Capricorngirl1111
@Capricorngirl1111
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New Years without me
How long have you been dating?
maybe hes spending it with his kids?
Posted by LadyNeptuneFlirting since March. Together since July
How long have you been dating?
Posted by nanoNo, my gut believes him lol but I am just being salty.. I’m in a new state with not much close friends.. but I’m gonna go out and have fun anyway lol
NYE I've always felt is kind of couply, because the whole kiss at midnight thing. I would be bummed too tbh.
He's gonna do what he wants to do though.
Do you have any reason to believe he's not telling the truth about the squid fishing?
Don't waste the evening. Keep busy and find something else enjoyable to do. Meet up with some friends?
Posted by HearttofTopazNo. It was all in the same night but not same convo at all. He had said he thinks he’s ready to take our relationship to the next level by me meeting kids
Did he tell you about his NYE plans and meeting his kids in the same conversation?
Posted by RooSagicornYeah you’re right! He did say it’s just a day to him.. the same guys invited him to Cuba the week of his bday and valentines but he said no to them to take me on a trip that week. I’m just upset bc ive bugged him since a month ago about wanting to spend tonight with him. But I didn’t sound upset when he told me, I said that’s finePosted by Capricorngirl1111Yes you’re tripping.. it’s just a day. He is talking life things with you. You know at 15 years older, NYE is probably WAY more important to you. It just really isn’t that important though in the scheme of things. My Bf is working tonight & will be tired. No worries. In a month, we go on a romantic vacation & are talking future. I’m good.
My boyfriend isn’t spending New Year’s Eve with me. His older guy friends want to go squid fishing at night so he’s going..he said it’s all dudes so he’s not comfortable taking me. He’s 15 yrs older than me and so are they. He says we can spend the next day together. And he is spending his bday and valentines week with me where he’s taking me on a trip. Am I tripping? Am I upset for nothing about NYE?
Also, he said he wants me to finally meet his kids. He said he will arrange it soon. Not sure when that is..
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Posted by HearttofTopazHaha no kids got brought up because we were talking about kidsPosted by Capricorngirl1111Oh lawdzPosted by HearttofTopazNo. It was all in the same night but not same convo at all. He had said he thinks he’s ready to take our relationship to the next level by me meeting kids
Did he tell you about his NYE plans and meeting his kids in the same conversation?
Sounds kinda sketchy.. May just be my Scorpio... idkclick to expand
Posted by MoonshineLeoNo kids are with the mom
maybe hes spending it with his kids?
Posted by Capricorngirl1111Well see if he follows through on everything he’s promising you as far as the bday and vday and meeting the kids.Posted by LadyNeptuneFlirting since March. Together since July
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Posted by HearttofTopazTalking about our future, kids, stuff like that and I mentioned I didn’t spend Christmas with him bc I didn’t wanna meet them for the first time on Christmas. So that’s when he said yeah but I think we are ready to arrange that and we should take our relationship to the next stepPosted by Capricorngirl1111Posted by HearttofTopazHaha no kids got brought up because we were talking about kidsPosted by Capricorngirl1111Oh lawdzPosted by HearttofTopazNo. It was all in the same night but not same convo at all. He had said he thinks he’s ready to take our relationship to the next level by me meeting kids
Did he tell you about his NYE plans and meeting his kids in the same conversation?
Sounds kinda sketchy.. May just be my Scorpio... idk
Talking bout having kids before meeting his kids? Or just kids in general
Awkward
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Posted by HearttofTopazPosted by Capricorngirl1111Posted by HearttofTopazTalking about our future, kids, stuff like that and I mentioned I didn’t spend Christmas with him bc I didn’t wanna meet them for the first time on Christmas. So that’s when he said yeah but I think we are ready to arrange that and we should take our relationship to the next stepPosted by Capricorngirl1111Posted by HearttofTopazHaha no kids got brought up because we were talking about kidsPosted by Capricorngirl1111Oh lawdzPosted by HearttofTopazNo. It was all in the same night but not same convo at all. He had said he thinks he’s ready to take our relationship to the next level by me meeting kids
Did he tell you about his NYE plans and meeting his kids in the same conversation?
Sounds kinda sketchy.. May just be my Scorpio... idk
Talking bout having kids before meeting his kids? Or just kids in general
Awkward
Then he told you about his NYE plans later?
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Well that night he brought up the boat and fishing but had said we can do something together regardless. The next day after I left, we talked on the phone that afternoon and that’s when he said babe he talked to his friend and they are doing this cool squid fishing and I really wanna go to that fishing is that fine? And I said yeah..
Posted by HearttofTopazWhole time my bff was supposed to be in town and we were supposed to do something together so he thought I had someone and something to do. But he’s not lying. He could have said I have the kids and I would have had to accept it. He is honest. Just sucks I don’t feel prioritized hahaPosted by Capricorngirl1111Posted by HearttofTopazTalking about our future, kids, stuff like that and I mentioned I didn’t spend Christmas with him bc I didn’t wanna meet them for the first time on Christmas. So that’s when he said yeah but I think we are ready to arrange that and we should take our relationship to the next stepPosted by Capricorngirl1111Posted by HearttofTopazHaha no kids got brought up because we were talking about kidsPosted by Capricorngirl1111Oh lawdzPosted by HearttofTopazNo. It was all in the same night but not same convo at all. He had said he thinks he’s ready to take our relationship to the next level by me meeting kids
Did he tell you about his NYE plans and meeting his kids in the same conversation?
Sounds kinda sketchy.. May just be my Scorpio... idk
Talking bout having kids before meeting his kids? Or just kids in general
Awkward
Then he told you about his NYE plans later?
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Posted by RooSagicornPosted by Capricorngirl1111Well looks like you got vacation & Valentine’s Day & they got New Year’s Eve. He sounds like he knows you’re disappointed but is trying to explain he wants you in his life. Also sounds like these are good friends & you’ll need to share some. Vacation & Valentine’s Day sounds way better than NYE to me girl 🙂Posted by RooSagicornYeah you’re right! He did say it’s just a day to him.. the same guys invited him to Cuba the week of his bday and valentines but he said no to them to take me on a trip that week. I’m just upset bc ive bugged him since a month ago about wanting to spend tonight with him. But I didn’t sound upset when he told me, I said that’s finePosted by Capricorngirl1111Yes you’re tripping.. it’s just a day. He is talking life things with you. You know at 15 years older, NYE is probably WAY more important to you. It just really isn’t that important though in the scheme of things. My Bf is working tonight & will be tired. No worries. In a month, we go on a romantic vacation & are talking future. I’m good.
My boyfriend isn’t spending New Year’s Eve with me. His older guy friends want to go squid fishing at night so he’s going..he said it’s all dudes so he’s not comfortable taking me. He’s 15 yrs older than me and so are they. He says we can spend the next day together. And he is spending his bday and valentines week with me where he’s taking me on a trip. Am I tripping? Am I upset for nothing about NYE?
Also, he said he wants me to finally meet his kids. He said he will arrange it soon. Not sure when that is..
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Thanks! That’s exactly what my gut says but my head overthinks and I get upset LOL.. he’s older so I need to realize we think different and he has a life outside of us..
Posted by HearttofTopazPosted by Capricorngirl1111Posted by HearttofTopazWhole time my bff was supposed to be in town and we were supposed to do something together so he thought I had someone and something to do. But he’s not lying. He could have said I have the kids and I would have had to accept it. He is honest. Just sucks I don’t feel prioritized hahaPosted by Capricorngirl1111Posted by HearttofTopazTalking about our future, kids, stuff like that and I mentioned I didn’t spend Christmas with him bc I didn’t wanna meet them for the first time on Christmas. So that’s when he said yeah but I think we are ready to arrange that and we should take our relationship to the next stepPosted by Capricorngirl1111Posted by HearttofTopazHaha no kids got brought up because we were talking about kidsPosted by Capricorngirl1111Oh lawdzPosted by HearttofTopazNo. It was all in the same night but not same convo at all. He had said he thinks he’s ready to take our relationship to the next level by me meeting kids
Did he tell you about his NYE plans and meeting his kids in the same conversation?
Sounds kinda sketchy.. May just be my Scorpio... idk
Talking bout having kids before meeting his kids? Or just kids in general
Awkward
Then he told you about his NYE plans later?
I’m going to say... take it slow, and see if he fulfills his promises without you having to keep bringing it up. Stay silent, Sit back and watch. In the meantime go out and find something to do tonight. If you don’t you’ll just sit at home and dwell on the unnecessary.
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Thank you! And yes! I’m planning on going out. 🙂 hehe or else I will def go crazyyyy
Posted by GonSThank you! You are right.. lol I overthink things way too much haha
Everything is fine, don't worry. Not giving alternatives would be a problem. But he gave you some.
Posted by Capricorngirl1111I’m not spending nye with my boyfriend either. He goes camping each year with his friends. I did it last year and it was cold af and not my vibe at all. I want to get cross faded, dance, and crash in my bed...not a sleeping bag. We will veg out together on the 1st and 2nd.
My boyfriend isn’t spending New Year’s Eve with me. His older guy friends want to go squid fishing at night so he’s going..he said it’s all dudes so he’s not comfortable taking me.
In your case don’t overthink it unless he falls through on the next plan.
Posted by Capricorngirl1111It sounds pretty normal for someone with friends that he values and hobbies he enjoys. I can see why you would maybe be a bit bummed, but I think it's just a sign of a healthy relationship. Don't cramp the guy!!
My boyfriend isn’t spending New Year’s Eve with me. His older guy friends want to go squid fishing at night so he’s going..he said it’s all dudes so he’s not comfortable taking me. He’s 15 yrs older than me and so are they. He says we can spend the next day together. And he is spending his bday and valentines week with me where he’s taking me on a trip. Am I tripping? Am I upset for nothing about NYE?
Also, he said he wants me to finally meet his kids. He said he will arrange it soon. Not sure when that is..
Boy bye
Getchu a new New Years kiss
One your age
One your age
“Squid fishing”
😂
😂
Posted by RooSagicornIt is fun! In summer. For one night. Then I want to head back.Posted by LadyNeptuneLol we used to go out to the desert every year for motorcycle riding, bonfires, drinking etc. but it was in a warm motor home!! Probably did that for 12 years - so much fun!Posted by Capricorngirl1111I’m not spending nye with my boyfriend either. He goes camping each year with his friends. I did it last year and it was cold af and not my vibe at all. I want to get cross faded, dance, and crash in my bed...not a sleeping bag. We will veg out together on the 1st and 2nd.
My boyfriend isn’t spending New Year’s Eve with me. His older guy friends want to go squid fishing at night so he’s going..he said it’s all dudes so he’s not comfortable taking me.
In your case don’t overthink it unless he falls through on the next plan.click to expand
They go off-roading during the day. I’m talking hours upon hours. I’m good after 2hrs max 😅
I am gonna try to make more of an effort with his friends. I just feel like I have nothing in common with them. Total disconnect.
Posted by RooSagicornThey are in trucks and jeeps. No motor homes or bikes really. And sorry I’m not gonna buy a truck just to get involved. That’s doing too much 😂Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by RooSagicornIt is fun! In summer. For one night. Then I want to head back.Posted by LadyNeptuneLol we used to go out to the desert every year for motorcycle riding, bonfires, drinking etc. but it was in a warm motor home!! Probably did that for 12 years - so much fun!Posted by Capricorngirl1111I’m not spending nye with my boyfriend either. He goes camping each year with his friends. I did it last year and it was cold af and not my vibe at all. I want to get cross faded, dance, and crash in my bed...not a sleeping bag. We will veg out together on the 1st and 2nd.
My boyfriend isn’t spending New Year’s Eve with me. His older guy friends want to go squid fishing at night so he’s going..he said it’s all dudes so he’s not comfortable taking me.
In your case don’t overthink it unless he falls through on the next plan.
They go off-roading during the day. I’m talking hours upon hours. I’m good after 2hrs max 😅
I am gonna try to make more of an effort with his friends. I just feel like I have nothing in common with them. Total disconnect.
Haha!! Well it’s way more fun if you get involved. Are there women that go? Summer is too hot! We typically went from Fall through the Spring.
From what I saw, the guys lasted with the women who were willing to get involved, learn to ride, etc. if you act like you want nothing to do with their hobbies, it’s a tougher road.
Well my ex raced, was in a club & the club did the New Years event. About 50 people or so would be out, very family oriented actually. Motorhome or trailer is better - or to mooch off someone who had one lol cuz then you could be warm & shower!! We did that in our younger days 😉
If you can’t be friends with his friends plus their wives/girlfriends it makes it harder for your relationship. Not that it can’t work, but it’s much easier if you share what they love with them.
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Posted by MoonshineLeoIs your ability to read and comprehend stunted?
maybe hes spending it with his kids?
Posted by HearttofTopazdead lmaoPosted by Leo188881Posted by HearttofTopazMy Aqua told me we weren't having sex anymore because i don't want to, just because i said no once and he kept at it. We did the next time we saw each other anyway but i think they have this thing where if you knock them back they act out. So it's possible... that he's upset about it. Boys are fucking weird sometimesPosted by Leo188881Come on
Could it be because you rejected spending Christmas with him, and maybe he's upset but not saying it and that's why he's accepted plans that exclude you?
A living, breathing, real life squid hunter
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Aw he just randomly texted me “I love you so much!!!!!!!! Thought I’d let you know.”
I give him space and didn’t bug him all day. Now making plans for tomorrow. Lol I love my squid fishing man!!!! 😂😂
I give him space and didn’t bug him all day. Now making plans for tomorrow. Lol I love my squid fishing man!!!! 😂😂
Posted by hollyhockLMAO 😂😂😂😂
Squid fishing is the new brokeback mountain. He "isn't comfortable taking you"? Lol. Kick this idiot to the curb.
Posted by RooSagicornYeah I ride with him when I go, of course. What you think they desert me in the desert? Lol.Posted by LadyNeptuneLmao I never bought a bike but yet I have one still lol he wanted to include me immediately & bought me a used bike after a few months of being together so he could teach me & I could ride with the other girlfriends. ride in the truck or Jeep with your boyfriend? Show interest I guess I’m saying if it is a big hobby & interest. If it’s not that big of a deal to him, well it won’t matter on that level.Posted by RooSagicornThey are in trucks and jeeps. No motor homes or bikes really. And sorry I’m not gonna buy a truck just to get involved. That’s doing too much 😂Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by RooSagicornIt is fun! In summer. For one night. Then I want to head back.Posted by LadyNeptuneLol we used to go out to the desert every year for motorcycle riding, bonfires, drinking etc. but it was in a warm motor home!! Probably did that for 12 years - so much fun!Posted by Capricorngirl1111I’m not spending nye with my boyfriend either. He goes camping each year with his friends. I did it last year and it was cold af and not my vibe at all. I want to get cross faded, dance, and crash in my bed...not a sleeping bag. We will veg out together on the 1st and 2nd.
My boyfriend isn’t spending New Year’s Eve with me. His older guy friends want to go squid fishing at night so he’s going..he said it’s all dudes so he’s not comfortable taking me.
In your case don’t overthink it unless he falls through on the next plan.
They go off-roading during the day. I’m talking hours upon hours. I’m good after 2hrs max 😅
I am gonna try to make more of an effort with his friends. I just feel like I have nothing in common with them. Total disconnect.
Haha!! Well it’s way more fun if you get involved. Are there women that go? Summer is too hot! We typically went from Fall through the Spring.
From what I saw, the guys lasted with the women who were willing to get involved, learn to ride, etc. if you act like you want nothing to do with their hobbies, it’s a tougher road.
Well my ex raced, was in a club & the club did the New Years event. About 50 people or so would be out, very family oriented actually. Motorhome or trailer is better - or to mooch off someone who had one lol cuz then you could be warm & shower!! We did that in our younger days 😉
If you can’t be friends with his friends plus their wives/girlfriends it makes it harder for your relationship. Not that it can’t work, but it’s much easier if you share what they love with them.
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But sorry I tried it several times and it’s just not my thing. That’s why I won’t go when it’s, A. cold af and B. More than 1 night.
I’m never gonna be the girl who transforms her interest to match her mans. I am who I am. Take it or leave it
Posted by RooSagicornIt’s a core group of 4-5 guys and only one has a gf who comes. My friends don’t do camping.Posted by LadyNeptuneWell it’s obviously a different situation than bikes too and depends on how many people are there.Posted by RooSagicornYeah I ride with him when I go, of course. What you think they desert me in the desert? Lol.Posted by LadyNeptuneLmao I never bought a bike but yet I have one still lol he wanted to include me immediately & bought me a used bike after a few months of being together so he could teach me & I could ride with the other girlfriends. ride in the truck or Jeep with your boyfriend? Show interest I guess I’m saying if it is a big hobby & interest. If it’s not that big of a deal to him, well it won’t matter on that level.Posted by RooSagicornThey are in trucks and jeeps. No motor homes or bikes really. And sorry I’m not gonna buy a truck just to get involved. That’s doing too much 😂Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by RooSagicornIt is fun! In summer. For one night. Then I want to head back.Posted by LadyNeptuneLol we used to go out to the desert every year for motorcycle riding, bonfires, drinking etc. but it was in a warm motor home!! Probably did that for 12 years - so much fun!Posted by Capricorngirl1111I’m not spending nye with my boyfriend either. He goes camping each year with his friends. I did it last year and it was cold af and not my vibe at all. I want to get cross faded, dance, and crash in my bed...not a sleeping bag. We will veg out together on the 1st and 2nd.
My boyfriend isn’t spending New Year’s Eve with me. His older guy friends want to go squid fishing at night so he’s going..he said it’s all dudes so he’s not comfortable taking me.
In your case don’t overthink it unless he falls through on the next plan.
They go off-roading during the day. I’m talking hours upon hours. I’m good after 2hrs max 😅
I am gonna try to make more of an effort with his friends. I just feel like I have nothing in common with them. Total disconnect.
Haha!! Well it’s way more fun if you get involved. Are there women that go? Summer is too hot! We typically went from Fall through the Spring.
From what I saw, the guys lasted with the women who were willing to get involved, learn to ride, etc. if you act like you want nothing to do with their hobbies, it’s a tougher road.
Well my ex raced, was in a club & the club did the New Years event. About 50 people or so would be out, very family oriented actually. Motorhome or trailer is better - or to mooch off someone who had one lol cuz then you could be warm & shower!! We did that in our younger days 😉
If you can’t be friends with his friends plus their wives/girlfriends it makes it harder for your relationship. Not that it can’t work, but it’s much easier if you share what they love with them.
But sorry I tried it several times and it’s just not my thing. That’s why I won’t go when it’s, A. cold af and B. More than 1 night.
I’m never gonna be the girl who transforms her interest to match her mans. I am who I am. Take it or leave it
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Honestly I’m cool with not having to share everything, that’s boring. I don’t see him gettin into the pool with me either so...
Don’t you have friends?
Why couldn’t you plan something with them?
Is it a given you were supposed to spend it with him?
Why couldn’t you plan something with them?
Is it a given you were supposed to spend it with him?
Yeah bcz y'all should've been together. I would've loved to spend nye with someone but....life. No questions y'all should've rung it in together you too are dating duh
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