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@pisceswoman123
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Posted by SeleukosThis reaction would have got an “lol, you’re an asshole 😂😂” from me.Posted by Lioness18881"Understandable. I love myself too."Posted by SeleukosIf someone you know has a crush on you, sms's an i love you, how would you react to it? Would you take it as a joke and laugh it off or freak the fk out?Posted by Lioness18881No, it's what I do.
@Seleukos - when giving advice, like the i love you declaration for example, is that something you would do or something you want someone to do for you?
It seems like Aqua advice isn't stuff that is in their character to do, so is it based on what you desire more than what you would do?
Be warned however that it leads to hilarious situations. At least in my case.
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Posted by JadeAlexanderMe too lolPosted by saggurl885 times? You know how many I’ve said it to? 2! That’s like over 20 years too...Posted by Lioness18881I love freely. I’m not scared to say it. It’s actually a relief for me to say it and get rid of the burden.Posted by SeleukosYou told 2 you love them? Do you tell everyone?Posted by saggurl88No shit?Posted by SeleukosI’ve said this in person and in a text to 2 different Aquas. The text version went well cause I couldn’t see his reaction. He just had a slight pause in texting but then resumed the conversation.Posted by Lioness18881No, it's what I do.
@Seleukos - when giving advice, like the i love you declaration for example, is that something you would do or something you want someone to do for you?
It seems like Aqua advice isn't stuff that is in their character to do, so is it based on what you desire more than what you would do?
Be warned however that it leads to hilarious situations. At least in my case.
The second one actually jumped into the ocean and swam to a floating dock to get some air and get away from me. 😂😂
So cute lol.
I only say it when I mean it though. I’ve only said it to 5 men in my life so far. I don’t care who says it first. Once I know I do, I say it.
This is what got me in trouble with my ex Scorpio. He knew me and the Aqua had sex and he knows I can only have sex once I love you.
He had the nerve to confront me about it and I actually had to tell him that obviously the Aqua didn’t like me like that so what does it matter if I loved him.
Then we were able to continue or weekly rendezvous lol
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Posted by SeleukosI know. His face said everything though lolPosted by saggurl88That's amazingly expressive of him.Posted by SeleukosYes lol. We were sitting at a bar on the beach. He did jump in fully clothed though. He didn’t wait to strip down.Posted by saggurl88Okay, but you were at a beach and swimming anyway, right?Posted by SeleukosYup lol. He looked so scared 😅😂😂Posted by saggurl88No shit?Posted by SeleukosI’ve said this in person and in a text to 2 different Aquas. The text version went well cause I couldn’t see his reaction. He just had a slight pause in texting but then resumed the conversation.Posted by Lioness18881No, it's what I do.
@Seleukos - when giving advice, like the i love you declaration for example, is that something you would do or something you want someone to do for you?
It seems like Aqua advice isn't stuff that is in their character to do, so is it based on what you desire more than what you would do?
Be warned however that it leads to hilarious situations. At least in my case.
The second one actually jumped into the ocean and swam to a floating dock to get some air and get away from me. 😂😂
So cute lol.
His cousin asked me what I did to him lol. I didn’t say anything though.
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Posted by SeleukosYes I noticed you do like it 😂👍Posted by AerialViewIt starts in the third.
Thank you @Seleukos for keeping this thread going 😂
Talking to multiple people at once and continuously👍
You may be a Cap stellium but that stellium falls in the 3rd house am I right?
Mars/Moon/Uranus.
I'm used to talking with multiple people at once. I like it.click to expand

Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123I'm a sucker for snow.Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by SeleukosYou need some helpPosted by pisceswoman123It's spring.Posted by SeleukosOmg, what do I see? Ice melting 🤭Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123I abstain from it personally but I never advice people to do the same. I mostly do the opposite if I see a chance.Posted by SeleukosYou don’t normally encourage Love. That was a very open and warm quote from you.Posted by pisceswoman123I didn't get what you meant. Well, not entirely, so elaborate please.Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123Wut?Posted by SeleukosWow. Is that you @ Seleukos?Posted by JadeAlexanderJust do it.Posted by SeleukosPosted by JadeAlexanderTell him.Posted by SeleukosThat’s about where it’s at... i just haven’t been honest about the depth of my feelings... we’re just really good friends, and I respect and admire and value him 🤦♀️Posted by JadeAlexanderInitiate and then let him give some room to control and then repeat.Posted by SeleukosBut so am I. I don’t need to feel rushed or pressured so it works.Posted by JadeAlexanderYeah, we are very slow.Posted by SeleukosHe sucks at communicating but I’m very patient and gentle with him. I’ve noticed in the last year he’s far more expressive. I have to earn his trust.Posted by JadeAlexanderCap venus never moves on.Posted by SeleukosOh he does... but I figured out what he likes. He likes stable and dependable. My calmness and ability to communicate in a reasonable manner draws him in.Posted by JadeAlexanderTrue, but doesn't your Aqua also have a Cap Venus or did I confused yours with @saggurl88 's?Posted by SeleukosYou don’t count. You’re actively avoiding relationships.Posted by JadeAlexanderNot for a Cap Venus..
I have no pride.... try that! Nothing attracts a man like desperation... can’t peomise you’ll like what comes around though....
I don’t think he or I are desperate.. we both can’t seem to move on.
That's why we are so reluctant to jump in.
if we do it's for life and if it fails we leave that area completly.
You are right though. Stable and reliable are good.
He’s stuck around for awhile now. That’s good enough.. I just don’t know if I should initiate or continue to give him control
We both suck at that part....
Cap Venus is hesitant to go in if they aren't sure if those feelings are reciprocated.
He’s fished for it and I panicked... he asked what I wanted and I just didn’t have the balls to be honest.
I’m waiting for the right opportunity... although I think he knows... i mean, how can he not know? And if he’s so insecure how do I even tell him? I’ve never told someone I loved them first. Usually it was the dude and I was like ‘ummmm no’...
How can he trust you if you are not willing to stand by your feelings?
Get yourself a bottle of wine and type "I love you" as a PM, SMS, Whatsapp or whatever and then keep drinking so that you forget that you even sent that message.
At worst you then know how things are and can move on.
I don’t recognize you!!!!
That it’s an advice that I would say 😄
Sorry I don’t know what you mean. I just arrived. And I have being drinking so... oops! 😋
I didn’t expect that from you. That would definitely be more like my kind of advice🙂
Ah! That is the Seleukos I know 😜
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Are you sick? 🤒
My dreaded nemesis.![]()
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Ohhh!!! Look at that happy face 😆
I can give you as much as you want. I have enough
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😂 pass me that beer and I throw you some
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Posted by SeleukosYes third house is Gemini's natural house.Posted by AerialViewI'm like a Gemini in that area.Posted by SeleukosYes I noticed you do like it 😂👍Posted by AerialViewIt starts in the third.
Thank you @Seleukos for keeping this thread going 😂
Talking to multiple people at once and continuously👍
You may be a Cap stellium but that stellium falls in the 3rd house am I right?
Mars/Moon/Uranus.
I'm used to talking with multiple people at once. I like it.
The more mental stimulation the better.
It's why I also tend to play multiple card game matches at once.click to expand

Posted by saggurl88😄 why are you so funny! Gawd!Posted by SeleukosI’ve said this in person and in a text to 2 different Aquas. The text version went well cause I couldn’t see his reaction. He just had a slight pause in texting but then resumed the conversation.Posted by Lioness18881No, it's what I do.
@Seleukos - when giving advice, like the i love you declaration for example, is that something you would do or something you want someone to do for you?
It seems like Aqua advice isn't stuff that is in their character to do, so is it based on what you desire more than what you would do?
Be warned however that it leads to hilarious situations. At least in my case.
The second one actually jumped into the ocean and swam to a floating dock to get some air and get away from me. 😂😂
So cute lol.
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Posted by STILLPosted by saggurl88😄 why are you so funny! Gawd!Posted by SeleukosI’ve said this in person and in a text to 2 different Aquas. The text version went well cause I couldn’t see his reaction. He just had a slight pause in texting but then resumed the conversation.Posted by Lioness18881No, it's what I do.
@Seleukos - when giving advice, like the i love you declaration for example, is that something you would do or something you want someone to do for you?
It seems like Aqua advice isn't stuff that is in their character to do, so is it based on what you desire more than what you would do?
Be warned however that it leads to hilarious situations. At least in my case.
The second one actually jumped into the ocean and swam to a floating dock to get some air and get away from me. 😂😂
So cute lol.
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Posted by SeleukosDid you study philosophy during second level ed?Posted by MyStarsShineNo, if anything I'm of a Sokrated or Salomon.
@Seleukos
Are you the Aristotle of Dxp? 😛
I think you are a Libra, not an Aqua ...
"You saw sagacious Solomon
You know what came of him To him, complexities seemed plain
He cursed the hour that gave birth to him And saw that everything was vain
How great and wise was Solomon
The world, however, did not wait
But soon observed what followed on
It's wisdom that had brought him to this state
How fortunate the man with none"
"You heard of honest Socrates
The man who never lied
They weren't so grateful as you'd think
Instead the rulers fixed to have him tried
And handed him the poisoned drink
How honest was the people's noble son
The world, however, did not wait
But soon observed what followed on It's honesty that brought him to that state
How fortunate the man with none"
I have some strong Libra influences though.click to expand

Posted by Seleukoslol Sag Placements 😆Posted by saggurl88"You have passed the test."Posted by SeleukosThis reaction would have got an “lol, you’re an asshole 😂😂” from me.Posted by Lioness18881"Understandable. I love myself too."Posted by SeleukosIf someone you know has a crush on you, sms's an i love you, how would you react to it? Would you take it as a joke and laugh it off or freak the fk out?Posted by Lioness18881No, it's what I do.
@Seleukos - when giving advice, like the i love you declaration for example, is that something you would do or something you want someone to do for you?
It seems like Aqua advice isn't stuff that is in their character to do, so is it based on what you desire more than what you would do?
Be warned however that it leads to hilarious situations. At least in my case.
How would you take that?
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Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123More please.Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123I'm a sucker for snow.Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by SeleukosYou need some helpPosted by pisceswoman123It's spring.Posted by SeleukosOmg, what do I see? Ice melting 🤭Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123I abstain from it personally but I never advice people to do the same. I mostly do the opposite if I see a chance.Posted by SeleukosYou don’t normally encourage Love. That was a very open and warm quote from you.Posted by pisceswoman123I didn't get what you meant. Well, not entirely, so elaborate please.Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123Wut?Posted by SeleukosWow. Is that you @ Seleukos?Posted by JadeAlexanderJust do it.Posted by SeleukosPosted by JadeAlexanderTell him.Posted by SeleukosThat’s about where it’s at... i just haven’t been honest about the depth of my feelings... we’re just really good friends, and I respect and admire and value him 🤦♀️Posted by JadeAlexanderInitiate and then let him give some room to control and then repeat.Posted by SeleukosBut so am I. I don’t need to feel rushed or pressured so it works.Posted by JadeAlexanderYeah, we are very slow.Posted by SeleukosHe sucks at communicating but I’m very patient and gentle with him. I’ve noticed in the last year he’s far more expressive. I have to earn his trust.Posted by JadeAlexanderCap venus never moves on.Posted by SeleukosOh he does... but I figured out what he likes. He likes stable and dependable. My calmness and ability to communicate in a reasonable manner draws him in.Posted by JadeAlexanderTrue, but doesn't your Aqua also have a Cap Venus or did I confused yours with @saggurl88 's?Posted by SeleukosYou don’t count. You’re actively avoiding relationships.Posted by JadeAlexanderNot for a Cap Venus..
I have no pride.... try that! Nothing attracts a man like desperation... can’t peomise you’ll like what comes around though....
I don’t think he or I are desperate.. we both can’t seem to move on.
That's why we are so reluctant to jump in.
if we do it's for life and if it fails we leave that area completly.
You are right though. Stable and reliable are good.
He’s stuck around for awhile now. That’s good enough.. I just don’t know if I should initiate or continue to give him control
We both suck at that part....
Cap Venus is hesitant to go in if they aren't sure if those feelings are reciprocated.
He’s fished for it and I panicked... he asked what I wanted and I just didn’t have the balls to be honest.
I’m waiting for the right opportunity... although I think he knows... i mean, how can he not know? And if he’s so insecure how do I even tell him? I’ve never told someone I loved them first. Usually it was the dude and I was like ‘ummmm no’...
How can he trust you if you are not willing to stand by your feelings?
Get yourself a bottle of wine and type "I love you" as a PM, SMS, Whatsapp or whatever and then keep drinking so that you forget that you even sent that message.
At worst you then know how things are and can move on.
I don’t recognize you!!!!
That it’s an advice that I would say 😄
Sorry I don’t know what you mean. I just arrived. And I have being drinking so... oops! 😋
I didn’t expect that from you. That would definitely be more like my kind of advice🙂
Ah! That is the Seleukos I know 😜
![]()
Are you sick? 🤒
My dreaded nemesis.![]()
![]()
Ohhh!!! Look at that happy face 😆
I can give you as much as you want. I have enough
![]()
😂 pass me that beer and I throw you some
![]()
Cheers 🍻![]()
People are becoming happy again around here and this will not do!click to expand

Posted by Lioness18881I always love. I have a GIANT HEART (Pisces Venus)Posted by JadeAlexanderSame. For me it means forever so i need to know that I'm their forever too or they don't deserve my love. I can only give it if they're worthy of it. Otherwise it's being wasted on someone who would take it for granted anywayPosted by Lioness18881I don’t love, I can be infatuated... I may be attracted or interested... but love means so much to me.Posted by SeleukosI think it's thrown around by some people like it's just a word. But for other people it's way more than that.Posted by Lioness18881Being scared wouldn't stop me.Posted by SeleukosOk thanks. I wasn't sure if you guys were scared of it. I'm a bit scared of it.Posted by Lioness18881If it would have happened during the time I was still mildly open towards it I would just jump in.Posted by SeleukosIf that was a joke followed by something then, that would be a different response.Posted by Lioness18881Read it again.Posted by SeleukosRejection is rejection. It's exposing a vulnerability and having it shut down of mocked or laughed at. The reason might be because it's uncomfortable to respond to it, but the person at the receiving end will be affected by it in some way. Either walls go up or hurt. Something will change in them even if they try to hide it to save face. Feelings are a big deal for most peoplePosted by Lioness18881That would have a completly different meaning than mine.Posted by SeleukosPosted by Lioness18881A joke is no rejection.Posted by SeleukosPosted by Lioness18881Why do you think it's a rejection?Posted by SeleukosPosted by Lioness18881"Understandable. I love myself too."Posted by SeleukosIf someone you know has a crush on you, sms's an i love you, how would you react to it? Would you take it as a joke and laugh it off or freak the fk out?Posted by Lioness18881No, it's what I do.
@Seleukos - when giving advice, like the i love you declaration for example, is that something you would do or something you want someone to do for you?
It seems like Aqua advice isn't stuff that is in their character to do, so is it based on what you desire more than what you would do?
Be warned however that it leads to hilarious situations. At least in my case.
Lol. if they love you, that's a big ego blow. I don't think people want to set themselves up for rejection like that
Because that response would be a joke about their most vulnrable feeling. It's dismissing it
Jokes about someones deep feelings is. If you told a girl you liked her and wanted to take her out and her response was... lol get in line with the rest of them 😘. Would that be rejection?
Keep in mind there would be also more after that opener depending on what my stance towards her would be.
I never said anything about rejection.
I open things with a laugh and then try solve the situation depending on my stance towards that person.
So after jokes, what would your response to someone you have feelings for but aren't reafy to say i love you be? Would it make you run, uncomfortable, over think and detatch...
The detachment bullshit would happen within the relationship.
It's not that big of a deal and will fail anyway so why make all the drama.
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Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123More please.Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123I'm a sucker for snow.Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by SeleukosYou need some helpPosted by pisceswoman123It's spring.Posted by SeleukosOmg, what do I see? Ice melting 🤭Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123I abstain from it personally but I never advice people to do the same. I mostly do the opposite if I see a chance.Posted by SeleukosYou don’t normally encourage Love. That was a very open and warm quote from you.Posted by pisceswoman123I didn't get what you meant. Well, not entirely, so elaborate please.Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123Wut?Posted by SeleukosWow. Is that you @ Seleukos?Posted by JadeAlexanderJust do it.Posted by SeleukosPosted by JadeAlexanderTell him.Posted by SeleukosThat’s about where it’s at... i just haven’t been honest about the depth of my feelings... we’re just really good friends, and I respect and admire and value him 🤦♀️Posted by JadeAlexanderInitiate and then let him give some room to control and then repeat.Posted by SeleukosBut so am I. I don’t need to feel rushed or pressured so it works.Posted by JadeAlexanderYeah, we are very slow.Posted by SeleukosHe sucks at communicating but I’m very patient and gentle with him. I’ve noticed in the last year he’s far more expressive. I have to earn his trust.Posted by JadeAlexanderCap venus never moves on.Posted by SeleukosOh he does... but I figured out what he likes. He likes stable and dependable. My calmness and ability to communicate in a reasonable manner draws him in.Posted by JadeAlexanderTrue, but doesn't your Aqua also have a Cap Venus or did I confused yours with @saggurl88 's?Posted by SeleukosYou don’t count. You’re actively avoiding relationships.Posted by JadeAlexanderNot for a Cap Venus..
I have no pride.... try that! Nothing attracts a man like desperation... can’t peomise you’ll like what comes around though....
I don’t think he or I are desperate.. we both can’t seem to move on.
That's why we are so reluctant to jump in.
if we do it's for life and if it fails we leave that area completly.
You are right though. Stable and reliable are good.
He’s stuck around for awhile now. That’s good enough.. I just don’t know if I should initiate or continue to give him control
We both suck at that part....
Cap Venus is hesitant to go in if they aren't sure if those feelings are reciprocated.
He’s fished for it and I panicked... he asked what I wanted and I just didn’t have the balls to be honest.
I’m waiting for the right opportunity... although I think he knows... i mean, how can he not know? And if he’s so insecure how do I even tell him? I’ve never told someone I loved them first. Usually it was the dude and I was like ‘ummmm no’...
How can he trust you if you are not willing to stand by your feelings?
Get yourself a bottle of wine and type "I love you" as a PM, SMS, Whatsapp or whatever and then keep drinking so that you forget that you even sent that message.
At worst you then know how things are and can move on.
I don’t recognize you!!!!
That it’s an advice that I would say 😄
Sorry I don’t know what you mean. I just arrived. And I have being drinking so... oops! 😋
I didn’t expect that from you. That would definitely be more like my kind of advice🙂
Ah! That is the Seleukos I know 😜
![]()
Are you sick? 🤒
My dreaded nemesis.![]()
![]()
Ohhh!!! Look at that happy face 😆
I can give you as much as you want. I have enough
![]()
😂 pass me that beer and I throw you some
![]()
Cheers 🍻![]()
People are becoming happy again around here and this will not do!
Lol That it’s because you are talking to all of them 😜
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Posted by JadeAlexanderOf course you don't relate. You're no Pisces Venus.Posted by AerialViewMy friend says that... he just loves to love.... I cannot relate. I like infatuation... but it’s not lovePosted by Lioness18881I always love. I have a GIANT HEART (Pisces Venus)Posted by JadeAlexanderSame. For me it means forever so i need to know that I'm their forever too or they don't deserve my love. I can only give it if they're worthy of it. Otherwise it's being wasted on someone who would take it for granted anywayPosted by Lioness18881I don’t love, I can be infatuated... I may be attracted or interested... but love means so much to me.Posted by SeleukosI think it's thrown around by some people like it's just a word. But for other people it's way more than that.Posted by Lioness18881Being scared wouldn't stop me.Posted by SeleukosOk thanks. I wasn't sure if you guys were scared of it. I'm a bit scared of it.Posted by Lioness18881If it would have happened during the time I was still mildly open towards it I would just jump in.Posted by SeleukosIf that was a joke followed by something then, that would be a different response.Posted by Lioness18881Read it again.Posted by SeleukosRejection is rejection. It's exposing a vulnerability and having it shut down of mocked or laughed at. The reason might be because it's uncomfortable to respond to it, but the person at the receiving end will be affected by it in some way. Either walls go up or hurt. Something will change in them even if they try to hide it to save face. Feelings are a big deal for most peoplePosted by Lioness18881That would have a completly different meaning than mine.Posted by SeleukosPosted by Lioness18881A joke is no rejection.Posted by SeleukosPosted by Lioness18881Why do you think it's a rejection?Posted by SeleukosPosted by Lioness18881"Understandable. I love myself too."Posted by SeleukosIf someone you know has a crush on you, sms's an i love you, how would you react to it? Would you take it as a joke and laugh it off or freak the fk out?Posted by Lioness18881No, it's what I do.
@Seleukos - when giving advice, like the i love you declaration for example, is that something you would do or something you want someone to do for you?
It seems like Aqua advice isn't stuff that is in their character to do, so is it based on what you desire more than what you would do?
Be warned however that it leads to hilarious situations. At least in my case.
Lol. if they love you, that's a big ego blow. I don't think people want to set themselves up for rejection like that
Because that response would be a joke about their most vulnrable feeling. It's dismissing it
Jokes about someones deep feelings is. If you told a girl you liked her and wanted to take her out and her response was... lol get in line with the rest of them 😘. Would that be rejection?
Keep in mind there would be also more after that opener depending on what my stance towards her would be.
I never said anything about rejection.
I open things with a laugh and then try solve the situation depending on my stance towards that person.
So after jokes, what would your response to someone you have feelings for but aren't reafy to say i love you be? Would it make you run, uncomfortable, over think and detatch...
The detachment bullshit would happen within the relationship.
It's not that big of a deal and will fail anyway so why make all the drama.
There's so much love in me. Sometimes I think for me one woman is not enough.
😂
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Posted by SeleukosOh, I thought so....it showsPosted by MyStarsShinePhilosophy is my minor of my BA.Posted by SeleukosDid you study philosophy during second level ed?Posted by MyStarsShineNo, if anything I'm of a Sokrated or Salomon.
@Seleukos
Are you the Aristotle of Dxp? 😛
I think you are a Libra, not an Aqua ...
"You saw sagacious Solomon
You know what came of him To him, complexities seemed plain
He cursed the hour that gave birth to him And saw that everything was vain
How great and wise was Solomon
The world, however, did not wait
But soon observed what followed on
It's wisdom that had brought him to this state
How fortunate the man with none"
"You heard of honest Socrates
The man who never lied
They weren't so grateful as you'd think
Instead the rulers fixed to have him tried
And handed him the poisoned drink
How honest was the people's noble son
The world, however, did not wait
But soon observed what followed on It's honesty that brought him to that state
How fortunate the man with none"
I have some strong Libra influences though.
Yes, I see Libra emerging in the way you communicate ... Do you know tiz that posts sometimes? He has the same refinement ...
Yeah, I know and like him although I didn't have interacted with him that much so far.
He is a good example however why I don't understand all the hate for Libras.
The world would be such a dark, unjust place without them. Sure Sags could balance it a bit but they are often to scattered and Aquas lack the ability to connect with people with the same peacful quality that Libras can.
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Posted by AerialViewPosted by JadeAlexanderOf course you don't relate. You're no Pisces Venus.Posted by AerialViewMy friend says that... he just loves to love.... I cannot relate. I like infatuation... but it’s not lovePosted by Lioness18881I always love. I have a GIANT HEART (Pisces Venus)Posted by JadeAlexanderSame. For me it means forever so i need to know that I'm their forever too or they don't deserve my love. I can only give it if they're worthy of it. Otherwise it's being wasted on someone who would take it for granted anywayPosted by Lioness18881I don’t love, I can be infatuated... I may be attracted or interested... but love means so much to me.Posted by SeleukosI think it's thrown around by some people like it's just a word. But for other people it's way more than that.Posted by Lioness18881Being scared wouldn't stop me.Posted by SeleukosOk thanks. I wasn't sure if you guys were scared of it. I'm a bit scared of it.Posted by Lioness18881If it would have happened during the time I was still mildly open towards it I would just jump in.Posted by SeleukosIf that was a joke followed by something then, that would be a different response.Posted by Lioness18881Read it again.Posted by SeleukosRejection is rejection. It's exposing a vulnerability and having it shut down of mocked or laughed at. The reason might be because it's uncomfortable to respond to it, but the person at the receiving end will be affected by it in some way. Either walls go up or hurt. Something will change in them even if they try to hide it to save face. Feelings are a big deal for most peoplePosted by Lioness18881That would have a completly different meaning than mine.Posted by SeleukosPosted by Lioness18881A joke is no rejection.Posted by SeleukosPosted by Lioness18881Why do you think it's a rejection?Posted by SeleukosPosted by Lioness18881"Understandable. I love myself too."Posted by SeleukosIf someone you know has a crush on you, sms's an i love you, how would you react to it? Would you take it as a joke and laugh it off or freak the fk out?Posted by Lioness18881No, it's what I do.
@Seleukos - when giving advice, like the i love you declaration for example, is that something you would do or something you want someone to do for you?
It seems like Aqua advice isn't stuff that is in their character to do, so is it based on what you desire more than what you would do?
Be warned however that it leads to hilarious situations. At least in my case.
Lol. if they love you, that's a big ego blow. I don't think people want to set themselves up for rejection like that
Because that response would be a joke about their most vulnrable feeling. It's dismissing it
Jokes about someones deep feelings is. If you told a girl you liked her and wanted to take her out and her response was... lol get in line with the rest of them 😘. Would that be rejection?
Keep in mind there would be also more after that opener depending on what my stance towards her would be.
I never said anything about rejection.
I open things with a laugh and then try solve the situation depending on my stance towards that person.
So after jokes, what would your response to someone you have feelings for but aren't reafy to say i love you be? Would it make you run, uncomfortable, over think and detatch...
The detachment bullshit would happen within the relationship.
It's not that big of a deal and will fail anyway so why make all the drama.
There's so much love in me. Sometimes I think for me one woman is not enough.
😂
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Posted by SeleukosLolPosted by pisceswoman123Uhh, noo...Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123More please.Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123I'm a sucker for snow.Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by SeleukosYou need some helpPosted by pisceswoman123It's spring.Posted by SeleukosOmg, what do I see? Ice melting 🤭Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123I abstain from it personally but I never advice people to do the same. I mostly do the opposite if I see a chance.Posted by SeleukosYou don’t normally encourage Love. That was a very open and warm quote from you.Posted by pisceswoman123I didn't get what you meant. Well, not entirely, so elaborate please.Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123Wut?Posted by SeleukosWow. Is that you @ Seleukos?Posted by JadeAlexanderJust do it.Posted by SeleukosPosted by JadeAlexanderTell him.Posted by SeleukosThat’s about where it’s at... i just haven’t been honest about the depth of my feelings... we’re just really good friends, and I respect and admire and value him 🤦♀️Posted by JadeAlexanderInitiate and then let him give some room to control and then repeat.Posted by SeleukosBut so am I. I don’t need to feel rushed or pressured so it works.Posted by JadeAlexanderYeah, we are very slow.Posted by SeleukosHe sucks at communicating but I’m very patient and gentle with him. I’ve noticed in the last year he’s far more expressive. I have to earn his trust.Posted by JadeAlexanderCap venus never moves on.Posted by SeleukosOh he does... but I figured out what he likes. He likes stable and dependable. My calmness and ability to communicate in a reasonable manner draws him in.Posted by JadeAlexanderTrue, but doesn't your Aqua also have a Cap Venus or did I confused yours with @saggurl88 's?Posted by SeleukosYou don’t count. You’re actively avoiding relationships.Posted by JadeAlexanderNot for a Cap Venus..
I have no pride.... try that! Nothing attracts a man like desperation... can’t peomise you’ll like what comes around though....
I don’t think he or I are desperate.. we both can’t seem to move on.
That's why we are so reluctant to jump in.
if we do it's for life and if it fails we leave that area completly.
You are right though. Stable and reliable are good.
He’s stuck around for awhile now. That’s good enough.. I just don’t know if I should initiate or continue to give him control
We both suck at that part....
Cap Venus is hesitant to go in if they aren't sure if those feelings are reciprocated.
He’s fished for it and I panicked... he asked what I wanted and I just didn’t have the balls to be honest.
I’m waiting for the right opportunity... although I think he knows... i mean, how can he not know? And if he’s so insecure how do I even tell him? I’ve never told someone I loved them first. Usually it was the dude and I was like ‘ummmm no’...
How can he trust you if you are not willing to stand by your feelings?
Get yourself a bottle of wine and type "I love you" as a PM, SMS, Whatsapp or whatever and then keep drinking so that you forget that you even sent that message.
At worst you then know how things are and can move on.
I don’t recognize you!!!!
That it’s an advice that I would say 😄
Sorry I don’t know what you mean. I just arrived. And I have being drinking so... oops! 😋
I didn’t expect that from you. That would definitely be more like my kind of advice🙂
Ah! That is the Seleukos I know 😜
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Posted by pisceswoman123No you can't be like me 😫Posted by AerialViewPosted by JadeAlexanderOf course you don't relate. You're no Pisces Venus.Posted by AerialViewMy friend says that... he just loves to love.... I cannot relate. I like infatuation... but it’s not lovePosted by Lioness18881I always love. I have a GIANT HEART (Pisces Venus)Posted by JadeAlexanderSame. For me it means forever so i need to know that I'm their forever too or they don't deserve my love. I can only give it if they're worthy of it. Otherwise it's being wasted on someone who would take it for granted anywayPosted by Lioness18881I don’t love, I can be infatuated... I may be attracted or interested... but love means so much to me.Posted by SeleukosI think it's thrown around by some people like it's just a word. But for other people it's way more than that.Posted by Lioness18881Being scared wouldn't stop me.Posted by SeleukosOk thanks. I wasn't sure if you guys were scared of it. I'm a bit scared of it.Posted by Lioness18881If it would have happened during the time I was still mildly open towards it I would just jump in.Posted by SeleukosIf that was a joke followed by something then, that would be a different response.Posted by Lioness18881Read it again.Posted by SeleukosRejection is rejection. It's exposing a vulnerability and having it shut down of mocked or laughed at. The reason might be because it's uncomfortable to respond to it, but the person at the receiving end will be affected by it in some way. Either walls go up or hurt. Something will change in them even if they try to hide it to save face. Feelings are a big deal for most peoplePosted by Lioness18881That would have a completly different meaning than mine.Posted by SeleukosPosted by Lioness18881A joke is no rejection.Posted by SeleukosPosted by Lioness18881Why do you think it's a rejection?Posted by SeleukosPosted by Lioness18881"Understandable. I love myself too."Posted by SeleukosIf someone you know has a crush on you, sms's an i love you, how would you react to it? Would you take it as a joke and laugh it off or freak the fk out?Posted by Lioness18881No, it's what I do.
@Seleukos - when giving advice, like the i love you declaration for example, is that something you would do or something you want someone to do for you?
It seems like Aqua advice isn't stuff that is in their character to do, so is it based on what you desire more than what you would do?
Be warned however that it leads to hilarious situations. At least in my case.
Lol. if they love you, that's a big ego blow. I don't think people want to set themselves up for rejection like that
Because that response would be a joke about their most vulnrable feeling. It's dismissing it
Jokes about someones deep feelings is. If you told a girl you liked her and wanted to take her out and her response was... lol get in line with the rest of them 😘. Would that be rejection?
Keep in mind there would be also more after that opener depending on what my stance towards her would be.
I never said anything about rejection.
I open things with a laugh and then try solve the situation depending on my stance towards that person.
So after jokes, what would your response to someone you have feelings for but aren't reafy to say i love you be? Would it make you run, uncomfortable, over think and detatch...
The detachment bullshit would happen within the relationship.
It's not that big of a deal and will fail anyway so why make all the drama.
There's so much love in me. Sometimes I think for me one woman is not enough.
😂
As a Pisces. I know exactly what you mean 😍
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Posted by AerialViewAnd why’s that? 😝Posted by pisceswoman123No you can't be like me 😫Posted by AerialViewPosted by JadeAlexanderOf course you don't relate. You're no Pisces Venus.Posted by AerialViewMy friend says that... he just loves to love.... I cannot relate. I like infatuation... but it’s not lovePosted by Lioness18881I always love. I have a GIANT HEART (Pisces Venus)Posted by JadeAlexanderSame. For me it means forever so i need to know that I'm their forever too or they don't deserve my love. I can only give it if they're worthy of it. Otherwise it's being wasted on someone who would take it for granted anywayPosted by Lioness18881I don’t love, I can be infatuated... I may be attracted or interested... but love means so much to me.Posted by SeleukosI think it's thrown around by some people like it's just a word. But for other people it's way more than that.Posted by Lioness18881Being scared wouldn't stop me.Posted by SeleukosOk thanks. I wasn't sure if you guys were scared of it. I'm a bit scared of it.Posted by Lioness18881If it would have happened during the time I was still mildly open towards it I would just jump in.Posted by SeleukosIf that was a joke followed by something then, that would be a different response.Posted by Lioness18881Read it again.Posted by SeleukosRejection is rejection. It's exposing a vulnerability and having it shut down of mocked or laughed at. The reason might be because it's uncomfortable to respond to it, but the person at the receiving end will be affected by it in some way. Either walls go up or hurt. Something will change in them even if they try to hide it to save face. Feelings are a big deal for most peoplePosted by Lioness18881That would have a completly different meaning than mine.Posted by SeleukosPosted by Lioness18881A joke is no rejection.Posted by SeleukosPosted by Lioness18881Why do you think it's a rejection?Posted by SeleukosPosted by Lioness18881"Understandable. I love myself too."Posted by SeleukosIf someone you know has a crush on you, sms's an i love you, how would you react to it? Would you take it as a joke and laugh it off or freak the fk out?Posted by Lioness18881No, it's what I do.
@Seleukos - when giving advice, like the i love you declaration for example, is that something you would do or something you want someone to do for you?
It seems like Aqua advice isn't stuff that is in their character to do, so is it based on what you desire more than what you would do?
Be warned however that it leads to hilarious situations. At least in my case.
Lol. if they love you, that's a big ego blow. I don't think people want to set themselves up for rejection like that
Because that response would be a joke about their most vulnrable feeling. It's dismissing it
Jokes about someones deep feelings is. If you told a girl you liked her and wanted to take her out and her response was... lol get in line with the rest of them 😘. Would that be rejection?
Keep in mind there would be also more after that opener depending on what my stance towards her would be.
I never said anything about rejection.
I open things with a laugh and then try solve the situation depending on my stance towards that person.
So after jokes, what would your response to someone you have feelings for but aren't reafy to say i love you be? Would it make you run, uncomfortable, over think and detatch...
The detachment bullshit would happen within the relationship.
It's not that big of a deal and will fail anyway so why make all the drama.
There's so much love in me. Sometimes I think for me one woman is not enough.
😂
As a Pisces. I know exactly what you mean 😍
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Posted by Lioness18881Especially if it's done deceitfullyPosted by AerialViewPosted by Lioness18881I always love. I have a GIANT HEART (Pisces Venus)Posted by JadeAlexanderSame. For me it means forever so i need to know that I'm their forever too or they don't deserve my love. I can only give it if they're worthy of it. Otherwise it's being wasted on someone who would take it for granted anywayPosted by Lioness18881I don’t love, I can be infatuated... I may be attracted or interested... but love means so much to me.Posted by SeleukosI think it's thrown around by some people like it's just a word. But for other people it's way more than that.Posted by Lioness18881Being scared wouldn't stop me.Posted by SeleukosOk thanks. I wasn't sure if you guys were scared of it. I'm a bit scared of it.Posted by Lioness18881If it would have happened during the time I was still mildly open towards it I would just jump in.Posted by SeleukosIf that was a joke followed by something then, that would be a different response.Posted by Lioness18881Read it again.Posted by SeleukosRejection is rejection. It's exposing a vulnerability and having it shut down of mocked or laughed at. The reason might be because it's uncomfortable to respond to it, but the person at the receiving end will be affected by it in some way. Either walls go up or hurt. Something will change in them even if they try to hide it to save face. Feelings are a big deal for most peoplePosted by Lioness18881That would have a completly different meaning than mine.Posted by SeleukosPosted by Lioness18881A joke is no rejection.Posted by SeleukosPosted by Lioness18881Why do you think it's a rejection?Posted by SeleukosPosted by Lioness18881"Understandable. I love myself too."Posted by SeleukosIf someone you know has a crush on you, sms's an i love you, how would you react to it? Would you take it as a joke and laugh it off or freak the fk out?Posted by Lioness18881No, it's what I do.
@Seleukos - when giving advice, like the i love you declaration for example, is that something you would do or something you want someone to do for you?
It seems like Aqua advice isn't stuff that is in their character to do, so is it based on what you desire more than what you would do?
Be warned however that it leads to hilarious situations. At least in my case.
Lol. if they love you, that's a big ego blow. I don't think people want to set themselves up for rejection like that
Because that response would be a joke about their most vulnrable feeling. It's dismissing it
Jokes about someones deep feelings is. If you told a girl you liked her and wanted to take her out and her response was... lol get in line with the rest of them 😘. Would that be rejection?
Keep in mind there would be also more after that opener depending on what my stance towards her would be.
I never said anything about rejection.
I open things with a laugh and then try solve the situation depending on my stance towards that person.
So after jokes, what would your response to someone you have feelings for but aren't reafy to say i love you be? Would it make you run, uncomfortable, over think and detatch...
The detachment bullshit would happen within the relationship.
It's not that big of a deal and will fail anyway so why make all the drama.
There's so much love in me. Sometimes I think for me one woman is not enough.
😂
That ain't love. Love is selfless. It's not about what you want, it's what the other person wants. So if you share your love and hurt someone by doing that, you don't love them.
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Posted by SeleukosAaaahh that is lovely to read, thanksPosted by MyStarsShineMy Scorp buddy has that combi along with a very good triple conjunction in Sag.Posted by SeleukosOh, I thought so....it showsPosted by MyStarsShinePhilosophy is my minor of my BA.Posted by SeleukosDid you study philosophy during second level ed?Posted by MyStarsShineNo, if anything I'm of a Sokrated or Salomon.
@Seleukos
Are you the Aristotle of Dxp? 😛
I think you are a Libra, not an Aqua ...
"You saw sagacious Solomon
You know what came of him To him, complexities seemed plain
He cursed the hour that gave birth to him And saw that everything was vain
How great and wise was Solomon
The world, however, did not wait
But soon observed what followed on
It's wisdom that had brought him to this state
How fortunate the man with none"
"You heard of honest Socrates
The man who never lied
They weren't so grateful as you'd think
Instead the rulers fixed to have him tried
And handed him the poisoned drink
How honest was the people's noble son
The world, however, did not wait
But soon observed what followed on It's honesty that brought him to that state
How fortunate the man with none"
I have some strong Libra influences though.
Yes, I see Libra emerging in the way you communicate ... Do you know tiz that posts sometimes? He has the same refinement ...
Yeah, I know and like him although I didn't have interacted with him that much so far.
He is a good example however why I don't understand all the hate for Libras.
The world would be such a dark, unjust place without them. Sure Sags could balance it a bit but they are often to scattered and Aquas lack the ability to connect with people with the same peacful quality that Libras can.
One has to love Lady Justice.
Yes to Libra...how could anyone hate the Venusian signs? I agree with your take on Sag and Aquas....not the same eloquence as Libra, and at times somewhat boorish ?
Our son has Sun in Scorp and Moon in Libra...such a very interesting combo....intensely charming and seemingly loved by all that meet him ... He is also a very snappy dresser lol
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Posted by JadeAlexanderNah Scorpio Venus is built to conquer and possess one at a time. Obsessed.Posted by AerialViewShouldn’t my Scorpio Venus make all Gaga for the stuff?Posted by JadeAlexanderOf course you don't relate. You're no Pisces Venus.Posted by AerialViewMy friend says that... he just loves to love.... I cannot relate. I like infatuation... but it’s not lovePosted by Lioness18881I always love. I have a GIANT HEART (Pisces Venus)Posted by JadeAlexanderSame. For me it means forever so i need to know that I'm their forever too or they don't deserve my love. I can only give it if they're worthy of it. Otherwise it's being wasted on someone who would take it for granted anywayPosted by Lioness18881I don’t love, I can be infatuated... I may be attracted or interested... but love means so much to me.Posted by SeleukosI think it's thrown around by some people like it's just a word. But for other people it's way more than that.Posted by Lioness18881Being scared wouldn't stop me.Posted by SeleukosOk thanks. I wasn't sure if you guys were scared of it. I'm a bit scared of it.Posted by Lioness18881If it would have happened during the time I was still mildly open towards it I would just jump in.Posted by SeleukosIf that was a joke followed by something then, that would be a different response.Posted by Lioness18881Read it again.Posted by SeleukosRejection is rejection. It's exposing a vulnerability and having it shut down of mocked or laughed at. The reason might be because it's uncomfortable to respond to it, but the person at the receiving end will be affected by it in some way. Either walls go up or hurt. Something will change in them even if they try to hide it to save face. Feelings are a big deal for most peoplePosted by Lioness18881That would have a completly different meaning than mine.Posted by SeleukosPosted by Lioness18881A joke is no rejection.Posted by SeleukosPosted by Lioness18881Why do you think it's a rejection?Posted by SeleukosPosted by Lioness18881"Understandable. I love myself too."Posted by SeleukosIf someone you know has a crush on you, sms's an i love you, how would you react to it? Would you take it as a joke and laugh it off or freak the fk out?Posted by Lioness18881No, it's what I do.
@Seleukos - when giving advice, like the i love you declaration for example, is that something you would do or something you want someone to do for you?
It seems like Aqua advice isn't stuff that is in their character to do, so is it based on what you desire more than what you would do?
Be warned however that it leads to hilarious situations. At least in my case.
Lol. if they love you, that's a big ego blow. I don't think people want to set themselves up for rejection like that
Because that response would be a joke about their most vulnrable feeling. It's dismissing it
Jokes about someones deep feelings is. If you told a girl you liked her and wanted to take her out and her response was... lol get in line with the rest of them 😘. Would that be rejection?
Keep in mind there would be also more after that opener depending on what my stance towards her would be.
I never said anything about rejection.
I open things with a laugh and then try solve the situation depending on my stance towards that person.
So after jokes, what would your response to someone you have feelings for but aren't reafy to say i love you be? Would it make you run, uncomfortable, over think and detatch...
The detachment bullshit would happen within the relationship.
It's not that big of a deal and will fail anyway so why make all the drama.
There's so much love in me. Sometimes I think for me one woman is not enough.
😂
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Posted by pisceswoman123Only me can do that. Period 😜Posted by AerialViewAnd why’s that? 😝Posted by pisceswoman123No you can't be like me 😫Posted by AerialViewPosted by JadeAlexanderOf course you don't relate. You're no Pisces Venus.Posted by AerialViewMy friend says that... he just loves to love.... I cannot relate. I like infatuation... but it’s not lovePosted by Lioness18881I always love. I have a GIANT HEART (Pisces Venus)Posted by JadeAlexanderSame. For me it means forever so i need to know that I'm their forever too or they don't deserve my love. I can only give it if they're worthy of it. Otherwise it's being wasted on someone who would take it for granted anywayPosted by Lioness18881I don’t love, I can be infatuated... I may be attracted or interested... but love means so much to me.Posted by SeleukosI think it's thrown around by some people like it's just a word. But for other people it's way more than that.Posted by Lioness18881Being scared wouldn't stop me.Posted by SeleukosOk thanks. I wasn't sure if you guys were scared of it. I'm a bit scared of it.Posted by Lioness18881If it would have happened during the time I was still mildly open towards it I would just jump in.Posted by SeleukosIf that was a joke followed by something then, that would be a different response.Posted by Lioness18881Read it again.Posted by SeleukosRejection is rejection. It's exposing a vulnerability and having it shut down of mocked or laughed at. The reason might be because it's uncomfortable to respond to it, but the person at the receiving end will be affected by it in some way. Either walls go up or hurt. Something will change in them even if they try to hide it to save face. Feelings are a big deal for most peoplePosted by Lioness18881That would have a completly different meaning than mine.Posted by SeleukosPosted by Lioness18881A joke is no rejection.Posted by SeleukosPosted by Lioness18881Why do you think it's a rejection?Posted by SeleukosPosted by Lioness18881"Understandable. I love myself too."Posted by SeleukosIf someone you know has a crush on you, sms's an i love you, how would you react to it? Would you take it as a joke and laugh it off or freak the fk out?Posted by Lioness18881No, it's what I do.
@Seleukos - when giving advice, like the i love you declaration for example, is that something you would do or something you want someone to do for you?
It seems like Aqua advice isn't stuff that is in their character to do, so is it based on what you desire more than what you would do?
Be warned however that it leads to hilarious situations. At least in my case.
Lol. if they love you, that's a big ego blow. I don't think people want to set themselves up for rejection like that
Because that response would be a joke about their most vulnrable feeling. It's dismissing it
Jokes about someones deep feelings is. If you told a girl you liked her and wanted to take her out and her response was... lol get in line with the rest of them 😘. Would that be rejection?
Keep in mind there would be also more after that opener depending on what my stance towards her would be.
I never said anything about rejection.
I open things with a laugh and then try solve the situation depending on my stance towards that person.
So after jokes, what would your response to someone you have feelings for but aren't reafy to say i love you be? Would it make you run, uncomfortable, over think and detatch...
The detachment bullshit would happen within the relationship.
It's not that big of a deal and will fail anyway so why make all the drama.
There's so much love in me. Sometimes I think for me one woman is not enough.
😂
As a Pisces. I know exactly what you mean 😍
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Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123I haven't spoken with anyone for a week or so.Posted by SeleukosLolPosted by pisceswoman123Uhh, noo...Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123More please.Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123I'm a sucker for snow.Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by SeleukosYou need some helpPosted by pisceswoman123It's spring.Posted by SeleukosOmg, what do I see? Ice melting 🤭Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123I abstain from it personally but I never advice people to do the same. I mostly do the opposite if I see a chance.Posted by SeleukosYou don’t normally encourage Love. That was a very open and warm quote from you.Posted by pisceswoman123I didn't get what you meant. Well, not entirely, so elaborate please.Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123Wut?Posted by SeleukosWow. Is that you @ Seleukos?Posted by JadeAlexanderJust do it.Posted by SeleukosPosted by JadeAlexanderTell him.Posted by SeleukosThat’s about where it’s at... i just haven’t been honest about the depth of my feelings... we’re just really good friends, and I respect and admire and value him 🤦♀️Posted by JadeAlexanderInitiate and then let him give some room to control and then repeat.Posted by SeleukosBut so am I. I don’t need to feel rushed or pressured so it works.Posted by JadeAlexanderYeah, we are very slow.Posted by SeleukosHe sucks at communicating but I’m very patient and gentle with him. I’ve noticed in the last year he’s far more expressive. I have to earn his trust.Posted by JadeAlexanderCap venus never moves on.Posted by SeleukosOh he does... but I figured out what he likes. He likes stable and dependable. My calmness and ability to communicate in a reasonable manner draws him in.Posted by JadeAlexanderTrue, but doesn't your Aqua also have a Cap Venus or did I confused yours with @saggurl88 's?Posted by SeleukosYou don’t count. You’re actively avoiding relationships.Posted by JadeAlexanderNot for a Cap Venus..
I have no pride.... try that! Nothing attracts a man like desperation... can’t peomise you’ll like what comes around though....
I don’t think he or I are desperate.. we both can’t seem to move on.
That's why we are so reluctant to jump in.
if we do it's for life and if it fails we leave that area completly.
You are right though. Stable and reliable are good.
He’s stuck around for awhile now. That’s good enough.. I just don’t know if I should initiate or continue to give him control
We both suck at that part....
Cap Venus is hesitant to go in if they aren't sure if those feelings are reciprocated.
He’s fished for it and I panicked... he asked what I wanted and I just didn’t have the balls to be honest.
I’m waiting for the right opportunity... although I think he knows... i mean, how can he not know? And if he’s so insecure how do I even tell him? I’ve never told someone I loved them first. Usually it was the dude and I was like ‘ummmm no’...
How can he trust you if you are not willing to stand by your feelings?
Get yourself a bottle of wine and type "I love you" as a PM, SMS, Whatsapp or whatever and then keep drinking so that you forget that you even sent that message.
At worst you then know how things are and can move on.
I don’t recognize you!!!!
That it’s an advice that I would say 😄
Sorry I don’t know what you mean. I just arrived. And I have being drinking so... oops! 😋
I didn’t expect that from you. That would definitely be more like my kind of advice🙂
Ah! That is the Seleukos I know 😜
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People are becoming happy again around here and this will not do!
Lol That it’s because you are talking to all of them 😜
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Posted by Lioness18881You are dead right.....it's not lovePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Lioness18881Especially if it's done deceitfullyPosted by AerialViewPosted by Lioness18881I always love. I have a GIANT HEART (Pisces Venus)Posted by JadeAlexanderSame. For me it means forever so i need to know that I'm their forever too or they don't deserve my love. I can only give it if they're worthy of it. Otherwise it's being wasted on someone who would take it for granted anywayPosted by Lioness18881I don’t love, I can be infatuated... I may be attracted or interested... but love means so much to me.Posted by SeleukosI think it's thrown around by some people like it's just a word. But for other people it's way more than that.Posted by Lioness18881Being scared wouldn't stop me.Posted by SeleukosOk thanks. I wasn't sure if you guys were scared of it. I'm a bit scared of it.Posted by Lioness18881If it would have happened during the time I was still mildly open towards it I would just jump in.Posted by SeleukosIf that was a joke followed by something then, that would be a different response.Posted by Lioness18881Read it again.Posted by SeleukosRejection is rejection. It's exposing a vulnerability and having it shut down of mocked or laughed at. The reason might be because it's uncomfortable to respond to it, but the person at the receiving end will be affected by it in some way. Either walls go up or hurt. Something will change in them even if they try to hide it to save face. Feelings are a big deal for most peoplePosted by Lioness18881That would have a completly different meaning than mine.Posted by SeleukosPosted by Lioness18881A joke is no rejection.Posted by SeleukosPosted by Lioness18881Why do you think it's a rejection?Posted by SeleukosPosted by Lioness18881"Understandable. I love myself too."Posted by SeleukosIf someone you know has a crush on you, sms's an i love you, how would you react to it? Would you take it as a joke and laugh it off or freak the fk out?Posted by Lioness18881No, it's what I do.
@Seleukos - when giving advice, like the i love you declaration for example, is that something you would do or something you want someone to do for you?
It seems like Aqua advice isn't stuff that is in their character to do, so is it based on what you desire more than what you would do?
Be warned however that it leads to hilarious situations. At least in my case.
Lol. if they love you, that's a big ego blow. I don't think people want to set themselves up for rejection like that
Because that response would be a joke about their most vulnrable feeling. It's dismissing it
Jokes about someones deep feelings is. If you told a girl you liked her and wanted to take her out and her response was... lol get in line with the rest of them 😘. Would that be rejection?
Keep in mind there would be also more after that opener depending on what my stance towards her would be.
I never said anything about rejection.
I open things with a laugh and then try solve the situation depending on my stance towards that person.
So after jokes, what would your response to someone you have feelings for but aren't reafy to say i love you be? Would it make you run, uncomfortable, over think and detatch...
The detachment bullshit would happen within the relationship.
It's not that big of a deal and will fail anyway so why make all the drama.
There's so much love in me. Sometimes I think for me one woman is not enough.
😂
That ain't love. Love is selfless. It's not about what you want, it's what the other person wants. So if you share your love and hurt someone by doing that, you don't love them.
Doesn't matter how it's done. If the actions hurt the person you claim to love and you continue doing it, then your love is questionable.
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Posted by SeleukosYes unusual and weird, just like our lad ...Posted by MyStarsShineUnusual and weird like me but also a lot more relaxed and laid back than most Scorps.Posted by SeleukosAaaahh that is lovely to read, thanksPosted by MyStarsShineMy Scorp buddy has that combi along with a very good triple conjunction in Sag.Posted by SeleukosOh, I thought so....it showsPosted by MyStarsShinePhilosophy is my minor of my BA.Posted by SeleukosDid you study philosophy during second level ed?Posted by MyStarsShineNo, if anything I'm of a Sokrated or Salomon.
@Seleukos
Are you the Aristotle of Dxp? 😛
I think you are a Libra, not an Aqua ...
"You saw sagacious Solomon
You know what came of him To him, complexities seemed plain
He cursed the hour that gave birth to him And saw that everything was vain
How great and wise was Solomon
The world, however, did not wait
But soon observed what followed on
It's wisdom that had brought him to this state
How fortunate the man with none"
"You heard of honest Socrates
The man who never lied
They weren't so grateful as you'd think
Instead the rulers fixed to have him tried
And handed him the poisoned drink
How honest was the people's noble son
The world, however, did not wait
But soon observed what followed on It's honesty that brought him to that state
How fortunate the man with none"
I have some strong Libra influences though.
Yes, I see Libra emerging in the way you communicate ... Do you know tiz that posts sometimes? He has the same refinement ...
Yeah, I know and like him although I didn't have interacted with him that much so far.
He is a good example however why I don't understand all the hate for Libras.
The world would be such a dark, unjust place without them. Sure Sags could balance it a bit but they are often to scattered and Aquas lack the ability to connect with people with the same peacful quality that Libras can.
One has to love Lady Justice.
Yes to Libra...how could anyone hate the Venusian signs? I agree with your take on Sag and Aquas....not the same eloquence as Libra, and at times somewhat boorish ?
Our son has Sun in Scorp and Moon in Libra...such a very interesting combo....intensely charming and seemingly loved by all that meet him ... He is also a very snappy dresser lol
🙂
I think it's a set up for win combination. You son is a lucky person.
He has Merc in Sag!!
What is your friend like ?
He is the first person in my life that gives me the feeling of accepting me as I am. Additionaly we are pretty good for each other in general.click to expand

Posted by AerialViewPosted by pisceswoman123Only me can do that. Period 😜Posted by AerialViewAnd why’s that? 😝Posted by pisceswoman123No you can't be like me 😫Posted by AerialViewPosted by JadeAlexanderOf course you don't relate. You're no Pisces Venus.Posted by AerialViewMy friend says that... he just loves to love.... I cannot relate. I like infatuation... but it’s not lovePosted by Lioness18881I always love. I have a GIANT HEART (Pisces Venus)Posted by JadeAlexanderSame. For me it means forever so i need to know that I'm their forever too or they don't deserve my love. I can only give it if they're worthy of it. Otherwise it's being wasted on someone who would take it for granted anywayPosted by Lioness18881I don’t love, I can be infatuated... I may be attracted or interested... but love means so much to me.Posted by SeleukosI think it's thrown around by some people like it's just a word. But for other people it's way more than that.Posted by Lioness18881Being scared wouldn't stop me.Posted by SeleukosOk thanks. I wasn't sure if you guys were scared of it. I'm a bit scared of it.Posted by Lioness18881If it would have happened during the time I was still mildly open towards it I would just jump in.Posted by SeleukosIf that was a joke followed by something then, that would be a different response.Posted by Lioness18881Read it again.Posted by SeleukosRejection is rejection. It's exposing a vulnerability and having it shut down of mocked or laughed at. The reason might be because it's uncomfortable to respond to it, but the person at the receiving end will be affected by it in some way. Either walls go up or hurt. Something will change in them even if they try to hide it to save face. Feelings are a big deal for most peoplePosted by Lioness18881That would have a completly different meaning than mine.Posted by SeleukosPosted by Lioness18881A joke is no rejection.Posted by SeleukosPosted by Lioness18881Why do you think it's a rejection?Posted by SeleukosPosted by Lioness18881"Understandable. I love myself too."Posted by SeleukosIf someone you know has a crush on you, sms's an i love you, how would you react to it? Would you take it as a joke and laugh it off or freak the fk out?Posted by Lioness18881No, it's what I do.
@Seleukos - when giving advice, like the i love you declaration for example, is that something you would do or something you want someone to do for you?
It seems like Aqua advice isn't stuff that is in their character to do, so is it based on what you desire more than what you would do?
Be warned however that it leads to hilarious situations. At least in my case.
Lol. if they love you, that's a big ego blow. I don't think people want to set themselves up for rejection like that
Because that response would be a joke about their most vulnrable feeling. It's dismissing it
Jokes about someones deep feelings is. If you told a girl you liked her and wanted to take her out and her response was... lol get in line with the rest of them 😘. Would that be rejection?
Keep in mind there would be also more after that opener depending on what my stance towards her would be.
I never said anything about rejection.
I open things with a laugh and then try solve the situation depending on my stance towards that person.
So after jokes, what would your response to someone you have feelings for but aren't reafy to say i love you be? Would it make you run, uncomfortable, over think and detatch...
The detachment bullshit would happen within the relationship.
It's not that big of a deal and will fail anyway so why make all the drama.
There's so much love in me. Sometimes I think for me one woman is not enough.
😂
As a Pisces. I know exactly what you mean 😍
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Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123Still. I know someone who would disagree. 😛Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123I haven't spoken with anyone for a week or so.Posted by SeleukosLolPosted by pisceswoman123Uhh, noo...Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123More please.Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123I'm a sucker for snow.Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by SeleukosYou need some helpPosted by pisceswoman123It's spring.Posted by SeleukosOmg, what do I see? Ice melting 🤭Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123I abstain from it personally but I never advice people to do the same. I mostly do the opposite if I see a chance.Posted by SeleukosYou don’t normally encourage Love. That was a very open and warm quote from you.Posted by pisceswoman123I didn't get what you meant. Well, not entirely, so elaborate please.Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123Wut?Posted by SeleukosWow. Is that you @ Seleukos?Posted by JadeAlexanderJust do it.Posted by SeleukosPosted by JadeAlexanderTell him.Posted by SeleukosThat’s about where it’s at... i just haven’t been honest about the depth of my feelings... we’re just really good friends, and I respect and admire and value him 🤦♀️Posted by JadeAlexanderInitiate and then let him give some room to control and then repeat.Posted by SeleukosBut so am I. I don’t need to feel rushed or pressured so it works.Posted by JadeAlexanderYeah, we are very slow.Posted by SeleukosHe sucks at communicating but I’m very patient and gentle with him. I’ve noticed in the last year he’s far more expressive. I have to earn his trust.Posted by JadeAlexanderCap venus never moves on.Posted by SeleukosOh he does... but I figured out what he likes. He likes stable and dependable. My calmness and ability to communicate in a reasonable manner draws him in.Posted by JadeAlexanderTrue, but doesn't your Aqua also have a Cap Venus or did I confused yours with @saggurl88 's?Posted by SeleukosYou don’t count. You’re actively avoiding relationships.Posted by JadeAlexanderNot for a Cap Venus..
I have no pride.... try that! Nothing attracts a man like desperation... can’t peomise you’ll like what comes around though....
I don’t think he or I are desperate.. we both can’t seem to move on.
That's why we are so reluctant to jump in.
if we do it's for life and if it fails we leave that area completly.
You are right though. Stable and reliable are good.
He’s stuck around for awhile now. That’s good enough.. I just don’t know if I should initiate or continue to give him control
We both suck at that part....
Cap Venus is hesitant to go in if they aren't sure if those feelings are reciprocated.
He’s fished for it and I panicked... he asked what I wanted and I just didn’t have the balls to be honest.
I’m waiting for the right opportunity... although I think he knows... i mean, how can he not know? And if he’s so insecure how do I even tell him? I’ve never told someone I loved them first. Usually it was the dude and I was like ‘ummmm no’...
How can he trust you if you are not willing to stand by your feelings?
Get yourself a bottle of wine and type "I love you" as a PM, SMS, Whatsapp or whatever and then keep drinking so that you forget that you even sent that message.
At worst you then know how things are and can move on.
I don’t recognize you!!!!
That it’s an advice that I would say 😄
Sorry I don’t know what you mean. I just arrived. And I have being drinking so... oops! 😋
I didn’t expect that from you. That would definitely be more like my kind of advice🙂
Ah! That is the Seleukos I know 😜
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Are you sick? 🤒
My dreaded nemesis.![]()
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Ohhh!!! Look at that happy face 😆
I can give you as much as you want. I have enough
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😂 pass me that beer and I throw you some
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Cheers 🍻![]()
People are becoming happy again around here and this will not do!
Lol That it’s because you are talking to all of them 😜
Uhh, yees...
Lol I mean in here
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Posted by SeleukosNo!!!Posted by MyStarsShineMine did as well. 😄Posted by SeleukosYes unusual and weird, just like our lad ...Posted by MyStarsShineUnusual and weird like me but also a lot more relaxed and laid back than most Scorps.Posted by SeleukosAaaahh that is lovely to read, thanksPosted by MyStarsShineMy Scorp buddy has that combi along with a very good triple conjunction in Sag.Posted by SeleukosOh, I thought so....it showsPosted by MyStarsShinePhilosophy is my minor of my BA.Posted by SeleukosDid you study philosophy during second level ed?Posted by MyStarsShineNo, if anything I'm of a Sokrated or Salomon.
@Seleukos
Are you the Aristotle of Dxp? 😛
I think you are a Libra, not an Aqua ...
"You saw sagacious Solomon
You know what came of him To him, complexities seemed plain
He cursed the hour that gave birth to him And saw that everything was vain
How great and wise was Solomon
The world, however, did not wait
But soon observed what followed on
It's wisdom that had brought him to this state
How fortunate the man with none"
"You heard of honest Socrates
The man who never lied
They weren't so grateful as you'd think
Instead the rulers fixed to have him tried
And handed him the poisoned drink
How honest was the people's noble son
The world, however, did not wait
But soon observed what followed on It's honesty that brought him to that state
How fortunate the man with none"
I have some strong Libra influences though.
Yes, I see Libra emerging in the way you communicate ... Do you know tiz that posts sometimes? He has the same refinement ...
Yeah, I know and like him although I didn't have interacted with him that much so far.
He is a good example however why I don't understand all the hate for Libras.
The world would be such a dark, unjust place without them. Sure Sags could balance it a bit but they are often to scattered and Aquas lack the ability to connect with people with the same peacful quality that Libras can.
One has to love Lady Justice.
Yes to Libra...how could anyone hate the Venusian signs? I agree with your take on Sag and Aquas....not the same eloquence as Libra, and at times somewhat boorish ?
Our son has Sun in Scorp and Moon in Libra...such a very interesting combo....intensely charming and seemingly loved by all that meet him ... He is also a very snappy dresser lol
🙂
I think it's a set up for win combination. You son is a lucky person.
He has Merc in Sag!!
What is your friend like ?
He is the first person in my life that gives me the feeling of accepting me as I am. Additionaly we are pretty good for each other in general.
Oh he has just texted me to see if I can give him a spin....hahaha..
Must have felt me talking about him
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Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123I'm evil.Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123Still. I know someone who would disagree. 😛Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123I haven't spoken with anyone for a week or so.Posted by SeleukosLolPosted by pisceswoman123Uhh, noo...Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123More please.Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123I'm a sucker for snow.Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by SeleukosYou need some helpPosted by pisceswoman123It's spring.Posted by SeleukosOmg, what do I see? Ice melting 🤭Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123I abstain from it personally but I never advice people to do the same. I mostly do the opposite if I see a chance.Posted by SeleukosYou don’t normally encourage Love. That was a very open and warm quote from you.Posted by pisceswoman123I didn't get what you meant. Well, not entirely, so elaborate please.Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123Wut?Posted by SeleukosWow. Is that you @ Seleukos?Posted by JadeAlexanderJust do it.Posted by SeleukosPosted by JadeAlexanderTell him.Posted by SeleukosThat’s about where it’s at... i just haven’t been honest about the depth of my feelings... we’re just really good friends, and I respect and admire and value him 🤦♀️Posted by JadeAlexanderInitiate and then let him give some room to control and then repeat.Posted by SeleukosBut so am I. I don’t need to feel rushed or pressured so it works.Posted by JadeAlexanderYeah, we are very slow.Posted by SeleukosHe sucks at communicating but I’m very patient and gentle with him. I’ve noticed in the last year he’s far more expressive. I have to earn his trust.Posted by JadeAlexanderCap venus never moves on.Posted by SeleukosOh he does... but I figured out what he likes. He likes stable and dependable. My calmness and ability to communicate in a reasonable manner draws him in.Posted by JadeAlexanderTrue, but doesn't your Aqua also have a Cap Venus or did I confused yours with @saggurl88 's?Posted by SeleukosYou don’t count. You’re actively avoiding relationships.Posted by JadeAlexanderNot for a Cap Venus..
I have no pride.... try that! Nothing attracts a man like desperation... can’t peomise you’ll like what comes around though....
I don’t think he or I are desperate.. we both can’t seem to move on.
That's why we are so reluctant to jump in.
if we do it's for life and if it fails we leave that area completly.
You are right though. Stable and reliable are good.
He’s stuck around for awhile now. That’s good enough.. I just don’t know if I should initiate or continue to give him control
We both suck at that part....
Cap Venus is hesitant to go in if they aren't sure if those feelings are reciprocated.
He’s fished for it and I panicked... he asked what I wanted and I just didn’t have the balls to be honest.
I’m waiting for the right opportunity... although I think he knows... i mean, how can he not know? And if he’s so insecure how do I even tell him? I’ve never told someone I loved them first. Usually it was the dude and I was like ‘ummmm no’...
How can he trust you if you are not willing to stand by your feelings?
Get yourself a bottle of wine and type "I love you" as a PM, SMS, Whatsapp or whatever and then keep drinking so that you forget that you even sent that message.
At worst you then know how things are and can move on.
I don’t recognize you!!!!
That it’s an advice that I would say 😄
Sorry I don’t know what you mean. I just arrived. And I have being drinking so... oops! 😋
I didn’t expect that from you. That would definitely be more like my kind of advice🙂
Ah! That is the Seleukos I know 😜
![]()
Are you sick? 🤒
My dreaded nemesis.![]()
![]()
Ohhh!!! Look at that happy face 😆
I can give you as much as you want. I have enough
![]()
😂 pass me that beer and I throw you some
![]()
Cheers 🍻![]()
People are becoming happy again around here and this will not do!
Lol That it’s because you are talking to all of them 😜
Uhh, yees...
Lol I mean in here
Hahahaha, it wouldn’t be the first time 😜
Deal with it.
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Posted by Lioness18881I’ve never asked with a straightforward question. I don’t want to push him for emotions when that’s not him. He’s an aqua moon too. The most I’ve gotten is that he still wants me in his life when things aren’t so busy. But he still talks to me and hasn’t left. So I’d like to believe that if he didn’t like me and what I’ve said, that he’d go away. The fact that he hasn’t gone away, gives me a little hope. But he’s cap cusp and focused on owning 3 businesses, so I’m supporting him and letting things be as they are right now. I told him I’d be patient.Posted by pinkbird03What does he say he feels about you?
@lioness18881
I’ve told my aqua multiple times how I feel about him. Like once a month or more 🙄 I can’t help my emotional side. I think he secretly loves it.click to expand

Posted by Lioness18881Omg I failed that soooooooo bad. I went 3 weeks without texting him, but by week 2 I was posting on snap like 4 times a day or more and he was checking every one within 30 minutes. So to me, that was me basically contacting him. Oops 🙈then I texted him telling him how I felt about him and we started talking again.Posted by pinkbird03So are you not on no contact anymore?Posted by Lioness18881I’ve never asked with a straightforward question. I don’t want to push him for emotions when that’s not him. He’s an aqua moon too. The most I’ve gotten is that he still wants me in his life when things aren’t so busy. But he still talks to me and hasn’t left. So I’d like to believe that if he didn’t like me and what I’ve said, that he’d go away. The fact that he hasn’t gone away, gives me a little hope. But he’s cap cusp and focused on owning 3 businesses, so I’m supporting him and letting things be as they are right now. I told him I’d be patient.Posted by pinkbird03What does he say he feels about you?
@lioness18881
I’ve told my aqua multiple times how I feel about him. Like once a month or more 🙄 I can’t help my emotional side. I think he secretly loves it.click to expand

Posted by Lioness18881Posted by pinkbird03Is he initiating any of the talking or is it always you?Posted by Lioness18881Omg I failed that soooooooo bad. I went 3 weeks without texting him, but by week 2 I was posting on snap like 4 times a day or more and he was checking every one within 30 minutes. So to me, that was me basically contacting him. Oops 🙈then I texted him telling him how I felt about him and we started talking again.Posted by pinkbird03So are you not on no contact anymore?Posted by Lioness18881I’ve never asked with a straightforward question. I don’t want to push him for emotions when that’s not him. He’s an aqua moon too. The most I’ve gotten is that he still wants me in his life when things aren’t so busy. But he still talks to me and hasn’t left. So I’d like to believe that if he didn’t like me and what I’ve said, that he’d go away. The fact that he hasn’t gone away, gives me a little hope. But he’s cap cusp and focused on owning 3 businesses, so I’m supporting him and letting things be as they are right now. I told him I’d be patient.Posted by pinkbird03What does he say he feels about you?
@lioness18881
I’ve told my aqua multiple times how I feel about him. Like once a month or more 🙄 I can’t help my emotional side. I think he secretly loves it.click to expand

Posted by vixen14Is that a pe pe le ewwwww vibe?? 😅😂😂Posted by saggurl88idk why... but you give me Pepe LePew vibesPosted by SeleukosI’ve said this in person and in a text to 2 different Aquas. The text version went well cause I couldn’t see his reaction. He just had a slight pause in texting but then resumed the conversation.Posted by Lioness18881No, it's what I do.
@Seleukos - when giving advice, like the i love you declaration for example, is that something you would do or something you want someone to do for you?
It seems like Aqua advice isn't stuff that is in their character to do, so is it based on what you desire more than what you would do?
Be warned however that it leads to hilarious situations. At least in my case.
The second one actually jumped into the ocean and swam to a floating dock to get some air and get away from me. 😂😂
So cute lol.
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Posted by SpaceBirdHmmmmm.....I've had a few Aqua men knowing I was married try it on with me. It didn't seem to bother them in the least that i was in a committed rship
I think some Aquas do right by powerful people ...or people close to them ...a boss ..family etc ...Not necessarily always the right thing ...they can do wrong by many ..and right by a few ...

Posted by Lioness18881I think your situation is similar to mine. Like you, I got on his case about making more time to be with me. And he couldn’t give it either.Posted by pinkbird03But you have been chasing him and he's avoiding being caught. It's like you're snapping your little crab claws trying to catch the wind.Posted by Lioness18881Posted by pinkbird03Is he initiating any of the talking or is it always you?Posted by Lioness18881Omg I failed that soooooooo bad. I went 3 weeks without texting him, but by week 2 I was posting on snap like 4 times a day or more and he was checking every one within 30 minutes. So to me, that was me basically contacting him. Oops 🙈then I texted him telling him how I felt about him and we started talking again.Posted by pinkbird03So are you not on no contact anymore?Posted by Lioness18881I’ve never asked with a straightforward question. I don’t want to push him for emotions when that’s not him. He’s an aqua moon too. The most I’ve gotten is that he still wants me in his life when things aren’t so busy. But he still talks to me and hasn’t left. So I’d like to believe that if he didn’t like me and what I’ve said, that he’d go away. The fact that he hasn’t gone away, gives me a little hope. But he’s cap cusp and focused on owning 3 businesses, so I’m supporting him and letting things be as they are right now. I told him I’d be patient.Posted by pinkbird03What does he say he feels about you?
@lioness18881
I’ve told my aqua multiple times how I feel about him. Like once a month or more 🙄 I can’t help my emotional side. I think he secretly loves it.
Mostly me but he has. Honestly I’m not expecting anything out of this. I just want to be supportive person in his life. I’ve actually been trying to let go because there’s no certainty of the future and that makes me feel insecure. But at the same time I can’t help but feel like I’ve been his gf this whole time and he’s been my bf as neither of us has dated anyone else and we’ve both been present in each other’s life this whole time. We’ve also never actually broken up. He’s part cap and I’ve read many stories of them disappearing for work. But that’s not entirely true. I view myself as single and if I find someone I like more, I’m going for it. As you can see, I have mixed emotions about the relationship. So I’m going with the flow.
But one thing I’d like to share for the first time is that I think he wants me to chase him. Even more so than I have believe it or not. I think he wants me to show up at his work or his home or the location he’s at. That’s the vibe I get. And this kind of goes along with what aqua on here are telling you to do. They are telling you to chase him. The real question is why? Do they need proof of our love and loyalty? To show that we don’t give up on what is important to us? I’m rather curious. Aquas......?
I have no idea what my one wants. He said he can't give me what I want at the moment and friends is all he can offer me right now. I don't know if that means until August or if it was just an excuse for a permanent exit.
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Posted by vixen14Lmao.Posted by saggurl88Lol yes. You're Pepe LePew and the girl skunk is the Aqua.Posted by vixen14Is that a pe pe le ewwwww vibe?? 😅😂😂Posted by saggurl88idk why... but you give me Pepe LePew vibesPosted by SeleukosI’ve said this in person and in a text to 2 different Aquas. The text version went well cause I couldn’t see his reaction. He just had a slight pause in texting but then resumed the conversation.Posted by Lioness18881No, it's what I do.
@Seleukos - when giving advice, like the i love you declaration for example, is that something you would do or something you want someone to do for you?
It seems like Aqua advice isn't stuff that is in their character to do, so is it based on what you desire more than what you would do?
Be warned however that it leads to hilarious situations. At least in my case.
The second one actually jumped into the ocean and swam to a floating dock to get some air and get away from me. 😂😂
So cute lol.
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I’m actually not romantic at all just very direct in my approach lol.
When I talk to a person my body language and words let you know what I want. 😆
Don't worry, my Aries is the same way with me.... and I love him for it even though he annoys me with it. lolclick to expand

Posted by vixen14I am only too aware of the faults of my own sign and a big yes to the double standards lol, but I was referring to my experiences with Aqua men, not Scorpio onesPosted by MyStarsShineI also know a few Scorpios who justify their cheating because they were slighted and go psycho (scorpio style ) when they just so look at another woman.Posted by SpaceBirdHmmmmm.....I've had a few Aqua men knowing I was married try it on with me. It didn't seem to bother them in the least that i was in a committed rship
I think some Aquas do right by powerful people ...or people close to them ...a boss ..family etc ...Not necessarily always the right thing ...they can do wrong by many ..and right by a few ...
Share the love hey?
Shady
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Double Standards
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Posted by Lioness18881I don’t know to be honest. We started dating in September. I’d say the undefined cycle truly began in January.Posted by pinkbird03How long were you in a relationship and how long have you been in this undefined cycle?Posted by Lioness18881I think your situation is similar to mine. Like you, I got on his case about making more time to be with me. And he couldn’t give it either.Posted by pinkbird03But you have been chasing him and he's avoiding being caught. It's like you're snapping your little crab claws trying to catch the wind.Posted by Lioness18881Posted by pinkbird03Is he initiating any of the talking or is it always you?Posted by Lioness18881Omg I failed that soooooooo bad. I went 3 weeks without texting him, but by week 2 I was posting on snap like 4 times a day or more and he was checking every one within 30 minutes. So to me, that was me basically contacting him. Oops 🙈then I texted him telling him how I felt about him and we started talking again.Posted by pinkbird03So are you not on no contact anymore?Posted by Lioness18881I’ve never asked with a straightforward question. I don’t want to push him for emotions when that’s not him. He’s an aqua moon too. The most I’ve gotten is that he still wants me in his life when things aren’t so busy. But he still talks to me and hasn’t left. So I’d like to believe that if he didn’t like me and what I’ve said, that he’d go away. The fact that he hasn’t gone away, gives me a little hope. But he’s cap cusp and focused on owning 3 businesses, so I’m supporting him and letting things be as they are right now. I told him I’d be patient.Posted by pinkbird03What does he say he feels about you?
@lioness18881
I’ve told my aqua multiple times how I feel about him. Like once a month or more 🙄 I can’t help my emotional side. I think he secretly loves it.
Mostly me but he has. Honestly I’m not expecting anything out of this. I just want to be supportive person in his life. I’ve actually been trying to let go because there’s no certainty of the future and that makes me feel insecure. But at the same time I can’t help but feel like I’ve been his gf this whole time and he’s been my bf as neither of us has dated anyone else and we’ve both been present in each other’s life this whole time. We’ve also never actually broken up. He’s part cap and I’ve read many stories of them disappearing for work. But that’s not entirely true. I view myself as single and if I find someone I like more, I’m going for it. As you can see, I have mixed emotions about the relationship. So I’m going with the flow.
But one thing I’d like to share for the first time is that I think he wants me to chase him. Even more so than I have believe it or not. I think he wants me to show up at his work or his home or the location he’s at. That’s the vibe I get. And this kind of goes along with what aqua on here are telling you to do. They are telling you to chase him. The real question is why? Do they need proof of our love and loyalty? To show that we don’t give up on what is important to us? I’m rather curious. Aquas......?
I have no idea what my one wants. He said he can't give me what I want at the moment and friends is all he can offer me right now. I don't know if that means until August or if it was just an excuse for a permanent exit.
Ive learned it’s not about me. It’s all about my aqua’s love and commitment to work. And that’s why I support him and accept the relationship for what it is.
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Posted by saggurl88Thank you 😆 but i think @Seleukos deserves it more than I do.
Kudos to the hit thread @Aerialview 😎![]()

Posted by Lioness18881I'm not interested. Maybe Seleukos is?Posted by AerialViewPosted by saggurl88Thank you 😆 but i think @Seleukos deserves it more than I do.
Kudos to the hit thread @Aerialview 😎![]()
He made at least 200 replies 😆 3rd house stellium.
Lol you got 10 pages more than my original post. You have to keep it going so it hits 50 pages.
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Posted by AerialViewI saw the number of pages. Not who was posting what. Either way. Both you men are pretty decent mortals 😆 You both get a prize! 🏆🏆Posted by saggurl88Thank you 😆 but i think @Seleukos deserves it more than I do.
Kudos to the hit thread @Aerialview 😎![]()
He made at least 200 replies 😆 3rd house stellium.click to expand

Posted by Lioness18881Posted by AerialViewPosted by Lioness18881I'm not interested. Maybe Seleukos is?Posted by AerialViewPosted by saggurl88Thank you 😆 but i think @Seleukos deserves it more than I do.
Kudos to the hit thread @Aerialview 😎![]()
He made at least 200 replies 😆 3rd house stellium.
Lol you got 10 pages more than my original post. You have to keep it going so it hits 50 pages.
Lol 😂
This isn't about you. It's for the greater food of the community. Now talk about your feelings like a true Aquarius
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Posted by Lioness18881Btw. What food was served in this thread? 😆Posted by AerialViewPosted by Lioness18881I'm not interested. Maybe Seleukos is?Posted by AerialViewPosted by saggurl88Thank you 😆 but i think @Seleukos deserves it more than I do.
Kudos to the hit thread @Aerialview 😎![]()
He made at least 200 replies 😆 3rd house stellium.
Lol you got 10 pages more than my original post. You have to keep it going so it hits 50 pages.
Lol 😂
This isn't about you. It's for the greater food of the community. Now talk about your feelings like a true Aquarius
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Posted by Lioness18881Lol 😂🤣😂Posted by WolfInRamsClothingAnd not one thing about his moon or ascendant. It's rather impressive
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