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Althea
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Therefore, there will be 1-2 days per week in which we don't see each other, so that we can do as we please without hurting each other's feelings.


1. who came up with the plan? to see each other for 5 days a week instea of 7/7?

2. i don't want to hurt your feelings or anything, but i think i see some serious issues ahead.

there are some red flags in there, but then again, i hope you won't find two similar aquas (w pisces moons). because when i start neglecting my dear ones & taking them for granted is when i want them out of my life

his behavior is not that of a man madly in love, let's just say that. he sounds a bit bored, if i may add. bored with you and your relationship.

a man who loves his woman will prioritize her/ her birthday bash. not his friends. only a man who takes his wifey for granted will go see his friends for a drink or two.

1-2 days in which you DONT see each other? wow. you used to see each other on a daily basis? wrong. so wrong.

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Someone should have told him this a year ago, before he decided to come to my place daily. We basically lived together at some point. As for the issues, I have known we'd reach such a point at a moment in time.

He did the same to his ex. They lived together for 10 months, then he moved abroad. They continued as a LDR for a few more months and she ended it.



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jeebus forgot to say happy birthday and y'all say dump him. amazing.

life sentence for stealing candy bars.

sometimes i don't even remember my own birthday.
Pffft. And you call yourself a fish
ahaha what's that supposed to mean? is there any correlation? entertain me.
Ooooh... "pisces venus love to me loved' 'we're clingy'

*couple threads later*

'sometimes i don't even remember my own birthday'

translation: don't take it to heart if we forget about you...because I forget about me too!

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AquaLogic101


tf i never wrote those lines Ooooh... "pisces venus love to me loved' 'we're clingy'

yes sometimes i forget birthdays but that's it. why do women seems to take the whole birthday thing so seriously. you're one year older and that sucks lol
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The way I see it is: "This is the youngest I will ever be " so let's celebrate it 😄
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I worked with an Aries woman years ago who told me one Christmas her Aqua hubbie stayed in the pub instead of coming home for dinner to be with her and their two daughters. She was so disgusted she threw it in the bin. Apparently he *forgot*

Haha!


Hmm, so these stories are real, aren't they 😢


Yes they are

I was with two Aqua men, so I relate....not bad people, but just ...... Aquarian 🙂
i know aquas exactly like that and am always dumbfounded. you just can't be that irresponsbile. you can't, esp on christmas, esp when family involved. AND aries wife on top of it. these aqua men...im happy i aint like them. ok, i mightve skipped a couple of funerals in the family, guilty. but never a christmas dinner or something that would involve my wife and kids.



This is exactly why I say not aqua men are the same. Hence why you rather Aries over libra and some rather libra over Aries. My aqua is so opposite of all that I read on this forum and I'm libra. We act married if anything . His life is literally about his kids, family , me and work . Everything he does he makes sure I'm included and if he can't include me I def know about it. I would have been pissed if he didn't remember my bday! He made sure my Bday lasted all week. No one has ever done that. I'm happy and thankful for this man. I tell him about what I read on here, he can't believe that grown adults can put people all in the same box due to their sign( he isn't into astrology)......

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Yes, this is more like the aqua I know. And my father, he was an aqua too.
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I missed you Compy. Happy Birthday.

Aquarius can be absent minded at times. Sometimes they need a little nudge.

Other times it's just them being men. I had issues with my previous rlt when they'd ignore me when I wanted attention.

Men can just be very inconsiderate - In this case, I'd think your passive-aggressiveness would work fine.
R u serious about passive aggressiveness works ? I can be very passive agressive and we both hate it but it's the only way for me to do wharvee it is that person wants me to do.... so I do that pretty often too...
Depends. For the most part no, but since he’s ignoring her on her birthday, then she can pickup and leave to go somewhere else to celebrate without saying a word to him. And if he asks why she left, she can deflect the answer.
bad advises.

he's not ignoring. he forgot.
Eh. To us women it’s the same. Actually no, it’s worse if someone forgot.
really?
If you ignore my birthday, then that shows that you at least know of it but chose to be an asshole. If you forget, that shows you’re not as emotionally involved as I thought you’d be.

Sure, sometimes people forget because people get caught up in crap, but taking into account her relationship with this Aqua...it’s worse because he’s never been committed and has been wishy washy and talking to other women.
so what do you think is the best "punishment" for men who forgot their partner's birthday?

ignore them for a week? dump them? give examples what would you do.
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I think I will be honest and explain how him forgetting my birthday makes me feel... He will never forget it again.

Aquarius men wants to make you happy if they care.
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jeebus forgot to say happy birthday and y'all say dump him. amazing.

life sentence for stealing candy bars.

sometimes i don't even remember my own birthday.
Pffft. And you call yourself a fish
ahaha what's that supposed to mean? is there any correlation? entertain me.
Ooooh... "pisces venus love to me loved' 'we're clingy'

*couple threads later*

'sometimes i don't even remember my own birthday'

translation: don't take it to heart if we forget about you...because I forget about me too!

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AquaLogic101


tf i never wrote those lines Ooooh... "pisces venus love to me loved' 'we're clingy'

yes sometimes i forget birthdays but that's it. why do women seems to take the whole birthday thing so seriously. you're one year older and that sucks lol
The way I see it is: "This is the youngest I will ever be " so let's celebrate it 😄
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women and aging lol
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Posted by bittercupcake
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Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by bittercupcake
I missed you Compy. Happy Birthday.

Aquarius can be absent minded at times. Sometimes they need a little nudge.

Other times it's just them being men. I had issues with my previous rlt when they'd ignore me when I wanted attention.

Men can just be very inconsiderate - In this case, I'd think your passive-aggressiveness would work fine.
R u serious about passive aggressiveness works ? I can be very passive agressive and we both hate it but it's the only way for me to do wharvee it is that person wants me to do.... so I do that pretty often too...
Depends. For the most part no, but since he’s ignoring her on her birthday, then she can pickup and leave to go somewhere else to celebrate without saying a word to him. And if he asks why she left, she can deflect the answer.
bad advises.

he's not ignoring. he forgot.
Eh. To us women it’s the same. Actually no, it’s worse if someone forgot.
really?
If you ignore my birthday, then that shows that you at least know of it but chose to be an asshole. If you forget, that shows you’re not as emotionally involved as I thought you’d be.

Sure, sometimes people forget because people get caught up in crap, but taking into account her relationship with this Aqua...it’s worse because he’s never been committed and has been wishy washy and talking to other women.
so what do you think is the best "punishment" for men who forgot their partner's birthday?

ignore them for a week? dump them? give examples what would you do.
I think I will be honest and explain how him forgetting my birthday makes me feel... He will never forget it again.

Aquarius men wants to make you happy if they care.
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sure 🙂
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notice she is talking about the men , us ladies are amazing 😛


i did notice she was talking about aqua men. its u aqua women who didn't. and this is why i am always surprised when i see the aqua women horde chipping in, when it's obvious you know fuuck-all about us males. maybe u aqua women should avoid the topics involving aqua men? we are very different from each other, you know that.

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lol

you guys are allright.

justin timberlake is happily married to pisces jessica biel.

and they had a baby.

he's a complete goofball.

there's something goofball about aquarius men. 😛
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lol

you guys are allright.

justin timberlake is happily married to pisces jessica biel.

and they had a baby.

he's a complete goofball.

there's something goofball about aquarius men. 😛
hmm, depends on the aqua. (is he ruled by saturn or by uranus)?

i mean, breivik is an aqua, too, and he doesn't seem too goofy to me. nor christian bale:



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you know what....you're right. *nods*



good observation.

Even that Ryan Gosling...omg...he's not on any aqua or capricorn cusp or energy,

but he is URANUS dominant and we have always said he is a goofball ever since we saw him in "Green Lantern"

i think he is best in "DeadPool"

that is true GOOFBALL.