Geminis, why you so cold?

What would make you turn a cold shoulder all of a sudden?

.. Going from talkative to giving one word answers

.. Becoming snappy when you don't get what you were expecting

.. Acting like you're a total stranger

I know.. it's too generic, but just wondering

Air 🥶🥶

Cold or distant? Geminis can wander off to their own world from time to time.

Most moody of the air signs, honorary water sign.

Posted by Kachi
Sometimes, I catch people talking or doing things behind my back.



Generally, I have nothing to say to people who purposely want to disrespect me.



Other times, I may play it off but that's a defence mechanism as I'm trying to figure certain things out related to the situation.



The interesting thing is, people think I'll do them dirty the same way they did me when their own paranoia and unhealthy ego becomes their own worst nightmare.



People don't know what to say when I finally speak and since I've done nothing wrong, the facts become more dangerous.



I apologize when it's called for whether instantly or eventually.



I think I've grown colder over the years and less likely to excuse/ignore consistently poor behaviors.

This.

Posted by LadyNeptune
Most moody of the air signs, honorary water sign.

Lol as a Pisces sun your honorary sign is likely an air sign putting you in the hard cold category.

You’ve been dismissed.

Posted by RollergirlOrc
Cold or distant? Geminis can wander off to their own world from time to time.

Can't really tell the difference.. At times cold other times distant..

Posted by TxOgal
What would make you turn a cold shoulder all of a sudden?



.. Going from talkative to giving one word answers

.. Becoming snappy when you don't get what you were expecting

.. Acting like you're a total stranger



I know.. it's too generic, but just wondering

Because that's boring to them.

Geminis are all about reciprocation. If they initiate something or are trying to hang out and you don't have the time, they will move on.

At least they don't hold grudges! ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Being too busy for some fun or a chatty conversation will make a Gemini go get what they need elsewhere. They aren't one to dwell on a person who doesn't have time for them.

They have put you in the "no fun" zone and now just don't care cause they know what to expect from you.

So it's not necessarily the cold shoulder, just boredom.

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Posted by TxOgal
What would make you turn a cold shoulder all of a sudden?



.. Going from talkative to giving one word answers

.. Becoming snappy when you don't get what you were expecting

.. Acting like you're a total stranger



I know.. it's too generic, but just wondering

Because that's boring to them.

Geminis are all about reciprocation. If they initiate something or are trying to hang out and you don't have the time, they will move on.

At least they don't hold grudges! ¯\_(ツ)_/¯



Being too busy for some fun or a chatty conversation will make a Gemini go get what they need elsewhere. They aren't one to dwell on a person who doesn't have time for them.

They have put you in the "no fun" zone and now just don't care cause they know what to expect from you.

So it's not necessarily the cold shoulder, just boredom.

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Hahahaha my girl. You explained that one beautifully. I can relate. If you don't have time for me I'm moving on. And especially if someone's not ready when I'm ready to go that person gone get leave. No ifs ands and buts about it. And that's not me being cold. People need to be ready to go when IM ready. Ain't gone have me sittin out in the car waiting for a lady to apply lots of make up and stuff to look cute just for me. She gone get leave.

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Posted by TxOgal
What would make you turn a cold shoulder all of a sudden?



.. Going from talkative to giving one word answers

.. Becoming snappy when you don't get what you were expecting

.. Acting like you're a total stranger



I know.. it's too generic, but just wondering

Because that's boring to them.

Geminis are all about reciprocation. If they initiate something or are trying to hang out and you don't have the time, they will move on.

At least they don't hold grudges! ¯\_(ツ)_/¯



Being too busy for some fun or a chatty conversation will make a Gemini go get what they need elsewhere. They aren't one to dwell on a person who doesn't have time for them.

They have put you in the "no fun" zone and now just don't care cause they know what to expect from you.

So it's not necessarily the cold shoulder, just boredom.

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It's funny that what you described is actually what I felt. I was not being reciprocated and then even he rarely shares anything so I got annoyed really and didn't start conversations anymore (eventhough I tried but he makes it die off too soon) and ta da he seems to be beating me to it now! Maybe we are both bored.

We were actually going out like a month ago cause I had some silly gift for him since I was traveling and he seemed excited but the days I suggested didn't fit his schedule, he didn't even suggest any other day and didn't bring it up again and that was when we were talkative. Now it's like strangers, we just share jokes and that's it. No conversations, no good mornings (which is I think what disturbed him lol) no asking about our days even. I just sense that he's either bitter or maybe met someone n won't talk about it.

Posted by TxOgal
What would make you turn a cold shoulder all of a sudden?



.. Going from talkative to giving one word answers

.. Becoming snappy when you don't get what you were expecting

.. Acting like you're a total stranger



I know.. it's too generic, but just wondering

What did you do? I’m no champion for Gemini, just curious. How do you know they are snappy because they haven’t gotten what they were expecting? Is that their admission or your perspective of the situation?

Posted by black773

Posted by TxOgal
What would make you turn a cold shoulder all of a sudden?



.. Going from talkative to giving one word answers

.. Becoming snappy when you don't get what you were expecting

.. Acting like you're a total stranger



I know.. it's too generic, but just wondering

What did you do? I’m no champion for Gemini, just curious. How do you know they are snappy because they haven’t gotten what they were expecting? Is that their admission or your perspective of the situation?

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I know cause he complained about it

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Posted by black773

Posted by TxOgal
What would make you turn a cold shoulder all of a sudden?



.. Going from talkative to giving one word answers

.. Becoming snappy when you don't get what you were expecting

.. Acting like you're a total stranger



I know.. it's too generic, but just wondering

What did you do? I’m no champion for Gemini, just curious. How do you know they are snappy because they haven’t gotten what they were expecting? Is that their admission or your perspective of the situation?




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I know cause he complained about it

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Posted by TxOgal

Posted by black773

Posted by TxOgal
What would make you turn a cold shoulder all of a sudden?



.. Going from talkative to giving one word answers

.. Becoming snappy when you don't get what you were expecting

.. Acting like you're a total stranger



I know.. it's too generic, but just wondering

What did you do? I’m no champion for Gemini, just curious. How do you know they are snappy because they haven’t gotten what they were expecting? Is that their admission or your perspective of the situation?




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I know cause he complained about it
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why bother?! dxp doesn't change ... sigh

I know a Gemini man who is literally two people lol

He used to run our local post office….his mood swings are off the scale

One day he’d be singing to you and the next snapping the head off you

I don’t envy the wife and kids 🥴😬

Posted by DragonSag
I don't think Geminis care for good morning texts at all. They also don't like dry texters. They get bored with people easily and their kind of people is someone who understands their mood swings and doesn't nag them about it. And someone who just says "lets do stuff" and they go with it ( or someone who follows when they say let's do something). Not having time for them or avoiding activities sounds like something they get bored with quickly.

Yes this is what I thought too ... last time we talked he was bothered that I texted midday (after I finished work) n that I didnt say good morning and went on saying how busy he is and that I have more time than him.. like really that was unexpected of him.. It's like he was trying to force me into a mold and we are not even together lol

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Posted by DragonSag
I don't think Geminis care for good morning texts at all. They also don't like dry texters. They get bored with people easily and their kind of people is someone who understands their mood swings and doesn't nag them about it. And someone who just says "lets do stuff" and they go with it ( or someone who follows when they say let's do something). Not having time for them or avoiding activities sounds like something they get bored with quickly.

Lol try something weird instead of just good morning. "Like greetings fellow earth dweller, another circuit around the sky fire has been completed. How fared thee?"

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Hahahaha! At least this is a fun start to the day! I would love something random like this! LMAO

Gems get bored easily. If someone comes in too heavy with expectations, it gets boring. Also, if someone is predictable, they get boring.

For example if I'm chatting with someone for a month and I already know that person is into me, I lose interest. Unless I'm the one into that guy first. Scheduling hangouts doesn't work for me either. I'd much prefer a more spontaneous meet up. Good morning texts don't interest me unless I'm interested in the person first. Otherwise, what's the point. What's a good morning text for followed by did you have breakfast? It's a vibe killer lol

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Posted by BaeMaxx
Gems get bored easily. If someone comes in too heavy with expectations, it gets boring. Also, if someone is predictable, they get boring.



For example if I'm chatting with someone for a month and I already know that person is into me, I lose interest. Unless I'm the one into that guy first. Scheduling hangouts doesn't work for me either. I'd much prefer a more spontaneous meet up. Good morning texts don't interest me unless I'm interested in the person first. Otherwise, what's the point. What's a good morning text for followed by did you have breakfast? It's a vibe killer lol

Lol

Same here. I can make random future plans like lets move to Africa and buy a farm but don't ask me to meet up on Wednesday at 8 because I'll be like yeh maybe Im not sure 😁

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Anything can happen in between planning and the actual day or time of thee meet up. Let's just do it whenever we feel like 🤣 I guess this is why they all say we're bad when it comes to relationships lolol

So I'm not sure what was that about, but I would send something every now n then and it seems he's talking again but out of nowhere he says that he dreamt of me dancing for him in his dream..

Is that even normal at all? I'm really baffled! if not disturbed......

Posted by TxOgal
What would make you turn a cold shoulder all of a sudden?



.. Going from talkative to giving one word answers

.. Becoming snappy when you don't get what you were expecting

.. Acting like you're a total stranger



I know.. it's too generic, but just wondering

i dated a gemini once... things were going great ironically when i wasn't super interested but was being very flirty. we would have very funny and witty back and forth. i started to develop feelings for him but kept it light.

one day he took me to the beach and as we lay on the sand he started to play a mac miller song about being in love. i thought, well that's very romantic of him, guess he wants to take things up a notch? after that i started trying to see him more but he soon got disinterested and started to get cold. wouldn't respond much with texts and when he did it would be one word answers.

it got too serious for him lol. when we broke things off i said, wtf was that all about then? and he said, oh that song? sorry, i didn't think about the lyrics much, i just liked how it sounded...🤷🏻‍♀️🙄

So it turns out his problem is I'm treating him in a formal way... which I have no idea that I'm doing it.. and no idea what he expects. I'm the same person he's known for years... geminis are so confusing

I never see Gemini men as being relationship material …. They are conflicted and seem

to be easily bored. Long term would probably be a wrong option?

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Posted by MyStarsShine
I never see Gemini men as being relationship material …. They are conflicted and seem

to be easily bored. Long term would probably be a wrong option?

I'd say same thing applies to both Sag and Gem men but I honestly think it depends a lot on who they are with. For example, 2 that I know are both married to Sag women and they adore them. They've been 10+ and 15+ years together so far and I see they often post romantic things about their wives, they travel a lot together and they were always loyal to them. But honestly, these are two guys that always got on my nerve and I could never stand them for some reason lol so I never understood what these women see in them😅 but they seem very happy together🤷🏼‍♀️ others that I know are either gay, single or divorced😅 well and there's that one ofc I'm hung up on who is married, so guess you could count him in as loyal too, since he never tried anything 😂 in general, they are hard to get along with or even understand but I think once they found that one who gets them, they really appreciate them and they don't let go on them so easily

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So you definitely need to let go then if he’s married.