saggieheart
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I need words followed by action.
I canât relate to this.
My Aries have no problem whatsoever telling me he loves me. In response to me or just by himself out of blue...
Itâs the easiest rships in terms of...rships yet!
He wonât let me dominate and Iâve learned quickly to not to...however I can slide my opinion into his decision making and he is accepting it.
With an Aqua moon and Venus and merc in Pisces...idk what is going on but it is just always âI love youâ or âI love you tooâ...
He said it first after about 6 months and I was like đ...
Is he an unconventional Aries? đ¤ˇââď¸đ
My Aries have no problem whatsoever telling me he loves me. In response to me or just by himself out of blue...
Itâs the easiest rships in terms of...rships yet!
He wonât let me dominate and Iâve learned quickly to not to...however I can slide my opinion into his decision making and he is accepting it.
With an Aqua moon and Venus and merc in Pisces...idk what is going on but it is just always âI love youâ or âI love you tooâ...
He said it first after about 6 months and I was like đ...
Is he an unconventional Aries? đ¤ˇââď¸đ
Only give him what he gives you.
Stop telling him nice things.
Make him work 4 it
Stop telling him nice things.
Make him work 4 it
In fact, just block him and be done
Make him work
Make him work
When you say issues with jealousy is that on your part or his? Just wandering as it may help me to get a better understanding of what a going on in his head.
Both I guess. I learned to be more attentive to him reading that Aries like to feel attention whereas im a saggie and we don't really feel that need, so we can seem cold and unconcerned, but I love this man to the bones and I made the effort. We are off at the moment and I'm struggling to get back in.
We both use social media and things were going so well, and I speak to many people across there and he can see, but I always keep it just friendly. One evening he was a bit off, so I questioned it and we fell out, him stating that I'm a smart woman, not like any other and I should know when he needs space or questionsâ I text him the next day, apologised for my side of the argument but nothing.
About a week later I posted a picture, I was out having drinks, he immediately started unfollowing everyone on his social media including me, then followed approx 100 women then unfollowed. I text him saying if you are looking for a reaction you now have it. I called him a p***k and told him that his behaviour will never win him any friends. No response.
Fast forward to New Year and I wished him well and I apologised for what I called him, I hate hurting anyone with my saggie fire unless they are despicable people and he is not.
Anyway we are talking again now, slowly, I know he respects me, he always tells me that, but I don't know where I stand with him, a friend, a lover, does he care for me.
I thought I would lay it out on the table for him, so that he had no uncertainty, but he will not do the same? đ
We both use social media and things were going so well, and I speak to many people across there and he can see, but I always keep it just friendly. One evening he was a bit off, so I questioned it and we fell out, him stating that I'm a smart woman, not like any other and I should know when he needs space or questionsâ I text him the next day, apologised for my side of the argument but nothing.
About a week later I posted a picture, I was out having drinks, he immediately started unfollowing everyone on his social media including me, then followed approx 100 women then unfollowed. I text him saying if you are looking for a reaction you now have it. I called him a p***k and told him that his behaviour will never win him any friends. No response.
Fast forward to New Year and I wished him well and I apologised for what I called him, I hate hurting anyone with my saggie fire unless they are despicable people and he is not.
Anyway we are talking again now, slowly, I know he respects me, he always tells me that, but I don't know where I stand with him, a friend, a lover, does he care for me.
I thought I would lay it out on the table for him, so that he had no uncertainty, but he will not do the same? đ
I've only had two relationships with Aries, the first one I was young and he told me he loved me, he had a girlfriend and I had a boyfriend and he hinted at us being together, I was young and it meant moving away from family so I backed away. An action that I would not repeat now I am older and more sure.
This second one has so many of the same characteristics, when we are together it's good, he says I relax him, he wishes he had known me 15 years ago etc, but when we are apart, I don't know?
This second one has so many of the same characteristics, when we are together it's good, he says I relax him, he wishes he had known me 15 years ago etc, but when we are apart, I don't know?
Posted by saggieheart
Both I guess. I learned to be more attentive to him reading that Aries like to feel attention whereas im a saggie and we don't really feel that need, so we can seem cold and unconcerned, but I love this man to the bones and I made the effort. We are off at the moment and I'm struggling to get back in.
We both use social media and things were going so well, and I speak to many people across there and he can see, but I always keep it just friendly. One evening he was a bit off, so I questioned it and we fell out, him stating that I'm a smart woman, not like any other and I should know when he needs space or questionsâ I text him the next day, apologised for my side of the argument but nothing.
About a week later I posted a picture, I was out having drinks, he immediately started unfollowing everyone on his social media including me, then followed approx 100 women then unfollowed. I text him saying if you are looking for a reaction you now have it. I called him a p***k and told him that his behaviour will never win him any friends. No response.
Fast forward to New Year and I wished him well and I apologised for what I called him, I hate hurting anyone with my saggie fire unless they are despicable people and he is not.
Anyway we are talking again now, slowly, I know he respects me, he always tells me that, but I don't know where I stand with him, a friend, a lover, does he care for me.
I thought I would lay it out on the table for him, so that he had no uncertainty, but he will not do the same? đ
I really mean this in a nice way but all this back and forth sounds a little immature. To get back in his good books just make him laugh. Nothing too heavy. Try not to win him over with anything over than talking heavy as such. Sounds a little bit like he's confused about how he feels. You know what aries are like, when they like someone they are very consistent. X
Posted by SunmoonrisingPosted by saggieheart
Both I guess. I learned to be more attentive to him reading that Aries like to feel attention whereas im a saggie and we don't really feel that need, so we can seem cold and unconcerned, but I love this man to the bones and I made the effort. We are off at the moment and I'm struggling to get back in.
We both use social media and things were going so well, and I speak to many people across there and he can see, but I always keep it just friendly. One evening he was a bit off, so I questioned it and we fell out, him stating that I'm a smart woman, not like any other and I should know when he needs space or questionsâ I text him the next day, apologised for my side of the argument but nothing.
About a week later I posted a picture, I was out having drinks, he immediately started unfollowing everyone on his social media including me, then followed approx 100 women then unfollowed. I text him saying if you are looking for a reaction you now have it. I called him a p***k and told him that his behaviour will never win him any friends. No response.
Fast forward to New Year and I wished him well and I apologised for what I called him, I hate hurting anyone with my saggie fire unless they are despicable people and he is not.
Anyway we are talking again now, slowly, I know he respects me, he always tells me that, but I don't know where I stand with him, a friend, a lover, does he care for me.
I thought I would lay it out on the table for him, so that he had no uncertainty, but he will not do the same? đ
I really mean this in a nice way but all this back and forth sounds a little immature. To get back in his good books just make him laugh. Nothing too heavy. Try not to win him over with anything over than talking heavy as such. Sounds a little bit like he's confused about how he feels. You know what aries are like, when they like someone they are very consistent. Xclick to expand
Yeah I've tried that tactic, and it works, then he backs off. It's frustrating when you want everything to happen yesterday!!
What's his venus?
Posted by saggieheartPosted by SunmoonrisingPosted by saggieheart
Both I guess. I learned to be more attentive to him reading that Aries like to feel attention whereas im a saggie and we don't really feel that need, so we can seem cold and unconcerned, but I love this man to the bones and I made the effort. We are off at the moment and I'm struggling to get back in.
We both use social media and things were going so well, and I speak to many people across there and he can see, but I always keep it just friendly. One evening he was a bit off, so I questioned it and we fell out, him stating that I'm a smart woman, not like any other and I should know when he needs space or questionsâ I text him the next day, apologised for my side of the argument but nothing.
About a week later I posted a picture, I was out having drinks, he immediately started unfollowing everyone on his social media including me, then followed approx 100 women then unfollowed. I text him saying if you are looking for a reaction you now have it. I called him a p***k and told him that his behaviour will never win him any friends. No response.
Fast forward to New Year and I wished him well and I apologised for what I called him, I hate hurting anyone with my saggie fire unless they are despicable people and he is not.
Anyway we are talking again now, slowly, I know he respects me, he always tells me that, but I don't know where I stand with him, a friend, a lover, does he care for me.
I thought I would lay it out on the table for him, so that he had no uncertainty, but he will not do the same? đ
I really mean this in a nice way but all this back and forth sounds a little immature. To get back in his good books just make him laugh. Nothing too heavy. Try not to win him over with anything over than talking heavy as such. Sounds a little bit like he's confused about how he feels. You know what aries are like, when they like someone they are very consistent. X
Yeah I've tried that tactic, and it works, then he backs off. It's frustrating when you want everything to happen yesterday!!click to expand
Does he have anyone else? I'm just wandering if it's worth asking him outright so you know where you stand more.
I know aries men are amazing and it's hard to let them go but talking and asking him could work. Maybe just be direct and tell him you want him lol
Posted by saggieheartPosted by DMV
What's his venus?
Sun Aries
Moon libra
Venus Taurus
I'm
Sun sag
Moon cap
Venus capclick to expand
Venus Taurus is very slow generally.
I'm a cap moon too and sag rising so I totally understand your need for it yesterday lol xx
Posted by SunmoonrisingPosted by saggieheartPosted by SunmoonrisingPosted by saggieheart
Both I guess. I learned to be more attentive to him reading that Aries like to feel attention whereas im a saggie and we don't really feel that need, so we can seem cold and unconcerned, but I love this man to the bones and I made the effort. We are off at the moment and I'm struggling to get back in.
We both use social media and things were going so well, and I speak to many people across there and he can see, but I always keep it just friendly. One evening he was a bit off, so I questioned it and we fell out, him stating that I'm a smart woman, not like any other and I should know when he needs space or questionsâ I text him the next day, apologised for my side of the argument but nothing.
About a week later I posted a picture, I was out having drinks, he immediately started unfollowing everyone on his social media including me, then followed approx 100 women then unfollowed. I text him saying if you are looking for a reaction you now have it. I called him a p***k and told him that his behaviour will never win him any friends. No response.
Fast forward to New Year and I wished him well and I apologised for what I called him, I hate hurting anyone with my saggie fire unless they are despicable people and he is not.
Anyway we are talking again now, slowly, I know he respects me, he always tells me that, but I don't know where I stand with him, a friend, a lover, does he care for me.
I thought I would lay it out on the table for him, so that he had no uncertainty, but he will not do the same? đ
I really mean this in a nice way but all this back and forth sounds a little immature. To get back in his good books just make him laugh. Nothing too heavy. Try not to win him over with anything over than talking heavy as such. Sounds a little bit like he's confused about how he feels. You know what aries are like, when they like someone they are very consistent. X
Yeah I've tried that tactic, and it works, then he backs off. It's frustrating when you want everything to happen yesterday!!
Does he have anyone else? I'm just wandering if it's worth asking him outright so you know where you stand more.
I know aries men are amazing and it's hard to let them go but talking and asking him could work. Maybe just be direct and tell him you want him lolclick to expand
I asked him about an hour ago by text if he wanted to be together again, no response.
So I text saying it's your choice and your right not to want it, I then said I love you, good evening.
It's up to him now. I move on if not
Posted by SunmoonrisingPosted by saggieheartPosted by DMV
What's his venus?
Sun Aries
Moon libra
Venus Taurus
I'm
Sun sag
Moon cap
Venus cap
Venus Taurus is very slow generally.
I'm a cap moon too and sag rising so I totally understand your need for it yesterday lol
Yeah I need to know.click to expand
Posted by saggieheartPosted by SunmoonrisingPosted by saggieheartPosted by SunmoonrisingPosted by saggieheart
Both I guess. I learned to be more attentive to him reading that Aries like to feel attention whereas im a saggie and we don't really feel that need, so we can seem cold and unconcerned, but I love this man to the bones and I made the effort. We are off at the moment and I'm struggling to get back in.
We both use social media and things were going so well, and I speak to many people across there and he can see, but I always keep it just friendly. One evening he was a bit off, so I questioned it and we fell out, him stating that I'm a smart woman, not like any other and I should know when he needs space or questionsâ I text him the next day, apologised for my side of the argument but nothing.
About a week later I posted a picture, I was out having drinks, he immediately started unfollowing everyone on his social media including me, then followed approx 100 women then unfollowed. I text him saying if you are looking for a reaction you now have it. I called him a p***k and told him that his behaviour will never win him any friends. No response.
Fast forward to New Year and I wished him well and I apologised for what I called him, I hate hurting anyone with my saggie fire unless they are despicable people and he is not.
Anyway we are talking again now, slowly, I know he respects me, he always tells me that, but I don't know where I stand with him, a friend, a lover, does he care for me.
I thought I would lay it out on the table for him, so that he had no uncertainty, but he will not do the same? đ
I really mean this in a nice way but all this back and forth sounds a little immature. To get back in his good books just make him laugh. Nothing too heavy. Try not to win him over with anything over than talking heavy as such. Sounds a little bit like he's confused about how he feels. You know what aries are like, when they like someone they are very consistent. X
Yeah I've tried that tactic, and it works, then he backs off. It's frustrating when you want everything to happen yesterday!!
Does he have anyone else? I'm just wandering if it's worth asking him outright so you know where you stand more.
I know aries men are amazing and it's hard to let them go but talking and asking him could work. Maybe just be direct and tell him you want him lol
I asked him about an hour ago by text if he wanted to be together again, no response.
So I text saying it's your choice and your right not to want it, I then said I love you, good evening.
It's up to him now. I move on if notclick to expand
That's a sweet message. You can't do anymore. I think if you leave it abit now I think he will come back. Let him digest it abit x
Posted by saggieheartPosted by DMV
What's his venus?
Sun Aries
Moon libra
Venus Taurus
I'm
Sun sag
Moon cap
Venus capclick to expand
I knew it.
I've had 3 venus in Taurus try to creep their way back in my life. 2 are Aries. These guys. One is blocked and he big mad.
They will not discuss their feelings readily and definitely not when YOU want them.
They're fixed and slow.
Their way or the highway. Which frustrates a venus in cap (i have same placement.)
All you wanna do is have progress and hes digging in his heels. Gets boring.
Stop with the flowery language. They dont respond to that. They want and need the control to do the initiating.
Maybe they feel cheated or they dont. Who cares.
As a venus in cap, this is not good and doesnt fulfill us. We yearn to get things started.
I myself grew bored and looking for love elsewhere. Better love. Yes, there is better.
Try not giving him anything. Pull back and let him show his cards when hes ready. You keep living your life and maybe you'll still be single when hes ready.
Find out the Chinese astrology signs.
They will not discuss their feelings readily and definitely not when YOU want them.
They're fixed and slow.
Their way or the highway. Which frustrates a venus in cap (i have same placement.)
All you wanna do is have progress and hes digging in his heels. Gets boring.
Stop with the flowery language. They dont respond to that. They want and need the control to do the initiating.
Maybe they feel cheated or they dont. Who cares.
As a venus in cap, this is not good and doesnt fulfill us. We yearn to get things started.
I myself grew bored and looking for love elsewhere. Better love. Yes, there is better.
Try not giving him anything. Pull back and let him show his cards when hes ready. You keep living your life and maybe you'll still be single when hes ready.
Find out the Chinese astrology signs.
Telling someone you love them makes you appear weak, open to attack. But itâs not just that, what is the point? Seriously, he said it, and I think it too, what is the point? Words are so cheap. Be happy in the moment.
And why do you apologise? Never ever apologise to your Aries man, itâs the manâs fault, always, as a woman, you have that right. So what if he doesnât understand why, itâs his fault, and never apologise, you win him over by showing him you can beat him at his game, like a battle.
But that said, I think you are reading too much into it, relationships arenât nice if you are overthinking and worrying, it stops you being yourself. Trust in the process. Sagi is an awesome match for Aries. Now message him and tell him to fuck off!
And why do you apologise? Never ever apologise to your Aries man, itâs the manâs fault, always, as a woman, you have that right. So what if he doesnât understand why, itâs his fault, and never apologise, you win him over by showing him you can beat him at his game, like a battle.
But that said, I think you are reading too much into it, relationships arenât nice if you are overthinking and worrying, it stops you being yourself. Trust in the process. Sagi is an awesome match for Aries. Now message him and tell him to fuck off!
Posted by DMV
I've had 3 venus in Taurus try to creep their way back in my life. 2 are Aries. These guys. One is blocked and he big mad.
They will not discuss their feelings readily and definitely not when YOU want them.
They're fixed and slow.
Their way or the highway. Which frustrates a venus in cap (i have same placement.)
All you wanna do is have progress and hes digging in his heels. Gets boring.
Stop with the flowery language. They dont respond to that. They want and need the control to do the initiating.
Maybe they feel cheated or they dont. Who cares.
As a venus in cap, this is not good and doesnt fulfill us. We yearn to get things started.
I myself grew bored and looking for love elsewhere. Better love. Yes, there is better.
Try not giving him anything. Pull back and let him show his cards when hes ready. You keep living your life and maybe you'll still be single when hes ready.
Find out the Chinese astrology signs.
Thank you!! Yes I've put my cards on the table now, I took his jealousy and moods for not knowing the extent of my feelings for him. He now knows, but if he chooses not to do anything now it's down to him. I will only wait for so long after today.
Maybe one day, when I'm single, like you say!
Thank you so much everyone xx
Posted by AriesJo
Telling someone you love them makes you appear weak, open to attack. But itâs not just that, what is the point? Seriously, he said it, and I think it too, what is the point? Words are so cheap. Be happy in the moment.
And why do you apologise? Never ever apologise to your Aries man, itâs the manâs fault, always, as a woman, you have that right. So what if he doesnât understand why, itâs his fault, and never apologise, you win him over by showing him you can beat him at his game, like a battle.
But that said, I think you are reading too much into it, relationships arenât nice if you are overthinking and worrying, it stops you being yourself. Trust in the process. Sagi is an awesome match for Aries. Now message him and tell him to fuck off!
Yeah ordinarily I agree, but it's been two years of cat and mouse, on and off and I just need to get it out there. I don't mind being weak if it progresses things along, I don't mind swallowing my pride when it's not reciprocated. I will love again, I would not be Saggie if I did not believe that xx
Posted by AriesJo
Telling someone you love them makes you appear weak, open to attack. But itâs not just that, what is the point? Seriously, he said it, and I think it too, what is the point? Words are so cheap. Be happy in the moment.
And why do you apologise? Never ever apologise to your Aries man, itâs the manâs fault, always, as a woman, you have that right. So what if he doesnât understand why, itâs his fault, and never apologise, you win him over by showing him you can beat him at his game, like a battle.
But that said, I think you are reading too much into it, relationships arenât nice if you are overthinking and worrying, it stops you being yourself. Trust in the process. Sagi is an awesome match for Aries. Now message him and tell him to fuck off!
I agree with the last line. 100%
I don't think there is anything weak about telling someone you love them if you do. I think game playing is wrong. I wish more people would just say how they feel.
Posted by Sunmoonrising
I don't think there is anything weak about telling someone you love them if you do. I think game playing is wrong. I wish more people would just say how they feel.
Yeah I'm with you on this. We only live a short while and if we can't be happy because we can't talk honestly, we die with lots of regret.
Posted by saggieheart
Both I guess. I learned to be more attentive to him reading that Aries like to feel attention whereas im a saggie and we don't really feel that need, so we can seem cold and unconcerned, but I love this man to the bones and I made the effort. We are off at the moment and I'm struggling to get back in.
We both use social media and things were going so well, and I speak to many people across there and he can see, but I always keep it just friendly. One evening he was a bit off, so I questioned it and we fell out, him stating that I'm a smart woman, not like any other and I should know when he needs space or questionsâ I text him the next day, apologised for my side of the argument but nothing.
About a week later I posted a picture, I was out having drinks, he immediately started unfollowing everyone on his social media including me, then followed approx 100 women then unfollowed. I text him saying if you are looking for a reaction you now have it. I called him a p***k and told him that his behaviour will never win him any friends. No response.
Fast forward to New Year and I wished him well and I apologised for what I called him, I hate hurting anyone with my saggie fire unless they are despicable people and he is not.
Anyway we are talking again now, slowly, I know he respects me, he always tells me that, but I don't know where I stand with him, a friend, a lover, does he care for me.
I thought I would lay it out on the table for him, so that he had no uncertainty, but he will not do the same? đ
I am sorry to say that about Aries but he sound like an idiot...
Posted by DMV
Only give him what he gives you.
Stop telling him nice things.
Make him work 4 it
This! â¤ď¸
Posted by LethalFantasia
He is too prideful!!
Yeah I guess, his pride makes him feel like he is winning, but he is losing.
Posted by LethalFantasiaPosted by saggieheartPosted by LethalFantasia
He is too prideful!!
Yeah I guess, his pride makes him feel like he is winning, but he is losing.
Poor Aries man
have you tried giving him/sending him a sucker?
There are all kinds of suckers available in all kinds of cool stores & online stores as well
you should try sending him one
My favorite is this one:
https://i.imgur.com/kfy3xNn.jpg<div class="bqfade">click to expand
LOL. He'd get jealous of that too! đ¤Łđ
Okay so we have little movement. I'm sending him humour, he responds but I can't pin him down to try to have a full conversation. I sent him a picture of me last night, the one I think I've managed to upload on here, his response today 'you are working too much. Now I know Aries are direct and say what they mean so I take that with a pinch of salt. I responded that his flattery was too much for my heart and sent a wink emoji. He has obviously been stalking my social media to see that I have taken a second job although I have not mentioned it to him. Good or bad? I did look at a good tarot reading recently that said I am getting drip drip communication from someone that cares for me but is not trusting. So tired of the drip drip
Posted by Erinelda
You are trying way too hard when lots of guys smarter guys would adore you. Or are you like me and only want the one who is a pain in the ass? lol.
I just hate giving up on something, someone. I am sort of tired of the whole social media side too and am thinking of cutting and running. He will have no contact with me then, it will be done do I need to be certain
Posted by Arielle83Posted by saggieheartPosted by SunmoonrisingPosted by saggieheartPosted by SunmoonrisingPosted by saggieheart
Both I guess. I learned to be more attentive to him reading that Aries like to feel attention whereas im a saggie and we don't really feel that need, so we can seem cold and unconcerned, but I love this man to the bones and I made the effort. We are off at the moment and I'm struggling to get back in.
We both use social media and things were going so well, and I speak to many people across there and he can see, but I always keep it just friendly. One evening he was a bit off, so I questioned it and we fell out, him stating that I'm a smart woman, not like any other and I should know when he needs space or questionsâ I text him the next day, apologised for my side of the argument but nothing.
About a week later I posted a picture, I was out having drinks, he immediately started unfollowing everyone on his social media including me, then followed approx 100 women then unfollowed. I text him saying if you are looking for a reaction you now have it. I called him a p***k and told him that his behaviour will never win him any friends. No response.
Fast forward to New Year and I wished him well and I apologised for what I called him, I hate hurting anyone with my saggie fire unless they are despicable people and he is not.
Anyway we are talking again now, slowly, I know he respects me, he always tells me that, but I don't know where I stand with him, a friend, a lover, does he care for me.
I thought I would lay it out on the table for him, so that he had no uncertainty, but he will not do the same? đ
I really mean this in a nice way but all this back and forth sounds a little immature. To get back in his good books just make him laugh. Nothing too heavy. Try not to win him over with anything over than talking heavy as such. Sounds a little bit like he's confused about how he feels. You know what aries are like, when they like someone they are very consistent. X
Yeah I've tried that tactic, and it works, then he backs off. It's frustrating when you want everything to happen yesterday!!
Does he have anyone else? I'm just wandering if it's worth asking him outright so you know where you stand more.
I know aries men are amazing and it's hard to let them go but talking and asking him could work. Maybe just be direct and tell him you want him lol
I asked him about an hour ago by text if he wanted to be together again, no response.
So I text saying it's your choice and your right not to want it, I then said I love you, good evening.
It's up to him now. I move on if not
Seems manipulative.
You ask him if he still wants to be with you, like he gets to speak for both of you.
Then you say âI love youâ, even though he asked âdoes it matter?â when u wanted to know how he felt.
Why do you leave yourself waiting and being attentive towards him, when he blocks and adds random women out of spite?
Either you donât think much of yourself, or you love the drama of walking on douchey eggshells.click to expand
I just put all his game playing down to his nature and need of attention / drama.
No I don't like drama myself, I walked on douche eggshells for years with my sulky ex husband
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Posted by saggieheartPosted by Arielle83Posted by saggieheartPosted by SunmoonrisingPosted by saggieheartPosted by SunmoonrisingPosted by saggieheart
Both I guess. I learned to be more attentive to him reading that Aries like to feel attention whereas im a saggie and we don't really feel that need, so we can seem cold and unconcerned, but I love this man to the bones and I made the effort. We are off at the moment and I'm struggling to get back in.
We both use social media and things were going so well, and I speak to many people across there and he can see, but I always keep it just friendly. One evening he was a bit off, so I questioned it and we fell out, him stating that I'm a smart woman, not like any other and I should know when he needs space or questionsâ I text him the next day, apologised for my side of the argument but nothing.
About a week later I posted a picture, I was out having drinks, he immediately started unfollowing everyone on his social media including me, then followed approx 100 women then unfollowed. I text him saying if you are looking for a reaction you now have it. I called him a p***k and told him that his behaviour will never win him any friends. No response.
Fast forward to New Year and I wished him well and I apologised for what I called him, I hate hurting anyone with my saggie fire unless they are despicable people and he is not.
Anyway we are talking again now, slowly, I know he respects me, he always tells me that, but I don't know where I stand with him, a friend, a lover, does he care for me.
I thought I would lay it out on the table for him, so that he had no uncertainty, but he will not do the same? đ
I really mean this in a nice way but all this back and forth sounds a little immature. To get back in his good books just make him laugh. Nothing too heavy. Try not to win him over with anything over than talking heavy as such. Sounds a little bit like he's confused about how he feels. You know what aries are like, when they like someone they are very consistent. X
Yeah I've tried that tactic, and it works, then he backs off. It's frustrating when you want everything to happen yesterday!!
Does he have anyone else? I'm just wandering if it's worth asking him outright so you know where you stand more.
I know aries men are amazing and it's hard to let them go but talking and asking him could work. Maybe just be direct and tell him you want him lol
I asked him about an hour ago by text if he wanted to be together again, no response.
So I text saying it's your choice and your right not to want it, I then said I love you, good evening.
It's up to him now. I move on if not
Seems manipulative.
You ask him if he still wants to be with you, like he gets to speak for both of you.
Then you say âI love youâ, even though he asked âdoes it matter?â when u wanted to know how he felt.
Why do you leave yourself waiting and being attentive towards him, when he blocks and adds random women out of spite?
Either you donât think much of yourself, or you love the drama of walking on douchey eggshells.
I just put all his game playing down to his nature and need of attention / drama.
No I don't like drama myself, I walked on douche eggshells for years with my sulky ex husbandclick to expand
Aries and drama...not so much.
Probably depends on. Moon and other placements. Just whoop his ass and see whatâs gonna happen. He is an ass anyway. So...what do you have to lose?
Posted by ErineldaPosted by saggieheartPosted by Erinelda
You are trying way too hard when lots of guys smarter guys would adore you. Or are you like me and only want the one who is a pain in the ass? lol.
I just hate giving up on something, someone. I am sort of tired of the whole social media side too and am thinking of cutting and running. He will have no contact with me then, it will be done do I need to be certain
Well if you need tips I am here, my super power is giving up on people lol.
I don't want you to feel hurt but I have had the very same Aries be not interested in me and very interested at different times. When they are interested they chase their asses off.. And when they are not.. well, it is you trying very hard and him liking you less and less..
The one I dated didn't like me and dumped me. He never he actually started liking me and chasing me until I was dating someone else and I was making fun of him to the Aries. In other words I was being myself and not trying to impress the Aries, also I wasn't available. He chased my ass so hard that I lost interest next lol.click to expand
I know what you're saying believe me I do.
When I ignore him he throws the tantrums, when I am attentive he is okay then throws the tantrums. , my boss has a daughter who is an aries and he always says if he was not related he'd chuck the towel in as she is soooo much hard work
Posted by GemitatiPosted by saggieheartPosted by Arielle83Posted by saggieheartPosted by SunmoonrisingPosted by saggieheartPosted by SunmoonrisingPosted by saggieheart
Both I guess. I learned to be more attentive to him reading that Aries like to feel attention whereas im a saggie and we don't really feel that need, so we can seem cold and unconcerned, but I love this man to the bones and I made the effort. We are off at the moment and I'm struggling to get back in.
We both use social media and things were going so well, and I speak to many people across there and he can see, but I always keep it just friendly. One evening he was a bit off, so I questioned it and we fell out, him stating that I'm a smart woman, not like any other and I should know when he needs space or questionsâ I text him the next day, apologised for my side of the argument but nothing.
About a week later I posted a picture, I was out having drinks, he immediately started unfollowing everyone on his social media including me, then followed approx 100 women then unfollowed. I text him saying if you are looking for a reaction you now have it. I called him a p***k and told him that his behaviour will never win him any friends. No response.
Fast forward to New Year and I wished him well and I apologised for what I called him, I hate hurting anyone with my saggie fire unless they are despicable people and he is not.
Anyway we are talking again now, slowly, I know he respects me, he always tells me that, but I don't know where I stand with him, a friend, a lover, does he care for me.
I thought I would lay it out on the table for him, so that he had no uncertainty, but he will not do the same? đ
I really mean this in a nice way but all this back and forth sounds a little immature. To get back in his good books just make him laugh. Nothing too heavy. Try not to win him over with anything over than talking heavy as such. Sounds a little bit like he's confused about how he feels. You know what aries are like, when they like someone they are very consistent. X
Yeah I've tried that tactic, and it works, then he backs off. It's frustrating when you want everything to happen yesterday!!
Does he have anyone else? I'm just wandering if it's worth asking him outright so you know where you stand more.
I know aries men are amazing and it's hard to let them go but talking and asking him could work. Maybe just be direct and tell him you want him lol
I asked him about an hour ago by text if he wanted to be together again, no response.
So I text saying it's your choice and your right not to want it, I then said I love you, good evening.
It's up to him now. I move on if not
Seems manipulative.
You ask him if he still wants to be with you, like he gets to speak for both of you.
Then you say âI love youâ, even though he asked âdoes it matter?â when u wanted to know how he felt.
Why do you leave yourself waiting and being attentive towards him, when he blocks and adds random women out of spite?
Either you donât think much of yourself, or you love the drama of walking on douchey eggshells.
I just put all his game playing down to his nature and need of attention / drama.
No I don't like drama myself, I walked on douche eggshells for years with my sulky ex husband
Aries and drama...not so much.
Probably depends on. Moon and other placements. Just whoop his ass and see whatâs gonna happen. He is an ass anyway. So...what do you have to lose?click to expand
I don't have his specific time of birth but he as well as being an arse is:-
Sun aries
Moon libra
Merc pisces
Ven taurus
Mars leo
Jup virgo
Sat virgo
Ura scorpio
Nept sagg
Pluto libra
Lilith virgo
Asc leo
I am
Sag
Cap
Sag
Cap
Pisces
Sag
Gemini
Libra
Sag
Libra
Libra
Aquarius
Posted by Arielle83
But he is showing you his feelings.
Just not the ones you want to see.
Anger
Frustration
Jealousy
Spite
Avoidance
Detachment
Entitlement
Sadly yes, he has some good ones but...
Posted by ErineldaPosted by saggieheartPosted by ErineldaPosted by saggieheartPosted by Erinelda
You are trying way too hard when lots of guys smarter guys would adore you. Or are you like me and only want the one who is a pain in the ass? lol.
I just hate giving up on something, someone. I am sort of tired of the whole social media side too and am thinking of cutting and running. He will have no contact with me then, it will be done do I need to be certain
Well if you need tips I am here, my super power is giving up on people lol.
I don't want you to feel hurt but I have had the very same Aries be not interested in me and very interested at different times. When they are interested they chase their asses off.. And when they are not.. well, it is you trying very hard and him liking you less and less..
The one I dated didn't like me and dumped me. He never he actually started liking me and chasing me until I was dating someone else and I was making fun of him to the Aries. In other words I was being myself and not trying to impress the Aries, also I wasn't available. He chased my ass so hard that I lost interest next lol.
I know what you're saying believe me I do.
When I ignore him he throws the tantrums, when I am attentive he is okay then throws the tantrums. , my boss has a daughter who is an aries and he always says if he was not related he'd chuck the towel in as she is soooo much hard work
If he is failing with a sweet intelligent fire sign lady that refuses to give up, I don't see him as worth much to any girl. You don't have to take one for the team.click to expand
Lol. Iove that! Yes it seems as though I am taking one for the team đ
Lol omg this is WAY too much effort!!! When an Aries loves you, it like Gemitati says.
Tell you he loves you after 6 months and tells you they love you everyday.. well I guess it was mostly when we said bye for day ( leaving for work) when we were married.
They are selfish! And show their love by doing. You have to know they do and not question it! đđ Iâm actually serious on this. We were together 20 years. When an Aries loves you, they will always have your back.
As a saggie/cap Venus, you need someone you donât question. If you question, then there are problems. ( Iâm also saggie/cap venus)
Tell you he loves you after 6 months and tells you they love you everyday.. well I guess it was mostly when we said bye for day ( leaving for work) when we were married.
They are selfish! And show their love by doing. You have to know they do and not question it! đđ Iâm actually serious on this. We were together 20 years. When an Aries loves you, they will always have your back.
As a saggie/cap Venus, you need someone you donât question. If you question, then there are problems. ( Iâm also saggie/cap venus)
My advice still stands.
Stop initiating contact.
Go discover a hobby.
Your venus in capricorn wants to initiate and keep initiating.
Go initiate elsewhere. Dont initiate with him.
Let him work for every pic, every message.
Stop initiating contact.
Go discover a hobby.
Your venus in capricorn wants to initiate and keep initiating.
Go initiate elsewhere. Dont initiate with him.
Let him work for every pic, every message.
Can you meet up with him and communicate through talking face to face. No games and just ask him outright what you need to say?
One thing I've learnt over time is to not text stuff. Either call or face to face. My aries isn't massive into texting and jokes about alot so based on that I would assume he wasn't keen on me but that's not the case at all. When we are together and chat it's much better and clearer. I also have cap moon so like to be very clear x
One thing I've learnt over time is to not text stuff. Either call or face to face. My aries isn't massive into texting and jokes about alot so based on that I would assume he wasn't keen on me but that's not the case at all. When we are together and chat it's much better and clearer. I also have cap moon so like to be very clear x
Posted by PuzzlePieces
Lol omg this is WAY too much effort!!! When an Aries loves you, it like Gemitati says.
Tell you he loves you after 6 months and tells you they love you everyday.. well I guess it was mostly when we said bye for day ( leaving for work) when we were married.
They are selfish! And show their love by doing. You have to know they do and not question it! đđ Iâm actually serious on this. We were together 20 years. When an Aries loves you, they will always have your back.
As a saggie/cap Venus, you need someone you donât question. If you question, then there are problems. ( Iâm also saggie/cap venus)
Yeah some of his actions do show his love and he always says I'm not like other women as if I know it's there, I was the same with my ex husband, he was a capricorn by the way, he told me twice in 30 years he loved me, the day I gave birth, and the day I walked away, he showed it in his actions but at the end his actions were hostile. I know sometimes words can mean little like a man that professes to love his dog yet beats it, but sometimes when you're up against a wall of silence it's all you want to hear
Posted by DMV
My advice still stands.
Stop initiating contact.
Go discover a hobby.
Your venus in capricorn wants to initiate and keep initiating.
Go initiate elsewhere. Dont initiate with him.
Let him work for every pic, every message.
Yes true, I am initiating too much, its all I know how to be, I don't want him to think I don't care as I think he is too prideful and will walk away. Catch 22
Posted by Sunmoonrising
Can you meet up with him and communicate through talking face to face. No games and just ask him outright what you need to say?
One thing I've learnt over time is to not text stuff. Either call or face to face. My aries isn't massive into texting and jokes about alot so based on that I would assume he wasn't keen on me but that's not the case at all. When we are together and chat it's much better and clearer. I also have cap moon so like to be very clear x
We live in separate countries so difficult. This is why I reached out to him again, made up my mind that if he felt the same we could work towards being properly together once and for all, it's so much clearer when we are
Posted by Arielle83Posted by saggieheartPosted by Sunmoonrising
Can you meet up with him and communicate through talking face to face. No games and just ask him outright what you need to say?
One thing I've learnt over time is to not text stuff. Either call or face to face. My aries isn't massive into texting and jokes about alot so based on that I would assume he wasn't keen on me but that's not the case at all. When we are together and chat it's much better and clearer. I also have cap moon so like to be very clear x
We live in separate countries so difficult. This is why I reached out to him again, made up my mind that if he felt the same we could work towards being properly together once and for all, it's so much clearer when we are
Oh is this a 90 day fiancĂŠ scenario?click to expand
Lol, yeah we see each other but not enough but to make it happen we need the talk
Posted by saggieheartPosted by DMV
My advice still stands.
Stop initiating contact.
Go discover a hobby.
Your venus in capricorn wants to initiate and keep initiating.
Go initiate elsewhere. Dont initiate with him.
Let him work for every pic, every message.
Yes true, I am initiating too much, its all I know how to be, I don't want him to think I don't care as I think he is too prideful and will walk away. Catch 22click to expand
If he walks, he walks.
Posted by Arielle83Posted by saggieheartPosted by SunmoonrisingPosted by saggieheartPosted by SunmoonrisingPosted by saggieheart
Both I guess. I learned to be more attentive to him reading that Aries like to feel attention whereas im a saggie and we don't really feel that need, so we can seem cold and unconcerned, but I love this man to the bones and I made the effort. We are off at the moment and I'm struggling to get back in.
We both use social media and things were going so well, and I speak to many people across there and he can see, but I always keep it just friendly. One evening he was a bit off, so I questioned it and we fell out, him stating that I'm a smart woman, not like any other and I should know when he needs space or questionsâ I text him the next day, apologised for my side of the argument but nothing.
About a week later I posted a picture, I was out having drinks, he immediately started unfollowing everyone on his social media including me, then followed approx 100 women then unfollowed. I text him saying if you are looking for a reaction you now have it. I called him a p***k and told him that his behaviour will never win him any friends. No response.
Fast forward to New Year and I wished him well and I apologised for what I called him, I hate hurting anyone with my saggie fire unless they are despicable people and he is not.
Anyway we are talking again now, slowly, I know he respects me, he always tells me that, but I don't know where I stand with him, a friend, a lover, does he care for me.
I thought I would lay it out on the table for him, so that he had no uncertainty, but he will not do the same? đ
I really mean this in a nice way but all this back and forth sounds a little immature. To get back in his good books just make him laugh. Nothing too heavy. Try not to win him over with anything over than talking heavy as such. Sounds a little bit like he's confused about how he feels. You know what aries are like, when they like someone they are very consistent. X
Yeah I've tried that tactic, and it works, then he backs off. It's frustrating when you want everything to happen yesterday!!
Does he have anyone else? I'm just wandering if it's worth asking him outright so you know where you stand more.
I know aries men are amazing and it's hard to let them go but talking and asking him could work. Maybe just be direct and tell him you want him lol
I asked him about an hour ago by text if he wanted to be together again, no response.
So I text saying it's your choice and your right not to want it, I then said I love you, good evening.
It's up to him now. I move on if not
Seems manipulative.
You ask him if he still wants to be with you, like he gets to speak for both of you.
Then you say âI love youâ, even though he asked âdoes it matter?â when u wanted to know how he felt.
Why do you leave yourself waiting and being attentive towards him, when he blocks and adds random women out of spite?
Either you donât think much of yourself, or you love the drama of walking on douchey eggshells.click to expand
Say it!
Posted by Arielle83Posted by saggieheartPosted by Arielle83Posted by saggieheartPosted by Sunmoonrising
Can you meet up with him and communicate through talking face to face. No games and just ask him outright what you need to say?
One thing I've learnt over time is to not text stuff. Either call or face to face. My aries isn't massive into texting and jokes about alot so based on that I would assume he wasn't keen on me but that's not the case at all. When we are together and chat it's much better and clearer. I also have cap moon so like to be very clear x
We live in separate countries so difficult. This is why I reached out to him again, made up my mind that if he felt the same we could work towards being properly together once and for all, it's so much clearer when we are
Oh is this a 90 day fiancĂŠ scenario?
Lol, yeah we see each other but not enough but to make it happen we need the talk
How many times u seen in each in person?
How far apart?click to expand
A three hour plane ride. We have seen each other about 20ish times in two years, for long weekends or weeks etc what fits in with holiday time
Posted by saggieheartPosted by Sunmoonrising
Can you meet up with him and communicate through talking face to face. No games and just ask him outright what you need to say?
One thing I've learnt over time is to not text stuff. Either call or face to face. My aries isn't massive into texting and jokes about alot so based on that I would assume he wasn't keen on me but that's not the case at all. When we are together and chat it's much better and clearer. I also have cap moon so like to be very clear x
We live in separate countries so difficult. This is why I reached out to him again, made up my mind that if he felt the same we could work towards being properly together once and for all, it's so much clearer when we areclick to expand
Oh ok maybe that's why he's abit hesitate to move forward as you aren't in same countries. Those relationships aren't easy hun but it can work if you truly love each other.
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