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I have no pride.... try that! Nothing attracts a man like desperation... can’t peomise you’ll like what comes around though....
Not for a Cap Venus..
You don’t count. You’re actively avoiding relationships.
True, but doesn't your Aqua also have a Cap Venus or did I confused yours with @saggurl88 's?
Oh he does... but I figured out what he likes. He likes stable and dependable. My calmness and ability to communicate in a reasonable manner draws him in.

I don’t think he or I are desperate.. we both can’t seem to move on.


Cap venus never moves on.

That's why we are so reluctant to jump in.

if we do it's for life and if it fails we leave that area completly.

You are right though. Stable and reliable are good.
He sucks at communicating but I’m very patient and gentle with him. I’ve noticed in the last year he’s far more expressive. I have to earn his trust.
Yeah, we are very slow.
But so am I. I don’t need to feel rushed or pressured so it works.

He’s stuck around for awhile now. That’s good enough.. I just don’t know if I should initiate or continue to give him control
Initiate and then let him give some room to control and then repeat.
That’s about where it’s at... i just haven’t been honest about the depth of my feelings... we’re just really good friends, and I respect and admire and value him 🤦‍♀️

We both suck at that part....
Tell him.

Cap Venus is hesitant to go in if they aren't sure if those feelings are reciprocated.


He’s fished for it and I panicked... he asked what I wanted and I just didn’t have the balls to be honest.

I’m waiting for the right opportunity... although I think he knows... i mean, how can he not know? And if he’s so insecure how do I even tell him? I’ve never told someone I loved them first. Usually it was the dude and I was like ‘ummmm no’...
Just do it.

How can he trust you if you are not willing to stand by your feelings?

Get yourself a bottle of wine and type "I love you" as a PM, SMS, Whatsapp or whatever and then keep drinking so that you forget that you even sent that message.

At worst you then know how things are and can move on.
Wow. Is that you @ Seleukos?

I don’t recognize you!!!!

That it’s an advice that I would say 😄
Wut?

Sorry I don’t know what you mean. I just arrived. And I have being drinking so... oops! 😋


I didn't get what you meant. Well, not entirely, so elaborate please.
You don’t normally encourage Love. That was a very open and warm quote from you.

I didn’t expect that from you. That would definitely be more like my kind of advice🙂
I abstain from it personally but I never advice people to do the same. I mostly do the opposite if I see a chance.

Ah! That is the Seleukos I know 😜


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@Seleukos - when giving advice, like the i love you declaration for example, is that something you would do or something you want someone to do for you?

It seems like Aqua advice isn't stuff that is in their character to do, so is it based on what you desire more than what you would do?
No, it's what I do.

Be warned however that it leads to hilarious situations. At least in my case.
If someone you know has a crush on you, sms's an i love you, how would you react to it? Would you take it as a joke and laugh it off or freak the fk out?


"Understandable. I love myself too."
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This reaction would have got an “lol, you’re an asshole 😂😂” from me.

How would you take that?

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@Seleukos - when giving advice, like the i love you declaration for example, is that something you would do or something you want someone to do for you?

It seems like Aqua advice isn't stuff that is in their character to do, so is it based on what you desire more than what you would do?
No, it's what I do.

Be warned however that it leads to hilarious situations. At least in my case.
I’ve said this in person and in a text to 2 different Aquas. The text version went well cause I couldn’t see his reaction. He just had a slight pause in texting but then resumed the conversation.

The second one actually jumped into the ocean and swam to a floating dock to get some air and get away from me. 😂😂

So cute lol.


No shit?
You told 2 you love them? Do you tell everyone?
I love freely. I’m not scared to say it. It’s actually a relief for me to say it and get rid of the burden.

I only say it when I mean it though. I’ve only said it to 5 men in my life so far. I don’t care who says it first. Once I know I do, I say it.

This is what got me in trouble with my ex Scorpio. He knew me and the Aqua had sex and he knows I can only have sex once I love you.

He had the nerve to confront me about it and I actually had to tell him that obviously the Aqua didn’t like me like that so what does it matter if I loved him.

Then we were able to continue or weekly rendezvous lol


5 times? You know how many I’ve said it to? 2! That’s like over 20 years too...

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@Seleukos - when giving advice, like the i love you declaration for example, is that something you would do or something you want someone to do for you?

It seems like Aqua advice isn't stuff that is in their character to do, so is it based on what you desire more than what you would do?
No, it's what I do.

Be warned however that it leads to hilarious situations. At least in my case.
I’ve said this in person and in a text to 2 different Aquas. The text version went well cause I couldn’t see his reaction. He just had a slight pause in texting but then resumed the conversation.

The second one actually jumped into the ocean and swam to a floating dock to get some air and get away from me. 😂😂

So cute lol.


No shit?
Yup lol. He looked so scared 😅😂😂

His cousin asked me what I did to him lol. I didn’t say anything though.


Okay, but you were at a beach and swimming anyway, right?
Yes lol. We were sitting at a bar on the beach. He did jump in fully clothed though. He didn’t wait to strip down.


That's amazingly expressive of him.
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I know. His face said everything though lol
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Thank you @Seleukos for keeping this thread going 😂

Talking to multiple people at once and continuously👍

You may be a Cap stellium but that stellium falls in the 3rd house am I right?
It starts in the third.

Mars/Moon/Uranus.

I'm used to talking with multiple people at once. I like it.
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Yes I noticed you do like it 😂👍
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I have no pride.... try that! Nothing attracts a man like desperation... can’t peomise you’ll like what comes around though....
Not for a Cap Venus..
You don’t count. You’re actively avoiding relationships.
True, but doesn't your Aqua also have a Cap Venus or did I confused yours with @saggurl88 's?
Oh he does... but I figured out what he likes. He likes stable and dependable. My calmness and ability to communicate in a reasonable manner draws him in.

I don’t think he or I are desperate.. we both can’t seem to move on.


Cap venus never moves on.

That's why we are so reluctant to jump in.

if we do it's for life and if it fails we leave that area completly.

You are right though. Stable and reliable are good.
He sucks at communicating but I’m very patient and gentle with him. I’ve noticed in the last year he’s far more expressive. I have to earn his trust.
Yeah, we are very slow.
But so am I. I don’t need to feel rushed or pressured so it works.

He’s stuck around for awhile now. That’s good enough.. I just don’t know if I should initiate or continue to give him control
Initiate and then let him give some room to control and then repeat.
That’s about where it’s at... i just haven’t been honest about the depth of my feelings... we’re just really good friends, and I respect and admire and value him 🤦‍♀️

We both suck at that part....
Tell him.

Cap Venus is hesitant to go in if they aren't sure if those feelings are reciprocated.


He’s fished for it and I panicked... he asked what I wanted and I just didn’t have the balls to be honest.

I’m waiting for the right opportunity... although I think he knows... i mean, how can he not know? And if he’s so insecure how do I even tell him? I’ve never told someone I loved them first. Usually it was the dude and I was like ‘ummmm no’...
Just do it.

How can he trust you if you are not willing to stand by your feelings?

Get yourself a bottle of wine and type "I love you" as a PM, SMS, Whatsapp or whatever and then keep drinking so that you forget that you even sent that message.

At worst you then know how things are and can move on.
Wow. Is that you @ Seleukos?

I don’t recognize you!!!!

That it’s an advice that I would say 😄
Wut?

Sorry I don’t know what you mean. I just arrived. And I have being drinking so... oops! 😋


I didn't get what you meant. Well, not entirely, so elaborate please.
You don’t normally encourage Love. That was a very open and warm quote from you.

I didn’t expect that from you. That would definitely be more like my kind of advice🙂
I abstain from it personally but I never advice people to do the same. I mostly do the opposite if I see a chance.

Ah! That is the Seleukos I know 😜


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I'm a sucker for snow.

I can give you as much as you want. I have enough


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Thank you @Seleukos for keeping this thread going 😂

Talking to multiple people at once and continuously👍

You may be a Cap stellium but that stellium falls in the 3rd house am I right?
It starts in the third.

Mars/Moon/Uranus.

I'm used to talking with multiple people at once. I like it.
Yes I noticed you do like it 😂👍
I'm like a Gemini in that area.

The more mental stimulation the better.

It's why I also tend to play multiple card game matches at once.
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Yes third house is Gemini's natural house.

Okay enough the bragging dude 😂
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@Seleukos - when giving advice, like the i love you declaration for example, is that something you would do or something you want someone to do for you?

It seems like Aqua advice isn't stuff that is in their character to do, so is it based on what you desire more than what you would do?
No, it's what I do.

Be warned however that it leads to hilarious situations. At least in my case.
I’ve said this in person and in a text to 2 different Aquas. The text version went well cause I couldn’t see his reaction. He just had a slight pause in texting but then resumed the conversation.

The second one actually jumped into the ocean and swam to a floating dock to get some air and get away from me. 😂😂

So cute lol.

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😄 why are you so funny! Gawd!

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@Seleukos - when giving advice, like the i love you declaration for example, is that something you would do or something you want someone to do for you?

It seems like Aqua advice isn't stuff that is in their character to do, so is it based on what you desire more than what you would do?
No, it's what I do.

Be warned however that it leads to hilarious situations. At least in my case.
I’ve said this in person and in a text to 2 different Aquas. The text version went well cause I couldn’t see his reaction. He just had a slight pause in texting but then resumed the conversation.

The second one actually jumped into the ocean and swam to a floating dock to get some air and get away from me. 😂😂

So cute lol.


😄 why are you so funny! Gawd!

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@Seleukos

Are you the Aristotle of Dxp? 😛

I think you are a Libra, not an Aqua ...


No, if anything I'm of a Sokrated or Salomon.

"You saw sagacious Solomon

You know what came of him To him, complexities seemed plain

He cursed the hour that gave birth to him And saw that everything was vain

How great and wise was Solomon

The world, however, did not wait

But soon observed what followed on

It's wisdom that had brought him to this state

How fortunate the man with none"

"You heard of honest Socrates

The man who never lied

They weren't so grateful as you'd think

Instead the rulers fixed to have him tried

And handed him the poisoned drink

How honest was the people's noble son

The world, however, did not wait

But soon observed what followed on It's honesty that brought him to that state

How fortunate the man with none"

I have some strong Libra influences though.
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Did you study philosophy during second level ed?

Yes, I see Libra emerging in the way you communicate ... Do you know tiz that posts sometimes? He has the same refinement ...

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@Seleukos - when giving advice, like the i love you declaration for example, is that something you would do or something you want someone to do for you?

It seems like Aqua advice isn't stuff that is in their character to do, so is it based on what you desire more than what you would do?
No, it's what I do.

Be warned however that it leads to hilarious situations. At least in my case.
If someone you know has a crush on you, sms's an i love you, how would you react to it? Would you take it as a joke and laugh it off or freak the fk out?


"Understandable. I love myself too."
This reaction would have got an “lol, you’re an asshole 😂😂” from me.

How would you take that?




"You have passed the test."
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I have no pride.... try that! Nothing attracts a man like desperation... can’t peomise you’ll like what comes around though....
Not for a Cap Venus..
You don’t count. You’re actively avoiding relationships.
True, but doesn't your Aqua also have a Cap Venus or did I confused yours with @saggurl88 's?
Oh he does... but I figured out what he likes. He likes stable and dependable. My calmness and ability to communicate in a reasonable manner draws him in.

I don’t think he or I are desperate.. we both can’t seem to move on.


Cap venus never moves on.

That's why we are so reluctant to jump in.

if we do it's for life and if it fails we leave that area completly.

You are right though. Stable and reliable are good.
He sucks at communicating but I’m very patient and gentle with him. I’ve noticed in the last year he’s far more expressive. I have to earn his trust.
Yeah, we are very slow.
But so am I. I don’t need to feel rushed or pressured so it works.

He’s stuck around for awhile now. That’s good enough.. I just don’t know if I should initiate or continue to give him control
Initiate and then let him give some room to control and then repeat.
That’s about where it’s at... i just haven’t been honest about the depth of my feelings... we’re just really good friends, and I respect and admire and value him 🤦‍♀️

We both suck at that part....
Tell him.

Cap Venus is hesitant to go in if they aren't sure if those feelings are reciprocated.


He’s fished for it and I panicked... he asked what I wanted and I just didn’t have the balls to be honest.

I’m waiting for the right opportunity... although I think he knows... i mean, how can he not know? And if he’s so insecure how do I even tell him? I’ve never told someone I loved them first. Usually it was the dude and I was like ‘ummmm no’...
Just do it.

How can he trust you if you are not willing to stand by your feelings?

Get yourself a bottle of wine and type "I love you" as a PM, SMS, Whatsapp or whatever and then keep drinking so that you forget that you even sent that message.

At worst you then know how things are and can move on.
Wow. Is that you @ Seleukos?

I don’t recognize you!!!!

That it’s an advice that I would say 😄
Wut?

Sorry I don’t know what you mean. I just arrived. And I have being drinking so... oops! 😋


I didn't get what you meant. Well, not entirely, so elaborate please.
You don’t normally encourage Love. That was a very open and warm quote from you.

I didn’t expect that from you. That would definitely be more like my kind of advice🙂
I abstain from it personally but I never advice people to do the same. I mostly do the opposite if I see a chance.

Ah! That is the Seleukos I know 😜


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Omg, what do I see? Ice melting 🤭

Are you sick? 🤒
It's spring.

My dreaded nemesis.
You need some help

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Ohhh!!! Look at that happy face 😆


I'm a sucker for snow.

I can give you as much as you want. I have enough


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😂 pass me that beer and I throw you some


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Cheers 🍻

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More please.

People are becoming happy again around here and this will not do!
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Lol That it’s because you are talking to all of them 😜
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@Seleukos - when giving advice, like the i love you declaration for example, is that something you would do or something you want someone to do for you?

It seems like Aqua advice isn't stuff that is in their character to do, so is it based on what you desire more than what you would do?
No, it's what I do.

Be warned however that it leads to hilarious situations. At least in my case.
If someone you know has a crush on you, sms's an i love you, how would you react to it? Would you take it as a joke and laugh it off or freak the fk out?


"Understandable. I love myself too."

Lol. if they love you, that's a big ego blow. I don't think people want to set themselves up for rejection like that


Why do you think it's a rejection?

Because that response would be a joke about their most vulnrable feeling. It's dismissing it


A joke is no rejection.

Jokes about someones deep feelings is. If you told a girl you liked her and wanted to take her out and her response was... lol get in line with the rest of them 😘. Would that be rejection?


That would have a completly different meaning than mine.

Keep in mind there would be also more after that opener depending on what my stance towards her would be.
Rejection is rejection. It's exposing a vulnerability and having it shut down of mocked or laughed at. The reason might be because it's uncomfortable to respond to it, but the person at the receiving end will be affected by it in some way. Either walls go up or hurt. Something will change in them even if they try to hide it to save face. Feelings are a big deal for most people
Read it again.

I never said anything about rejection.

I open things with a laugh and then try solve the situation depending on my stance towards that person.
If that was a joke followed by something then, that would be a different response.

So after jokes, what would your response to someone you have feelings for but aren't reafy to say i love you be? Would it make you run, uncomfortable, over think and detatch...
If it would have happened during the time I was still mildly open towards it I would just jump in.

The detachment bullshit would happen within the relationship.
Ok thanks. I wasn't sure if you guys were scared of it. I'm a bit scared of it.
Being scared wouldn't stop me.

It's not that big of a deal and will fail anyway so why make all the drama.
I think it's thrown around by some people like it's just a word. But for other people it's way more than that.
I don’t love, I can be infatuated... I may be attracted or interested... but love means so much to me.
Same. For me it means forever so i need to know that I'm their forever too or they don't deserve my love. I can only give it if they're worthy of it. Otherwise it's being wasted on someone who would take it for granted anyway

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I always love. I have a GIANT HEART (Pisces Venus)

There's so much love in me. Sometimes I think for me one woman is not enough.

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I have no pride.... try that! Nothing attracts a man like desperation... can’t peomise you’ll like what comes around though....
Not for a Cap Venus..
You don’t count. You’re actively avoiding relationships.
True, but doesn't your Aqua also have a Cap Venus or did I confused yours with @saggurl88 's?
Oh he does... but I figured out what he likes. He likes stable and dependable. My calmness and ability to communicate in a reasonable manner draws him in.

I don’t think he or I are desperate.. we both can’t seem to move on.


Cap venus never moves on.

That's why we are so reluctant to jump in.

if we do it's for life and if it fails we leave that area completly.

You are right though. Stable and reliable are good.
He sucks at communicating but I’m very patient and gentle with him. I’ve noticed in the last year he’s far more expressive. I have to earn his trust.
Yeah, we are very slow.
But so am I. I don’t need to feel rushed or pressured so it works.

He’s stuck around for awhile now. That’s good enough.. I just don’t know if I should initiate or continue to give him control
Initiate and then let him give some room to control and then repeat.
That’s about where it’s at... i just haven’t been honest about the depth of my feelings... we’re just really good friends, and I respect and admire and value him 🤦‍♀️

We both suck at that part....
Tell him.

Cap Venus is hesitant to go in if they aren't sure if those feelings are reciprocated.


He’s fished for it and I panicked... he asked what I wanted and I just didn’t have the balls to be honest.

I’m waiting for the right opportunity... although I think he knows... i mean, how can he not know? And if he’s so insecure how do I even tell him? I’ve never told someone I loved them first. Usually it was the dude and I was like ‘ummmm no’...
Just do it.

How can he trust you if you are not willing to stand by your feelings?

Get yourself a bottle of wine and type "I love you" as a PM, SMS, Whatsapp or whatever and then keep drinking so that you forget that you even sent that message.

At worst you then know how things are and can move on.
Wow. Is that you @ Seleukos?

I don’t recognize you!!!!

That it’s an advice that I would say 😄
Wut?

Sorry I don’t know what you mean. I just arrived. And I have being drinking so... oops! 😋


I didn't get what you meant. Well, not entirely, so elaborate please.
You don’t normally encourage Love. That was a very open and warm quote from you.

I didn’t expect that from you. That would definitely be more like my kind of advice🙂
I abstain from it personally but I never advice people to do the same. I mostly do the opposite if I see a chance.

Ah! That is the Seleukos I know 😜


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Are you sick? 🤒
It's spring.

My dreaded nemesis.
You need some help

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I'm a sucker for snow.

I can give you as much as you want. I have enough


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Lol That it’s because you are talking to all of them 😜

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@Seleukos - when giving advice, like the i love you declaration for example, is that something you would do or something you want someone to do for you?

It seems like Aqua advice isn't stuff that is in their character to do, so is it based on what you desire more than what you would do?
No, it's what I do.

Be warned however that it leads to hilarious situations. At least in my case.
If someone you know has a crush on you, sms's an i love you, how would you react to it? Would you take it as a joke and laugh it off or freak the fk out?


"Understandable. I love myself too."

Lol. if they love you, that's a big ego blow. I don't think people want to set themselves up for rejection like that


Why do you think it's a rejection?

Because that response would be a joke about their most vulnrable feeling. It's dismissing it


A joke is no rejection.

Jokes about someones deep feelings is. If you told a girl you liked her and wanted to take her out and her response was... lol get in line with the rest of them 😘. Would that be rejection?


That would have a completly different meaning than mine.

Keep in mind there would be also more after that opener depending on what my stance towards her would be.
Rejection is rejection. It's exposing a vulnerability and having it shut down of mocked or laughed at. The reason might be because it's uncomfortable to respond to it, but the person at the receiving end will be affected by it in some way. Either walls go up or hurt. Something will change in them even if they try to hide it to save face. Feelings are a big deal for most people
Read it again.

I never said anything about rejection.

I open things with a laugh and then try solve the situation depending on my stance towards that person.
If that was a joke followed by something then, that would be a different response.

So after jokes, what would your response to someone you have feelings for but aren't reafy to say i love you be? Would it make you run, uncomfortable, over think and detatch...
If it would have happened during the time I was still mildly open towards it I would just jump in.

The detachment bullshit would happen within the relationship.
Ok thanks. I wasn't sure if you guys were scared of it. I'm a bit scared of it.
Being scared wouldn't stop me.

It's not that big of a deal and will fail anyway so why make all the drama.
I think it's thrown around by some people like it's just a word. But for other people it's way more than that.
I don’t love, I can be infatuated... I may be attracted or interested... but love means so much to me.
Same. For me it means forever so i need to know that I'm their forever too or they don't deserve my love. I can only give it if they're worthy of it. Otherwise it's being wasted on someone who would take it for granted anyway


I always love. I have a GIANT HEART (Pisces Venus)

There's so much love in me. Sometimes I think for me one woman is not enough.

😂
My friend says that... he just loves to love.... I cannot relate. I like infatuation... but it’s not love

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Are you the Aristotle of Dxp? 😛

I think you are a Libra, not an Aqua ...


No, if anything I'm of a Sokrated or Salomon.

"You saw sagacious Solomon

You know what came of him To him, complexities seemed plain

He cursed the hour that gave birth to him And saw that everything was vain

How great and wise was Solomon

The world, however, did not wait

But soon observed what followed on

It's wisdom that had brought him to this state

How fortunate the man with none"

"You heard of honest Socrates

The man who never lied

They weren't so grateful as you'd think

Instead the rulers fixed to have him tried

And handed him the poisoned drink

How honest was the people's noble son

The world, however, did not wait

But soon observed what followed on It's honesty that brought him to that state

How fortunate the man with none"

I have some strong Libra influences though.
Did you study philosophy during second level ed?

Yes, I see Libra emerging in the way you communicate ... Do you know tiz that posts sometimes? He has the same refinement ...


Philosophy is my minor of my BA.

Yeah, I know and like him although I didn't have interacted with him that much so far.

He is a good example however why I don't understand all the hate for Libras.

The world would be such a dark, unjust place without them. Sure Sags could balance it a bit but they are often to scattered and Aquas lack the ability to connect with people with the same peacful quality that Libras can.

One has to love Lady Justice.
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Yes to Libra...how could anyone hate the Venusian signs? I agree with your take on Sag and Aquas....not the same eloquence as Libra, and at times somewhat boorish ?

Our son has Sun in Scorp and Moon in Libra...such a very interesting combo....intensely charming and seemingly loved by all that meet him ... He is also a very snappy dresser lol

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@Seleukos - when giving advice, like the i love you declaration for example, is that something you would do or something you want someone to do for you?

It seems like Aqua advice isn't stuff that is in their character to do, so is it based on what you desire more than what you would do?
No, it's what I do.

Be warned however that it leads to hilarious situations. At least in my case.
If someone you know has a crush on you, sms's an i love you, how would you react to it? Would you take it as a joke and laugh it off or freak the fk out?


"Understandable. I love myself too."

Lol. if they love you, that's a big ego blow. I don't think people want to set themselves up for rejection like that


Why do you think it's a rejection?

Because that response would be a joke about their most vulnrable feeling. It's dismissing it


A joke is no rejection.

Jokes about someones deep feelings is. If you told a girl you liked her and wanted to take her out and her response was... lol get in line with the rest of them 😘. Would that be rejection?


That would have a completly different meaning than mine.

Keep in mind there would be also more after that opener depending on what my stance towards her would be.
Rejection is rejection. It's exposing a vulnerability and having it shut down of mocked or laughed at. The reason might be because it's uncomfortable to respond to it, but the person at the receiving end will be affected by it in some way. Either walls go up or hurt. Something will change in them even if they try to hide it to save face. Feelings are a big deal for most people
Read it again.

I never said anything about rejection.

I open things with a laugh and then try solve the situation depending on my stance towards that person.
If that was a joke followed by something then, that would be a different response.

So after jokes, what would your response to someone you have feelings for but aren't reafy to say i love you be? Would it make you run, uncomfortable, over think and detatch...
If it would have happened during the time I was still mildly open towards it I would just jump in.

The detachment bullshit would happen within the relationship.
Ok thanks. I wasn't sure if you guys were scared of it. I'm a bit scared of it.
Being scared wouldn't stop me.

It's not that big of a deal and will fail anyway so why make all the drama.
I think it's thrown around by some people like it's just a word. But for other people it's way more than that.
I don’t love, I can be infatuated... I may be attracted or interested... but love means so much to me.
Same. For me it means forever so i need to know that I'm their forever too or they don't deserve my love. I can only give it if they're worthy of it. Otherwise it's being wasted on someone who would take it for granted anyway


I always love. I have a GIANT HEART (Pisces Venus)

There's so much love in me. Sometimes I think for me one woman is not enough.

😂
My friend says that... he just loves to love.... I cannot relate. I like infatuation... but it’s not love


Of course you don't relate. You're no Pisces Venus.
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I have no pride.... try that! Nothing attracts a man like desperation... can’t peomise you’ll like what comes around though....
Not for a Cap Venus..
You don’t count. You’re actively avoiding relationships.
True, but doesn't your Aqua also have a Cap Venus or did I confused yours with @saggurl88 's?
Oh he does... but I figured out what he likes. He likes stable and dependable. My calmness and ability to communicate in a reasonable manner draws him in.

I don’t think he or I are desperate.. we both can’t seem to move on.


Cap venus never moves on.

That's why we are so reluctant to jump in.

if we do it's for life and if it fails we leave that area completly.

You are right though. Stable and reliable are good.
He sucks at communicating but I’m very patient and gentle with him. I’ve noticed in the last year he’s far more expressive. I have to earn his trust.
Yeah, we are very slow.
But so am I. I don’t need to feel rushed or pressured so it works.

He’s stuck around for awhile now. That’s good enough.. I just don’t know if I should initiate or continue to give him control
Initiate and then let him give some room to control and then repeat.
That’s about where it’s at... i just haven’t been honest about the depth of my feelings... we’re just really good friends, and I respect and admire and value him 🤦‍♀️

We both suck at that part....
Tell him.

Cap Venus is hesitant to go in if they aren't sure if those feelings are reciprocated.


He’s fished for it and I panicked... he asked what I wanted and I just didn’t have the balls to be honest.

I’m waiting for the right opportunity... although I think he knows... i mean, how can he not know? And if he’s so insecure how do I even tell him? I’ve never told someone I loved them first. Usually it was the dude and I was like ‘ummmm no’...
Just do it.

How can he trust you if you are not willing to stand by your feelings?

Get yourself a bottle of wine and type "I love you" as a PM, SMS, Whatsapp or whatever and then keep drinking so that you forget that you even sent that message.

At worst you then know how things are and can move on.
Wow. Is that you @ Seleukos?

I don’t recognize you!!!!

That it’s an advice that I would say 😄
Wut?

Sorry I don’t know what you mean. I just arrived. And I have being drinking so... oops! 😋


I didn't get what you meant. Well, not entirely, so elaborate please.
You don’t normally encourage Love. That was a very open and warm quote from you.

I didn’t expect that from you. That would definitely be more like my kind of advice🙂
I abstain from it personally but I never advice people to do the same. I mostly do the opposite if I see a chance.

Ah! That is the Seleukos I know 😜


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Are you sick? 🤒
It's spring.

My dreaded nemesis.
You need some help

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Ohhh!!! Look at that happy face 😆


I'm a sucker for snow.

I can give you as much as you want. I have enough


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People are becoming happy again around here and this will not do!

Lol That it’s because you are talking to all of them 😜


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@Seleukos - when giving advice, like the i love you declaration for example, is that something you would do or something you want someone to do for you?

It seems like Aqua advice isn't stuff that is in their character to do, so is it based on what you desire more than what you would do?
No, it's what I do.

Be warned however that it leads to hilarious situations. At least in my case.
If someone you know has a crush on you, sms's an i love you, how would you react to it? Would you take it as a joke and laugh it off or freak the fk out?


"Understandable. I love myself too."

Lol. if they love you, that's a big ego blow. I don't think people want to set themselves up for rejection like that


Why do you think it's a rejection?

Because that response would be a joke about their most vulnrable feeling. It's dismissing it


A joke is no rejection.

Jokes about someones deep feelings is. If you told a girl you liked her and wanted to take her out and her response was... lol get in line with the rest of them 😘. Would that be rejection?


That would have a completly different meaning than mine.

Keep in mind there would be also more after that opener depending on what my stance towards her would be.
Rejection is rejection. It's exposing a vulnerability and having it shut down of mocked or laughed at. The reason might be because it's uncomfortable to respond to it, but the person at the receiving end will be affected by it in some way. Either walls go up or hurt. Something will change in them even if they try to hide it to save face. Feelings are a big deal for most people
Read it again.

I never said anything about rejection.

I open things with a laugh and then try solve the situation depending on my stance towards that person.
If that was a joke followed by something then, that would be a different response.

So after jokes, what would your response to someone you have feelings for but aren't reafy to say i love you be? Would it make you run, uncomfortable, over think and detatch...
If it would have happened during the time I was still mildly open towards it I would just jump in.

The detachment bullshit would happen within the relationship.
Ok thanks. I wasn't sure if you guys were scared of it. I'm a bit scared of it.
Being scared wouldn't stop me.

It's not that big of a deal and will fail anyway so why make all the drama.
I think it's thrown around by some people like it's just a word. But for other people it's way more than that.
I don’t love, I can be infatuated... I may be attracted or interested... but love means so much to me.
Same. For me it means forever so i need to know that I'm their forever too or they don't deserve my love. I can only give it if they're worthy of it. Otherwise it's being wasted on someone who would take it for granted anyway


I always love. I have a GIANT HEART (Pisces Venus)

There's so much love in me. Sometimes I think for me one woman is not enough.

😂
My friend says that... he just loves to love.... I cannot relate. I like infatuation... but it’s not love


Of course you don't relate. You're no Pisces Venus.

As a Pisces. I know exactly what you mean 😍

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@Seleukos - when giving advice, like the i love you declaration for example, is that something you would do or something you want someone to do for you?

It seems like Aqua advice isn't stuff that is in their character to do, so is it based on what you desire more than what you would do?
No, it's what I do.

Be warned however that it leads to hilarious situations. At least in my case.
If someone you know has a crush on you, sms's an i love you, how would you react to it? Would you take it as a joke and laugh it off or freak the fk out?


"Understandable. I love myself too."

Lol. if they love you, that's a big ego blow. I don't think people want to set themselves up for rejection like that


Why do you think it's a rejection?

Because that response would be a joke about their most vulnrable feeling. It's dismissing it


A joke is no rejection.

Jokes about someones deep feelings is. If you told a girl you liked her and wanted to take her out and her response was... lol get in line with the rest of them 😘. Would that be rejection?


That would have a completly different meaning than mine.

Keep in mind there would be also more after that opener depending on what my stance towards her would be.
Rejection is rejection. It's exposing a vulnerability and having it shut down of mocked or laughed at. The reason might be because it's uncomfortable to respond to it, but the person at the receiving end will be affected by it in some way. Either walls go up or hurt. Something will change in them even if they try to hide it to save face. Feelings are a big deal for most people
Read it again.

I never said anything about rejection.

I open things with a laugh and then try solve the situation depending on my stance towards that person.
If that was a joke followed by something then, that would be a different response.

So after jokes, what would your response to someone you have feelings for but aren't reafy to say i love you be? Would it make you run, uncomfortable, over think and detatch...
If it would have happened during the time I was still mildly open towards it I would just jump in.

The detachment bullshit would happen within the relationship.
Ok thanks. I wasn't sure if you guys were scared of it. I'm a bit scared of it.
Being scared wouldn't stop me.

It's not that big of a deal and will fail anyway so why make all the drama.
I think it's thrown around by some people like it's just a word. But for other people it's way more than that.
I don’t love, I can be infatuated... I may be attracted or interested... but love means so much to me.
Same. For me it means forever so i need to know that I'm their forever too or they don't deserve my love. I can only give it if they're worthy of it. Otherwise it's being wasted on someone who would take it for granted anyway


I always love. I have a GIANT HEART (Pisces Venus)

There's so much love in me. Sometimes I think for me one woman is not enough.

😂
My friend says that... he just loves to love.... I cannot relate. I like infatuation... but it’s not love


Of course you don't relate. You're no Pisces Venus.

As a Pisces. I know exactly what you mean 😍


No you can't be like me 😫
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@Seleukos - when giving advice, like the i love you declaration for example, is that something you would do or something you want someone to do for you?

It seems like Aqua advice isn't stuff that is in their character to do, so is it based on what you desire more than what you would do?
No, it's what I do.

Be warned however that it leads to hilarious situations. At least in my case.
If someone you know has a crush on you, sms's an i love you, how would you react to it? Would you take it as a joke and laugh it off or freak the fk out?


"Understandable. I love myself too."

Lol. if they love you, that's a big ego blow. I don't think people want to set themselves up for rejection like that


Why do you think it's a rejection?

Because that response would be a joke about their most vulnrable feeling. It's dismissing it


A joke is no rejection.

Jokes about someones deep feelings is. If you told a girl you liked her and wanted to take her out and her response was... lol get in line with the rest of them 😘. Would that be rejection?


That would have a completly different meaning than mine.

Keep in mind there would be also more after that opener depending on what my stance towards her would be.
Rejection is rejection. It's exposing a vulnerability and having it shut down of mocked or laughed at. The reason might be because it's uncomfortable to respond to it, but the person at the receiving end will be affected by it in some way. Either walls go up or hurt. Something will change in them even if they try to hide it to save face. Feelings are a big deal for most people
Read it again.

I never said anything about rejection.

I open things with a laugh and then try solve the situation depending on my stance towards that person.
If that was a joke followed by something then, that would be a different response.

So after jokes, what would your response to someone you have feelings for but aren't reafy to say i love you be? Would it make you run, uncomfortable, over think and detatch...
If it would have happened during the time I was still mildly open towards it I would just jump in.

The detachment bullshit would happen within the relationship.
Ok thanks. I wasn't sure if you guys were scared of it. I'm a bit scared of it.
Being scared wouldn't stop me.

It's not that big of a deal and will fail anyway so why make all the drama.
I think it's thrown around by some people like it's just a word. But for other people it's way more than that.
I don’t love, I can be infatuated... I may be attracted or interested... but love means so much to me.
Same. For me it means forever so i need to know that I'm their forever too or they don't deserve my love. I can only give it if they're worthy of it. Otherwise it's being wasted on someone who would take it for granted anyway


I always love. I have a GIANT HEART (Pisces Venus)

There's so much love in me. Sometimes I think for me one woman is not enough.

😂

That ain't love. Love is selfless. It's not about what you want, it's what the other person wants. So if you share your love and hurt someone by doing that, you don't love them.

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Are you the Aristotle of Dxp? 😛

I think you are a Libra, not an Aqua ...


No, if anything I'm of a Sokrated or Salomon.

"You saw sagacious Solomon

You know what came of him To him, complexities seemed plain

He cursed the hour that gave birth to him And saw that everything was vain

How great and wise was Solomon

The world, however, did not wait

But soon observed what followed on

It's wisdom that had brought him to this state

How fortunate the man with none"

"You heard of honest Socrates

The man who never lied

They weren't so grateful as you'd think

Instead the rulers fixed to have him tried

And handed him the poisoned drink

How honest was the people's noble son

The world, however, did not wait

But soon observed what followed on It's honesty that brought him to that state

How fortunate the man with none"

I have some strong Libra influences though.
Did you study philosophy during second level ed?

Yes, I see Libra emerging in the way you communicate ... Do you know tiz that posts sometimes? He has the same refinement ...


Philosophy is my minor of my BA.

Yeah, I know and like him although I didn't have interacted with him that much so far.

He is a good example however why I don't understand all the hate for Libras.

The world would be such a dark, unjust place without them. Sure Sags could balance it a bit but they are often to scattered and Aquas lack the ability to connect with people with the same peacful quality that Libras can.

One has to love Lady Justice.
Oh, I thought so....it shows

Yes to Libra...how could anyone hate the Venusian signs? I agree with your take on Sag and Aquas....not the same eloquence as Libra, and at times somewhat boorish ?

Our son has Sun in Scorp and Moon in Libra...such a very interesting combo....intensely charming and seemingly loved by all that meet him ... He is also a very snappy dresser lol

🙂
My Scorp buddy has that combi along with a very good triple conjunction in Sag.

I think it's a set up for win combination. You son is a lucky person.
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Aaaahh that is lovely to read, thanks

He has Merc in Sag!!

What is your friend like ?
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@Seleukos - when giving advice, like the i love you declaration for example, is that something you would do or something you want someone to do for you?

It seems like Aqua advice isn't stuff that is in their character to do, so is it based on what you desire more than what you would do?
No, it's what I do.

Be warned however that it leads to hilarious situations. At least in my case.
If someone you know has a crush on you, sms's an i love you, how would you react to it? Would you take it as a joke and laugh it off or freak the fk out?


"Understandable. I love myself too."

Lol. if they love you, that's a big ego blow. I don't think people want to set themselves up for rejection like that


Why do you think it's a rejection?

Because that response would be a joke about their most vulnrable feeling. It's dismissing it


A joke is no rejection.

Jokes about someones deep feelings is. If you told a girl you liked her and wanted to take her out and her response was... lol get in line with the rest of them 😘. Would that be rejection?


That would have a completly different meaning than mine.

Keep in mind there would be also more after that opener depending on what my stance towards her would be.
Rejection is rejection. It's exposing a vulnerability and having it shut down of mocked or laughed at. The reason might be because it's uncomfortable to respond to it, but the person at the receiving end will be affected by it in some way. Either walls go up or hurt. Something will change in them even if they try to hide it to save face. Feelings are a big deal for most people
Read it again.

I never said anything about rejection.

I open things with a laugh and then try solve the situation depending on my stance towards that person.
If that was a joke followed by something then, that would be a different response.

So after jokes, what would your response to someone you have feelings for but aren't reafy to say i love you be? Would it make you run, uncomfortable, over think and detatch...
If it would have happened during the time I was still mildly open towards it I would just jump in.

The detachment bullshit would happen within the relationship.
Ok thanks. I wasn't sure if you guys were scared of it. I'm a bit scared of it.
Being scared wouldn't stop me.

It's not that big of a deal and will fail anyway so why make all the drama.
I think it's thrown around by some people like it's just a word. But for other people it's way more than that.
I don’t love, I can be infatuated... I may be attracted or interested... but love means so much to me.
Same. For me it means forever so i need to know that I'm their forever too or they don't deserve my love. I can only give it if they're worthy of it. Otherwise it's being wasted on someone who would take it for granted anyway


I always love. I have a GIANT HEART (Pisces Venus)

There's so much love in me. Sometimes I think for me one woman is not enough.

😂
My friend says that... he just loves to love.... I cannot relate. I like infatuation... but it’s not love


Of course you don't relate. You're no Pisces Venus.
Shouldn’t my Scorpio Venus make all Gaga for the stuff?

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Nah Scorpio Venus is built to conquer and possess one at a time. Obsessed.

Just ask saggurl lol
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@Seleukos - when giving advice, like the i love you declaration for example, is that something you would do or something you want someone to do for you?

It seems like Aqua advice isn't stuff that is in their character to do, so is it based on what you desire more than what you would do?
No, it's what I do.

Be warned however that it leads to hilarious situations. At least in my case.
If someone you know has a crush on you, sms's an i love you, how would you react to it? Would you take it as a joke and laugh it off or freak the fk out?


"Understandable. I love myself too."

Lol. if they love you, that's a big ego blow. I don't think people want to set themselves up for rejection like that


Why do you think it's a rejection?

Because that response would be a joke about their most vulnrable feeling. It's dismissing it


A joke is no rejection.

Jokes about someones deep feelings is. If you told a girl you liked her and wanted to take her out and her response was... lol get in line with the rest of them 😘. Would that be rejection?


That would have a completly different meaning than mine.

Keep in mind there would be also more after that opener depending on what my stance towards her would be.
Rejection is rejection. It's exposing a vulnerability and having it shut down of mocked or laughed at. The reason might be because it's uncomfortable to respond to it, but the person at the receiving end will be affected by it in some way. Either walls go up or hurt. Something will change in them even if they try to hide it to save face. Feelings are a big deal for most people
Read it again.

I never said anything about rejection.

I open things with a laugh and then try solve the situation depending on my stance towards that person.
If that was a joke followed by something then, that would be a different response.

So after jokes, what would your response to someone you have feelings for but aren't reafy to say i love you be? Would it make you run, uncomfortable, over think and detatch...
If it would have happened during the time I was still mildly open towards it I would just jump in.

The detachment bullshit would happen within the relationship.
Ok thanks. I wasn't sure if you guys were scared of it. I'm a bit scared of it.
Being scared wouldn't stop me.

It's not that big of a deal and will fail anyway so why make all the drama.
I think it's thrown around by some people like it's just a word. But for other people it's way more than that.
I don’t love, I can be infatuated... I may be attracted or interested... but love means so much to me.
Same. For me it means forever so i need to know that I'm their forever too or they don't deserve my love. I can only give it if they're worthy of it. Otherwise it's being wasted on someone who would take it for granted anyway


I always love. I have a GIANT HEART (Pisces Venus)

There's so much love in me. Sometimes I think for me one woman is not enough.

😂
My friend says that... he just loves to love.... I cannot relate. I like infatuation... but it’s not love


Of course you don't relate. You're no Pisces Venus.

As a Pisces. I know exactly what you mean 😍


No you can't be like me 😫
And why’s that? 😝
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I have no pride.... try that! Nothing attracts a man like desperation... can’t peomise you’ll like what comes around though....
Not for a Cap Venus..
You don’t count. You’re actively avoiding relationships.
True, but doesn't your Aqua also have a Cap Venus or did I confused yours with @saggurl88 's?
Oh he does... but I figured out what he likes. He likes stable and dependable. My calmness and ability to communicate in a reasonable manner draws him in.

I don’t think he or I are desperate.. we both can’t seem to move on.


Cap venus never moves on.

That's why we are so reluctant to jump in.

if we do it's for life and if it fails we leave that area completly.

You are right though. Stable and reliable are good.
He sucks at communicating but I’m very patient and gentle with him. I’ve noticed in the last year he’s far more expressive. I have to earn his trust.
Yeah, we are very slow.
But so am I. I don’t need to feel rushed or pressured so it works.

He’s stuck around for awhile now. That’s good enough.. I just don’t know if I should initiate or continue to give him control
Initiate and then let him give some room to control and then repeat.
That’s about where it’s at... i just haven’t been honest about the depth of my feelings... we’re just really good friends, and I respect and admire and value him 🤦‍♀️

We both suck at that part....
Tell him.

Cap Venus is hesitant to go in if they aren't sure if those feelings are reciprocated.


He’s fished for it and I panicked... he asked what I wanted and I just didn’t have the balls to be honest.

I’m waiting for the right opportunity... although I think he knows... i mean, how can he not know? And if he’s so insecure how do I even tell him? I’ve never told someone I loved them first. Usually it was the dude and I was like ‘ummmm no’...
Just do it.

How can he trust you if you are not willing to stand by your feelings?

Get yourself a bottle of wine and type "I love you" as a PM, SMS, Whatsapp or whatever and then keep drinking so that you forget that you even sent that message.

At worst you then know how things are and can move on.
Wow. Is that you @ Seleukos?

I don’t recognize you!!!!

That it’s an advice that I would say 😄
Wut?

Sorry I don’t know what you mean. I just arrived. And I have being drinking so... oops! 😋


I didn't get what you meant. Well, not entirely, so elaborate please.
You don’t normally encourage Love. That was a very open and warm quote from you.

I didn’t expect that from you. That would definitely be more like my kind of advice🙂
I abstain from it personally but I never advice people to do the same. I mostly do the opposite if I see a chance.

Ah! That is the Seleukos I know 😜


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I'm a sucker for snow.

I can give you as much as you want. I have enough


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People are becoming happy again around here and this will not do!

Lol That it’s because you are talking to all of them 😜


Uhh, noo...
Lol

Uhh, yees...
I haven't spoken with anyone for a week or so.
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Lol I mean in here
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@Seleukos - when giving advice, like the i love you declaration for example, is that something you would do or something you want someone to do for you?

It seems like Aqua advice isn't stuff that is in their character to do, so is it based on what you desire more than what you would do?
No, it's what I do.

Be warned however that it leads to hilarious situations. At least in my case.
If someone you know has a crush on you, sms's an i love you, how would you react to it? Would you take it as a joke and laugh it off or freak the fk out?


"Understandable. I love myself too."

Lol. if they love you, that's a big ego blow. I don't think people want to set themselves up for rejection like that


Why do you think it's a rejection?

Because that response would be a joke about their most vulnrable feeling. It's dismissing it


A joke is no rejection.

Jokes about someones deep feelings is. If you told a girl you liked her and wanted to take her out and her response was... lol get in line with the rest of them 😘. Would that be rejection?


That would have a completly different meaning than mine.

Keep in mind there would be also more after that opener depending on what my stance towards her would be.
Rejection is rejection. It's exposing a vulnerability and having it shut down of mocked or laughed at. The reason might be because it's uncomfortable to respond to it, but the person at the receiving end will be affected by it in some way. Either walls go up or hurt. Something will change in them even if they try to hide it to save face. Feelings are a big deal for most people
Read it again.

I never said anything about rejection.

I open things with a laugh and then try solve the situation depending on my stance towards that person.
If that was a joke followed by something then, that would be a different response.

So after jokes, what would your response to someone you have feelings for but aren't reafy to say i love you be? Would it make you run, uncomfortable, over think and detatch...
If it would have happened during the time I was still mildly open towards it I would just jump in.

The detachment bullshit would happen within the relationship.
Ok thanks. I wasn't sure if you guys were scared of it. I'm a bit scared of it.
Being scared wouldn't stop me.

It's not that big of a deal and will fail anyway so why make all the drama.
I think it's thrown around by some people like it's just a word. But for other people it's way more than that.
I don’t love, I can be infatuated... I may be attracted or interested... but love means so much to me.
Same. For me it means forever so i need to know that I'm their forever too or they don't deserve my love. I can only give it if they're worthy of it. Otherwise it's being wasted on someone who would take it for granted anyway


I always love. I have a GIANT HEART (Pisces Venus)

There's so much love in me. Sometimes I think for me one woman is not enough.

😂

That ain't love. Love is selfless. It's not about what you want, it's what the other person wants. So if you share your love and hurt someone by doing that, you don't love them.


Especially if it's done deceitfully

Doesn't matter how it's done. If the actions hurt the person you claim to love and you continue doing it, then your love is questionable.

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You are dead right.....it's not love
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Are you the Aristotle of Dxp? 😛

I think you are a Libra, not an Aqua ...


No, if anything I'm of a Sokrated or Salomon.

"You saw sagacious Solomon

You know what came of him To him, complexities seemed plain

He cursed the hour that gave birth to him And saw that everything was vain

How great and wise was Solomon

The world, however, did not wait

But soon observed what followed on

It's wisdom that had brought him to this state

How fortunate the man with none"

"You heard of honest Socrates

The man who never lied

They weren't so grateful as you'd think

Instead the rulers fixed to have him tried

And handed him the poisoned drink

How honest was the people's noble son

The world, however, did not wait

But soon observed what followed on It's honesty that brought him to that state

How fortunate the man with none"

I have some strong Libra influences though.
Did you study philosophy during second level ed?

Yes, I see Libra emerging in the way you communicate ... Do you know tiz that posts sometimes? He has the same refinement ...


Philosophy is my minor of my BA.

Yeah, I know and like him although I didn't have interacted with him that much so far.

He is a good example however why I don't understand all the hate for Libras.

The world would be such a dark, unjust place without them. Sure Sags could balance it a bit but they are often to scattered and Aquas lack the ability to connect with people with the same peacful quality that Libras can.

One has to love Lady Justice.
Oh, I thought so....it shows

Yes to Libra...how could anyone hate the Venusian signs? I agree with your take on Sag and Aquas....not the same eloquence as Libra, and at times somewhat boorish ?

Our son has Sun in Scorp and Moon in Libra...such a very interesting combo....intensely charming and seemingly loved by all that meet him ... He is also a very snappy dresser lol

🙂
My Scorp buddy has that combi along with a very good triple conjunction in Sag.

I think it's a set up for win combination. You son is a lucky person.
Aaaahh that is lovely to read, thanks

He has Merc in Sag!!

What is your friend like ?
Unusual and weird like me but also a lot more relaxed and laid back than most Scorps.

He is the first person in my life that gives me the feeling of accepting me as I am. Additionaly we are pretty good for each other in general.
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Yes unusual and weird, just like our lad ...

Oh he has just texted me to see if I can give him a spin....hahaha..

Must have felt me talking about him

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@Seleukos - when giving advice, like the i love you declaration for example, is that something you would do or something you want someone to do for you?

It seems like Aqua advice isn't stuff that is in their character to do, so is it based on what you desire more than what you would do?
No, it's what I do.

Be warned however that it leads to hilarious situations. At least in my case.
If someone you know has a crush on you, sms's an i love you, how would you react to it? Would you take it as a joke and laugh it off or freak the fk out?


"Understandable. I love myself too."

Lol. if they love you, that's a big ego blow. I don't think people want to set themselves up for rejection like that


Why do you think it's a rejection?

Because that response would be a joke about their most vulnrable feeling. It's dismissing it


A joke is no rejection.

Jokes about someones deep feelings is. If you told a girl you liked her and wanted to take her out and her response was... lol get in line with the rest of them 😘. Would that be rejection?


That would have a completly different meaning than mine.

Keep in mind there would be also more after that opener depending on what my stance towards her would be.
Rejection is rejection. It's exposing a vulnerability and having it shut down of mocked or laughed at. The reason might be because it's uncomfortable to respond to it, but the person at the receiving end will be affected by it in some way. Either walls go up or hurt. Something will change in them even if they try to hide it to save face. Feelings are a big deal for most people
Read it again.

I never said anything about rejection.

I open things with a laugh and then try solve the situation depending on my stance towards that person.
If that was a joke followed by something then, that would be a different response.

So after jokes, what would your response to someone you have feelings for but aren't reafy to say i love you be? Would it make you run, uncomfortable, over think and detatch...
If it would have happened during the time I was still mildly open towards it I would just jump in.

The detachment bullshit would happen within the relationship.
Ok thanks. I wasn't sure if you guys were scared of it. I'm a bit scared of it.
Being scared wouldn't stop me.

It's not that big of a deal and will fail anyway so why make all the drama.
I think it's thrown around by some people like it's just a word. But for other people it's way more than that.
I don’t love, I can be infatuated... I may be attracted or interested... but love means so much to me.
Same. For me it means forever so i need to know that I'm their forever too or they don't deserve my love. I can only give it if they're worthy of it. Otherwise it's being wasted on someone who would take it for granted anyway


I always love. I have a GIANT HEART (Pisces Venus)

There's so much love in me. Sometimes I think for me one woman is not enough.

😂
My friend says that... he just loves to love.... I cannot relate. I like infatuation... but it’s not love


Of course you don't relate. You're no Pisces Venus.

As a Pisces. I know exactly what you mean 😍


No you can't be like me 😫
And why’s that? 😝
Only me can do that. Period 😜
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I have no pride.... try that! Nothing attracts a man like desperation... can’t peomise you’ll like what comes around though....
Not for a Cap Venus..
You don’t count. You’re actively avoiding relationships.
True, but doesn't your Aqua also have a Cap Venus or did I confused yours with @saggurl88 's?
Oh he does... but I figured out what he likes. He likes stable and dependable. My calmness and ability to communicate in a reasonable manner draws him in.

I don’t think he or I are desperate.. we both can’t seem to move on.


Cap venus never moves on.

That's why we are so reluctant to jump in.

if we do it's for life and if it fails we leave that area completly.

You are right though. Stable and reliable are good.
He sucks at communicating but I’m very patient and gentle with him. I’ve noticed in the last year he’s far more expressive. I have to earn his trust.
Yeah, we are very slow.
But so am I. I don’t need to feel rushed or pressured so it works.

He’s stuck around for awhile now. That’s good enough.. I just don’t know if I should initiate or continue to give him control
Initiate and then let him give some room to control and then repeat.
That’s about where it’s at... i just haven’t been honest about the depth of my feelings... we’re just really good friends, and I respect and admire and value him 🤦‍♀️

We both suck at that part....
Tell him.

Cap Venus is hesitant to go in if they aren't sure if those feelings are reciprocated.


He’s fished for it and I panicked... he asked what I wanted and I just didn’t have the balls to be honest.

I’m waiting for the right opportunity... although I think he knows... i mean, how can he not know? And if he’s so insecure how do I even tell him? I’ve never told someone I loved them first. Usually it was the dude and I was like ‘ummmm no’...
Just do it.

How can he trust you if you are not willing to stand by your feelings?

Get yourself a bottle of wine and type "I love you" as a PM, SMS, Whatsapp or whatever and then keep drinking so that you forget that you even sent that message.

At worst you then know how things are and can move on.
Wow. Is that you @ Seleukos?

I don’t recognize you!!!!

That it’s an advice that I would say 😄
Wut?

Sorry I don’t know what you mean. I just arrived. And I have being drinking so... oops! 😋


I didn't get what you meant. Well, not entirely, so elaborate please.
You don’t normally encourage Love. That was a very open and warm quote from you.

I didn’t expect that from you. That would definitely be more like my kind of advice🙂
I abstain from it personally but I never advice people to do the same. I mostly do the opposite if I see a chance.

Ah! That is the Seleukos I know 😜


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Are you sick? 🤒
It's spring.

My dreaded nemesis.
You need some help

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Ohhh!!! Look at that happy face 😆


I'm a sucker for snow.

I can give you as much as you want. I have enough


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😂 pass me that beer and I throw you some


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Cheers 🍻

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More please.

People are becoming happy again around here and this will not do!

Lol That it’s because you are talking to all of them 😜


Uhh, noo...
Lol

Uhh, yees...
I haven't spoken with anyone for a week or so.

Lol I mean in here


Still. I know someone who would disagree. 😛
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Hahahaha, it wouldn’t be the first time 😜
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Are you the Aristotle of Dxp? 😛

I think you are a Libra, not an Aqua ...


No, if anything I'm of a Sokrated or Salomon.

"You saw sagacious Solomon

You know what came of him To him, complexities seemed plain

He cursed the hour that gave birth to him And saw that everything was vain

How great and wise was Solomon

The world, however, did not wait

But soon observed what followed on

It's wisdom that had brought him to this state

How fortunate the man with none"

"You heard of honest Socrates

The man who never lied

They weren't so grateful as you'd think

Instead the rulers fixed to have him tried

And handed him the poisoned drink

How honest was the people's noble son

The world, however, did not wait

But soon observed what followed on It's honesty that brought him to that state

How fortunate the man with none"

I have some strong Libra influences though.
Did you study philosophy during second level ed?

Yes, I see Libra emerging in the way you communicate ... Do you know tiz that posts sometimes? He has the same refinement ...


Philosophy is my minor of my BA.

Yeah, I know and like him although I didn't have interacted with him that much so far.

He is a good example however why I don't understand all the hate for Libras.

The world would be such a dark, unjust place without them. Sure Sags could balance it a bit but they are often to scattered and Aquas lack the ability to connect with people with the same peacful quality that Libras can.

One has to love Lady Justice.
Oh, I thought so....it shows

Yes to Libra...how could anyone hate the Venusian signs? I agree with your take on Sag and Aquas....not the same eloquence as Libra, and at times somewhat boorish ?

Our son has Sun in Scorp and Moon in Libra...such a very interesting combo....intensely charming and seemingly loved by all that meet him ... He is also a very snappy dresser lol

🙂
My Scorp buddy has that combi along with a very good triple conjunction in Sag.

I think it's a set up for win combination. You son is a lucky person.
Aaaahh that is lovely to read, thanks

He has Merc in Sag!!

What is your friend like ?
Unusual and weird like me but also a lot more relaxed and laid back than most Scorps.

He is the first person in my life that gives me the feeling of accepting me as I am. Additionaly we are pretty good for each other in general.
Yes unusual and weird, just like our lad ...

Oh he has just texted me to see if I can give him a spin....hahaha..

Must have felt me talking about him

😛
Mine did as well. 😄
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No!!!

Haahaa....spooky men

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I have no pride.... try that! Nothing attracts a man like desperation... can’t peomise you’ll like what comes around though....
Not for a Cap Venus..
You don’t count. You’re actively avoiding relationships.
True, but doesn't your Aqua also have a Cap Venus or did I confused yours with @saggurl88 's?
Oh he does... but I figured out what he likes. He likes stable and dependable. My calmness and ability to communicate in a reasonable manner draws him in.

I don’t think he or I are desperate.. we both can’t seem to move on.


Cap venus never moves on.

That's why we are so reluctant to jump in.

if we do it's for life and if it fails we leave that area completly.

You are right though. Stable and reliable are good.
He sucks at communicating but I’m very patient and gentle with him. I’ve noticed in the last year he’s far more expressive. I have to earn his trust.
Yeah, we are very slow.
But so am I. I don’t need to feel rushed or pressured so it works.

He’s stuck around for awhile now. That’s good enough.. I just don’t know if I should initiate or continue to give him control
Initiate and then let him give some room to control and then repeat.
That’s about where it’s at... i just haven’t been honest about the depth of my feelings... we’re just really good friends, and I respect and admire and value him 🤦‍♀️

We both suck at that part....
Tell him.

Cap Venus is hesitant to go in if they aren't sure if those feelings are reciprocated.


He’s fished for it and I panicked... he asked what I wanted and I just didn’t have the balls to be honest.

I’m waiting for the right opportunity... although I think he knows... i mean, how can he not know? And if he’s so insecure how do I even tell him? I’ve never told someone I loved them first. Usually it was the dude and I was like ‘ummmm no’...
Just do it.

How can he trust you if you are not willing to stand by your feelings?

Get yourself a bottle of wine and type "I love you" as a PM, SMS, Whatsapp or whatever and then keep drinking so that you forget that you even sent that message.

At worst you then know how things are and can move on.
Wow. Is that you @ Seleukos?

I don’t recognize you!!!!

That it’s an advice that I would say 😄
Wut?

Sorry I don’t know what you mean. I just arrived. And I have being drinking so... oops! 😋


I didn't get what you meant. Well, not entirely, so elaborate please.
You don’t normally encourage Love. That was a very open and warm quote from you.

I didn’t expect that from you. That would definitely be more like my kind of advice🙂
I abstain from it personally but I never advice people to do the same. I mostly do the opposite if I see a chance.

Ah! That is the Seleukos I know 😜


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Omg, what do I see? Ice melting 🤭

Are you sick? 🤒
It's spring.

My dreaded nemesis.
You need some help

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Ohhh!!! Look at that happy face 😆


I'm a sucker for snow.

I can give you as much as you want. I have enough


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😂 pass me that beer and I throw you some


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Cheers 🍻

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More please.

People are becoming happy again around here and this will not do!

Lol That it’s because you are talking to all of them 😜


Uhh, noo...
Lol

Uhh, yees...
I haven't spoken with anyone for a week or so.

Lol I mean in here


Still. I know someone who would disagree. 😛

Hahahaha, it wouldn’t be the first time 😜


I'm evil.

Deal with it.

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I don’t have a problem with that. Sorry 😛

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I’ve told my aqua multiple times how I feel about him. Like once a month or more 🙄 I can’t help my emotional side. I think he secretly loves it.
What does he say he feels about you?
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I’ve never asked with a straightforward question. I don’t want to push him for emotions when that’s not him. He’s an aqua moon too. The most I’ve gotten is that he still wants me in his life when things aren’t so busy. But he still talks to me and hasn’t left. So I’d like to believe that if he didn’t like me and what I’ve said, that he’d go away. The fact that he hasn’t gone away, gives me a little hope. But he’s cap cusp and focused on owning 3 businesses, so I’m supporting him and letting things be as they are right now. I told him I’d be patient.
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I’ve told my aqua multiple times how I feel about him. Like once a month or more 🙄 I can’t help my emotional side. I think he secretly loves it.
What does he say he feels about you?
I’ve never asked with a straightforward question. I don’t want to push him for emotions when that’s not him. He’s an aqua moon too. The most I’ve gotten is that he still wants me in his life when things aren’t so busy. But he still talks to me and hasn’t left. So I’d like to believe that if he didn’t like me and what I’ve said, that he’d go away. The fact that he hasn’t gone away, gives me a little hope. But he’s cap cusp and focused on owning 3 businesses, so I’m supporting him and letting things be as they are right now. I told him I’d be patient.
So are you not on no contact anymore?
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Omg I failed that soooooooo bad. I went 3 weeks without texting him, but by week 2 I was posting on snap like 4 times a day or more and he was checking every one within 30 minutes. So to me, that was me basically contacting him. Oops 🙈then I texted him telling him how I felt about him and we started talking again.
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I’ve told my aqua multiple times how I feel about him. Like once a month or more 🙄 I can’t help my emotional side. I think he secretly loves it.
What does he say he feels about you?
I’ve never asked with a straightforward question. I don’t want to push him for emotions when that’s not him. He’s an aqua moon too. The most I’ve gotten is that he still wants me in his life when things aren’t so busy. But he still talks to me and hasn’t left. So I’d like to believe that if he didn’t like me and what I’ve said, that he’d go away. The fact that he hasn’t gone away, gives me a little hope. But he’s cap cusp and focused on owning 3 businesses, so I’m supporting him and letting things be as they are right now. I told him I’d be patient.
So are you not on no contact anymore?
Omg I failed that soooooooo bad. I went 3 weeks without texting him, but by week 2 I was posting on snap like 4 times a day or more and he was checking every one within 30 minutes. So to me, that was me basically contacting him. Oops 🙈then I texted him telling him how I felt about him and we started talking again.
Is he initiating any of the talking or is it always you?
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Mostly me but he has. Honestly I’m not expecting anything out of this. I just want to be supportive person in his life. I’ve actually been trying to let go because there’s no certainty of the future and that makes me feel insecure. But at the same time I can’t help but feel like I’ve been his gf this whole time and he’s been my bf as neither of us has dated anyone else and we’ve both been present in each other’s life this whole time. We’ve also never actually broken up. He’s part cap and I’ve read many stories of them disappearing for work. But that’s not entirely true. I view myself as single and if I find someone I like more, I’m going for it. As you can see, I have mixed emotions about the relationship. So I’m going with the flow.

But one thing I’d like to share for the first time is that I think he wants me to chase him. Even more so than I have believe it or not. I think he wants me to show up at his work or his home or the location he’s at. That’s the vibe I get. And this kind of goes along with what aqua on here are telling you to do. They are telling you to chase him. The real question is why? Do they need proof of our love and loyalty? To show that we don’t give up on what is important to us? I’m rather curious. Aquas......?
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@Seleukos - when giving advice, like the i love you declaration for example, is that something you would do or something you want someone to do for you?

It seems like Aqua advice isn't stuff that is in their character to do, so is it based on what you desire more than what you would do?
No, it's what I do.

Be warned however that it leads to hilarious situations. At least in my case.
I’ve said this in person and in a text to 2 different Aquas. The text version went well cause I couldn’t see his reaction. He just had a slight pause in texting but then resumed the conversation.

The second one actually jumped into the ocean and swam to a floating dock to get some air and get away from me. 😂😂

So cute lol.


idk why... but you give me Pepe LePew vibes

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Is that a pe pe le ewwwww vibe?? 😅😂😂

I’m actually not romantic at all just very direct in my approach lol.

When I talk to a person my body language and words let you know what I want. 😆
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I think some Aquas do right by powerful people ...or people close to them ...a boss ..family etc ...Not necessarily always the right thing ...they can do wrong by many ..and right by a few ...
Hmmmmm.....I've had a few Aqua men knowing I was married try it on with me. It didn't seem to bother them in the least that i was in a committed rship

Share the love hey?

Shady

Lol
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I’ve told my aqua multiple times how I feel about him. Like once a month or more 🙄 I can’t help my emotional side. I think he secretly loves it.
What does he say he feels about you?
I’ve never asked with a straightforward question. I don’t want to push him for emotions when that’s not him. He’s an aqua moon too. The most I’ve gotten is that he still wants me in his life when things aren’t so busy. But he still talks to me and hasn’t left. So I’d like to believe that if he didn’t like me and what I’ve said, that he’d go away. The fact that he hasn’t gone away, gives me a little hope. But he’s cap cusp and focused on owning 3 businesses, so I’m supporting him and letting things be as they are right now. I told him I’d be patient.
So are you not on no contact anymore?
Omg I failed that soooooooo bad. I went 3 weeks without texting him, but by week 2 I was posting on snap like 4 times a day or more and he was checking every one within 30 minutes. So to me, that was me basically contacting him. Oops 🙈then I texted him telling him how I felt about him and we started talking again.
Is he initiating any of the talking or is it always you?

Mostly me but he has. Honestly I’m not expecting anything out of this. I just want to be supportive person in his life. I’ve actually been trying to let go because there’s no certainty of the future and that makes me feel insecure. But at the same time I can’t help but feel like I’ve been his gf this whole time and he’s been my bf as neither of us has dated anyone else and we’ve both been present in each other’s life this whole time. We’ve also never actually broken up. He’s part cap and I’ve read many stories of them disappearing for work. But that’s not entirely true. I view myself as single and if I find someone I like more, I’m going for it. As you can see, I have mixed emotions about the relationship. So I’m going with the flow.

But one thing I’d like to share for the first time is that I think he wants me to chase him. Even more so than I have believe it or not. I think he wants me to show up at his work or his home or the location he’s at. That’s the vibe I get. And this kind of goes along with what aqua on here are telling you to do. They are telling you to chase him. The real question is why? Do they need proof of our love and loyalty? To show that we don’t give up on what is important to us? I’m rather curious. Aquas......?


But you have been chasing him and he's avoiding being caught. It's like you're snapping your little crab claws trying to catch the wind.

I have no idea what my one wants. He said he can't give me what I want at the moment and friends is all he can offer me right now. I don't know if that means until August or if it was just an excuse for a permanent exit.

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I think your situation is similar to mine. Like you, I got on his case about making more time to be with me. And he couldn’t give it either.

Ive learned it’s not about me. It’s all about my aqua’s love and commitment to work. And that’s why I support him and accept the relationship for what it is.
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@Seleukos - when giving advice, like the i love you declaration for example, is that something you would do or something you want someone to do for you?

It seems like Aqua advice isn't stuff that is in their character to do, so is it based on what you desire more than what you would do?
No, it's what I do.

Be warned however that it leads to hilarious situations. At least in my case.
I’ve said this in person and in a text to 2 different Aquas. The text version went well cause I couldn’t see his reaction. He just had a slight pause in texting but then resumed the conversation.

The second one actually jumped into the ocean and swam to a floating dock to get some air and get away from me. 😂😂

So cute lol.


idk why... but you give me Pepe LePew vibes

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Is that a pe pe le ewwwww vibe?? 😅😂😂

I’m actually not romantic at all just very direct in my approach lol.

When I talk to a person my body language and words let you know what I want. 😆


Lol yes. You're Pepe LePew and the girl skunk is the Aqua.

Don't worry, my Aries is the same way with me.... and I love him for it even though he annoys me with it. lol
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Lmao.

You Aquas don’t hide the smile too well when we jump on you though! 😂😂😂
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I think some Aquas do right by powerful people ...or people close to them ...a boss ..family etc ...Not necessarily always the right thing ...they can do wrong by many ..and right by a few ...
Hmmmmm.....I've had a few Aqua men knowing I was married try it on with me. It didn't seem to bother them in the least that i was in a committed rship

Share the love hey?

Shady

Lol
I also know a few Scorpios who justify their cheating because they were slighted and go psycho (scorpio style ) when they just so look at another woman.

Double Standards

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I am only too aware of the faults of my own sign and a big yes to the double standards lol, but I was referring to my experiences with Aqua men, not Scorpio ones

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I’ve told my aqua multiple times how I feel about him. Like once a month or more 🙄 I can’t help my emotional side. I think he secretly loves it.
What does he say he feels about you?
I’ve never asked with a straightforward question. I don’t want to push him for emotions when that’s not him. He’s an aqua moon too. The most I’ve gotten is that he still wants me in his life when things aren’t so busy. But he still talks to me and hasn’t left. So I’d like to believe that if he didn’t like me and what I’ve said, that he’d go away. The fact that he hasn’t gone away, gives me a little hope. But he’s cap cusp and focused on owning 3 businesses, so I’m supporting him and letting things be as they are right now. I told him I’d be patient.
So are you not on no contact anymore?
Omg I failed that soooooooo bad. I went 3 weeks without texting him, but by week 2 I was posting on snap like 4 times a day or more and he was checking every one within 30 minutes. So to me, that was me basically contacting him. Oops 🙈then I texted him telling him how I felt about him and we started talking again.
Is he initiating any of the talking or is it always you?

Mostly me but he has. Honestly I’m not expecting anything out of this. I just want to be supportive person in his life. I’ve actually been trying to let go because there’s no certainty of the future and that makes me feel insecure. But at the same time I can’t help but feel like I’ve been his gf this whole time and he’s been my bf as neither of us has dated anyone else and we’ve both been present in each other’s life this whole time. We’ve also never actually broken up. He’s part cap and I’ve read many stories of them disappearing for work. But that’s not entirely true. I view myself as single and if I find someone I like more, I’m going for it. As you can see, I have mixed emotions about the relationship. So I’m going with the flow.

But one thing I’d like to share for the first time is that I think he wants me to chase him. Even more so than I have believe it or not. I think he wants me to show up at his work or his home or the location he’s at. That’s the vibe I get. And this kind of goes along with what aqua on here are telling you to do. They are telling you to chase him. The real question is why? Do they need proof of our love and loyalty? To show that we don’t give up on what is important to us? I’m rather curious. Aquas......?


But you have been chasing him and he's avoiding being caught. It's like you're snapping your little crab claws trying to catch the wind.

I have no idea what my one wants. He said he can't give me what I want at the moment and friends is all he can offer me right now. I don't know if that means until August or if it was just an excuse for a permanent exit.


I think your situation is similar to mine. Like you, I got on his case about making more time to be with me. And he couldn’t give it either.

Ive learned it’s not about me. It’s all about my aqua’s love and commitment to work. And that’s why I support him and accept the relationship for what it is.
How long were you in a relationship and how long have you been in this undefined cycle?

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I don’t know to be honest. We started dating in September. I’d say the undefined cycle truly began in January.
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Kudos to the hit thread @Aerialview 😎

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Thank you 😆 but i think @Seleukos deserves it more than I do.

He made at least 200 replies 😆 3rd house stellium.

Lol you got 10 pages more than my original post. You have to keep it going so it hits 50 pages.

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I'm not interested. Maybe Seleukos is?

Lol 😂
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Kudos to the hit thread @Aerialview 😎

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Thank you 😆 but i think @Seleukos deserves it more than I do.

He made at least 200 replies 😆 3rd house stellium.
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I saw the number of pages. Not who was posting what. Either way. Both you men are pretty decent mortals 😆 You both get a prize! 🏆🏆
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Kudos to the hit thread @Aerialview 😎

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Thank you 😆 but i think @Seleukos deserves it more than I do.

He made at least 200 replies 😆 3rd house stellium.

Lol you got 10 pages more than my original post. You have to keep it going so it hits 50 pages.


I'm not interested. Maybe Seleukos is?

Lol 😂

This isn't about you. It's for the greater food of the community. Now talk about your feelings like a true Aquarius

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He can at least do that if he’s not gonna give you any advice! 😂😂😂😂
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Kudos to the hit thread @Aerialview 😎

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Thank you 😆 but i think @Seleukos deserves it more than I do.

He made at least 200 replies 😆 3rd house stellium.

Lol you got 10 pages more than my original post. You have to keep it going so it hits 50 pages.


I'm not interested. Maybe Seleukos is?

Lol 😂

This isn't about you. It's for the greater food of the community. Now talk about your feelings like a true Aquarius

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Btw. What food was served in this thread? 😆