Gemitati
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What's up with this Aqua?
Nooo... I'm not cosigning either option.
You're thinking of making life altering decisions
(and not just your own life) based on the noise
of your biological clock.
Hit snooze on that thing and clear your head...
do some mental/emotional housecleaning.
♡
You're thinking of making life altering decisions
(and not just your own life) based on the noise
of your biological clock.
Hit snooze on that thing and clear your head...
do some mental/emotional housecleaning.
♡
You and him again lol give up.
Posted by Gemitati
De ja view...
Anyone else?
Imao......
I think he has a real thing on the side like a real wife . Something is off.. ! But for ur sake and for your future baby u need to give up. Aqua not committing whike dating u is one thing coz atleast u r getting ur Sex fixed lol but a man that keeps cancelling on seeing you. That's a big red flag ..... keep it moving plz
Posted by Astrology101You really think not enough info given? ?Posted by fem_femmeHe may have thought you would give him a signal to start things... which I'm thinking you didn't.Posted by Astrology101Yes....so he took me to his bed on the 1st date although I had told him before we met there will be no sex o the 1st date. So we kissed and all it was nice. One the second date, we only met outside but he did ask me to go over after our dinner, but it was getting late, so I assumed he was inviting me over for sex, so on the 3rd date I get invited to his place, so I am thinking ok now he will initiate the sex, but on the 3rd date he didn't even initiate a kiss or any touchig...i felt like i was hanging out with him instead lol! I fact, when I left his house, i am the one who kissed him on his lips twice and he kind of froze....then once i left his house, he sends me a selfie with his naked chest saying he feels very comfy around me....it's like he got excited from my kiss and acted like an excited teenager, so I said "you should have taken your shirt off while I was at your house" to which he said "dangerous!" Im like what lolol.....he feels reserved. Anyways, he does seem unreliable with the canceled dates....plus he even canceled on me on the 2nd date although, after the cancellation, he then changed it back the last minute, so that is why we didn't get a chance to go to his place after the dinner since we met up at a later time than we planned which only left us time to eat as it was Sunday evening. I don't get why he is texting me even after learning of my pregnancy plans for the end of this year. He should have bolted! This has been the most draining experience I've had but I like him...after reading up on commitment phobic men, he has all the traits.
Have you ever initiated things sexually with him? I'd just kiss him on the fly... and see how he reacts.
He does sound unreliable.
Because you denied him on the first date... so the ball was in your court.
Now that you are having a kid... I guess it does not look too good for him. You should decide what you need to do... we can speculate... but the info given isn't enough to form an opinion tbh.
I'm sensing both of you are overthinking it. You can either be forthcoming and ask him what's up or you could move on...
You need to go with your gut.click to expand
Posted by Astrology101Buckle up! ?Posted by GemitatiLol not enough info to form an opinion about his character. I could be wrong.Posted by Astrology101You really think not enough info given? ?Posted by fem_femmeHe may have thought you would give him a signal to start things... which I'm thinking you didn't.Posted by Astrology101Yes....so he took me to his bed on the 1st date although I had told him before we met there will be no sex o the 1st date. So we kissed and all it was nice. One the second date, we only met outside but he did ask me to go over after our dinner, but it was getting late, so I assumed he was inviting me over for sex, so on the 3rd date I get invited to his place, so I am thinking ok now he will initiate the sex, but on the 3rd date he didn't even initiate a kiss or any touchig...i felt like i was hanging out with him instead lol! I fact, when I left his house, i am the one who kissed him on his lips twice and he kind of froze....then once i left his house, he sends me a selfie with his naked chest saying he feels very comfy around me....it's like he got excited from my kiss and acted like an excited teenager, so I said "you should have taken your shirt off while I was at your house" to which he said "dangerous!" Im like what lolol.....he feels reserved. Anyways, he does seem unreliable with the canceled dates....plus he even canceled on me on the 2nd date although, after the cancellation, he then changed it back the last minute, so that is why we didn't get a chance to go to his place after the dinner since we met up at a later time than we planned which only left us time to eat as it was Sunday evening. I don't get why he is texting me even after learning of my pregnancy plans for the end of this year. He should have bolted! This has been the most draining experience I've had but I like him...after reading up on commitment phobic men, he has all the traits.
Have you ever initiated things sexually with him? I'd just kiss him on the fly... and see how he reacts.
He does sound unreliable.
Because you denied him on the first date... so the ball was in your court.
Now that you are having a kid... I guess it does not look too good for him. You should decide what you need to do... we can speculate... but the info given isn't enough to form an opinion tbh.
I'm sensing both of you are overthinking it. You can either be forthcoming and ask him what's up or you could move on...
You need to go with your gut.
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Posted by bittercupcakeI had a passionate Argentinian 50-year-old...he craved sex and jumped on me whenever and wherever he saw me. Is 50 THAT old not to have any libido up to the point of just talking about it?
You're 34 he's 50.... sexual libidos differ exponentially... you're at your prime years... his is going down... red flag #1
never had a meaningful relationship, always a bachelor... red flag #2
his words and actions ... do not match up ... red flag #3
You need to move on
Posted by fem_femmeNo just no...
Do you guys think he wants to 'contribute' to my pregnancy as he said he wants to do the deed...that confused me as I didn't expect it but then he is 50, is obsessed with kids but doesn't want any commitment with anyone from what it seems, so it got me thinking if he meant it or what?
Posted by saweetz1988😆Posted by fem_femmeNo just no...
Do you guys think he wants to 'contribute' to my pregnancy as he said he wants to do the deed...that confused me as I didn't expect it but then he is 50, is obsessed with kids but doesn't want any commitment with anyone from what it seems, so it got me thinking if he meant it or what?click to expand
Posted by fem_femmePosted by KoniuchaaHe sends me photos with his nephew & niece when he visits them, he likes tons of photos of little kids that belong to his friends, he calls kids blessings and joy. He says that if he doesn't have a child, it will be every depressing for him. He does have Chiro conjunct Saturn in his 5th...I heard Saturn rigs delays or o children at all. He did say he wants to do the "deed" and when I said that my 'deed' isn't in form of sex as he already knows, he said that "he doesn't care' whatever that meant. I understand that he doesn't show interest but why i the world act like a boyfriend virtually, explain himself what he is up to, etc. It's like who is forcing him to contact me if he isn't putting any effort. He isn't leaving me alone even after I said I'm planning on having a child...in fact his texts increased after that lol before he would text every few days, not almost every day like now. I can't believe that just last night he says tomorrow we will meet, and when I said 'is that the 'tomorrows' I've been hearing about for a year now, he said no it is for real then he ghosted me the whole day...didn't even contact me to say he can't make it. When I said that he is an expert at saying one thing and not delivering it (in general), he said "bs" to me....then this lol. I used to take this personally until i realized that this is how he is & the issue isn't in me since he seems to like me enough to be chasing me even if it's just via texts. Once he told me that 'maybe i don't want your massage because I might like it too much!" I feel like he is paranoid about being physical with me.Posted by fem_femmeWhy would anyone think that? His actions speak otherwise. How is he obsessed with kids?
Do you guys think he wants to 'contribute' to my pregnancy as he said he wants to do the deed...that confused me as I didn't expect it but then he is 50, is obsessed with kids but doesn't want any commitment with anyone from what it seems, so it got me thinking if he meant it or what?click to expand
What's your sun, moon, & Venus? What's his? I could've sworn you were a Scorp... pining over this Aqua?! If you are a Scorp.... you crave intimacy and he can't give you that obviously... or he just won't! I'm not quite sure what this man has over the many men chasing you, but as an Aqua I'm pretty sure he knows just what to say to keep you around and it's been working for a year! Cut the strings asap or you're giving him more time to know which cords to pull. Take it from an Aqua woman who had a Scorp Sun Gem Moon follow her for many years..... if I ever got a divorce I'd go back to him because he showed me unconditional unfiltered love in it's purest form. But I was with him when I was younger and I didn't want a commitment, but I loved our connection so I did what I could to keep him there until I was ready to commit to him. Now I know this guy is older, but he did have a long term horrible relationship and maybe it turned him off to relationships for a while. He may really like you, but the idea of a relationship turns him off right now. Sex makes woman want a relationship so maybe that's why he's holding off. If you know you want more then FWB.... move on.
I stopped reading at "he is 50 bachelor without kids."
That says a lot there. Something women need to realize is that a guy at that age who has been single that long is going to be really, really hard to get to change his life style . What you see is what you get. Fantasizing about the potential with guys that old is just stupid.
Women need to stop chasing after losers and expecting some sort of fairy tale ending with these lame asses.
That says a lot there. Something women need to realize is that a guy at that age who has been single that long is going to be really, really hard to get to change his life style . What you see is what you get. Fantasizing about the potential with guys that old is just stupid.
Women need to stop chasing after losers and expecting some sort of fairy tale ending with these lame asses.
Posted by fem_femme...do us all a huge favor and don't have a kid. You shouldn't be spreading your genes, you immature leech.
OK guys so he did text me in the evening yesterday. After some text exchanges, he suggested that we meet up today so I said " is this one of those invitations again which you keep canceling lol?" he said "no it's real"...come today and he hasn't texted me LOL. I will get a text in the evening saying what he was up to. no, he doesn't have a wife or a gf...he freely texts me anytime, plus he takes selfies from his couch on the weekend evenings, plus he's openly on a dating site although I have messaged him with hot photos of someone else pretending to be someone else to see how often he responds, he looked at the hot profile but didn't respond, so I feel like he is very selective there. Anyways, he also sends me photos of where he is at and always responds back within a few minutes.
I don't even sweat today's another 'get together' which didn't happen regardless of his "it will happen" comment last night. Oh, he said something interesting to me last night. He suggested sex again lolol....the sex that I get suggested for a year now which never happens obviously, & told me what he'd like to do to me. He said he wants to meet up, so I said 'well we have until October to get together until 'I do my deed' (referring to my pregnancy plans), I'm sure we can arrange a get together for the last time sometime until then. He replied, "I don't want to wait for it until then." He the added that "I wanna do the deed." To that comment, I said "well it is a different deed not involving sex as you know." he then said, " I know, I don't care." HUH!?!?!?!?!? Did he offer to become a donor or something!?
I turned the tables this time saying that "I'm not into 'sexual escapades' now that I plan to have a child via sperm donor option in October". I assumed that since he is all talk and no action when it comes to sex, for the first time I will use the reverse psychology on him by saying that I'm not interested. Anyways, so he flaked out as always again today after his initiation to meet up. He had an ex gf from a few years ago who eventually had to write a long list of thigs wrong with the relationship (him) & stormed into his house for the last time with the list to read it to him about so may things wrong with the relationship and yelled at him at his own house. He told me this story after just a few minutes into our first date. He also added that while his gf was at his place some years ago, he opened his fridge to grab a drink for himself when she asked for the bottle for herself, but he told her that it's the only bottle in the fridge and it's his, so he told her to get her own bottle from his garage downstairs, after which she stormed out of his house. He told me when things ended with her, it was like a huge weight lifted off his shoulders. I got told this within a few minutes into our date. I don't know why he would portray himself from a negative side like that...he sure wasn't doing himself a favor.
Also, I noticed he texts me almost everyday, if not every day now, telling me where he was, what he did, what he ate...it's like a total relationship, except a virtual one lol I swear...our intimacy is flirting via texts so he gets that intimacy too i guess LOL! wtf!
Posted by rockyroadicecreamDo me a favor & fuck off from my thread if you have an issue contributing in a normal manner you piece of sh*t. The biggest leeches are your parents who contributed such a piece of sh*t to this world. Stay away from my thread.Posted by fem_femme...do us all a huge favor and don't have a kid. You shouldn't be spreading your genes, you immature leech.
OK guys so he did text me in the evening yesterday. After some text exchanges, he suggested that we meet up today so I said " is this one of those invitations again which you keep canceling lol?" he said "no it's real"...come today and he hasn't texted me LOL. I will get a text in the evening saying what he was up to. no, he doesn't have a wife or a gf...he freely texts me anytime, plus he takes selfies from his couch on the weekend evenings, plus he's openly on a dating site although I have messaged him with hot photos of someone else pretending to be someone else to see how often he responds, he looked at the hot profile but didn't respond, so I feel like he is very selective there. Anyways, he also sends me photos of where he is at and always responds back within a few minutes.
I don't even sweat today's another 'get together' which didn't happen regardless of his "it will happen" comment last night. Oh, he said something interesting to me last night. He suggested sex again lolol....the sex that I get suggested for a year now which never happens obviously, & told me what he'd like to do to me. He said he wants to meet up, so I said 'well we have until October to get together until 'I do my deed' (referring to my pregnancy plans), I'm sure we can arrange a get together for the last time sometime until then. He replied, "I don't want to wait for it until then." He the added that "I wanna do the deed." To that comment, I said "well it is a different deed not involving sex as you know." he then said, " I know, I don't care." HUH!?!?!?!?!? Did he offer to become a donor or something!?
I turned the tables this time saying that "I'm not into 'sexual escapades' now that I plan to have a child via sperm donor option in October". I assumed that since he is all talk and no action when it comes to sex, for the first time I will use the reverse psychology on him by saying that I'm not interested. Anyways, so he flaked out as always again today after his initiation to meet up. He had an ex gf from a few years ago who eventually had to write a long list of thigs wrong with the relationship (him) & stormed into his house for the last time with the list to read it to him about so may things wrong with the relationship and yelled at him at his own house. He told me this story after just a few minutes into our first date. He also added that while his gf was at his place some years ago, he opened his fridge to grab a drink for himself when she asked for the bottle for herself, but he told her that it's the only bottle in the fridge and it's his, so he told her to get her own bottle from his garage downstairs, after which she stormed out of his house. He told me when things ended with her, it was like a huge weight lifted off his shoulders. I got told this within a few minutes into our date. I don't know why he would portray himself from a negative side like that...he sure wasn't doing himself a favor.
Also, I noticed he texts me almost everyday, if not every day now, telling me where he was, what he did, what he ate...it's like a total relationship, except a virtual one lol I swear...our intimacy is flirting via texts so he gets that intimacy too i guess LOL! wtf!click to expand
Posted by AerialViewPosted by saweetz1988😆Posted by fem_femmeNo just no...
Do you guys think he wants to 'contribute' to my pregnancy as he said he wants to do the deed...that confused me as I didn't expect it but then he is 50, is obsessed with kids but doesn't want any commitment with anyone from what it seems, so it got me thinking if he meant it or what?click to expand
IF he can do be commited to just having sex with you.... do you honest think he's committed to being a father? Like, seriously? Do you know what kind of commitment it takes to be a father? Why r u even considering him as a father when he can't even give u a basic human basic needs ( sex) he's got loads of issues . You r letttig Hun string u along . Sounds like u have anxious preoccupied attachment style and he has dismissive avoidant attach style . Please do urself a favour and look it up. Me n my Aqua have the similar thing but I have learnt to be more on a secure style now... but ur man is extremely avoidant .... it will never work he's bloody 50! Plz plz plz focus on u n ur baby n the right man will come along n offer that father figure but u do not need a man for that anyway...
If he can't be **
Posted by AliensusedourbogrollMm I don't think so I think he has a wife on the side
I think he's gay.
Posted by saweetz1988but why you spit it all on me LOLPosted by AerialViewPosted by saweetz1988😆Posted by fem_femmeNo just no...
Do you guys think he wants to 'contribute' to my pregnancy as he said he wants to do the deed...that confused me as I didn't expect it but then he is 50, is obsessed with kids but doesn't want any commitment with anyone from what it seems, so it got me thinking if he meant it or what?
IF he can do be commited to just having sex with you.... do you honest think he's committed to being a father? Like, seriously? Do you know what kind of commitment it takes to be a father? Why r u even considering him as a father when he can't even give u a basic human basic needs ( sex) he's got loads of issues . You r letttig Hun string u along . Sounds like u have anxious preoccupied attachment style and he has dismissive avoidant attach style . Please do urself a favour and look it up. Me n my Aqua have the similar thing but I have learnt to be more on a secure style now... but ur man is extremely avoidant .... it will never work he's bloody 50! Plz plz plz focus on u n ur baby n the right man will come along n offer that father figure but u do not need a man for that anyway...
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6th house in Gemini
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