by Parilicium

Posted by elogean

Posted by Parilicium

Posted by elogean

Posted by Parilicium

This was potentially a cute chart if was not for the aries moon egocentric crap

What's wrong with my Aries Moon?!

it is the best part of my chart 🤷🏾‍♀️

Nooo the best is the aries sun and pisces merc

What can I say... i was that close to perfection

Lol your statements and the need of flattery from the man make me tired already

Sure you are not adopted and actually leo?

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not adopted and there is no leo in me!

"the man" > who are you refering to?