MissTaiLee
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Posted by SagInTheSun898
This guy wanted to sleep around and have her in the wings in case he couldn't find something better. He wanted her to shut her mouth the whole time while he was doing it too. She didn't and apparently that makes her a S L U T.
( Ya right ) *eye roll*
I think he should be grateful you even considered him partner material after that and lucky you didn't slit this throat in his sleep.
The cousin was a bad idea only because that gave him a tool to abuse you with and use against you for the rest of your life. If he really loved you fully and said he forgave you he would forgive you. Not bring up over and over and be emotionally abusive.
Again no one is perfect but be kind to yourself, forgive yourself and pick the best and safest option for yourself
Wow when you say it like that...kindve makes me see things that I didn't before.....emotional abuse......
Posted by nanorobot
Okay so to get this back on track, you didn’t even fuck his cousin? They are “cousins“ as some slang for bro, best friend, etc?
So, essentially you screwed each other’s best friends. The friends aren’t in the picture anymore, but he still can’t move on, and you can.
It just seems like a lot of baggage and resentment. Are you two willing to get professional help? From a therapist? Maybe some premarital counseling.
Is the relationship good other than this?
Yes, that was not cousin by blood, only by choice cause they were childhood friends. And yes, they are both out of the picture. And yes, the relationship is GREAT....he's over it...at least he acts like he is. Again, he didn't bring it up at all for the last 3 years until a couple days ago...I think the other person is right. I think he just brings it up whenever he needs to use it against me kind of like a power trip...or he's really not over it..idk anymore...I'm just gonna leave it up to fate and roll with it and of course talk to him about it, wish me luck 😀😀😀😀
Posted by dilettantePosted by MissTaiLeePosted by PhantumPosted by MissTaiLeePosted by PhantumPosted by ELIGAB
I completely stopped reading after sleeping with the cousin
Like BITCH YOU FUCKED HIS COUSIN
YOU SMASHED THE HOMIE
yea you're friend with benefits but you could've slept with anyone but his cousin..
The first page with everyone saying it's not your fault is bullshit
They're delusional and probably have sag placements
Girl, I am not delusional. lol
He was bringing girls over to sleep with, including her best friend. Maybe she figured he brought the cousin over for her, since he was bringing so much sex.
I do see the cousin thing, though. That's gotta smart.
They're not "blood" cousins. They are cousins by choice because they were close as childhood friends. And Aquaman dropped that "cousin" quick cause after Geminiman found out we were official, he had the nerve to hmu asking to "chill" and to this day, he still tries to hmu
And as for my bestfriend, Geminiwoman, I had to drop her because after she and Aquaman did their thing she ended up going crazy about him. She stalked him on fb, she was constantly texting me asking why he wasn't answering her calls and she would call me asking to hangout, but when she came over she wouldn't even chill with me, she would try to interact with my roomie Aquaman and would bust into his room without him giving her permission. He finally told me I can't bring her over cause she kept invading his privacy, kept using me as a connection for her to get back in touch with him when he didnt want to so it got awkward between Geminiwoman and I.
So basically, Aquaman and I dropped both of our Geminis 💀💀💀💀 I'm pretty sure they both hate us 😭😭😭😭
Sag and Aqua using horny Geminis to score points on each other. Gemini hate crime!
JK, lol
That's a mess. So, things have been calm since then but he's not over it emotionally? Or are y'all still playing with each other?
Yes we're really calm, we never (like EVER) argue and we get along so well... when I'm with him, all I can think is "this is the man I want to grow old with", he proposed on Nov 2019 and we are set to get married January 2021 he only brought it up the 1st two years of our relationship, the last 3 he hasnt....until a couple days ago when we were drunk. Idk...I just feel its been 5 years, he should be over it, he acts like he is but then throws me off by bringing it up when he's drunk...I just want him to be happy and completely in love with the person he's marrying, thats all. And if he cant be completely in love with me because of our messy start...I love him enough to let him go find "it" because he deserves complete happiness 😀😀😀 but oh well, I guess I'll bring it up to him that we should see counseling if it still bothers him and we'll go from there....
Mmmmmm relationships are hella sticky I see why people stay single
ummm he is prob not over it bc marriage means you will become part of the family & since you like fucking people in his family, that would be a GIANT red flag.
i would not marry some dude who fucked my cousin OR my best friend while we were FWB. that shit is gross.
yall need to get your heads checkedclick to expand
Fair enough 😭😭😭😭💀💀💀💀
He does have a point.
There’s a base line of respect you crossed.
I get that you were fwb/not exclusive and you could fuck whom you please. You chose to fuck someone in his family and he feels a certain way about that.
Think of it from his perspective... if he fucked your sister or your aunt you would feel similar ick factor.
I’m with him on this. It’s too jerry springer vibes.
But do you deserve a lifetime of him throwing you fucking his cousin in your face? Not at all.
If you enter this marriage do it with eyes wide open. He hasn’t let this incident go and it’s unlikely he ever will.
There’s a base line of respect you crossed.
I get that you were fwb/not exclusive and you could fuck whom you please. You chose to fuck someone in his family and he feels a certain way about that.
Think of it from his perspective... if he fucked your sister or your aunt you would feel similar ick factor.
I’m with him on this. It’s too jerry springer vibes.
But do you deserve a lifetime of him throwing you fucking his cousin in your face? Not at all.
If you enter this marriage do it with eyes wide open. He hasn’t let this incident go and it’s unlikely he ever will.
Posted by ArilovesAqu
Aquas are so petty honestly 🤣 my aqua coworker has been holding a grudge against a cap coworker for literally 8 years. Shit is exhausting
Maybe the ones with other weird emotionally trigged placements but as an Aqua I’d rather treat someone as not existing to me period than ever find them worthy enough to hold a grudge against.
Posted by nanorobotPosted by MissTaiLeePosted by nanorobotPosted by dilettante
sorry but i think sleeping w/ yr FWB/housemate’s cousin is sloppy af. you claimed you loved this aqua during FWB status but were inconsiderate by sleeping w/ his family member... that he’s clearly close w/ if he’s over at the house a lot.
i’d be rubbed the wrong way by it too.
Ya it was all fine and good, until she said she was already in love with him at the time. You don’t fuck someone’s cousin if you’re in love with them.
Would have been fine if she said that she didn’t feel that way about him til way later, after the fact. Mehhhh
If it counts for anything, I completely read him wrong. I was really under the impression that he didn't feel any way about me at all 😭😭😭 and didn't want to move "forward" with me. Aquarius are so hard to read. Again, before the whole cousin thing, we were already fwb for 3-4 months, I feel like I gave him enough time to make it exclusive but he didn't, so even though I really had feelings for him I couldn't bring myself to say it because he never did or even made me feel like I had a chance, imo
Look, I’m not going to crucify you. People make mistakes, shit happens. I think there are a few people that have said some good things here and given you some insight from his perspective. I think this can definitely be salvaged, you said you both love each other. You can figure it out. I feel like my one meaningful post got lost in this thread.
How old are you?click to expand
I am 23 now, I was 18 when the cousin thing happened.
Posted by nanorobotPosted by MissTaiLeePosted by nanorobotPosted by dilettante
sorry but i think sleeping w/ yr FWB/housemate’s cousin is sloppy af. you claimed you loved this aqua during FWB status but were inconsiderate by sleeping w/ his family member... that he’s clearly close w/ if he’s over at the house a lot.
i’d be rubbed the wrong way by it too.
Ya it was all fine and good, until she said she was already in love with him at the time. You don’t fuck someone’s cousin if you’re in love with them.
Would have been fine if she said that she didn’t feel that way about him til way later, after the fact. Mehhhh
I definitely was in love with him, but my mindset was that Aquaman and I were never going to happen because he was still bringing other women to the house 💁💁💁 it is what it is. And one of the ladies he brought over was my own best friend before the cousin thing even happened.
Idk....the fear that I have is that he'll never be able to live it down...and I don't want him to feel bad about it, so I've asked to leave and pack up before but he keeps saying no that I can't go anywhere. Like what do you want me to do, I've already told him if he doesn't want to deal with the whole cousin thing, he doesn't have to deal with me AT ALL, but he always says I can't leave
What does he say when you mention that he fucked your best friend?click to expand
I have never brought that up to him. I dont hang him sleeping with my bestie over his head period, because we weren't together so he's free to do whatever he pleases as a consenting adult. It bothered me alot initially cause I was thinking "wow he really doesn't want to be anything more if hes still having sex with other women", but I really didn't care after a day or two. I'm not even mad at my best friend, we are all adults.
Posted by ELIGABPosted by nanorobotPosted by ELIGABPosted by PhantumPosted by ELIGABPosted by PhantumPosted by ELIGAB
I completely stopped reading after sleeping with the cousin
Like BITCH YOU FUCKED HIS COUSIN
YOU SMASHED THE HOMIE
yea you're friend with benefits but you could've slept with anyone but his cousin..
The first page with everyone saying it's not your fault is bullshit
They're delusional and probably have sag placements
Girl, I am not delusional. lol
He was bringing girls over to sleep with, including her best friend. Maybe she figured he brought the cousin over for her, since he was bringing so much sex.
I do see the cousin thing, though. That's gotta smart.
SO
WTF
First of all she's FWB/roommate with feelings/love all involved. Which she's aware of
You don't fuck anyone I'm acquainted with
My aqua moon is OFFENDED
LMAOOOOO
TBH, I'd be livid too. lol
Come on now
And the Gemini is completely innocent in this situation
Sag probably came on strong and didn't know what to do
Lmaoo
🤣🤣🤣🔥🔥🔥
I’m wondering if the gem cousin knew? On the outside, it might have looked like she was just a roommate.
Knowing aqua, not going to deep with details or expressing his love
Probably like, yea, she's just a roommate 🤔click to expand
Geminiman knew we were fwb. Like I said, he was over almost everyday so he knew Aquaman and I were jiggy cause we would do our thing and geminiman would be watching tv in the living room, then when we would come out, he would be like, "damn I need a fwb too" and Aquaman and him would joke about finding Geminiman a fwb. I actually told Geminiman my feelings for Aquaman and he would always tell me, "hes still sleeping with other women, you need to move on and stop being fwb with him," and then he made his move and like an idiot that shit happened. To this day, even after Aquaman made it official, geminiman still hits me up asking to "chill" I ignore him
Posted by Antiphates
How much time has passed between him saying that he doesn't fully love you and now?
About 2 weeks 😭😭😭😭😭
Posted by Undine
The "loving" thing is irrelevant. Aquas do not love...they conveniently attach to someone they either use, see as a friend, or both. If you don't like it, feel free to walk out.
Such an lowbased and incorrect opinion.
Aquas do love and very strongly. It just tends to be very rarely and for life.
Posted by bumboklatt
I dont think an awuarius can competely love someone in the emotional sense. Take the reality over the emotional.
I read that the vessel in the Aqua symbol represents all the emotions which have to stay contained therein. Should it be cracked open, the loss of emotional control would be overwhelming, hence the need for “detachment” associated with the sign
♒️
Posted by Aquaman2
Okay....gemini guy is asshole....manipulative...do not talk to him any further..he won't help anything...
You failed to understand aquaman...also you wont be able to understand him in future...
He will keep on bringing this cousin thing ever when he would be drunk...he cannot trust you, he is stuck now in his mind.
Better leave him
Sorry Release him...this would be better said.😄
Yeah, let’s blame the Gemini for everything gone wrong!
Posted by MissTaiLeePosted by SagInTheSun898
This guy wanted to sleep around and have her in the wings in case he couldn't find something better. He wanted her to shut her mouth the whole time while he was doing it too. She didn't and apparently that makes her a S L U T.
( Ya right ) *eye roll*
I think he should be grateful you even considered him partner material after that and lucky you didn't slit this throat in his sleep.
The cousin was a bad idea only because that gave him a tool to abuse you with and use against you for the rest of your life. If he really loved you fully and said he forgave you he would forgive you. Not bring up over and over and be emotionally abusive.
Again no one is perfect but be kind to yourself, forgive yourself and pick the best and safest option for yourself
Wow when you say it like that...kindve makes me see things that I didn't before.....emotional abuse......click to expand
Just be careful girl! Do what's best for you, your beautiful!
Posted by Aquaman2
Okay....gemini guy is asshole....manipulative...do not talk to him any further..he won't help anything...
You failed to understand aquaman...also you wont be able to understand him in future...
He will keep on bringing this cousin thing ever when he would be drunk...he cannot trust you, he is stuck now in his mind.
Better leave him
Sorry Release him...this would be better said.😄
Yes you're on point when you say Geminiman is a manipulator. Aquaman told me that he told his cousin before introducing us that he had feelings for me and wanted more than fwb... but of course, the cousin never told me this! At 1st, I thought Aquaman was bluffing, but his brother agreed and said all 3 of them were chilling when Aquaman said it...so Geminiman was in my ear lying, saying, "you guys are never gonna happen, he's not serious about you", when in fact, Aquaman was saying the opposite....sheesh! Some "cousin" 😒😒😒 but I'm not putting the blame on dumbo Geminiman. I'm obviously the idiot that listened to his lies 😒😒😒😒😒
Posted by Dreamy88
Honestly, this sounds like a form of mental abuse.
There were no strings attached and he can’t act like his shit doesn’t stink when he was bringing women to the house too. Terms weren’t created until later. It’s basically going to be how you two move forward from this. It’s also a tough spot for him too. Every time his cousin comes over to hang out with you two, he’ll remember deep inside himself that his cousin had a piece of you too. That’s something that will last for life and he’ll probably think about that for the rest of his life if you two get married. Good luck.
Thank you so much for your well wishes 💯
Posted by Ganon_1
This should be a lesson for the both of you.
Don't ever trust a Gemini friend with your dude or girl.
Smh. It's a good thing they're out of both of your lifes!
But are you sure you want to marry the Aqua knowing he won't ever let this go?
This is your life, choose wisely.
I'm going to have a one-on-one with Aquaman tonight! We always have date night on Sundays. I'm going to tell him to either let it go (because I've proved myself and paid for what I've done) or we split up (and I give him his ring back). Pls God I hope this goes well 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Posted by Aquaman2Posted by UndinePosted by Aquaman2
Okay....gemini guy is asshole....manipulative...do not talk to him any further..he won't help anything...
You failed to understand aquaman...also you wont be able to understand him in future...
He will keep on bringing this cousin thing ever when he would be drunk...he cannot trust you, he is stuck now in his mind.
Better leave him
Sorry Release him...this would be better said.😄
Yeah, let’s blame the Gemini for everything gone wrong!
According to her saying, I found him manipulative...
I also mentioned that sag failed to understand aqua...
Where did you find me blaming gem for everything gone wrong??
It seems you want to blame it on him...carry on...but don't drag me along😅click to expand
Where is your Mercury? You seem to have missed the sarcasm of my Aqua Merc 😄
Just wanted to give y'all an update. We spoke on date night, he admitted that it doesn't bother him anymore because he trusts me and said everyone makes mistakes. He apologized and said he only brings it up to get a reaction out of me...supposedly I'm too "cool" for him so he has to "stir the pot sometimes", then proceeded saying I'm looking too much into it. I feel great about the convo we had and look forward to our wedding! ♐♒
Posted by MissTaiLee
Just wanted to give y'all an update. We spoke on date night, he admitted that it doesn't bother him anymore because he trusts me and said everyone makes mistakes. He apologized and said he only brings it up to get a reaction out of me...supposedly I'm too "cool" for him so he has to "stir the pot sometimes", then proceeded saying I'm looking too much into it. I feel great about the convo we had and look forward to our wedding! ♐♒
Simply tell him not to bring up this old bs any more. You too. Time to grow up.
Posted by MissTaiLee
Hello,
I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place. My fiance, Aquaman, and I have been together for 5 years. We are due to get married January 2021. Recently, we got really drunk and out of nowhere he told me that he doesn't "completely" love me but wants to get married because he wants me to himself and I'm the one ----yada yada. I asked him, "Where is this coming from" and he brought up something that I did before we even got together.
Aquaman and I initially met in high school in 2013. Then 5 years ago in 2015, Aquaman and I had reconnected through a friend, we ended up friends with benefits and the sex was happening every day for months. Again, we were NOT in a relationship, just fwb.
I ended up moving in with him cause he was in need of a roommate and I was desperate to get out of the place I was at. At this time we were still fwb for about 3 months. His cousin, Geminiman, ended up at the house almost everyday cause he would come chill with Aquaman. They were really close.
I ended up having sex with his cousin, after getting drunk, I didn't say anything about it to Aquaman at the time, because again, we were just fuck buddies and he never asked for exclusivity or confessed he had feelings for me. I never even suspected he had feelings for me cause Aquarius are so good at being aloof, detached, and don't show their emotions.
Anyways, he ended up finding out from his cousin about what happened and confronted me about it. He started crying, saying he thought I was the one and that I should've known...I'm not gonna lie, I loved Aquaman the whole time we were fwb but I never knew how he felt about me cause he never confessed feelings and was still talking to other women. Btw, he would occassionally bring women over to the house too.
Anyways, he never asked me to move out even though he was really pissed at me and we continued having sex after about two weeks of him avoiding me. Couple months later, he ended up asking me to be his girl, but during the first 2 years together he kept bringing up the whole cousin thing and would say things like I am scandalous and always brings me down about it...he sometimes makes me feel so terrible that he makes me cry and I just want to run away
He has told me he hates me for "betraying" him and that's why he can't "completely" love me..in all honesty, I don't feel I did anything wrong because again, WE WERE NOT TOGETHER and how was I supposed to know he digged me at the time, I'm not a mindreader. I honestly thought he just wanted sex cause he never confessed feelings for me or asked to be exclusive..
Now, that was the first 2 years together, these last 3 years, he's rarely brought it up until we got drunk the other night...and I can't believe that after 5 years of being together and me proving myself to him that he still feels he can't "trust" or "completely love" me.
I can't lie. I absolutely adore this man and love him with all of my being but how can I marry someone who keeps bringing up shit from 5 years ago?
Now, with our wedding day coming closer and closer, I can't bring myself to marry Aquaman because of what he said the other night...how can I marry someone who can't "completely" love me because of something I did when we weren't together.
And for the record...In the past, when he brought up the occurance, I tried to leave him cause I was tired of him bringing me down but he tells me I can't go anywhere and he loves me too much to let me walk away but then he shoves the whole "fucking his cousin" thing in my face randomly and guilt trips me about it over and over...
I love him so much and I know he loves me but I'm at a crossroad with myself..
What should I do?
Btw, I'm Sagittarius (12/03/96) and he's Aquarius (01/22/95), if that helps anything.
Don’t marry him because the relationship is already toxic and it’s not gonna go anywhere in future. Only chaos.
Keep us updated. Trust me there will be developments
Posted by 7thHousePosted by MissTaiLeePosted by nanorobot
Okay so to get this back on track, you didn’t even fuck his cousin? They are “cousins“ as some slang for bro, best friend, etc?
So, essentially you screwed each other’s best friends. The friends aren’t in the picture anymore, but he still can’t move on, and you can.
It just seems like a lot of baggage and resentment. Are you two willing to get professional help? From a therapist? Maybe some premarital counseling.
Is the relationship good other than this?
Yes, that was not cousin by blood, only by choice cause they were childhood friends. And yes, they are both out of the picture. And yes, the relationship is GREAT....he's over it...at least he acts like he is. Again, he didn't bring it up at all for the last 3 years until a couple days ago...I think the other person is right. I think he just brings it up whenever he needs to use it against me kind of like a power trip...or he's really not over it..idk anymore...I'm just gonna leave it up to fate and roll with it and of course talk to him about it, wish me luck 😀😀😀😀
It's the trust issue. I don't think he's ever gonna fully forgive you for it. Aquas are cold but trust is so big for them that if you damage it, they are going to be fixated on their idea of you not being trustworthy. Good luck with having him 100% even after marriage. The one thing you should have done is respect yourself enough to not sleep with someone he knows. Respect is so important for an aqua to marry and stay married with someone. Actually, not just for aquas but for any sign and any couple. But you basically showed how low you can get. Sorry not sorry.click to expand
Sorry honey. Fact of the matter is, he proposed! Again, he. proposed. And I love geminis. As a Sagittarius, I get along well with them 👌 but you're wrong about Gemini woman when you say they don't get fixated on someone who doesnt love them. I have a sister who got cheated on by her baby daddy multiple times and still takes him back each time. She even tells me shell always love him even though he beats and cheats on her. Her birthday is June 4th. As for geminiman and geminiwoman in this story, he is June 10th and she is May 22nd. But ok 💀💀💀 sounds like you're triggered sis. I already posted that things are great and dandy, you just replied to bash not help ✌✌✌
Posted by 7thHousePosted by MissTaiLeePosted by nanorobotPosted by dilettante
sorry but i think sleeping w/ yr FWB/housemate’s cousin is sloppy af. you claimed you loved this aqua during FWB status but were inconsiderate by sleeping w/ his family member... that he’s clearly close w/ if he’s over at the house a lot.
i’d be rubbed the wrong way by it too.
Ya it was all fine and good, until she said she was already in love with him at the time. You don’t fuck someone’s cousin if you’re in love with them.
Would have been fine if she said that she didn’t feel that way about him til way later, after the fact. Mehhhh
If it counts for anything, I completely read him wrong. I was really under the impression that he didn't feel any way about me at all 😭😭😭 and didn't want to move "forward" with me. Aquarius are so hard to read. Again, before the whole cousin thing, we were already fwb for 3-4 months, I feel like I gave him enough time to make it exclusive but he didn't, so even though I really had feelings for him I couldn't bring myself to say it because he never did or even made me feel like I had a chance, imo
Even if he didn't want to move forward with you, why his cousin tho? How would he know that if you ever have problems in the future, you wouldn't sleep with his dad or other cousins or his brother if he has any or his best mate? Sorry but you brought this on yourself.click to expand
Girlfriend, again, if you read, I already said the cousin thing was a mistake and he initiated it when I was cross faded. We all had just took a bunch of shots and smoked a couple of joints.
Not excusing what I did, its still trashy...but I feel I've paid for it. Aquaman definitely made me pay for it within these past couple of years.
Posted by PhantumPosted by 7thHousePosted by PhantumPosted by MissTaiLeePosted by PhantumPosted by ELIGAB
I completely stopped reading after sleeping with the cousin
Like BITCH YOU FUCKED HIS COUSIN
YOU SMASHED THE HOMIE
yea you're friend with benefits but you could've slept with anyone but his cousin..
The first page with everyone saying it's not your fault is bullshit
They're delusional and probably have sag placements
Girl, I am not delusional. lol
He was bringing girls over to sleep with, including her best friend. Maybe she figured he brought the cousin over for her, since he was bringing so much sex.
I do see the cousin thing, though. That's gotta smart.
They're not "blood" cousins. They are cousins by choice because they were close as childhood friends. And Aquaman dropped that "cousin" quick cause after Geminiman found out we were official, he had the nerve to hmu asking to "chill" and to this day, he still tries to hmu
And as for my bestfriend, Geminiwoman, I had to drop her because after she and Aquaman did their thing she ended up going crazy about him. She stalked him on fb, she was constantly texting me asking why he wasn't answering her calls and she would call me asking to hangout, but when she came over she wouldn't even chill with me, she would try to interact with my roomie Aquaman and would bust into his room without him giving her permission. He finally told me I can't bring her over cause she kept invading his privacy, kept using me as a connection for her to get back in touch with him when he didnt want to so it got awkward between Geminiwoman and I.
So basically, Aquaman and I dropped both of our Geminis 💀💀💀💀 I'm pretty sure they both hate us 😭😭😭😭
Sag and Aqua using horny Geminis to score points on each other. Gemini hate crime!
JK, lol
That's a mess. So, things have been calm since then but he's not over it emotionally? Or are y'all still playing with each other?
Lol the word "Geminis" were just thrown in to make her look like she's not the only one messing the situation. More like Geminis do it so I'm OK sort of thing. Lol I doubt if they were even actually gems especially the woman. First off,, I don't know any gemini woman who does the chasing. Maybe the stalking on social media but not the too much calling etc. Even here on dxp. How many gemini women actually post about men ignoring them? Very very few. I can't even remember their usernames coz that's how few they are. I dunno any who gets hung up on men who don't show them interest. And second, I just get the feeling that gems were thrown in the situation to make her shitty ass look OK in the situation. Lol
I've noticed that Gemini women rarely post about our love lives at all, and when we do it's more like "this is what is going on; this is what I have already decided". I guess we're kind of private and don't really like advice. @Gemitati is a big exception, but I seriously doubt she was either a woman or a Gemini.click to expand
Lol so you're saying that I'm just making things up as I go? 😭😭😭💀💀💀✌✌✌ pls stop. Geminiwoman was May 22nd and Geminiman was June 10th and last time I checked those dates are Gemini dates. But oh well, carry on. And I love Geminis, they are my polar opposite so we get along really well but things with these two didnt work out so oh well 💁💁💁
Posted by 7thHousePosted by PhantumPosted by MissTaiLeePosted by PhantumPosted by ELIGAB
I completely stopped reading after sleeping with the cousin
Like BITCH YOU FUCKED HIS COUSIN
YOU SMASHED THE HOMIE
yea you're friend with benefits but you could've slept with anyone but his cousin..
The first page with everyone saying it's not your fault is bullshit
They're delusional and probably have sag placements
Girl, I am not delusional. lol
He was bringing girls over to sleep with, including her best friend. Maybe she figured he brought the cousin over for her, since he was bringing so much sex.
I do see the cousin thing, though. That's gotta smart.
They're not "blood" cousins. They are cousins by choice because they were close as childhood friends. And Aquaman dropped that "cousin" quick cause after Geminiman found out we were official, he had the nerve to hmu asking to "chill" and to this day, he still tries to hmu
And as for my bestfriend, Geminiwoman, I had to drop her because after she and Aquaman did their thing she ended up going crazy about him. She stalked him on fb, she was constantly texting me asking why he wasn't answering her calls and she would call me asking to hangout, but when she came over she wouldn't even chill with me, she would try to interact with my roomie Aquaman and would bust into his room without him giving her permission. He finally told me I can't bring her over cause she kept invading his privacy, kept using me as a connection for her to get back in touch with him when he didnt want to so it got awkward between Geminiwoman and I.
So basically, Aquaman and I dropped both of our Geminis 💀💀💀💀 I'm pretty sure they both hate us 😭😭😭😭
Sag and Aqua using horny Geminis to score points on each other. Gemini hate crime!
JK, lol
That's a mess. So, things have been calm since then but he's not over it emotionally? Or are y'all still playing with each other?
Lol the word "Geminis" were just thrown in to make her look like she's not the only one messing the situation. More like Geminis do it so I'm OK sort of thing. Lol I doubt if they were even actually gems especially the woman. First off,, I don't know any gemini woman who does the chasing. Maybe the stalking on social media but not the too much calling etc. Even here on dxp. How many gemini women actually post about men ignoring them? Very very few. I can't even remember their usernames coz that's how few they are. I dunno any who gets hung up on men who don't show them interest. And second, I just get the feeling that gems were thrown in the situation to make her shitty ass look OK in the situation. Lolclick to expand
😭😭😭 "shitty ass" 💀💀💀 why r u hopping into my forum passing judgement when you're not God. I came here to ask for advice on my situation but instead of giving helpful advice you decided to come here and bash me? What's your problem? Are you not happy in your day to day life that you feel the need to pass judgement and bully people on the internet. Nobody is perfect especially not you sweetie. And how were they "thrown" into the story...they were a part of it all! You're funny 😭😭😭 and yes, take a look at celebrities for proof! Rasheeda (Gemini) was cheated on by her husband, Kirk (Aquarius), who also had a whole nother baby from an affair and she still stuck by him even though he had numerous affairs. Another example, Faith Evans and Biggie. Biggie cheated on Faith with numerous women, even had Lil Kim on the side and she still stuck by him saying she was all "in love". Give me a break bitch! You obviously like to generalize but don't you realize everyone has different charts that make them act a certain way? Sheesh what's your sign? And if you say Gemini, I'm gonna bust out laughing cause you're SALTY 😂😂😂😂
Posted by 7thHousePosted by MissTaiLeePosted by PhantumPosted by ELIGAB
I completely stopped reading after sleeping with the cousin
Like BITCH YOU FUCKED HIS COUSIN
YOU SMASHED THE HOMIE
yea you're friend with benefits but you could've slept with anyone but his cousin..
The first page with everyone saying it's not your fault is bullshit
They're delusional and probably have sag placements
Girl, I am not delusional. lol
He was bringing girls over to sleep with, including her best friend. Maybe she figured he brought the cousin over for her, since he was bringing so much sex.
I do see the cousin thing, though. That's gotta smart.
They're not "blood" cousins. They are cousins by choice because they were close as childhood friends. And Aquaman dropped that "cousin" quick cause after Geminiman found out we were official, he had the nerve to hmu asking to "chill" and to this day, he still tries to hmu
And as for my bestfriend, Geminiwoman, I had to drop her because after she and Aquaman did their thing she ended up going crazy about him. She stalked him on fb, she was constantly texting me asking why he wasn't answering her calls and she would call me asking to hangout, but when she came over she wouldn't even chill with me, she would try to interact with my roomie Aquaman and would bust into his room without him giving her permission. He finally told me I can't bring her over cause she kept invading his privacy, kept using me as a connection for her to get back in touch with him when he didnt want to so it got awkward between Geminiwoman and I.
So basically, Aquaman and I dropped both of our Geminis 💀💀💀💀 I'm pretty sure they both hate us 😭😭😭😭
Cool story. But including Geminis as red herrings in the situation is of no help. This must be a troll post lolclick to expand
😭😭😭😭😭 yeah I guess if you say so ✌✌✌✌✌
Geez, I'm sorry I could barely finish the rest of the story after you slept with his cousin... HIS COUSIN—
Together or not you crossed the line...that relationship or whatever y'all were doing should have been over 3 years ago... That will also be in the back of his head... he probably doesn't know who else you been with because he had to find out about that...
You keep screaming we we're FWB then why didn't you tell him— You let him find out which is worse than it coming from your mouth.
Then God forbids him and cousin ever get into it and the cousin throws it in his face that he slept with his wife!!! Lawwwddd this is too much...
I mean Idk what else to say...
Together or not you crossed the line...that relationship or whatever y'all were doing should have been over 3 years ago... That will also be in the back of his head... he probably doesn't know who else you been with because he had to find out about that...
You keep screaming we we're FWB then why didn't you tell him— You let him find out which is worse than it coming from your mouth.
Then God forbids him and cousin ever get into it and the cousin throws it in his face that he slept with his wife!!! Lawwwddd this is too much...
I mean Idk what else to say...
Posted by virgal_perfectionist
Geez, I'm sorry I could barely finish the rest of the story after you slept with his cousin... HIS COUSIN—
Together or not you crossed the line...that relationship or whatever y'all were doing should have been over 3 years ago... That will also be in the back of his head... he probably doesn't know who else you been with because he had to find out about that...
You keep screaming we we're FWB then why didn't you tell him— You let him find out which is worse than it coming from your mouth.
Then God forbids him and cousin ever get into it and the cousin throws it in his face that he slept with his wife!!! Lawwwddd this is too much...
I mean Idk what else to say...
They will never see each other again...I'm positive of that. Because he's not blood cousin, its really just slang for close friend, they are not related by blood. Aquaman dropped him cause after we became official, the "cousin" was trying to hmu even after he knew Aquaman and I were official. I showed my man the messages of his so called "cousin" hitting me up so he dropped that dude quick! And at the time, it wasn't important to me so I didn't feel obligated to tell him anything because why is he entitled to know who I was, have, or been with if he's just a fwb? He's not entitled to shit!
Posted by MissTaiLeePosted by virgal_perfectionist
Geez, I'm sorry I could barely finish the rest of the story after you slept with his cousin... HIS COUSIN—
Together or not you crossed the line...that relationship or whatever y'all were doing should have been over 3 years ago... That will also be in the back of his head... he probably doesn't know who else you been with because he had to find out about that...
You keep screaming we we're FWB then why didn't you tell him— You let him find out which is worse than it coming from your mouth.
Then God forbids him and cousin ever get into it and the cousin throws it in his face that he slept with his wife!!! Lawwwddd this is too much...
I mean Idk what else to say...
They will never see each other again...I'm positive of that. Because he's not blood cousin, its really just slang for close friend, they are not related by blood. Aquaman dropped him cause after we became official, the "cousin" was trying to hmu even after he knew Aquaman and I were official. I showed my man the messages of his so called "cousin" hitting me up so he dropped that dude quick! And at the time, it wasn't important to me so I didn't feel obligated to tell him anything because why is he entitled to know who I was, have, or been with if he's just a fwb? He's not entitled to shit!click to expand
It doesn't matter if it was a FWB... you crossed the line sis... that was his cousin or whatever you want to call him...
The damage is done and you have to decide if this is something you will be able to hear your entire life if the marriage happens.
That's always going to be in back of his mind no matter what.
Posted by virgal_perfectionistPosted by MissTaiLeePosted by virgal_perfectionist
Geez, I'm sorry I could barely finish the rest of the story after you slept with his cousin... HIS COUSIN—
Together or not you crossed the line...that relationship or whatever y'all were doing should have been over 3 years ago... That will also be in the back of his head... he probably doesn't know who else you been with because he had to find out about that...
You keep screaming we we're FWB then why didn't you tell him— You let him find out which is worse than it coming from your mouth.
Then God forbids him and cousin ever get into it and the cousin throws it in his face that he slept with his wife!!! Lawwwddd this is too much...
I mean Idk what else to say...
They will never see each other again...I'm positive of that. Because he's not blood cousin, its really just slang for close friend, they are not related by blood. Aquaman dropped him cause after we became official, the "cousin" was trying to hmu even after he knew Aquaman and I were official. I showed my man the messages of his so called "cousin" hitting me up so he dropped that dude quick! And at the time, it wasn't important to me so I didn't feel obligated to tell him anything because why is he entitled to know who I was, have, or been with if he's just a fwb? He's not entitled to shit!
It doesn't matter if it was a FWB... you crossed the line sis... that was his cousin or whatever you want to call him...
The damage is done and you have to decide if this is something you will be able to hear your entire life if the marriage happens.
That's always going to be in back of his mind no matter what.click to expand
Thanks for your input. I commented earlier that we talked about it this last Sunday and he assured me he's over it. He admitted that he likes bringing it up just to get a reaction from me, he's apologized. And we agreed to move forward with the wedding! I'm not gonna lie I think I overanalyzed and made a big deal out of this when in his mind it really is not. Because if it was such a big deal, do you think he would propose? If what happened really bothered him, do you think he'd want to be with me for the rest of his life? I think that says enough. He obviously loves me even with my distasteful choices, what can I say?
Tbh both are in the wrong. Idk why theres so much back in forth in these posts lmao
-Sleeping with his cousin was a big no.
-Him trying to guilt trip you so many years later and then drunkenly telling you the love he has for u (or the lack of) is not the reason he wants to marry you (instead some weird ownership reason🤢) is a big no.
If you really wanna try solving this and u believe he’s the man for you, Try talking this whole situation that’s obviously manifested into something big, with him. How you guys can move forward BC this is blocking him from truly loving you all the way.
If there is no moving forward or either parties can’t/won’t, it’s time to separate.
-Sleeping with his cousin was a big no.
-Him trying to guilt trip you so many years later and then drunkenly telling you the love he has for u (or the lack of) is not the reason he wants to marry you (instead some weird ownership reason🤢) is a big no.
If you really wanna try solving this and u believe he’s the man for you, Try talking this whole situation that’s obviously manifested into something big, with him. How you guys can move forward BC this is blocking him from truly loving you all the way.
If there is no moving forward or either parties can’t/won’t, it’s time to separate.
Posted by Arielle83
Are there no other men in your hillbilly town?
For a sagittarian you sure aren’t very adventurous.
👎👎👎 wasn't planning for that mistake to happen, it just did and I regret it wholeheartedly but idk we'll see where the winds take us 😊 honestly theres alot of good in our relationship and just this one bad...oh well 💁💁 ill let go and let God 🙌🙌🙌
Posted by MissTaiLee
Hello,
I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place. My fiance, Aquaman, and I have been together for 5 years. We are due to get married January 2021. Recently, we got really drunk and out of nowhere he told me that he doesn't "completely" love me but wants to get married because he wants me to himself and I'm the one ----yada yada. I asked him, "Where is this coming from" and he brought up something that I did before we even got together.
Aquaman and I initially met in high school in 2013. Then 5 years ago in 2015, Aquaman and I had reconnected through a friend, we ended up friends with benefits and the sex was happening every day for months. Again, we were NOT in a relationship, just fwb.
I ended up moving in with him cause he was in need of a roommate and I was desperate to get out of the place I was at. At this time we were still fwb for about 3 months. His cousin, Geminiman, ended up at the house almost everyday cause he would come chill with Aquaman. They were really close.
I ended up having sex with his cousin, after getting drunk, I didn't say anything about it to Aquaman at the time, because again, we were just fuck buddies and he never asked for exclusivity or confessed he had feelings for me. I never even suspected he had feelings for me cause Aquarius are so good at being aloof, detached, and don't show their emotions.
Anyways, he ended up finding out from his cousin about what happened and confronted me about it. He started crying, saying he thought I was the one and that I should've known...I'm not gonna lie, I loved Aquaman the whole time we were fwb but I never knew how he felt about me cause he never confessed feelings and was still talking to other women. Btw, he would occassionally bring women over to the house too.
Anyways, he never asked me to move out even though he was really pissed at me and we continued having sex after about two weeks of him avoiding me. Couple months later, he ended up asking me to be his girl, but during the first 2 years together he kept bringing up the whole cousin thing and would say things like I am scandalous and always brings me down about it...he sometimes makes me feel so terrible that he makes me cry and I just want to run away
He has told me he hates me for "betraying" him and that's why he can't "completely" love me..in all honesty, I don't feel I did anything wrong because again, WE WERE NOT TOGETHER and how was I supposed to know he digged me at the time, I'm not a mindreader. I honestly thought he just wanted sex cause he never confessed feelings for me or asked to be exclusive..
Now, that was the first 2 years together, these last 3 years, he's rarely brought it up until we got drunk the other night...and I can't believe that after 5 years of being together and me proving myself to him that he still feels he can't "trust" or "completely love" me.
I can't lie. I absolutely adore this man and love him with all of my being but how can I marry someone who keeps bringing up shit from 5 years ago?
Now, with our wedding day coming closer and closer, I can't bring myself to marry Aquaman because of what he said the other night...how can I marry someone who can't "completely" love me because of something I did when we weren't together.
And for the record...In the past, when he brought up the occurance, I tried to leave him cause I was tired of him bringing me down but he tells me I can't go anywhere and he loves me too much to let me walk away but then he shoves the whole "fucking his cousin" thing in my face randomly and guilt trips me about it over and over...
I love him so much and I know he loves me but I'm at a crossroad with myself..
What should I do?
Btw, I'm Sagittarius (12/03/96) and he's Aquarius (01/22/95), if that helps anything.
You brought it on yourself when you fucked his family member. You could have fucked anyone else but blood and friends are always off limits. There are rules to fwb. He wouldn't have taken it so hard if it was a stranger but you crossed that line when you fucked his cousin. You all sound like hoors anyway so why are any of you tripping?
Posted by 7thHousePosted by MissTaiLeePosted by 7thHousePosted by PhantumPosted by MissTaiLeePosted by PhantumPosted by ELIGAB
I completely stopped reading after sleeping with the cousin
Like BITCH YOU FUCKED HIS COUSIN
YOU SMASHED THE HOMIE
yea you're friend with benefits but you could've slept with anyone but his cousin..
The first page with everyone saying it's not your fault is bullshit
They're delusional and probably have sag placements
Girl, I am not delusional. lol
He was bringing girls over to sleep with, including her best friend. Maybe she figured he brought the cousin over for her, since he was bringing so much sex.
I do see the cousin thing, though. That's gotta smart.
They're not "blood" cousins. They are cousins by choice because they were close as childhood friends. And Aquaman dropped that "cousin" quick cause after Geminiman found out we were official, he had the nerve to hmu asking to "chill" and to this day, he still tries to hmu
And as for my bestfriend, Geminiwoman, I had to drop her because after she and Aquaman did their thing she ended up going crazy about him. She stalked him on fb, she was constantly texting me asking why he wasn't answering her calls and she would call me asking to hangout, but when she came over she wouldn't even chill with me, she would try to interact with my roomie Aquaman and would bust into his room without him giving her permission. He finally told me I can't bring her over cause she kept invading his privacy, kept using me as a connection for her to get back in touch with him when he didnt want to so it got awkward between Geminiwoman and I.
So basically, Aquaman and I dropped both of our Geminis 💀💀💀💀 I'm pretty sure they both hate us 😭😭😭😭
Sag and Aqua using horny Geminis to score points on each other. Gemini hate crime!
JK, lol
That's a mess. So, things have been calm since then but he's not over it emotionally? Or are y'all still playing with each other?
Lol the word "Geminis" were just thrown in to make her look like she's not the only one messing the situation. More like Geminis do it so I'm OK sort of thing. Lol I doubt if they were even actually gems especially the woman. First off,, I don't know any gemini woman who does the chasing. Maybe the stalking on social media but not the too much calling etc. Even here on dxp. How many gemini women actually post about men ignoring them? Very very few. I can't even remember their usernames coz that's how few they are. I dunno any who gets hung up on men who don't show them interest. And second, I just get the feeling that gems were thrown in the situation to make her shitty ass look OK in the situation. Lol
😭😭😭 "shitty ass" 💀💀💀 why r u hopping into my forum passing judgement when you're not God. I came here to ask for advice on my situation but instead of giving helpful advice you decided to come here and bash me? What's your problem? Are you not happy in your day to day life that you feel the need to pass judgement and bully people on the internet. Nobody is perfect especially not you sweetie. And how were they "thrown" into the story...they were a part of it all! You're funny 😭😭😭 and yes, take a look at celebrities for proof! Rasheeda (Gemini) was cheated on by her husband, Kirk (Aquarius), who also had a whole nother baby from an affair and she still stuck by him even though he had numerous affairs. Another example, Faith Evans and Biggie. Biggie cheated on Faith with numerous women, even had Lil Kim on the side and she still stuck by him saying she was all "in love". Give me a break bitch! You obviously like to generalize but don't you realize everyone has different charts that make them act a certain way? Sheesh what's your sign? And if you say Gemini, I'm gonna bust out laughing cause you're SALTY 😂😂😂😂
Sorry to disappoint. I'm an aqua. I won't tolerate your attitude. I guarantee you, aquas aren't fools. Thinking you got away with what you did? Lol 😂😂😂😂😂 good luck to you. I'm not bashing you. I'm saying what I think. Nobody is perfect. But what you did is dirtyAF. Really low. Even if he proposed, damage has been done so I don't know why you still expect things to be OK. Your basically lying to yourself.click to expand
Oh well 💁 we already agreed to move forward after talking with him 👌 so lets see where the winds takes us! I'm down for the ride with him 😉😉😉😉😉 my Aqua man ❤
Posted by OnigenPosted by MissTaiLee
Hello,
I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place. My fiance, Aquaman, and I have been together for 5 years. We are due to get married January 2021. Recently, we got really drunk and out of nowhere he told me that he doesn't "completely" love me but wants to get married because he wants me to himself and I'm the one ----yada yada. I asked him, "Where is this coming from" and he brought up something that I did before we even got together.
Aquaman and I initially met in high school in 2013. Then 5 years ago in 2015, Aquaman and I had reconnected through a friend, we ended up friends with benefits and the sex was happening every day for months. Again, we were NOT in a relationship, just fwb.
I ended up moving in with him cause he was in need of a roommate and I was desperate to get out of the place I was at. At this time we were still fwb for about 3 months. His cousin, Geminiman, ended up at the house almost everyday cause he would come chill with Aquaman. They were really close.
I ended up having sex with his cousin, after getting drunk, I didn't say anything about it to Aquaman at the time, because again, we were just fuck buddies and he never asked for exclusivity or confessed he had feelings for me. I never even suspected he had feelings for me cause Aquarius are so good at being aloof, detached, and don't show their emotions.
Anyways, he ended up finding out from his cousin about what happened and confronted me about it. He started crying, saying he thought I was the one and that I should've known...I'm not gonna lie, I loved Aquaman the whole time we were fwb but I never knew how he felt about me cause he never confessed feelings and was still talking to other women. Btw, he would occassionally bring women over to the house too.
Anyways, he never asked me to move out even though he was really pissed at me and we continued having sex after about two weeks of him avoiding me. Couple months later, he ended up asking me to be his girl, but during the first 2 years together he kept bringing up the whole cousin thing and would say things like I am scandalous and always brings me down about it...he sometimes makes me feel so terrible that he makes me cry and I just want to run away
He has told me he hates me for "betraying" him and that's why he can't "completely" love me..in all honesty, I don't feel I did anything wrong because again, WE WERE NOT TOGETHER and how was I supposed to know he digged me at the time, I'm not a mindreader. I honestly thought he just wanted sex cause he never confessed feelings for me or asked to be exclusive..
Now, that was the first 2 years together, these last 3 years, he's rarely brought it up until we got drunk the other night...and I can't believe that after 5 years of being together and me proving myself to him that he still feels he can't "trust" or "completely love" me.
I can't lie. I absolutely adore this man and love him with all of my being but how can I marry someone who keeps bringing up shit from 5 years ago?
Now, with our wedding day coming closer and closer, I can't bring myself to marry Aquaman because of what he said the other night...how can I marry someone who can't "completely" love me because of something I did when we weren't together.
And for the record...In the past, when he brought up the occurance, I tried to leave him cause I was tired of him bringing me down but he tells me I can't go anywhere and he loves me too much to let me walk away but then he shoves the whole "fucking his cousin" thing in my face randomly and guilt trips me about it over and over...
I love him so much and I know he loves me but I'm at a crossroad with myself..
What should I do?
Btw, I'm Sagittarius (12/03/96) and he's Aquarius (01/22/95), if that helps anything.
You brought it on yourself when you fucked his family member. You could have fucked anyone else but blood and friends are always off limits. There are rules to fwb. He wouldn't have taken it so hard if it was a stranger but you crossed that line when you fucked his cousin. You all sound like hoors anyway so why are any of you tripping?click to expand
We both aint follow the rules or were ignorant of them 😭😭 but Im not gonna let this get to me there's too many good and little to no bad other than this "hiccup" so Ill just sit tight and enjoy the ride of life with him! 💪💪💪💪
Posted by SlipperySlope
"I love him so much that I fucked his cousin"
Shit happens 💁 its not like I planned it 👎
Fvck!ng his cousin got his attention and eventually led to their engagement. Aqua men are difficult to pin down, from my observations they love a challenge. He didn’t start taking her serious until she showed him she didn’t give a fuck about his ass lol What she did was risky being that she was in love with him, but I low key think it was kinda strategic. I know it had to be a roller coaster of emotions and drama but it definitely worked in her favor. She got him to commit and propose.
What I want to know is the aftermath . What happened after he found out? Did How did y’all make amends and reconcile after this? details please 😊
What I want to know is the aftermath . What happened after he found out? Did How did y’all make amends and reconcile after this? details please 😊
Posted by 7thHousePosted by MissTaiLeePosted by nanorobot
Okay so to get this back on track, you didn’t even fuck his cousin? They are “cousins“ as some slang for bro, best friend, etc?
So, essentially you screwed each other’s best friends. The friends aren’t in the picture anymore, but he still can’t move on, and you can.
It just seems like a lot of baggage and resentment. Are you two willing to get professional help? From a therapist? Maybe some premarital counseling.
Is the relationship good other than this?
Yes, that was not cousin by blood, only by choice cause they were childhood friends. And yes, they are both out of the picture. And yes, the relationship is GREAT....he's over it...at least he acts like he is. Again, he didn't bring it up at all for the last 3 years until a couple days ago...I think the other person is right. I think he just brings it up whenever he needs to use it against me kind of like a power trip...or he's really not over it..idk anymore...I'm just gonna leave it up to fate and roll with it and of course talk to him about it, wish me luck 😀😀😀😀
It's the trust issue. I don't think he's ever gonna fully forgive you for it. Aquas are cold but trust is so big for them that if you damage it, they are going to be fixated on their idea of you not being trustworthy. Good luck with having him 100% even after marriage. The one thing you should have done is respect yourself enough to not sleep with someone he knows. Respect is so important for an aqua to marry and stay married with someone. Actually, not just for aquas but for any sign and any couple. But you basically showed how low you can get. Sorry not sorry.click to expand
Well la dee da! What do we have here? Ms. I don’t pass judgements on other people. I knew you were self-righteous and delusional. The key common element of all self-righteous people is that they THInK (and delusional they are) that they don’t judge meanwhile they are the biggest hypocrites and lack self-awareness. Sorry, not sorry.
Posted by 7thHousePosted by aquarius09Posted by 7thHousePosted by MissTaiLeePosted by nanorobot
Okay so to get this back on track, you didn’t even fuck his cousin? They are “cousins“ as some slang for bro, best friend, etc?
So, essentially you screwed each other’s best friends. The friends aren’t in the picture anymore, but he still can’t move on, and you can.
It just seems like a lot of baggage and resentment. Are you two willing to get professional help? From a therapist? Maybe some premarital counseling.
Is the relationship good other than this?
Yes, that was not cousin by blood, only by choice cause they were childhood friends. And yes, they are both out of the picture. And yes, the relationship is GREAT....he's over it...at least he acts like he is. Again, he didn't bring it up at all for the last 3 years until a couple days ago...I think the other person is right. I think he just brings it up whenever he needs to use it against me kind of like a power trip...or he's really not over it..idk anymore...I'm just gonna leave it up to fate and roll with it and of course talk to him about it, wish me luck 😀😀😀😀
It's the trust issue. I don't think he's ever gonna fully forgive you for it. Aquas are cold but trust is so big for them that if you damage it, they are going to be fixated on their idea of you not being trustworthy. Good luck with having him 100% even after marriage. The one thing you should have done is respect yourself enough to not sleep with someone he knows. Respect is so important for an aqua to marry and stay married with someone. Actually, not just for aquas but for any sign and any couple. But you basically showed how low you can get. Sorry not sorry.
Well la dee da! What do we have here? Ms. I don’t pass judgements on other people. I knew you were self-righteous and delusional. The key common element of all self-righteous people is that they THInK (and delusional they are) that they don’t judge meanwhile they are the biggest hypocrites and lack self-awareness. Sorry, not sorry.
Trying to stay relevant again by talking to me? There you have it. A small piece of my attention. Kthanksbye. 😂click to expand
I’m just copying you. You don’t like it, do you?LOL. Now you know what it feels like to receive a response from someone you don’t want to hear from ☺️
Posted by 7thHousePosted by aquarius09Posted by 7thHousePosted by aquarius09Posted by 7thHousePosted by MissTaiLeePosted by nanorobot
Okay so to get this back on track, you didn’t even fuck his cousin? They are “cousins“ as some slang for bro, best friend, etc?
So, essentially you screwed each other’s best friends. The friends aren’t in the picture anymore, but he still can’t move on, and you can.
It just seems like a lot of baggage and resentment. Are you two willing to get professional help? From a therapist? Maybe some premarital counseling.
Is the relationship good other than this?
Yes, that was not cousin by blood, only by choice cause they were childhood friends. And yes, they are both out of the picture. And yes, the relationship is GREAT....he's over it...at least he acts like he is. Again, he didn't bring it up at all for the last 3 years until a couple days ago...I think the other person is right. I think he just brings it up whenever he needs to use it against me kind of like a power trip...or he's really not over it..idk anymore...I'm just gonna leave it up to fate and roll with it and of course talk to him about it, wish me luck 😀😀😀😀
It's the trust issue. I don't think he's ever gonna fully forgive you for it. Aquas are cold but trust is so big for them that if you damage it, they are going to be fixated on their idea of you not being trustworthy. Good luck with having him 100% even after marriage. The one thing you should have done is respect yourself enough to not sleep with someone he knows. Respect is so important for an aqua to marry and stay married with someone. Actually, not just for aquas but for any sign and any couple. But you basically showed how low you can get. Sorry not sorry.
Well la dee da! What do we have here? Ms. I don’t pass judgements on other people. I knew you were self-righteous and delusional. The key common element of all self-righteous people is that they THInK (and delusional they are) that they don’t judge meanwhile they are the biggest hypocrites and lack self-awareness. Sorry, not sorry.
Trying to stay relevant again by talking to me? There you have it. A small piece of my attention. Kthanksbye. 😂
I’m just copying you. You don’t like it, do you?LOL. Now you know what it feels like to receive a response from someone you don’t want to hear from ☺️
Doesn't really bother me as much as it bothers you 😉click to expand
Yeah, that’s because you want attention from me, but the feeling isn’t mutual. 🤮
Posted by Arielle83Posted by MissTaiLeePosted by Arielle83
Are there no other men in your hillbilly town?
For a sagittarian you sure aren’t very adventurous.
👎👎👎 wasn't planning for that mistake to happen, it just did and I regret it wholeheartedly but idk we'll see where the winds take us 😊 honestly theres alot of good in our relationship and just this one bad...oh well 💁💁 ill let go and let God 🙌🙌🙌
I’m saying, why settle when you can be away from all this drama and resentment and move on with someone else fresh. Not knowing your past etc.click to expand
Its something I cant explain. You might think its all drama and resentment, but remember, I've come to this forum with only my issue. I have not gone into how we act on a day to day basis. For example, when we're together we're each other's best friend. We can finish each other's thoughts and sometimes we can just look at each other and we already know what the other is thinking. We joke around alot... they say you're supposed to marry your best friend. Even after being together for 5 years, we treat each other like we're still trying to woo each other. He makes it a point to come to my lunch at work almost every day and I as well. I'll surprise him with food and he'll surprise me with presents + food. We cook, play video games, study together. He always compliments, listens, and guides me. Whenever I talk about my dreams and goals, he supports me wholeheartedly. He's involved in everything I do and even gives advice and his input on things. He'll ask me what he should do about certain things and asks me for advice alot! When we talk, he's always talking about the future. He always says, "Okay we need to accomplish this within 5, 10, 15 years" then he'll go into how he wants us to build our credit more to buy houses/properties, and he stays asking me for babies. He says he wants 6 total. People don't like hanging out with us, and when I ask them why, they always say that when they're around us, they feel left out...like we're in our own little world cause that's how much we talk and connect. We had a couple that we hung out with (Taurus guy/Libra girl) that said they didnt want to hang out with us cause we're too much PDA and they dont understand our conversations like when we have our little insider jokes, they feel left out. Like I said, too much good and little-to-no bad in the relationship, I just hope he truly means what he says when he says he's over this hiccup and I truly hope he finds peace with me. I feel like he is...despite my terrible past 😢 If not, we're in the hands of Fate 🙌🙌🙌 Im not religious but I believe in Fate and things happening for a reason.
Edit:
And the sex, dont get me started. We both work full time jobs, and its still an easy 3-4x a day even after 5 years of being together. Hes a sex machine but he can't keep up with me 💧💧💧💧💧💧 bondage, S+M, and all 😥😥😥
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taurus likes virgo more than virgo likes Taurus
(taurus>virgo)
taurus>virgo
gemini>aqua
libra>sag
sag>aqua
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virgo> aries
pisces> cancer
aqua> cap
cap>taurus
leo>sag
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sag/libra
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😭🤣
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U81KTVber00
we'll try @aquarius09
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Posted by emeraldgem
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Gems
mirror image/shadow
hypnotic attraction/connection between signs
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taurus-leo
gemini-cancer
libra-pisces
scorpio-aquarius
sagittarius-capricorn
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Cancer 4
Leo 7
Virgo 8
Libra 5
Scorpio 3
Sag 9
Cap 7
Aqua 4
Pisces 3
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