LuckyLibra7
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She vanished!
If you haven't from her in a month I think it's safe to say she's not that interested.
Maybe the problem was her initiating and driving things. If you don’t make moves on women, how can they tell you’re interested?
Were you waiting on her to initiate everything, even intimacy?
You snooze, you lose.
Were you waiting on her to initiate everything, even intimacy?
You snooze, you lose.
Nah I had no problem initiating, but I didn’t feel like she reciprocated for intimacy. More so just going along with it.
She never brought anything up.
As far as her driving things, I was typically setting the dates. She would just initiate the conversation and I took that as interest she wanted to get together.
Either way it’s strange because I haven’t had this issue with other women.
She never brought anything up.
As far as her driving things, I was typically setting the dates. She would just initiate the conversation and I took that as interest she wanted to get together.
Either way it’s strange because I haven’t had this issue with other women.
Posted by Timone
If you haven't from her in a month I think it's safe to say she's not that interested.
I don’t disagree. But it’s strange the way she left it. She was a pretty straightforward person outside of intimacy.
I’m thinking she’s emotionally unavailable and thought I was pushing for a relationship? I just sent the flowers as a decent gesture. It wasn’t anything over the top.
Posted by MonaLisa26
So you did try to approach her for sex. What did she say?
nothing..
I did some foreplay with her and after about 5 mins, she just stopped cold. I backed off and she just sat next to me but didn’t open up at all.
She mentioned on our third date or so she’s not good with emotions. That’s about it.
If she wasn’t ready after a couple dates, that’s fine. But she sort of stonewalled me and disappeared with the excuse that work is picking up.
Posted by MonaLisa26Posted by LuckyLibra7Posted by MonaLisa26nothing..
So you did try to approach her for sex. What did she say?
I did some foreplay with her and after about 5 mins, she just stopped cold. I backed off and she just sat next to me but didn’t open up at all.
She mentioned on our third date or so she’s not good with emotions. That’s about it.
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Apparently you can’t date women who are in need of understanding of their womenhood.
There IS real thing as incompatibility and it sounds so much like it.
She wanted somebody and you were there so she kept it up hoping for something. Nothing happened. Sparks didn’t fly…happens.
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I’m not sure if this was the case. If we’re incompatible then she would have conveyed this. There was enough rapport there to discuss or end it.
She never discussed anything in the relationship category other than her ex cheating. This includes questions about my dating history. She invested on her end, which is the confusing part here. Very accommodating, remembered details, cooked and invited me to meet friends.
But not affectionate.
Incompatibility ghosting usually occurs pretty early on.
Aqua Venus is tricky and I think she got spooked. I She decided to prioritize work and wasn’t interested in progressing, but the way it’s left it seems like the door is open.
How did she vanish if she was the one to always initiate? The math ain't mathing.
Maybe she decided to sit back to see if you were going to initiate and match her effort for once?
Also what kinda flowers did you send. Maybe she took the yellow roses meaning and cut her loses for example.
Maybe she decided to sit back to see if you were going to initiate and match her effort for once?
Also what kinda flowers did you send. Maybe she took the yellow roses meaning and cut her loses for example.
Posted by LadyNeptune
How did she vanish if she was the one to always initiate? The math ain't mathing.
Maybe she decided to sit back to see if you were going to initiate and match her effort for once?
It was like 70-30 for initiating.
I sent a half dozen pink roses. She was appreciative, but then backed off.
She had already pulled back a little a few days ago so I may have overpursued and that gave her the green light to eject
Posted by LuckyLibra7Posted by LadyNeptune
How did she vanish if she was the one to always initiate? The math ain't mathing.
Maybe she decided to sit back to see if you were going to initiate and match her effort for once?
It was like 70-30 for initiating.
I sent a half dozen pink roses. She was appreciative, but then backed off.
She had already pulled back a little a few days ago so I may have overpursued and that gave her the green light to ejectclick to expand
She didn't pull back per say. She told you her work duties suffered with the time she took off to spend with her sister and she needed to focus in. That's her giving you an explanation ahead of time of why her communication would drop off.
Give her a week or so and then reach out and ask when she is free next so you can take her for a nice meal or whatever.
Pink roses were a good choice. Don't get in your head rn, be consistent and a stable presence.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by LuckyLibra7Posted by LadyNeptune
How did she vanish if she was the one to always initiate? The math ain't mathing.
Maybe she decided to sit back to see if you were going to initiate and match her effort for once?
It was like 70-30 for initiating.
I sent a half dozen pink roses. She was appreciative, but then backed off.
She had already pulled back a little a few days ago so I may have overpursued and that gave her the green light to eject
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She didn't pull back per say. She told you her work duties suffered with the time she took off to spend with her sister and she needed to focus in. That's her giving you an explanation ahead of time of why her communication would drop off.
Give her a week or so and then reach out and ask when she is free next so you can take her for a nice meal or whatever.
Pink roses were a good choice. Don't get in your head rn, be consistent and a stable presence.
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Her reasoning is logical. Her parents were also in town several days later.
However, it’s been about 4 weeks as of tomorrow and I am not reaching out to her.
I’m not sending you flowers and then you blow me off because of work? She needs to reach out and repair the relationship because I didn’t end it.
Posted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by LuckyLibra7
Didn’t quite close the deal as she was not an initiator. She wouldn’t give pushback on sex, but she never took her pants off or made a move if you get what I’m saying.
A little awkward.
LOL! That's how Cap women are. I don't care what anyone says, most Cap women have hang-ups about sex.
With that said, her lack of interest could be due to something else you may not have mentioned. Hell, there's even the possibility that it may be something you still aren't aware of yet.
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Haven’t dealt with too many Cap women. The only other one I remembered pulled the disappearing act also and returned after a year.
Posted by LuckyLibra7Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by LuckyLibra7She didn't pull back per say. She told you her work duties suffered with the time she took off to spend with her sister and she needed to focus in. That's her giving you an explanation ahead of time of why her communication would drop off.Posted by LadyNeptune
How did she vanish if she was the one to always initiate? The math ain't mathing.
Maybe she decided to sit back to see if you were going to initiate and match her effort for once?
It was like 70-30 for initiating.
I sent a half dozen pink roses. She was appreciative, but then backed off.
She had already pulled back a little a few days ago so I may have overpursued and that gave her the green light to eject
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Give her a week or so and then reach out and ask when she is free next so you can take her for a nice meal or whatever.
Pink roses were a good choice. Don't get in your head rn, be consistent and a stable presence.
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Her reasoning is logical. Her parents were also in town several days later.
However, it’s been about 4 weeks as of tomorrow and I am not reaching out to her.
I’m not sending you flowers and then you blow me off because of work? She needs to reach out and repair the relationship because I didn’t end it.click to expand
What is there to repair? She communicated with you as to why she needed to take time to take care of work, you know the thing that pays her bills. Flowers are nice and all but its not gonna keep the electric on.
You need to check your ego. Some $ 80 flowers do not entitle you to her body or her time. You gave them as a gift but now appear to think that it was actually a transaction. One she never agreed to.
Honestly with this attitude don't reach out to her. She unknowingly dodged a bullet. Fade to black.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by LuckyLibra7Posted by LadyNeptuneHer reasoning is logical. Her parents were also in town several days later.Posted by LuckyLibra7Posted by LadyNeptune
How did she vanish if she was the one to always initiate? The math ain't mathing.
Maybe she decided to sit back to see if you were going to initiate and match her effort for once?
It was like 70-30 for initiating.
I sent a half dozen pink roses. She was appreciative, but then backed off.
She had already pulled back a little a few days ago so I may have overpursued and that gave her the green light to eject
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She didn't pull back per say. She told you her work duties suffered with the time she took off to spend with her sister and she needed to focus in. That's her giving you an explanation ahead of time of why her communication would drop off.
Give her a week or so and then reach out and ask when she is free next so you can take her for a nice meal or whatever.
Pink roses were a good choice. Don't get in your head rn, be consistent and a stable presence.
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However, it’s been about 4 weeks as of tomorrow and I am not reaching out to her.
I’m not sending you flowers and then you blow me off because of work? She needs to reach out and repair the relationship because I didn’t end it.
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What is there to repair? She communicated with you as to why she needed to take time to take care of work, you know the thing that pays her bills. Flowers are nice and all but its not gonna keep the electric on.
You need to check your ego. Some $ 80 flowers do not entitle you to her body or her time. You gave them as a gift but now appear to think that it was actually a transaction. One she never agreed to.
Honestly with this attitude don't reach out to her. She unknowingly dodged a bullet. Fade to black.
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I don’t know what you’re talking about, there’s no ego involved here, it’s simple etiquette.
The flowers were a gift, but that’s very strange for me to chase and request to spend time with someone who didn’t reciprocate interest.
She needs to repair it because she dropped off for 4+ weeks. This works either way, if I did the same thing. I think you’re confused here. I’m not upset at what’s going on with her job. She used that as a cover because she had no issue making time before. The lack of honesty is the issue here. If she wasn’t interested then we could’ve had a short discussion and moved on. There was enough rapport there for that to occur, but she chose to leave the door open and say she’s tied up.
This was without me even inquiring but I read between the lines here.
Relationships are like tennis. You hit the ball over the net, and they hit it back. She didn’t hit it back so it’s ridiculous to keep chasing.
Posted by Midnite_Riser
Cap sun with a Venus in Aquarius? That's COOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOLD woman...........drop her and move on. If you can't move on from her, that shows scarcity which will make you lack confidence my friend. You need to let her go she's done. Move on. Everytime I see an Aquarius placement involved = TRASH. You probably came on strong to her or something. You have to keep that friendship energy to be with someone with an Aquarius placement. That is why Aquarius placements SUCK
I was dating an Aquarius at the same time as her and I never had an issue as far as intimacy or communication.
I ended up dropping the Aquarius as she was as super needy and complained about my work schedule and going to the gym. But I made time to see her about twice a week.
Only then to get dropped by the Cap.
Hilarious
Posted by poppyflowerPosted by LuckyLibra7Posted by TimoneI don’t disagree. But it’s strange the way she left it. She was a pretty straightforward person outside of intimacy.
If you haven't from her in a month I think it's safe to say she's not that interested.
I’m thinking she’s emotionally unavailable and thought I was pushing for a relationship? I just sent the flowers as a decent gesture. It wasn’t anything over the top.
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Possibly lack of space. It's like she ejected herself outta there after getting the flowers.
You did say things progressed a bit slow, but maybe that was her speed. There doesn't seem to be really any concrete indication of interest from her end ("She never discusses anything in the relationship category").
So maybe she was testing the waters still when she felt you kinda hit too much on the gas pedal.click to expand
That’s the conclusion I basically came to over the last couple weeks. I don’t regret sending the flowers, but I accept the outcome.
It may be a bit presumptuous but I’m assuming she didn’t outright end things as she may change her mind or just may need a break from dating? Possibly felt my ego would be bruised after the flowers gesture?
Who knows.
I never questioned her schedule or inquired after she received the flowers and visited her sister.
I just left it as it was. Seems like I was correct.
Posted by poppyflowerPosted by LuckyLibra7Posted by poppyflowerPosted by LuckyLibra7Posted by Timone
If you haven't from her in a month I think it's safe to say she's not that interested.
I don’t disagree. But it’s strange the way she left it. She was a pretty straightforward person outside of intimacy.
I’m thinking she’s emotionally unavailable and thought I was pushing for a relationship? I just sent the flowers as a decent gesture. It wasn’t anything over the top.
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Possibly lack of space. It's like she ejected herself outta there after getting the flowers.
You did say things progressed a bit slow, but maybe that was her speed. There doesn't seem to be really any concrete indication of interest from her end ("She never discusses anything in the relationship category").
So maybe she was testing the waters still when she felt you kinda hit too much on the gas pedal.
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That’s the conclusion I basically came to over the last couple weeks. I don’t regret sending the flowers, but I accept the outcome.
It may be a bit presumptuous but I’m assuming she didn’t outright end things as she may change her mind or just may need a break from dating? Possibly felt my ego would be bruised after the flowers gesture?
Who knows.
I never questioned her schedule or inquired after she received the flowers and visited her sister.
I just left it as it was. Seems like I was correct.
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I don't think she'll change her mind. Some Caps aren't as direct as you think they are.click to expand
Only time will tell I guess. Either way, gotta keep it moving.
My bestie is a Sag moon with Aqua Venus who does this kind of vanishing quite a bit. Even I’ve done this last year with a Libra. Here’s your answer from two Aqua Venus:
You’re boring. No flowers, no conversation, no initiation, no effort from your end is going to cut it. The reason this direct individual isn’t directly communicating this to you is because there’s no diplomatic way to tell someone they are boring.
Conversation she’s engaged you in means absolutely nothing. It’s not interest, it’s intrigue. My bestie and I make conversation with people because we are intrigued and we want to gauge compatibility. When the conversation doesn’t ignite that spark for Aqua Venus because their heart is their brain, they leave with the dumbest excuse, one which you wouldn’t expect from a straight shooter, because there is no nice way to tell a person that you found them boring or not exciting enough for them. Move on.
You’re boring. No flowers, no conversation, no initiation, no effort from your end is going to cut it. The reason this direct individual isn’t directly communicating this to you is because there’s no diplomatic way to tell someone they are boring.
Conversation she’s engaged you in means absolutely nothing. It’s not interest, it’s intrigue. My bestie and I make conversation with people because we are intrigued and we want to gauge compatibility. When the conversation doesn’t ignite that spark for Aqua Venus because their heart is their brain, they leave with the dumbest excuse, one which you wouldn’t expect from a straight shooter, because there is no nice way to tell a person that you found them boring or not exciting enough for them. Move on.
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My bestie is a Sag moon with Aqua Venus who does this kind of vanishing quite a bit. Even I’ve done this last year with a Libra. Here’s your answer from two Aqua Venus:
You’re boring. No flowers, no conversation, no initiation, no effort from your end is going to cut it. The reason this direct individual isn’t directly communicating this to you is because there’s no diplomatic way to tell someone they are boring.
Conversation she’s engaged you in means absolutely nothing. It’s not interest, it’s intrigue. My bestie and I make conversation with people because we are intrigued and we want to gauge compatibility. When the conversation doesn’t ignite that spark for Aqua Venus because their heart is their brain, they leave with the dumbest excuse, one which you wouldn’t expect from a straight shooter, because there is no nice way to tell a person that you found them boring or not exciting enough for them. Move on.
Eh, things when on too long to classify this as being boring. Conversations were never dull and both sides planned things to do. My moon is in Aqua and my mercury is in Scorpio. Not boring.
I chalked this up to her moving at a slow pace and got spooked off the flowers. She misunderstood my intention, but it’s all good.
She never distinguished what she was looking for from day one.
We’re talking about a woman who didn’t even like R&B music. She was in logic mode constantly.
Posted by LuckyLibra7Posted by aquarius09
My bestie is a Sag moon with Aqua Venus who does this kind of vanishing quite a bit. Even I’ve done this last year with a Libra. Here’s your answer from two Aqua Venus:
You’re boring. No flowers, no conversation, no initiation, no effort from your end is going to cut it. The reason this direct individual isn’t directly communicating this to you is because there’s no diplomatic way to tell someone they are boring.
Conversation she’s engaged you in means absolutely nothing. It’s not interest, it’s intrigue. My bestie and I make conversation with people because we are intrigued and we want to gauge compatibility. When the conversation doesn’t ignite that spark for Aqua Venus because their heart is their brain, they leave with the dumbest excuse, one which you wouldn’t expect from a straight shooter, because there is no nice way to tell a person that you found them boring or not exciting enough for them. Move on.
Eh, things when on too long to classify this as being boring. Conversations were never dull and both sides planned things to do. My moon is in Aqua and my mercury is in Scorpio. Not boring.
I chalked this up to her moving at a slow pace and got spooked off the flowers. She misunderstood my intention, but it’s all good.
She never distinguished what she was looking for from day one.
We’re talking about a woman who didn’t even like R&B music. She was in logic mode constantly.click to expand
You need to get your Aqua moon ego in check. Being Aqua moon with Scorp mercury isn’t some certificate that proves that you aren’t boring. LOL
Two way conversations doesn’t mean a connection is being formed. Aqua Venus looks for a mental connection and she didn’t form it with you. It’s not your fault. A lot of men confuse my conversing with them as interest or that I’m bonding, when it’s just mere intrigue. As soon as the intrigue wears off, I’m gone. Im still blocked to this day by these men. LOL One of them being Libra with Aqua moon like yourself. Conversations with Aqua Venus shouldn’t be taken seriously.
Posted by aquarius09Posted by LuckyLibra7Posted by aquarius09
My bestie is a Sag moon with Aqua Venus who does this kind of vanishing quite a bit. Even I’ve done this last year with a Libra. Here’s your answer from two Aqua Venus:
You’re boring. No flowers, no conversation, no initiation, no effort from your end is going to cut it. The reason this direct individual isn’t directly communicating this to you is because there’s no diplomatic way to tell someone they are boring.
Conversation she’s engaged you in means absolutely nothing. It’s not interest, it’s intrigue. My bestie and I make conversation with people because we are intrigued and we want to gauge compatibility. When the conversation doesn’t ignite that spark for Aqua Venus because their heart is their brain, they leave with the dumbest excuse, one which you wouldn’t expect from a straight shooter, because there is no nice way to tell a person that you found them boring or not exciting enough for them. Move on.
Eh, things when on too long to classify this as being boring. Conversations were never dull and both sides planned things to do. My moon is in Aqua and my mercury is in Scorpio. Not boring.
I chalked this up to her moving at a slow pace and got spooked off the flowers. She misunderstood my intention, but it’s all good.
She never distinguished what she was looking for from day one.
We’re talking about a woman who didn’t even like R&B music. She was in logic mode constantly.
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You need to get your Aqua moon ego in check. Being Aqua moon with Scorp mercury isn’t some certificate that proves that you aren’t boring. LOL
Two way conversations doesn’t mean a connection is being formed. Aqua Venus looks for a mental connection and she didn’t form it with you. It’s not your fault. A lot of men confuse my conversing with them as interest or that I’m bonding, when it’s just mere intrigue. As soon as the intrigue wears off, I’m gone. Im still blocked to this day by these men. LOL One of them being Libra with Aqua moon like yourself. Conversations with Aqua Venus shouldn’t be taken seriously.click to expand
Yet in the same breath you just referenced someone with a Sag moon and Aqua Venus and used that as a certificate for them leaving people that are boring.
What is the difference?
You’re confusing friendly conversation with actively dating someone. There was clearly enough interest there for her to reach out until the flowers incident.
The Cap made time and requested that I make time when I was studying for a test. The flowers came shortly after that and spoiled it I supposed.
Posted by LuckyLibra7Posted by aquarius09Posted by LuckyLibra7You need to get your Aqua moon ego in check. Being Aqua moon with Scorp mercury isn’t some certificate that proves that you aren’t boring. LOLPosted by aquarius09
My bestie is a Sag moon with Aqua Venus who does this kind of vanishing quite a bit. Even I’ve done this last year with a Libra. Here’s your answer from two Aqua Venus:
You’re boring. No flowers, no conversation, no initiation, no effort from your end is going to cut it. The reason this direct individual isn’t directly communicating this to you is because there’s no diplomatic way to tell someone they are boring.
Conversation she’s engaged you in means absolutely nothing. It’s not interest, it’s intrigue. My bestie and I make conversation with people because we are intrigued and we want to gauge compatibility. When the conversation doesn’t ignite that spark for Aqua Venus because their heart is their brain, they leave with the dumbest excuse, one which you wouldn’t expect from a straight shooter, because there is no nice way to tell a person that you found them boring or not exciting enough for them. Move on.
Eh, things when on too long to classify this as being boring. Conversations were never dull and both sides planned things to do. My moon is in Aqua and my mercury is in Scorpio. Not boring.
I chalked this up to her moving at a slow pace and got spooked off the flowers. She misunderstood my intention, but it’s all good.
She never distinguished what she was looking for from day one.
We’re talking about a woman who didn’t even like R&B music. She was in logic mode constantly.
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Two way conversations doesn’t mean a connection is being formed. Aqua Venus looks for a mental connection and she didn’t form it with you. It’s not your fault. A lot of men confuse my conversing with them as interest or that I’m bonding, when it’s just mere intrigue. As soon as the intrigue wears off, I’m gone. Im still blocked to this day by these men. LOL One of them being Libra with Aqua moon like yourself. Conversations with Aqua Venus shouldn’t be taken seriously.
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Yet in the same breath you just referenced someone with a Sag moon and Aqua Venus and used that as a certificate for them leaving people that are boring.
What is the difference?click to expand
You may not be boring to another person but to the Sag moon with Aqua Venus, you are. I never said Sag moon with Aqua Venus is greater than you or more exciting than you. Im simply telling you their reason for disappearing because my bestie does that and so do I as an Aqua moon with Aqua Venus.
Flowers would hardly scare Aqua Venus. I have received flowers from a dude on the first date and that didn’t scare me. In fact I found it a thoughtful gesture…and slightly weird (because when men do this shit, expectations go up like they are owed something). Eventually, when I didn’t go for the guy, he got upset because he felt I owed him reciprocation of his feeling in exchange for flowers.
Posted by aquarius09Posted by LuckyLibra7Posted by aquarius09Yet in the same breath you just referenced someone with a Sag moon and Aqua Venus and used that as a certificate for them leaving people that are boring.Posted by LuckyLibra7Posted by aquarius09
My bestie is a Sag moon with Aqua Venus who does this kind of vanishing quite a bit. Even I’ve done this last year with a Libra. Here’s your answer from two Aqua Venus:
You’re boring. No flowers, no conversation, no initiation, no effort from your end is going to cut it. The reason this direct individual isn’t directly communicating this to you is because there’s no diplomatic way to tell someone they are boring.
Conversation she’s engaged you in means absolutely nothing. It’s not interest, it’s intrigue. My bestie and I make conversation with people because we are intrigued and we want to gauge compatibility. When the conversation doesn’t ignite that spark for Aqua Venus because their heart is their brain, they leave with the dumbest excuse, one which you wouldn’t expect from a straight shooter, because there is no nice way to tell a person that you found them boring or not exciting enough for them. Move on.
Eh, things when on too long to classify this as being boring. Conversations were never dull and both sides planned things to do. My moon is in Aqua and my mercury is in Scorpio. Not boring.
I chalked this up to her moving at a slow pace and got spooked off the flowers. She misunderstood my intention, but it’s all good.
She never distinguished what she was looking for from day one.
We’re talking about a woman who didn’t even like R&B music. She was in logic mode constantly.
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You need to get your Aqua moon ego in check. Being Aqua moon with Scorp mercury isn’t some certificate that proves that you aren’t boring. LOL
Two way conversations doesn’t mean a connection is being formed. Aqua Venus looks for a mental connection and she didn’t form it with you. It’s not your fault. A lot of men confuse my conversing with them as interest or that I’m bonding, when it’s just mere intrigue. As soon as the intrigue wears off, I’m gone. Im still blocked to this day by these men. LOL One of them being Libra with Aqua moon like yourself. Conversations with Aqua Venus shouldn’t be taken seriously.
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What is the difference?
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You may not be boring to another person but to the Sag moon with Aqua Venus, you are. I never said Sag moon with Aqua Venus is greater than you or more exciting than you. Im simply telling you their reason for disappearing because my bestie does that and so do I as an Aqua moon with Aqua Venus.click to expand
I’m still not understanding how that conclusion is being made when she could’ve picked any other time to ghost. I’ve been on boring dates before and they certainly don’t drag on.
It’s clear her emotions weren’t invested and she took my gesture as an invitation to a relationship so she pulled all the way back.
I mentioned earlier that she said she wasn’t good in the emotional department shortly after meeting her. That was the first cue in hindsight.
I never pressed her about it which is probably why she decided to continue hanging out until I showed too much interest. Ironic because I wasn’t even that interested to begin with. She turned the tables.
If she returns, I’ll update the thread with her explanation. She seems like the person that would offer something more than “hey how you been” randomly.
Posted by LuckyLibra7Posted by aquarius09Posted by LuckyLibra7You may not be boring to another person but to the Sag moon with Aqua Venus, you are. I never said Sag moon with Aqua Venus is greater than you or more exciting than you. Im simply telling you their reason for disappearing because my bestie does that and so do I as an Aqua moon with Aqua Venus.Posted by aquarius09Posted by LuckyLibra7Posted by aquarius09
My bestie is a Sag moon with Aqua Venus who does this kind of vanishing quite a bit. Even I’ve done this last year with a Libra. Here’s your answer from two Aqua Venus:
You’re boring. No flowers, no conversation, no initiation, no effort from your end is going to cut it. The reason this direct individual isn’t directly communicating this to you is because there’s no diplomatic way to tell someone they are boring.
Conversation she’s engaged you in means absolutely nothing. It’s not interest, it’s intrigue. My bestie and I make conversation with people because we are intrigued and we want to gauge compatibility. When the conversation doesn’t ignite that spark for Aqua Venus because their heart is their brain, they leave with the dumbest excuse, one which you wouldn’t expect from a straight shooter, because there is no nice way to tell a person that you found them boring or not exciting enough for them. Move on.
Eh, things when on too long to classify this as being boring. Conversations were never dull and both sides planned things to do. My moon is in Aqua and my mercury is in Scorpio. Not boring.
I chalked this up to her moving at a slow pace and got spooked off the flowers. She misunderstood my intention, but it’s all good.
She never distinguished what she was looking for from day one.
We’re talking about a woman who didn’t even like R&B music. She was in logic mode constantly.
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You need to get your Aqua moon ego in check. Being Aqua moon with Scorp mercury isn’t some certificate that proves that you aren’t boring. LOL
Two way conversations doesn’t mean a connection is being formed. Aqua Venus looks for a mental connection and she didn’t form it with you. It’s not your fault. A lot of men confuse my conversing with them as interest or that I’m bonding, when it’s just mere intrigue. As soon as the intrigue wears off, I’m gone. Im still blocked to this day by these men. LOL One of them being Libra with Aqua moon like yourself. Conversations with Aqua Venus shouldn’t be taken seriously.
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Yet in the same breath you just referenced someone with a Sag moon and Aqua Venus and used that as a certificate for them leaving people that are boring.
What is the difference?
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I’m still not understanding how that conclusion is being made when she could’ve picked any other time to ghost. I’ve been on boring dates before and they certainly don’t drag on.
It’s clear her emotions weren’t invested and she took my gesture as an invitation to a relationship so she pulled all the way back.
I mentioned earlier that she said she wasn’t good in the emotional department shortly after meeting her. That was the first cue in hindsight.
I never pressed her about it which is probably why she decided to continue hanging out until I showed too much interest. Ironic because I wasn’t even that interested to begin with. She turned the tables.
If she returns, I’ll update the thread with her explanation. She seems like the person that would offer something more than “hey how you been” randomly.click to expand
In that case, I can only conclude that all was progressing fine as there was no overt indication of romantic interest in sight. Your flowers ruined it all because that signals romantic interest and puts the pressure on. Aqua Venus gradually develops interest via friendship. Any overt romantic signals frighten Aqua, especially when they aren’t hot and bothered for you from the beginning. The best way to approach Aqua Venus is in the guise of friendship. Don’t let them suspect you’re romantically interested in them at first unless they make the first move.
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My bestie is a Sag moon with Aqua Venus who does this kind of vanishing quite a bit. Even I’ve done this last year with a Libra. Here’s your answer from two Aqua Venus:
You’re boring. No flowers, no conversation, no initiation, no effort from your end is going to cut it. The reason this direct individual isn’t directly communicating this to you is because there’s no diplomatic way to tell someone they are boring.
Conversation she’s engaged you in means absolutely nothing. It’s not interest, it’s intrigue. My bestie and I make conversation with people because we are intrigued and we want to gauge compatibility. When the conversation doesn’t ignite that spark for Aqua Venus because their heart is their brain, they leave with the dumbest excuse, one which you wouldn’t expect from a straight shooter, because there is no nice way to tell a person that you found them boring or not exciting enough for them. Move on.
Eh, things when on too long to classify this as being boring. Conversations were never dull and both sides planned things to do. My moon is in Aqua and my mercury is in Scorpio. Not boring.
I chalked this up to her moving at a slow pace and got spooked off the flowers. She misunderstood my intention, but it’s all good.
She never distinguished what she was looking for from day one.
We’re talking about a woman who didn’t even like R&B music. She was in logic mode constantly.
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You need to get your Aqua moon ego in check. Being Aqua moon with Scorp mercury isn’t some certificate that proves that you aren’t boring. LOL
Two way conversations doesn’t mean a connection is being formed. Aqua Venus looks for a mental connection and she didn’t form it with you. It’s not your fault. A lot of men confuse my conversing with them as interest or that I’m bonding, when it’s just mere intrigue. As soon as the intrigue wears off, I’m gone. Im still blocked to this day by these men. LOL One of them being Libra with Aqua moon like yourself. Conversations with Aqua Venus shouldn’t be taken seriously.
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Yet in the same breath you just referenced someone with a Sag moon and Aqua Venus and used that as a certificate for them leaving people that are boring.
What is the difference?
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You may not be boring to another person but to the Sag moon with Aqua Venus, you are. I never said Sag moon with Aqua Venus is greater than you or more exciting than you. Im simply telling you their reason for disappearing because my bestie does that and so do I as an Aqua moon with Aqua Venus.
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I’m still not understanding how that conclusion is being made when she could’ve picked any other time to ghost. I’ve been on boring dates before and they certainly don’t drag on.
It’s clear her emotions weren’t invested and she took my gesture as an invitation to a relationship so she pulled all the way back.
I mentioned earlier that she said she wasn’t good in the emotional department shortly after meeting her. That was the first cue in hindsight.
I never pressed her about it which is probably why she decided to continue hanging out until I showed too much interest. Ironic because I wasn’t even that interested to begin with. She turned the tables.
If she returns, I’ll update the thread with her explanation. She seems like the person that would offer something more than “hey how you been” randomly.
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In that case, I can only conclude that all was progressing fine as there was no overt indication of romantic interest in sight. Your flowers ruined it all because that signals romantic interest and puts the pressure on. Aqua Venus gradually develops interest via friendship. Any overt romantic signals frighten Aqua, especially when they aren’t hot and bothered for you from the beginning. The best way to approach Aqua Venus is in the guise of friendship. Don’t let them suspect you’re romantically interested in them at first unless they make the first move.click to expand
Yup. I don’t think I was her typical type so she wanted to feel me out for a while.
The other Aqua I was dealing with at the time already had made her move and was ready to invest. But I decided to end it.
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A little awkward.
Fast forward, to mid February. Things are going okay and it’s Valentine’s Day week. I went ahead a decided to send her a small thing of flowers (bad move) and she completely ghosted me. The day I sent them she was grateful and then went into this complete tangent about how her job hit her with more responsibility and her sister was in town but she neglected her for work. (She mentioned her sister visiting a week prior).
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Any thoughts? Keep in mind, she was driving this. She primarily initiated conversation, did most of the talking and wanted to see me.