
MyStarsShine
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Posted by SeleukosYes, it's quite exhausting to get rid of people that want to be pleased 😄Posted by compyCouldn't have said it better.Posted by AerialViewThis "people pleaser" is a stereotype. I don't please people unless I am really into them. Otherwise, I don't give a damn. And I am a double Libra. I just stay away from "people pleasing" situations.Posted by SeleukosYou're a "people pleaser" rising rofl
My Aquarius Sun, Sagittarius moon and Libra rising make me do the right things for everyone in the right way.
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Posted by Lioness18881Lol I don't ask for help.Posted by AerialViewYou should start asking for advice and not taking it. Just so it's more realistic. So ask a relationship question so we can all "help" youPosted by AquarelleThis was supposed to be a lioness18881 parody thread lolPosted by AerialViewPosted by AquarelleWhat thread? 😄
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Posted by Lioness18881Have you called him?Posted by AerialViewPosted by Lioness18881Lol I don't ask for help.Posted by AerialViewYou should start asking for advice and not taking it. Just so it's more realistic. So ask a relationship question so we can all "help" youPosted by AquarelleThis was supposed to be a lioness18881 parody thread lolPosted by AerialViewPosted by AquarelleWhat thread? 😄
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Posted by vixen14Mesut Ozil is a Libra 😂
Libras and Libra placements claiming not to be “people pleasers” but they sure love to look like the good guy. Because “they’re fair” Lol


Posted by Lioness18881👎Posted by AerialViewNo. I'm not going toPosted by Lioness18881Have you called him?Posted by AerialViewPosted by Lioness18881Lol I don't ask for help.Posted by AerialViewYou should start asking for advice and not taking it. Just so it's more realistic. So ask a relationship question so we can all "help" youPosted by AquarelleThis was supposed to be a lioness18881 parody thread lolPosted by AerialViewPosted by AquarelleWhat thread? 😄
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Posted by CaramelizedCoffeePosted by pinkbird03Are you back with him? If not stop mentioning him thanks
Ok I’m definitely Taurus rising! I checked several websites and they all said the same.
Aqua doesn’t know his birth time so I can’t figure out his.
Youre giving me ptsd
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Posted by Lioness18881Your Aries moon and Ascendant makes you do nothing.Posted by AerialViewHe can call me if he wants. I made it clear that i want to talk to him still so it's up to him now.Posted by Lioness18881👎Posted by AerialViewNo. I'm not going toPosted by Lioness18881Have you called him?Posted by AerialViewPosted by Lioness18881Lol I don't ask for help.Posted by AerialViewYou should start asking for advice and not taking it. Just so it's more realistic. So ask a relationship question so we can all "help" youPosted by AquarelleThis was supposed to be a lioness18881 parody thread lolPosted by AerialViewPosted by AquarelleWhat thread? 😄
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Posted by vixen14Oh dear 😂😂😂😂Posted by AerialViewHe looks like a dorky frog 🐸Posted by vixen14Mesut Ozil is a Libra 😂
Libras and Libra placements claiming not to be “people pleasers” but they sure love to look like the good guy. Because “they’re fair” Lol
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Posted by Lioness18881Jeez I thought Aries loves challenge.Posted by AerialViewChasing boys isn't something i enjoy so I'd rather avoid it. I did enoughPosted by Lioness18881Your Aries moon and Ascendant makes you do nothing.Posted by AerialViewHe can call me if he wants. I made it clear that i want to talk to him still so it's up to him now.Posted by Lioness18881👎Posted by AerialViewNo. I'm not going toPosted by Lioness18881Have you called him?Posted by AerialViewPosted by Lioness18881Lol I don't ask for help.Posted by AerialViewYou should start asking for advice and not taking it. Just so it's more realistic. So ask a relationship question so we can all "help" youPosted by AquarelleThis was supposed to be a lioness18881 parody thread lolPosted by AerialViewPosted by AquarelleWhat thread? 😄
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Posted by Lioness18881If you've texted him and contact him again, that smells of desperationPosted by JadeAlexanderWhat do you say/do to be desperate?
I have no pride.... try that! Nothing attracts a man like desperation... can’t peomise you’ll like what comes around though....click to expand

Posted by Lioness18881Wow noPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Lioness18881If you've texted him and contact him again,vthat smells of desperationPosted by JadeAlexanderWhat do you say/do to be desperate?
I have no pride.... try that! Nothing attracts a man like desperation... can’t peomise you’ll like what comes around though....
I've never chased a man....never would..it doesn't give them the chance to be a man
I guess that makes me desperate then. I texted my exAqua. But i didn't ask for him back. Just wanted to talk again.
Maybe desperate is better though. Maybe that's why they get married and have families and other people don't
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Posted by JadeAlexanderIf you are having sex with him.....aren't you in a rship with him.....I am ?Posted by Lioness18881If you’re sleeping with him in hopes he’ll want to date. That desperate...Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Lioness18881If you've texted him and contact him again,vthat smells of desperationPosted by JadeAlexanderWhat do you say/do to be desperate?
I have no pride.... try that! Nothing attracts a man like desperation... can’t peomise you’ll like what comes around though....
I've never chased a man....never would..it doesn't give them the chance to be a man
I guess that makes me desperate then. I texted my exAqua. But i didn't ask for him back. Just wanted to talk again.
Maybe desperate is better though. Maybe that's why they get married and have families and other people don't
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Posted by JadeAlexanderIt is for mePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by JadeAlexanderIf you are having sex with him.....aren't you in a rship with him.....I am ?Posted by Lioness18881If you’re sleeping with him in hopes he’ll want to date. That desperate...Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Lioness18881If you've texted him and contact him again,vthat smells of desperationPosted by JadeAlexanderWhat do you say/do to be desperate?
I have no pride.... try that! Nothing attracts a man like desperation... can’t peomise you’ll like what comes around though....
I've never chased a man....never would..it doesn't give them the chance to be a man
I guess that makes me desperate then. I texted my exAqua. But i didn't ask for him back. Just wanted to talk again.
Maybe desperate is better though. Maybe that's why they get married and have families and other people don't
Sex isn’t a relationship...click to expand

Posted by Lioness18881You sound scattered....confusedPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Lioness18881Wow noPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Lioness18881If you've texted him and contact him again,vthat smells of desperationPosted by JadeAlexanderWhat do you say/do to be desperate?
I have no pride.... try that! Nothing attracts a man like desperation... can’t peomise you’ll like what comes around though....
I've never chased a man....never would..it doesn't give them the chance to be a man
I guess that makes me desperate then. I texted my exAqua. But i didn't ask for him back. Just wanted to talk again.
Maybe desperate is better though. Maybe that's why they get married and have families and other people don't
Desperate is never good
It's sad
Yeah but too much pride is bad too. That's my problem. I think i need to be more desperate so i can be like normal
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Posted by JadeAlexanderI'm not familiar with the dating scene of latePosted by MyStarsShineEveryone is different... i was just stating a common thing people donaftwr breaking up.Posted by JadeAlexanderIt is for mePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by JadeAlexanderIf you are having sex with him.....aren't you in a rship with him.....I am ?Posted by Lioness18881If you’re sleeping with him in hopes he’ll want to date. That desperate...Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Lioness18881If you've texted him and contact him again,vthat smells of desperationPosted by JadeAlexanderWhat do you say/do to be desperate?
I have no pride.... try that! Nothing attracts a man like desperation... can’t peomise you’ll like what comes around though....
I've never chased a man....never would..it doesn't give them the chance to be a man
I guess that makes me desperate then. I texted my exAqua. But i didn't ask for him back. Just wanted to talk again.
Maybe desperate is better though. Maybe that's why they get married and have families and other people don't
Sex isn’t a relationship...
No casual sex ... No fwb
Strong boundaries on that ...it's always worked for meclick to expand

Posted by Lioness18881Don't listen to her. She's butthurt biased.Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Lioness18881If you've texted him and contact him again,vthat smells of desperationPosted by JadeAlexanderWhat do you say/do to be desperate?
I have no pride.... try that! Nothing attracts a man like desperation... can’t peomise you’ll like what comes around though....
I've never chased a man....never would..it doesn't give them the chance to be a man
I guess that makes me desperate then. I texted my exAqua. But i didn't ask for him back. Just wanted to talk again.
Maybe desperate is better though. Maybe that's why they get married and have families and other people don't
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Posted by Lioness18881You need to do that alone though with no distractions ....Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Lioness18881You sound scattered....confusedPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Lioness18881Wow noPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Lioness18881If you've texted him and contact him again,vthat smells of desperationPosted by JadeAlexanderWhat do you say/do to be desperate?
I have no pride.... try that! Nothing attracts a man like desperation... can’t peomise you’ll like what comes around though....
I've never chased a man....never would..it doesn't give them the chance to be a man
I guess that makes me desperate then. I texted my exAqua. But i didn't ask for him back. Just wanted to talk again.
Maybe desperate is better though. Maybe that's why they get married and have families and other people don't
Desperate is never good
It's sad
Yeah but too much pride is bad too. That's my problem. I think i need to be more desperate so i can be like normal
Because I am. I'm reevaluating myself and trying to find balance.
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Posted by Lioness18881I like SeleukosPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Lioness18881You sound scattered....confusedPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Lioness18881Wow noPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Lioness18881If you've texted him and contact him again,vthat smells of desperationPosted by JadeAlexanderWhat do you say/do to be desperate?
I have no pride.... try that! Nothing attracts a man like desperation... can’t peomise you’ll like what comes around though....
I've never chased a man....never would..it doesn't give them the chance to be a man
I guess that makes me desperate then. I texted my exAqua. But i didn't ask for him back. Just wanted to talk again.
Maybe desperate is better though. Maybe that's why they get married and have families and other people don't
Desperate is never good
It's sad
Yeah but too much pride is bad too. That's my problem. I think i need to be more desperate so i can be like normal
Because I am. I'm reevaluating myself and trying to find balance.
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Posted by Lioness18881If you believe that crap, you're easy to manipulate then 😜Posted by AerialViewPosted by Lioness18881Don't listen to her. She's butthurt biased.Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Lioness18881If you've texted him and contact him again,vthat smells of desperationPosted by JadeAlexanderWhat do you say/do to be desperate?
I have no pride.... try that! Nothing attracts a man like desperation... can’t peomise you’ll like what comes around though....
I've never chased a man....never would..it doesn't give them the chance to be a man
I guess that makes me desperate then. I texted my exAqua. But i didn't ask for him back. Just wanted to talk again.
Maybe desperate is better though. Maybe that's why they get married and have families and other people don't
All Aqua men are bad according to her.
Maybe she's right! Maybe they are all bad 😜
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Posted by Lioness18881Never🙅Posted by AerialViewIs your butt hurting?Posted by Lioness18881If you believe that crap, you're easy to manipulate then 😜Posted by AerialViewPosted by Lioness18881Don't listen to her. She's butthurt biased.Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Lioness18881If you've texted him and contact him again,vthat smells of desperationPosted by JadeAlexanderWhat do you say/do to be desperate?
I have no pride.... try that! Nothing attracts a man like desperation... can’t peomise you’ll like what comes around though....
I've never chased a man....never would..it doesn't give them the chance to be a man
I guess that makes me desperate then. I texted my exAqua. But i didn't ask for him back. Just wanted to talk again.
Maybe desperate is better though. Maybe that's why they get married and have families and other people don't
All Aqua men are bad according to her.
Maybe she's right! Maybe they are all bad 😜
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Posted by AerialViewPosted by Lioness18881Jeez I thought Aries loves challenge.Posted by AerialViewChasing boys isn't something i enjoy so I'd rather avoid it. I did enoughPosted by Lioness18881Your Aries moon and Ascendant makes you do nothing.Posted by AerialViewHe can call me if he wants. I made it clear that i want to talk to him still so it's up to him now.Posted by Lioness18881👎Posted by AerialViewNo. I'm not going toPosted by Lioness18881Have you called him?Posted by AerialViewPosted by Lioness18881Lol I don't ask for help.Posted by AerialViewYou should start asking for advice and not taking it. Just so it's more realistic. So ask a relationship question so we can all "help" youPosted by AquarelleThis was supposed to be a lioness18881 parody thread lolPosted by AerialViewPosted by AquarelleWhat thread? 😄
Now why does this thread remind me of another thread on here? 😄![]()
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I know what's best for myself thank you 😄
But i want to help you get this over 30 pages so we need something interesting to dissect.
I've said this many times that moon sign is overrated.
The real go getter is Aries sun.click to expand

Posted by pisceswoman123Aries Venus is awesome👍Posted by AerialViewPosted by Lioness18881Jeez I thought Aries loves challenge.Posted by AerialViewChasing boys isn't something i enjoy so I'd rather avoid it. I did enoughPosted by Lioness18881Your Aries moon and Ascendant makes you do nothing.Posted by AerialViewHe can call me if he wants. I made it clear that i want to talk to him still so it's up to him now.Posted by Lioness18881👎Posted by AerialViewNo. I'm not going toPosted by Lioness18881Have you called him?Posted by AerialViewPosted by Lioness18881Lol I don't ask for help.Posted by AerialViewYou should start asking for advice and not taking it. Just so it's more realistic. So ask a relationship question so we can all "help" youPosted by AquarelleThis was supposed to be a lioness18881 parody thread lolPosted by AerialViewPosted by AquarelleWhat thread? 😄
Now why does this thread remind me of another thread on here? 😄![]()
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I know what's best for myself thank you 😄
But i want to help you get this over 30 pages so we need something interesting to dissect.
I've said this many times that moon sign is overrated.
The real go getter is Aries sun.
Aries Venus too 😜
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Posted by SeleukosWow. Is that you @ Seleukos?Posted by JadeAlexanderJust do it.Posted by SeleukosPosted by JadeAlexanderTell him.Posted by SeleukosThat’s about where it’s at... i just haven’t been honest about the depth of my feelings... we’re just really good friends, and I respect and admire and value him 🤦♀️Posted by JadeAlexanderInitiate and then let him give some room to control and then repeat.Posted by SeleukosBut so am I. I don’t need to feel rushed or pressured so it works.Posted by JadeAlexanderYeah, we are very slow.Posted by SeleukosHe sucks at communicating but I’m very patient and gentle with him. I’ve noticed in the last year he’s far more expressive. I have to earn his trust.Posted by JadeAlexanderCap venus never moves on.Posted by SeleukosOh he does... but I figured out what he likes. He likes stable and dependable. My calmness and ability to communicate in a reasonable manner draws him in.Posted by JadeAlexanderTrue, but doesn't your Aqua also have a Cap Venus or did I confused yours with @saggurl88 's?Posted by SeleukosYou don’t count. You’re actively avoiding relationships.Posted by JadeAlexanderNot for a Cap Venus..
I have no pride.... try that! Nothing attracts a man like desperation... can’t peomise you’ll like what comes around though....
I don’t think he or I are desperate.. we both can’t seem to move on.
That's why we are so reluctant to jump in.
if we do it's for life and if it fails we leave that area completly.
You are right though. Stable and reliable are good.
He’s stuck around for awhile now. That’s good enough.. I just don’t know if I should initiate or continue to give him control
We both suck at that part....
Cap Venus is hesitant to go in if they aren't sure if those feelings are reciprocated.
He’s fished for it and I panicked... he asked what I wanted and I just didn’t have the balls to be honest.
I’m waiting for the right opportunity... although I think he knows... i mean, how can he not know? And if he’s so insecure how do I even tell him? I’ve never told someone I loved them first. Usually it was the dude and I was like ‘ummmm no’...
How can he trust you if you are not willing to stand by your feelings?
Get yourself a bottle of wine and type "I love you" as a PM, SMS, Whatsapp or whatever and then keep drinking so that you forget that you even sent that message.
At worst you then know how things are and can move on.click to expand

Posted by AerialViewPosted by pisceswoman123Aries Venus is awesome👍Posted by AerialViewPosted by Lioness18881Jeez I thought Aries loves challenge.Posted by AerialViewChasing boys isn't something i enjoy so I'd rather avoid it. I did enoughPosted by Lioness18881Your Aries moon and Ascendant makes you do nothing.Posted by AerialViewHe can call me if he wants. I made it clear that i want to talk to him still so it's up to him now.Posted by Lioness18881👎Posted by AerialViewNo. I'm not going toPosted by Lioness18881Have you called him?Posted by AerialViewPosted by Lioness18881Lol I don't ask for help.Posted by AerialViewYou should start asking for advice and not taking it. Just so it's more realistic. So ask a relationship question so we can all "help" youPosted by AquarelleThis was supposed to be a lioness18881 parody thread lolPosted by AerialViewPosted by AquarelleWhat thread? 😄
Now why does this thread remind me of another thread on here? 😄![]()
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I know what's best for myself thank you 😄
But i want to help you get this over 30 pages so we need something interesting to dissect.
I've said this many times that moon sign is overrated.
The real go getter is Aries sun.
Aries Venus too 😜
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Posted by pisceswoman123You're welcome! 😘💕Posted by AerialViewPosted by pisceswoman123Aries Venus is awesome👍Posted by AerialViewPosted by Lioness18881Jeez I thought Aries loves challenge.Posted by AerialViewChasing boys isn't something i enjoy so I'd rather avoid it. I did enoughPosted by Lioness18881Your Aries moon and Ascendant makes you do nothing.Posted by AerialViewHe can call me if he wants. I made it clear that i want to talk to him still so it's up to him now.Posted by Lioness18881👎Posted by AerialViewNo. I'm not going toPosted by Lioness18881Have you called him?Posted by AerialViewPosted by Lioness18881Lol I don't ask for help.Posted by AerialViewYou should start asking for advice and not taking it. Just so it's more realistic. So ask a relationship question so we can all "help" youPosted by AquarelleThis was supposed to be a lioness18881 parody thread lolPosted by AerialViewPosted by AquarelleWhat thread? 😄
Now why does this thread remind me of another thread on here? 😄![]()
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I know what's best for myself thank you 😄
But i want to help you get this over 30 pages so we need something interesting to dissect.
I've said this many times that moon sign is overrated.
The real go getter is Aries sun.
Aries Venus too 😜
Thank’s!!!! 😘😘😘
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Posted by pisceswoman123Now he's an Aquarius 😂Posted by SeleukosWow. Is that you @ Seleukos?Posted by JadeAlexanderJust do it.Posted by SeleukosPosted by JadeAlexanderTell him.Posted by SeleukosThat’s about where it’s at... i just haven’t been honest about the depth of my feelings... we’re just really good friends, and I respect and admire and value him 🤦♀️Posted by JadeAlexanderInitiate and then let him give some room to control and then repeat.Posted by SeleukosBut so am I. I don’t need to feel rushed or pressured so it works.Posted by JadeAlexanderYeah, we are very slow.Posted by SeleukosHe sucks at communicating but I’m very patient and gentle with him. I’ve noticed in the last year he’s far more expressive. I have to earn his trust.Posted by JadeAlexanderCap venus never moves on.Posted by SeleukosOh he does... but I figured out what he likes. He likes stable and dependable. My calmness and ability to communicate in a reasonable manner draws him in.Posted by JadeAlexanderTrue, but doesn't your Aqua also have a Cap Venus or did I confused yours with @saggurl88 's?Posted by SeleukosYou don’t count. You’re actively avoiding relationships.Posted by JadeAlexanderNot for a Cap Venus..
I have no pride.... try that! Nothing attracts a man like desperation... can’t peomise you’ll like what comes around though....
I don’t think he or I are desperate.. we both can’t seem to move on.
That's why we are so reluctant to jump in.
if we do it's for life and if it fails we leave that area completly.
You are right though. Stable and reliable are good.
He’s stuck around for awhile now. That’s good enough.. I just don’t know if I should initiate or continue to give him control
We both suck at that part....
Cap Venus is hesitant to go in if they aren't sure if those feelings are reciprocated.
He’s fished for it and I panicked... he asked what I wanted and I just didn’t have the balls to be honest.
I’m waiting for the right opportunity... although I think he knows... i mean, how can he not know? And if he’s so insecure how do I even tell him? I’ve never told someone I loved them first. Usually it was the dude and I was like ‘ummmm no’...
How can he trust you if you are not willing to stand by your feelings?
Get yourself a bottle of wine and type "I love you" as a PM, SMS, Whatsapp or whatever and then keep drinking so that you forget that you even sent that message.
At worst you then know how things are and can move on.
I don’t recognize you!!!!
That it’s an advice that I would say 😄click to expand

Posted by vixen14What? No, libra moon are not like that.Posted by SeleukosIt depends on the sex and placement here. I've been around Leeb sun and moons all my life because for some twisted fate, I attract them a lot. From my observation, the Leeb females are awesome compared to the males. The only questionable thing is their lack of morals - but it stems from trying to find love and remain in love with the right person. So they'll do whatever it takes to attain that love. That and the occasional lying to protect that very morality.Posted by vixen14Not in my expecrience. Those I know are very outspoken and quite tough.Posted by SeleukosNot really. Leeb suns and moons only “try to be fair” or impartial because they like to play both sides. Then play coy/dumb and twist the truth for their convenience. A lot of stems from trying to look like the good guy....Posted by vixen14Trying to be fair and wanting to be liked are two completly different things.
Libras and Libra placements claiming not to be “people pleasers” but they sure love to look like the good guy. Because “they’re fair” Lol
Aka where you get the “people pleasers” stereotype
There is a reason why people refer to Libras as iron fists with a velvet glove.
They just try to solve things in nice way first which is a very admirable trait.
They can be a bit addicted to harmony and backstabbing form time to time, yes, but that often has a foreplay that most people ignored.
Male Libra suns have a bad habit of what I mentioned prior. They can be incredibly charming and to the more foolish and guillible (add in masochistic) signs, aka everyone else except Gemini and Aqua, they will fall for that fake charm time and time again. It's a mask you see. Behind all that Philosophical bullshit and those occassional smirks that makes any dilusional woman swoon, there is a hypocrite. "I can do to you, but you can't do to me.... You do to me and I will make it even".
Leeb moons are a special case of complete shittery. Leeb moon men seem to be struggling with their constant indecision in life, including how they feel about a particular situation. Teeter-tottering from one side to the next hoping someone will convince them enough to make a decision for them. To the occasional mental and emotional gymnastics they like to procure upon their subjects.
Their female counter part though, that's another story. You can smell the gentle and venusian aroma from a mile away but as you approach, you realize that you've just entered shitville and you're fucked. Completely devoid of any real and honest truth, there's always more than meets the eye. Incredibly sensitive to the public's perception, they will play victim as many times as it is necessary. Playing both sides of the fence to gain the admiration and respect they deserve - to help fill the void of a deeply rooted insecurity.
These are my experiences with over 20 Leebs sun / moon men and women in my life.click to expand

Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123Wut?Posted by SeleukosWow. Is that you @ Seleukos?Posted by JadeAlexanderJust do it.Posted by SeleukosPosted by JadeAlexanderTell him.Posted by SeleukosThat’s about where it’s at... i just haven’t been honest about the depth of my feelings... we’re just really good friends, and I respect and admire and value him 🤦♀️Posted by JadeAlexanderInitiate and then let him give some room to control and then repeat.Posted by SeleukosBut so am I. I don’t need to feel rushed or pressured so it works.Posted by JadeAlexanderYeah, we are very slow.Posted by SeleukosHe sucks at communicating but I’m very patient and gentle with him. I’ve noticed in the last year he’s far more expressive. I have to earn his trust.Posted by JadeAlexanderCap venus never moves on.Posted by SeleukosOh he does... but I figured out what he likes. He likes stable and dependable. My calmness and ability to communicate in a reasonable manner draws him in.Posted by JadeAlexanderTrue, but doesn't your Aqua also have a Cap Venus or did I confused yours with @saggurl88 's?Posted by SeleukosYou don’t count. You’re actively avoiding relationships.Posted by JadeAlexanderNot for a Cap Venus..
I have no pride.... try that! Nothing attracts a man like desperation... can’t peomise you’ll like what comes around though....
I don’t think he or I are desperate.. we both can’t seem to move on.
That's why we are so reluctant to jump in.
if we do it's for life and if it fails we leave that area completly.
You are right though. Stable and reliable are good.
He’s stuck around for awhile now. That’s good enough.. I just don’t know if I should initiate or continue to give him control
We both suck at that part....
Cap Venus is hesitant to go in if they aren't sure if those feelings are reciprocated.
He’s fished for it and I panicked... he asked what I wanted and I just didn’t have the balls to be honest.
I’m waiting for the right opportunity... although I think he knows... i mean, how can he not know? And if he’s so insecure how do I even tell him? I’ve never told someone I loved them first. Usually it was the dude and I was like ‘ummmm no’...
How can he trust you if you are not willing to stand by your feelings?
Get yourself a bottle of wine and type "I love you" as a PM, SMS, Whatsapp or whatever and then keep drinking so that you forget that you even sent that message.
At worst you then know how things are and can move on.
I don’t recognize you!!!!
That it’s an advice that I would say 😄click to expand

Posted by vixen14You forgot the quotation marks on deserve. I fixed it. lolPosted by SeleukosIt depends on the sex and placement here. I've been around Leeb sun and moons all my life because for some twisted fate, I attract them a lot. From my observation, the Leeb females are awesome compared to the males. The only questionable thing is their lack of morals - but it stems from trying to find love and remain in love with the right person. So they'll do whatever it takes to attain that love. That and the occasional lying to protect that very morality.Posted by vixen14Not in my expecrience. Those I know are very outspoken and quite tough.Posted by SeleukosNot really. Leeb suns and moons only “try to be fair” or impartial because they like to play both sides. Then play coy/dumb and twist the truth for their convenience. A lot of stems from trying to look like the good guy....Posted by vixen14Trying to be fair and wanting to be liked are two completly different things.
Libras and Libra placements claiming not to be “people pleasers” but they sure love to look like the good guy. Because “they’re fair” Lol
Aka where you get the “people pleasers” stereotype
There is a reason why people refer to Libras as iron fists with a velvet glove.
They just try to solve things in nice way first which is a very admirable trait.
They can be a bit addicted to harmony and backstabbing form time to time, yes, but that often has a foreplay that most people ignored.
Male Libra suns have a bad habit of what I mentioned prior. They can be incredibly charming and to the more foolish and guillible (add in masochistic) signs, aka everyone else except Gemini and Aqua, they will fall for that fake charm time and time again. It's a mask you see. Behind all that Philosophical bullshit and those occassional smirks that makes any dilusional woman swoon, there is a hypocrite. "I can do to you, but you can't do to me.... You do to me and I will make it even".
Leeb moons are a special case of complete shittery. Leeb moon men seem to be struggling with their constant indecision in life, including how they feel about a particular situation. Teeter-tottering from one side to the next hoping someone will convince them enough to make a decision for them. To the occasional mental and emotional gymnastics they like to procure upon their subjects.
Their female counter part though, that's another story. You can smell the gentle and venusian aroma from a mile away but as you approach, you realize that you've just entered shitville and you're fucked. Completely devoid of any real and honest truth, there's always more than meets the eye. Incredibly sensitive to the public's perception, they will play victim as many times as it is necessary. Playing both sides of the fence to gain the admiration and respect they "deserve" - to help fill the void of a deeply rooted insecurity.
These are my experiences with over 20 Leebs sun / moon men and women in my life.click to expand

Posted by AerialViewThat what it’s 😂 I like that side of @ SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123Now he's an Aquarius 😂Posted by SeleukosWow. Is that you @ Seleukos?Posted by JadeAlexanderJust do it.Posted by SeleukosPosted by JadeAlexanderTell him.Posted by SeleukosThat’s about where it’s at... i just haven’t been honest about the depth of my feelings... we’re just really good friends, and I respect and admire and value him 🤦♀️Posted by JadeAlexanderInitiate and then let him give some room to control and then repeat.Posted by SeleukosBut so am I. I don’t need to feel rushed or pressured so it works.Posted by JadeAlexanderYeah, we are very slow.Posted by SeleukosHe sucks at communicating but I’m very patient and gentle with him. I’ve noticed in the last year he’s far more expressive. I have to earn his trust.Posted by JadeAlexanderCap venus never moves on.Posted by SeleukosOh he does... but I figured out what he likes. He likes stable and dependable. My calmness and ability to communicate in a reasonable manner draws him in.Posted by JadeAlexanderTrue, but doesn't your Aqua also have a Cap Venus or did I confused yours with @saggurl88 's?Posted by SeleukosYou don’t count. You’re actively avoiding relationships.Posted by JadeAlexanderNot for a Cap Venus..
I have no pride.... try that! Nothing attracts a man like desperation... can’t peomise you’ll like what comes around though....
I don’t think he or I are desperate.. we both can’t seem to move on.
That's why we are so reluctant to jump in.
if we do it's for life and if it fails we leave that area completly.
You are right though. Stable and reliable are good.
He’s stuck around for awhile now. That’s good enough.. I just don’t know if I should initiate or continue to give him control
We both suck at that part....
Cap Venus is hesitant to go in if they aren't sure if those feelings are reciprocated.
He’s fished for it and I panicked... he asked what I wanted and I just didn’t have the balls to be honest.
I’m waiting for the right opportunity... although I think he knows... i mean, how can he not know? And if he’s so insecure how do I even tell him? I’ve never told someone I loved them first. Usually it was the dude and I was like ‘ummmm no’...
How can he trust you if you are not willing to stand by your feelings?
Get yourself a bottle of wine and type "I love you" as a PM, SMS, Whatsapp or whatever and then keep drinking so that you forget that you even sent that message.
At worst you then know how things are and can move on.
I don’t recognize you!!!!
That it’s an advice that I would say 😄click to expand

Posted by SeleukosYou don’t normally encourage Love. That was a very open and warm quote from you.Posted by pisceswoman123I didn't get what you meant. Well, not entirely, so elaborate please.Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123Wut?Posted by SeleukosWow. Is that you @ Seleukos?Posted by JadeAlexanderJust do it.Posted by SeleukosPosted by JadeAlexanderTell him.Posted by SeleukosThat’s about where it’s at... i just haven’t been honest about the depth of my feelings... we’re just really good friends, and I respect and admire and value him 🤦♀️Posted by JadeAlexanderInitiate and then let him give some room to control and then repeat.Posted by SeleukosBut so am I. I don’t need to feel rushed or pressured so it works.Posted by JadeAlexanderYeah, we are very slow.Posted by SeleukosHe sucks at communicating but I’m very patient and gentle with him. I’ve noticed in the last year he’s far more expressive. I have to earn his trust.Posted by JadeAlexanderCap venus never moves on.Posted by SeleukosOh he does... but I figured out what he likes. He likes stable and dependable. My calmness and ability to communicate in a reasonable manner draws him in.Posted by JadeAlexanderTrue, but doesn't your Aqua also have a Cap Venus or did I confused yours with @saggurl88 's?Posted by SeleukosYou don’t count. You’re actively avoiding relationships.Posted by JadeAlexanderNot for a Cap Venus..
I have no pride.... try that! Nothing attracts a man like desperation... can’t peomise you’ll like what comes around though....
I don’t think he or I are desperate.. we both can’t seem to move on.
That's why we are so reluctant to jump in.
if we do it's for life and if it fails we leave that area completly.
You are right though. Stable and reliable are good.
He’s stuck around for awhile now. That’s good enough.. I just don’t know if I should initiate or continue to give him control
We both suck at that part....
Cap Venus is hesitant to go in if they aren't sure if those feelings are reciprocated.
He’s fished for it and I panicked... he asked what I wanted and I just didn’t have the balls to be honest.
I’m waiting for the right opportunity... although I think he knows... i mean, how can he not know? And if he’s so insecure how do I even tell him? I’ve never told someone I loved them first. Usually it was the dude and I was like ‘ummmm no’...
How can he trust you if you are not willing to stand by your feelings?
Get yourself a bottle of wine and type "I love you" as a PM, SMS, Whatsapp or whatever and then keep drinking so that you forget that you even sent that message.
At worst you then know how things are and can move on.
I don’t recognize you!!!!
That it’s an advice that I would say 😄
Sorry I don’t know what you mean. I just arrived. And I have being drinking so... oops! 😋
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Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123I abstain from it personally but I never advice people to do the same. I mostly do the opposite if I see a chance.Posted by SeleukosYou don’t normally encourage Love. That was a very open and warm quote from you.Posted by pisceswoman123I didn't get what you meant. Well, not entirely, so elaborate please.Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123Wut?Posted by SeleukosWow. Is that you @ Seleukos?Posted by JadeAlexanderJust do it.Posted by SeleukosPosted by JadeAlexanderTell him.Posted by SeleukosThat’s about where it’s at... i just haven’t been honest about the depth of my feelings... we’re just really good friends, and I respect and admire and value him 🤦♀️Posted by JadeAlexanderInitiate and then let him give some room to control and then repeat.Posted by SeleukosBut so am I. I don’t need to feel rushed or pressured so it works.Posted by JadeAlexanderYeah, we are very slow.Posted by SeleukosHe sucks at communicating but I’m very patient and gentle with him. I’ve noticed in the last year he’s far more expressive. I have to earn his trust.Posted by JadeAlexanderCap venus never moves on.Posted by SeleukosOh he does... but I figured out what he likes. He likes stable and dependable. My calmness and ability to communicate in a reasonable manner draws him in.Posted by JadeAlexanderTrue, but doesn't your Aqua also have a Cap Venus or did I confused yours with @saggurl88 's?Posted by SeleukosYou don’t count. You’re actively avoiding relationships.Posted by JadeAlexanderNot for a Cap Venus..
I have no pride.... try that! Nothing attracts a man like desperation... can’t peomise you’ll like what comes around though....
I don’t think he or I are desperate.. we both can’t seem to move on.
That's why we are so reluctant to jump in.
if we do it's for life and if it fails we leave that area completly.
You are right though. Stable and reliable are good.
He’s stuck around for awhile now. That’s good enough.. I just don’t know if I should initiate or continue to give him control
We both suck at that part....
Cap Venus is hesitant to go in if they aren't sure if those feelings are reciprocated.
He’s fished for it and I panicked... he asked what I wanted and I just didn’t have the balls to be honest.
I’m waiting for the right opportunity... although I think he knows... i mean, how can he not know? And if he’s so insecure how do I even tell him? I’ve never told someone I loved them first. Usually it was the dude and I was like ‘ummmm no’...
How can he trust you if you are not willing to stand by your feelings?
Get yourself a bottle of wine and type "I love you" as a PM, SMS, Whatsapp or whatever and then keep drinking so that you forget that you even sent that message.
At worst you then know how things are and can move on.
I don’t recognize you!!!!
That it’s an advice that I would say 😄
Sorry I don’t know what you mean. I just arrived. And I have being drinking so... oops! 😋
I didn’t expect that from you. That would definitely be more like my kind of advice🙂click to expand

Posted by SeleukosOmg, what do I see? Ice melting 🤭Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123I abstain from it personally but I never advice people to do the same. I mostly do the opposite if I see a chance.Posted by SeleukosYou don’t normally encourage Love. That was a very open and warm quote from you.Posted by pisceswoman123I didn't get what you meant. Well, not entirely, so elaborate please.Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123Wut?Posted by SeleukosWow. Is that you @ Seleukos?Posted by JadeAlexanderJust do it.Posted by SeleukosPosted by JadeAlexanderTell him.Posted by SeleukosThat’s about where it’s at... i just haven’t been honest about the depth of my feelings... we’re just really good friends, and I respect and admire and value him 🤦♀️Posted by JadeAlexanderInitiate and then let him give some room to control and then repeat.Posted by SeleukosBut so am I. I don’t need to feel rushed or pressured so it works.Posted by JadeAlexanderYeah, we are very slow.Posted by SeleukosHe sucks at communicating but I’m very patient and gentle with him. I’ve noticed in the last year he’s far more expressive. I have to earn his trust.Posted by JadeAlexanderCap venus never moves on.Posted by SeleukosOh he does... but I figured out what he likes. He likes stable and dependable. My calmness and ability to communicate in a reasonable manner draws him in.Posted by JadeAlexanderTrue, but doesn't your Aqua also have a Cap Venus or did I confused yours with @saggurl88 's?Posted by SeleukosYou don’t count. You’re actively avoiding relationships.Posted by JadeAlexanderNot for a Cap Venus..
I have no pride.... try that! Nothing attracts a man like desperation... can’t peomise you’ll like what comes around though....
I don’t think he or I are desperate.. we both can’t seem to move on.
That's why we are so reluctant to jump in.
if we do it's for life and if it fails we leave that area completly.
You are right though. Stable and reliable are good.
He’s stuck around for awhile now. That’s good enough.. I just don’t know if I should initiate or continue to give him control
We both suck at that part....
Cap Venus is hesitant to go in if they aren't sure if those feelings are reciprocated.
He’s fished for it and I panicked... he asked what I wanted and I just didn’t have the balls to be honest.
I’m waiting for the right opportunity... although I think he knows... i mean, how can he not know? And if he’s so insecure how do I even tell him? I’ve never told someone I loved them first. Usually it was the dude and I was like ‘ummmm no’...
How can he trust you if you are not willing to stand by your feelings?
Get yourself a bottle of wine and type "I love you" as a PM, SMS, Whatsapp or whatever and then keep drinking so that you forget that you even sent that message.
At worst you then know how things are and can move on.
I don’t recognize you!!!!
That it’s an advice that I would say 😄
Sorry I don’t know what you mean. I just arrived. And I have being drinking so... oops! 😋
I didn’t expect that from you. That would definitely be more like my kind of advice🙂
Ah! That is the Seleukos I know 😜
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Posted by SeleukosLol. You can not joke like that when someone says I love you for the very first time and feeling very vulnerablePosted by Lioness18881A joke is no rejection.Posted by SeleukosPosted by Lioness18881Why do you think it's a rejection?Posted by SeleukosPosted by Lioness18881"Understandable. I love myself too."Posted by SeleukosIf someone you know has a crush on you, sms's an i love you, how would you react to it? Would you take it as a joke and laugh it off or freak the fk out?Posted by Lioness18881No, it's what I do.
@Seleukos - when giving advice, like the i love you declaration for example, is that something you would do or something you want someone to do for you?
It seems like Aqua advice isn't stuff that is in their character to do, so is it based on what you desire more than what you would do?
Be warned however that it leads to hilarious situations. At least in my case.
Lol. if they love you, that's a big ego blow. I don't think people want to set themselves up for rejection like that
Because that response would be a joke about their most vulnrable feeling. It's dismissing it
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Posted by vixen14You're welcome. Just teasing.Posted by STILLthank you. 🙂Posted by vixen14You forgot the quotation marks on deserve. I fixed it. lolPosted by SeleukosIt depends on the sex and placement here. I've been around Leeb sun and moons all my life because for some twisted fate, I attract them a lot. From my observation, the Leeb females are awesome compared to the males. The only questionable thing is their lack of morals - but it stems from trying to find love and remain in love with the right person. So they'll do whatever it takes to attain that love. That and the occasional lying to protect that very morality.Posted by vixen14Not in my expecrience. Those I know are very outspoken and quite tough.Posted by SeleukosNot really. Leeb suns and moons only “try to be fair” or impartial because they like to play both sides. Then play coy/dumb and twist the truth for their convenience. A lot of stems from trying to look like the good guy....Posted by vixen14Trying to be fair and wanting to be liked are two completly different things.
Libras and Libra placements claiming not to be “people pleasers” but they sure love to look like the good guy. Because “they’re fair” Lol
Aka where you get the “people pleasers” stereotype
There is a reason why people refer to Libras as iron fists with a velvet glove.
They just try to solve things in nice way first which is a very admirable trait.
They can be a bit addicted to harmony and backstabbing form time to time, yes, but that often has a foreplay that most people ignored.
Male Libra suns have a bad habit of what I mentioned prior. They can be incredibly charming and to the more foolish and guillible (add in masochistic) signs, aka everyone else except Gemini and Aqua, they will fall for that fake charm time and time again. It's a mask you see. Behind all that Philosophical bullshit and those occassional smirks that makes any dilusional woman swoon, there is a hypocrite. "I can do to you, but you can't do to me.... You do to me and I will make it even".
Leeb moons are a special case of complete shittery. Leeb moon men seem to be struggling with their constant indecision in life, including how they feel about a particular situation. Teeter-tottering from one side to the next hoping someone will convince them enough to make a decision for them. To the occasional mental and emotional gymnastics they like to procure upon their subjects.
Their female counter part though, that's another story. You can smell the gentle and venusian aroma from a mile away but as you approach, you realize that you've just entered shitville and you're fucked. Completely devoid of any real and honest truth, there's always more than meets the eye. Incredibly sensitive to the public's perception, they will play victim as many times as it is necessary. Playing both sides of the fence to gain the admiration and respect they "deserve" - to help fill the void of a deeply rooted insecurity.
These are my experiences with over 20 Leebs sun / moon men and women in my life.
I don't know of any Libra moons or Libra men but I definitely agree with you on those Libra women. Their lack of morals, the humble bragging and the fake modesty is just yuck!
I must emphasize that it may not be all of them, just the ones I've observed.
couldn't have done it without my fellow Gem moon.
Libra women I tend to get a long with. Their sweet. It always starts with disgust but they grow on me. Their passive aggressive "anger" makes me giggle.
Eggghhhhhughghghghgh I know TOO many Libra moons - including my stupid dog
But yeah, not all are like that as some display negative tendencies more than others but it's pretty darn close. If you take a look around Leeb moons aren't too revered here on DXP. I always read horror stories.click to expand

Posted by SeleukosI didn’t see this tag. Great advice as always though. ❤️Posted by JadeAlexanderTrue, but doesn't your Aqua also have a Cap Venus or did I confused yours with @saggurl88 's?Posted by SeleukosYou don’t count. You’re actively avoiding relationships.Posted by JadeAlexanderNot for a Cap Venus..
I have no pride.... try that! Nothing attracts a man like desperation... can’t peomise you’ll like what comes around though....click to expand

Posted by SeleukosYou need some helpPosted by pisceswoman123It's spring.Posted by SeleukosOmg, what do I see? Ice melting 🤭Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123I abstain from it personally but I never advice people to do the same. I mostly do the opposite if I see a chance.Posted by SeleukosYou don’t normally encourage Love. That was a very open and warm quote from you.Posted by pisceswoman123I didn't get what you meant. Well, not entirely, so elaborate please.Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123Wut?Posted by SeleukosWow. Is that you @ Seleukos?Posted by JadeAlexanderJust do it.Posted by SeleukosPosted by JadeAlexanderTell him.Posted by SeleukosThat’s about where it’s at... i just haven’t been honest about the depth of my feelings... we’re just really good friends, and I respect and admire and value him 🤦♀️Posted by JadeAlexanderInitiate and then let him give some room to control and then repeat.Posted by SeleukosBut so am I. I don’t need to feel rushed or pressured so it works.Posted by JadeAlexanderYeah, we are very slow.Posted by SeleukosHe sucks at communicating but I’m very patient and gentle with him. I’ve noticed in the last year he’s far more expressive. I have to earn his trust.Posted by JadeAlexanderCap venus never moves on.Posted by SeleukosOh he does... but I figured out what he likes. He likes stable and dependable. My calmness and ability to communicate in a reasonable manner draws him in.Posted by JadeAlexanderTrue, but doesn't your Aqua also have a Cap Venus or did I confused yours with @saggurl88 's?Posted by SeleukosYou don’t count. You’re actively avoiding relationships.Posted by JadeAlexanderNot for a Cap Venus..
I have no pride.... try that! Nothing attracts a man like desperation... can’t peomise you’ll like what comes around though....
I don’t think he or I are desperate.. we both can’t seem to move on.
That's why we are so reluctant to jump in.
if we do it's for life and if it fails we leave that area completly.
You are right though. Stable and reliable are good.
He’s stuck around for awhile now. That’s good enough.. I just don’t know if I should initiate or continue to give him control
We both suck at that part....
Cap Venus is hesitant to go in if they aren't sure if those feelings are reciprocated.
He’s fished for it and I panicked... he asked what I wanted and I just didn’t have the balls to be honest.
I’m waiting for the right opportunity... although I think he knows... i mean, how can he not know? And if he’s so insecure how do I even tell him? I’ve never told someone I loved them first. Usually it was the dude and I was like ‘ummmm no’...
How can he trust you if you are not willing to stand by your feelings?
Get yourself a bottle of wine and type "I love you" as a PM, SMS, Whatsapp or whatever and then keep drinking so that you forget that you even sent that message.
At worst you then know how things are and can move on.
I don’t recognize you!!!!
That it’s an advice that I would say 😄
Sorry I don’t know what you mean. I just arrived. And I have being drinking so... oops! 😋
I didn’t expect that from you. That would definitely be more like my kind of advice🙂
Ah! That is the Seleukos I know 😜
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Are you sick? 🤒
My dreaded nemesis.click to expand


Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123I guess I'm lucky then that it never happened.Posted by SeleukosLol. You can not joke like that when someone says I love you for the very first time and feeling very vulnerablePosted by Lioness18881A joke is no rejection.Posted by SeleukosPosted by Lioness18881Why do you think it's a rejection?Posted by SeleukosPosted by Lioness18881"Understandable. I love myself too."Posted by SeleukosIf someone you know has a crush on you, sms's an i love you, how would you react to it? Would you take it as a joke and laugh it off or freak the fk out?Posted by Lioness18881No, it's what I do.
@Seleukos - when giving advice, like the i love you declaration for example, is that something you would do or something you want someone to do for you?
It seems like Aqua advice isn't stuff that is in their character to do, so is it based on what you desire more than what you would do?
Be warned however that it leads to hilarious situations. At least in my case.
Lol. if they love you, that's a big ego blow. I don't think people want to set themselves up for rejection like that
Because that response would be a joke about their most vulnrable feeling. It's dismissing it
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Posted by SeleukosI’ve said this in person and in a text to 2 different Aquas. The text version went well cause I couldn’t see his reaction. He just had a slight pause in texting but then resumed the conversation.Posted by Lioness18881No, it's what I do.
@Seleukos - when giving advice, like the i love you declaration for example, is that something you would do or something you want someone to do for you?
It seems like Aqua advice isn't stuff that is in their character to do, so is it based on what you desire more than what you would do?
Be warned however that it leads to hilarious situations. At least in my case.click to expand

Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by SeleukosYou need some helpPosted by pisceswoman123It's spring.Posted by SeleukosOmg, what do I see? Ice melting 🤭Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123I abstain from it personally but I never advice people to do the same. I mostly do the opposite if I see a chance.Posted by SeleukosYou don’t normally encourage Love. That was a very open and warm quote from you.Posted by pisceswoman123I didn't get what you meant. Well, not entirely, so elaborate please.Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123Wut?Posted by SeleukosWow. Is that you @ Seleukos?Posted by JadeAlexanderJust do it.Posted by SeleukosPosted by JadeAlexanderTell him.Posted by SeleukosThat’s about where it’s at... i just haven’t been honest about the depth of my feelings... we’re just really good friends, and I respect and admire and value him 🤦♀️Posted by JadeAlexanderInitiate and then let him give some room to control and then repeat.Posted by SeleukosBut so am I. I don’t need to feel rushed or pressured so it works.Posted by JadeAlexanderYeah, we are very slow.Posted by SeleukosHe sucks at communicating but I’m very patient and gentle with him. I’ve noticed in the last year he’s far more expressive. I have to earn his trust.Posted by JadeAlexanderCap venus never moves on.Posted by SeleukosOh he does... but I figured out what he likes. He likes stable and dependable. My calmness and ability to communicate in a reasonable manner draws him in.Posted by JadeAlexanderTrue, but doesn't your Aqua also have a Cap Venus or did I confused yours with @saggurl88 's?Posted by SeleukosYou don’t count. You’re actively avoiding relationships.Posted by JadeAlexanderNot for a Cap Venus..
I have no pride.... try that! Nothing attracts a man like desperation... can’t peomise you’ll like what comes around though....
I don’t think he or I are desperate.. we both can’t seem to move on.
That's why we are so reluctant to jump in.
if we do it's for life and if it fails we leave that area completly.
You are right though. Stable and reliable are good.
He’s stuck around for awhile now. That’s good enough.. I just don’t know if I should initiate or continue to give him control
We both suck at that part....
Cap Venus is hesitant to go in if they aren't sure if those feelings are reciprocated.
He’s fished for it and I panicked... he asked what I wanted and I just didn’t have the balls to be honest.
I’m waiting for the right opportunity... although I think he knows... i mean, how can he not know? And if he’s so insecure how do I even tell him? I’ve never told someone I loved them first. Usually it was the dude and I was like ‘ummmm no’...
How can he trust you if you are not willing to stand by your feelings?
Get yourself a bottle of wine and type "I love you" as a PM, SMS, Whatsapp or whatever and then keep drinking so that you forget that you even sent that message.
At worst you then know how things are and can move on.
I don’t recognize you!!!!
That it’s an advice that I would say 😄
Sorry I don’t know what you mean. I just arrived. And I have being drinking so... oops! 😋
I didn’t expect that from you. That would definitely be more like my kind of advice🙂
Ah! That is the Seleukos I know 😜
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Are you sick? 🤒
My dreaded nemesis.![]()
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Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123I'm a sucker for snow.Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by SeleukosYou need some helpPosted by pisceswoman123It's spring.Posted by SeleukosOmg, what do I see? Ice melting 🤭Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123I abstain from it personally but I never advice people to do the same. I mostly do the opposite if I see a chance.Posted by SeleukosYou don’t normally encourage Love. That was a very open and warm quote from you.Posted by pisceswoman123I didn't get what you meant. Well, not entirely, so elaborate please.Posted by SeleukosPosted by pisceswoman123Wut?Posted by SeleukosWow. Is that you @ Seleukos?Posted by JadeAlexanderJust do it.Posted by SeleukosPosted by JadeAlexanderTell him.Posted by SeleukosThat’s about where it’s at... i just haven’t been honest about the depth of my feelings... we’re just really good friends, and I respect and admire and value him 🤦♀️Posted by JadeAlexanderInitiate and then let him give some room to control and then repeat.Posted by SeleukosBut so am I. I don’t need to feel rushed or pressured so it works.Posted by JadeAlexanderYeah, we are very slow.Posted by SeleukosHe sucks at communicating but I’m very patient and gentle with him. I’ve noticed in the last year he’s far more expressive. I have to earn his trust.Posted by JadeAlexanderCap venus never moves on.Posted by SeleukosOh he does... but I figured out what he likes. He likes stable and dependable. My calmness and ability to communicate in a reasonable manner draws him in.Posted by JadeAlexanderTrue, but doesn't your Aqua also have a Cap Venus or did I confused yours with @saggurl88 's?Posted by SeleukosYou don’t count. You’re actively avoiding relationships.Posted by JadeAlexanderNot for a Cap Venus..
I have no pride.... try that! Nothing attracts a man like desperation... can’t peomise you’ll like what comes around though....
I don’t think he or I are desperate.. we both can’t seem to move on.
That's why we are so reluctant to jump in.
if we do it's for life and if it fails we leave that area completly.
You are right though. Stable and reliable are good.
He’s stuck around for awhile now. That’s good enough.. I just don’t know if I should initiate or continue to give him control
We both suck at that part....
Cap Venus is hesitant to go in if they aren't sure if those feelings are reciprocated.
He’s fished for it and I panicked... he asked what I wanted and I just didn’t have the balls to be honest.
I’m waiting for the right opportunity... although I think he knows... i mean, how can he not know? And if he’s so insecure how do I even tell him? I’ve never told someone I loved them first. Usually it was the dude and I was like ‘ummmm no’...
How can he trust you if you are not willing to stand by your feelings?
Get yourself a bottle of wine and type "I love you" as a PM, SMS, Whatsapp or whatever and then keep drinking so that you forget that you even sent that message.
At worst you then know how things are and can move on.
I don’t recognize you!!!!
That it’s an advice that I would say 😄
Sorry I don’t know what you mean. I just arrived. And I have being drinking so... oops! 😋
I didn’t expect that from you. That would definitely be more like my kind of advice🙂
Ah! That is the Seleukos I know 😜
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Ohhh!!! Look at that happy face 😆
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Posted by SeleukosCouldn’t agree more 😉😊Posted by saggurl88I see.Posted by SeleukosI didn’t see this tag. Great advice as always though. ❤️Posted by JadeAlexanderTrue, but doesn't your Aqua also have a Cap Venus or did I confused yours with @saggurl88 's?Posted by SeleukosYou don’t count. You’re actively avoiding relationships.Posted by JadeAlexanderNot for a Cap Venus..
I have no pride.... try that! Nothing attracts a man like desperation... can’t peomise you’ll like what comes around though....
Jade also has a Scorpio Venus like me.
That explains the constant sexual innuendo.
Good for you both though.
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Posted by SeleukosYup lol. He looked so scared 😅😂😂Posted by saggurl88No shit?Posted by SeleukosI’ve said this in person and in a text to 2 different Aquas. The text version went well cause I couldn’t see his reaction. He just had a slight pause in texting but then resumed the conversation.Posted by Lioness18881No, it's what I do.
@Seleukos - when giving advice, like the i love you declaration for example, is that something you would do or something you want someone to do for you?
It seems like Aqua advice isn't stuff that is in their character to do, so is it based on what you desire more than what you would do?
Be warned however that it leads to hilarious situations. At least in my case.
The second one actually jumped into the ocean and swam to a floating dock to get some air and get away from me. 😂😂
So cute lol.
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Posted by Lioness18881I love freely. I’m not scared to say it. It’s actually a relief for me to say it and get rid of the burden.Posted by SeleukosYou told 2 you love them? Do you tell everyone?Posted by saggurl88No shit?Posted by SeleukosI’ve said this in person and in a text to 2 different Aquas. The text version went well cause I couldn’t see his reaction. He just had a slight pause in texting but then resumed the conversation.Posted by Lioness18881No, it's what I do.
@Seleukos - when giving advice, like the i love you declaration for example, is that something you would do or something you want someone to do for you?
It seems like Aqua advice isn't stuff that is in their character to do, so is it based on what you desire more than what you would do?
Be warned however that it leads to hilarious situations. At least in my case.
The second one actually jumped into the ocean and swam to a floating dock to get some air and get away from me. 😂😂
So cute lol.
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Posted by SeleukosYes lol. We were sitting at a bar on the beach. He did jump in fully clothed though. He didn’t wait to strip down.Posted by saggurl88Okay, but you were at a beach and swimming anyway, right?Posted by SeleukosYup lol. He looked so scared 😅😂😂Posted by saggurl88No shit?Posted by SeleukosI’ve said this in person and in a text to 2 different Aquas. The text version went well cause I couldn’t see his reaction. He just had a slight pause in texting but then resumed the conversation.Posted by Lioness18881No, it's what I do.
@Seleukos - when giving advice, like the i love you declaration for example, is that something you would do or something you want someone to do for you?
It seems like Aqua advice isn't stuff that is in their character to do, so is it based on what you desire more than what you would do?
Be warned however that it leads to hilarious situations. At least in my case.
The second one actually jumped into the ocean and swam to a floating dock to get some air and get away from me. 😂😂
So cute lol.
His cousin asked me what I did to him lol. I didn’t say anything though.
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