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Damn this thread went south real quick. If people don’t like what you post why are they even bothering .. with reading your post?

Anyways I ship cancers and aquas. 🙋🏻‍♀️


I think they are a great match too. And the whole love bombing thing is actually what works well with Aquas. Aquas need to be secured quick or they move on.
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We don't want love bombing, but you are correct in saying that we need to feel secure quick or we move on. We don't like coy, shy, intimidated, hung up on someone before us or eyes for another. No siree bob!
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Posted by saggurl88

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Posted by saggurl88

Posted by haunt

Damn this thread went south real quick. If people don’t like what you post why are they even bothering .. with reading your post?

Anyways I ship cancers and aquas. 🙋🏻‍♀️


I think they are a great match too. And the whole love bombing thing is actually what works well with Aquas. Aquas need to be secured quick or they move on.


I dated one and I’m with him again, long ass time (7 years total) they are great partners. I asked him out real quick too, a week of knowing him I loved him to death. 😂


I wish I could do the love bombing thing but the way my feelings are set up ........

😩😩😩😩😜


?!

What do you meaannn


I would never be able to love bomb. I can’t push fake feelings first, just to get what I want.

Cancers barely know a person and can move mountains for them to secure the deal. Lol.

Love just doesn’t come that quickly for me so I lose out with Aquas. It ends up seeming like a game because I take things too slow.
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I like slow, but I better know you like me alot or I'm out.
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ah you're a fellow love bomber like me



I love the smell of love bombs in the morning

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I think most Cancers do the love bombing thing. Just to ease up and ignore you later once they secure you in the relationship. This is why so many women get confused by Cancer men.

Hopefully that’s not the case here though.
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I’m a cancer woman. And I’ve made that mistake in the past but not to hurt others, always just my self getting hurt. But this time around I’m VERYYYY careful. Just because I feel love doesn’t mean I want to necessarily speak it yet or even soon. Nor was that a question in this post, just a statement. “I think I love her” not “.. and should I tell her?”

For I know the answer to that. It’s WHEN. And it’s gonnq take a lot of time this time around for me to just throw that around. It’s been the most consistent I’ve talked to someone in years and it being healthy ect ect. Well never have I had anything healthy. So we are talking a lot. Make sure we are getting to know one another, and constantly have spoken to each other about being as authentic as possible. And not leave out of who we are for the sake of the other person . That said. I want to reallllly know for once. But I guess that’s when I need to believe I’ve evolved as a person. And a cancer, to be the “high functioning” version of my self. That’s mindful and patient (which was something that took a long long time, Bi polar medication and lots of therapy to overcome).
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Posted by haunt

Damn this thread went south real quick. If people don’t like what you post why are they even bothering .. with reading your post?

Anyways I ship cancers and aquas. 🙋🏻‍♀️


I think they are a great match too. And the whole love bombing thing is actually what works well with Aquas. Aquas need to be secured quick or they move on.


We don't want love bombing, but you are correct in saying that we need to feel secure quick or we move on. We don't like coy, shy, intimidated, hung up on someone before us or eyes for another. No siree bob!
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I don’t think you guys recognize what is happening as love bombing. But when someone rushes is so quickly, that usually the case.

They secure you first, then feelings come later.

Aquas are very sincere and it’s easy to love you guys because you don’t play many games. I think this is why Cancers technique work so well. It keeps Aquas interested
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If someone is capable of love, they will feel love.

If you need to "think" yourself of being in love, you are not in love.

Narcissist are per definition incapable of love. What they feel is excitement and obsession at the beginning of a relationship, when they've "got a new toy". This feeling fades without becoming love.

See Quora for details.


I suggest you read the feminist theory book called “all about love”. Love is an action and a feeling. And you can chose to love anyone you want, so long as your actions speak to eachother’s love languages.. and you chose by how you feel. Your assumption of me is based on very little facts. Not to mention did I ever suggest “should I tell her?” In this post. Just merely stating “I think I’m in love and this is why”. Did you even read my post?
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Posted by saggurl88

Posted by haunt

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by haunt

Damn this thread went south real quick. If people don’t like what you post why are they even bothering .. with reading your post?

Anyways I ship cancers and aquas. 🙋🏻‍♀️


I think they are a great match too. And the whole love bombing thing is actually what works well with Aquas. Aquas need to be secured quick or they move on.


I dated one and I’m with him again, long ass time (7 years total) they are great partners. I asked him out real quick too, a week of knowing him I loved him to death. 😂


I wish I could do the love bombing thing but the way my feelings are set up ........

😩😩😩😩😜


?!

What do you meaannn


I would never be able to love bomb. I can’t push fake feelings first, just to get what I want.

Cancers barely know a person and can move mountains for them to secure the deal. Lol.

Love just doesn’t come that quickly for me so I lose out with Aquas. It ends up seeming like a game because I take things too slow.


I like slow, but I better know you like me alot or I'm out.
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Yeah. I get it. But I still fail miserably lol
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Posted by haunt

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Posted by haunt

Damn this thread went south real quick. If people don’t like what you post why are they even bothering .. with reading your post?

Anyways I ship cancers and aquas. 🙋🏻‍♀️


....because people get off on criticising others...




I don’t see what the point is, there’s a mute button. If someone bothers you so much why take the few seconds out of your life to tell them? I don’t get it.


I can see what's going on. People use the internet to spew out their negative feelings ... "i have a shitty empty life or i'm having a shitty day so who can I dump on".

Cheaper than therapy.

Mental masturnation

Sad 👎🏻
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"Mental masterbation " LOL and yeah for reallll, that said I see a therapist for free so if anyone needrecommendationtion on how I am here
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Posted by saggurl88

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Posted by saggurl88

Posted by haunt

Damn this thread went south real quick. If people don’t like what you post why are they even bothering .. with reading your post?

Anyways I ship cancers and aquas. 🙋🏻‍♀️


I think they are a great match too. And the whole love bombing thing is actually what works well with Aquas. Aquas need to be secured quick or they move on.


We don't want love bombing, but you are correct in saying that we need to feel secure quick or we move on. We don't like coy, shy, intimidated, hung up on someone before us or eyes for another. No siree bob!


I don’t think you guys recognize what is happening as love bombing. But when someone rushes is so quickly, that usually the case.

They secure you first, then feelings come later.

Aquas are very sincere and it’s easy to love you guys because you don’t play many games. I think this is why Cancers technique work so well. It keeps Aquas interested
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Well not for me. I had a Cancer try this on me 3 years ago and I got really angry. I basically told him never because he insulted my intelligence.

Anyway, he's still trying til this day, but I won't budge.
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Posted by tiziani

ah you're a fellow love bomber like me



I love the smell of love bombs in the morning

Image Not Found


I think most Cancers do the love bombing thing. Just to ease up and ignore you later once they secure you in the relationship. This is why so many women get confused by Cancer men.

Hopefully that’s not the case here though.


I’m a cancer woman. And I’ve made that mistake in the past but not to hurt others, always just my self getting hurt. But this time around I’m VERYYYY careful. Just because I feel love doesn’t mean I want to necessarily speak it yet or even soon. Nor was that a question in this post, just a statement. “I think I love her” not “.. and should I tell her?”

For I know the answer to that. It’s WHEN. And it’s gonnq take a lot of time this time around for me to just throw that around. It’s been the most consistent I’ve talked to someone in years and it being healthy ect ect. Well never have I had anything healthy. So we are talking a lot. Make sure we are getting to know one another, and constantly have spoken to each other about being as authentic as possible. And not leave out of who we are for the sake of the other person . That said. I want to reallllly know for once. But I guess that’s when I need to believe I’ve evolved as a person. And a cancer, to be the “high functioning” version of my self. That’s mindful and patient (which was something that took a long long time, Bi polar medication and lots of therapy to overcome).
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Well I sincerely wish you the best. If things are going well that is great. As long as you keep it up. One back step and it creates a mess with Aquas. You know what you’re doing.

You seem to have found your match! 😉
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Posted by saggurl88

Posted by haunt

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by haunt

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by haunt

Damn this thread went south real quick. If people don’t like what you post why are they even bothering .. with reading your post?

Anyways I ship cancers and aquas. 🙋🏻‍♀️


I think they are a great match too. And the whole love bombing thing is actually what works well with Aquas. Aquas need to be secured quick or they move on.


I dated one and I’m with him again, long ass time (7 years total) they are great partners. I asked him out real quick too, a week of knowing him I loved him to death. 😂


I wish I could do the love bombing thing but the way my feelings are set up ........

😩😩😩😩😜


?!

What do you meaannn


I would never be able to love bomb. I can’t push fake feelings first, just to get what I want.

Cancers barely know a person and can move mountains for them to secure the deal. Lol.

Love just doesn’t come that quickly for me so I lose out with Aquas. It ends up seeming like a game because I take things too slow.
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Who said bombs are necissarily fake. I mean they can be. My last serious girl friend bombed me week two. And it felt so wrong from the first date so I just allowed it to happen. granted that was 5 years ago. But I have NEVER been the one to pull the trigger on saying the word so honestly I dont know whats up with the bombing assumptions on here?? I only said " I love you" first to two women in my life. The first took me 2 years. And the second 6 months. Both times I felt it from very early on. But never dared said anything till I was absolutely sure. Im a sag moon btw.... so I am wishy washy and very careful not to ruin anything... I really dont understand whats up in this post, just because I express I feeeeeel love quickly, doesnt mean I act impulsively.smh
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Posted by saggurl88

Posted by STILL

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by haunt

Damn this thread went south real quick. If people don’t like what you post why are they even bothering .. with reading your post?

Anyways I ship cancers and aquas. 🙋🏻‍♀️


I think they are a great match too. And the whole love bombing thing is actually what works well with Aquas. Aquas need to be secured quick or they move on.


We don't want love bombing, but you are correct in saying that we need to feel secure quick or we move on. We don't like coy, shy, intimidated, hung up on someone before us or eyes for another. No siree bob!


I don’t think you guys recognize what is happening as love bombing. But when someone rushes is so quickly, that usually the case.

They secure you first, then feelings come later.

Aquas are very sincere and it’s easy to love you guys because you don’t play many games. I think this is why Cancers technique work so well. It keeps Aquas interested


Well not for me, I had a Cancer try this on me 3 years ago and I got really hungry. I basically told him never because he insulted my intelligence.

Anyway, he's still trying til this day, but I won't budge.
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He slipped up somewhere then. This is how Cancers work. They aren’t manipulative when they actually do it when they like a person. It becomes a problem when they don’t like the person after doing it.

That’s when you get women crying over them.
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Posted by saggurl88

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Posted by saggurl88

Posted by tiziani

ah you're a fellow love bomber like me



I love the smell of love bombs in the morning

Image Not Found


I think most Cancers do the love bombing thing. Just to ease up and ignore you later once they secure you in the relationship. This is why so many women get confused by Cancer men.

Hopefully that’s not the case here though.


I’m a cancer woman. And I’ve made that mistake in the past but not to hurt others, always just my self getting hurt. But this time around I’m VERYYYY careful. Just because I feel love doesn’t mean I want to necessarily speak it yet or even soon. Nor was that a question in this post, just a statement. “I think I love her” not “.. and should I tell her?”

For I know the answer to that. It’s WHEN. And it’s gonnq take a lot of time this time around for me to just throw that around. It’s been the most consistent I’ve talked to someone in years and it being healthy ect ect. Well never have I had anything healthy. So we are talking a lot. Make sure we are getting to know one another, and constantly have spoken to each other about being as authentic as possible. And not leave out of who we are for the sake of the other person . That said. I want to reallllly know for once. But I guess that’s when I need to believe I’ve evolved as a person. And a cancer, to be the “high functioning” version of my self. That’s mindful and patient (which was something that took a long long time, Bi polar medication and lots of therapy to overcome).


Well I sincerely wish you the best. If things are going well that is great. As long as you keep it up. One back step and it creates a mess with Aquas. You know what you’re doing.

You seem to have found your match! 😉
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thank you I appreciate the support ❤️
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Posted by saggurl88

Posted by haunt

Damn this thread went south real quick. If people don’t like what you post why are they even bothering .. with reading your post?

Anyways I ship cancers and aquas. 🙋🏻‍♀️


I think they are a great match too. And the whole love bombing thing is actually what works well with Aquas. Aquas need to be secured quick or they move on.


We don't want love bombing, but you are correct in saying that we need to feel secure quick or we move on. We don't like coy, shy, intimidated, hung up on someone before us or eyes for another. No siree bob!


I don’t think you guys recognize what is happening as love bombing. But when someone rushes is so quickly, that usually the case.

They secure you first, then feelings come later.

Aquas are very sincere and it’s easy to love you guys because you don’t play many games. I think this is why Cancers technique work so well. It keeps Aquas interested


Well not for me, I had a Cancer try this on me 3 years ago and I got really hungry. I basically told him never because he insulted my intelligence.

Anyway, he's still trying til this day, but I won't budge.




He slipped up somewhere then. This is how Cancers work. They aren’t manipulative when they actually do it when they like a person. It becomes a problem when they don’t like the person after doing it.

That’s when you get women crying over them.
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Aquas see things coming from a mile away. At least I do. Aquas pay attention to everything.

That's why people are confused when we leave. It's because our spidey senses tingle on things that most people miss as a red flag, waayyy in advance of us getting concrete evidence.

I think Aqua women come off dumber or more naive than we actually are.

Edit: I don't know about the watery ones. They are much different from myself. I think their emotions override their logical side.
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The fact that you love on everyone makes me think you’ve never really loved on anyone.

Meditate on that.

If it’s given freely, it really wasn’t hard to earn.


Also, must be nice to have had the privilege to be shown how to love by the adults in your life. Which sounds like you have been shown a lot of love if you feel like you are different than myself. See someone like myself needs to go through experiences to understand how to love, doesn’t mean that we are in capable of love. Just something we need to learn to navigate around. But again I wouldn’t expect somebody with the privilege to have known how to love their whole life to understand where I’m coming from. My only goal in life is to give Love as much as possible because it lacked so much in my life. Take that how you will but I’ll never give up on love and I’ll never stop loving any and every person I choose to love. This is where people get it twisted, especially cancer signs . Love is a choice and an action. We choose to love and we can choose to do so however much we want to in our lives . There is a feminist book called “ all about love “. I recommend it. To anybody


Dont mind what @Arielle83 said she was sweet in the beginning when she was asking about advice on her scorpio who she eventually married to stay in the usa and she became mean afterwards, but like they say if you dont have anything nice to say keep it to yourself, and for you and your lady all love and luck in the world xoxo


You serious?

I don’t live in the USA. And I didn’t marry anyone to stay anywhere.

It’s not okay for a man to be love bombing around, why is it ok for a female?

I’m saying if you throw that word around, you lose the meaning

Try being catty when u have the facts straight.

Don’t be making up rumours to make yourself self righteous.

Peace. X

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AGAIN, Who is love bombing—? Just because Iv felt a lot of love doesnt mean I acted impulsively on expressing the words. Ive said "I love you " to 3 women in my life, two of which I said it first. One took me two years. The other 6 months. I never expressed in my post "should I tell her im in love??" I know the answer to that. I, in so many words, simply stated that I feel the love coming on. Who are you to guage who you love and how soon? Obviously you didnt read any response i sent from the previous post you trolled me on. If you read it maybe youd think twice on your choice of words but thats a huge expectation on an ass hole. Not to say I have truly loved every one. But if you read my last post a week ago, I told you that in the recent past I was off my meds as a bi polar woman and acting on impulse was a common thing for me. And that now its been over a year of putting in the work on my mental health, and on meds and I am extremely careful with everything I do and making sure my mind plays no tricks on me,and leaves destruction and messes. But NOTHING I ever posted suggested I love bombed anyoneeee ever. So I can only assume that, again, you are projecting maybe your own insecurities and character defects. Your lack of responses to me after I respond to you is an admission of guilt of your own actions, on its own merit. But maybe you are one of those who operate with ego over just admitting faults and denying accountability. I used to be like that so takes one to know one.I wish you sincerely luck in your emotional growth and spiritual journey. From woman to woman and cancer to cancer. God speed. Its not easy for us to find peace within our selves when we become jaded. And I wish for you that whatever you are currently going through, you are healed from quickly.
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Posted by haunt

Damn this thread went south real quick. If people don’t like what you post why are they even bothering .. with reading your post?

Anyways I ship cancers and aquas. 🙋🏻‍♀️


....because people get off on criticising others...




I don’t see what the point is, there’s a mute button. If someone bothers you so much why take the few seconds out of your life to tell them? I don’t get it.


I can see what's going on. People use the internet to spew out their negative feelings ... "i have a shitty empty life or i'm having a shitty day so who can I dump on".

Cheaper than therapy.

Mental masturnation

Sad 👎🏻


"Mental masterbation " LOL and yeah for reallll, that said I see a therapist for free so if anyone needrecommendationtion on how I am here
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Posted by saggurl88

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Posted by saggurl88

Posted by STILL

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by haunt

Damn this thread went south real quick. If people don’t like what you post why are they even bothering .. with reading your post?

Anyways I ship cancers and aquas. 🙋🏻‍♀️


I think they are a great match too. And the whole love bombing thing is actually what works well with Aquas. Aquas need to be secured quick or they move on.


We don't want love bombing, but you are correct in saying that we need to feel secure quick or we move on. We don't like coy, shy, intimidated, hung up on someone before us or eyes for another. No siree bob!


I don’t think you guys recognize what is happening as love bombing. But when someone rushes is so quickly, that usually the case.

They secure you first, then feelings come later.

Aquas are very sincere and it’s easy to love you guys because you don’t play many games. I think this is why Cancers technique work so well. It keeps Aquas interested


Well not for me, I had a Cancer try this on me 3 years ago and I got really hungry. I basically told him never because he insulted my intelligence.

Anyway, he's still trying til this day, but I won't budge.




He slipped up somewhere then. This is how Cancers work. They aren’t manipulative when they actually do it when they like a person. It becomes a problem when they don’t like the person after doing it.

That’s when you get women crying over them.


Aquas see things coming from a mile away. At least I do. Aquas pay attention to everything.

That's why people are confused when we leave. It's because our spidey senses tingle on things that most people miss as a red flag, waayyy in advance of us getting concrete evidence.

I think Aqua women come off dumber or more naive than we actually are.

Edit: I don't know about the watery ones. They are much different from myself. I think their emotions override their logical side.
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Haha yeah she can always tell when im telling a half truth.. like, for example, me saying something dumb like "Im not tired" (a white lie in the moment) and she'll be like "shut up, you said you are always tired". And I'll be like "facts" lol. But mostly we mess with each other like that. Like the other day she said something and than quickly she was like "never mind, I lied" lol. it was cute. We know we cant lie with the little stuff, at least me with her for sure she is very smart I couldnt, and im a terrible lier anyway cause of my guilt. Ive been TOOOO honest at times. And we both respect each other very very much. But yeah she sees right through people. All aquas do, and they will put you in a "i dont trust you anymore" box without you even noticing. So I wouldnt even dare either way. Just want to have a good start with this woman.. Only thing is she doesnt quite always understand my sarcasm lol, but we are working on that.
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Posted by Arielle83

The fact that you love on everyone makes me think you’ve never really loved on anyone.

Meditate on that.

If it’s given freely, it really wasn’t hard to earn.


Also, must be nice to have had the privilege to be shown how to love by the adults in your life. Which sounds like you have been shown a lot of love if you feel like you are different than myself. See someone like myself needs to go through experiences to understand how to love, doesn’t mean that we are in capable of love. Just something we need to learn to navigate around. But again I wouldn’t expect somebody with the privilege to have known how to love their whole life to understand where I’m coming from. My only goal in life is to give Love as much as possible because it lacked so much in my life. Take that how you will but I’ll never give up on love and I’ll never stop loving any and every person I choose to love. This is where people get it twisted, especially cancer signs . Love is a choice and an action. We choose to love and we can choose to do so however much we want to in our lives . There is a feminist book called “ all about love “. I recommend it. To anybody


Dont mind what @Arielle83 said she was sweet in the beginning when she was asking about advice on her scorpio who she eventually married to stay in the usa and she became mean afterwards, but like they say if you dont have anything nice to say keep it to yourself, and for you and your lady all love and luck in the world xoxo


You serious?

I don’t live in the USA. And I didn’t marry anyone to stay anywhere.

It’s not okay for a man to be love bombing around, why is it ok for a female?

I’m saying if you throw that word around, you lose the meaning

Try being catty when u have the facts straight.

Don’t be making up rumours to make yourself self righteous.

Peace. X




AGAIN, Who is love bombing—? Just because Iv felt a lot of love doesnt mean I acted impulsively on expressing the words. Ive said "I love you " to 3 women in my life, two of which I said it first. One took me two years. The other 6 months. I never expressed in my post "should I tell her im in love??" I know the answer to that. I, in so many words, simply stated that I feel the love coming on. Who are you to guage who you love and how soon? Obviously you didnt read any response i sent from the previous post you trolled me on. If you read it maybe youd think twice on your choice of words but thats a huge expectation on an ass hole. Not to say I have truly loved every one. But if you read my last post a week ago, I told you that in the recent past I was off my meds as a bi polar woman and acting on impulse was a common thing for me. And that now its been over a year of putting in the work on my mental health, and on meds and I am extremely careful with everything I do and making sure my mind plays no tricks on me,and leaves destruction and messes. But NOTHING I ever posted suggested I love bombed anyoneeee ever. So I can only assume that, again, you are projecting maybe your own insecurities and character defects. Your lack of responses to me after I respond to you is an admission of guilt of your own actions, on its own merit. But maybe you are one of those who operate with ego over just admitting faults and denying accountability. I used to be like that so takes one to know one.I wish you sincerely luck in your emotional growth and spiritual journey. From woman to woman and cancer to cancer. God speed. Its not easy for us to find peace within our selves when we become jaded. And I wish for you that whatever you are currently going through, you are healed from quickly.


I don’t get every notification. I came back to this thread because I knew women were here to just be plain malicious as usual.

I just see you as a love addict and if you were off your meds then how do you sense what is real?

Every time someone questions you or your motives, you become nasty and personal.

Straight up, you are into someone every other month. I don’t care how you operate.

I just see infatuation. You get obsessive and have boundary issues.

I’m not jaded. I just see you as someone that drops their emotions on people and you expect them to take them.

It’s like all you care about is how you feel and you think your feelings and love should make these people grateful.

You’re fickle.

And I’m not projecting. I’m reserved with expressing my emotions. I take my time because love takes time.

No one wants the responsibility of having to deal with the weight of someone’s feelings when they aren’t ready.

Go sell your nasty defensive crap elsewhere.

I’m skeptical of your true motives.

Bipolar cancer or not. You need something from these people.

It isn’t sincere.
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Again. You are projecting. Ive literally spoken of the same 4 women in the last 2 years on DXP. WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT—? You obviously hate me for some reason. But love me or hate me, it's still an obsession 😉
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Posted by Arielle83

Posted by WaterDevil

Posted by Arielle83

Posted by lilyofthevalley987

Posted by WaterDevil

Posted by Arielle83

The fact that you love on everyone makes me think you’ve never really loved on anyone.

Meditate on that.

If it’s given freely, it really wasn’t hard to earn.


Also, must be nice to have had the privilege to be shown how to love by the adults in your life. Which sounds like you have been shown a lot of love if you feel like you are different than myself. See someone like myself needs to go through experiences to understand how to love, doesn’t mean that we are in capable of love. Just something we need to learn to navigate around. But again I wouldn’t expect somebody with the privilege to have known how to love their whole life to understand where I’m coming from. My only goal in life is to give Love as much as possible because it lacked so much in my life. Take that how you will but I’ll never give up on love and I’ll never stop loving any and every person I choose to love. This is where people get it twisted, especially cancer signs . Love is a choice and an action. We choose to love and we can choose to do so however much we want to in our lives . There is a feminist book called “ all about love “. I recommend it. To anybody


Dont mind what @Arielle83 said she was sweet in the beginning when she was asking about advice on her scorpio who she eventually married to stay in the usa and she became mean afterwards, but like they say if you dont have anything nice to say keep it to yourself, and for you and your lady all love and luck in the world xoxo


You serious?

I don’t live in the USA. And I didn’t marry anyone to stay anywhere.

It’s not okay for a man to be love bombing around, why is it ok for a female?

I’m saying if you throw that word around, you lose the meaning

Try being catty when u have the facts straight.

Don’t be making up rumours to make yourself self righteous.

Peace. X




AGAIN, Who is love bombing—? Just because Iv felt a lot of love doesnt mean I acted impulsively on expressing the words. Ive said "I love you " to 3 women in my life, two of which I said it first. One took me two years. The other 6 months. I never expressed in my post "should I tell her im in love??" I know the answer to that. I, in so many words, simply stated that I feel the love coming on. Who are you to guage who you love and how soon? Obviously you didnt read any response i sent from the previous post you trolled me on. If you read it maybe youd think twice on your choice of words but thats a huge expectation on an ass hole. Not to say I have truly loved every one. But if you read my last post a week ago, I told you that in the recent past I was off my meds as a bi polar woman and acting on impulse was a common thing for me. And that now its been over a year of putting in the work on my mental health, and on meds and I am extremely careful with everything I do and making sure my mind plays no tricks on me,and leaves destruction and messes. But NOTHING I ever posted suggested I love bombed anyoneeee ever. So I can only assume that, again, you are projecting maybe your own insecurities and character defects. Your lack of responses to me after I respond to you is an admission of guilt of your own actions, on its own merit. But maybe you are one of those who operate with ego over just admitting faults and denying accountability. I used to be like that so takes one to know one.I wish you sincerely luck in your emotional growth and spiritual journey. From woman to woman and cancer to cancer. God speed. Its not easy for us to find peace within our selves when we become jaded. And I wish for you that whatever you are currently going through, you are healed from quickly.


I don’t get every notification. I came back to this thread because I knew women were here to just be plain malicious as usual.

I just see you as a love addict and if you were off your meds then how do you sense what is real?

Every time someone questions you or your motives, you become nasty and personal.

Straight up, you are into someone every other month. I don’t care how you operate.

I just see infatuation. You get obsessive and have boundary issues.

I’m not jaded. I just see you as someone that drops their emotions on people and you expect them to take them.

It’s like all you care about is how you feel and you think your feelings and love should make these people grateful.

You’re fickle.

And I’m not projecting. I’m reserved with expressing my emotions. I take my time because love takes time.

No one wants the responsibility of having to deal with the weight of someone’s feelings when they aren’t ready.

Go sell your nasty defensive crap elsewhere.

I’m skeptical of your true motives.

Bipolar cancer or not. You need something from these people.

It isn’t sincere.
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Again. You are projecting. Ive literally spoken of the same 4 women in the last 2 years on DXP. WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT—? You obviously hate me for some reason. But love me or hate me, it's still an obsession 😉
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Posted by Arielle83

And questioning someone’s integrity isn’t “trolling”.

Look at yourself.

Telling 3 people you love them, and then thinking you’re in love with new people every other month?

Infatuation isn’t love.






"every other month" lol you got receipts bitch? obviously you have inflated your head so much it's about to explode. And acting like you care about anything other than tryna break me down shows character and is embarrassing to watch. Im embarrassed for you. Because we both know you don't give a fuck about the "victims" as you claim them to be. Yeah you damn right im tryna get something out of this. Someone who accepts my love. Da fukkkkkkkk is your problem yo— Do you even reread what you write? you are an ASS HOLE. And you can try and spin it any way you like. I stand by my theory, you have been called a manipulative, narcissistic emotional vampire by someone you care about, and now you are looking to call that out in other people. Law of attraction sweetheart, mayb if you welcome more love in your life you'll see more of it. Now all you see is the hatred in your soul. Shame. God speed. Talk to me when you have receipts fool.
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Posted by Arielle83

And questioning someone’s integrity isn’t “trolling”.

Look at yourself.

Telling 3 people you love them, and then thinking you’re in love with new people every other month?

Infatuation isn’t love.






"every other month" lol you got receipts bitch? obviously you have inflated your head so much it's about to explode. And acting like you care about anything other than tryna break me down shows character and is embarrassing to watch. Im embarrassed for you. Because we both know you don't give a fuck about the "victims" as you claim them to be. Yeah you damn right im tryna get something out of this. Someone who accepts my love. Da fukkkkkkkk is your problem yo— Do you even reread what you write? you are an ASS HOLE. And you can try and spin it any way you like. I stand by my theory, you have been called a manipulative, narcissistic emotional vampire by someone you care about, and now you are looking to call that out in other people. Law of attraction sweetheart, mayb if you welcome more love in your life you'll see more of it. Now all you see is the hatred in your soul. Shame. God speed. Talk to me when you have receipts fool.
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Posted by Arielle83

And questioning someone’s integrity isn’t “trolling”.

Look at yourself.

Telling 3 people you love them, and then thinking you’re in love with new people every other month?

Infatuation isn’t love.






"every other month" lol you got receipts bitch? obviously you have inflated your head so much it's about to explode. And acting like you care about anything other than tryna break me down shows character and is embarrassing to watch. Im embarrassed for you. Because we both know you don't give a fuck about the "victims" as you claim them to be. Yeah you damn right im tryna get something out of this. Someone who accepts my love. Da fukkkkkkkk is your problem yo— Do you even reread what you write? you are an ASS HOLE. And you can try and spin it any way you like. I stand by my theory, you have been called a manipulative, narcissistic emotional vampire by someone you care about, and now you are looking to call that out in other people. Law of attraction sweetheart, mayb if you welcome more love in your life you'll see more of it. Now all you see is the hatred in your soul. Shame. God speed. Talk to me when you have receipts fool.
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Posted by Arielle83

Posted by WaterDevil

Posted by Arielle83

Posted by WaterDevil

Posted by Arielle83

Posted by lilyofthevalley987

Posted by WaterDevil

Posted by Arielle83

The fact that you love on everyone makes me think you’ve never really loved on anyone.

Meditate on that.

If it’s given freely, it really wasn’t hard to earn.


Also, must be nice to have had the privilege to be shown how to love by the adults in your life. Which sounds like you have been shown a lot of love if you feel like you are different than myself. See someone like myself needs to go through experiences to understand how to love, doesn’t mean that we are in capable of love. Just something we need to learn to navigate around. But again I wouldn’t expect somebody with the privilege to have known how to love their whole life to understand where I’m coming from. My only goal in life is to give Love as much as possible because it lacked so much in my life. Take that how you will but I’ll never give up on love and I’ll never stop loving any and every person I choose to love. This is where people get it twisted, especially cancer signs . Love is a choice and an action. We choose to love and we can choose to do so however much we want to in our lives . There is a feminist book called “ all about love “. I recommend it. To anybody


Dont mind what @Arielle83 said she was sweet in the beginning when she was asking about advice on her scorpio who she eventually married to stay in the usa and she became mean afterwards, but like they say if you dont have anything nice to say keep it to yourself, and for you and your lady all love and luck in the world xoxo


You serious?

I don’t live in the USA. And I didn’t marry anyone to stay anywhere.

It’s not okay for a man to be love bombing around, why is it ok for a female?

I’m saying if you throw that word around, you lose the meaning

Try being catty when u have the facts straight.

Don’t be making up rumours to make yourself self righteous.

Peace. X




AGAIN, Who is love bombing—? Just because Iv felt a lot of love doesnt mean I acted impulsively on expressing the words. Ive said "I love you " to 3 women in my life, two of which I said it first. One took me two years. The other 6 months. I never expressed in my post "should I tell her im in love??" I know the answer to that. I, in so many words, simply stated that I feel the love coming on. Who are you to guage who you love and how soon? Obviously you didnt read any response i sent from the previous post you trolled me on. If you read it maybe youd think twice on your choice of words but thats a huge expectation on an ass hole. Not to say I have truly loved every one. But if you read my last post a week ago, I told you that in the recent past I was off my meds as a bi polar woman and acting on impulse was a common thing for me. And that now its been over a year of putting in the work on my mental health, and on meds and I am extremely careful with everything I do and making sure my mind plays no tricks on me,and leaves destruction and messes. But NOTHING I ever posted suggested I love bombed anyoneeee ever. So I can only assume that, again, you are projecting maybe your own insecurities and character defects. Your lack of responses to me after I respond to you is an admission of guilt of your own actions, on its own merit. But maybe you are one of those who operate with ego over just admitting faults and denying accountability. I used to be like that so takes one to know one.I wish you sincerely luck in your emotional growth and spiritual journey. From woman to woman and cancer to cancer. God speed. Its not easy for us to find peace within our selves when we become jaded. And I wish for you that whatever you are currently going through, you are healed from quickly.


I don’t get every notification. I came back to this thread because I knew women were here to just be plain malicious as usual.

I just see you as a love addict and if you were off your meds then how do you sense what is real?

Every time someone questions you or your motives, you become nasty and personal.

Straight up, you are into someone every other month. I don’t care how you operate.

I just see infatuation. You get obsessive and have boundary issues.

I’m not jaded. I just see you as someone that drops their emotions on people and you expect them to take them.

It’s like all you care about is how you feel and you think your feelings and love should make these people grateful.

You’re fickle.

And I’m not projecting. I’m reserved with expressing my emotions. I take my time because love takes time.

No one wants the responsibility of having to deal with the weight of someone’s feelings when they aren’t ready.

Go sell your nasty defensive crap elsewhere.

I’m skeptical of your true motives.

Bipolar cancer or not. You need something from these people.

It isn’t sincere.


Again. You are projecting. Ive literally spoken of the same 4 women in the last 2 years on DXP. WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT—? You obviously hate me for some reason. But love me or hate me, it's still an obsession 😉


It’s not that deep.

You’d have to know me to assume I’m projecting.

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And you'd have to know me to know if im sincere. 😉
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Posted by Arielle83

Posted by WaterDevil

Posted by Arielle83

Posted by WaterDevil

Posted by Arielle83

Posted by WaterDevil

Posted by Arielle83

Posted by lilyofthevalley987

Posted by WaterDevil

Posted by Arielle83

The fact that you love on everyone makes me think you’ve never really loved on anyone.

Meditate on that.

If it’s given freely, it really wasn’t hard to earn.


Also, must be nice to have had the privilege to be shown how to love by the adults in your life. Which sounds like you have been shown a lot of love if you feel like you are different than myself. See someone like myself needs to go through experiences to understand how to love, doesn’t mean that we are in capable of love. Just something we need to learn to navigate around. But again I wouldn’t expect somebody with the privilege to have known how to love their whole life to understand where I’m coming from. My only goal in life is to give Love as much as possible because it lacked so much in my life. Take that how you will but I’ll never give up on love and I’ll never stop loving any and every person I choose to love. This is where people get it twisted, especially cancer signs . Love is a choice and an action. We choose to love and we can choose to do so however much we want to in our lives . There is a feminist book called “ all about love “. I recommend it. To anybody


Dont mind what @Arielle83 said she was sweet in the beginning when she was asking about advice on her scorpio who she eventually married to stay in the usa and she became mean afterwards, but like they say if you dont have anything nice to say keep it to yourself, and for you and your lady all love and luck in the world xoxo


You serious?

I don’t live in the USA. And I didn’t marry anyone to stay anywhere.

It’s not okay for a man to be love bombing around, why is it ok for a female?

I’m saying if you throw that word around, you lose the meaning

Try being catty when u have the facts straight.

Don’t be making up rumours to make yourself self righteous.

Peace. X




AGAIN, Who is love bombing—? Just because Iv felt a lot of love doesnt mean I acted impulsively on expressing the words. Ive said "I love you " to 3 women in my life, two of which I said it first. One took me two years. The other 6 months. I never expressed in my post "should I tell her im in love??" I know the answer to that. I, in so many words, simply stated that I feel the love coming on. Who are you to guage who you love and how soon? Obviously you didnt read any response i sent from the previous post you trolled me on. If you read it maybe youd think twice on your choice of words but thats a huge expectation on an ass hole. Not to say I have truly loved every one. But if you read my last post a week ago, I told you that in the recent past I was off my meds as a bi polar woman and acting on impulse was a common thing for me. And that now its been over a year of putting in the work on my mental health, and on meds and I am extremely careful with everything I do and making sure my mind plays no tricks on me,and leaves destruction and messes. But NOTHING I ever posted suggested I love bombed anyoneeee ever. So I can only assume that, again, you are projecting maybe your own insecurities and character defects. Your lack of responses to me after I respond to you is an admission of guilt of your own actions, on its own merit. But maybe you are one of those who operate with ego over just admitting faults and denying accountability. I used to be like that so takes one to know one.I wish you sincerely luck in your emotional growth and spiritual journey. From woman to woman and cancer to cancer. God speed. Its not easy for us to find peace within our selves when we become jaded. And I wish for you that whatever you are currently going through, you are healed from quickly.


I don’t get every notification. I came back to this thread because I knew women were here to just be plain malicious as usual.

I just see you as a love addict and if you were off your meds then how do you sense what is real?

Every time someone questions you or your motives, you become nasty and personal.

Straight up, you are into someone every other month. I don’t care how you operate.

I just see infatuation. You get obsessive and have boundary issues.

I’m not jaded. I just see you as someone that drops their emotions on people and you expect them to take them.

It’s like all you care about is how you feel and you think your feelings and love should make these people grateful.

You’re fickle.

And I’m not projecting. I’m reserved with expressing my emotions. I take my time because love takes time.

No one wants the responsibility of having to deal with the weight of someone’s feelings when they aren’t ready.

Go sell your nasty defensive crap elsewhere.

I’m skeptical of your true motives.

Bipolar cancer or not. You need something from these people.

It isn’t sincere.


Again. You are projecting. Ive literally spoken of the same 4 women in the last 2 years on DXP. WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT—? You obviously hate me for some reason. But love me or hate me, it's still an obsession 😉


It’s not that deep.

You’d have to know me to assume I’m projecting.




And you'd have to know me to know if im sincere. 😉


I think you think you’re sincere.
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I think you think too much about me. Get off DXP and go volunteer somewhere if you really care that much about the greater good.
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Posted by Arielle83

Posted by WaterDevil

Posted by Arielle83

Posted by WaterDevil

Posted by Arielle83

Posted by WaterDevil

Posted by Arielle83

Posted by lilyofthevalley987

Posted by WaterDevil

Posted by Arielle83

The fact that you love on everyone makes me think you’ve never really loved on anyone.

Meditate on that.

If it’s given freely, it really wasn’t hard to earn.


Also, must be nice to have had the privilege to be shown how to love by the adults in your life. Which sounds like you have been shown a lot of love if you feel like you are different than myself. See someone like myself needs to go through experiences to understand how to love, doesn’t mean that we are in capable of love. Just something we need to learn to navigate around. But again I wouldn’t expect somebody with the privilege to have known how to love their whole life to understand where I’m coming from. My only goal in life is to give Love as much as possible because it lacked so much in my life. Take that how you will but I’ll never give up on love and I’ll never stop loving any and every person I choose to love. This is where people get it twisted, especially cancer signs . Love is a choice and an action. We choose to love and we can choose to do so however much we want to in our lives . There is a feminist book called “ all about love “. I recommend it. To anybody


Dont mind what @Arielle83 said she was sweet in the beginning when she was asking about advice on her scorpio who she eventually married to stay in the usa and she became mean afterwards, but like they say if you dont have anything nice to say keep it to yourself, and for you and your lady all love and luck in the world xoxo


You serious?

I don’t live in the USA. And I didn’t marry anyone to stay anywhere.

It’s not okay for a man to be love bombing around, why is it ok for a female?

I’m saying if you throw that word around, you lose the meaning

Try being catty when u have the facts straight.

Don’t be making up rumours to make yourself self righteous.

Peace. X




AGAIN, Who is love bombing—? Just because Iv felt a lot of love doesnt mean I acted impulsively on expressing the words. Ive said "I love you " to 3 women in my life, two of which I said it first. One took me two years. The other 6 months. I never expressed in my post "should I tell her im in love??" I know the answer to that. I, in so many words, simply stated that I feel the love coming on. Who are you to guage who you love and how soon? Obviously you didnt read any response i sent from the previous post you trolled me on. If you read it maybe youd think twice on your choice of words but thats a huge expectation on an ass hole. Not to say I have truly loved every one. But if you read my last post a week ago, I told you that in the recent past I was off my meds as a bi polar woman and acting on impulse was a common thing for me. And that now its been over a year of putting in the work on my mental health, and on meds and I am extremely careful with everything I do and making sure my mind plays no tricks on me,and leaves destruction and messes. But NOTHING I ever posted suggested I love bombed anyoneeee ever. So I can only assume that, again, you are projecting maybe your own insecurities and character defects. Your lack of responses to me after I respond to you is an admission of guilt of your own actions, on its own merit. But maybe you are one of those who operate with ego over just admitting faults and denying accountability. I used to be like that so takes one to know one.I wish you sincerely luck in your emotional growth and spiritual journey. From woman to woman and cancer to cancer. God speed. Its not easy for us to find peace within our selves when we become jaded. And I wish for you that whatever you are currently going through, you are healed from quickly.


I don’t get every notification. I came back to this thread because I knew women were here to just be plain malicious as usual.

I just see you as a love addict and if you were off your meds then how do you sense what is real?

Every time someone questions you or your motives, you become nasty and personal.

Straight up, you are into someone every other month. I don’t care how you operate.

I just see infatuation. You get obsessive and have boundary issues.

I’m not jaded. I just see you as someone that drops their emotions on people and you expect them to take them.

It’s like all you care about is how you feel and you think your feelings and love should make these people grateful.

You’re fickle.

And I’m not projecting. I’m reserved with expressing my emotions. I take my time because love takes time.

No one wants the responsibility of having to deal with the weight of someone’s feelings when they aren’t ready.

Go sell your nasty defensive crap elsewhere.

I’m skeptical of your true motives.

Bipolar cancer or not. You need something from these people.

It isn’t sincere.


Again. You are projecting. Ive literally spoken of the same 4 women in the last 2 years on DXP. WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT—? You obviously hate me for some reason. But love me or hate me, it's still an obsession 😉


It’s not that deep.

You’d have to know me to assume I’m projecting.




And you'd have to know me to know if im sincere. 😉


I think you think you’re sincere.
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Again, Must be nice to be privileged with all this emotional maturity guru Arielle, will you please enlighten me?? My therapist keeps telling me im a pure soul but I dont believe her. You must know though right? I mean you know me so well. Please oh Arielle, oh great one, please help me! I need to cure my insincere heart of coal before I hurt more people! My love bombing (as you call it) is truly dangerous! help me oh pure one! please help me!!!!! Side note.... I bet you only call your mom when you need money. You sound like one of those.
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The other night I slept over and couldn’t sleep. But I held her all night while she was dreaming her dreams. And every inkling of my body just wanted to whisper “I love you” in her ear... and when she’s awake I just replace that phrase.. “I ADORE you” I’ll say, just as to not slip up. (Learned that trick from a friend lol).

As some of you who have kept track of my love life, you’ll know I either fall in love first sight, or not at all... but this aqua... well everything we have been doing thus far has been so healthy. And slowwwww. With LOTS and space.

When we woke up this morning for example; she got up at 6 and started getting ready for her day. Shortly after I got up and staid in her room to do my rituals (meditate, cleanse, write, smoke ect.)

We were by ourselves but together at the same time. In the same space, but not in each other’s space.

She even texted me later “I was so peaceful with you last night, and you fit right in to my routine.”

Ugh.. I’m just so afraid of love at this point... and I know we both are definitely not trying to jump in to things rn, for our own reasons. And we’ve talked about that. And I know, that love has no time frame. But I don’t know, maybe it’s not love quite yet? But whatever this is... it’s ok it feels like it’s on its way. Either way I’ll take it for what it is right now. So far. So good. So fun. Xo


That's really sweet ...but now say ' i love you ' 😛
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Not yet!! But I feel it hehe
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Posted by Arielle83

Posted by WaterDevil

Posted by Arielle83

Posted by WaterDevil

Posted by Arielle83

Posted by WaterDevil

Posted by Arielle83

Posted by WaterDevil

Posted by Arielle83

Posted by lilyofthevalley987

Posted by WaterDevil

Posted by Arielle83

The fact that you love on everyone makes me think you’ve never really loved on anyone.

Meditate on that.

If it’s given freely, it really wasn’t hard to earn.


Also, must be nice to have had the privilege to be shown how to love by the adults in your life. Which sounds like you have been shown a lot of love if you feel like you are different than myself. See someone like myself needs to go through experiences to understand how to love, doesn’t mean that we are in capable of love. Just something we need to learn to navigate around. But again I wouldn’t expect somebody with the privilege to have known how to love their whole life to understand where I’m coming from. My only goal in life is to give Love as much as possible because it lacked so much in my life. Take that how you will but I’ll never give up on love and I’ll never stop loving any and every person I choose to love. This is where people get it twisted, especially cancer signs . Love is a choice and an action. We choose to love and we can choose to do so however much we want to in our lives . There is a feminist book called “ all about love “. I recommend it. To anybody


Dont mind what @Arielle83 said she was sweet in the beginning when she was asking about advice on her scorpio who she eventually married to stay in the usa and she became mean afterwards, but like they say if you dont have anything nice to say keep it to yourself, and for you and your lady all love and luck in the world xoxo


You serious?

I don’t live in the USA. And I didn’t marry anyone to stay anywhere.

It’s not okay for a man to be love bombing around, why is it ok for a female?

I’m saying if you throw that word around, you lose the meaning

Try being catty when u have the facts straight.

Don’t be making up rumours to make yourself self righteous.

Peace. X




AGAIN, Who is love bombing—? Just because Iv felt a lot of love doesnt mean I acted impulsively on expressing the words. Ive said "I love you " to 3 women in my life, two of which I said it first. One took me two years. The other 6 months. I never expressed in my post "should I tell her im in love??" I know the answer to that. I, in so many words, simply stated that I feel the love coming on. Who are you to guage who you love and how soon? Obviously you didnt read any response i sent from the previous post you trolled me on. If you read it maybe youd think twice on your choice of words but thats a huge expectation on an ass hole. Not to say I have truly loved every one. But if you read my last post a week ago, I told you that in the recent past I was off my meds as a bi polar woman and acting on impulse was a common thing for me. And that now its been over a year of putting in the work on my mental health, and on meds and I am extremely careful with everything I do and making sure my mind plays no tricks on me,and leaves destruction and messes. But NOTHING I ever posted suggested I love bombed anyoneeee ever. So I can only assume that, again, you are projecting maybe your own insecurities and character defects. Your lack of responses to me after I respond to you is an admission of guilt of your own actions, on its own merit. But maybe you are one of those who operate with ego over just admitting faults and denying accountability. I used to be like that so takes one to know one.I wish you sincerely luck in your emotional growth and spiritual journey. From woman to woman and cancer to cancer. God speed. Its not easy for us to find peace within our selves when we become jaded. And I wish for you that whatever you are currently going through, you are healed from quickly.


I don’t get every notification. I came back to this thread because I knew women were here to just be plain malicious as usual.

I just see you as a love addict and if you were off your meds then how do you sense what is real?

Every time someone questions you or your motives, you become nasty and personal.

Straight up, you are into someone every other month. I don’t care how you operate.

I just see infatuation. You get obsessive and have boundary issues.

I’m not jaded. I just see you as someone that drops their emotions on people and you expect them to take them.

It’s like all you care about is how you feel and you think your feelings and love should make these people grateful.

You’re fickle.

And I’m not projecting. I’m reserved with expressing my emotions. I take my time because love takes time.

No one wants the responsibility of having to deal with the weight of someone’s feelings when they aren’t ready.

Go sell your nasty defensive crap elsewhere.

I’m skeptical of your true motives.

Bipolar cancer or not. You need something from these people.

It isn’t sincere.


Again. You are projecting. Ive literally spoken of the same 4 women in the last 2 years on DXP. WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT—? You obviously hate me for some reason. But love me or hate me, it's still an obsession 😉


It’s not that deep.

You’d have to know me to assume I’m projecting.




And you'd have to know me to know if im sincere. 😉


I think you think you’re sincere.


Again, Must be nice to be privileged with all this emotional maturity guru Arielle, will you please enlighten me?? My therapist keeps telling me im a pure soul but I dont believe her. You must know though right? I mean you know me so well. Please oh Arielle, oh great one, please help me! I need to cure my insincere heart of coal before I hurt more people! My love bombing (as you call it) is truly dangerous! help me oh pure one! please help me!!!!! Side note.... I bet you only call your mom when you need money. You sound like one of those.


Here you go with your nastiness.

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Ok Petty Labelle. I’m just tryna speak your language here. Since you fail to respond to anything valid I expressed to you, and have any kind of open view point or dialouge with me whatsoever. You are a HATERR. Now kindly get off my thread unless you want to keep being obsessed over a thread that’s supposed to be happy. You are literally a downer and everyone on this thread commented on that. You are salty. You are hating. And you are defensive. You lack introspection and perspective of timeline. Not to mention context of my multiple involvement in non monogamy and polyamory, your lack of acknowledgement of it shows you think it’s not valid that I can love multiple people at once. Love comes in many shapes and forms, and as I said. Just because people have a past doesn’t mean they are their past. I know who I am. Where I’ve been. And how I’ve grown. Question is. Do you know who you are? Now kindly gtfo my thread before I start thinking you’re in love with me.
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The other night I slept over and couldn’t sleep. But I held her all night while she was dreaming her dreams. And every inkling of my body just wanted to whisper “I love you” in her ear... and when she’s awake I just replace that phrase.. “I ADORE you” I’ll say, just as to not slip up. (Learned that trick from a friend lol).

As some of you who have kept track of my love life, you’ll know I either fall in love first sight, or not at all... but this aqua... well everything we have been doing thus far has been so healthy. And slowwwww. With LOTS and space.

When we woke up this morning for example; she got up at 6 and started getting ready for her day. Shortly after I got up and staid in her room to do my rituals (meditate, cleanse, write, smoke ect.)

We were by ourselves but together at the same time. In the same space, but not in each other’s space.

She even texted me later “I was so peaceful with you last night, and you fit right in to my routine.”

Ugh.. I’m just so afraid of love at this point... and I know we both are definitely not trying to jump in to things rn, for our own reasons. And we’ve talked about that. And I know, that love has no time frame. But I don’t know, maybe it’s not love quite yet? But whatever this is... it’s ok it feels like it’s on its way. Either way I’ll take it for what it is right now. So far. So good. So fun. Xo


That's really sweet ...but now say ' i love you ' 😛


Not yet!! But I feel it hehe


Better to feel it and she knows without your saying.
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No sense in rushing with her. Feels really really right just how it is and how we are. For what it is and how long it lasts. I get butterflies each time I think about how amazing she is
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The other night I slept over and couldn’t sleep. But I held her all night while she was dreaming her dreams. And every inkling of my body just wanted to whisper “I love you” in her ear... and when she’s awake I just replace that phrase.. “I ADORE you” I’ll say, just as to not slip up. (Learned that trick from a friend lol).

As some of you who have kept track of my love life, you’ll know I either fall in love first sight, or not at all... but this aqua... well everything we have been doing thus far has been so healthy. And slowwwww. With LOTS and space.

When we woke up this morning for example; she got up at 6 and started getting ready for her day. Shortly after I got up and staid in her room to do my rituals (meditate, cleanse, write, smoke ect.)

We were by ourselves but together at the same time. In the same space, but not in each other’s space.

She even texted me later “I was so peaceful with you last night, and you fit right in to my routine.”

Ugh.. I’m just so afraid of love at this point... and I know we both are definitely not trying to jump in to things rn, for our own reasons. And we’ve talked about that. And I know, that love has no time frame. But I don’t know, maybe it’s not love quite yet? But whatever this is... it’s ok it feels like it’s on its way. Either way I’ll take it for what it is right now. So far. So good. So fun. Xo


That's really sweet ...but now say ' i love you ' 😛


Not yet!! But I feel it hehe


Better to feel it and she knows without your saying.


No sense in rushing with her. Feels really really right just how it is and how we are. For what it is and how long it lasts. I get butterflies each time I think about how amazing she is


I am so happy for you Water Devil 🙂 You deserve happiness. What sign are you may i ask?
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Omg that warmed my heart so much just now thank you 😭😭😭. ♥️♥️♥️. And I’m a cancer sun, sag moon and libra rising. Xo. I truly appreciate the support so so much
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Posted by Neshama

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The other night I slept over and couldn’t sleep. But I held her all night while she was dreaming her dreams. And every inkling of my body just wanted to whisper “I love you” in her ear... and when she’s awake I just replace that phrase.. “I ADORE you” I’ll say, just as to not slip up. (Learned that trick from a friend lol).

As some of you who have kept track of my love life, you’ll know I either fall in love first sight, or not at all... but this aqua... well everything we have been doing thus far has been so healthy. And slowwwww. With LOTS and space.

When we woke up this morning for example; she got up at 6 and started getting ready for her day. Shortly after I got up and staid in her room to do my rituals (meditate, cleanse, write, smoke ect.)

We were by ourselves but together at the same time. In the same space, but not in each other’s space.

She even texted me later “I was so peaceful with you last night, and you fit right in to my routine.”

Ugh.. I’m just so afraid of love at this point... and I know we both are definitely not trying to jump in to things rn, for our own reasons. And we’ve talked about that. And I know, that love has no time frame. But I don’t know, maybe it’s not love quite yet? But whatever this is... it’s ok it feels like it’s on its way. Either way I’ll take it for what it is right now. So far. So good. So fun. Xo


That's really sweet ...but now say ' i love you ' 😛


Not yet!! But I feel it hehe


Better to feel it and she knows without your saying.


No sense in rushing with her. Feels really really right just how it is and how we are. For what it is and how long it lasts. I get butterflies each time I think about how amazing she is


I am so happy for you Water Devil 🙂 You deserve happiness. What sign are you may i ask?


Omg that warmed my heart so much just now thank you 😭😭😭. ♥️♥️♥️. And I’m a cancer sun, sag moon and libra rising. Xo. I truly appreciate the support so so much


Awh you are a lovely person. 🙂
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Awwwwwwww ! You know (and you might) NESHAMA means SOUL on my language. And seems a fitting name for you xoxo
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The other night I slept over and couldn’t sleep. But I held her all night while she was dreaming her dreams. And every inkling of my body just wanted to whisper “I love you” in her ear... and when she’s awake I just replace that phrase.. “I ADORE you” I’ll say, just as to not slip up. (Learned that trick from a friend lol).

As some of you who have kept track of my love life, you’ll know I either fall in love first sight, or not at all... but this aqua... well everything we have been doing thus far has been so healthy. And slowwwww. With LOTS and space.

When we woke up this morning for example; she got up at 6 and started getting ready for her day. Shortly after I got up and staid in her room to do my rituals (meditate, cleanse, write, smoke ect.)

We were by ourselves but together at the same time. In the same space, but not in each other’s space.

She even texted me later “I was so peaceful with you last night, and you fit right in to my routine.”

Ugh.. I’m just so afraid of love at this point... and I know we both are definitely not trying to jump in to things rn, for our own reasons. And we’ve talked about that. And I know, that love has no time frame. But I don’t know, maybe it’s not love quite yet? But whatever this is... it’s ok it feels like it’s on its way. Either way I’ll take it for what it is right now. So far. So good. So fun. Xo


That's really sweet ...but now say ' i love you ' 😛


Not yet!! But I feel it hehe


Better to feel it and she knows without your saying.


No sense in rushing with her. Feels really really right just how it is and how we are. For what it is and how long it lasts. I get butterflies each time I think about how amazing she is


I am so happy for you Water Devil 🙂 You deserve happiness. What sign are you may i ask?


Omg that warmed my heart so much just now thank you 😭😭😭. ♥️♥️♥️. And I’m a cancer sun, sag moon and libra rising. Xo. I truly appreciate the support so so much


Awh you are a lovely person. 🙂


Awwwwwwww ! You know (and you might) NESHAMA means SOUL on my language. And seems a fitting name for you xoxo


You speak hebrew? You're israeli?

Yes i know 🙂 My mom is jewish 🙂
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Yes and yes! Both 🙂
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The other night I slept over and couldn’t sleep. But I held her all night while she was dreaming her dreams. And every inkling of my body just wanted to whisper “I love you” in her ear... and when she’s awake I just replace that phrase.. “I ADORE you” I’ll say, just as to not slip up. (Learned that trick from a friend lol).

As some of you who have kept track of my love life, you’ll know I either fall in love first sight, or not at all... but this aqua... well everything we have been doing thus far has been so healthy. And slowwwww. With LOTS and space.

When we woke up this morning for example; she got up at 6 and started getting ready for her day. Shortly after I got up and staid in her room to do my rituals (meditate, cleanse, write, smoke ect.)

We were by ourselves but together at the same time. In the same space, but not in each other’s space.

She even texted me later “I was so peaceful with you last night, and you fit right in to my routine.”

Ugh.. I’m just so afraid of love at this point... and I know we both are definitely not trying to jump in to things rn, for our own reasons. And we’ve talked about that. And I know, that love has no time frame. But I don’t know, maybe it’s not love quite yet? But whatever this is... it’s ok it feels like it’s on its way. Either way I’ll take it for what it is right now. So far. So good. So fun. Xo


That's really sweet ...but now say ' i love you ' 😛


Not yet!! But I feel it hehe


Better to feel it and she knows without your saying.


No sense in rushing with her. Feels really really right just how it is and how we are. For what it is and how long it lasts. I get butterflies each time I think about how amazing she is


I am so happy for you Water Devil 🙂 You deserve happiness. What sign are you may i ask?


Omg that warmed my heart so much just now thank you 😭😭😭. ♥️♥️♥️. And I’m a cancer sun, sag moon and libra rising. Xo. I truly appreciate the support so so much


Awh you are a lovely person. 🙂


Awwwwwwww ! You know (and you might) NESHAMA means SOUL on my language. And seems a fitting name for you xoxo


You speak hebrew? You're israeli?

Yes i know 🙂 My mom is jewish 🙂


Yes and yes! Both 🙂


Cool! Good luck with your lady water devil ! 🙂
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Thank yewwwwwwwwwwwwwwww
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Damn this thread went south real quick. If people don’t like what you post why are they even bothering .. with reading your post?

Anyways I ship cancers and aquas. 🙋🏻‍♀️


I think they are a great match too. And the whole love bombing thing is actually what works well with Aquas. Aquas need to be secured quick or they move on.


We don't want love bombing, but you are correct in saying that we need to feel secure quick or we move on. We don't like coy, shy, intimidated, hung up on someone before us or eyes for another. No siree bob!
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So so true. Well said
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Damn this thread went south real quick. If people don’t like what you post why are they even bothering .. with reading your post?

Anyways I ship cancers and aquas. 🙋🏻‍♀️


I think they are a great match too. And the whole love bombing thing is actually what works well with Aquas. Aquas need to be secured quick or they move on.


We don't want love bombing, but you are correct in saying that we need to feel secure quick or we move on. We don't like coy, shy, intimidated, hung up on someone before us or eyes for another. No siree bob!

So so true. Well said
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Aqua is moon in Pisces like you!
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I think if you vibing that well go for it and see where it takes you

For troubled Pisces moons (i find the placement hard for ppl) peace is paramount so that's a compliment


I’m an Aqua/Pisces moon and Mamba is so right about that being a compliment.


“Aquariancrybaby” great name lol
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Thank you!!
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Damn this thread went south real quick. If people don’t like what you post why are they even bothering .. with reading your post?

Anyways I ship cancers and aquas. 🙋🏻‍♀️


I think they are a great match too. And the whole love bombing thing is actually what works well with Aquas. Aquas need to be secured quick or they move on.


We don't want love bombing, but you are correct in saying that we need to feel secure quick or we move on. We don't like coy, shy, intimidated, hung up on someone before us or eyes for another. No siree bob!
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Truth!! Love bombing, to me, comes across as needy, clingy vibe. I become wary of people like that.
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haunt said: ... I ship cancers and aquas. 🙋🏻‍♀️

... the whole love bombing thing is actually what works well with Aquas. Aquas need to be secured quick or they move on.

We don't want love bombing, ... we need to feel secure quick or we move on. ...

Truth!! Love bombing, to me, comes across as needy, clingy vibe. I become wary of people like that.
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since 2008 I read such mentions. He/she who can read and synthesize could be very thankful for the input. And state it.

feel secure quickly? change own character to become "afraid of the unknown" so that OP feels at home? move on?

How can somebody give security to someone else if she/he has doubts or fear?