MrR78
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How badly do you have to hurt an Aquarius woman for her to go into her shell
Posted by MrR78Be disrespectful and I'll write you off in an instant: lying, cheating or belittling me are no-gos. I won't be in my shell though, I'll be gone for good. If I'd ever appear in your airspace again, then fully recovered and untouchable for you. We're forgivers, but we never forget.
Hi
As the title says,
Im curious, just how badly do you have to hurt an aquarius woman for her to go back into her shell and completely ignore you and act like you don't exist?
Is this a self protective thing Aqua's do?
What sort of things would make you retreat and back off and not make contact with someone for over 3 months....
When I think about it, I'd personally write you off for less..
Now tell the tale.. What have you done?
Cheat, lie, manipulate, to name a few things.
@waterbearer_fem - Its a long story and its to do with my ex.
The short story is that I was a bit pushy with her after she told her folks about us and continued to be pushy after we broke up.
She slowly blocks me off everything and doesn't even engage in work related stuff (we work together).
Been through a massive period of realisation and sent her a long email apologising and explaining myself. Told her Id love to have her back but that doesn't work then I just want her to be happy. She has a cancer moon so I now realise she may be super sensitive.
The thing is that through out this period of distance sometimes she completely blanks me, sometimes she looks at me, some times she feels uncomfortable and other times she turns away.
I am trying to understand her behaviour. Its been 6 months since she has been like this with me....
Any advice is helpful
The short story is that I was a bit pushy with her after she told her folks about us and continued to be pushy after we broke up.
She slowly blocks me off everything and doesn't even engage in work related stuff (we work together).
Been through a massive period of realisation and sent her a long email apologising and explaining myself. Told her Id love to have her back but that doesn't work then I just want her to be happy. She has a cancer moon so I now realise she may be super sensitive.
The thing is that through out this period of distance sometimes she completely blanks me, sometimes she looks at me, some times she feels uncomfortable and other times she turns away.
I am trying to understand her behaviour. Its been 6 months since she has been like this with me....
Any advice is helpful
I didn't chat lie or manipulate... I was just emotionally honest and being a leo it can be intense for an Aqua to take.
1. Cheat on me/double cross me/disloyalty
2. Unnecessary lying
3. Having no integrity
4. Rudeness
2. Unnecessary lying
3. Having no integrity
4. Rudeness
Posted by MrR78Lying bastards!!!
Hi
As the title says,
Im curious, just how badly do you have to hurt an aquarius woman for her to go back into her shell and completely ignore you and act like you don't exist?
Is this a self protective thing Aqua's do?
What sort of things would make you retreat and back off and not make contact with someone for over 3 months....
I don't think I'd be hurt though. I'll just take it as a "this one didn't work" move on. NEXT.
Thanks for the input guys, you have been helpful.
Posted by MrR78Never put pressure on an Aqua, it makes us run. Telling her it's fine if only she's happy wasn't very smart, we're proud and you have to convince us until we are dead sure you wanna be with us and vice versa.
@waterbearer_fem - Its a long story and its to do with my ex.
The short story is that I was a bit pushy with her after she told her folks about us and continued to be pushy after we broke up.
She slowly blocks me off everything and doesn't even engage in work related stuff (we work together).
Been through a massive period of realisation and sent her a long email apologising and explaining myself. Told her Id love to have her back but that doesn't work then I just want her to be happy. She has a cancer moon so I now realise she may be super sensitive.
The thing is that through out this period of distance sometimes she completely blanks me, sometimes she looks at me, some times she feels uncomfortable and other times she turns away.
I am trying to understand her behaviour. Its been 6 months since she has been like this with me....
Any advice is helpful
Your only chance to improve the situation is to step back. If there are feelings left, she will let you know in her own pace.
Posted by waterbearer_femSo weird. I literally walked out of an Aqua's birthday party that I planned (found out she was a compulsive liar). Over half of the party left with me (including some of her friends)....and she STILL has me connected on social media. Found out she likes the image of having friends so she keeps photos up as well, but you'd think she would block me for SURE.Posted by MrR78Never put pressure on an Aqua, it makes us run. Telling her it's fine if only she's happy wasn't very smart, we're proud and you have to convince us until we are dead sure you wanna be with us and vice versa.
@waterbearer_fem - Its a long story and its to do with my ex.
The short story is that I was a bit pushy with her after she told her folks about us and continued to be pushy after we broke up.
She slowly blocks me off everything and doesn't even engage in work related stuff (we work together).
Been through a massive period of realisation and sent her a long email apologising and explaining myself. Told her Id love to have her back but that doesn't work then I just want her to be happy. She has a cancer moon so I now realise she may be super sensitive.
The thing is that through out this period of distance sometimes she completely blanks me, sometimes she looks at me, some times she feels uncomfortable and other times she turns away.
I am trying to understand her behaviour. Its been 6 months since she has been like this with me....
Any advice is helpful
Your only chance to improve the situation is to step back. If there are feelings left, she will let you know in her own pace.click to expand
I just think it's weird that some people get blocked for being pushy with Aquas, while on the other hand I CHOSE to burn a bridge with one and didn't get blocked.
Posted by ChuckcemThis Aqua girl is a waste of time then.. do you know about her moon sign/other placements?Posted by waterbearer_femSo weird. I literally walked out of an Aqua's birthday party that I planned (found out she was a compulsive liar). Over half of the party left with me (including some of her friends)....and she STILL has me connected on social media. Found out she likes the image of having friends so she keeps photos up as well, but you'd think she would block me for SURE.Posted by MrR78Never put pressure on an Aqua, it makes us run. Telling her it's fine if only she's happy wasn't very smart, we're proud and you have to convince us until we are dead sure you wanna be with us and vice versa.
@waterbearer_fem - Its a long story and its to do with my ex.
The short story is that I was a bit pushy with her after she told her folks about us and continued to be pushy after we broke up.
She slowly blocks me off everything and doesn't even engage in work related stuff (we work together).
Been through a massive period of realisation and sent her a long email apologising and explaining myself. Told her Id love to have her back but that doesn't work then I just want her to be happy. She has a cancer moon so I now realise she may be super sensitive.
The thing is that through out this period of distance sometimes she completely blanks me, sometimes she looks at me, some times she feels uncomfortable and other times she turns away.
I am trying to understand her behaviour. Its been 6 months since she has been like this with me....
Any advice is helpful
Your only chance to improve the situation is to step back. If there are feelings left, she will let you know in her own pace.
I just think it's weird that some people get blocked for being pushy with Aquas, while on the other hand I CHOSE to burn a bridge with one and didn't get blocked.click to expand
I do not block ppl on social media ever, as long as you're not going mental/wasting my time.
Posted by waterbearer_femOh definitely, a huge waste of time, which is a pet peeve of mine. She's a Libra Moon, Aqua Mercury, Pisces Venus, Sag Mars. I have no regrets at all about how I handled the situation. It's just interesting because from what I've heard, Aquas seem to block people when they are truly done with a person, but I guess that's not always the case. From what I've been told by her friends she's upset with me, but I could care less. I haven't tried talking to her since.Posted by ChuckcemThis Aqua girl is a waste of time then.. do you know about her moon sign/other placements?Posted by waterbearer_femSo weird. I literally walked out of an Aqua's birthday party that I planned (found out she was a compulsive liar). Over half of the party left with me (including some of her friends)....and she STILL has me connected on social media. Found out she likes the image of having friends so she keeps photos up as well, but you'd think she would block me for SURE.Posted by MrR78Never put pressure on an Aqua, it makes us run. Telling her it's fine if only she's happy wasn't very smart, we're proud and you have to convince us until we are dead sure you wanna be with us and vice versa.
@waterbearer_fem - Its a long story and its to do with my ex.
The short story is that I was a bit pushy with her after she told her folks about us and continued to be pushy after we broke up.
She slowly blocks me off everything and doesn't even engage in work related stuff (we work together).
Been through a massive period of realisation and sent her a long email apologising and explaining myself. Told her Id love to have her back but that doesn't work then I just want her to be happy. She has a cancer moon so I now realise she may be super sensitive.
The thing is that through out this period of distance sometimes she completely blanks me, sometimes she looks at me, some times she feels uncomfortable and other times she turns away.
I am trying to understand her behaviour. Its been 6 months since she has been like this with me....
Any advice is helpful
Your only chance to improve the situation is to step back. If there are feelings left, she will let you know in her own pace.
I just think it's weird that some people get blocked for being pushy with Aquas, while on the other hand I CHOSE to burn a bridge with one and didn't get blocked.
I do not block ppl on social media ever, as long as you're not going mental/wasting my time.click to expand
Posted by ChuckcemWhen I'm done, I'm done and you will know. That's probably the reason I don't have to block you, seems like playing games. I'll spare us some drama bc I won't change my mind anyway.Posted by waterbearer_femOh definitely, a huge waste of time, which is a pet peeve of mine. She's a Libra Moon, Aqua Mercury, Pisces Venus, Sag Mars. I have no regrets at all about how I handled the situation. It's just interesting because from what I've heard, Aquas seem to block people when they are truly done with a person, but I guess that's not always the case. From what I've been told by her friends she's upset with me, but I could care less. I haven't tried talking to her since.Posted by ChuckcemThis Aqua girl is a waste of time then.. do you know about her moon sign/other placements?Posted by waterbearer_femSo weird. I literally walked out of an Aqua's birthday party that I planned (found out she was a compulsive liar). Over half of the party left with me (including some of her friends)....and she STILL has me connected on social media. Found out she likes the image of having friends so she keeps photos up as well, but you'd think she would block me for SURE.Posted by MrR78Never put pressure on an Aqua, it makes us run. Telling her it's fine if only she's happy wasn't very smart, we're proud and you have to convince us until we are dead sure you wanna be with us and vice versa.
@waterbearer_fem - Its a long story and its to do with my ex.
The short story is that I was a bit pushy with her after she told her folks about us and continued to be pushy after we broke up.
She slowly blocks me off everything and doesn't even engage in work related stuff (we work together).
Been through a massive period of realisation and sent her a long email apologising and explaining myself. Told her Id love to have her back but that doesn't work then I just want her to be happy. She has a cancer moon so I now realise she may be super sensitive.
The thing is that through out this period of distance sometimes she completely blanks me, sometimes she looks at me, some times she feels uncomfortable and other times she turns away.
I am trying to understand her behaviour. Its been 6 months since she has been like this with me....
Any advice is helpful
Your only chance to improve the situation is to step back. If there are feelings left, she will let you know in her own pace.
I just think it's weird that some people get blocked for being pushy with Aquas, while on the other hand I CHOSE to burn a bridge with one and didn't get blocked.
I do not block ppl on social media ever, as long as you're not going mental/wasting my time.click to expand
Do you wanna talk to her again? How's your relationship with her, is she just a casual friend? I'd rather relinquish liars bc trust is a big issue for me.
@waterbearer_fem - I think there is feelings left. The situation she was in was quite intense and I didn't help it. I sent an email and apologised and cleared the air. The ball is in her court now, the purpose of this post was for me to learn and not make the same mistake again, despite the starsign. My ex is one person that cant handle emotions to well, so she can have all the space she needs.
@chuckem - Damn man, don't know what to say. Thanks for the help the other day mate, its appreciated.
@chuckem - Damn man, don't know what to say. Thanks for the help the other day mate, its appreciated.
@waterbearer_fem
Sun- Aquarius
Moon - Cancer
Mercury - Capricorn
Venus in Pisces
Mars in Gemini
Jupiter in Leo
Saturn in Capricorn
Uranus in Capricorn
Neptune in Capricorn
Pluto in Scorpio
Does this help? What can you decipher from this for me? Thanks in advance.
Sun- Aquarius
Moon - Cancer
Mercury - Capricorn
Venus in Pisces
Mars in Gemini
Jupiter in Leo
Saturn in Capricorn
Uranus in Capricorn
Neptune in Capricorn
Pluto in Scorpio
Does this help? What can you decipher from this for me? Thanks in advance.
@waterbearer_fem
She is completely distant from me. She goes through phases where she looks at me in a way she is interested then when I asked if she wants to talk her barriers go back up.
Recently we had to engage in a group exercise, and everyone engaged except her. My emails to her about work were met with short responses, I wasn't even acknowledged by name. Sometimes I didn't even get a response.
Sometimes we walk past each other and I get ignored, other times she looks at me and waits for me to say hello first.
Total confusion. Lol.
She is completely distant from me. She goes through phases where she looks at me in a way she is interested then when I asked if she wants to talk her barriers go back up.
Recently we had to engage in a group exercise, and everyone engaged except her. My emails to her about work were met with short responses, I wasn't even acknowledged by name. Sometimes I didn't even get a response.
Sometimes we walk past each other and I get ignored, other times she looks at me and waits for me to say hello first.
Total confusion. Lol.
Posted by waterbearer_femI have no desire to see or talk to her again. We were dating and had mutual friends. She lied about a lot of things, including being with her ex the entire time. Just thought the social media thing was odd, but from what you're saying it's not that strange. Fair enough.Posted by ChuckcemWhen I'm done, I'm done and you will know. That's probably the reason I don't have to block you, seems like playing games. I'll spare us some drama bc I won't change my mind anyway.Posted by waterbearer_femOh definitely, a huge waste of time, which is a pet peeve of mine. She's a Libra Moon, Aqua Mercury, Pisces Venus, Sag Mars. I have no regrets at all about how I handled the situation. It's just interesting because from what I've heard, Aquas seem to block people when they are truly done with a person, but I guess that's not always the case. From what I've been told by her friends she's upset with me, but I could care less. I haven't tried talking to her since.Posted by ChuckcemThis Aqua girl is a waste of time then.. do you know about her moon sign/other placements?Posted by waterbearer_femSo weird. I literally walked out of an Aqua's birthday party that I planned (found out she was a compulsive liar). Over half of the party left with me (including some of her friends)....and she STILL has me connected on social media. Found out she likes the image of having friends so she keeps photos up as well, but you'd think she would block me for SURE.Posted by MrR78Never put pressure on an Aqua, it makes us run. Telling her it's fine if only she's happy wasn't very smart, we're proud and you have to convince us until we are dead sure you wanna be with us and vice versa.
@waterbearer_fem - Its a long story and its to do with my ex.
The short story is that I was a bit pushy with her after she told her folks about us and continued to be pushy after we broke up.
She slowly blocks me off everything and doesn't even engage in work related stuff (we work together).
Been through a massive period of realisation and sent her a long email apologising and explaining myself. Told her Id love to have her back but that doesn't work then I just want her to be happy. She has a cancer moon so I now realise she may be super sensitive.
The thing is that through out this period of distance sometimes she completely blanks me, sometimes she looks at me, some times she feels uncomfortable and other times she turns away.
I am trying to understand her behaviour. Its been 6 months since she has been like this with me....
Any advice is helpful
Your only chance to improve the situation is to step back. If there are feelings left, she will let you know in her own pace.
I just think it's weird that some people get blocked for being pushy with Aquas, while on the other hand I CHOSE to burn a bridge with one and didn't get blocked.
I do not block ppl on social media ever, as long as you're not going mental/wasting my time.
Do you wanna talk to her again? How's your relationship with her, is she just a casual friend? I'd rather relinquish liars bc trust is a big issue for me.click to expand
Posted by MrR78Phew, I'm no specialist, there are others on this board who could explain a chart much better..
@waterbearer_fem
Sun- Aquarius
Moon - Cancer
Mercury - Capricorn
Venus in Pisces
Mars in Gemini
Jupiter in Leo
Saturn in Capricorn
Uranus in Capricorn
Neptune in Capricorn
Pluto in Scorpio
Does this help? What can you decipher from this for me? Thanks in advance.
I can tell you 'bout the Scorp Pluto, it's a tough one for an Aqua, I have it myself.. I'm currently seeing a Venus Pisces guy, he's very spirited in his actions, but closed in showing affection with words. Mars in Gemini must be a tough one, too, moody and quick-witted when it comes to arguments or between the sheets. 😉 I have quite a few Cap placements myself, they keep me grounded, ambitious and steadfast.
Seems like time will be your only friend. No more pushing or pursuing. You've made your position clear, give her room to breathe and think it over. You've already gotten far when she introduced you to her family/friends.
Posted by ChuckcemWell I guess your Aqua doesn't block you/deletes the pics bc she has her version of the "truth" and you and the other folks have yours.. she probably knows she'd lose her face completely by giving in now that it's too late. Fixed sign. Libra moon: Fickle and indecisive. No excuse for this cheap behavior of hers! Forget that girl.Posted by waterbearer_femI have no desire to see or talk to her again. We were dating and had mutual friends. She lied about a lot of things, including being with her ex the entire time. Just thought the social media thing was odd, but from what you're saying it's not that strange. Fair enough.Posted by ChuckcemWhen I'm done, I'm done and you will know. That's probably the reason I don't have to block you, seems like playing games. I'll spare us some drama bc I won't change my mind anyway.Posted by waterbearer_femOh definitely, a huge waste of time, which is a pet peeve of mine. She's a Libra Moon, Aqua Mercury, Pisces Venus, Sag Mars. I have no regrets at all about how I handled the situation. It's just interesting because from what I've heard, Aquas seem to block people when they are truly done with a person, but I guess that's not always the case. From what I've been told by her friends she's upset with me, but I could care less. I haven't tried talking to her since.Posted by ChuckcemThis Aqua girl is a waste of time then.. do you know about her moon sign/other placements?Posted by waterbearer_femSo weird. I literally walked out of an Aqua's birthday party that I planned (found out she was a compulsive liar). Over half of the party left with me (including some of her friends)....and she STILL has me connected on social media. Found out she likes the image of having friends so she keeps photos up as well, but you'd think she would block me for SURE.Posted by MrR78Never put pressure on an Aqua, it makes us run. Telling her it's fine if only she's happy wasn't very smart, we're proud and you have to convince us until we are dead sure you wanna be with us and vice versa.
@waterbearer_fem - Its a long story and its to do with my ex.
The short story is that I was a bit pushy with her after she told her folks about us and continued to be pushy after we broke up.
She slowly blocks me off everything and doesn't even engage in work related stuff (we work together).
Been through a massive period of realisation and sent her a long email apologising and explaining myself. Told her Id love to have her back but that doesn't work then I just want her to be happy. She has a cancer moon so I now realise she may be super sensitive.
The thing is that through out this period of distance sometimes she completely blanks me, sometimes she looks at me, some times she feels uncomfortable and other times she turns away.
I am trying to understand her behaviour. Its been 6 months since she has been like this with me....
Any advice is helpful
Your only chance to improve the situation is to step back. If there are feelings left, she will let you know in her own pace.
I just think it's weird that some people get blocked for being pushy with Aquas, while on the other hand I CHOSE to burn a bridge with one and didn't get blocked.
I do not block ppl on social media ever, as long as you're not going mental/wasting my time.
Do you wanna talk to her again? How's your relationship with her, is she just a casual friend? I'd rather relinquish liars bc trust is a big issue for me.click to expand
@waterbearer_fem: She didn't actually introduce me. Her family knew of me and they would talk about me openly. I admit I wasn't in the right frame of mind after we broke up but in our last conversation she did say she hopes she doesn't regret her decision to break up with me and that she wanted to remain friends because she could imagine life without talking to me. That was 4 months ago and she hardly makes an effort.
Honestly if she just spoke to me, it would be about losing face at all. I have said that girl time and time again lets talk and clear stuff up. She agrees she wants to talk but over the months, we never have.
She is in a hard place between me and her parents as her parents don't agree with us, I understand that. I did make some mistakes and I have apologised for them. Can I message you my apology? I have left the door open for her, so if she doesn't come back then in time I guess she will regret her decision.
Honestly if she just spoke to me, it would be about losing face at all. I have said that girl time and time again lets talk and clear stuff up. She agrees she wants to talk but over the months, we never have.
She is in a hard place between me and her parents as her parents don't agree with us, I understand that. I did make some mistakes and I have apologised for them. Can I message you my apology? I have left the door open for her, so if she doesn't come back then in time I guess she will regret her decision.
Posted by waterbearer_femYep that's exactly it.Posted by ChuckcemWell I guess your Aqua doesn't block you/deletes the pics bc she has her version of the "truth" and you and the other folks have yours.. she probably knows she'd lose her face completely by giving in now that it's too late. Fixed sign. Libra moon: Fickle and indecisive. No excuse for this cheap behavior of hers! Forget that girl.Posted by waterbearer_femI have no desire to see or talk to her again. We were dating and had mutual friends. She lied about a lot of things, including being with her ex the entire time. Just thought the social media thing was odd, but from what you're saying it's not that strange. Fair enough.Posted by ChuckcemWhen I'm done, I'm done and you will know. That's probably the reason I don't have to block you, seems like playing games. I'll spare us some drama bc I won't change my mind anyway.Posted by waterbearer_femOh definitely, a huge waste of time, which is a pet peeve of mine. She's a Libra Moon, Aqua Mercury, Pisces Venus, Sag Mars. I have no regrets at all about how I handled the situation. It's just interesting because from what I've heard, Aquas seem to block people when they are truly done with a person, but I guess that's not always the case. From what I've been told by her friends she's upset with me, but I could care less. I haven't tried talking to her since.Posted by ChuckcemThis Aqua girl is a waste of time then.. do you know about her moon sign/other placements?Posted by waterbearer_femSo weird. I literally walked out of an Aqua's birthday party that I planned (found out she was a compulsive liar). Over half of the party left with me (including some of her friends)....and she STILL has me connected on social media. Found out she likes the image of having friends so she keeps photos up as well, but you'd think she would block me for SURE.Posted by MrR78Never put pressure on an Aqua, it makes us run. Telling her it's fine if only she's happy wasn't very smart, we're proud and you have to convince us until we are dead sure you wanna be with us and vice versa.
@waterbearer_fem - Its a long story and its to do with my ex.
The short story is that I was a bit pushy with her after she told her folks about us and continued to be pushy after we broke up.
She slowly blocks me off everything and doesn't even engage in work related stuff (we work together).
Been through a massive period of realisation and sent her a long email apologising and explaining myself. Told her Id love to have her back but that doesn't work then I just want her to be happy. She has a cancer moon so I now realise she may be super sensitive.
The thing is that through out this period of distance sometimes she completely blanks me, sometimes she looks at me, some times she feels uncomfortable and other times she turns away.
I am trying to understand her behaviour. Its been 6 months since she has been like this with me....
Any advice is helpful
Your only chance to improve the situation is to step back. If there are feelings left, she will let you know in her own pace.
I just think it's weird that some people get blocked for being pushy with Aquas, while on the other hand I CHOSE to burn a bridge with one and didn't get blocked.
I do not block ppl on social media ever, as long as you're not going mental/wasting my time.
Do you wanna talk to her again? How's your relationship with her, is she just a casual friend? I'd rather relinquish liars bc trust is a big issue for me.click to expand
If she is already acting that way then im sorry but you have to move on,when im done with a person im done but it takes a lot for me to completely erase someone like my bestfriend or so i thought,kissed my gf at the time i talk to her and asked her to give her a chance but she lied thats why i blocked her off my life,never forgave her for it
Oh sorry didnt read all of the post,guess your done with her,peace!
Posted by ChuckcemBeen meaning to ask... Grey?Posted by waterbearer_femSo weird. I literally walked out of an Aqua's birthday party that I planned (found out she was a compulsive liar). Over half of the party left with me (including some of her friends)....and she STILL has me connected on social media. Found out she likes the image of having friends so she keeps photos up as well, but you'd think she would block me for SURE.Posted by MrR78Never put pressure on an Aqua, it makes us run. Telling her it's fine if only she's happy wasn't very smart, we're proud and you have to convince us until we are dead sure you wanna be with us and vice versa.
@waterbearer_fem - Its a long story and its to do with my ex.
The short story is that I was a bit pushy with her after she told her folks about us and continued to be pushy after we broke up.
She slowly blocks me off everything and doesn't even engage in work related stuff (we work together).
Been through a massive period of realisation and sent her a long email apologising and explaining myself. Told her Id love to have her back but that doesn't work then I just want her to be happy. She has a cancer moon so I now realise she may be super sensitive.
The thing is that through out this period of distance sometimes she completely blanks me, sometimes she looks at me, some times she feels uncomfortable and other times she turns away.
I am trying to understand her behaviour. Its been 6 months since she has been like this with me....
Any advice is helpful
Your only chance to improve the situation is to step back. If there are feelings left, she will let you know in her own pace.
I just think it's weird that some people get blocked for being pushy with Aquas, while on the other hand I CHOSE to burn a bridge with one and didn't get blocked.click to expand
The amount of shit we are willing to tolerate is relative to whether or not the person dishing it out is worth the energy.......Once we make our mind up we withdraw emotional investment and will cut you off, this is something that comes all too naturally for Aquarians. The occurring indifferent state of mind of an Aquarius is responsible for a lot of heartbreak.
I have had like 5 or 6 encounters with Aquas, romantically speaking and let me tell you, I wish I could have strangled them all.lol
But the last one was the worst even though we never dated at all cause I felt like she was so special, as if I had waited my whole life to meet her and destiny finaly got us together (I found out we had alreay met once when we were kids, but I had forgotten about it). I wouldn't have done everything for her but sure enough I would have killed for her. After a long drama and many odd moments I was sick of it and we got into a little dispute over phone about who was the bigger player, me or her and I finaly pushed her, the first and last time that I ever did this to a woman. I had never pushed a woman before. She left me hanging out of anger I guess. Lol But I never chased after her ever either, never even asked anything or sent her a second text, I just did nothing. Funny thing though, she has me still on social media and she still kept my phone number for like a year before she either deleted it or got a new number.
To sum this up:
I HATE YOU AQUARIUS WOMEN FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART EVEN THOUGH I STILL LOVE YOU; I JUST CAN'T HELP IT aaaaaaaaaawwwwwwwwwwwwwww. ^^
But the last one was the worst even though we never dated at all cause I felt like she was so special, as if I had waited my whole life to meet her and destiny finaly got us together (I found out we had alreay met once when we were kids, but I had forgotten about it). I wouldn't have done everything for her but sure enough I would have killed for her. After a long drama and many odd moments I was sick of it and we got into a little dispute over phone about who was the bigger player, me or her and I finaly pushed her, the first and last time that I ever did this to a woman. I had never pushed a woman before. She left me hanging out of anger I guess. Lol But I never chased after her ever either, never even asked anything or sent her a second text, I just did nothing. Funny thing though, she has me still on social media and she still kept my phone number for like a year before she either deleted it or got a new number.
To sum this up:
I HATE YOU AQUARIUS WOMEN FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART EVEN THOUGH I STILL LOVE YOU; I JUST CAN'T HELP IT aaaaaaaaaawwwwwwwwwwwwwww. ^^
Posted by MrR78Sure thing, you can message me. Probably I can be a little more of help with that insight.
@waterbearer_fem: She didn't actually introduce me. Her family knew of me and they would talk about me openly. I admit I wasn't in the right frame of mind after we broke up but in our last conversation she did say she hopes she doesn't regret her decision to break up with me and that she wanted to remain friends because she could imagine life without talking to me. That was 4 months ago and she hardly makes an effort.
Honestly if she just spoke to me, it would be about losing face at all. I have said that girl time and time again lets talk and clear stuff up. She agrees she wants to talk but over the months, we never have.
She is in a hard place between me and her parents as her parents don't agree with us, I understand that. I did make some mistakes and I have apologised for them. Can I message you my apology? I have left the door open for her, so if she doesn't come back then in time I guess she will regret her decision.
Posted by TheSagOh yeah, this might happen to you guys. No irony.
To sum this up:
I HATE YOU AQUARIUS WOMEN FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART EVEN THOUGH I STILL LOVE YOU; I JUST CAN'T HELP IT aaaaaaaaaawwwwwwwwwwwwwww. ^^
Posted by justagirlAre you asking if that's my former username? No I'm not Grey.Posted by ChuckcemBeen meaning to ask... Grey?Posted by waterbearer_femSo weird. I literally walked out of an Aqua's birthday party that I planned (found out she was a compulsive liar). Over half of the party left with me (including some of her friends)....and she STILL has me connected on social media. Found out she likes the image of having friends so she keeps photos up as well, but you'd think she would block me for SURE.Posted by MrR78Never put pressure on an Aqua, it makes us run. Telling her it's fine if only she's happy wasn't very smart, we're proud and you have to convince us until we are dead sure you wanna be with us and vice versa.
@waterbearer_fem - Its a long story and its to do with my ex.
The short story is that I was a bit pushy with her after she told her folks about us and continued to be pushy after we broke up.
She slowly blocks me off everything and doesn't even engage in work related stuff (we work together).
Been through a massive period of realisation and sent her a long email apologising and explaining myself. Told her Id love to have her back but that doesn't work then I just want her to be happy. She has a cancer moon so I now realise she may be super sensitive.
The thing is that through out this period of distance sometimes she completely blanks me, sometimes she looks at me, some times she feels uncomfortable and other times she turns away.
I am trying to understand her behaviour. Its been 6 months since she has been like this with me....
Any advice is helpful
Your only chance to improve the situation is to step back. If there are feelings left, she will let you know in her own pace.
I just think it's weird that some people get blocked for being pushy with Aquas, while on the other hand I CHOSE to burn a bridge with one and didn't get blocked.click to expand
Posted by ChuckcemPosted by justagirlAre you asking if that's my former username? No I'm not Grey.Posted by ChuckcemBeen meaning to ask... Grey?Posted by waterbearer_femSo weird. I literally walked out of an Aqua's birthday party that I planned (found out she was a compulsive liar). Over half of the party left with me (including some of her friends)....and she STILL has me connected on social media. Found out she likes the image of having friends so she keeps photos up as well, but you'd think she would block me for SURE.Posted by MrR78Never put pressure on an Aqua, it makes us run. Telling her it's fine if only she's happy wasn't very smart, we're proud and you have to convince us until we are dead sure you wanna be with us and vice versa.
@waterbearer_fem - Its a long story and its to do with my ex.
The short story is that I was a bit pushy with her after she told her folks about us and continued to be pushy after we broke up.
She slowly blocks me off everything and doesn't even engage in work related stuff (we work together).
Been through a massive period of realisation and sent her a long email apologising and explaining myself. Told her Id love to have her back but that doesn't work then I just want her to be happy. She has a cancer moon so I now realise she may be super sensitive.
The thing is that through out this period of distance sometimes she completely blanks me, sometimes she looks at me, some times she feels uncomfortable and other times she turns away.
I am trying to understand her behaviour. Its been 6 months since she has been like this with me....
Any advice is helpful
Your only chance to improve the situation is to step back. If there are feelings left, she will let you know in her own pace.
I just think it's weird that some people get blocked for being pushy with Aquas, while on the other hand I CHOSE to burn a bridge with one and didn't get blocked.click to expand
Aww I was hoping it was, I miss him 🙂 you seem very similar to him is all 🙂
Posted by justagirlHahah I'm sure he was a cool guy.Posted by ChuckcemPosted by justagirlAre you asking if that's my former username? No I'm not Grey.Posted by ChuckcemBeen meaning to ask... Grey?Posted by waterbearer_femSo weird. I literally walked out of an Aqua's birthday party that I planned (found out she was a compulsive liar). Over half of the party left with me (including some of her friends)....and she STILL has me connected on social media. Found out she likes the image of having friends so she keeps photos up as well, but you'd think she would block me for SURE.Posted by MrR78Never put pressure on an Aqua, it makes us run. Telling her it's fine if only she's happy wasn't very smart, we're proud and you have to convince us until we are dead sure you wanna be with us and vice versa.
@waterbearer_fem - Its a long story and its to do with my ex.
The short story is that I was a bit pushy with her after she told her folks about us and continued to be pushy after we broke up.
She slowly blocks me off everything and doesn't even engage in work related stuff (we work together).
Been through a massive period of realisation and sent her a long email apologising and explaining myself. Told her Id love to have her back but that doesn't work then I just want her to be happy. She has a cancer moon so I now realise she may be super sensitive.
The thing is that through out this period of distance sometimes she completely blanks me, sometimes she looks at me, some times she feels uncomfortable and other times she turns away.
I am trying to understand her behaviour. Its been 6 months since she has been like this with me....
Any advice is helpful
Your only chance to improve the situation is to step back. If there are feelings left, she will let you know in her own pace.
I just think it's weird that some people get blocked for being pushy with Aquas, while on the other hand I CHOSE to burn a bridge with one and didn't get blocked.
Aww I was hoping it was, I miss him 🙂 you seem very similar to him is all 🙂
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Posted by TheSagAwwww 😢
I have had like 5 or 6 encounters with Aquas, romantically speaking and let me tell you, I wish I could have strangled them all.lol
But the last one was the worst even though we never dated at all cause I felt like she was so special, as if I had waited my whole life to meet her and destiny finaly got us together (I found out we had alreay met once when we were kids, but I had forgotten about it). I wouldn't have done everything for her but sure enough I would have killed for her. After a long drama and many odd moments I was sick of it and we got into a little dispute over phone about who was the bigger player, me or her and I finaly pushed her, the first and last time that I ever did this to a woman. I had never pushed a woman before. She left me hanging out of anger I guess. Lol But I never chased after her ever either, never even asked anything or sent her a second text, I just did nothing. Funny thing though, she has me still on social media and she still kept my phone number for like a year before she either deleted it or got a new number.
To sum this up:
I HATE YOU AQUARIUS WOMEN FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART EVEN THOUGH I STILL LOVE YOU; I JUST CAN'T HELP IT aaaaaaaaaawwwwwwwwwwwwwww. ^^
I'm sorry, was it communication ? bigger player as in with other people?
Posted by AerazoI think she is used to have men kissing her ass which I never did and she probably likes to play around too.Posted by TheSagAwwww 😢
I have had like 5 or 6 encounters with Aquas, romantically speaking and let me tell you, I wish I could have strangled them all.lol
But the last one was the worst even though we never dated at all cause I felt like she was so special, as if I had waited my whole life to meet her and destiny finaly got us together (I found out we had alreay met once when we were kids, but I had forgotten about it). I wouldn't have done everything for her but sure enough I would have killed for her. After a long drama and many odd moments I was sick of it and we got into a little dispute over phone about who was the bigger player, me or her and I finaly pushed her, the first and last time that I ever did this to a woman. I had never pushed a woman before. She left me hanging out of anger I guess. Lol But I never chased after her ever either, never even asked anything or sent her a second text, I just did nothing. Funny thing though, she has me still on social media and she still kept my phone number for like a year before she either deleted it or got a new number.
To sum this up:
I HATE YOU AQUARIUS WOMEN FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART EVEN THOUGH I STILL LOVE YOU; I JUST CAN'T HELP IT aaaaaaaaaawwwwwwwwwwwwwww. ^^
I'm sorry, was it communication ? bigger player as in with other people?
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She accused me of being a player and I did the same.
@waterbearer_fem - Msg sent
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11Absolutley this.
The amount of shit we are willing to tolerate is relative to whether or not the person dishing it out is worth the energy.......Once we make our mind up we withdraw emotional investment and will cut you off, this is something that comes all too naturally for Aquarians. The occurring indifferent state of mind of an Aquarius is responsible for a lot of heartbreak.
Push us away enough and we will be done. Aquas are the masters at detaching and not looking back.
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