Parkourler
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I am too nonreactive to handle Confrontations
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Posted by Gobbie
Yes, I can understand you.
I'm not the confrontational type and I also feel that it's due to having no personal fire placements. Unfortunately, many people see my laid-back nature as a sign of weakness and try to take advantage.
However, I do have a Taurus Mars. treetrunk around with me one too many times and I will either cut you out or/and explode. And when I do explode, it doesn't matter how many personal fire placements you have, I will have no fear in annihilating you in every conceivable way possible.
Many who have done me wrong should count themselves lucky that I was raised with morals because, if I wasn't, many of them would either no longer be breathing or require a lifetime's worth of counselling after I've finished with them.
whoosah...
I’ve no problem with confrontation....but don’t believe in doing it aggressively....i’m water dominant
Maybe my Aries rising and the fact i had a father, grandfather and uncle who were all quite militant rubbed off on me?
Having said that i only confront with issues i feel are worthwhile ....
Maybe my Aries rising and the fact i had a father, grandfather and uncle who were all quite militant rubbed off on me?
Having said that i only confront with issues i feel are worthwhile ....
Posted by Gobbie
Yes, I can understand you.
I'm not the confrontational type and I also feel that it's due to having no personal fire placements. Unfortunately, many people see my laid-back nature as a sign of weakness and try to take advantage.
However, I do have a Taurus Mars. treetrunk around with me one too many times and I will either cut you out or/and explode. And when I do explode, it doesn't matter how many personal fire placements you have, I will have no fear in annihilating you in every conceivable way possible.
Many who have done me wrong should count themselves lucky that I was raised with morals because, if I wasn't, many of them would either no longer be breathing or require a lifetime's worth of counselling after I've finished with them.
lol I literally bitch slap some 24yr old aries kid yesterday inside work. Cuz he kept fucking with people hard and try to make them look like bitchs and he started with me. What really pissed me off is he acted like to knock my food and drink out of my hands and that's where I draw the line. I literally took that's kid mans card yesterday and made him cry. I'm waiting to get a talking to today or fired cuz nothing happened yesterday. The thing is it's not always good to have fire placements we do dumb reckless shit lol.
Posted by GobbiePosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by Gobbie
Yes, I can understand you.
I'm not the confrontational type and I also feel that it's due to having no personal fire placements. Unfortunately, many people see my laid-back nature as a sign of weakness and try to take advantage.
However, I do have a Taurus Mars. treetrunk around with me one too many times and I will either cut you out or/and explode. And when I do explode, it doesn't matter how many personal fire placements you have, I will have no fear in annihilating you in every conceivable way possible.
Many who have done me wrong should count themselves lucky that I was raised with morals because, if I wasn't, many of them would either no longer be breathing or require a lifetime's worth of counselling after I've finished with them.
whoosah...
*shrugs*
Caps are more aware of the harsh and fucked-up nature of the world they live in than most other signs. The problem is, many people who inflict cruelty onto others do so because they think they can get away with it. That's why many continue with their deplorable behaviour.
It's only because I was raised the right way that such people are spared what my Taurus Mars could truly inflict upon them. But that still doesn't mean I'll take anyone's shit.
If I was ever in a situation where I truly had nothing to lose, heaven help those who try to cross me.click to expand
I understand. I think anyone is capable of anything, if pushed too far though.
Posted by alexscaries
That's some mighty fine trolling.
No i am truly desperate, i just wrote what i feel for years, i opened many love/hate threads abput fire signs a few years ago. You think I troll for years? No. I cant overcome my
slowness, i cant contain the rage either.
Maybe destruction is over the top but asserting boundaries and not letting people get away with bad behavior cant be bad.
That aries kid definetly needed some consequence.
Posted by GobbiePosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by GobbiePosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by Gobbie
Yes, I can understand you.
I'm not the confrontational type and I also feel that it's due to having no personal fire placements. Unfortunately, many people see my laid-back nature as a sign of weakness and try to take advantage.
However, I do have a Taurus Mars. treetrunk around with me one too many times and I will either cut you out or/and explode. And when I do explode, it doesn't matter how many personal fire placements you have, I will have no fear in annihilating you in every conceivable way possible.
Many who have done me wrong should count themselves lucky that I was raised with morals because, if I wasn't, many of them would either no longer be breathing or require a lifetime's worth of counselling after I've finished with them.
whoosah...
*shrugs*
Caps are more aware of the harsh and fucked-up nature of the world they live in than most other signs. The problem is, many people who inflict cruelty onto others do so because they think they can get away with it. That's why many continue with their deplorable behaviour.
It's only because I was raised the right way that such people are spared what my Taurus Mars could truly inflict upon them. But that still doesn't mean I'll take anyone's shit.
If I was ever in a situation where I truly had nothing to lose, heaven help those who try to cross me.
I understand. I think anyone is capable of anything, if pushed too far though.
True, but it really depends on their Mars and a Taurus Mars is one hardcore sonofabitch. Period.click to expand
So is my cancer Mars 😔
Posted by xiongmao
Why does reactive = better at confrontation?
Reactive= talking back/calling people out/
shutting people down in real time not in taurus time.
Posted by GobbiePosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by GobbiePosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by GobbiePosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by Gobbie
Yes, I can understand you.
I'm not the confrontational type and I also feel that it's due to having no personal fire placements. Unfortunately, many people see my laid-back nature as a sign of weakness and try to take advantage.
However, I do have a Taurus Mars. treetrunk around with me one too many times and I will either cut you out or/and explode. And when I do explode, it doesn't matter how many personal fire placements you have, I will have no fear in annihilating you in every conceivable way possible.
Many who have done me wrong should count themselves lucky that I was raised with morals because, if I wasn't, many of them would either no longer be breathing or require a lifetime's worth of counselling after I've finished with them.
whoosah...
*shrugs*
Caps are more aware of the harsh and fucked-up nature of the world they live in than most other signs. The problem is, many people who inflict cruelty onto others do so because they think they can get away with it. That's why many continue with their deplorable behaviour.
It's only because I was raised the right way that such people are spared what my Taurus Mars could truly inflict upon them. But that still doesn't mean I'll take anyone's shit.
If I was ever in a situation where I truly had nothing to lose, heaven help those who try to cross me.
I understand. I think anyone is capable of anything, if pushed too far though.
True, but it really depends on their Mars and a Taurus Mars is one hardcore sonofabitch. Period.
So is my cancer Mars 😔
Wanna put that to the test? 😈click to expand
I like how willing and prepared you are to loose again.
Posted by GobbiePosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by GobbiePosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by GobbiePosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by GobbiePosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by Gobbie
Yes, I can understand you.
I'm not the confrontational type and I also feel that it's due to having no personal fire placements. Unfortunately, many people see my laid-back nature as a sign of weakness and try to take advantage.
However, I do have a Taurus Mars. treetrunk around with me one too many times and I will either cut you out or/and explode. And when I do explode, it doesn't matter how many personal fire placements you have, I will have no fear in annihilating you in every conceivable way possible.
Many who have done me wrong should count themselves lucky that I was raised with morals because, if I wasn't, many of them would either no longer be breathing or require a lifetime's worth of counselling after I've finished with them.
whoosah...
*shrugs*
Caps are more aware of the harsh and fucked-up nature of the world they live in than most other signs. The problem is, many people who inflict cruelty onto others do so because they think they can get away with it. That's why many continue with their deplorable behaviour.
It's only because I was raised the right way that such people are spared what my Taurus Mars could truly inflict upon them. But that still doesn't mean I'll take anyone's shit.
If I was ever in a situation where I truly had nothing to lose, heaven help those who try to cross me.
I understand. I think anyone is capable of anything, if pushed too far though.
True, but it really depends on their Mars and a Taurus Mars is one hardcore sonofabitch. Period.
So is my cancer Mars 😔
Wanna put that to the test? 😈
I like how willing and prepared you are to loose again.
A mud wrestle it is. 😄click to expand
I'm good with mud😛
Ppl mistake confortational attitudes for strength. Alot of skilled fighters aren't gung ho but if you approach em wrong, that's yo add. Be yin until you have to be yang
Posted by WarAngel
Thank God (🙏🏼) my Capricorn rising keeps a lid on all those personal fire planets! I have the right blend of earth and water up front to keep me grounded.
I feel bad for mentioning you in connection with bullying. I apologize. Its just you made some pretty forceful statements.
Posted by ImperfectStorm
I’m getting better at it. I have libra rising/stellium which is all about harmony and peace, so I’ve struggled with confrontation especially with people that I love. It’s weird because confrontation wasn’t a problem when I was younger. But at some point in my mid to late twenties I convinced myself I had to be “ladylike” and agreeable to be likeable. Otherwise I felt I was being too difficult.
I have Scorpio Mercury, sag mars and Leo north node. I’m working on letting these parts shine through more.
But you do have those elements in your chart.
So if you figure out how to unblock the storm
at will you are set. Btw. if you are scorpi but also peaceful on behalf of the taurus species, please consider us 🙂
Posted by xiongmaoPosted by ParkourlerPosted by xiongmao
Why does reactive = better at confrontation?
Reactive= talking back/calling people out/
shutting people down in real time not in taurus time.
But you get there. You do shut people down and talk back. It just may not be the first moment. Who cares what other people think of that...
You do you, without caring about what other people think of it. That's the motto of a fire sun, imo.click to expand
Thks thats nice. Yeah you are not trying to appease to people during a confrontation anyway.
Posted by ParkourlerPosted by ImperfectStorm
I’m getting better at it. I have libra rising/stellium which is all about harmony and peace, so I’ve struggled with confrontation especially with people that I love. It’s weird because confrontation wasn’t a problem when I was younger. But at some point in my mid to late twenties I convinced myself I had to be “ladylike” and agreeable to be likeable. Otherwise I felt I was being too difficult.
I have Scorpio Mercury, sag mars and Leo north node. I’m working on letting these parts shine through more.
But you do have those elements in your chart.
So if you figure out how to unblock the storm
at will you are set. Btw. if you are scorpi but also peaceful on behalf of the taurus species, please consider us 🙂click to expand
Yeah i can see libras being calm and dipmomatic, but i want to know jow they assert themselves while still being their peaceful selfs.
Posted by MyStarsShine
I’ve no problem with confrontation....but don’t believe in doing it aggressively....i’m water dominant
Maybe my Aries rising and the fact i had a father, grandfather and uncle who were all quite militant rubbed off on me?
Having said that i only confront with issues i feel are worthwhile ....
So water peopme just express their emotions in confrontations? So i guess you are not mdek but als8 not fiery. How does that look like, express hurt, protest loudly?
Posted by bmoon8Posted by Parkourler
Hi,
My lack of fire makes me too lazy to fight back, i want to think every counterargument through. And thats a problem it really is.
If woman shittest me i freeze up, go into my cave and then i retaliate. Even if they back off after that, they dont apologize but treat like i have proven myself which means i gotta mess with them even more. Oh and btw i cant get stay away from fire sign people so that makes it worse. Their good sides are addictive. I have drinking buddies who remind me of war angel,
i started humiliating them, spitting them in the face after they verbally dominated me cause i cannot not freeze up if its gets verbal, loud,heated.
Can people wih my disposition handle confrontations without pretending to be somebody else?
Ughh, end of rant. I need everybody in fetal position scared of their mind, like the masses of afghans trying to get on a plane cause the talibans are just an imposing unfathomably cruel nightmare.
I have become more of a spitfire offline after something happened to me. Not sure what got into me, but I speak my mind more and will stand up for myself like you would not believe.
Like yesterday I got into an argument with a Township supervisor because he was an asshole. I am doing something with my 1 acre of land gust needs their approval and I got him to change his mind off of my argument. Trust and believe that I am glad for the Grand fire trine in my chart and my 5 planets in fire signs.
Can we see your chart?click to expand
Yeah sure. Like here or in some website ill figure it out.
Btw do we really need matrix 4?
Posted by ParkourlerPosted by MyStarsShine
I’ve no problem with confrontation....but don’t believe in doing it aggressively....i’m water dominant
Maybe my Aries rising and the fact i had a father, grandfather and uncle who were all quite militant rubbed off on me?
Having said that i only confront with issues i feel are worthwhile ....
So water peopme just express their emotions in confrontations? So i guess you are not mdek but als8 not fiery. How does that look like, express hurt, protest loudly?click to expand
No loudness. Firm, but calm. People tend not to listen if you lose it, that’s what toddlers do
Not meek, fiery as in passionate but not in a shouting way
Taurus moon is very calm but stubborn. I don’t keep my mouth shut if I see injustice
Posted by bmoon8
Yesterday in a fast food drive thru, I got into argument with lady behind me and refused to do what her damn entitled ass wanted me to do. Before, I would have acquiesced. Not any damn more.
Her entitled ass honked her horn because she wanted me to move further in 1st lane, so she could move into 2nd lane. I made her ass wait and be patient. Patience is a virtue.
Don’t know what has gotten into me, but I don’t care about going with the flow anymore. Maybe Pluto conjunct Ascendant transit?
Dont know, i cycle so some people shouldnt have cars. The moment they touch a steering wheel they are just jerks. I know a guy who drives really close up to Driving school cars,
making it hard for them.
Posted by bmoon8Posted by ParkourlerPosted by bmoon8Posted by Parkourler
Hi,
My lack of fire makes me too lazy to fight back, i want to think every counterargument through. And thats a problem it really is.
If woman shittest me i freeze up, go into my cave and then i retaliate. Even if they back off after that, they dont apologize but treat like i have proven myself which means i gotta mess with them even more. Oh and btw i cant get stay away from fire sign people so that makes it worse. Their good sides are addictive. I have drinking buddies who remind me of war angel,
i started humiliating them, spitting them in the face after they verbally dominated me cause i cannot not freeze up if its gets verbal, loud,heated.
Can people wih my disposition handle confrontations without pretending to be somebody else?
Ughh, end of rant. I need everybody in fetal position scared of their mind, like the masses of afghans trying to get on a plane cause the talibans are just an imposing unfathomably cruel nightmare.
I have become more of a spitfire offline after something happened to me. Not sure what got into me, but I speak my mind more and will stand up for myself like you would not believe.
Like yesterday I got into an argument with a Township supervisor because he was an asshole. I am doing something with my 1 acre of land gust needs their approval and I got him to change his mind off of my argument. Trust and believe that I am glad for the Grand fire trine in my chart and my 5 planets in fire signs.
Can we see your chart?
Yeah sure. Like here or in some website ill figure it out.
Do you have an astro.com account? Copy picture of your chart from there onto your phone. Then go to an image hosting site and upload it there. Then copy the image hosting link to here. 🙂
Imgbb.com
I think @mystarsshine has an easier site.click to expand
https://ibb.co/L6Y9WdM
Posted by bmoon8Posted by ParkourlerPosted by bmoon8Posted by Parkourler
Hi,
My lack of fire makes me too lazy to fight back, i want to think every counterargument through. And thats a problem it really is.
If woman shittest me i freeze up, go into my cave and then i retaliate. Even if they back off after that, they dont apologize but treat like i have proven myself which means i gotta mess with them even more. Oh and btw i cant get stay away from fire sign people so that makes it worse. Their good sides are addictive. I have drinking buddies who remind me of war angel,
i started humiliating them, spitting them in the face after they verbally dominated me cause i cannot not freeze up if its gets verbal, loud,heated.
Can people wih my disposition handle confrontations without pretending to be somebody else?
Ughh, end of rant. I need everybody in fetal position scared of their mind, like the masses of afghans trying to get on a plane cause the talibans are just an imposing unfathomably cruel nightmare.
I have become more of a spitfire offline after something happened to me. Not sure what got into me, but I speak my mind more and will stand up for myself like you would not believe.
Like yesterday I got into an argument with a Township supervisor because he was an asshole. I am doing something with my 1 acre of land gust needs their approval and I got him to change his mind off of my argument. Trust and believe that I am glad for the Grand fire trine in my chart and my 5 planets in fire signs.
Can we see your chart?
Yeah sure. Like here or in some website ill figure it out.
Do you have an astro.com account? Copy picture of your chart from there onto your phone. Then go to an image hosting site and upload it there. Then copy the image hosting link to here. 🙂
Imgbb.com
I think @mystarsshine has an easier site.click to expand
https://ibb.co/L6Y9WdM
what's up with tauruses and spitting on people?
you're the third taurus I see who talks about spitting on people. It's a weird thing to do
you're the third taurus I see who talks about spitting on people. It's a weird thing to do
Posted by Parkourler
Btw do we really need matrix 4?
Matrix 1 was already redundant
Posted by bmoon8Posted by ParkourlerPosted by bmoon8Posted by Parkourler
Hi,
My lack of fire makes me too lazy to fight back, i want to think every counterargument through. And thats a problem it really is.
If woman shittest me i freeze up, go into my cave and then i retaliate. Even if they back off after that, they dont apologize but treat like i have proven myself which means i gotta mess with them even more. Oh and btw i cant get stay away from fire sign people so that makes it worse. Their good sides are addictive. I have drinking buddies who remind me of war angel,
i started humiliating them, spitting them in the face after they verbally dominated me cause i cannot not freeze up if its gets verbal, loud,heated.
Can people wih my disposition handle confrontations without pretending to be somebody else?
Ughh, end of rant. I need everybody in fetal position scared of their mind, like the masses of afghans trying to get on a plane cause the talibans are just an imposing unfathomably cruel nightmare.
I have become more of a spitfire offline after something happened to me. Not sure what got into me, but I speak my mind more and will stand up for myself like you would not believe.
Like yesterday I got into an argument with a Township supervisor because he was an asshole. I am doing something with my 1 acre of land gust needs their approval and I got him to change his mind off of my argument. Trust and believe that I am glad for the Grand fire trine in my chart and my 5 planets in fire signs.
Can we see your chart?
Yeah sure. Like here or in some website ill figure it out.
Do you have an astro.com account? Copy picture of your chart from there onto your phone. Then go to an image hosting site and upload it there. Then copy the image hosting link to here. 🙂
Imgbb.com
I think @mystarsshine has an easier site.click to expand
I use post images and Astro.com 👍
Posted by hydorah
what's up with tauruses and spitting on people?
you're the third taurus I see who talks about spitting on people. It's a weird thing to do
Dont want to go to prison so no punching, germany is duper strict but I wanted publicly
influct some serious hurt.
Posted by The_Spirit_of_Alex_Trebek
I'm kinda confused.. most of your OP reads like you're upset you don't have the witts to not get physical. The girls harass you and you retreat, then come back to mess with them again? Your buddies verbally dominated you so you spit in their face?
Yes. The girls are all aries and sags. Aries and scorpio guys try to pick on me.
I do not understand why people see someone that is direct and speaking their truth as reactionary or confrontational. 🤔
For me: Reactionary would be punching ( breaking) a person/object when upset/angry. Confrontational would be not respecting space, yelling and/or degrading another person. Which both examples are a lack of self control.
I'm extremely blunt/direct when it's required, you do not get far in life if you allow others to walk all over you. But I also understand that others do not always respond well to that approach and yes I have hurt feelings, but its never my intention to do so, I'd rather tell the truth than sugarcoat, pussyfoot around.
I am fire/earth . The above way I speak/handle things, I give credit to my Cap mercury.
For me: Reactionary would be punching ( breaking) a person/object when upset/angry. Confrontational would be not respecting space, yelling and/or degrading another person. Which both examples are a lack of self control.
I'm extremely blunt/direct when it's required, you do not get far in life if you allow others to walk all over you. But I also understand that others do not always respond well to that approach and yes I have hurt feelings, but its never my intention to do so, I'd rather tell the truth than sugarcoat, pussyfoot around.
I am fire/earth . The above way I speak/handle things, I give credit to my Cap mercury.
Posted by justagirl
I do not understand why people see someone that is direct and speaking their truth as reactionary or confrontational. 🤔
For me: Reactionary would be punching ( breaking) a person/object when upset/angry. Confrontational would be not respecting space, yelling and/or degrading another person. Which both examples are a lack of self control.
I'm extremely blunt/direct when it's required, you do not get far in life if you allow others to walk all over you. But I also understand that others do not always respond well to that approach and yes I have hurt feelings, but its never my intention to do so, I'd rather tell the truth than sugarcoat, pussyfoot around.
I am fire/earth . The above way I speak/handle things, I give credit to my Cap mercury.
Reactionary= being able to verbalize in response to what was said. I shut down. I am quiet and meek in general so I can attest to not getting far if people walk over you. Which is why I plot public revenges after the exchange so that others dont think i am weak.
I heard water find earth too blunt at times maybe i can use that.
Posted by ParkourlerPosted by justagirl
I do not understand why people see someone that is direct and speaking their truth as reactionary or confrontational. 🤔
For me: Reactionary would be punching ( breaking) a person/object when upset/angry. Confrontational would be not respecting space, yelling and/or degrading another person. Which both examples are a lack of self control.
I'm extremely blunt/direct when it's required, you do not get far in life if you allow others to walk all over you. But I also understand that others do not always respond well to that approach and yes I have hurt feelings, but its never my intention to do so, I'd rather tell the truth than sugarcoat, pussyfoot around.
I am fire/earth . The above way I speak/handle things, I give credit to my Cap mercury.
Reactionary= being able to verbalize in response to what was said. I shut down. I am quiet and meek in general so I can attest to not getting far if people walk over you. Which is why I plot public revenges after the exchange so that others dont think i am weak.
I heard water find earth too blunt at times maybe i can use that.click to expand
Are you fearful others will judge what you have to say? Appearing a fool? So you shut down. I'm asking because that was an issue when I was in my 20s. Sounds like you need to focus on having confidence in yourself, and to truly not give so much power to what others might think and what you need to say. It's hard to do at first, but once you start.. it gets easier and then you won't need revenge.
Plotting and doing revenge is not healthy and it's a great way to lose friends and isn't going to help you learn how to get over the shutting down. However, I get a feeling you enjoy that part of all of this.
If you feel you don't have enough wits to answer to provocations, just keep your dignity, hold your ground and answer by pointing out their lack of manner or lack of morals. When someone provokes you they're generally scheming and have something to not be proud of that you can bring to the public verbally .
Keeping your dignity is how you win in the long term, wether it's with women or male competitors. Just project that you're comfortable as who you are and they aint worth shit
Keeping your dignity is how you win in the long term, wether it's with women or male competitors. Just project that you're comfortable as who you are and they aint worth shit
Posted by hydorah
If you feel you don't have enough wits to answer to provocations, just keep your dignity, hold your ground and answer by pointing out their lack of manner or lack of morals. When someone provokes you they're generally scheming and have something to not be proud of that you can bring to the public verbally .
Keeping your dignity is how you win in the long term, wether it's with women or male competitors. Just project that you're comfortable as who you are and they aint worth shit
Thanks thats helpful, esspecially surfacing their bad intentions or what they are trying to hide. I can banter but mean people stunn me.
Posted by justagirlPosted by ParkourlerPosted by justagirl
I do not understand why people see someone that is direct and speaking their truth as reactionary or confrontational. 🤔
For me: Reactionary would be punching ( breaking) a person/object when upset/angry. Confrontational would be not respecting space, yelling and/or degrading another person. Which both examples are a lack of self control.
I'm extremely blunt/direct when it's required, you do not get far in life if you allow others to walk all over you. But I also understand that others do not always respond well to that approach and yes I have hurt feelings, but its never my intention to do so, I'd rather tell the truth than sugarcoat, pussyfoot around.
I am fire/earth . The above way I speak/handle things, I give credit to my Cap mercury.
Reactionary= being able to verbalize in response to what was said. I shut down. I am quiet and meek in general so I can attest to not getting far if people walk over you. Which is why I plot public revenges after the exchange so that others dont think i am weak.
I heard water find earth too blunt at times maybe i can use that.
Are you fearful others will judge what you have to say? Appearing a fool? So you shut down. I'm asking because that was an issue when I was in my 20s. Sounds like you need to focus on having confidence in yourself, and to truly not give so much power to what others might think and what you need to say. It's hard to do at first, but once you start.. it gets easier and then you won't need revenge.
Plotting and doing revenge is not healthy and it's a great way to lose friends and isn't going to help you learn how to get over the shutting down. However, I get a feeling you enjoy that part of all of this.click to expand
I enjoy it in some cases for various reasons.
For example aries seem not have a memory at all. Like babies. They lash out and then its forgotten and they are surprised if you are less friendly the next time we meet. No if you treat people bad. So earthy stubbornness is a great way to win. They cant handle obstinance. They are sprinters not marathonrunners.
I dont know the exact reasons as to why i shut down. There are many.
Spiting is worse then fists, who knows let’s hope no HIV and other crap going on there
You don't have to be witty to come out on top. Just start throwing hands.
Posted by CookieMonster123
Do you have serious pisces or libra placements
Oh yeah libra rising and several pisces placements. What does nonconsenquential mean? Its another word for what i just said right?
No fire in my chart but I always fight fiercely, if provoked lol
Posted by alexscariesPosted by ParkourlerPosted by CookieMonster123
Do you have serious pisces or libra placements
What does nonconsenquential mean? Its another word for what i just said right?
1 : of no significance : unimportant. 2a : irrelevant. b : illogical.click to expand
Is it also nonconsequential if aries is on the receiving end?
Posted by alexscariesPosted by ParkourlerPosted by alexscariesPosted by ParkourlerPosted by CookieMonster123
Do you have serious pisces or libra placements
What does nonconsenquential mean? Its another word for what i just said right?
1 : of no significance : unimportant. 2a : irrelevant. b : illogical.
Is it also nonconsequential if aries is on the receiving end?
Yep. We make enemies then move on. We don't hang about.click to expand
I have a problem with that. I want an apology, accountability, consequence, i am willing to make it public, to drag it out. Its just so wrong to do whatever you want without repercussions.
Posted by Antiphates
There is no one specific rule for this. I would even argue that a lot of peoples agressivness comes from the fact that they try to bluntly use one principle for every situation without adjusting to the circumstances. That being said, and I will contradict myself here a bit, there are, I think, some general tools and learned habits that might help.
Since you seem to be someone who has delayed reactions but potentially strong internal and emotional reactions it might help you to analyze the reactionand ask yourself things like
What do I want from this?
How do I want to get there?
Why do I want this?
What are my restrictions?
What do I not want?
In the cases where you don't really care enough to fight but react emotionally it might refocus and thus delay that emotional reaction long enough to prevent yourself from falling into the loop that usually would set you up to plan your revenge.
In the cases where you care enough it helps to focus and maintain that foucs on what you care about while, over time, making you more grounded and firm in your internal foundation until you longer have those internal reactions unless it really matters.
In a similiar fashion there is one phrase that can shut down a lot of the conflicts: What is the problem?
Since most people have conflicts without goals or clearly defined causes asking them what the problem is often either ends the conflict or at least redirects it into more constructive paths. It also helps to filter out those who simply want conflict for the sake of conflict. The problem with the phrase is that you need to get the timing right. If you just spout them the moment the conflict began it will probably only make things worse, but that's something you'll eventually get a feeling for after some trial and error. It's also where the circle closes and we come back to my inital sentence.
Thx, i think i know when to do that. Definetly not in the heat of the moment.
I'm fire dominant and can confirm I can be aggressive and feisty AF. Whilst looking angelic tho.
I feel you are hanging out with the wrong group. You shouldn’t have to get to this point.
I always felt like a anomaly I have nothing but water in my chart and I’m very reactive and direct but if I’m not provoked I’m calm I have a jekyll Hyde thing going on I think when people aren’t confrontational it’s cause they’re not comfortable with it or feel there will be consequences
Posted by alexscariesPosted by JayTheFantastic
I always felt like a anomaly I have nothing but water in my chart and I’m very reactive and direct but if I’m not provoked I’m calm I have a jekyll Hyde thing going on I think when people aren’t confrontational it’s cause they’re not comfortable with it or feel there will be consequences
Same. But we're partially astro twins.click to expand
Yup that Aries sun scorpio moon is no joke
Posted by ParkourlerPosted by Antiphates
There is no one specific rule for this. I would even argue that a lot of peoples agressivness comes from the fact that they try to bluntly use one principle for every situation without adjusting to the circumstances. That being said, and I will contradict myself here a bit, there are, I think, some general tools and learned habits that might help.
Since you seem to be someone who has delayed reactions but potentially strong internal and emotional reactions it might help you to analyze the reactionand ask yourself things like
What do I want from this?
How do I want to get there?
Why do I want this?
What are my restrictions?
What do I not want?
In the cases where you don't really care enough to fight but react emotionally it might refocus and thus delay that emotional reaction long enough to prevent yourself from falling into the loop that usually would set you up to plan your revenge.
In the cases where you care enough it helps to focus and maintain that foucs on what you care about while, over time, making you more grounded and firm in your internal foundation until you longer have those internal reactions unless it really matters.
In a similiar fashion there is one phrase that can shut down a lot of the conflicts: What is the problem?
Since most people have conflicts without goals or clearly defined causes asking them what the problem is often either ends the conflict or at least redirects it into more constructive paths. It also helps to filter out those who simply want conflict for the sake of conflict. The problem with the phrase is that you need to get the timing right. If you just spout them the moment the conflict began it will probably only make things worse, but that's something you'll eventually get a feeling for after some trial and error. It's also where the circle closes and we come back to my inital sentence.
Thx, i think i know when to do that. Definetly not in the heat of the moment.click to expand
Where’s your sun moon and mars dude?
Ah the worn tired trope of the male confronting and destroying whatever threatens his masculinity. I’ve seen this movie(s).
Posted by JayTheFantastic
I know a Mars in pisces girl that scares a lot of people I’ve known quite a few Mars in pisces that will turn up if you bother them. I know this cam girl who is very reactive with her emotions a scary temper kinda crazy too she’s also biracial tho lol I don’t know dude you should be able to be assertive none of your inner planets are in their worst position now me I have my moon Mercury and mars in the worst position and will not take crap from anybody..
Water makes emotional, so if i express them immediately instead of trying to be unfazed
i would be reactive.
Posted by ParkourlerPosted by JayTheFantastic
I know a Mars in pisces girl that scares a lot of people I’ve known quite a few Mars in pisces that will turn up if you bother them. I know this cam girl who is very reactive with her emotions a scary temper kinda crazy too she’s also biracial tho lol I don’t know dude you should be able to be assertive none of your inner planets are in their worst position now me I have my moon Mercury and mars in the worst position and will not take crap from anybody..
Water makes emotional, so if i express them immediately instead of trying to be unfazed
i would be reactive.click to expand
Then don’t try to be unfazed instead stand up for yourself and handle things in the moment you’re a Taurus you ever see what happens when people try to ride bulls? They go crazy and it’s not enough for the person to be off their backs they continue to attack once the person is on the ground. You need to show that side of yourself
Posted by alexscariesPosted by JayTheFantastic
I know a Mars in pisces girl that scares a lot of people I’ve known quite a few Mars in pisces that will turn up if you bother them. I know this cam girl who is very reactive with her emotions a scary temper kinda crazy too she’s also biracial tho lol I don’t know dude you should be able to be assertive none of your inner planets are in their worst position now me I have my moon Mercury and mars in the worst position and will not take crap from anybody..
I think a lot depends on rising. Scorpio rising isn't as chill as say Aqua rising imo.click to expand
I honestly think rising sign is just the mask we show or first impressions I think once we get to know someone the rising sign is no longer noticeable
Posted by JayTheFantasticPosted by alexscariesPosted by JayTheFantastic
I know a Mars in pisces girl that scares a lot of people I’ve known quite a few Mars in pisces that will turn up if you bother them. I know this cam girl who is very reactive with her emotions a scary temper kinda crazy too she’s also biracial tho lol I don’t know dude you should be able to be assertive none of your inner planets are in their worst position now me I have my moon Mercury and mars in the worst position and will not take crap from anybody..
I think a lot depends on rising. Scorpio rising isn't as chill as say Aqua rising imo.
I honestly think rising sign is just the mask we show or first impressions I think once we get to know someone the rising sign is no longer noticeableclick to expand
Not to mention how many people don’t know their rising sign or what time they was born it isn’t enough to go on I say aspects and moon and mars placements are a better indicator
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