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How Your Zodiac Sign Influences Meeting Your Future Partner
Your zodiac sign can reveal patterns about how and where you are most likely to meet your future partner, whether through fate, online, or face-to-face encounters. Astrology suggests that certain signs are drawn to specific environments and timing, helping you understand your relationship opportunities better.
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Posted by Foreverloveme
1st ex work. Current interest online.In general I've met guys at work, school, grocery store, advance auto parts lol, church...
ooooh that's awesome really.
you're lucky you have guys coming up to you easily. 😄 😄
at the auto shoppe too? haha. at least you know for sure you're gonna get your engine done.
church? very interesting!!
Posted by geegee
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I connected with the Aqua on line, Match.com. We had gone to the same high school and knew who each other was, but we didn't really know each other in high school. We were Facebook friends already, but connected on a dating site. Neither of us knew the other was looking.
Posted by truecap
I connected with the Aqua on line, Match.com. We had gone to the same high school and knew who each other was, but we didn't really know each other in high school. We were Facebook friends already, but connected on a dating site. Neither of us knew the other was looking.
talk about meeting with the "stars" and coinciding.....that's so romantic.
Posted by truecap
I connected with the Aqua on line, Match.com. We had gone to the same high school and knew who each other was, but we didn't really know each other in high school. We were Facebook friends already, but connected on a dating site. Neither of us knew the other was looking.
cool - I hope it's working for you both !
Posted by truecap
I connected with the Aqua on line, Match.com. We had gone to the same high school and knew who each other was, but we didn't really know each other in high school. We were Facebook friends already, but connected on a dating site. Neither of us knew the other was looking.cool - I hope it's working for you both !
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Well....we're getting married. 🙂
Posted by truecap
I connected with the Aqua on line, Match.com. We had gone to the same high school and knew who each other was, but we didn't really know each other in high school. We were Facebook friends already, but connected on a dating site. Neither of us knew the other was looking.talk about meeting with the "stars" and coinciding.....that's so romantic.
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My mom thinks it's romantic too.
I met him at a event. He seemed to "dislike me." We spent hours working together already, without the slightest bit of friendliness from the loud, boisterous popular guy. I thought he was cute, but he obviously thought I was crap.
Then, like lightening, he comes up to me to give me a required paper wristband, like the ones you get at carnivals.
He didn't just give it to me, he puts it on me, peeling the paper backing with his mouth. Then he touches my wrist. I don't even raise my eyes, I'm so shy. I felt this crackling heat coming from his body.
And as quickly as he came up to me, he bolted away, leaving me feeling like I was blindsided. Standing there, my wrist burning from his touch, and my body tingling from his energy, i was left confused. I thought he didn't like me, was all I thought.
Posted by truecap
I connected with the Aqua on line, Match.com. We had gone to the same high school and knew who each other was, but we didn't really know each other in high school. We were Facebook friends already, but connected on a dating site. Neither of us knew the other was looking.cool - I hope it's working for you both !
Well....we're getting married. 🙂
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congratulations!!!
Leave it to fate :p
We cannot say..maybe at my workplace? Library? Shopping mall? Just bump into each other on a road? my dad's office? supermarket? Medical shop? Hospital? Or maybe we already did bump into each other and are not aware of each other ..? :o
I wonder where I'll meet him if not in these places! 😄
I just realized the question was for future relationships. Sorry
Posted by pennystealing123
I just realized the question was for future relationships. Sorry
no it's cool.
I also said for PAST relationhips where did you meet?
Posted by truecap
I connected with the Aqua on line, Match.com. We had gone to the same high school and knew who each other was, but we didn't really know each other in high school. We were Facebook friends already, but connected on a dating site. Neither of us knew the other was looking.talk about meeting with the "stars" and coinciding.....that's so romantic.
My mom thinks it's romantic too.
But you're mentally and emotionally still married to the Gemini.
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Nope. That's over and passed. No hate, no love. It's to the point now of indifference.
Surprisingly, I'd actually like to be friends with his new girl friend. I like her a lot. But that would be weird.
Posted by pennystealing123
I met him at a event. He seemed to "dislike me." We spent hours working together already, without the slightest bit of friendliness from the loud, boisterous popular guy. I thought he was cute, but he obviously thought I was crap.Then, like lightening, he comes up to me to give me a required paper wristband, like the ones you get at carnivals.
He didn't just give it to me, he puts it on me, peeling the paper backing with his mouth. Then he touches my wrist. I don't even raise my eyes, I'm so shy. I felt this crackling heat coming from his body.
And as quickly as he came up to me, he bolted away, leaving me feeling like I was blindsided. Standing there, my wrist burning from his touch, and my body tingling from his energy, i was left confused. I thought he didn't like me, was all I thought.
wow silent stranger ....kind of romantic btw. it's almost Gemini-ish with the "hands" ....and Taurus with the "touch"
and electricity with Uranus /aqua.
I thought it was more Scorpio with the magnetic heat and the "hate you" approach. I have a packed 8th house.
Def Taurus moon me. And he's an Aqua stellium.
Posted by truecap
I connected with the Aqua on line, Match.com. We had gone to the same high school and knew who each other was, but we didn't really know each other in high school. We were Facebook friends already, but connected on a dating site. Neither of us knew the other was looking.talk about meeting with the "stars" and coinciding.....that's so romantic.
My mom thinks it's romantic too.
But you're mentally and emotionally still married to the Gemini.
Nope. That's over and passed. No hate, no love. It's to the point now of indifference.
Surprisingly, I'd actually like to be friends with his new girl friend. I like her a lot. But that would be weird.click to expand
yeah you went through a phase of puking out hatred and disgust over him but that's normal.
you needed to vent it out.
how else are you supposed to understand why he did what he did?
or just share with others your horrible experience.
kind of like therapy to be honest.
Posted by pennystealing123
I thought it was more Scorpio with the magnetic heat and the "hate you" approach. I have a packed 8th house.Def Taurus moon me. And he's an Aqua stellium.
I always equate scorpio to intensity and passion.
edit - I was going to reveal something else, but naw.
Posted by pennystealing123
I thought it was more Scorpio with the magnetic heat and the "hate you" approach. I have a packed 8th house.Def Taurus moon me. And he's an Aqua stellium.
I always equate scorpio to intensity and passion.
edit - I was going to reveal something else, but naw.
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Pretty please?
I met or actually remet an Aqua guy at the Libertarian Town Hall viewing meet up. We worked together 10 years ago. Cool guy.
Posted by truecap
I connected with the Aqua on line, Match.com. We had gone to the same high school and knew who each other was, but we didn't really know each other in high school. We were Facebook friends already, but connected on a dating site. Neither of us knew the other was looking.talk about meeting with the "stars" and coinciding.....that's so romantic.
My mom thinks it's romantic too.
But you're mentally and emotionally still married to the Gemini.
Nope. That's over and passed. No hate, no love. It's to the point now of indifference.
Surprisingly, I'd actually like to be friends with his new girl friend. I like her a lot. But that would be weird.yeah you went through a phase of puking out hatred and disgust over him but that's normal.
you needed to vent it out.
how else are you supposed to understand why he did what he did?
or just share with others your horrible experience.
kind of like therapy to be honest.
She still spews hate! She just better at hiding it. Now she wants to be his new girlfriends friend? I can only see that ending badly for the Gemini.
Astrology doesn't leave room for anything to be "therapeutic " because once it's decided that a person is the way they are astrologically then whatever wall we hit with that person is because of who they are, nothing else. So there's nothing we can do about it because human beings are so fixed, according to astrology.
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I didn't say I was going to be friends with his girlfriend. If she weren't dating him, we'd probably be friends. That's really more what I meant.
And I don't spew hate on geminis. Good grief. You guys think if someone disagrees with you, they're spewing hate. And you guys can't seem to understand yes, there are negatives to your sign and every time someone points it out, you think they're hating. Sensitive, folks yall are over there. Us caps get criticized on our board and we embrace it. We know we have negative traits and admit it.
And to think....GeeGee, I gave you credit for helping me turn around my impression of gemini's.
Posted by truecap
I connected with the Aqua on line, Match.com. We had gone to the same high school and knew who each other was, but we didn't really know each other in high school. We were Facebook friends already, but connected on a dating site. Neither of us knew the other was looking.talk about meeting with the "stars" and coinciding.....that's so romantic.
My mom thinks it's romantic too.
But you're mentally and emotionally still married to the Gemini.
Nope. That's over and passed. No hate, no love. It's to the point now of indifference.
Surprisingly, I'd actually like to be friends with his new girl friend. I like her a lot. But that would be weird.yeah you went through a phase of puking out hatred and disgust over him but that's normal.
you needed to vent it out.
how else are you supposed to understand why he did what he did?
or just share with others your horrible experience.
kind of like therapy to be honest.
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Thanks Lisa.
....and this is why I love aquas!
Leaving it up to fate, for now. I had good experiences with online dating in the past so I'm not against doing that again one day, if needed. There aren't many single men where I live.
A number of men I've dated I met when I was being "a happy wanderer" as I call it. I was just walking around enjoying wherever I was, in my own mental world, when a man who was doing the same thing started to chat with me.
My two longest term relationships, to date, were with 1. a man I met through a friend (he was a coworker of hers), and 2. a man I met through volunteer work I was doing years ago.
Posted by truecap
I connected with the Aqua on line, Match.com. We had gone to the same high school and knew who each other was, but we didn't really know each other in high school. We were Facebook friends already, but connected on a dating site. Neither of us knew the other was looking.talk about meeting with the "stars" and coinciding.....that's so romantic.
My mom thinks it's romantic too.
But you're mentally and emotionally still married to the Gemini.
Nope. That's over and passed. No hate, no love. It's to the point now of indifference.
Surprisingly, I'd actually like to be friends with his new girl friend. I like her a lot. But that would be weird.yeah you went through a phase of puking out hatred and disgust over him but that's normal.
you needed to vent it out.
how else are you supposed to understand why he did what he did?
or just share with others your horrible experience.
kind of like therapy to be honest.
Thanks Lisa.
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lol
I see it everywhere though. every sign gets "sensitive" ....lol I think because largely this site has a lot of watery folks or at least strong water placements/houses.
Posted by CopperDove
Leaving it up to fate, for now. I had good experiences with online dating in the past so I'm not against doing that again one day, if needed. There aren't many single men where I live.A number of men I've dated I met when I was being "a happy wanderer" as I call it. I was just walking around enjoying wherever I was, in my own mental world, when a man who was doing the same thing started to chat with me.
My two longest term relationships, to date, were with 1. a man I met through a friend (he was a coworker of hers), and 2. a man I met through volunteer work I was doing years ago.
where do you live exactly?
it must suck to have a small % of men to want to marry.
Posted by CopperDove
Leaving it up to fate, for now. I had good experiences with online dating in the past so I'm not against doing that again one day, if needed. There aren't many single men where I live.A number of men I've dated I met when I was being "a happy wanderer" as I call it. I was just walking around enjoying wherever I was, in my own mental world, when a man who was doing the same thing started to chat with me.
My two longest term relationships, to date, were with 1. a man I met through a friend (he was a coworker of hers), and 2. a man I met through volunteer work I was doing years ago.
where do you live exactly?
it must suck to have a small % of men to want to marry.
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On one of the Gulf Islands in BC Canada.
It kind of sucks, it's true, but there are men on neighbouring islands. It doesn't take a long time to go between islands via ferry - 45 minutes or less.
Posted by lisabethur8
or are you leaving it up to fate??also, where did you all meet your ex's? or last dates?
was it online? or was it somewhere you met face to face the first time?
Oh, good question!!!!!
I would LOVE to meet him at the Country and Western Club!!! I would like him to be 6'3" tall (keep dreaming Eva..hey! I'm Piscean!), drink Miller Lite, be a fantastic dancer, between 44-54 years old, NON smoker, DIVORCED, with less than two children, has a JOB, doesn't do drugs, good looking, and we will dance the night away all night that he has to go to his TRUCK to change his long, starched shirt!! (oh! and he wears a straw hat in the spring/summer, and during the fall/winter, he wears a felt hat)....DREAM BOAT!!!
Posted by lisabethur8
or are you leaving it up to fate??also, where did you all meet your ex's? or last dates?
was it online? or was it somewhere you met face to face the first time?
Oh, good question!!!!!
I would LOVE to meet him at the Country and Western Club!!! I would like him to be 6'3" tall (keep dreaming Eva..hey! I'm Piscean!), drink Miller Lite, be a fantastic dancer, between 44-54 years old, NON smoker, DIVORCED, with less than two children, has a JOB, doesn't do drugs, good looking, and we will dance the night away all night that he has to go to his TRUCK to change his long, starched shirt!! (oh! and he wears a straw hat in the spring/summer, and during the fall/winter, he wears a felt hat)....DREAM BOAT!!!
Keep dreaming, Eva...keep dreaming! 😄 🤗 cyber hug!
Love,
Eva
Posted by Foreverloveme
1st ex work. Current interest online.In general I've met guys at work, school, grocery store, advance auto parts lol, church...
Lucky girl!!! 🤗 cyber hug!
Love,
Eva
like the one I'm dating now, through mutual friend, at some party. it's also not creepy like meeting up on internet or anything and makes room for a good introduction thereby a strong first impression
Posted by Admiral
In a bookstore. We both reach out for the same book and our hands touch. Cliche movie like meeting but it gives us something to talk about(the book) and a little physical touching.
That's romantic!
Posted by CopperDove
Leaving it up to fate, for now. I had good experiences with online dating in the past so I'm not against doing that again one day, if needed. There aren't many single men where I live.A number of men I've dated I met when I was being "a happy wanderer" as I call it. I was just walking around enjoying wherever I was, in my own mental world, when a man who was doing the same thing started to chat with me.
My two longest term relationships, to date, were with 1. a man I met through a friend (he was a coworker of hers), and 2. a man I met through volunteer work I was doing years ago.
where do you live exactly?
it must suck to have a small % of men to want to marry.
On one of the Gulf Islands in BC Canada.
It kind of sucks, it's true, but there are men on neighbouring islands. It doesn't take a long time to go between islands via ferry - 45 minutes or less.
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oh wow. that is sparse....
but at least you'll meet some quality fishermen type of men there, or at least men who are into watery sports. Meaning, a lot of men who own yachts, or boats. At least that's what I notice when people live close to the water, beaches. or coastal areas, even islands.
Posted by Admiral
In a bookstore. We both reach out for the same book and our hands touch. Cliche movie like meeting but it gives us something to talk about(the book) and a little physical touching.
that's really cool! and very sexy to be very honest. lol 😛
I always get this impression of a cute couple together over a book, discussing over their favourite scenes, and eyes locked and electricity and static and skin. 😄
Posted by lisabethur8
or are you leaving it up to fate??also, where did you all meet your ex's? or last dates?
was it online? or was it somewhere you met face to face the first time?
Oh, good question!!!!!
I would LOVE to meet him at the Country and Western Club!!! I would like him to be 6'3" tall (keep dreaming Eva..hey! I'm Piscean!), drink Miller Lite, be a fantastic dancer, between 44-54 years old, NON smoker, DIVORCED, with less than two children, has a JOB, doesn't do drugs, good looking, and we will dance the night away all night that he has to go to his TRUCK to change his long, starched shirt!! (oh! and he wears a straw hat in the spring/summer, and during the fall/winter, he wears a felt hat)....DREAM BOAT!!!
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sounds like an amazing guy!!! 😄
some handsome cowboy who can dance and has a great job, or at least a decent hard working kind of job where he can flex his muscles. lol
and his idea of a good time is spending time with his dreamboat lady under the stars, and under the moon. and you don't mind a divorcee. because a single man who has been single THAT LONG is kind of scary..... lol
Posted by Admiral
In a bookstore. We both reach out for the same book and our hands touch. Cliche movie like meeting but it gives us something to talk about(the book) and a little physical touching.that's really cool! and very sexy to be very honest. lol 😛
I always get this impression of a cute couple together over a book, discussing over their favourite scenes, and eyes locked and electricity and static and skin. 😄
Books were my original drug. I finished the 7th Harry Potter book when it came out in about 12 hours.
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eeeee!!!
😄 😄
a harry potter fan! she better be a harry potter fan too. haha.
Posted by truecap
I connected with the Aqua on line, Match.com. We had gone to the same high school and knew who each other was, but we didn't really know each other in high school. We were Facebook friends already, but connected on a dating site. Neither of us knew the other was looking.talk about meeting with the "stars" and coinciding.....that's so romantic.
My mom thinks it's romantic too.
But you're mentally and emotionally still married to the Gemini.
Nope. That's over and passed. No hate, no love. It's to the point now of indifference.
Surprisingly, I'd actually like to be friends with his new girl friend. I like her a lot. But that would be weird.yeah you went through a phase of puking out hatred and disgust over him but that's normal.
you needed to vent it out.
how else are you supposed to understand why he did what he did?
or just share with others your horrible experience.
kind of like therapy to be honest.
She still spews hate! She just better at hiding it. Now she wants to be his new girlfriends friend? I can only see that ending badly for the Gemini.
Astrology doesn't leave room for anything to be "therapeutic " because once it's decided that a person is the way they are astrologically then whatever wall we hit with that person is because of who they are, nothing else. So there's nothing we can do about it because human beings are so fixed, according to astrology.
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aren't we to learn to compromise and accept each other's flaws and/or learn to just be who we are and that's ok ? I think I said that right ....
Posted by CopperDove
Leaving it up to fate, for now. I had good experiences with online dating in the past so I'm not against doing that again one day, if needed. There aren't many single men where I live.A number of men I've dated I met when I was being "a happy wanderer" as I call it. I was just walking around enjoying wherever I was, in my own mental world, when a man who was doing the same thing started to chat with me.
My two longest term relationships, to date, were with 1. a man I met through a friend (he was a coworker of hers), and 2. a man I met through volunteer work I was doing years ago.
where do you live exactly?
it must suck to have a small % of men to want to marry.
On one of the Gulf Islands in BC Canada.
It kind of sucks, it's true, but there are men on neighbouring islands. It doesn't take a long time to go between islands via ferry - 45 minutes or less.
oh wow. that is sparse....
but at least you'll meet some quality fishermen type of men there, or at least men who are into watery sports. Meaning, a lot of men who own yachts, or boats. At least that's what I notice when people live close to the water, beaches. or coastal areas, even islands.
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Yes, true there are many men with boats in this part of the world, and men who are quite fit and into the outdoors with practical skills to do well in remote areas. 🙂
I've met all my guys with the exception of the first one, online in some way/shape/form. A lot of the times I'm not looking for something that "stands the test of time." I have to figure out first if it's going to "Stand beyond the first 2 months".
In a perfect world, yes
then it's hopeless for me because that is what I think is right and what I want ... but will never find ...
where would you like to meet your future man/woman?
on land, not air or sea, preferably in a park or if personal place, still outside, on the lawn .... with at least one animal as his companion, preferably multiple animals. and this animal would be who he loves most
or are you leaving it up to fate??
everything has been fated, even when you believe it was your choice, your subconscious simply sent messages to your conscious psyche and gave you cravings or desires so that your fate will be fulfilled
also, where did you all meet your ex's? or last dates?
I don't have an ex, I have a husband of going on 34 years. My brother had a baby with a woman, and I was at their apartment, my brother's apartment. The mother of my nephew had a brother, and he was also at the apartment coming to see his new nephew. That man, my brothers baby momma's brother, is my husband. Ironically, in a few years later, the mommy, my husband's sister, left my brother and her son .. which my husband and I took custody of and raised until .. well, he's in his 30's and still our child. So, even though he isn't our biological child, he has both of our family's dna strands.
was it online?
That was in 1982 .... online didn't exist. If it did, we certainly wouldn't have been able to use it on our Commodore 64's
or was it somewhere you met face to face the first time?
We knew very quickly that we liked each other. Later in the evening, we were both sitting on the floor watching Saturday night live and we laughed our asses off at a skit that was really raunchy, in which neither my brother, nor his sister got, it was so subtle. That was like our instant connection, we realized that we are hard to get, and both of us get each other.
We got together immediately, slept together within an hour of that connection ... and are still married. So, it is still face to face relating
Oh, but, I don't think I have any Aqua in my chart, so I guess I don't count here.
wait, I think Chiron is in Aquarius
My brother had a baby with a woman, and I was at their apartment, my brother's apartment. The mother of my nephew had a brother, and he was also at the apartment coming to see his new nephew. That man, my brothers baby momma's brother, is my husband.
That may have been hard to follow. It's not incest, we aren't relatives except as in-laws ... so basically, we were husband and wife, AND brother/sister in laws at the same time.
I'm judging a particular someone above this post sooo hard right now that my iPhone screen could literally crack.
My brother had a baby with a woman, and I was at their apartment, my brother's apartment. The mother of my nephew had a brother, and he was also at the apartment coming to see his new nephew. That man, my brothers baby momma's brother, is my husband.
That may have been hard to follow. It's not incest, we aren't relatives except as in-laws ... so basically, we were husband and wife, AND brother/sister in laws at the same time.
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I thought it was a pretty cool story.
I'm kinda jelly.
Posted by Gennie
I've met all my guys with the exception of the first one, online in some way/shape/form. A lot of the times I'm not looking for something that "stands the test of time." I have to figure out first if it's going to "Stand beyond the first 2 months".
you so very virgo, maybe it's your virgo rising. :p
very pretty and librarian look in my opinion.
a weak man would not be able to last with you. so strong men only apply. lol
where would you like to meet your future man/woman?
on land, not air or sea, preferably in a park or if personal place, still outside, on the lawn .... with at least one animal as his companion, preferably multiple animals. and this animal would be who he loves most
or are you leaving it up to fate??
everything has been fated, even when you believe it was your choice, your subconscious simply sent messages to your conscious psyche and gave you cravings or desires so that your fate will be fulfilled
also, where did you all meet your ex's? or last dates?
I don't have an ex, I have a husband of going on 34 years. My brother had a baby with a woman, and I was at their apartment, my brother's apartment. The mother of my nephew had a brother, and he was also at the apartment coming to see his new nephew. That man, my brothers baby momma's brother, is my husband. Ironically, in a few years later, the mommy, my husband's sister, left my brother and her son .. which my husband and I took custody of and raised until .. well, he's in his 30's and still our child. So, even though he isn't our biological child, he has both of our family's dna strands.
was it online?
That was in 1982 .... online didn't exist. If it did, we certainly wouldn't have been able to use it on our Commodore 64's
or was it somewhere you met face to face the first time?
We knew very quickly that we liked each other. Later in the evening, we were both sitting on the floor watching Saturday night live and we laughed our asses off at a skit that was really raunchy, in which neither my brother, nor his sister got, it was so subtle. That was like our instant connection, we realized that we are hard to get, and both of us get each other.
We got together immediately, slept together within an hour of that connection ... and are still married. So, it is still face to face relating
enjoyed the story! it's actually romantic and a perfect setting. meeting under that circumstance.
Posted by Gennie
I've met all my guys with the exception of the first one, online in some way/shape/form. A lot of the times I'm not looking for something that "stands the test of time." I have to figure out first if it's going to "Stand beyond the first 2 months".you so very virgo, maybe it's your virgo rising. :p
very pretty and librarian look in my opinion.
a weak man would not be able to last with you. so strong men only apply. lol
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I feel like this woman when cornered by a heavy water person.
Posted by Gennie
I've met all my guys with the exception of the first one, online in some way/shape/form. A lot of the times I'm not looking for something that "stands the test of time." I have to figure out first if it's going to "Stand beyond the first 2 months".you so very virgo, maybe it's your virgo rising. :p
very pretty and librarian look in my opinion.
a weak man would not be able to last with you. so strong men only apply. lol
I feel like this woman when cornered by a heavy water person.
ha ha. lol my husband doesn't have to bind me like that, but I happily love to be the one to snuggle up to him. great photo lol
I'll answer for the Aquas I've been interested in/dated.
1) Aqua/Scorp moon/Aries Venus/Cancer Mars. we became friends online. it was when MySpace was popular. the area of my state is quite interconnected. people meet from various towns etc. not sure how we began talking, but we became good friends. eventually tried dating, but he lived a little far. we thought it was best to be friends. I'm still his friend to this day.
2) Aqua/Sag moon/Pisces Venus/Gemini Mars. we had the same group of friends. I liked his personality. of course, obviously we were all friends. him and I teased each other a lot. we were very playful. play wrestle (he'd let me win- I'm feeble- haha). in my head I was like "I think I like him, but I doubt he likes me". so we were both at bay. people would say, "hey he likes you" and I'd be like "no he doesn't. we're just friends." 😆 denial at its finest. nothing became of it. we did end up kissing once when we all went to our friends cottage, but that was the extent of it. we're also still friends.
3) Aqua/Cap moon/Aries Venus/Sag Mars/Cap ascendant. we met through work. I remember I blacked out my first day. classic. I'm so sexy, seriously. is that the magnetic appeal that I have as a Scorpio? 😆 (low iron). and he was on one end of our department and looked at me. he slowly moved (trying to make it not obvious he was approaching me) toward me and nonchalantly asked if I was okay but without making eye contact. later he'd kind of avoid me but occasionally talk to me if forced to. he'd watch me though. I felt weird. I'd talk to him anyways, because I thought he seemed nice and I wanted to be his friend. he'd give short answers and no eye contact. I'd ask him for help on stuff and he'd help me, but he wouldn't help others (he was a bit of a jerk sometimes). eventually we went out with a group of coworkers and he called me babe and kissed me and asked when I was going to be his girl. LOL. he had commitment issues though so it never worked out. we had a casual relationship for a little over a year.
im gonna do a separate comment for my current Aqua guy.
I like meeting people in person more than online. I like guys to approach me, because I'm shy and always have self-doubt like "what if he doesn't like me" "I can't act obvious or else he will reject me". eh. that type of deal. they don't have to be over the top, but I prefer if they approach me. even if it's just to ask me to go to the local bar with him and some friends.
4) Aqua/Cancer moon/Cap Venus&mars/Leo asc. work again. he was in another dept. it's a funny story. I noticed him immediately, like "ooo who's that", so me being the sly dog that I am, waited til he walked away to go approach the sup of that dept. I go "so who are all the new guys here?" (there were 3). he told me. so I go "oh well who are the two here today?" one was nearby so he introduced me to him and told me the Aqua guys name and how he went to warehouse.
mission accomplished. this was 2 MONTHS before he asked me out. I was shy so I never spoke to him. hed say hi to me though and use this strange tone that I picked up on. I remember thinking "why is he talking like that? does he normally talk like that? weird".
one day he asked to take the trash back for me, and I was like "are you sure?" he did. I left. LOL. I didn't realize I was supposed to go with him...I was mentally having this convo in my head:
"do I go with him?"
"wow I'm such a bitch. I just made him take out my trash"
"was I supposed to go with him?"
"what do I do?"
"shit. well I can't go with him now. if I go with him now I'll just look like a weirdo chasing him down".
on that note, I left. lol.
so a week later he did the same thing, and I was ready to book it out of there. I assumed he was just being a nice guy at that point so I didn't think twice. then he goes "why don't you come with me this time?" and I'm like "okay, sure"
so we go back there and chat a bit. what a lovely walk to the compactor 😆
on the way back he goes "why don't we go out for drinks sometime?"
my mouth nearly dropped open. I was really shocked. I honestly just thought he was being a nice guy randomly you know? totally clueless. that's me a nutshell.
so I'm like "oh um sure". he asked about that night and I told him I was supposed to go to Chicago, but they never got back to me so I ended up going to a bar with him.
however when he handed me his phone he had already put my name as the contact, & by this point I'm so flustered that I forgot his name. so I said something that caused him to say "you don't know my name?" and I was like "sure I do...its ___" and I pointed at his name tag. LOL. my previous creeping two months prior did me absolutely no justice. he was like "wow I've known yours since I started. I noticed you right away, but I never had the chance to talk to you because you never left your department. so I'd try to send you hints by fluctuating my voice..you know if you use certain tones & voice inflections it sends flirtatious signals". not even joking. he said that. I laughed & was like "oh so that's what you were doing". hilarious. what a guy. he cracks me up.
I thought FOR SURE he was a Leo. but that night when he picked me up he made this comment: "yeah I just turned 24 a couple months ago." *pause* "what sucks about my birthday is if I'm in a relationship it's not really a birthday". bam. I knew exactly when his bday was (2/14) mentally I go "wow it never fails. Aqua magnet."
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or are you leaving it up to fate??
also, where did you all meet your ex's? or last dates?
was it online? or was it somewhere you met face to face the first time?