leo993
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For me it is very clear. He has always been honest with you. He told you twice already that from his point of view he was no longer interested (two months ago and also when responding to your letter). Definitely his feelings didn't develop enough, so he kept being nice to you because he did not cross the friendship line. You have a good chance to remain friends with him if your feelings fade too and never bring up the relationship stuff with him again. You had your closure.
He is no longer interested and moved on....you should too.
Sounds like a typical aqua. They come on super strong fill your head full of beautiful lies and then decide they just aren't interested.. They don't seem to really understand how much that hurts others. Their actions don't match their words. Don't waste another minute thinking about him. Find someone who means what he says......
Posted by boxcarmirntaActually not. They behave like this in a natural manner. But the girl fell for him, so she started to "see" things that don't exist. He was very clear by telling her he was not interested, but she kept hoping, since his behavior didn't change much. I didn't see any confessions of love, only a very nice, friendly and supportive guy. They are gentlemen, so such an "accidental" confession usually gets ignored by the girl. And then.. confusion and false hopes!
Sounds like a typical aqua. They come on super strong fill your head full of beautiful lies and then decide they just aren't interested.. They don't seem to really understand how much that hurts others. Their actions don't match their words. Don't waste another minute thinking about him. Find someone who means what he says......
Posted by compyI see your point.... But in my experience... They said ENDLESS false professions of care etc etc... And then POOF gone.... I think they're tricksters. The last two ive had have been the same. Soooo many promises.... Being SOOO into me.. Loving me blah blah... All bat, no balls. They never followed through and it was shit. I did nothing to hurt them or turn them off theyre just fickle as shit. :/Posted by boxcarmirntaActually not. They behave like this in a natural manner. But the girl fell for him, so she started to "see" things that don't exist. He was very clear by telling her he was not interested, but she kept hoping, since his behavior didn't change much. I didn't see any confessions of love, only a very nice, friendly and supportive guy. They are gentlemen, so such an "accidental" confession usually gets ignored by the girl. And then.. confusion and false hopes!
Sounds like a typical aqua. They come on super strong fill your head full of beautiful lies and then decide they just aren't interested.. They don't seem to really understand how much that hurts others. Their actions don't match their words. Don't waste another minute thinking about him. Find someone who means what he says......click to expand
Posted by compyI would not say I've seen things that do not exist. He was the one to create occasions for us, every time, I've rarely decided for both of us to spend time together or to go out etc. It was him who asked me to stay for the night ONE week before he decided to break up with me and that night he told me a lot of beautiful words. And we were organizing a night out with other friends for the next weekend but it never happened because of his decision.Posted by boxcarmirntaActually not. They behave like this in a natural manner. But the girl fell for him, so she started to "see" things that don't exist. He was very clear by telling her he was not interested, but she kept hoping, since his behavior didn't change much. I didn't see any confessions of love, only a very nice, friendly and supportive guy. They are gentlemen, so such an "accidental" confession usually gets ignored by the girl. And then.. confusion and false hopes!
Sounds like a typical aqua. They come on super strong fill your head full of beautiful lies and then decide they just aren't interested.. They don't seem to really understand how much that hurts others. Their actions don't match their words. Don't waste another minute thinking about him. Find someone who means what he says......click to expand
He told me he was not really into me just after he left me, not before, he showed me his interest until the very end. So I wonder if he has always been honest to me.
What I think it's strange is that he was himself until the end, is it possible to change his mind and to notice he's not interested in just one day? We saw each other on tuesday and we were like the perfect couple and then, on thursday morning, he's a completely different person.
With reference to your previous answer, I think it's impossible to be true friend with him since he does not even look at me when we're with other friends, while he acts very friendly with them. Maybe it was too early when I texted him to talk as a friend, but he was really cold to me and it hurts me even more.
I know I should move on, but I find it really hard now. To see him almost everyday doen't make it easy and it's painful.
Thanks to everyone for the replies 🙂
And I'm sorry if my english isn't perfect.
You will be fine. Mind that Aquas almost never fall in love at a first glance. After an initial "honeymoon" period in which they actually study you, they may realize you are not the one. Unfortunately, they are so charming that other signs fall in love before anything is settled down. Aquas are very slow committers, if ever. Your were fortunate though because he was honest with you.
One of the reasons I refused to ever get involved with classmates or work buddies is exactly this. I settle down very rarely and invariably I hurt people when I realize I may like them, but they are not suitable for me, so I look for partners outside my day by day activities. I advice you do the same.
The Aqua I am seeing has nothing to do with my job and it works like a charm 🙂
One of the reasons I refused to ever get involved with classmates or work buddies is exactly this. I settle down very rarely and invariably I hurt people when I realize I may like them, but they are not suitable for me, so I look for partners outside my day by day activities. I advice you do the same.
The Aqua I am seeing has nothing to do with my job and it works like a charm 🙂
I hope so. These days I'm feeling a little better, I hope this will last. The past few days have been really hard for me.
I still need more opinions if you don't mind!
It's about the night I've spent to his house. I've spent a lot of days to his house but it was the first time I've stopped for the night (and, saddly, the last too).
We were in bed and he wanted to do more than the usual stuff (we never had sex but we shared a lot of intimate moments and it was great tbh) but I didn't feel ready so he stopped... It's all linked to my personal issues and, even though I really wanted to do it with him, I just didn't feel ready in that moment. The next day, when I was coming back home, I text him saying I was sorry. I felt really bad because I was worried he might think I didn't trust him, which it's not true. But he told me "Don't worry, let's take a step at a time together. I adore you."
I think this was a demonstration of his feelings for me, even if it wasn't love, I don't think it was simple friendship. And I don't like to think he said that just to say something...
This was one week before he left me. It's absurd how things can change so fast.
What do you think about his words? Of course you can't know what he meant, but still what is your opinion?
I still need more opinions if you don't mind!
It's about the night I've spent to his house. I've spent a lot of days to his house but it was the first time I've stopped for the night (and, saddly, the last too).
We were in bed and he wanted to do more than the usual stuff (we never had sex but we shared a lot of intimate moments and it was great tbh) but I didn't feel ready so he stopped... It's all linked to my personal issues and, even though I really wanted to do it with him, I just didn't feel ready in that moment. The next day, when I was coming back home, I text him saying I was sorry. I felt really bad because I was worried he might think I didn't trust him, which it's not true. But he told me "Don't worry, let's take a step at a time together. I adore you."
I think this was a demonstration of his feelings for me, even if it wasn't love, I don't think it was simple friendship. And I don't like to think he said that just to say something...
This was one week before he left me. It's absurd how things can change so fast.
What do you think about his words? Of course you can't know what he meant, but still what is your opinion?
Posted by leo993could be all because of this? he is a man after all.
I hope so. These days I'm feeling a little better, I hope this will last. The past few days have been really hard for me.
I still need more opinions if you don't mind!
It's about the night I've spent to his house. I've spent a lot of days to his house but it was the first time I've stopped for the night (and, saddly, the last too).
We were in bed and he wanted to do more than the usual stuff (we never had sex but we shared a lot of intimate moments and it was great tbh) but I didn't feel ready so he stopped...
Posted by AerialViewIt's the first thing I've asked him when he broke up with me and he said that wasn't the reason at all.Posted by leo993could be all because of this? he is a man after all.
I hope so. These days I'm feeling a little better, I hope this will last. The past few days have been really hard for me.
I still need more opinions if you don't mind!
It's about the night I've spent to his house. I've spent a lot of days to his house but it was the first time I've stopped for the night (and, saddly, the last too).
We were in bed and he wanted to do more than the usual stuff (we never had sex but we shared a lot of intimate moments and it was great tbh) but I didn't feel ready so he stopped...click to expand
Posted by leo993In my opinion, it had to do with that too. You see, he was into you more and more and started realizing that the words he was saying to you are becoming deeper and deeper and things can't go on in the same way, but will lead to something more between you. Which made him think about you and about what you guys had. And he either realized that 1. he is not ready for something more or 2. he just doesnt feel that much for you. But, he has told you that its the second one. If he wasn't sure he might have said the first excuse.Posted by AerialViewIt's the first thing I've asked him when he broke up with me and he said that wasn't the reason at all.Posted by leo993could be all because of this? he is a man after all.
I hope so. These days I'm feeling a little better, I hope this will last. The past few days have been really hard for me.
I still need more opinions if you don't mind!
It's about the night I've spent to his house. I've spent a lot of days to his house but it was the first time I've stopped for the night (and, saddly, the last too).
We were in bed and he wanted to do more than the usual stuff (we never had sex but we shared a lot of intimate moments and it was great tbh) but I didn't feel ready so he stopped...
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I'm not an Aqua, but something similar happened to me and an Aqua. After 2-3 months of 'wooow' she said that she is not ready for something more. Which made me chase here, and it went bad. So, its better that he told you the truth.
Posted by AerialViewI think so too.... and I think he could sense the insecure of that ... and how you would be after sex..... women that are not confidence sexually even from the beginning could mean they have hidden issues... I don't know though just a guess ? Aqua r very smart creatures... I'm very sorry ..Posted by leo993could be all because of this? he is a man after all.
I hope so. These days I'm feeling a little better, I hope this will last. The past few days have been really hard for me.
I still need more opinions if you don't mind!
It's about the night I've spent to his house. I've spent a lot of days to his house but it was the first time I've stopped for the night (and, saddly, the last too).
We were in bed and he wanted to do more than the usual stuff (we never had sex but we shared a lot of intimate moments and it was great tbh) but I didn't feel ready so he stopped...click to expand
Posted by leo993He would def not tell u the real reason ESP if it involves sex coz he wud sound like an sssholePosted by AerialViewIt's the first thing I've asked him when he broke up with me and he said that wasn't the reason at all.Posted by leo993could be all because of this? he is a man after all.
I hope so. These days I'm feeling a little better, I hope this will last. The past few days have been really hard for me.
I still need more opinions if you don't mind!
It's about the night I've spent to his house. I've spent a lot of days to his house but it was the first time I've stopped for the night (and, saddly, the last too).
We were in bed and he wanted to do more than the usual stuff (we never had sex but we shared a lot of intimate moments and it was great tbh) but I didn't feel ready so he stopped...
click to expand
Posted by saweetz1988My issues were known to him and they don't have to do with sex directly, even though the matter was influenced by them. He was really helping me.Posted by AerialViewI think so too.... and I think he could sense the insecure of that ... and how you would be after sex..... women that are not confidence sexually even from the beginning could mean they have hidden issues... I don't know though just a guess ? Aqua r very smart creatures... I'm very sorry ..Posted by leo993could be all because of this? he is a man after all.
I hope so. These days I'm feeling a little better, I hope this will last. The past few days have been really hard for me.
I still need more opinions if you don't mind!
It's about the night I've spent to his house. I've spent a lot of days to his house but it was the first time I've stopped for the night (and, saddly, the last too).
We were in bed and he wanted to do more than the usual stuff (we never had sex but we shared a lot of intimate moments and it was great tbh) but I didn't feel ready so he stopped...click to expand
Posted by bittercupcakeYeah, I've realized that, maybe too late. Thank you for your reply!Posted by leo993..yeah i think Leo/Aquarius really get each other...and theres genuine intrigue...the bad thing is that Leos are too impatient and like to rush things...Aquarius likes to take things slow...in this case he seems like he might have realized he wasn't in love like youa re.......i don't wanna say its a lost cause 100% but i also don't wanna give you false hope...if anything i just say pull back and tell him you cant be friends beacause of your feelings and when you are ready (if) ... you can be friends again.Posted by saweetz1988My issues were known to him and they don't have to do with sex directly, even though the matter was influenced by them. He was really helping me.
I think so too.... and I think he could sense the insecure of that ... and how you would be after sex..... women that are not confidence sexually even from the beginning could mean they have hidden issues... I don't know though just a guess ? Aqua r very smart creatures... I'm very sorry ..Posted by bittercupcakeSo is it "normal" for all this to happen? Is there a chance he will approach me again after some time is passed?
Sounds like a typical Aquarius and Leo .... relationship.... I'm curios to see where this will lead.......
This is the first time I have to deal with an Aqua and I really didn't know much abt this zodiac sign until now. I have to say that Aquas are really interesting and this guy really got me.
but yeah.....this is a normal occurrance...push/pull relationship.....ive seen it happen lots of times.click to expand
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Some days ago (3 weeks after our last "conversation") I was feeling really bad because I felt there were a lot of things I would like to say to him. I decided to write a letter, not to make him come back or to make him change his mind, I just needed to write it and be honest about some things. He accept it and sent me a text saying "I've read it and I really would have liked things to go differently, for the both of us. I'm sorry". I've replied saying "Thank you for what you've been to me". And stop, he didn't say anything to that.
Now I don't want to contact him anymore, I even left the university chat group, and take distance. Not because I don't love him anymore but I just want to see if this will change something. Too bad I still have to see him during lessons but the summer break will start soon and we will be apart for 4 months.
What do you think? Is there any chance he'll come back to me or his words prove that he's not interested in me anymore?
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