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Happy birthday compy! 🙂
He's an Aqua, you have to share him with the world !
Posted by MyStarsShine
He's an Aqua, you have to share him with the world !
Really? Have you ever?
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by MyStarsShine
He's an Aqua, you have to share him with the world !
Really? Have you ever?
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Twice
Not sexually, but most definitely intellectually. 11th house likes groups of people
😢
I thought you moved on from the Aqua. The men are rough man lol
Happy birthday lady 🤗
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by MyStarsShine
He's an Aqua, you have to share him with the world !
Really? Have you ever?
Twice
Not sexually, but most definitely intellectually. 11th house likes groups of people
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Well...I have enough of my own crap to deal with. Lol
Sharing is not my thing though...
I may consider myself a lady, but no, I am a stupid freak looking for some unattended attention.
Posted by bittercupcake
I missed you Compy. Happy Birthday.Aquarius can be absent minded at times. Sometimes they need a little nudge.
Other times it's just them being men. I had issues with my previous rlt when they'd ignore me when I wanted attention.
Men can just be very inconsiderate - In this case, I'd think your passive-aggressiveness would work fine.
That is sweet, dear @bittercupcake. I actually made cakes.
Posted by MyStarsShine
He's an Aqua, you have to share him with the world !
But your bday is the one day a year it's all about you!
I srsly dont know what kind of men you girls get involved. This is tragi-comical.
Birthdays are great, you get to give a present and have a commemorative lay later on. 😂😂😂
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by MyStarsShine
He's an Aqua, you have to share him with the world !
But your bday is the one day a year it's all about you!
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Or if you are an Aqua it's all about *them* 😛
I worked with an Aries woman years ago who told me one Christmas her Aqua hubbie stayed in the pub instead of coming home for dinner to be with her and their two daughters. She was so disgusted she threw it in the bin. Apparently he *forgot*
Haha!
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by MyStarsShine
He's an Aqua, you have to share him with the world !
Really? Have you ever?
Twice
Not sexually, but most definitely intellectually. 11th house likes groups of people
Well...I have enough of my own crap to deal with. Lol
Sharing is not my thing though...
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Sharing is caring
Lol
Posted by bittercupcake
Posted by compy
Posted by bittercupcake
I missed you Compy. Happy Birthday.Aquarius can be absent minded at times. Sometimes they need a little nudge.
Other times it's just them being men. I had issues with my previous rlt when they'd ignore me when I wanted attention.
Men can just be very inconsiderate - In this case, I'd think your passive-aggressiveness would work fine.
That is sweet, dear @bittercupcake. I actually made cakes.
🙂 what kind? my favorite are chocolate lava cakes
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...on a steak? Lol
Posted by aquarius_man
Posted by MyStarsShineI worked with an Aries woman years ago who told me one Christmas her Aqua hubbie stayed in the pub instead of coming home for dinner to be with her and their two daughters. She was so disgusted she threw it in the bin. Apparently he *forgot*
Haha!
Hmm, so these stories are real, aren't they 😢
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Yes they are
I was with two Aqua men, so I relate....not bad people, but just ...... Aquarian 🙂
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by MyStarsShine
He's an Aqua, you have to share him with the world !
Really? Have you ever?
Twice
Not sexually, but most definitely intellectually. 11th house likes groups of people
Well...I have enough of my own crap to deal with. Lol
Sharing is not my thing though...
Sharing is caring
Lol
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...about those I share mine with?
Nooooo...grilling way!
Posted by bittercupcake
Posted by compy
Posted by bittercupcake
I missed you Compy. Happy Birthday.Aquarius can be absent minded at times. Sometimes they need a little nudge.
Other times it's just them being men. I had issues with my previous rlt when they'd ignore me when I wanted attention.
Men can just be very inconsiderate - In this case, I'd think your passive-aggressiveness would work fine.
That is sweet, dear @bittercupcake. I actually made cakes.
🙂 what kind? my favorite are chocolate lava cakes
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I know how to do lava cakes. Pity there's few to enjoy them.
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by MyStarsShine
He's an Aqua, you have to share him with the world !
Really? Have you ever?
Twice
Not sexually, but most definitely intellectually. 11th house likes groups of people
Well...I have enough of my own crap to deal with. Lol
Sharing is not my thing though...
Sharing is caring
Lol
...about those I share mine with?
Nooooo...grilling way!
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Calm down lady, i was joking 😛
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by MyStarsShine
He's an Aqua, you have to share him with the world !
But your bday is the one day a year it's all about you!
Or if you are an Aqua it's all about *them* 😛
I worked with an Aries woman years ago who told me one Christmas her Aqua hubbie stayed in the pub instead of coming home for dinner to be with her and their two daughters. She was so disgusted she threw it in the bin. Apparently he *forgot*
Haha!
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You've GOT to be kidding!
And she was so stupid to have kids with bozo?
Did he remember he had kids?
Not to come home for Christmas?
I want to see one more post about bad Scorpios and I will hire a hitman for a poster!!! Whew! What a piece of shit!
And he wasn't worth of ruining food!
There are people who would enjoy it!
She is apparently not so bright either...
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by MyStarsShine
He's an Aqua, you have to share him with the world !
Really? Have you ever?
Twice
Not sexually, but most definitely intellectually. 11th house likes groups of people
Well...I have enough of my own crap to deal with. Lol
Sharing is not my thing though...
Sharing is caring
Lol
...about those I share mine with?
Nooooo...grilling way!
Calm down lady, i was joking 😛
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Don't hit where it hurts! 👹
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by aquarius_man
Posted by MyStarsShineI worked with an Aries woman years ago who told me one Christmas her Aqua hubbie stayed in the pub instead of coming home for dinner to be with her and their two daughters. She was so disgusted she threw it in the bin. Apparently he *forgot*
Haha!
Hmm, so these stories are real, aren't they 😢
Yes they are
I was with two Aqua men, so I relate....not bad people, but just ...... Aquarian 🙂
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notice she is talking about the men , us ladies are amazing 😛
Posted by bittercupcake
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by bittercupcake
Posted by compy
Posted by bittercupcake
I missed you Compy. Happy Birthday.Aquarius can be absent minded at times. Sometimes they need a little nudge.
Other times it's just them being men. I had issues with my previous rlt when they'd ignore me when I wanted attention.
Men can just be very inconsiderate - In this case, I'd think your passive-aggressiveness would work fine.
That is sweet, dear @bittercupcake. I actually made cakes.
🙂 what kind? my favorite are chocolate lava cakes
...on a steak? Lol
don't you know what lava cakes are?
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I don't do sweets. Unless it's on a steak or salmon...I can scrape it to the side and enjoy what's under...
Why? Is it a deadly sin?
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by MyStarsShine
He's an Aqua, you have to share him with the world !
Really? Have you ever?
Twice
Not sexually, but most definitely intellectually. 11th house likes groups of people
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then everyone here on dxp and astrology forums are 11th housers. including you. lol
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by MyStarsShine
He's an Aqua, you have to share him with the world !
But your bday is the one day a year it's all about you!
Or if you are an Aqua it's all about *them* 😛
I worked with an Aries woman years ago who told me one Christmas her Aqua hubbie stayed in the pub instead of coming home for dinner to be with her and their two daughters. She was so disgusted she threw it in the bin. Apparently he *forgot*
Haha!
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ewwww. i dont think that's sign related though.
but a man who drinks and spends more time at bars and going out, than staying home.
i would never be with a man like that anymore. Believe it or not, my Pisces ex was like that exactly.and that's the truth. but he was an addict.
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by MyStarsShine
He's an Aqua, you have to share him with the world !
Really? Have you ever?
Twice
Not sexually, but most definitely intellectually. 11th house likes groups of people
then everyone here on dxp and astrology forums are 11th housers. including you. lol
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i meant ruled by....Aquarius is.....
Posted by bittercupcake
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by bittercupcake
Posted by compy
Posted by bittercupcake
Posted by compy
Posted by bittercupcake
I missed you Compy. Happy Birthday.Aquarius can be absent minded at times. Sometimes they need a little nudge.
Other times it's just them being men. I had issues with my previous rlt when they'd ignore me when I wanted attention.
Men can just be very inconsiderate - In this case, I'd think your passive-aggressiveness would work fine.
That is sweet, dear @bittercupcake. I actually made cakes.
🙂 what kind? my favorite are chocolate lava cakes
I know how to do lava cakes. Pity there's few to enjoy them.
I love me some lava cakes... the best...
Whew! It looks like CCs vagina!
😆 Lava cakes are moist and delicious...
this would more of an accurate depiction
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It looks like pieces of Xena costume!
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by MyStarsShine
He's an Aqua, you have to share him with the world !
Really? Have you ever?
Twice
Not sexually, but most definitely intellectually. 11th house likes groups of people
then everyone here on dxp and astrology forums are 11th housers. including you. lol
i meant ruled by....Aquarius is.....
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and scorpio is exalted in uranus.
just like jupiter is exalted in cancer,
mars exalted in capricorn,
saturn exalted in libra.
Posted by aquarius_man
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by aquarius_man
Posted by MyStarsShineI worked with an Aries woman years ago who told me one Christmas her Aqua hubbie stayed in the pub instead of coming home for dinner to be with her and their two daughters. She was so disgusted she threw it in the bin. Apparently he *forgot*
Haha!
Hmm, so these stories are real, aren't they 😢
Yes they are
I was with two Aqua men, so I relate....not bad people, but just ...... Aquarian 🙂
i know aquas exactly like that and am always dumbfounded. you just can't be that irresponsbile. you can't, esp on christmas, esp when family involved. AND aries wife on top of it. these aqua men...im happy i aint like them. ok, i mightve skipped a couple of funerals in the family, guilty. but never a christmas dinner or something that would involve my wife and kids.
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I skip funerals and hospital visits.... if it's birthday I will do my part.... I may or may not attend but I gave a gift or something lol... leave me with my thoughts
Posted by bittercupcake
I missed you Compy. Happy Birthday.Aquarius can be absent minded at times. Sometimes they need a little nudge.
Other times it's just them being men. I had issues with my previous rlt when they'd ignore me when I wanted attention.
Men can just be very inconsiderate - In this case, I'd think your passive-aggressiveness would work fine.
R u serious about passive aggressiveness works ? I can be very passive agressive and we both hate it but it's the only way for me to do wharvee it is that person wants me to do.... so I do that pretty often too...
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by MyStarsShine
He's an Aqua, you have to share him with the world !
But your bday is the one day a year it's all about you!
Or if you are an Aqua it's all about *them* 😛
I worked with an Aries woman years ago who told me one Christmas her Aqua hubbie stayed in the pub instead of coming home for dinner to be with her and their two daughters. She was so disgusted she threw it in the bin. Apparently he *forgot*
Haha!
ewwww. i dont think that's sign related though.
but a man who drinks and spends more time at bars and going out, than staying home.
i would never be with a man like that anymore. Believe it or not, my Pisces ex was like that exactly.and that's the truth. but he was an addict.
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What's with Pisces placements and addiction personality?
jeebus forgot to say happy birthday and y'all say dump him. amazing.
life sentence for stealing candy bars.
sometimes i don't even remember my own birthday.
Posted by aquarius_man
compy compy your aqua your better half your man no longer paying attention to you ??THIS IS HOW IT STARTS. THE END. THE UNRAVELING. THE AQUARIUS NOT GIVING A FUCK ANYMORE.
where are the other aquas who've crawled back into your life? call on them so you can celebrate your birthday together!
compy compy compy for all the knowledge you were sharing left and right about aquas, he still made you sad on your birthday.
bad bad aqua 😢
Thats even cheaper than listening to Mystarshine talk about aquas and trying to defend us against her generalizing statements.
Ignore the old hag.
Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by MyStarsShine
He's an Aqua, you have to share him with the world !
But your bday is the one day a year it's all about you!
Or if you are an Aqua it's all about *them* 😛
I worked with an Aries woman years ago who told me one Christmas her Aqua hubbie stayed in the pub instead of coming home for dinner to be with her and their two daughters. She was so disgusted she threw it in the bin. Apparently he *forgot*
Haha!
ewwww. i dont think that's sign related though.
but a man who drinks and spends more time at bars and going out, than staying home.
i would never be with a man like that anymore. Believe it or not, my Pisces ex was like that exactly.and that's the truth. but he was an addict.
What's with Pisces placements and addiction personality?
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it's neptune... he had a stellium in pisces but not all pisces are like this i just think, what astrologers say, it's a neptune problem and they dont even have to have any pisces placements. Amy Winehouse is someone who was seriously addicted but no pisces placements. but she was neptune dominant in her chart.
however i know lots of pisces peeps, my aunt and uncles who dont do any drugs or tried in their entire life. but we did know a woman who was my virgo brother in law's sister who passed away from drugs and she had a pisces moon, she was a gemini sun. it is neptune related, but not necessarily a person with pisces. unfortunately my ex exhibitied all that.
Posted by bittercupcake
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jeebus forgot to say happy birthday and y'all say dump him. amazing.life sentence for stealing candy bars.
sometimes i don't even remember my own birthday.
Pffft. And you call yourself a fish
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ahaha what's that supposed to mean? is there any correlation? entertain me.
Posted by bittercupcake
Posted by AerialView
Posted by bittercupcake
Posted by AerialView
jeebus forgot to say happy birthday and y'all say dump him. amazing.life sentence for stealing candy bars.
sometimes i don't even remember my own birthday.
Pffft. And you call yourself a fish
ahaha what's that supposed to mean? is there any correlation? entertain me.
Ooooh... "pisces venus love to me loved' 'we're clingy'
*couple threads later*
'sometimes i don't even remember my own birthday'
translation: don't take it to heart if we forget about you...because I forget about me too!
AquaLogic101
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tf i never wrote those lines Ooooh... "pisces venus love to me loved' 'we're clingy'
yes sometimes i forget birthdays but that's it. why do women seems to take the whole birthday thing so seriously. you're one year older and that sucks lol
Posted by AerialView
Posted by bittercupcake
Posted by AerialView
Posted by bittercupcake
Posted by AerialView
jeebus forgot to say happy birthday and y'all say dump him. amazing.life sentence for stealing candy bars.
sometimes i don't even remember my own birthday.
Pffft. And you call yourself a fish
ahaha what's that supposed to mean? is there any correlation? entertain me.
Ooooh... "pisces venus love to me loved' 'we're clingy'
*couple threads later*
'sometimes i don't even remember my own birthday'
translation: don't take it to heart if we forget about you...because I forget about me too!
AquaLogic101
tf i never wrote those lines Ooooh... "pisces venus love to me loved' 'we're clingy'
yes sometimes i forget birthdays but that's it. why do women seems to take the whole birthday thing so seriously. you're one year older and that sucks lol
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Its a proxy they use to gauge the level of interest in them. Similarly with anniversaries.
Such is the game. 🤗
Posted by Mr_Pinchy
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Posted by bittercupcake
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Posted by bittercupcake
Posted by AerialView
jeebus forgot to say happy birthday and y'all say dump him. amazing.life sentence for stealing candy bars.
sometimes i don't even remember my own birthday.
Pffft. And you call yourself a fish
ahaha what's that supposed to mean? is there any correlation? entertain me.
Ooooh... "pisces venus love to me loved' 'we're clingy'
*couple threads later*
'sometimes i don't even remember my own birthday'
translation: don't take it to heart if we forget about you...because I forget about me too!
AquaLogic101
tf i never wrote those lines Ooooh... "pisces venus love to me loved' 'we're clingy'
yes sometimes i forget birthdays but that's it. why do women seems to take the whole birthday thing so seriously. you're one year older and that sucks lol
Its a proxy they use to gauge the level of interest in them. Similarly with anniversaries.
Such is the game. 🤗
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they play the wrong game lol
Dudes not even her boyfriend unless that changed 🤔
Posted by bittercupcake
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Posted by bittercupcake
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Posted by bittercupcake
Posted by AerialView
jeebus forgot to say happy birthday and y'all say dump him. amazing.life sentence for stealing candy bars.
sometimes i don't even remember my own birthday.
Pffft. And you call yourself a fish
ahaha what's that supposed to mean? is there any correlation? entertain me.
Ooooh... "pisces venus love to me loved' 'we're clingy'
*couple threads later*
'sometimes i don't even remember my own birthday'
translation: don't take it to heart if we forget about you...because I forget about me too!
AquaLogic101
tf i never wrote those lines Ooooh... "pisces venus love to me loved' 'we're clingy'
yes sometimes i forget birthdays but that's it. why do women seems to take the whole birthday thing so seriously. you're one year older and that sucks lol
Because one year older means one year closer till complete absolution. We women aren't like men... we generally don't age as well as men.
Hello? Women age like cheese and men age like fine wine, ring a bell?
There are exceptions, but for a lot of women, growing old and not looking like your 30 is a confidence killer. Especially in a society where older women are cast aside for the brand new looking face whereas men are celebrated.... so might as well celebrate our demise on the way down.
so you just G O W I T H IT ... you hear?
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in other words once a year women like to be reminded that they're a cheese!!?
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Posted by bittercupcake
Posted by AerialView
Posted by bittercupcake
Posted by AerialView
Posted by bittercupcake
Posted by AerialView
jeebus forgot to say happy birthday and y'all say dump him. amazing.life sentence for stealing candy bars.
sometimes i don't even remember my own birthday.
Pffft. And you call yourself a fish
ahaha what's that supposed to mean? is there any correlation? entertain me.
Ooooh... "pisces venus love to me loved' 'we're clingy'
*couple threads later*
'sometimes i don't even remember my own birthday'
translation: don't take it to heart if we forget about you...because I forget about me too!
AquaLogic101
tf i never wrote those lines Ooooh... "pisces venus love to me loved' 'we're clingy'
yes sometimes i forget birthdays but that's it. why do women seems to take the whole birthday thing so seriously. you're one year older and that sucks lol
Because one year older means one year closer till complete absolution. We women aren't like men... we generally don't age as well as men.
Hello? Women age like cheese and men age like fine wine, ring a bell?
There are exceptions, but for a lot of women, growing old and not looking like your 30 is a confidence killer. Especially in a society where older women are cast aside for the brand new looking face whereas men are celebrated.... so might as well celebrate our demise on the way down.
so you just G O W I T H IT ... you hear?
in other words once a year women like to be reminded that they're a cheese!!?
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No 😂😂😂
That you love her despite cheese. She knows she is becoming roquefort.😂😂😂
Posted by bittercupcake
Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by bittercupcake
I missed you Compy. Happy Birthday.Aquarius can be absent minded at times. Sometimes they need a little nudge.
Other times it's just them being men. I had issues with my previous rlt when they'd ignore me when I wanted attention.
Men can just be very inconsiderate - In this case, I'd think your passive-aggressiveness would work fine.
R u serious about passive aggressiveness works ? I can be very passive agressive and we both hate it but it's the only way for me to do wharvee it is that person wants me to do.... so I do that pretty often too...
Depends. For the most part no, but since he’s ignoring her on her birthday, then she can pickup and leave to go somewhere else to celebrate without saying a word to him. And if he asks why she left, she can deflect the answer.
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Yeah. That will drive me nuts. lol. I wud totally leave too. Rather be alone in peace esp on my birthday.
Posted by GeminiGirl052388
Posted by AerialView
Posted by bittercupcake
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Posted by bittercupcake
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Posted by bittercupcake
Posted by AerialView
jeebus forgot to say happy birthday and y'all say dump him. amazing.life sentence for stealing candy bars.
sometimes i don't even remember my own birthday.
Pffft. And you call yourself a fish
ahaha what's that supposed to mean? is there any correlation? entertain me.
Ooooh... "pisces venus love to me loved' 'we're clingy'
*couple threads later*
'sometimes i don't even remember my own birthday'
translation: don't take it to heart if we forget about you...because I forget about me too!
AquaLogic101
tf i never wrote those lines Ooooh... "pisces venus love to me loved' 'we're clingy'
yes sometimes i forget birthdays but that's it. why do women seems to take the whole birthday thing so seriously. you're one year older and that sucks lol
Because one year older means one year closer till complete absolution. We women aren't like men... we generally don't age as well as men.
Hello? Women age like cheese and men age like fine wine, ring a bell?
There are exceptions, but for a lot of women, growing old and not looking like your 30 is a confidence killer. Especially in a society where older women are cast aside for the brand new looking face whereas men are celebrated.... so might as well celebrate our demise on the way down.
so you just G O W I T H IT ... you hear?
in other words once a year women like to be reminded that they're a cheese!!?
Hahahahahha oh you killed it! Hahahaahhaa 😂😂😂 that was exactly what was running in my head 😂😂😂
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i wonder what kind of cheese is compy? *giggles*
Posted by bittercupcake
Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by bittercupcake
I missed you Compy. Happy Birthday.Aquarius can be absent minded at times. Sometimes they need a little nudge.
Other times it's just them being men. I had issues with my previous rlt when they'd ignore me when I wanted attention.
Men can just be very inconsiderate - In this case, I'd think your passive-aggressiveness would work fine.
R u serious about passive aggressiveness works ? I can be very passive agressive and we both hate it but it's the only way for me to do wharvee it is that person wants me to do.... so I do that pretty often too...
Depends. For the most part no, but since he’s ignoring her on her birthday, then she can pickup and leave to go somewhere else to celebrate without saying a word to him. And if he asks why she left, she can deflect the answer.
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bad advises.
he's not ignoring. he forgot.
Posted by bittercupcake
Posted by AerialView
Posted by bittercupcake
Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by bittercupcake
I missed you Compy. Happy Birthday.Aquarius can be absent minded at times. Sometimes they need a little nudge.
Other times it's just them being men. I had issues with my previous rlt when they'd ignore me when I wanted attention.
Men can just be very inconsiderate - In this case, I'd think your passive-aggressiveness would work fine.
R u serious about passive aggressiveness works ? I can be very passive agressive and we both hate it but it's the only way for me to do wharvee it is that person wants me to do.... so I do that pretty often too...
Depends. For the most part no, but since he’s ignoring her on her birthday, then she can pickup and leave to go somewhere else to celebrate without saying a word to him. And if he asks why she left, she can deflect the answer.
bad advises.
he's not ignoring. he forgot.
Eh. To us women it’s the same. Actually no, it’s worse if someone forgot.
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really?
Posted by bittercupcake
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Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by bittercupcake
I missed you Compy. Happy Birthday.Aquarius can be absent minded at times. Sometimes they need a little nudge.
Other times it's just them being men. I had issues with my previous rlt when they'd ignore me when I wanted attention.
Men can just be very inconsiderate - In this case, I'd think your passive-aggressiveness would work fine.
R u serious about passive aggressiveness works ? I can be very passive agressive and we both hate it but it's the only way for me to do wharvee it is that person wants me to do.... so I do that pretty often too...
Depends. For the most part no, but since he’s ignoring her on her birthday, then she can pickup and leave to go somewhere else to celebrate without saying a word to him. And if he asks why she left, she can deflect the answer.
bad advises.
he's not ignoring. he forgot.
Eh. To us women it’s the same. Actually no, it’s worse if someone forgot.
really?
If you ignore my birthday, then that shows that you at least know of it but chose to be an asshole. If you forget, that shows you’re not as emotionally involved as I thought you’d be.
Sure, sometimes people forget because people get caught up in crap, but taking into account her relationship with this Aqua...it’s worse because he’s never been committed and has been wishy washy and talking to other women.
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so what do you think is the best "punishment" for men who forgot their partner's birthday?
ignore them for a week? dump them? give examples what would you do.
We did have a wonderful time according to plans after all.
About the passive-aggressiveness, you misunderstood it, it was me turning away so that not to seem intrusive when he was talking online. That I find highly disrespectful anyway. You are with me on my birthday, you chose this, you brought cake and gifts, be present for me.
The problem is, I cannot and I won't deal with this kind of behavior. No matter if you are committed or not, respect is the base of all relations. Otherwise, bad things might happen. Never allow these things to happen. No person is superior to another one. If you don't want to share yourself with someone, admit it and spare your time. There are no in-betweens.
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Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by bittercupcake
I missed you Compy. Happy Birthday.Aquarius can be absent minded at times. Sometimes they need a little nudge.
Other times it's just them being men. I had issues with my previous rlt when they'd ignore me when I wanted attention.
Men can just be very inconsiderate - In this case, I'd think your passive-aggressiveness would work fine.
R u serious about passive aggressiveness works ? I can be very passive agressive and we both hate it but it's the only way for me to do wharvee it is that person wants me to do.... so I do that pretty often too...
Depends. For the most part no, but since he’s ignoring her on her birthday, then she can pickup and leave to go somewhere else to celebrate without saying a word to him. And if he asks why she left, she can deflect the answer.
bad advises.
he's not ignoring. he forgot.
Eh. To us women it’s the same. Actually no, it’s worse if someone forgot.
really?
If you ignore my birthday, then that shows that you at least know of it but chose to be an asshole. If you forget, that shows you’re not as emotionally involved as I thought you’d be.
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Saltypancake, other people might forget your b-day BUT I will never forget your b-day, cause my spirit will always be with you.
Your beloved friend
TheSag
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Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by bittercupcake
I missed you Compy. Happy Birthday.Aquarius can be absent minded at times. Sometimes they need a little nudge.
Other times it's just them being men. I had issues with my previous rlt when they'd ignore me when I wanted attention.
Men can just be very inconsiderate - In this case, I'd think your passive-aggressiveness would work fine.
R u serious about passive aggressiveness works ? I can be very passive agressive and we both hate it but it's the only way for me to do wharvee it is that person wants me to do.... so I do that pretty often too...
Depends. For the most part no, but since he’s ignoring her on her birthday, then she can pickup and leave to go somewhere else to celebrate without saying a word to him. And if he asks why she left, she can deflect the answer.
bad advises.
he's not ignoring. he forgot.
Eh. To us women it’s the same. Actually no, it’s worse if someone forgot.
really?
If you ignore my birthday, then that shows that you at least know of it but chose to be an asshole. If you forget, that shows you’re not as emotionally involved as I thought you’d be.
Saltypancake, other people might forget your b-day BUT I will never forget your b-day, cause my spirit will always be with you.
Your beloved friend
TheSag
Dear TheVag,
Thank you. Means a lot to me that I have found a friend who cares. I inconsistently promise to be there with you and for you through the good and bad, and to reciprocate any love given to me - back to you.
♥ You Always,
SaltyPancake
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I love inconsistency!
Posted by aquarius_man
Posted by compy
We did have a wonderful time according to plans after all.About the passive-aggressiveness, you misunderstood it, it was me turning away so that not to seem intrusive when he was talking online. That I find highly disrespectful anyway. You are with me on my birthday, you chose this, you brought cake and gifts, be present for me.
The problem is, I cannot and I won't deal with this kind of behavior. No matter if you are committed or not, respect is the base of all relations. Otherwise, bad things might happen. Never allow these things to happen. No person is superior to another one.There are no in-betweens.
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Hmmm. Them s fight words
Did you guys talk it over? Seems you are still pretty upset/ hurt. If you bottle up its not OK for your relationship. You re right to be a bit upset - it was your bday after all but I know unfortunately how Aquas can be. However, I don t think anything tragic happened. Come on, a man needs his space. Be thankful he didnt make you cry on your bday as I did on two unfortunate occasions
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I always talk it over. We agreed not to see each other daily as until now, that we invaded each other's space a little too much. Therefore, there will be 1-2 days per week in which we don't see each other, so that we can do as we please without hurting each other's feelings.
And yes, I was very upset because on my birthday he was supposed to go to his drink buddy's birthday (that was in the next day actually) and we had made plans already for that day. And I was like - are you kidding me?? It's MY birthday! Are you really going to cancel on me? In the end we went together to his friend and had a joined party.
I cannot say he is ill intentioned. He took a day off especially for me. But in his own Aquarius way, he is very much able to screw it up in the last moment.
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In short, all the latest meetings were like - him talking to people online, me, waiting stupidly with my back turned on. Great anniversary!